Rev Ken Lane
Rev Ken Lane
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Don't Let Your Wedding Sabatoge Your Marriage
Don't Let Your Wedding Sabatoge Your Marriage
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Видео

Top 5 Signs You Are Not Ready To Get Married
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Are you ready?
Who Should I Hire First?
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To help you figure out who is necessary to hire before the big day!
Should You Hire A Wedding Planner?
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The first video of an intended series to help you before your big day!

Комментарии

  • @Thattboyjosemusic
    @Thattboyjosemusic 3 месяца назад

    Why get married, just love each other.

  • @leslieholloway8038
    @leslieholloway8038 Год назад

    This is very helpful! Thanks for sharing.

  • @user-ud4fs3vx8o
    @user-ud4fs3vx8o 2 года назад

    yep, true

  • @coreymoney
    @coreymoney 2 года назад

    Good content.

  • @pearlrodrigues372
    @pearlrodrigues372 2 года назад

    Are you saying your partner is more important than your child(ren), everyone on the same level of importance in my opinion, I make time for everyone, having a balance life is important. Honestly your advice, full of 💩

  • @hiddengem4293
    @hiddengem4293 2 года назад

    Wonderful message! This is so true, because, so many people can be just focused on the wedding *_day_* , that they have not even prepared for their married *_life_* . Even still, many do not even know that marriage is a *covenant* . And just because the wedding day may not go as dreamily planned - doesn't give any excuse to make that anthill into a mountain and then blowing up on others and even on your spouse☹ ! Not worth it at all -- lots of things can be laughed at years down the line😂!

  • @hiddengem4293
    @hiddengem4293 2 года назад

    Great information and tips, full of wisdom and common sense!

  • @Uae_ksa_
    @Uae_ksa_ 3 года назад

    I got married when I was 20 , my wife was 19 , I can enjoy playing with my kids , go out with them , there friends thinks I am a friend to my son , 😂😂

  • @freedomisntfree2089
    @freedomisntfree2089 3 года назад

    Are you willing to forget your happiness in order to make someone else happy, willing to empty out your bank account, willing to tolerate bossy in-laws, willing to get cheated on, willing to give away every and pay child support for 18 years? If yes then you're ready

    • @briancalifornia1
      @briancalifornia1 2 года назад

      Yup marriage is a nightmare for any Man there are no benefits for being married. Divorce rates has sky rocketed men being financial destroyed losing their homes paying alimony child support living in debt it’s suicidal.

  • @gmar7836
    @gmar7836 3 года назад

    Hey Ken are you a movie buff?? I saw your poster is behind you on the wall, had to ask

  • @gmar7836
    @gmar7836 3 года назад

    This is just my theory but I don’t think anyone should get married under age 35. It takes maturity and real understanding to have a successful marriage. And that comes with age. Before age 35 I think you should get college out-of-the-way, traveling out of the way, and be well onto a career that earns you a decent paycheck a retirement plan.

  • @Katarinaabluu.
    @Katarinaabluu. 3 года назад

    Top sign that im not ready to get married 1. i am 13

  • @yahuahyahsharaldaughteroft5999
    @yahuahyahsharaldaughteroft5999 3 года назад

    First of all he should go around a old fling or flame because I don't trust the other not him yes I totally trust him and also I trust with finances, etc

  • @alexfinn7989
    @alexfinn7989 3 года назад

    Excellent Videos! Amazing shirt!

  • @alexfinn7989
    @alexfinn7989 3 года назад

    Damn man. Excellent video. Very well done.

  • @johnrindlisbacher2824
    @johnrindlisbacher2824 3 года назад

    Well i guess i'll never be ready because my daughter will always be my #1

  • @arun_4871
    @arun_4871 3 года назад

    I don't want to get marry because if I die soon after my child born then I feel I'm doing injustice to my kids. And, in my view marriage without kids is not a marriage in a real sense...And I don't know I may change my mind and thoughts after this comment..But for now, this is what I feel...

  • @TaylorKWH
    @TaylorKWH 3 года назад

    Next to Jesus being the most important person my life, my girlfriend is the most important person in my life 😍

  • @Lovelyshortstube8
    @Lovelyshortstube8 3 года назад

    mom will always be the most important person in someone life always no matter what or who you meet in your life . dont change the facts Rev Ken Lane

  • @shadowfox_117
    @shadowfox_117 4 года назад

    the girl violated my trust for 6 months while lying about hanging my a giy shr met at her job until one of my friends snapped a picture of her and the guy holding hands at the mall, but she wants to know why O haven't proposed to her 2 years later!

  • @StingofTruth
    @StingofTruth 4 года назад

    Good question to ask yourself before getting engaged: is marriage what i want, or is it what's best for my s.o.? These questions in this are good for before you get engaged. Engagement means preparing for marriage because the intent for marriage is already there. Here's another good question: is my love for the other person an emotion, or a decision? The idea of emotional love being a basis for marriage is a foreign concept to marriage. This video leaves out every important factor to consider when considering marriage.

  • @steveouk90126
    @steveouk90126 4 года назад

    Men: is this the person to whom you are ready to lose your house, your car, your kids, and half of your money for the rest of your life if, a few years from now, she decides she can do better after you've devoted your life to her care? Talk to divorced men and get their stories about how the women they thought they could love and trust for eternity turned into raving psychopaths once they got their meat hooks into the man.

  • @jenniferbarnwell4109
    @jenniferbarnwell4109 4 года назад

    See if I rush into these things it easy get in hard to get out of then I might married someone who is controlling where you going what time you coming 🏡 who was that on the phone 📱 don’t eat that yes this why I shouldn’t rush into marriage

  • @jenniferbarnwell4109
    @jenniferbarnwell4109 4 года назад

    I talking about marrying a guy on Facebook I don’t know 🤷🏾‍♀️ anything about him just get married say I’m married get pregnant 🤰 to say I’m a mother I saying I gotta get a driver’s license have a baby 👶 getting a license has nothing to do with that

  • @jenniferbarnwell4109
    @jenniferbarnwell4109 4 года назад

    I trying to rush into things myself my parents trying tell me not to rush into things take my time

  • @aldenbarnes2179
    @aldenbarnes2179 4 года назад

    I’ve been with my bf for over a year and this video made me so happy❤️ we are going to wait until after college (i have 2ish years left) but this video helped me verify that i definitely want to marry him and am ready to whenever we decide the time is right

  • @aldenbarnes2179
    @aldenbarnes2179 4 года назад

    I’ve been with my bf for over a year and this video made me so happy❤️ we are going to wait until after college (i have 2ish years left) but this video helped me verify that i definitely want to marry him and am ready to whenever we decide the time is right

  • @SA-yw3ms
    @SA-yw3ms 4 года назад

    Beautiful 👍🏻

  • @Brian-rs4ug
    @Brian-rs4ug 4 года назад

    How about, Do you have unresolved unforgiveness issues in your heart towards others? You must know how to forgive and forgive quickly without holding grudges against your partner. This is foundational to any couple having a good marriage for a life time.

  • @aimeegt9129
    @aimeegt9129 4 года назад

    People that say they arent ready will sometimes be together forever, some people that say they have no doubts about their relationship will eventually break up. This is a high level assessment tool, and it's not even as black and white as "if you're not sure dont". It depends why you're not sure! Fear can be a liar, and mean you miss out on something amazing because someone had unfounded fears based on nothing. Sometimes its telling you the truth, and you need to put the brakes on. Trust yourself, own your decisions win or lose.

  • @staceyholson6051
    @staceyholson6051 4 года назад

    Yes, I married that angry rhino who rushed into marriage promising everything that he never delivered. With premeditated lies, major manipulation also a narcissistic psychopath who lied and cheated since the beginning (I strongly believe) has taught me hard and important lessons. Thank you for this video because it not only points out exactly but is very clear. Thank you. In cases whereby you need to gather Intel and proof of their infidelity services are secured with global investigations info@kenhowardpi,com top notch private investigation company. Don't waste your time with people that still do these things to you. Remember that once a cheater is always a cheater.

  • @ammaral-garmoshi7249
    @ammaral-garmoshi7249 4 года назад

    when you say: are your parents more important than your fiancee, do you really expect someone to be more important than those who gave me everything? those who wish me to be better than them?

  • @leanhnguyet71
    @leanhnguyet71 4 года назад

    The extra simplest very first sign is you're very lazy to do anything ....

  • @madarasawandi6028
    @madarasawandi6028 4 года назад

    Well I am 27 and single girl. I haven't had any romantic kind of relationship with anyone before. I have never dated.my parents are trying to convince me to marry this guy and I don't even feel like I really want to have a conversation with him atleast!! Parents say that bcz it's really hard to find me a partner, I should marry him. On one hand , I feel sorry for my parents on the other hand I donno what to do!!!

  • @mchristr
    @mchristr 4 года назад

    The last is by far the most important. Will you die daily to your expectations in exchange for blessing that other person, regardless of whether your needs are being met?

  • @Oheyitscecily
    @Oheyitscecily 4 года назад

    Yes, yes, yes, yes, and yes. Thank you for this video! I enjoyed watching it.

  • @samlawaniunscripted
    @samlawaniunscripted 4 года назад

    I'm 23. And thinking of getting married. Do you think I should do it??

  • @jendeh1000
    @jendeh1000 4 года назад

    Everytime I go to this video, I become wiser to the ways of the world.

  • @youwishyouknew1312
    @youwishyouknew1312 4 года назад

    I hope everyone that said they were 100% ready to get married are still married TO this DAY. God bless 🙏🏾

  • @KristinePaul22
    @KristinePaul22 4 года назад

    My ex from 11 years. Coming back. I knew him very well. We can talk and laugh all night. He loves me and I want to help him fix his life as he was devastated from her ex wife. And make life together

  • @jadecarter1555
    @jadecarter1555 4 года назад

    Dang after watching this, I know that I’m ready to marry my partner. I guess I’m just scared of being tied down. I’m a free spirit and love moving and traveling around the world. After getting married I’ll have to consider my husbands goals/dreams before packing up and moving across the world. But I know no other person means more than him. Thanks so much for sharing your points

  • @mariefpaul1875
    @mariefpaul1875 4 года назад

    I just got engaged and I already took the ring off. I am not emotionally connected to him. I closed off when he hold my hands or when I kissed him on the lips. Am petrified of the physical part of our marriage. Am not yearning for no body. I was married before and I had the same fears I went through with the wedding and was miserable for the 6 yrs it lasted. He is a great guy. He believes he loves me and will be a great lover and husband, a great father to my daughter. yet I know am going to either hurt him or be miserable trying to make him happy.

  • @Geenster0128
    @Geenster0128 4 года назад

    That was good advice!

  • @justinutube
    @justinutube 4 года назад

    Baton Rouge accent

  • @tchimejosh5333
    @tchimejosh5333 4 года назад

    I have been single and celibate for a while and I plan to remain like this till I find the right one.

  • @heizel-annecorteztull848
    @heizel-annecorteztull848 4 года назад

    Well I am ready for this marriage.

  • @samstan4462
    @samstan4462 4 года назад

    Thank u for the video..very concise and helpful.

  • @simplybows1
    @simplybows1 4 года назад

    Great questions to ask !!!! Prepare harder for marriage rather than ur wedding plus Watch Myles munroe marriage videos too ....

  • @marcinaann
    @marcinaann 4 года назад

    1. Are they the most important person in your life? Are they your best friend? 2. Do you really get along? or always fight along and get frustrated? 3. Do you completely trust your fiance? 4. Do you still carry your ex lover? 5. Are you willing to take whatever it takes? Or are you gonna take it as all about "me" and only "me".

  • @veleciaerwin9292
    @veleciaerwin9292 4 года назад

    1. Are they the most important person to you? 2. Do you get along? 3. Do you completely trust him/her? 4. Do you yearn for a formal lover? 5. Are you willing to do whatever it takes? You’re welcome 😉

    • @spewpish9433
      @spewpish9433 3 года назад

      you're a life saver. i really didn't wanna go through every question to be repeated 5 times like the first one. that was awful.

    • @oraclesma4575
      @oraclesma4575 2 года назад

      😉