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It's not easy for me. I look just good enough in most colors that it simply seems like I am a person who is only moderately attractive or unattractive and it makes no difference which color I wear. Until I run into the very few colors that make that difference and then people are much kinder to me and stop acting like I am being fake with them all the time.

The comment about playing the correct part in life in relation to your essence…. Wow it hit home. Great video and explanation thank you!

I’m really enjoying your videos. I think the shade of brown you have in this video is the best. It makes your eyes pop and brightens your skin even more.

i keep thinking Vital Spring looking at you with this new hair color!

Look at soft winter, soft spring as well and dark spring.

I feel like I'm transitional between warm (true) spring and autumn. Some colours from both pallets suit me.

Hi! Im so happy to see you again! Your videos have helped me soooo much!!! Looking forward for all the good stuff to come!!! 🤩😍💛🌹

Greetings from Germany 😊 (soft summer here)

There's just something about you that shines, please continue with you're intresting videos, love them.

I absolutely love this brown hair color on you. Beautiful 😍 🌸

Yaaaay, Hello!!! Lovely to see you back

I look forward to seeing the system you’re developing!💕

Oh yes! A NesKim video drop! Your videos are ALWAYS so informative and helpful. Thank you 🤗

Ahhh, so good to see you again. Since your last video I have escaped the forcedness of T1 and have gone back to the authenticity of my Soft Summer, and am exploring Zyla Archetypes too. I am bouncing between Sunset and Dusky Summer. This where I feel my soul shines. Good luck with your thesis, and I can't wait for more videos.

I have been playing with 16 seasons, as well, because the traditional Summers seem to drain me. Winter seems to work better but it's a bit *too* much, too heavy. I recently discovered a version of 16 seasons with Cool Summer, which is Summer bordering Cool Winter. It has just a hint of softness, I would describe it as medium brightness/clarity, medium-dark value/contrast, completely cool. This one seems to work best for me, so far, and I keep getting "oh wow, that's really your color!" when I wear the palette. Definitely more successful than True Summer or True Winter. And I can use a fair amount of Cool Winter. I really like the Deep Summer too, though. From what I've been seeing it borders on Deep Winter, so the barest hint of warmth. Those greens especially work well on me.

Jeeeeej, you’re back! I really loved all your videos about being a soft dramatic and how to find your syle ❤ Looking forward to your next videos. And good luck luck with finishing your thesis.

Thanks so much ❤

Helloooo nice to see you again! ❤

You have helped me so much! This is the best styling video I have ever seen. Just discovered that I’m really a kibbe SD and your videos are a godsend.

Suuuuper helpful. Thank you

Learning so much from you! Ok so color blocks … what about when wearing jeans ? My signature outfit is jeans and an off white top. Is that bad since they don’t match ?

SO helpful. Thank you !!!!

I love your videos ! I’m an SD too ☺️

This so helpful. In my case I spent so much money buying unflattering clothes that did not fit you know a line skirts , mid rise trousers, cardigans, knee length skirts because they did not cater to me . I got some patterns from Burda and began sewing skirts a version of a bodycon that was extremely flattering and then I began to lose weight because I was happier in my appearance. I don’t do laid back boohoo or class ic styling , I do mad men and full glam and snatched waists, high waist jeans with stretch

As a classic, it can seem boring at first, however when I dress myself in a typical classic outfit, I look phenomenal and get way more compliments like “you look great” rather than “that is a cute dress”. The compliment is about me, not my clothes. My go to outfit combo is a form fitting sleeveless mock neck tops or square neck high quality tank tops with a knee length pencil skirt. I have different types of pencil skirts too, I have pin stripes and solid colors. Pin stripes are my best pattern, along with solid colors with fine details like stitching and strategically placed zip locations for decals. My best footwear are kitten heel slip on sandals or loafers for casual days. Pumps for formal. I do have some glittery shoes and sandals but the cuts of the shoes are classic, it’s not over powering at all, the only word I can think of to describe it is “tasteful” it’s not cheap and tacky looking, with classics we can look cheap and tacky easily with too much glitter item lol

Yes those thin straps are underwear for me . Not for going out. But a wide square neck with mid length sleeves are flattering

Thank you for you nice info!

Halle Berry seems SD sometimes...?

Hey! I missed you! You are who made me embrace Soft Dramatic. Your hair looks great!

Such a great help! Thanks for sharing this.

Your videos are so comfortable to listen to and I'm always so happy to hear of fellow SD's talking of their experiences. It seems pretty universal that many of us have always felt too big/curvy/tall/space taking/whatever, especially growing up. I'd like to point out that not all SD's are hourglass shaped though. Most have upper curve, but I believe Kibbe himself doesn't use accomodations in a formulaic manner, so not all SD's will have upper curve either. It's helpful to spot it on you to possibly tell whether you're SD, D or FN though if you're tall and can't tell otherwise. I am almost 5'9 and more rectangular or apple shaped at any weight. My shape is very similar to Sophia Loren's but straighter or thicker at the waist. But when I look at your body shape drawing I can still say we're the same type and I'm not like your the DC drawing. It's interesting!

This is very interesting. I'm SD with gamine essence in the Kitchener system and I know others who have this combo as well, and it feels like a strange one but somehow makes sense. I think it's why some SD recs don't work on me perfectly well and I think I look better with very short hair, as long as it's voluminous enough. I've heard that both gamines and SD's often tend to look pretty young for their age and that's certainly true for me.

Fantastic video, and so very inspiring! Thank you so much for all you do. 😊 I have learned so much from you. I've been on the fence as to whether I'm FN or SD, and I know for sure I can't wear unstructured dresses!! I believe the SD lines work so much better for me! I appreciate you so much and can't wait for more! ❤

It’s disappointing to go to a red carpet event where most are wearing jeans. I experienced this here.

Hello! I just wanted to say thank you so much for all of your wonderful videos! I'm not even certain that I am SD, but I've had many Aha moments watching your videos! All of the typical info out there can lead one to sometimes immediately disqualify themselves from one type or another. You bring to light that there is somewhat of a spectrum here. For instance, I have a tummy for sure, and if I tuck anything in, it isn't pretty 😅 I'm 58 years old. I am 5'9", so I can only be 1 of the 3 types. I feel like I pull a little from each type... maybe a hybrid of sorts 😂 Your info makes sense to me. My waist is very high on my frame, and I find it very difficult to find clothing that works. Unstructured doesn't work, and too structured doesn't work. The lines for waist, and pockets and belts rarely ever sit in the right place on my frame. Always too high! SD seems a mix of the 2 extremes (structured and unstructured). What throws me off is that my features are not lush, but rather small almond-shaped eyes and shapely-but-small lips. I have discounted SD for that reason alone, but thanks to you, I'm realizing that I just need to try your suggestions, and if they work, they work! Sorry for the long comment, but I really do appreciate all you do. You are beautiful, and I look forward to your content so much! ❤ I really love when you show clothing that works for you! ❤

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You look beautiful! You remind me of many classic Hollywood actresses, I'm thinking a mix of Liz Taylor and Liza Minelli maybe, but there are a few others in there I can't think of. It's really nice to have more SD advice on RUclips.

I'm excited to watch your new videos! I totally agree with you about the value and beauty in embracing who you really are, not what you wish you were. I stopped colouring my hair in March 2020, wanting to see what I really look like now. Yes, my hair is grey but that's reality, not fantasy. And I love your natural hair colour on you, too. It's so rich and warm.

I absolutely love my natural hair color, but I had never been able to "match" it in an off the rack color that looks flattering on me. When I did Zyla I realized when I zoom in on my lightest area of hair it's around a champagne or pearl, and the darkest is surprisingly akin to an aubergine - NOT camel, not gold, not yellow, not orange (some of my worst colors to wear). Still a bit hard for me to find those *exact* colors off the rack, but I do love wearing white, or icy champagne, and plum/mid-deep purples. A lot of times I lean into my 1st base for a monochromatic look, which is a very deep blue-green. I like how it contrasts with my hair and gives me a little more definition. As someone who looks best in pure cool hues, inherent hair colors for clothes can be a little tricky. Very clever idea with the color wheel!

I know you made this video 2 years ago but i agree with so many points! Im 5'10" or 1m78cm and it is so hard to find the right pants that are long enough and the rise as well high enough to cover my round hips! I love my soft dramatic body but sometimes its hard to buy clothes out there for us! I just started to make my own pants

Colors are so interesting! Ive known I look and feel best in cool colors but rich pigments wash me out. Ive found that I look/feel best in what I call "moonlight colors" which are more muted and are the types of shades that would be seen under moonlight 🌙

I don’t like pointed toe shoes on me so I look for other yang elements on shoes if I can find that. Square buckle or geometry. But neutral color shoes do make a difference in the overall look and that was a pleasant surprise to learn for SD styling.

Super helpful video! You look gorgeous ❤ I’m wondering what to do if your hair and eye color are very dark and your kibbe type recommendations are soft bright colors? Will wearing that column of color work for a dark haired romantic for instance?

Good to see you back! I'll look forward to your new videos. I hope you do more videos for SDs!

So glad you are back on yt! Your classic videos and understanding of this image identity has been such a guidance to me! Been rewatching your old videos regularly! Love you! ❤

I bought a color wheel just like yours , can’t wait for your next video. I’m cool I feel good in between tones and shades colours. What confuses me is that I have neutral cool undertone brown hair fair skin but warm eyes (hazel)

So happy to see you again!

I would like it if you started a new FB group. As it happens I am seeing David Zyla on Sunday for a palette extension, really looking forward to that. I am OK with colours and will have a few more after Sunday but I have never really got to grips with my own style/lines.

Its the nuances you talk about that help me understand style better

You were right when you said you thought I was a T1 in DYT. I was truthbombed T1 to my huge surprise, but wearing tints has truly changed my life. I can’t see myself ever wearing greyed and muted clothes again (previously typed a soft summer).