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awesome song remix from chronotrigger <3

If you’re afraid of transitioning, that might be your instincts telling you to probably not go through with it, I don’t know but you do you.

Yeah, I'm scared to commit. I'm scared that Ill regret it eventually, many years down the line, and find yet again that I'm not trans after all. I also still feel like the other body type isn't the right thing for me. Whenever I imagine it, it just feels... off. Is that a thing other people feel too? Or just me getting confused about being NB?

I feel for you honestly, i suffer also with intrusive thoughts, analytical thinking, impulses, ocd. It never ends and drives me insane. Wish you a bright and prosperous future. The house was well freaky.

*Sighs in tomboy*

growing up having my hair cut felt like being murdered but i was always told "our family cant have long hair" well JOKES ON YOU IM DOING IT ANYWAY AHAHAHHAHAHA

We don’t like transvestites, they turn off their Feminine side, Off Stage, so to speak, You are beautiful ❤ Petra

I forgot the name of your channel and spend like 20 minutes scrolling through my subscriptions to be able to find it again xD Unsure if I ever commented, but your videos have helped me a lot, most out of any trans content I've seen on RUclips. Hope you're doing well :))

you gave me my confidence im trans back thank you

If it’s available in your country I recommend injecting…. Less liver damage. 🎉 And go through the medical system, where available.

thank you for your raw thoughts, it helps express my own feelings

I love alleyways. You can see and feel how the locals live.

Thanks for sharing your experiences! My hair seems more wavy than curly.. perhaps 2B-2C-3A? I've been growing it out from a shaved head for ~15 months and most of it is touching my shoulders, with the exception of my front and some side parts. I simply can't wait for my first salon trip!! The health of my hair/scalp have improved quite a bit, but I'm sure there's still so much to learn. BTW I love the intro/outro Corridor's of Time remix. 🥰🥰

thank you. I appericate the video I donnt have a family that is accepting. but i am glad to see i am not alone struggling to learn how to take care of my hair.

Shes not trans shes just boyish please stop

Have you ever considered the possibility that you're a somewhat feminine man who rejects our culture's masculine stereotypes? Are you dysphoric about your body? I mean specifically your male body? I don't mean that in the sense that you're bothered or annoyed by the fact that your male body produces expectations in others and in society in general that you should be stereotypically masculine, I mean do you dislike or feel very uncomfortable about your body because you have a penis? Would you feel more comfortable if you had a vagina instead?

No offense but have you ever considered the possibility that you're a somewhat feminine man who rejects all cultures masculine stereotypes? Are you dysphoric about your body? I mean specifically your male body? I don't mean that in the sense that you're bothered or annoyed by the fact that your male body produces expectations in others and in society in general that you should be stereotypically masculine, I mean Would you rather have a vagina than a penis?

You spoke out a lot to me. My gender bubble had it comming for a long time theres no denying that, but there is just a lot I have in common: ambitious dreams, *that* annoyingly throaty voice, not having trouble seeing myself in the future - though having some doubts, a weird prophecy dream at the age 10-12, even that phone 😂 and your style of presentation. This wont be a turning point, nor is it a landmark, but I'm happy seeing a close enough version of me living the best life transitioned. Thanks. As for me I'll keep having my struggles probably for some time with breaks, highpoints, euphoria overflows and dysphoria downpours with doubts about being legit or being happier enough. Idk who will I be at the end of it all, hopefully I find a conclusion, I just hope Ill end up the most authentic and self aligned as I can. Ideally at peace.

I’m still sad it won’t alter my voice…

Stop it get some help

Wow I related to every single thing you said! That can’t mean anything at all.

just remember passing or not passing as a women has nothing to do with if you are pretty enough to be a women. There are plenty of women who take zero care of their body go out with terribly styled clothes and are still easily identified as women. It may be the voice or bone structure, but don't take it as if you do not fit some beauty standard of "women" as many women are not in the least bit as beautiful as some trans women. It is just a biological intuition combined with zero manners

No. There is no such thing. You are unhappy with the world and yourself and want a quick fix answer. Try learning some moral principles, and service for others might help with the obsessive self focus.

You can be a biological male or female and not fit into cultural stereotypes.

1:20 funnily enough, for me it was the opposite. i'd be like "yeah i wish i were trans like all these people, then i could actually be a woman. but i'm not. i'm just a cis guy who has always wanted to be a girl, like the cis guys obviously do"

Every single thing you speak about here are sexist gender stereotypes. You were just a fem gay man, convinced by tik tok videos that your healthy, intact body and your gender non conforming feelings needed to be "fixed", that you somehow were not "good enough" as you were. Conversion therapy through the back door, deeply rooted in internalized homophobia. You were fine AS YOU WERE. You are worthy of love, happiness, and acceptance WITHOUT ALTERING YOUR PHYSIOLOGY (Notice I did not say clothing or appearance, and there is a reason for that, anyone should present any way they want). We can simply exist without being sent to Dr. Frakenstein's lab to be turned into some kind of twisted version of a straight person. You were uncomfortable with your body? Well get ready, sweetheart... if you're fortunate enough to live into old age, you don't have a CLUE about being uncomfortable with your body until you get out of bed, can BARELY walk across the room with stiffness and pain, and see a wrinkled, old person staring at you in the mirror that you don't even recognize. It's part of the human condition, it's not fun, but he have no choice but to deal with reality.

Fine, don't then.

5:30 Yeah, even in Denmark you basically should actually do this imo. The danish system can leave some people stranded for 3+ years (in my case 10 years). A lot of people DIY before getting into the system, and honestly I regret it massively that I didn't since I feel like I wasted a decade of my life waiting. Besides, Denmark basically only offers tablets which are horrible and some trans women do not metabolize them correctly leading to extremely low levels. So even if you get approved through the legal means there is a chance that the medication will not work for you. I cannot recommend the legal pathways through the system here. I do not know about the rest of Europe but so far I have not heard of a place where DIY would not just be the safer option as long as you have access to bloodwork. As someone with a degree in medicinal chemistry I hate having to make that recommendation, but the government options most places are extreme medical malpractice and I am so disgusted by it since it is my field of work.

@ 0l4:26 that voice swap tho! ❤ inspiring in such a way idk if there's words to explain how encouraging that lil 3 seconds could be 4 some1 in transition that lil extra hope that w/ enuf voice training & w/ the right coach, that I/they. could obtain that socially passable status & 1 day be perceived as a Cis Gendered Female! but due to the inability to feminize 1's voice on their own or w/meds like they've been able to do so much & come so far w/ makes the masculine voice seems 2 be the un movable Boulder they see as what would be the biggest obstacle in reaching the point in transition where as the greater public/ social majority see u as the feminine Version who u see urself as & not just a disillusioned man wearing woman's clothing but to be able to be perceived as no different than any other average femininely presenting cis women when going out into society

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I’m you 😮

Thanks for making this. I def feel like a minority among trans ppl in being not exclusively t4t. 100% relate to being weirded out when trans lesbians seem to recreate gay male dynamics (esp. how they tend to use the terms top and bottom in similar ways) I've only ever been in serious relationships with trans people since coming out because that's who I've had the most opportunities to date and who I'm in community with. I'd happily do it again if that's who ends up being right for me, but I'm someone who feels chronically misunderstood by others and being trans is only a small piece of that puzzle. I'd rather just focus on finding partners who want to understand me as a whole human

Gem

This is the most relatable video I have ever watched

You are so pretty I love your hair!

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😆 🔥

yo you got habibi funk in the intro?!?!? yes!!

I'm sorry, I wanted to hear what you have to say, but I can barely understand you through the echo.

I have seen this video like 10 times, and I always hype with the Corridors of Time, which, just noticed matches your nick (zeal), oh my god, this is so god.

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I’m a trans man currently dating a cis gay man. I have found it to be so fulfilling! Based on conversations we have had, I have come to the conclusion that it’s not about (for me) whether I date a cis or trans person; it’s about how they view and conceptualise gender/sex and whether or not that is compatible to how I experience it. Bear in mind, this man actually knew me before I medically transitioned! To him (I was out as trans since middle school and socially transitioned all through high school) I have always been a guy in his eyes. But the reality is, not everyone is like that. Some people have very rigid or traditional views on gender; some cannot separate it from sex, others cannot reconcile the two. Ultimately, for me what counts is that the person I’m with sees me for who I am.

the very cis urge to watch a video about the fear of transitioning

No, she's not. Tomboys are real. Stop forcing your agenda like a disease, thank you.

Thank you for making this video.

Smellerbee: - _The gender bender_

I'm sorry, I wouldn't mind watching this, but the audio quality is SO bad... when it's that fuzzy, my autistic ass just... can't

I love the HRT. No mood swings so far thankfully. Appetite increased. Can't fast. I am HAPPY all the time. Really HAPPY. No sadness thank God. No weeping. Jesus loves us all. Practice charity. Give to the poor homeless and starving children in Africa, sick and disabled . I LOVE my community. Marisa xx

"clothes that are very 'i've been transitioning for 2 months'" *looks down at my black skater skirt*

I find some of these things super relatable, especially the last two points. Thank you for making this video