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jose de jesus
Добавлен 11 июн 2024
hi. i'm jose. i'm tall in height but fall short when it comes to most other things. expect to see some commentary, vlogs and anything else i feel so inclined to share. i hope you're doing well.
stop comparing yourself to others
hello. this is for those who compare themselves to others, want to break free from the negative mindset that comes from such comparison and want to embrace their own journey by learning to build confidence in who they are.
i wanted to talk a little bit about what i have been feeling since i've started making videos and that's comparing myself to others. when i was just starting out the hardest part was finding the idea of what it was i wanted to talk about, but then i started to think about how what i was saying might hold up against what *insert any other person here* might say. somewhere along the way i turned to this mindset of thinking "if other people are better than me at this why s...
i wanted to talk a little bit about what i have been feeling since i've started making videos and that's comparing myself to others. when i was just starting out the hardest part was finding the idea of what it was i wanted to talk about, but then i started to think about how what i was saying might hold up against what *insert any other person here* might say. somewhere along the way i turned to this mindset of thinking "if other people are better than me at this why s...
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romanticize your life; be the main character
Просмотров 23521 день назад
hello. i wanted to talk about how you can make even the most routine tasks feel meaningful by shifting your mindset and bringing some "main character energy" into your life. i haven’t uploaded in two weeks but it feels like forever. i hope you can forgive me. in that time i have been trying to make peace with the fact that while everyone around me seems to be doing crazy, exciting and fun thing...
there's no time to do anything
Просмотров 338Месяц назад
hello. what you're about to see is a series of ramblings loosely connected by a vague sense of not being able to find the time to pursue the interests that i find meaningful without a guilty conscience. i have no idea what this was supposed to be but i wanted to try and free myself from this idea that what i want to make needs to be perfect and be able to resonate with everyone. you might be ab...
90 days of journaling: why you should start doing it everyday
Просмотров 825Месяц назад
hello. for the past three months (roughly) i’ve committed to journaling every single day, and i’ve noticed some surprising, and life-changing, benefits. whether you're on the fence about starting a journal, thinking of picking it back up, or just curious about the process, i wanted to dive a little bit into my personal journey and share the insights i’ve gained. as always, please feel free to l...
2024 may be ending, but i'm just getting started
Просмотров 375Месяц назад
hi. if you’re like me then there is a part of you that probably feels bad about having stopped saving for the next financial goal, or learning that new language, or even dropping that new hobby worth getting into setting aside time for. there seems to always be something that gets in the way of the goals you set out to achieve; when you wake up and realize that you’ve been slacking it's already...
stop telling everyone everything
Просмотров 16 тыс.2 месяца назад
hello again. i just want to get straight into it: you mean well but your coworkers don’t need to know that you spent all weekend rewatching your comfort show, and you definitely don’t need to tell your parents about your new interest in the bass guitar, at least not yet. almost all the interactions that we have with people on a day to day basis make us need to reveal certain parts of ourselves ...
why i don't like my birthday
Просмотров 2022 месяца назад
hi. it's been a while but we don't have to talk about that haha. since my last upload not much has happened in my life other than the fact that there have been a couple of birthday's to celebrate, including my own. for some reason at around my birthday i get these feelings that make me so weird to be around- from not wanting to make a big deal of the fact that i'm getting a year older to gettin...
why you aren't saving money
Просмотров 4234 месяца назад
hello again. i feel as though it's been a while since i last uploaded. hope everything is good with you. this time i wanted to talk a little about why saving money for someone in their 20s can be so hard. i have recently been spending a bit more than usual and it got me contemplating if i'm irresponsible with my money or if people my age just spend thinking "eh, money comes and goes". do you th...
let's talk about our fear of posting online
Просмотров 5785 месяцев назад
first upload! I was so nervous making this video but i hope that i was able to get my point across. despite having some notes on the topic, this was just a glimpse in an active conversation that i have been having with a couple of people in my life but mostly with myself. i would love it if you would let me know what you think :)
Even though other people talk about the same thing. I choose you, I pick to watch your videos because I feel a connection💙keep going👑
i appreciate comments like this so much; it really does push me to keep going. thank you for saying this! i hope to keep making things you enjoy to watch :)
I love your videos omg ❤
i love that you love them!
Part of the bigger problem is that many of us are gatekeepers because no one should get upset when a friend wants to participate in something that interests them. It should be considered an inspiration to others. Comparsoning is the stealer of joy. It's also natural to do this. However, I try to remind myself that I am running my own race and competing against myself and no one else.
yes yes and yes. oh and i forgot to say yes lol. that last bit is something i have just recently learned: i am running my own race so it serves no purpose to see how much better/worse off other people are to me.
@@yesiamjose and you are doing great, let no one tell you otherwise.
Your timing is impeccable.
how so?! despite not knowing what you mean by this i'm still taking it as a compliment so thank you thank you :)
Felt you on the intro, if I dont script it I just start rambling and the video ends up being 3 times as long as I wanted lol
right?! it's so difficult not to get sidetracked and talk about other things, even though you feel as though somehow they are related lol. i get so surprised when i see that i've been speaking for well over an hour but only end up with less than 10 minutes of relevant content. also, i've seen some of your videos and i personally wouldn't mind them being 3 times longer!
What happened to your hair 😂❤❤❤
it was pulled all the way back into braids. i know, from some angles i look bald!! but it's either that or picking it out for the absolute longest time only for people to tell me i look like i just got out of bed. such is life for people with kinky hair
You are gorgeous, and you're one of those guys that will keep getting more handsome as the years pass. Thank you for the courage to start your channel, may you experience success!
why thank you. that's so nice to hear
Thanks for the content!! Appreciate you! Keep going this is a GREAT CHANNEL💪😎YOU'VE GOT THIS
thank you for saying that! appreciate you saying this :)
jose, seeing a new post from you really lights up my day, you truly inspire me.
thank you! this means a lot more than you know. i hope to keep making videos that inspire and light up your day :)
As a person that is somewhat socially awkward, I love yappers…that also know to listen. But sometimes when it comes time for me to respond my mind goes completely blank. So I just end up nodding or saying yeah. Like I am interested and all ears. Like please tell me what this is! And also tell anything
mmmm. i would say that's the other side of the coin. sometimes someone will be saying something and when they finish i could tell that it's my turn to respond but i genuinely have no idea what to say! but that's usually not the case for me, it's mostly the opposite - i'm ready for my turn to speak!
I agree, I love documenting stuff. I journal so I can look back on feelings and big moments in my life and see how far I’ve come. I also love taking photos. actually I use the Huji camera app for quick spur of the moment photos- so it’s a very random assortment of memories, but when I look at them I remember exactly where I was and what I was doing, sometimes even the way I felt. I also started a scrapbook for this year and wrote all over it so I can physically look back at photos and remember these times before I move out of state at the end of the year. 🤍I capture the big events and day to day life, because I know one day I may look back at certain things in nostalgia or I might be happy to not be in that situation anymore.
Sometimes, it's better to watch fillers than the main chapters.
fair. not my take but totally can see where you're coming from lol
Hey man, I loved watching this video and the meaning and explanation you gave. It's so nice how you explain oversharing. Much love man, keep up the good work!
much appreciated. i'm glad you liked it. thank you for your kind words, i'll try my hardest to do great work :)
You have a massive amount of potential and charisma. Also nice quality work on your videos.
appreciate it! i hope to continue to make videos that make you feel this way
I love your videos !! You should get much more likes and views 😅
thank you so much! i'm glad you like them. and yes i agree; with time and patience i hope that to be the case soon :)
Looking forward to the day this legal drama ends. Then I can move into a home without surveillance cameras in every room. And purchase a phone that is NOT HACKED. And get my mail without interference. Wow! Meanwhile I do talk out loud to work thru personal issues, and I do pray out loud, and I will continue to talk to my cat. To all those surveilling me, enjoy your karma. Maybe you'll also enjoy court justice as well. Yes, I live in the USA, and though I have done nothing to hurt anyone, government entities allow my home to be surveilled. Thank, Covenant, and thanks to th3 3 letter agency that installed cameras. Cheers! great vid! 🙂🙃
Good video, very aesthetically pleasing room
thank you and thank you.
First youtuber to ever mean their words... You could tell by his eyes
i try to. thank you for saying that :)
Just discovered your channel as I’m honestly looking for a change at 19. I don’t like what I’ve become but I relate to almost all of your videos. I appreciate these videos a lot more than you’ll know.
that makes me so happy. i hope you figure out a way to feel like your time is yours.
Considering all the noise on RUclips, I'm glad I got to watch this video. Needed to hear this at this time, a gem indeed. Subscribed.
i'm also glad and am grateful that you found it useful. thank you so much!
social media training you to be vulnerable to get close to people is real
it is, and the hard part is to fight the urge to not do so!
Here to help you grow 😊 I like you, I'm gonna stay. Sending love from Poland 🫶🏻😇
HELLOOOO! appreciate it. i hope i can keep making things that you'll enjoy :)
Just found out your channel ❤I love it 😂you have a new subie here ❤❤
thank you so much! i hope you stick around :)
this is really insightful. a lot of the times before making my own channel, i think of several what ifs in my head, like what if people talk shit about my video, what if they criticize it, what if the video doesn't get lots of views, etc. but i guess the best thing we can do to overcome those negative thoughts is simply trying to focus on what our intentions are. why did i uploaded that video? what is the purpose of it? once i answered that, i became less anxious and less conscious about uploading that one video.
i love that for you. it can be terrifying to try something new in front of people (much more the internet of all places, are you kidding me?!) but the first step is the hardest. who cares what others are going to say! do what's right by you, and that should be enough. wish you the best :)
Wow this video is exactly what I needed. I always over share… also this video was clipped perfectly and I loved the speed :)
thank you. i'm glad you liked it :)
I think in a similar way, man. And honestly I'm all well and good as long as I can keep thinking in that way, because sometimes I lose that voice in my head for days or weeks. And that's so goddamn scary. Sure, the voice that tell you what you should and shouldn't be doing, can be a bit of a buzzkill sometimes. But you gotta make friends with that voice. That's the only way to go. I want the alarms in my head to be working extra well, so that I don't end up losing days and months, if you know what I mean. And while people will tell you to take weekends off and relax, at the end of the day if keeping count of the hours in a chill way makes you feel better, do that. Sometimes, it's important to ask ourselves why we feel like watching a certain thing and if the answer is good enough, we should watch it.
i get what you're saying but i feel as though we're referring to two different things: i want that voice to STFU! despite it being something that stimulates productivity it prevents me from enjoying time that i spend doing anything else. it's not even necessarily a pressure to be productive but rather a fear that i am not making the most of my time. but you're right on the money about making friends with that voice, i need to make it work for me not against.
Loved your video! Literally you spoke all the thoughts I had in my head. I started a faceless channel that was for a specific niche but it didn’t feel right for me anymore. I started this one so I can have more creative flow but I’m working on being on camera more. I’ve come to the point where I just don’t care who sees anymore cause I love making and editing videos and it’s not that deep😂 I just filmed some videos about my journey with tarot journaling and I’m actually excited about it being posted with my face lol. Thanks for your realness in this video and excited to watch more of your content!
thank you so much! i get you - there is such a pleasant feeling you get when you shift from only having these ideas stay in your head to you giving yourself permission to create what feels right for you. i've only made a handful of videos since this one and i cannot believe how long i've been holding myself back because of my fear of what others would think. fear really does kill more dreams than failure! love that you’re embracing the camera and just going with the flow now. keep having fun with it, and i hope you enjoy seeing where your creative journey takes you :)
this lighting or color correction or whatever magic your doing is so nice to look at!!!
jose dont trust this comment, you have terrible lightning
@@BusideaList LOL ok tbf i dont know nothing about nothing but i like it!!!! jose dont trust anyone!!! ;)
i honestly have no idea what i'm doing but i'm very glad you like it. thank you!
Loose lips sink ships 😂great vid!
someone recently told me "speak only if it improves upon the silence” and that's one i wanna take to heart. thank you!!!
I had some people ask me how much I make per year because the job title is controversial. Absolutely none of their business! And I will make the situation awkward for them for even asking 😂😂
the nerve on them is crazy, even though this is something i would probably ask lol. i think it depends on the person. if we're close i would want to share/have them share for wage transparency purposes. BUT... it doesn't sound like that's your case so yeah; making it awkward sounds like the right approach - teach them not to mess with you! you gotta find it funny how people get curious at things that have nothing to do with them. keep doing you!
it's def applicable to me, but I'm not much of a talker and keep things to myself a little too much, so it's nice to understand your POV! amazing colorization btw (:
i'm glad i can shed some light on how it's like on the other side lol and i'm glad you enjoyed even though i have no idea what i'm doing :)
This is exactly how my brain works, sometimes it is so stressful. But doing a little bit of self care every night is what keeps me going and how I show love to myself, I think it's so important to save some time for unwinding no matter how crazy the days can get!!
it's interesting to me how a little self-care can make such a big difference, and i like the way you describe it as opposed to the traditional consumerist mindset of self-care that we have (buy this product to unwind or that service to relax). at the end of the day what's important is to show up for yourself; that's the best kind of care you could give.
love ur channel so far!!
thank you, i'm glad you enjoy it :)
Keep it up brother
appreciate it. i'm just getting started!
Love bro❤
thanks bro :)
I tend to overshare a lot, and it's something I'm trying to change. I recently learned about "trauma bonding," , and I think that's my oversharing style (?) ahah. I've just started my podcast here as well and I0m really enjoying the process and the little improvements, but haven't told anyone yet... good luck with your channel, I subscribed!
thank you! i wish you luck on your endeavors and hope it gets to a point where you're shouting it from the rooftops
This was great Jose! I've been contemplating about starting a RUclips channel for a couple of years myself. My whole life, I've barely posted on social media but now I feel like I'm ready to take action and leave my comfort zone behind. I know I have things to say but the resistance is still there. I've started recording myself talking to the camera but I still haven't been able to bring myself to upload anything. You are being authentic and that's why you will make it. It's time for me to rip the bandaid off and get this sh*t started!
i cannot tell you how happy i am for you to have come to this realization. i hope your words manifest themselves to action real soon. you honestly need to start before you're ready. this video you saw was far perfect or even where i wanted it to be before i uploaded, but i told myself if i don't do it now i never will, so i posted it. i hope you can find someway to do the same. RIP THE BANDAID OFF!!!
@@yesiamjose thank you for responding. I’ll post my first video before Monday (me manifesting it). I have a deadline now, THAT VIDEO WILL BE POSTED HAHA. keep up the good work!
This was insightful. As a D1 yapper myself I honestly hate that awkward feeling I get when I get home and replay the conversations. Learning to listen more currently. 😊 Keep the videos coming
i'm sad to say i know the feeling all too well. it's so cringe! but that's why you gotta take a second to think before you say what you might regret in a couple of hours. you got this!
I feel the exact same way. Being someone with just as many hobbies, my brain goes in circles trying to think of what to start, what’s more important, what to finish, what to invest my time into. Even though we all share the same experiences in some way, I truly thought I was the only one who was worrying like this😂 It always feels like there is not enough time and i’m racing against the clock. I finish an 8 hour shift, sometimes go to the gym, then go home to shower, cook dinner, and get ready for bed. That only leaves so much time to do one of the following - watch a tv show, work on one of my art projects, hang out with a friend, or do things that actually need to get done like errands or house chores. And whatever I pick, I worry it’s the wrong thing and wonder how fast I can finish it so I can do something else. I don’t want to wait until my days off to be productive, because even then a whole day seems to pass me by when I’m counting down the hours I have left to do anything before I have to get back to the workweek. I wish time could slow down, or maybe I need to get better at prioritizing… Thanks for this video again, and I love the angle you shot this from!
kind of selfish but i'm glad there's someone that feels the same way! i totally agree with what you're saying at the end; it's all about prioritizing, and that's something i need to get better at.
Wow that‘s exactly how I feel too!
I really resonate with this. I am currently quitting my job with no concrete plans for the future except that I am moving out of state and planning to go back home and spend the holidays with my family, and everything after January is a big question mark. I purposely have told everyone that I’m not sure what I’m doing next, even though I have some ideas, am applying to some jobs and internships and overall just figuring it out slowly, while possibly trying to branch out of my career path. I wasn’t able to pinpoint exactly why I didn’t want people to know, but this video did it perfectly. Even when one of my bosses asked me my future plans and I said I was cruising and taking it one step at a time, she still gave me unsolicited advice. I have a tendency to overshare because I want to be honest and vulnerable, believing that it will lead to better and stronger relationships with people. But I usually walk away feeling like I said too much. I guess this is my first step in trying to not do so as much. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! First video I’ve seen of yours and looking forward to more 🤍
Great video, always check where you get validation from. 671 subscribers will become 671,000 very soon bro keep it up.
this is so kind of you to say, thank you. i hope so and can't wait!
I agree on everything you said. If i do celebrate my birthday i try not to see it as celebrating me but more like spending a day with the people i love the most all together❤
that's a really good way to look at birthdays. i might start doing just that :)
it is true that it's hard to schedule work, exercice, rest and grind. For me it's a matter of discipline and priorizing. I'm not that person yet as i'm with the same struggle thinking that a day shoud have more hours but you have to keep focusing. love from spain me encantó tu video amigo!!
gracias, en verdad lo agradezco mucho! i think that for me it's also something similar; i need to really sit down and ask myself what's worth my time and what should honestly be put to the side. that way i can prioritize what matters and not feel bad about not doing other things- discipline and prioritizing like you said.
i started content after watching your videos. keep it up
i love that. i will, and i hope i can continue to steer others towards doing what it is that they want!
I’ve been an open book since my 20’s. It’s wise of you to mull all this over!
i'm grateful to have come to this conclusion when i did. i feel as though it will save me a lot of trouble down the line. hopefully with this video others learn it sooner !
this video is amazing :)
thank you!!!
i cant lie ur videos are amazing bro. u really bring a whole different look on things and i wish i found u earlier. genuinely hope u grow bigger so more people see ur vids. love
i hope so too. this was so kind of you to say, thank you :)
this video was the perfect reminder for me to protect my peace lol. thanks for a dope video keep it up man great stuff!
thank you! i will
I thought this was a huge channel cuz ur videos are amazing! The content and values in ur videos really resonate with me, keep it up :)
aww. thank you, i appreciate that. it's comments like these that motivate me to keep going :)
Are you Brazilian, Jesus? Thanks for the video, I loved it and I am subscribed now.
i am not brazillian mas eu adoraria aprender portugues. thank you for the sub!