Alastair
Alastair
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This found you for a reason.
There’s no rush to have it all figured out. Pour your energy into what truly matters, stay patient, and trust the process. What you focus on will come back to you-and don’t forget, we’re all just figuring life out together.
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Видео

Materialism as motivation
Просмотров 76519 часов назад
Is it wrong to want more out of life? Being motivated by material things isn’t the problem-it’s how far you’re willing to go for them.
Signs someone is absolutely cooked
Просмотров 226 тыс.Месяц назад
Your mind's at its limit, and you don’t even realize it. Here’s how to spot the cracks before it’s too late.
2 Minutes That Could Change Everything
Просмотров 3,9 тыс.Месяц назад
Life can feel like a race, but what if you slowed down and focused on what truly matters? These two minutes might just shift your perspective and change everything.
The Addiction to Being Busy
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.Месяц назад
Are you really making progress, or just keeping busy? This video explores why the hustle doesn't always mean growth-and what you need to do to actually move forward. Music uppbeat.io/t/dread-pitt/distrust License code: O14EUVOF5TBQQI4S
you are not who you think you are
Просмотров 7 тыс.2 месяца назад
We’re often told to "just be yourself," but that advice might be doing more harm than good. Holding onto one version of yourself can limit your potential and keep you stuck. Instead, it’s about embracing the idea that who you are is constantly evolving, and real growth comes from breaking free of fixed identities. if you want to support me:) buymeacoffee.com/alasta1r Music - Housecat ruclips.ne...
how men really deal with depression
Просмотров 7 тыс.3 месяца назад
Ever wonder how guys really deal with depression? In this video, I break down the raw reality of what it's like navigating those dark days. No sugarcoating, no clichés just a real look into the ways men cope when life hits hard. From escaping into gaming to brushing off those "just talk about your feelings" suggestions, we're diving into the real stuff. If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck or ...

Комментарии

  • @Okeana_Aster
    @Okeana_Aster 7 минут назад

    Dang this did find me for a reason. I'm the exact target audience of this video.

  • @biko9824
    @biko9824 11 минут назад

    Maybe the real happiness is, after all, the friends we made along the way.

  • @Meanmoon
    @Meanmoon 19 минут назад

    I got a random notification telling me to watch this video... And its what I needed to hear rn. I kept beating myself up about things that I shouldn't worry about. I terrorised myself over trivial things. Im really grateful I found this video as a 16 year old about to finish highschool and Im grateful to the creator of the vid.❤

  • @stoikusu5084
    @stoikusu5084 34 минуты назад

    "Life isn't a Race, and even if it was, everyone's not running on the same track" Hit me.

  • @keimainichi
    @keimainichi 42 минуты назад

    truth

  • @sammaribil
    @sammaribil Час назад

    this showed up at the right time, lately i have been pushing my own limits when it comes to rushing a project that i've had for quite a while, constantly saying that if i don't keep going I will sink again into the hole of misery and lose my dreams in the process, thank you for this

  • @RHaenJarr
    @RHaenJarr Час назад

    3:27 My ass getting distracted from watching to the end by the TV from my childhood: Neptun 150

  • @Rusty28724
    @Rusty28724 2 часа назад

    Everyone around me moves so fast but to the point where i actually physically and mentally began to slow down

  • @lilaclyzx
    @lilaclyzx 2 часа назад

    thanks for this 🥺

  • @pico6471
    @pico6471 2 часа назад

    Thank you

  • @yoursubconscious
    @yoursubconscious 2 часа назад

    yep. he's right.

  • @amirprakash8880
    @amirprakash8880 3 часа назад

    You've just finely articulated what I've felt for 3 years plus now. It's very akin to some level of existentialism

  • @ac.....
    @ac..... 6 часов назад

    takes the call

  • @RonaldSimonKahn
    @RonaldSimonKahn 10 часов назад

    I’m cooked. How do I uncook myself?

  • @fiyxhraccoon2133
    @fiyxhraccoon2133 10 часов назад

    What's the song in the background called?

  • @ChristianPlus-cc3hi
    @ChristianPlus-cc3hi 10 часов назад

    I was once so high I kept looking out windows and I thought my family were pleasuring one another 🤣 I even talked to it with my friend I'm glad we're still friends 🤣🙏

  • @Josuh
    @Josuh 11 часов назад

    ok

  • @Solis_Pulchrus
    @Solis_Pulchrus 11 часов назад

    I'm convinced that gen z is full of weak people

  • @OnTheGroundAuto
    @OnTheGroundAuto 11 часов назад

    I expected this video to make me feel like its too late, but it did the exact opposite. A++

  • @p0lybl4nk
    @p0lybl4nk 11 часов назад

    youtube sent a notification to recommend this video to me, and in case that wasn't eye catching enough, i happened to share a name with the person who posted it and i just so happened to have just started trying (not very successfully) to do a bunch of self-improvement stuff (that i don't think i really care about all that much) so i think this video reached its target audience

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince 12 часов назад

    We're all behind someone, we're all ahead of someone. And it's okay. The race has one end. Live mindfully. Kisses. 💋

  • @HemiUnaka
    @HemiUnaka 13 часов назад

    you like movies, don't you? 😌

  • @slippery_idiot65
    @slippery_idiot65 13 часов назад

    "The problem isnt that your slowing down. Its that your running in the wrong direction" 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Sigma-heimer
    @Sigma-heimer 15 часов назад

    This will get 200k views on some random sunday, trust me

  • @Polikkg2
    @Polikkg2 15 часов назад

    Thanks bro, I really needed to hear it

  • @iroquoiskaram8639
    @iroquoiskaram8639 16 часов назад

    Literally me

  • @jingbot1071
    @jingbot1071 16 часов назад

    I have no idea why RUclips gave me this. I don't use social media and don't care about much other than survival. Yet it keeps giving me self help videos?

  • @I-Comment-therefore-i-am
    @I-Comment-therefore-i-am 17 часов назад

    I started watching this video at 11pm in the night, on my laptop, with my phone in my hand using twitter or X, my work is there for me to complete, the code that I have to write, the theory that I have to study, everything is here but Nothing is being done. I watched this video sitting laid back with that "nothing in the eyes" look, thinking am I really cooked? what I feel is inadequacy, that I am not good enough to even try, I feel like this not now but for almost like years. whenever I wish to start something or participate in something I get excited, and after few days I just stop myself from doing it thinking I would not be able to do that in the end so why bother. and after few days I push myself a little just to make a plan, and again not following the plan to make another one. the thing is that it seems very impossible to even start small, it seems I am falling behind, or I fell behind a long ago and this is just the consequences of not taking actions that time. it hits harder when you hear something positive to you, you either don't believe them like they are lying or don't know how to take that compliment(social skill issue I guess) and when somebody said something very negative about you or your capabilities you just start agreeing to them. Upon that I think I have ocd, or maybe adhd too(both not clinically diagnosed). well not much left to yap, you know sometimes it feels very selfish to think about my problems, like their are people in the world who don't get proper food, shelter, people with worse situation and diseases that my problems feel very stupid and negligible or small compare to them, and I am whining about them. I wish to be anything except selfish in my life. I usually just delete such comments after writing but this one got way bigger than I expected so keeping it. also having a crush upon someone you know there is zero chances for anything to happen between you two and daydreaming about it is just very exhausting, she is very fucking beautiful and I am not even good looking. I feel good during the delusions but when the dream ends I just goes back to being a low to no self esteem guy. I usually write fun comments on youtube as I found comedy as a way to cope, did self-deprecating humor a lot(still do) resulted in no one taking me seriously, not even me. it just feel wrong to think of a good future for myself, if I do it make me giggle. well if somebody read it thank you, don't feel sorry for me as I myself wouldn't. I think I am turning to a cynic(not like the OG Diogenes, but the newer definitions of cynic) against myself only day by day. I hope you don't feel the way I do at any step of your life. have a great life dear reader. Live a wonderful and lovely life. Nothing to write now. though now I feel a little relaxed. DON'T REPLY BECAUSE I WON'T, I DON'T WANT TO DEBATE BATTLE YOU!! Sorry for bad English.

    • @I-Comment-therefore-i-am
      @I-Comment-therefore-i-am 17 часов назад

      Womp Womp (sorry, but felt it would be funny replying this before someone else)😂😂

  • @guillo1306
    @guillo1306 17 часов назад

    sometimes I struggle about how I "failed" myself over the years for not paying attention to me instead of just living constantly distracted. This message helps, we need to learn to forgive us, to slow down. Being the human you want to be isn't always a clear answer and now I find myself trying not to feel guilty because of it. In case it helps, just live. Simplicity sometimes helps me. I hope y´all find your way

  • @aghib3376
    @aghib3376 18 часов назад

    Thank you ☎️

  • @parsafard
    @parsafard 18 часов назад

    Start with what feels right explore Screw up Learn

  • @KioKioKi0
    @KioKioKi0 18 часов назад

    i took this call guys

  • @sakshiydv
    @sakshiydv 20 часов назад

    I wanted to cry so badly

  • @N.Dwastaken
    @N.Dwastaken 20 часов назад

    I wish my mom would see this... It's so hard being an asian son...

  • @gaelgutierrez809
    @gaelgutierrez809 20 часов назад

    Thanks

  • @smielyvalley2372
    @smielyvalley2372 20 часов назад

    THIS IS NOT COOKED, MY LIFE IS THE DEFENITION OF COOKED Be me 22 years old, since I was a child I knew I was different, I didnt feel a lot of things, never really developed any interests or hobbies or got addicted to anything, never had any guidance from parents or any one older, had to learn everything on my own, COVID hit... Broke the little connection I had with my friends became anti social, all of a sudden joined college everyone had a personality, I didnt have, was mostly sick at first 2 years, never got any good friends, everyone took me for advantage, got targeted by professors for no reason, started studying started teaching others helping so many people, but they got more marks than me due to favouring, when I needed help no one came, even in my home I was ignored, Constant hate... Ignorance.. loneliness... Pushed me into autopilot. Recently snapped myself out accidently and woke up, Found myself in a mess. Now I dont have anything. Not active on social media No personality No hobbies No friends No job No skill No ambition No self respect No self esteem No confidence No competance Not good at anything No idea how to talk to someone Dont know how to drive Dont know how to cook Dont know how to navigate places Dont have any sense of direction Eventhough I spent so much of my life in isolation, for the first time in my life I feel lonely And Just pissed myself (literally)😅 Now i am afriad to do anything Even talking to someone... Literally feels like i would piss myself😂 I am even afraid to go outside I dont know anything😅 So I just listen to the clock all day just tick.. tick.. tick.. tick.. thats all i do😂 And my parents are retiring and dont have any retirement plan, they are expecting me to take care of them. I have completely lost interest in living... Only reason I am alive.. is I feel guilty. I am no longer considered human. I feel soul-less I am beyond cooked

  • @AshleySithole-t8f
    @AshleySithole-t8f 20 часов назад

    I want to get closer to jesus this year ❤

  • @isaacduraes7685
    @isaacduraes7685 20 часов назад

    Can i breath out now?

  • @pookichu
    @pookichu 21 час назад

    glad i picked up

  • @citrus_speaks
    @citrus_speaks 22 часа назад

    I feel like I've noticed two prevailing mindsets in motivational content: nothing is enough, or like in this video, everything is enough. I think the real trick is finding the happy medium, and realizing that it may look different for each person or even change depending on where you're at in life. Nothing is black and white

  • @nobody8686
    @nobody8686 22 часа назад

    Hats off my man, hats off

  • @Lunaryse
    @Lunaryse 23 часа назад

    Very high quality video. You'll do well. You've received a sub from me.

  • @ZachSeineVideos
    @ZachSeineVideos День назад

    Congratulations You have discovered, depression, anxiety, social media addiction and/or ADHD.

  • @pepethefrog2
    @pepethefrog2 День назад

    great video!!

  • @bappo2693
    @bappo2693 День назад

    I’m so cooked I can share cookage with like 7 other people and still have oversupply.

  • @n0rswe
    @n0rswe День назад

    it is really difficult for me to find my passion and im in my first year at uni just trying to get a degree

  • @anirudhdwivedi6673
    @anirudhdwivedi6673 День назад

    The title is amazing.

  • @Awakened_sandy
    @Awakened_sandy День назад

    Everyone’s different

  • @lindor2948
    @lindor2948 День назад

    yea thank's we're calling the rut I'm in being "cooked" yea great

  • @sillygoose_8635
    @sillygoose_8635 День назад

    I'm building out an old work van into a camper to live out of. I have no idea what I am doing. And neither does anyone else. The van feels like its the only direction for me that makes any kind of sense right now, even though it makes no sense at all. I will build the van.