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This woman is derp derp. "What do you bring to the table?" Is a criticism statement not an actual question. Real men say it....but only to usless privileged gold diggers.

By sharing this video, have you not just brought something to the table?

Question: How can someone (male or female) want something _without_ it being transactional?

What you bring to the table IS NOTHING

Well - why can't he? Are you the one to decide that? What do you bring to the table to decide that? Or is it just (as always) your unfounded personal opinion? If so, any person can just ignore it. Who do you think you are?

What a High Value woman brings to the table is obvious to me and the question need not be asked. I don’t have to ask, I see it. A good relationship with a good woman is not transactional, it is harmonious and well worth pursuing. It does happen. It takes two. Women on dating apps never seemed desperate to me. Rather they seemed to be demanding and difficult. They seam to want to make the impression that they are hard to get. They strike me as hard to want! Not to cast negative aspersions because there are a great many wonderful, loving, and supportive women out there that are happy to join a man in his life’s journey. They can do it together. Ego and fear get in the way. Focus on the positives and it will be reflected back upon you.

You may misunderstand, its intended to be rude. Men don't ask that to women who come across as great people. Men already know the answer when they ask. Its a way to say, "I know you're a person who's only looking to take what I can give. I'm calling you out and making you feel bad for it." No one asks that question to someone they think they're going to keep dating.

Men tend to ask this question simply in response to the expectations placed on him in the relationship. Men have become tired of the double standard- women can have all kinds of standards and the world says, "You go girl" but the second a man has standards he is judgmental, controlling, shaming, etc. Women definitely prefer men to perform the traditional roles of provider, protector, etc yet when men expect women to perform the traditional roles of homemaker, bringing children into the world, nurturer, etc it is called sexist, misogynistic, etc. This double standard is what has caused men to step back and ask, "What do you bring to the table?" The man is expected to bring his entire person to the table- to work, to provide, to sacrifice; it is perfectly fine for a man to expect the woman to bring her entire person to the table as well. What is very telling is that when many women are asked what they bring to the table, they are speechless. Says a lot.

There use to be a time where a man could get an undamaged, emotionally available, young, feminine, attractive woman without prior children who could cook. Most women today are not fit for marriage. They are too old, far below you in looks, entitled, have a high body count, emotionally damaged, masculine, children from before, past divorces they initiated, narcissistic, disrespectful and can't cook. It is absolutely wise for any man to vet the woman before he offers her a relationship.

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That is so false. If a woman heads into a relationship and is all take take take, which is quite common, then yes. Questioning what they bring to the table is absolutely valid. For men, first dates are exactly like a job interview. Youve got no idea what women expexct from us and demand from us. It ahould be an equal partnership, but a lot of women head in expecting to be carried. Sorry, you have no idea.

Real women said the one who use full filters app instead his actual face. 😂😂😂 By the way don't pretend that the question "what are your goals?" to a men it's to know him, it's for know his income. Other point. What about the amount of women BRAGGING goin to foodie calls?

It is an absolutely relevant question. A man who knows his value wants to know what a potential partner brings to the table. A doormat won't ask a such question. Romantic love is transactional, you like it or not. I love my partner and my children but there is a difference what I tolerate from them. If my teenager daughter gets a fit of drama and shouts that she hates me, I still love her unconditionally. If my partner would do it, she would have to pack her stuff and leave, unless she shows regret, apologises and manages to convince me that she will never do it again.

You obviously have not thought it through. You both absolutely have to be on the same page. Men have every right weather you agree or not to determine the fit of a potential partner to be on the same page from day one. If you buy a house, it needs to be evaluated it is a commitment a relationship is a bigger commitment. The modern man is right to question what you bring to the table both your futures depend on it.

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With a divorce rate of 80% initiated by women, you betcha, of course men are going to vet women, men understand hypergammy now

If a man is asking you 'what do you bring to the table?', it's because he's spent some time with you, and he's not really seeing much value, so he decides to just ask to see if he's missing anything. If you refuse to answer, he will realize that he's correct in his observation. If a man is looking to build a family, he's looking for a partner that will excel at building a family. You listed standards like financially secure, kind, etc. He also has standards for how a partner would actually partner with him. You aren't meeting them. Some women are keepers some are recreational.

That's right, a real man will put the leatch to the side of his neck and accept that he is about to be bled... again. HEY LADY, almost all of the best men have left the table! The truth is if the guy can push through lonely, he doesn't need a resource depleting, peace destroying, unfaithful, undermining, backstabbing chick to wreck his life. MGTOW FOREVER! Guys, they bring nothing!

Dating is an interview. And men should ask what a woman brings into the relationship (not the table). Modern women bring nothing but attitude, drama, debts, lies, cheating and divorce into a man’s life today. Men want to know before committing to a woman just exactly what she brings to his life with her. Is she a traditional woman or a modern hookup, feminist woman. How many men has had her in bed, what kind of debts she has, what are her future goals, does want children and more. No man wants to be married to a hookup woman. No man wants a woman who is a feminist. So YES. All men should be asking that with every woman they date.

A man with standards and solid preferences in place would not have to ask that question. He would already know the answer within 5 minutes of meeting her.

The only reason men even ask this sort of question is because some women feel entitled to everything while bringing no value to a relationship besides sex

So women can have standards and expectations but men can't. Lol.

All is transactional. All

A real man doesn't want a relationship.

Yes, ideally it would go that way. But we live in very materialistic times and the vast majority of women are not high-value women (other than in their own minds) and for them a relationship is 100% transactional. They want resources, and men have them. The guys who ask such a question early on have usually been burned, often very badly, by women who do not fit your nice model of someone looking for a relationship. Also, divorce courts do major shifts of resources from men to women, so men lose there, often badly. Women are, in about 95% of cases, after what they can get and couldn't care less about contributing anything other than their presence to the relationship. They have no concept of a relationship, only transactions. With modern younger women having their heads filled with 'maximize your body count to be a real woman and experience life,' they rapidly lose the ability to form relationship of the type you describe. Once a woman has had more than about 15 sexual partners, the chances of them forming a successful relationship is very low, because they have lost the ability to bond with men. The divorce rate (i.e., the failure of the relationship) with women with more than 15 sexual partners is around 95%. That well-researched statistics should tell you everything you need to know. Add in that the divorce rate is around 50% across the board, and clearly the majority of women are transactional and a relationship that you are describing is only possible for a small minority of women, or in works of fiction. A lot of women when asked 'What do you bring to the table?' have no answer. They cannot conceive that they have to do anything more than to be present to receive tribute (validation and resources), and that their magnificence is sufficient to require any man to provide everything in the 'relationship' so created. One answer, "I am the table" pretty much says it all for overweening narcissism. Sorry, dear, but you are off dreaming of some fictional idea of how people should interact (but don't), or relationships in a different century. But you are not describing the 21st century, nor any but a tiny (and shrinking) group of women alive today. Go and study a bit of reality, look at the research, and forget pushing this silly, irrational, fictional and ultimately psychotic narrative.

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lmao it is about time that men ask women because women often bring nothing but burden and are no where to be found when you are going through a hard time.

This is such a hypocritical take. Men are always, ALWAYS asked what they bring to the table. Whether directly or indirectly they are always asked this, and have been for decades. This "It makes it feel like a job interview" is exactly right. It DOES feel transactional. It DOES feel like being scrutinized in a job interview, and it's what men have been feeling like for decades when asked this in one way or another by women. But now that men have started to wise up, turned it around and started asking what women bring to the table? Then all of a sudden, NOW it's rude? NOW it's offensive? NOW it's incredibly impolite and demeaning? It was all fun and games for the last decades! Until the same thing started happening to women, and now all of a sudden it's terrible? It's not fun when you're on the other end of it is it? What hypocrisy! Personally I'm glad that men in general and younger men in particular are waking up to the gaslighting!

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Im so sick of women defining what a real man is...utter misandry. To women all relationships are transactional. If you want to be taken serious admit your female nature and stop using a filter on your video

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And doing the laundry , washing the dish etc the basic

Exactly! Femininity to me is unequivocal self-love and expression ❤

We need to have masculine energy to work and to protect ourselves, don't listen to the weak men who whine for feminine because they want to control and use you. Only abusive men will complain about your boundaries. The same men who want you feminine will call you easy when you fall for their bs. Stop listening to weak men bs, they always have agenda. A strong healthy man won't be bothered by your self-respect and boundaries. Stop bending for every dick and harry hateful talk. Both men and women have to have both energies when balanced, cause we need them both. Only idiots talk nonsense about these energies.

Since when is protection masculine energy? Mama animals are the most dangerous for a reason. Even studies show women are more likely to protect strangers, while men fall for the bystander effect more often and just watch people get hurt. Or even laugh. Women are the ones protecting people, kids, elderly, standing up for people. How many of y'all's dads advocated for you at the hospital? For most it was mama.

thank you so much..i needed to hear it

I stopped looking for a first date… problem solved 😂

If you have problem with everyone you are the problem

It's not toxic to ask a question. A lot of women and men have been through the ringer with abusive partners. They even try to ensure they don't repeat their mistakes by choosing a partner who seems nothing like their previous partner(s) only to realize they've stepped in it again. Anyone asking such a question probably has examined their part and has arrived at the possible conclusion that maybe they bring out the bad of all partners and they're forever doomed to a life of being alone. All I really know is that all people have the capacity to be abusive.

I knew a woman who had been married 4 times. For this reason, she felt all men were toxic. She wouldn't entertain the idea it was her toxicity that may have been the problem.

Switch the gender does it still make sense ?

Very timely. Thank you❤

I'm lucky enough to have that. He still stares at me with admiration sometimes like he's admiring his celebrity crush. And he's constantly flirting with me even though we're already a couple. Asking him out was the best decision I ever made.

Could it be, because I'm a guy?