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Invisible Scars Foundation - We Help You Heal
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INVISIBLE SCARS FOUNDATION is a support and advocacy organisation helping Domestic violence & abuse (DVA) survivors OF ALL AGES & GENDERS. We provide survivors with a confidential, non-judgmental, compassionate, and inclusive space where they got any support they needed. We assist survivors by guiding them to GBV resources such as police, legal, mental health, and shelters. We also provide them with financial assistance for food/rations, rent, medical/legal help, skill and capacity building, and other ad hoc needs. ISF works for Domestic Violence & Abuse, Sexual Harassment At Workplace (PoSH), Diversity and Inclusion, Gender Equality & Empowerment, Rape Culture and Mental Health & Wellbeing. We envision a world where DVA survivors are empowered with the tools and support needed reclaim their dignity, resilience, and self-worth
Are you conflicted about why you put up with abuse from your partner?
Are you struggling to understand why you stay in an abusive relationship? It is normal to feel conflicted, as emotions like love, hope for change, fear, or guilt can cloud your judgment.
Abusers often manipulate you into believing you deserve the treatment or that things will improve. Remember, the abuse is not your fault, and recognising this internal conflict is the first step toward finding the strength to break free
#Domesticabuseawareness #traumabonds
Abusers often manipulate you into believing you deserve the treatment or that things will improve. Remember, the abuse is not your fault, and recognising this internal conflict is the first step toward finding the strength to break free
#Domesticabuseawareness #traumabonds
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How Neglect at Home Shapes a Child’s Future
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Neglect at home can have lasting effects on a child's future, impacting their emotional, physical, and mental well-being. Children who grow up in neglectful environments often struggle with low self-esteem, trust issues, and developmental delays. Without proper care and support, they may face difficulties in forming healthy relationships, succeeding academically, and managing emotions. Early in...
The Lies Victims of Abuse Hold On To
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Victims of abuse often hold on to lies that keep them trapped in unhealthy relationships. They convince themselves that their abuser will change, that the abuse is their fault, or that external factors are to blame. These lies are often reinforced by the abuser, making it even harder for victims to see the truth. Believing these falsehoods allows them to justify staying, even though it causes f...
Is Your Family Stopping You From Leaving An Abusive Relationship?
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In our culture, marriage is highly valued, often causing daughters to be pushed into it at the cost of their education and independence. Once married, they're expected to tolerate toxic situations, as divorce and conflict are deeply stigmatised. This societal pressure traps many women in abusive marriages, with minimal support from their families, forcing them to suffer in silence. This cycle o...
Have you been manipulated into reactive abuse?
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Have you ever found yourself lashing out after being provoked repeatedly, only to be blamed for your reaction? This could be reactive abuse, where abusers manipulate you into reacting emotionally or aggressively, then use that reaction to make you seem like the problem. It's a common tactic used to shift blame and maintain control. Recognising this pattern is crucial in breaking free from the c...
Why Leaving an Abusive Relationship Feels Impossible
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Leaving an abusive relationship feels impossible because abusers often create a web of control and fear. They manipulate emotions, isolate their survivors from accessing support, and make them doubt their own worth and reality. Financial dependency, threats of harm, and fear of the unknown also play a huge role. Survivors may feel trapped, believing there’s no safe way out or that they don’t de...
Unseen Scars: The Short Term Impact Of Abuse on Children
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Children exposed to abuse, even for a short time, can suffer serious emotional and psychological harm. They may develop anxiety, depression, or struggle with aggression and disobedience. These unseen scars can affect their ability to regulate emotions and feel safe, leaving lasting effects on their development. It’s crucial for parents to ensure their children live in a safe, loving environment...
'Positive' Phrases That Are Actually Harmful To Abuse Survivors
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In our well-meaning efforts to support abuse survivors, we often unknowingly use phrases that can cause more harm than good. Statements like "Just stay positive," "Everything happens for a reason," or "At least it's not worse" are examples of toxic positivity that minimise the severity of the abuse. These phrases shift focus away from the survivor's pain, invalidating their experience and makin...
Feeling Unappreciated in Your Relationship. Here Is Why..
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A partner who lacks empathy often dismisses your feelings, making you feel unheard or invalidated. They may focus primarily on their own needs, rarely showing concern for your emotional well-being. Apologies or taking responsibility for their actions are infrequent, and they may avoid offering support during difficult times. Instead of understanding your perspective, they may be quick to blame ...
The Manipulative Tactics Abusers Use on Kind Hearted People
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Abusers often exploit these generous and caring traits by manipulating your natural inclination to please and trust others. They take advantage of your difficulty in setting boundaries, pushing you to do more than you're comfortable with while making you feel guilty if you refuse. Your honesty and belief in others' honesty make you vulnerable to their deceit, as they use lies and manipulation t...
Don't Ignore These 8 Abusive Phrases: Protect Yourself Now!
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It's crucial to recognise and address abusive phrases that can subtly erode your self-esteem and well-being. These phrases are red flags of emotional manipulation and control. These statements are often used to undermine your confidence, gaslight you, or justify abusive behaviour. Protect yourself by identifying these harmful words, setting firm boundaries, and seeking support from trusted indi...
How To Cope And Move On After A Partner Cheats On You
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Coping after a partner cheats is deeply challenging, but it's important to focus on healing and moving forward. Start by acknowledging your emotions-anger, sadness, and confusion are all normal. Seek support from trusted friends, family, or a counsellor who can provide a safe space for you to process your feelings. Avoid making impulsive decisions; give yourself time to think about what you tru...
The 6 D’s: Shocking Tactics of Domestic Abusers Exposed
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The "6 Ds" of domestic violence and abuse-Denial, Deception, Dependency, Degradation, Domination, and Destruction-are tactics abusers use to control and manipulate their victims. These tactics erode the victim's sense of reality, self-worth, and independence, trapping them in a cycle of abuse. The harm caused is profound, leading to emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical damage. If yo...
Are You Stuck in a Trauma Bond With Your Abuser?
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What if what you think is love is actually something much darker? A trauma bond can feel like deep love, but it's built on cycles of pain, manipulation, and emotional highs and lows. This connection keeps you trapped in a toxic relationship, making it hard to break free. In this video, we’ll explore the signs of a trauma bond and help you understand the difference between true love and a bond f...
Nice in Public, Nightmare at Home: The True Face of an Abuser
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Nice in Public, Nightmare at Home: The True Face of an Abuser
Exposing How Abusers Cry 'Victim' to Evade Accountability
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Exposing How Abusers Cry 'Victim' to Evade Accountability
Identifying How Victims Make Excuses And Defend Their Abuser's Behaviour
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Identifying How Victims Make Excuses And Defend Their Abuser's Behaviour
Could You Be Abusive Without Knowing It? Here Is The Surprising Truth!
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Could You Be Abusive Without Knowing It? Here Is The Surprising Truth!
7 Disturbing Behaviours of Teenagers From Abusive Homes
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7 Disturbing Behaviours of Teenagers From Abusive Homes
Arguing With An Abuser? Here Is What Will Happen!
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Arguing With An Abuser? Here Is What Will Happen!
The Shocking Truth About Family Roles in Abusive Relationships
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The Shocking Truth About Family Roles in Abusive Relationships
29 Warning Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship You Can't Ignore!
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29 Warning Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship You Can't Ignore!
The Stages of Escalating Abuse Everyone Needs to Know
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The Stages of Escalating Abuse Everyone Needs to Know
The Disturbing Reality of Leaving an Abusive Relationship and 6 Things to Expect
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The Disturbing Reality of Leaving an Abusive Relationship and 6 Things to Expect
Regain CONTROL in conversations with your abuser: UNDERSTAND the JADE method
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Regain CONTROL in conversations with your abuser: UNDERSTAND the JADE method
Mind Games Revealed: How Abusers Control You in Every Argument!
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Mind Games Revealed: How Abusers Control You in Every Argument!
Recognizing Toxic Family Dynamics: Are These Signs Present in Your Family?
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Recognizing Toxic Family Dynamics: Are These Signs Present in Your Family?
If You Do These 6 Things - You Might Be a Victim of Emotional Abuse
4 месяца назад
If You Do These 6 Things - You Might Be a Victim of Emotional Abuse
Betrayal Trauma: The Silent Struggle No One Talks About
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Betrayal Trauma: The Silent Struggle No One Talks About
8 Personality Traits That Make You a Magnet for Emotional Abusers
4 месяца назад
8 Personality Traits That Make You a Magnet for Emotional Abusers
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Narcissist abusers. People who suck the life out of you.
This is so clear and the name of your channel is so apt. As there are a lot of educated women only who do not understand what is a toxic relationship.
Yes mam correct
MILs impose this life on the DILs because they went through the same and learnt to cope only to gain sadistic pleasure out of it once they are able to give back the same toxicity that they got Moms counsel their daughters that this is how it will be because that is all they went through… In the end the girl is left with no one to turn to 😢
Well articulated Ekta. Impact on children when growing up in home with domestic violence is not well understood. I really love that the topic you have touched about myth that having children will solve problem that one is having in a marriage; it only complicates issue and makes victim weaker, while children will either grow to learn behavior of an abuser or a victim (both are unhealthy).
Kudos for picking up such an important topic. Raising daughters understanding when you adjust & compromise is important part of living with dignity. I think others (sons, adults) too need education on this topic.
True
Very well said Ma'am.
Well done Ekta .. good job ...
Great content! Much needed in our society! Looking forward to more videos and regularly.
Good detailed articulation. You might consider putting it out to schools as part of parenting workshops.
Thank you for the idea! Surely I will do that
I wish someone would have told me this... Nevertheless, I can advice younger generation.. thank you for sharing this Ektha... 🙏 Looking forward for seeing more of such videos.
Very true .... Many stayin bec of kids ...how to overcome diz ....
Pooja Agarwal please reach out for help. You have to speak up
How can I contact u Mam?any mail id or contact no,pls share.
Sravanthi Sravanthi please write to us on isgucollective@gmail.com
Hahaha intense FOMO :)
😀 credits to the Internet vocabulary
I think this applies exactly to mothers too, isn't it?
A mother in law is someone’s mother. However if you are asking whether mothers can posses such traits the answer is YES.
Eye opening!
Good work Ekta
Amazing Video!!! I learnt a lot of things after watching this video! I also realised that men can also face domestic abuse/violence
Awesome. Very informative!!! Beautifully executed!!! proud to be ur daughter
Very very informative for a happy married life. Thank you Ekta Ji.