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Successful Midlife Men face a different set of psychological challenges.
You didn't work this hard for this long to feel this bored, empty & possibly... lost.
If you've climbed Success Mountain only to find you're run out of roadmap... I hope this channel will be a good resource for you to find your way to the Mountain of Fulfillment™ you were born to climb in the second half of your life.
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You didn't work this hard for this long to feel this bored, empty & possibly... lost.
If you've climbed Success Mountain only to find you're run out of roadmap... I hope this channel will be a good resource for you to find your way to the Mountain of Fulfillment™ you were born to climb in the second half of your life.
Subscribe for actionable strategies, inspiring stories, and a supportive community.
The Midlife Market Correction Most Men Miss
Your midlife is like a market correction-it’s inevitable, and the signs are everywhere. Will you seize the moment to build an extraordinary second half of life, or will you let it pass you by?
In this video, Craig Filek dives deep into the analogy of midlife as a massive market shift, why most men waste their greatest opportunity, and how you can turn this transition into your greatest advantage.
Learn the 9 Stages of Adult Masculine Development:
Stage 1-3: The Bull Market Phase
-Aspiration: Like identifying a promising market, you set your sights on success
-Summiting: You're reaching all-time highs, everything's working
-Crisis at the summit: The first signs that something's fundamentally off...
In this video, Craig Filek dives deep into the analogy of midlife as a massive market shift, why most men waste their greatest opportunity, and how you can turn this transition into your greatest advantage.
Learn the 9 Stages of Adult Masculine Development:
Stage 1-3: The Bull Market Phase
-Aspiration: Like identifying a promising market, you set your sights on success
-Summiting: You're reaching all-time highs, everything's working
-Crisis at the summit: The first signs that something's fundamentally off...
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Why Men Lose Their Identity After Selling a Business
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Exiting your business for millions sounds like the ultimate win, right? But what happens when the dopamine wears off, and you’re left feeling lost, bored, and empty?It’s the midlife crisis nobody talks about-until now. In this video, I break down: ✔️ Why selling your business isn’t the finish line-it’s the start of your second mountain. ✔️ The 3 biggest mistakes successful men make after an exi...
How Successful Men Embrace Winter's Darkness
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How Successful Men Embrace Winter's Darkness
Why Successful Midlife Men End Up Feeling Empty
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Why Successful Midlife Men End Up Feeling Empty
How Successful Men Lose the Plot in Midlife
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How Successful Men Lose the Plot in Midlife
3 Reasons Women Lose Attraction For Successful Midlife Men
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3 Reasons Women Lose Attraction For Successful Midlife Men
How Successful Midlife Men Get Un-Stuck In the Dreaded Midlife Malaise
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How Successful Midlife Men Get Un-Stuck In the Dreaded Midlife Malaise
Why Successful Men Make The Devil's Bargain
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Why Successful Men Make The Devil's Bargain
Why Successful Midlife Men Lose Motivation
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Why Successful Midlife Men Lose Motivation
Are You A Successful Midlife Man... Wondering "What's Next?"
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Are You A Successful Midlife Man... Wondering "What's Next?"
Midlife Crisis 2.0: Why Having It All Isn't Enough Anymore
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Midlife Crisis 2.0: Why Having It All Isn't Enough Anymore
[Purpose Mapping] The 9 Stages of Adult Masculine Development
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[Purpose Mapping] The 9 Stages of Adult Masculine Development
You make me realize once again something I’ve always known. I am cut from a different cloth. It was the reading of books that the seeking of knowledge the understanding that marriage or materialism has its place but it’s not ever going to give you what you need beyond what it is. You’re fulfillment mountain is represented in me in the struggle that I put forth for myself and not a struggle that life has put in front of me. I can afford to be selfish like this because I chose this path and I know my direction with my internal compass. Others are afraid however I do not fear what they fear. What I fear is the life that they have chosen for themselves of being prisoners of their relationships.
Simply bravo 🎉!!!
✅️👏🏻
Proverbs 13:7. There is one who makes himself rich yet has nothing. And one who makes himself poor and has great riches.
Wow, this is the first time I’ve heard all these points articulated in one place. After completed my education becoming a Dr., having children, house, etc I realized I was on a “golden hamster wheel” like you called it. I became depressed and didn’t understand how if I made it to where I was striving for decades It could feel so empty. That was years ago, I read the Bible, Joseph Campbell, listened to Jordan Peterson, did a lot of personal reflection and actually came to the same conclusion. Men have to have a mountain to climb or continual journeys to travel or they are their worst enemies. I changed my career up, moved locations, invested more into family, created a business that was more rewarding than working for someone else, and am involved in the community and church to serve and help the next ones in line or those who can’t help themselves. Great video, just shocked me to for the first time find all of this I’ve learned in years from many sources in one spot. Thank you!
Crazy how I’m almost 31 and this resonates too much, since I pushed far fast…
Glad it resonated! There are no shortcuts to true success.
You don’t look like you could beat a pissed off kitten in a fight, relax.
What about someone like Elon Musk? What if your second mountain is integrated into your first? Where your dream life compliments your aspirations, financial and otherwise?
Great question. At the end of the day no two people's mountains look the same.
I feel exactly like this, without the success part.
Ill take the money and business and keep myself.
Loved this! Yes, this is the exact struggle I find myself in. Though, still at the point of questioning what is enough, when it’s time to switch over to the other lane. You’re right that it’s about 12-20 years. I have been going for about 10 years (just earning), and expect I can make it another 2-3 years before needing to ask some really hard questions about whether continuing is worth it.
Appreciate that man! Thanks for the support
Bro, if you spoke slower, you could make a 34 minute video! Or speak normal and make it eight minutes.
this is so wrong in so many ways .....
Did not expect this to be so profound
Appreciate that man
The 2nd Mountain is the 1st Mountain. You set out in life doing what you love instead of trading your time for money. Money will come, but not at the price of fulfillment to build a man ready for all those things listed to be on Mountain 1.
The interesting thing for me is that I never made it to that first mountain at 55. I still have the $20 an hour job but I was always a creative person so I always created projects that made me happy even though they didn’t make any money. Here I am at 55 still looking for that first mountain and thinking that bitcoin will be my way. For me it’s hopefully going to be our reverse story where I find the second mountain 1st and end up with the first mountain in the latter half of my lifenow that I have learned the lesson I should be able to maintain that second mountain while balancing it with the first mountain
The Faustian bargain is rooted in reality, not mythology. Follow God. You’ll be dead soon enough either way.
I spent my entire life working hard as a CPA not taking vacations, not enjoying life because I was told I had to. I never wanted to do any of it. I never wanted a smart phone. I was forced to have a smart phone by an employer. Despite a perfect employment record since graduating in 2002 with honors, 5 years public accounting in international tax, I cannot get a job and my life is completely ruined. The reason, I refused to commit accounting fraud. Because if this, my identity was compromised and deep faked and my life has been completely destroyed. I now plan to go on a mission of poverty to help people through the church because I cannot get a government agency to give me witness protection and I am afraid of what will happen to me and most of all because it is actually a chance to live my life how I want to live it!
Retirements great. 😂❤
I think you forget neoptism...
Nah, don’t agree. Self made people become smart, create opportunity, find better ways to do things and become better at what they do. It’s called progress. True wealth simply buys time, what you choose to spend it on is up to you. Nicely explained though.
@1:03 This is where they got the "Material" for the anime Full Metal Alchemist from 😏 AND those ppl were the only successors..😂 This guy needs to be on television, telling this whole thing to all modern day capitalist now.. AND @ 8:36 IF? Its Awareness was always around and here- how come people in the nifty 50s did not know about this??? "Awareness" They could have made a lot of stories an amass, a lot of fortunes, at that time and sharing about such "awareness" that we are living in at "this second".
I knew this at a young age. They called me a communist.
if you get success you need to make MORE success.more you make, more you get. this is all good and approved by God.
Losing feeling is not the worst thing it’s the precursor to what follows. At least in my experience. Because when u lose that ability you lose everyone around that ever meant anything. And if you’re experiencing this you better hope it stays that way. Because when you’re done running or flying the devil has an ace. One that most don’t think about. One he commonly plays if he’s focused on u. He gives you back the hands. And now that’s all u have , just the hands. And nothing else attached to them. It’s worst than not having them in the first place.
41 years old here and still looking for that first mountain to climb 🤦🏿♂️
Your story doesn’t make sense you say at the end the man has to find something to restore but in the story the daughter suffers by the fathers way so conclusion is the daughter has to fix herself because dad already made the deal. I think the moral is never make the deal to begin with and always work hard and stay to your morals
feeling lost , as video no timestamped. so skippped it
tldr: it aint all about the money, honey.
I love the philosophy here. My goal is to achieve the 1st mountain (almost there), and hopefully my children will trek the 2nd mountain. I'm not sure if the 2nd can be reached in 1 lifetime for everyone.
It absolutely can!
What's with all the rings on this weirdo?
It's like Trump. He was on top of the world. But he decided to save America. Started at the bottom. Had his name drug through the dirt. But he won again. A third time. He is half way up his 2nd mountain
Get a dog and take walks in the woods.
Have met very few wealthy men that are good. Most are materialistic shells of a human. The same men to mask up and stand 6 ft apart
This is the stuff no one talks about. At least not like this. Thanks
Appreciate that brother!
Money cant buy what is truly important in life. Dont save the fine china. Use it.
I’m an airline pilot. Flying is fun to a point, but you can eventually hit success mountain on it. Then money isn’t an issue at all.
I've done the opposite, now I need to figure out what to do for stability.
Sorry, this is naive. I am 70+ yo, and did not make the 'bargain' but followed the 'second mountain' first to lead the best life for myself and others, with only modest financial success that attracted few. Your clients had made the 'bargain' first to acquire success and family that could then subsidize their transformation to redeem themselves. How about some 'missionary work' for those who early on recognized the devil and would not cut off their humanity, or to be better valued by the people around them?
So wtf are those amoung us who are living paycheck to paycheck with no safety net supposed to do. I’m burned out on the first friggen mountain.
Seems like when you dial back the “success” actions (like providing/making money) she loses respect for you and therefore attraction then too. I dialed back chasing money and now mostly stay home with the kids, still work part time in the military, and I try to rekindle that “before the minivan” spark too, and not getting that back much.
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You make sense. Thanks.
Appreciate that brother
Whats the exact opposite of this story? The system has shown you nothing but misery forever and there's absolutely nothing you can do about it
I just need to buy a car.
What are you talking about
This is excellent and timely. Gracias, sir.
Glad it helped!
Get over yourselves. We die, maybe you’ll be remembered until a couple of generations pass, the world moves on, nature will benefit from your carbon contribution to its soil. Try giving back, i.e., pay for having been a crap person/your exploits, while you’re still here if you need to feel better. Bunch of rich entitled babies.
I went to an ultra posh all inclusive resort. At the end of the 10 days I was dying to get out of there and back to my normal life.
Those places are for women wanting to feel rich.
Nonsense.