JayWFoster
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Take the Archetypes Quiz!
Which archetypes do you portray most often? Find out by taking the quiz.
www.jaywfoster.com/archetypes
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Видео

Desire Trap
Просмотров 3582 года назад
Feeling low? Desperately need to resolve something? You just might be stuck in the Desire Trap.
A philosophical ramble on nonduality
Просмотров 1402 года назад
Nonduality is the BIGGEST topic there is. Let's climb inside it.
12 Steps to Freedom
Просмотров 1623 года назад
Can the same 12 steps work for my situation? Yep.
9 Processes of Change
Просмотров 7923 года назад
There are a quadrillion techniques for personal change but there are only nine categories for which to organize them. Knowing which type of technique to employ at the right time is key to your success!
5 Stages Change
Просмотров 2593 года назад
Stuck? Learn how we traverse the 5 stages of change and understand how to change and change for good.
Changing for Good
Просмотров 3983 года назад
Making a major life change? WHAT you do may be as important as WHEN you do it. Check out the science behind changing for good. Based on the book "Changing for Good" by James Prochaska, John Norcross, and Carlo DiClemente.
The 6 Types of Lying
Просмотров 8 тыс.3 года назад
Why is it important to tell the truth? What actually happens when we lie?
Family of Origin "FOO"
Просмотров 6 тыс.4 года назад
What is FOO? Grasping FOO at a deeper level can lead you to a deeply personal revelation.
Unfair Self Blame
Просмотров 9 тыс.4 года назад
Blaming yourself? Try these 12 questions to cross examine your inner-blamer.
Six Life Story Steps
Просмотров 1614 года назад
You're a blockbuster, a best-seller. Did you know that? All stories are based on the recurring human story pattern.
Overgeneralization
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Cognitive Distortion #2, Overgeneralization, in 60 seconds.
Personalization
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Cognitive Distortion #10, Personalization, in 60 seconds.
Should Statements
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Cognitive Distortion #8. Should Statements, in less than 60 seconds.
The Way to Peace
Просмотров 1024 года назад
What creates peace? It can be found in a most unlikely place.
Result vs Outcome
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Result vs Outcome
Internal Family Systems
Просмотров 39 тыс.4 года назад
Internal Family Systems
Human Source Code
Просмотров 3584 года назад
Human Source Code
Cognitive Distortions in 3 Minutes
Просмотров 8 тыс.4 года назад
Cognitive Distortions in 3 Minutes
Asking the Right Questions
Просмотров 1614 года назад
Asking the Right Questions
Disqualifying the Positive
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Disqualifying the Positive
Emotional Reasoning
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Emotional Reasoning
Jumping to Conclusions
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.4 года назад
Jumping to Conclusions
Heated Debate
Просмотров 454 года назад
Heated Debate
Window for Healing
Просмотров 694 года назад
Window for Healing
Labeling
Просмотров 6124 года назад
Labeling
Magnification and Minimization
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.4 года назад
Magnification and Minimization
7 Steps for COVID-19 Fear & Panic
Просмотров 1374 года назад
7 Steps for COVID-19 Fear & Panic
Shifting Your Inner State
Просмотров 794 года назад
Shifting Your Inner State
Mental Filter
Просмотров 2,8 тыс.4 года назад
Mental Filter

Комментарии

  • @tandat4423
    @tandat4423 22 дня назад

    your video is good but please give me subtitle . thanks

  • @mikesmith6594
    @mikesmith6594 Месяц назад

    My father lies about any and everything on top of gaslighting, double standards, being hypocritical, passive aggressive behavior, loves bullying, belittling, talking crap behind my back, false accusations, playing mind games, he acts like he's holier than thou and perfect.

    • @yesno9592
      @yesno9592 Месяц назад

      @mikesmith6594 Narcissistic personality disorder sufferers lie to themselves and live in make-believe world of their own. Don't take the lying personally. Poor devils 😔

  • @booksteer7057
    @booksteer7057 Месяц назад

    I came here because it concerns me when I hear people say, "Everything Trump says is a lie", because it doesn't seem like his "lies" are as deceitful as many of Biden's. When Trump says, "We are building the wall now," when it hasn't begun, or, "We built the greatest economy in American history," when it was only the third best, those are "polishing the apple" lies. Biden lies about things he has accomplished in the past that he never did, and he EXPECTS us to believe him. I'm sure Trump believes that the 2020 election was stolen, but that's only his opinion. It's dishonest to call that a lie. He could only LIE if he knew with 100% legal certainty that it wasn't stolen, but we don't know for sure. I think it's VERY important to draw a distinction between the P.T. Barnum's of the world and the con men.

  • @IUSEMYTIMEINAMEANINGFULWAY-v7c
    @IUSEMYTIMEINAMEANINGFULWAY-v7c Месяц назад

    at least this video isnt written by chat fckin gpt ffs unlike all of the other videos on this topic

  • @cynthianoveejanedumanig8220
    @cynthianoveejanedumanig8220 2 месяца назад

    Emmmaahahahha😂

  • @cynthianoveejanedumanig8220
    @cynthianoveejanedumanig8220 2 месяца назад

    😮 Coooooool I love your vids

  • @CC-eb7wy
    @CC-eb7wy 3 месяца назад

    A practicer of zen needs to be both.

  • @claudiamanta1943
    @claudiamanta1943 3 месяца назад

    😶‍🌫️ *confused* (i.e. you are confused). You cannot acquire intelligence. Wisdom is complicated concept that involves more than cognitive ability.

  • @singingcoversrp
    @singingcoversrp 6 месяцев назад

    thank you for this.

  • @DarrylSellers
    @DarrylSellers 7 месяцев назад

    Great information! Additionally, with more workplaces trying to foster and build DEI, it's vital to identify cognitive distortions. This will help businesses, groups and teams avoid falling into the abyss of "Group Think" which hinders creativity, awareness and the candid sharing of ideas. ☺

  • @joshuaprice6322
    @joshuaprice6322 7 месяцев назад

    So, I needed this video. Out of no where, I started blaming myself for my cousin passing away. I don't know why. Thanks for this video. It really helped.

  • @AbyssmalSoup307
    @AbyssmalSoup307 9 месяцев назад

    So I just found these videos, and I feel it best to ask, so I don’t believe any unproven facts: is this guy Jay a Psychologist?

  • @sam-pp9vg
    @sam-pp9vg 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @sumbae7668
    @sumbae7668 9 месяцев назад

    I feel like this kind of "therapy" is completely useless at least for me. I know full well that I didn't cause my depression on purpose duh. But it does not make it go away. If I could just say well I am happy now and then be happy there would be no problems in the universe. I don't get what this is supposed to accomplish. I am a very reflective person. Knowing why I feel sad or blame myself doesn't change the feelings I have, ever

    • @amaliafaltynkova4656
      @amaliafaltynkova4656 5 месяцев назад

      I kinda agree with you. I could ask myself these questions answer no to everything and on the next occassion, thoughts of guilt will crawl back to me. It is vicious cycle.

  • @user-pt5kr4xd5o
    @user-pt5kr4xd5o 9 месяцев назад

    I need only one word

  • @terencejohnson4011
    @terencejohnson4011 10 месяцев назад

    They are the same. It takes both within the self to find the middle path to enlightenment

  • @SilviMariaEngl
    @SilviMariaEngl 10 месяцев назад

    As a German, exploring the world, I must say: Germans are Innocents, ALL OVER. If you ever try to match nationalities with archetypes, take the Germans for the Innocents! 😂

  • @SilviMariaEngl
    @SilviMariaEngl 10 месяцев назад

    Talking about a spiritual master teaching…if he is not a jester as well, I‘d never trust him. True spiritual masters are very funny at times, happy to laugh about themselves and life. For me, it is only the shadow aspects of both types that don’t get along.

  • @chivhoung8699
    @chivhoung8699 11 месяцев назад

    It better for me if you have subtitles 😅 my reading better my listening

  • @jonathanfrigola9121
    @jonathanfrigola9121 11 месяцев назад

    I think my primary is sage, but I think my shadow is a jester. They both resonate. One overtly the other more covert, maybe an alter-ego perhaps?

  • @ripongjankhunger2760
    @ripongjankhunger2760 11 месяцев назад

    Lemme tell y'all in simple example Knowledge knows how to shoot a gun but wisdom knows whom to shoot and when to shoot 💁‍♂️

  • @ethanfutch4974
    @ethanfutch4974 Год назад

    im def a jester and my freind is a sage hes an infp and im a entp i feel like this weirdly makes sense

  • @gaomu4376
    @gaomu4376 Год назад

    Is it normal to feel you're both? 😮😮

  • @chijinduorizu680
    @chijinduorizu680 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @Rollacoastertycoon
    @Rollacoastertycoon Год назад

    i think im both

  • @TeachingToddlersAndLittles
    @TeachingToddlersAndLittles Год назад

    This is so good and relieving!

  • @Aname-hk4bu
    @Aname-hk4bu Год назад

    Do brunettes really love their children? Doubt it.

  • @Spooky_man
    @Spooky_man Год назад

    But how do you keep secrets from people who do not respect your privacy AND people you know will not respect you as a person, outright attack you if you tell them the truth? You either lie in fair (fair that might be justified) or are strong enough to tell them the truth, and if your friend is weak in that position you lie for them while trying to encourage them to tell the truth. --- If you are in a place where you can tell the truth and where no one will take advantage of you after you told them the truth, be grateful! I am grateful!

  • @sam-pp9vg
    @sam-pp9vg Год назад

    Thank you

  • @saymasultana339
    @saymasultana339 Год назад

    Why don’t you make more videos? You're amazing. I wish you all the success in your life.

  • @RetroXRicardo
    @RetroXRicardo Год назад

    Insightful information on these Archetypes! I stumbled upon your channel through the RUclips algorithm today. My MBTI channel does the same. Thanks for sharing! 🌟🌟🌟

  • @Villainonduty
    @Villainonduty Год назад

    Thank you❤ I really needed this.

  • @c3quest943
    @c3quest943 Год назад

    The quiz is great and gives some interesting results. My only issue is that the report you send seems incomplete, sections seem to be missing information and many of the links to videos do not work. But overall, a great way to get insights into how I act/react to certain things in certain ways. I wish that you had videos that centered specifically on the traits of each archetype individually as opposed to how they relate to other archetype...

  • @gorby90
    @gorby90 Год назад

    Thank so much for this video. Your talk on the role that desire plays in our lives is enlightening and uplifting.

  • @ebonyjoseph9489
    @ebonyjoseph9489 Год назад

    “Wisdom helps you find the happy path, intelligences helps you propel further down it”. - JayWFoster ❤️

  • @user-wi3yx3gy2o
    @user-wi3yx3gy2o Год назад

    Sorry but what the hell is mom in this thinking? Getting jobs and promotions is like playing poker against the house, after running a mandatory qualifying marathon for time. it’s not really about like getting more done. Especially as a manager, especially in that type of office. How do you even do exceptionally well in customer service? That an insane nebulous thin most people higher up at the bank ignore. His only moves are to look for another job or go back to school and get another degree, then take a pay cut for a few years and start climbing a different ladder. I’m sure dad would prefer to work 35 hours a week at a day spa and take care of dinner than do what he is doing. He probably should do much more around the house if the general theme of his role is accurate. But Mom only knows how to apply pressure to him to negatively prod him to get more resources. If she wants him to work more at home, that reasonable. If she really just wants to berate him into a triple figure income, that’s a bully move.

  • @user-wi3yx3gy2o
    @user-wi3yx3gy2o Год назад

    This took a turn.

  • @stingy418
    @stingy418 Год назад

    I won an award but cried myself to sleep because I blamed myself for my class not doing better. Something that shouldve been a purley amazing experience regarding that I had worked several months to get up to that point tainted because I made a few mistakes.

  • @jamclancy9335
    @jamclancy9335 Год назад

    One thing that I may add about how to be wise: Listen to the advise of good people, people who care about you. I observed that most miserable people are stubborn. They don't listen to advise/suggestion/opinions from their friends, relatives, other people.

    • @claudiamanta1943
      @claudiamanta1943 3 месяца назад

      And why is that? Are you wise (or intelligent) enough to know why they would not listen? Of course, they don’t listen because they’re ‘stubborn’. That’s it.

  • @stevencruz1348
    @stevencruz1348 Год назад

    Not every fear or deceitfulness

  • @handicappuccino8491
    @handicappuccino8491 Год назад

    Wisdom is emotional intelligence or EQ

  • @joshuamartinpryce8424
    @joshuamartinpryce8424 Год назад

    thanks Jay

  • @yami_mami
    @yami_mami Год назад

    These are both my archetypes

  • @relaxingmusicpsytalk5993
    @relaxingmusicpsytalk5993 Год назад

    It’s all about our thinking! I liked this one too, incase. ruclips.net/video/4fyBphnuBbs/видео.html

  • @Sun_Seeker
    @Sun_Seeker Год назад

    Why do i feel like both a sage and jester?

    • @KasinaMedeis
      @KasinaMedeis Год назад

      I feel that the jester is the higher form and a sage is something individual that is part of what a jester is, depends on the energy the jester gives

    • @GundamShinobi00
      @GundamShinobi00 Год назад

      You might’ve been the sage in a past life so you’re used to the feeling. Your purpose in this life is probably to be the jester. Or at least embrace that side as to not be serious all the time.

    • @Rollacoastertycoon
      @Rollacoastertycoon Год назад

      @@KasinaMedeis a jester is a wise sage

    • @KasinaMedeis
      @KasinaMedeis Год назад

      @@Rollacoastertycoon lovely

    • @KyOte13
      @KyOte13 3 месяца назад

      They’re the same… the Sage begins as The Fool, and continues on the life path to ascend INTO the Sage or The Magician

  • @stephenhigginson5813
    @stephenhigginson5813 Год назад

    I have all 10, but Psych. Is it possible to anxiety and depression as well?

  • @edwinredestofanerolarico642
    @edwinredestofanerolarico642 Год назад

    Your English is a little complicated to understand for me. Where are you from?

  • @wthshorts9287
    @wthshorts9287 Год назад

    Great video

  • @matthewlaffey8360
    @matthewlaffey8360 Год назад

    Also sounds 'All or Nothing' and 'Black and White' thinking. To be honest they all seem to overlap for me. Mental Filter seems more like when you let compliments or positives bounce right off you, playing them down or undermining them. Whereas negative feedback gets accepted without question as it already matches our own negative opinions of ourselves. You might cook a meal for a group of people and all shower you with praise on how fantastic it was, except one person who says their seat was wobbly. At the end of the night you are focused on the wobbly seat, compliments and praise forgotten. Kicking yourself that you didn't somehow mindread the guest or fix the problem before the meal. The message you take away is that you're a terrible host and cooking for groups is not worth the stress and avoid doing it again in the future. Sigh, even my own example feels like 5 other cognitive distortions mixed together. Min reading, prediction, mountains out of molehills, b/w thinking, all or nothing thinking

    • @mrseuugr
      @mrseuugr Год назад

      I think your answer’s pretty useful, for what it’s worth

  • @revheimliliam1305
    @revheimliliam1305 Год назад

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