Sam Schaeffer
Sam Schaeffer
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Why You Can Have Social Anxiety Outside Of Work, But Not At Work
iovercameanxiety.com
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In this video, you will discover why you can be fine talking to people at work... but... when it comes to talking to a stranger in public... or even talking at a party with the same people you work with... be a nervous, social anxiety ridden wreck.
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Wanna know how i overcame social anxiety (and how you can do it, too)? Then go here: iovercameanxiety.com/sam-schaeffer-how-i-overcame-social-anxiety
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Видео

How To Convince A Loved One With Social Anxiety To Get HelpHow To Convince A Loved One With Social Anxiety To Get Help
How To Convince A Loved One With Social Anxiety To Get Help
Просмотров 5487 лет назад
Discover how I overcame social anxiety (and how you can do it, too) here: iovercameanxiety.com/sam-schaeffer-how-i-overcame-social-anxiety It's hard when someone you love won't get help for social anxiety... either because they don't believe there's a cure... or... because they out-right refuse that they have social anxiety in the first place. But you can see what it's doing to their life. You ...
What Part Of Your "Introverted Personality" Is Actually Social Anxiety?What Part Of Your "Introverted Personality" Is Actually Social Anxiety?
What Part Of Your "Introverted Personality" Is Actually Social Anxiety?
Просмотров 6 тыс.8 лет назад
If you're an introvert and, after watching this video, you realized that you have social anxiety, then the first thing you should do to fix it is here: iovercameanxiety.com/the-root-source-method Do you know that a lot of introverts actually have social anxiety... and don't even know it? I just found that out the other day. And it's scary because said introverts can go their whole life with soc...
Sam Goes Off On Introverts Who Act Like They Have A DiseaseSam Goes Off On Introverts Who Act Like They Have A Disease
Sam Goes Off On Introverts Who Act Like They Have A Disease
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If you're an introvert with social anxiety, you should check this out: iovercameanxiety.com/habits "Introvert Problems". That is a Facebook page that has like 900,000 likes. And it's a bunch of introverts who throw a pity party about all the things they "can't do" like everyone else. This pissed me off so much that I decided to record a video about it. In this video, you will discover... -Why i...
What It Takes To Overcome Social AnxietyWhat It Takes To Overcome Social Anxiety
What It Takes To Overcome Social Anxiety
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iovercameanxiety.com
Who I AmWho I Am
Who I Am
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I talk about my struggles with social anxiety.

Комментарии

  • @anitawilliams22
    @anitawilliams22 Год назад

    Hi Sam, trying to get access to the course again. Purchase it in 2020 - I sent you an email today 11/12/23 - thank you 🙏🏽

  • @carpenoctem775
    @carpenoctem775 Год назад

    It depends on the person. Both introverts and extroverts have their pros and cons. But people are more socially inept now. Social media and video game addiction have made things worse. Socializing and being talkative is a minor offense. Overly sensitive people you have to tiptoe around are fucking lame.

  • @effortless4588
    @effortless4588 Год назад

    @Sam Schaefer I went to your ClickFunnels website and I can’t even access it because of a pop up that hides the whole website from access, it says “Your page? Unpause your account to remove this banner.”

    • @LenYn
      @LenYn Год назад

      same here

  • @ily2739
    @ily2739 2 года назад

    I don’t want to be like this anymore :(

  • @komisan_
    @komisan_ 3 года назад

    This! At work I'm still quiet and anxiety fueled, but I can speak when people talk to me unlike outside of work!

  • @davis6439
    @davis6439 3 года назад

    Very helpful video. Thanks Sam

  • @romanamerlene8554
    @romanamerlene8554 3 года назад

    3 months ago I started taking Weedborn CBD. This is the best option for me. You can help yourself with CBD.

  • @hasansarhan9296
    @hasansarhan9296 3 года назад

    Thank you ! I feel happy when i hear someone who had social anxiety and did overcome it

  • @pepper5117
    @pepper5117 3 года назад

    You helped me! The route of social anxiety is your subconscious expectation of how the interaction is going to go! When I started stopping myself from thinking the worse and having good expectations, I stopped being so scared

    • @emily-gm1nv
      @emily-gm1nv 3 года назад

      any chance you can tell me what it said lol i’m broke

    • @pepper5117
      @pepper5117 3 года назад

      @@emily-gm1nv when we have social interactions our mind expects a really bad experience so it goes into a sort of protection mode but if we expect a pleasurable experience it wont be as scared until eventually we dont expect anything

    • @davis6439
      @davis6439 3 года назад

      @@pepper5117 but you can’t live always stopping yourself from expecting emotional pain. You need to be in a state where it’s automatic. Your subconscious automatically expects emotional pleasure.

  • @sarahann6126
    @sarahann6126 3 года назад

    did you fall off the face of the earth or something? I can’t find anything on you past 2017 😂😭 I did buy your phase one tho. I am very fed THEE FUCK UP with social anxiety and I want to change my life I’m so tired

    • @davis6439
      @davis6439 3 года назад

      Buy the full program, it works.

    • @alfieyoull8107
      @alfieyoull8107 Год назад

      @@davis6439you can’t buy the full program or phase one anymore the website is shutdown wtf has happened ?

  • @marybyrne4559
    @marybyrne4559 3 года назад

    Its very good sam...il be saving up to get your program. as of now 😊

  • @marybyrne4559
    @marybyrne4559 3 года назад

    This makes good sense👍

  • @valfernandez9677
    @valfernandez9677 4 года назад

    Omg thank you for sending this video!! I really needed it!

  • @matilda9730
    @matilda9730 4 года назад

    I’m not sure how but I’ve been getting some emails about anxiety from Sam and that’s why I’m here today 😂

    • @rab.j
      @rab.j 4 года назад

      Same lol and I’m so happy I did

  • @thomaswilliams8822
    @thomaswilliams8822 4 года назад

    An interver dosen't wish they could go up to the party. They prefer not to.

  • @thomaswilliams8822
    @thomaswilliams8822 4 года назад

    Also I disagree with your understanding of what an internet is. It seems like you have an experience with a coward who convinced you that they were an introvert as an excuse for why they are a coward..dude they watched a video that fell into their narrative for an excuse. That person could be an introvert...but mosly a coward going down their list of excuses. If I don't want to I plainly say. No. I don't want to. (Why?) Because I don't want to. When people go into detail they tend to be grasping at straws to not only convince you but themselves.

  • @thomaswilliams8822
    @thomaswilliams8822 4 года назад

    Your talking about a coward not an introvert. I'm an introvert..just because I hate social things dosen't mean I can't...unless I'm pissed tf off seriously in a bad way. Other than that. Yes I will avoid social interaction but you have to adapt to your environment or fail .. people who choose to fail are cowards

  • @komisan_
    @komisan_ 4 года назад

    I've had social anxiety now for about 8 nearly 9 years been to continues counselling and CBT therapy nothing has worked. I really want to buy Sams stuff for anxiety and see how it goes! waiting till payday 😃

    • @turro9875
      @turro9875 3 года назад

      Any luck? I’m thinking about trying it out, but I wanna read some opinions on it

    • @komisan_
      @komisan_ 3 года назад

      @@turro9875 no, not yet. I've just got into a care job which is very social, so that has slightly. helped

  • @everything5066
    @everything5066 4 года назад

    U'm not against you selling your hard work but its just hypocritical of you that you previously criticized people who convince you that you need their product in order to live a better life ...dude your'e doing the same

  • @pedroalejandroorozcoloza6621
    @pedroalejandroorozcoloza6621 4 года назад

    Thank you so much Sam you have brought me so much hope to my life. My therapist doesn't not no how to deal with this old social anxiety problem that I have and I think they my have a bit themselves. I will save money to join your lifetime anti-social anxiety course.

  • @michaelmckoy6181
    @michaelmckoy6181 4 года назад

    Dude tried to hack My Gmail account I wouldn’t buy if I were u idk if it works or not having tried it yet but I got an email form New York New York and it also says that he is posted In New York sounds mighty fishy to me

    • @davis6439
      @davis6439 3 года назад

      The guy lives in New York. He’s not a scam. I bought his program and it works. Buy it. Trust me.

    • @alfieyoull8107
      @alfieyoull8107 Год назад

      @@bdg9997yeah is the website shutdown for you it is for me?

  • @opportunityy.b9997
    @opportunityy.b9997 4 года назад

    Will it feed my Social axity if I just do it and talk to a girl.

  • @umedmalik5494
    @umedmalik5494 4 года назад

    I can’t remember anything that happened in my past but I have social anxiety

    • @effortless4588
      @effortless4588 Год назад

      In a similar situation don't remember too much things

  • @EK03.
    @EK03. 4 года назад

    Looking at this gives me relief in knowing tht there isn’t smth wrong with me

  • @dylam541
    @dylam541 5 лет назад

    Why'd you leave RUclips?

  • @user-qj7hc9gw4d
    @user-qj7hc9gw4d 5 лет назад

    I don't like being in crowds. It just makes me uneasy. If I ever told my gramma she would deny me having social anxiety and yell at me and make things worse so I dont tell her the symptoms that I have and I don't think I ever will. Any advice?

  • @davidx4008
    @davidx4008 5 лет назад

    Im an Introvert but I have high neuroticism which contributes to anxiety. Not talking out of fear is definitely me. Thank you so much for the clear up.

  • @clairespad6036
    @clairespad6036 5 лет назад

    This all seems too good to be true wrapped up in a very suspicious TRAP to prey on DESPERATE people who have been let down by the system only to fall desperately into a trap to line your pockets. If this is real and you really SUFFERED with severe social anxiety why not be up front with costs etc and not try entice desperate people with hope, only to be hit with buy "PHASE 1" now for a reduced offer BUT only if you buy in 15 minutes, I've seen this before years ago, yet there are no independent reviews whether this has helped anyone, so you must have a very good knowledge of how to manipulate reviews etc online, I hope karmas real and it catches up with you, and if i'm wrong, how come you have no bad reviews, even the best things have bad reviews, this must be a very SICK but clever CON. i have desperately suffered from social phobia which has caused a lifetime of isolation and agoraphobia loneliness and let down at every turn now just long for it to end and this just wrong on so many levels. how many phases are there? what makes me really angry as this time i nearly fell for it and i cant afford it i don't work (yes i'm that scum) as i said i cant even leave the house alone, since i left school, do they get more expensive? how much is the entire course? how come you only have 316 subscribers? im assuming because this will be deleted after a while, when people relise and comment negatively to much

  • @clairespad6036
    @clairespad6036 5 лет назад

    how many phases are they and do they get more expensive?

  • @joyalexis8210
    @joyalexis8210 5 лет назад

    This saved my life ❤️

  • @uniqueplayz7979
    @uniqueplayz7979 5 лет назад

    I wish we didn't have to pay 47$ tho😔😑

    • @clairespad6036
      @clairespad6036 5 лет назад

      its 69$ if you don't buy it in the first 15 minutes after sending them your email.

    • @joliearanda6481
      @joliearanda6481 4 года назад

      @@clairespad6036 oh like thats any better

  • @loririchards9211
    @loririchards9211 5 лет назад

    Fucking asshole. Actor. Go fuvk yourself.

  • @bro7496
    @bro7496 5 лет назад

    I need to know if this works, because I would buy this I need this.

    • @davis6439
      @davis6439 3 года назад

      Tsm worked a little, but the full program worked so well. At least for me

  • @Blueberrytree321
    @Blueberrytree321 5 лет назад

    Did tsm phase 1 work for anyone?

  • @shyamalidey4133
    @shyamalidey4133 5 лет назад

    Guys. completely cure your anxiety doesn't need to be hard (I used to feel it did). I'll give you some tips right now. Look for a popular social anxiety secrets called Atoractove Secrets (do a google search). Thanks to it I have eliminated my social anxiety for good by using natural and fast ways. I shouldn't even be speaking about it cause I do not really want lots of other guys out there running exactly the same game but whatever. I'm just in a excellent mood today and so I'll share the wealth lol.

  • @presidentamanda7468
    @presidentamanda7468 5 лет назад

    Sam, I pray to God this works. My social anxiety has literally ruined my life. All of my decisions have been based out of fear, not out of what I actually want. I failed out of college bc I was too scared to talk to anyone at the school about what was going on with me so now I have all of these student loans and nothing to show for it. I need to fix this and fix my life.

  • @JoshuaLangfield
    @JoshuaLangfield 5 лет назад

    Thank you so much Sam. I'm in my 40's and recently learned that my 'shyness' is social anxiety. It's caused problems all my life. After watching this, I now realize I'm also an introvert though too because I love doing everything alone. I do a lot of social things online but I hate actual social, face to face activities. I try to avoid them like the plague. I used to be in bands and dealt with my social anxiety with alcohol. Now I make my own music, alone which I love, being an introvert, but I'd also like to get back on the stage eventually when my music is ready, without alcohol. I am definitely getting your program as soon as I can! Thank you so much!

  • @zoedecantelo3013
    @zoedecantelo3013 5 лет назад

    Anyone want to gift my unemployed student ass the phase 1 😭

  • @arkanhaile5572
    @arkanhaile5572 5 лет назад

    Thank you brother. It’s helpful👍

  • @estarria_05
    @estarria_05 5 лет назад

    *Story* I hate being shy and introverted. So I'm in 6th grade. And we get drama for a few days for two weeks. So one day we went to drama class and we did our normal activities for the class. I normal just stay in my chair afraid to move from my chair. But like 10 minutes before drama ended we played a word game where you just say a word then the person next to you says another word and you go around the circle to make a story. We did that, I was the last person to say a word. I couldn't think of any words and I was preparing myself to say that word. My drama teacher knows I am shy. So she yelled at me to talk like a second after it was my turn so I got embarrassed and I yelled a random word and curled into a ball crying silently. ShE decided to play the game AGAIN. I was last again. Yet again I was peeping prepping myself and thinking of a word. We had to go to our next class thankfully before I said anything. But she then pulled out of the line and got in my face and said these exact words "SHAYLIN I WILL NOT TOLERATE THIS ANYMORE! MRS.C DOESN'T LET YOU GET AWAY WITH NOT TALKING SO I WON'T EITHER!" Mrs. C is my L.A techer and she is helping me achieve a goal of mine so She's cool. But back to drama. So I got so really mad and I was still crying but more. Everyone in my class ( even the boys ) whipped their head around and glared at her. So I was am emotional mess that day. So I'm trying to not be an introvert and have social anxiety. 😖 It sucks.

  • @damonisch5435
    @damonisch5435 6 лет назад

    I’m 14 I was looking for a website to find how to cure my really bad anxiety. So I took my time and read everything on there and it said it was for free. But when I got to the end it cost money. I also can’t get it because I don’t have a card yet and when I get it my mum will see that I bought it because she can see what I get online and I’ve kept my anxiety from everyone I know. Please make it for free

    • @Queen-do4lp
      @Queen-do4lp 5 лет назад

      Did social anxiety ruin your life? Did it take everything away from you? If it didnt its gonna slowly swallow you up and its only gonna get worse as you grow...if you dont even have the courage to tell your parents and face the facts youre not enough determined to get rid of anxiety and dont understand fully well how crazy it'll get...if you wanna live with suicidal thoughts ig you could risk it well good luck

    • @joliearanda6481
      @joliearanda6481 4 года назад

      Let her know you have the anxiety

    • @joliearanda6481
      @joliearanda6481 4 года назад

      @@Queen-do4lp who the fuck are you to tell someone that? Just because youre dealing with those problems and suicidal thoughts dont mean everyone is keep your negativity to yourself and stfu!!

    • @joliearanda6481
      @joliearanda6481 4 года назад

      @@Queen-do4lp anyone can get rid of it if they find and do the right things plus this person is young so hush tf up

    • @opportunityy.b9997
      @opportunityy.b9997 4 года назад

      @@Queen-do4lp that's a SA FEEDER RELYING ON PEOPLE?

  • @dazz_in_the_now
    @dazz_in_the_now 6 лет назад

    Does your programme help someone with more generalized anxiety....I have had social anxiety for 15years and now it tends to tip the scale more at GAD, though of course still have SA?

  • @Emily-ti4ls
    @Emily-ti4ls 6 лет назад

    Wow I've always thought I was introverted but it's just social anxiety, I wanted to listen to your videos but im only 15 and don't have 50dollars

    • @sav2823
      @sav2823 4 года назад

      Same here

  • @sss6269
    @sss6269 6 лет назад

    I really wanna watch your Tsm phase videos and I know it's free for 90 days but my mum won't let me because we need to not waste money and she doesn't trust me. Please make it for free

    • @damonisch5435
      @damonisch5435 6 лет назад

      alexa 6969 I have a problem too I don’t have a card yet but I’m getting one soon. But my mum will see if I get the thing. But I’ve kept my anxiety secret from anyone I know and I don’t want them to find out

    • @sss6269
      @sss6269 6 лет назад

      @@damonisch5435 yeah I thought my friends would use it against me but honestly tell your closest friends because it really helps. And if you just genuinely don't wanna go somewhere with them just tell them it's bc ur anxiety

    • @joliearanda6481
      @joliearanda6481 4 года назад

      @@damonisch5435 its okay dont be ashamed of what youre going through she wont get mad at you she would understand shes your mom she is supposed to love you and accept you no matter what

  • @joanne6161
    @joanne6161 6 лет назад

    Please contact me...I'm suffocating with this disorder

  • @mattjunior7533
    @mattjunior7533 6 лет назад

    just been visiting the site a couple of times and guess what; sam u rock man

  • @Xyz-v9x
    @Xyz-v9x 6 лет назад

    Wish I could afford the program.

    • @venomx7979
      @venomx7979 5 лет назад

      Luna 0 same

    • @deathmetalhellokitty9724
      @deathmetalhellokitty9724 4 года назад

      Its like $70 lol thats cheap

    • @deathmetalhellokitty9724
      @deathmetalhellokitty9724 4 года назад

      @@alainaleete9480 to be frank with you i was looking into this again recently, it's actually a scam . Some good info otherwise i read but its mostly about accepting yourself etc that worked for me.

    • @deathmetalhellokitty9724
      @deathmetalhellokitty9724 4 года назад

      @@alainaleete9480 don't worry about it

    • @joliearanda6481
      @joliearanda6481 4 года назад

      @@deathmetalhellokitty9724 did it work for you?

  • @samanthakuntz7545
    @samanthakuntz7545 6 лет назад

    I'm an introvert and I guess also have social anxiety. And I do say I can't talk to people but I really can't talk like the right words don't come out my face gets bright red and I get so nervous I kinda just shut down. There's a select few that I can actually talk to. I know being an introvert is ok but sometimes I feel like people want me to change. My best friend constantly tells me I have to get out of my bubble make new friends and don't be so nervous. And I think it's really just people like her that I listen to and think that people would like me better if I change.

  • @MegaNicolemarie
    @MegaNicolemarie 6 лет назад

    Very informative