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I am beginning neurofeedback to help with betrayal trauma. it's really helping friends of mine

Where are you at on your healing journey?

Have you ever considered creating a communication group where individuals share their personal experiences regarding the topics in your content...giving ideas and such to one another, or do you reserve the advice/idea giving to your services?

Great points made. My current partner and I have what we call "pillow talk" where we lay out expectations and lay down boundaries. Please keep up this content.

Nice explaination. I'm looking to start my non-monogamy account here soon. I'll likely be using some of your content as reference points.

I really respect this take. It makes great sense. I may ditch it someday, but currently, I find it easier to explain it to ignorant people inherently see it as cheating. I point out the "ethical" component to highlight that it is not cheating because the communication factor of it makes it ethical. To your comparison of not having to qualify monogamy as ethical, people rarely use the term monogamy when referring to monogamous relationships as that is the "status quo". I see most people hear nonmonogamy and their "status quo" understanding of nonmonogamy is cheating. Great points you've made nonetheless. You get a sub from me.

It seems like such a long process, I just want to move on. I can't seem to

Reasons why there is a difference may be because sex is not a right

Are you interested in exploring a spicy club or party?

What questions do you have?

I always have to touch myself while having sex to orgasm 🤷🏻‍♀️

Makes sense, you already ditched the moral way of forming relationships, why not ditch the supposed attempts at being ethical outside of monogamy too?

What do you think about this?

Which of this tips will you start using?

There's nothing ethical about it

Where are you at on your healing journey?

Which question are you most excited to ask your partner?

How often do you hear these things from your partner or do you say them yourself?

Very well articulated. Thanks for sharing! :-)

Cheating say it.....cowards to say

Rubbish

Exactly right

Oh thank heavens! 15 months after the first D-Day and 6 months after the last D-Day (my husband of 30 years, who I now know has been a lifelong porn and sex addict) needed many months to overcome his feelings of shame and guilt and tell me everything). The last few days have been hard for us again because I was completely overwhelmed. Even though these phases lead to more emotional intimacy because my husband tries to be actively by my side, I want more control over my feelings. Thank you very much, I now understand more and already have ideas on how I can implement it.

Nowadays, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

It's been 21 years since D-day. For most part, we have a good marriage and I go on like normal. But there are days, never know when it'll happen but the triggers happen. Like the anniversary of Dday. We do cling to each other but I hate that it still happens. Not always but it'll creep up from time to time

Good points.

That bra looks tight and uncomfortable

This is really helpful. Can we find this chart online somewhere?

How did you deal with the discovery of infidelity in your relationship?

that was my ex boyfriend lol

***The captions are incorrect! This things ARE good for your relationship

How many can you answer?

What other questions would you add?

Thx

Holy moly does that mean that we’re constantly having foreplay once you become sexually active?

I'm in serious trouble. My last sexual encounter was 15 years ago!😮

You have a toxic relationship

Especially don’t say “well you just can’t handle a joke” when the “joke” is mean

If you get a prenup you obviously don't have enough trust in each other

This information helped me understand my partner better and it actually made me cry thinking about what it was like to be him as a child. I feel so bad for him. He's so distant but I know he's a good man. I wish I could break down his walls and see his heart. I wish he would let me in . I just want to love him. I wish he would show me he loves me back.. I know he does but he can't express it. He's so scared to be vulnerable.

how to put them off of apologising

Is this an example where the person that withdraws should communicate that they feel overwhelmed and would like space to process their feelings before continuing the conversation? What should the withdrawn person do when their partner wants to continue the conversation vs honoring the request? Or is there something else that the withdrawn person should be doing during that type of situation?

Thank you for this reminder....I've been mostly focused on my partners side I need to not only be aware of mine ( which I am )...but put it into practice/ change my actions.

Good luck Lauren, people don't like change. They'd much rather blame everything on everybody else, it's easier and let's them maintain this idea that they do no wrong & if you can do no wrong, then why would you want to change?

Bro u look like a 14 jaw and someone who had more plastic surgery that Chloe jenner

Or just do the not toxic thing and leave if they cheat they don't respect the relationship

It’s a topic people don’t talk about a lot. People often go on their religious and moral soapbox and loose their relationships. Often you find out later, that what you had was far better than what’s out there.

Let her stay and just be mean to the new child that looks like her boyfriend .

This is nonsense, you and your partner should be on the same page when it comes to infidelity, and if you both believe it is a complete breach of trust then you should leave, that isn’t the person you want to spend your life with if you can’t even trust them with the most important things