1in6
1in6
  • Видео 364
  • Просмотров 339 302
The Bristlecone Project | Documentary Trailer | 1in6
To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share.
Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org
Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673
Join a weekly online chat support group for male survivors: 1in6.org/support-group-chat
View other male survivor stories: 1in6.org/male-survivor-stories
Request a training about male sexual trauma for service providers: 1in6.org/trainings
Give to help sustain and grow services for men who have experienced sexual abuse or assault: 1in6.org/donate
Like us on Facebook: 1in6org
Follow us on Twitter: ...
Просмотров: 2 942

Видео

I Thought It Was My Fault | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.Год назад
"When I start to replace those insecurities and those negative self-thoughts with reassuring, positive statements...I see change." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: ...
Experiences of Being Sexually Abused | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 5 тыс.Год назад
"He started touching me inappropriately [when I was 6]... It just kind of became something that lasted until I was...17 years old." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline:...
Learning and Growing Through Therapy | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 224Год назад
"[My therapist] definitely put me on the path to understand that it wasn't my fault." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673 Join a weekly online chat supp...
Overcoming Negative Self-Talk | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 324Год назад
"For the longest time, I didn't think I could go to college. I didn't think that I was worth it. I didn't think that I was smart enough." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national hel...
I Confused My Sexuality With My Abuse | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.Год назад
"Now...I realize that those are two separate things, but for the longest time, I confused my sexuality with that experience." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800...
I Feel Like I'm Exactly Where I Should Be | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 424Год назад
"I [had] never really been able to know how happy and rich my life can be even though this experience happened." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673 Joi...
Turning to Alcohol to Numb the Pain | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 348Год назад
"That hurt and that damage [of being sexually abused] was really a driving force to a lot of the [negative] things that happened." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: ...
Disclosing Abuse Earlier in Life | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 306Год назад
"There's so much life to live without that heavy burden." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673 Join a weekly online chat support group for male survivors...
I Feel Unstoppable Sometimes | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 656Год назад
"The sooner you learn... 'Hey, I'm in control,' the more life there is to live." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673 Join a weekly online chat support g...
Processing the Harm Perpetrators Cause | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 254Год назад
"The harm you cause me really is to you because I've already forgiven you for what you've done because I wish you no harm." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-6...
Aunt Hated Me for Talking About My Rape | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.Год назад
"So you already have these situations that are harmful, and then you make me feel like I'm not worth anything." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673 Join...
Responsibility of Testifying in Court | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 510Год назад
"I was being cross-examined, and I just couldn't deal with all the pressure, and I was crying." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673 Join a weekly online...
Not Trusting Men, Uncomfortable Experiences | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 816Год назад
"I had a hard time, like I said, trusting other men. And I experienced a lot of other sort of micro-sexual aggressions." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-...
Rape is a Spiritual Violation | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 466Год назад
"It took me a long time to get back to being one...It was a very traumatizing experience." To help raise awareness around the sexual abuse and assault of boys and men, please like, subscribe, & share. Find information and support related to male sexual abuse and assault: 1in6.org Speak confidentially with a trained advocate through the national helpline: 1-800-656-4673 Join a weekly online chat...
Terrified of Perpetrator in Courtroom | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 951Год назад
Terrified of Perpetrator in Courtroom | Male Sexual Assault
Selectively Mute Because of the Trauma | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 246Год назад
Selectively Mute Because of the Trauma | Male Sexual Assault
Blaming Myself for Parents' Separation | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 79Год назад
Blaming Myself for Parents' Separation | Male Sexual Assault
Many in Court Didn't Believe a Child | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 145Год назад
Many in Court Didn't Believe a Child | Male Sexual Assault
Tics from Stress of a Forced Testimony | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 143Год назад
Tics from Stress of a Forced Testimony | Male Sexual Assault
Spirituality Is The Key To Survival | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 237Год назад
Spirituality Is The Key To Survival | Male Sexual Assault
Recognizing My Perpetrator in a Lineup | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 236Год назад
Recognizing My Perpetrator in a Lineup | Male Sexual Assault
Abuse Hurt My Connection with My Dad | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 414Год назад
Abuse Hurt My Connection with My Dad | Male Sexual Assault
Getting Raped by a Lake, Running for Help | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 7 тыс.Год назад
Getting Raped by a Lake, Running for Help | Male Sexual Abuse
Stopped Taking Responsibility Recently | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 120Год назад
Stopped Taking Responsibility Recently | Male Sexual Assault
Support Group Was A Great Accomplishment | Male Sexual Assault
Просмотров 361Год назад
Support Group Was A Great Accomplishment | Male Sexual Assault
Poem About My Heart Being Transformed | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 274Год назад
Poem About My Heart Being Transformed | Male Sexual Abuse
Ayahuasca, Recovering Memories of Abuse | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.Год назад
Ayahuasca, Recovering Memories of Abuse | Male Sexual Abuse
Abuse Affected My Adult Relationships | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 663Год назад
Abuse Affected My Adult Relationships | Male Sexual Abuse
I Haven't Experienced Shame | Male Sexual Abuse
Просмотров 2,9 тыс.Год назад
I Haven't Experienced Shame | Male Sexual Abuse

Комментарии

  • @JESUSWONTHEWAR
    @JESUSWONTHEWAR 7 дней назад

    I saw his other video. Very sad 😢. Hope youre ok now wherever you are.

  • @JESUSWONTHEWAR
    @JESUSWONTHEWAR 11 дней назад

    So many perverts out there. Hide yo kids hide yo wife!!!

  • @JESUSWONTHEWAR
    @JESUSWONTHEWAR 12 дней назад

    God bless all survivors speaking out, helping millions around the world ❤

  • @JESUSWONTHEWAR
    @JESUSWONTHEWAR 12 дней назад

    My father would beat me up with his fists 👊 ✊️ (im female), thank God he was not like this brave mans dirty father 😢.

  • @JESUSWONTHEWAR
    @JESUSWONTHEWAR 12 дней назад

    So many F'd up families out there😢😢😢😢

  • @TemuulTK
    @TemuulTK 13 дней назад

    Thank you.

  • @TemuulTK
    @TemuulTK 13 дней назад

    You really want to give him a big hug. What a wonderful person.

  • @TemuulTK
    @TemuulTK 13 дней назад

    Wow what a wonderful man! He survived and lived through the most horrific abuse. His father I hope was punished what he did to him!

  • @fredflintstone2234
    @fredflintstone2234 16 дней назад

    Where were the parents??

  • @EvanKilos
    @EvanKilos 25 дней назад

    Jesus

  • @Garfeef
    @Garfeef 27 дней назад

    My abuser used to call me “handsome” and “attractive” a lot, and to this day being called anything to that effect is uncomfortable and puts me in freeze/flight mode. I know that’s stupid to anyone who hasn’t been through that, but my nervous system doesn’t care what anyone else thinks is stupid. It sucks.

  • @stevehaas9515
    @stevehaas9515 29 дней назад

    Thank you sharing your journey. You are an amazing human being.

  • @RobinFaulkner-f3c
    @RobinFaulkner-f3c Месяц назад

    D'Amore Stream

  • @TedHearn-z9y
    @TedHearn-z9y Месяц назад

    Jacobi Squares

  • @ChicagoWest-y2z
    @ChicagoWest-y2z Месяц назад

    I told the truth and now I have no family no friends and it's been 15 years I often wish I would had kept my mouth shut or God would just take me already

  • @meanderingwithmuddypaw
    @meanderingwithmuddypaw Месяц назад

    Wow! What a powerful video! Thank you!

  • @siritaanderson855
    @siritaanderson855 Месяц назад

    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😫😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤🤬😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😖😣😡☹️🙁😣☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

  • @jamesvoiss7122
    @jamesvoiss7122 Месяц назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. I cannot imagine the trauma you endured. Having to carry all that inside you for so long until finding someone who would listen, believe, and support you must have been awful beyond words. I hope your story will help others to grow in awareness, compassion, and commitment to protecting children and vulnerable adults from such predatory behavior. We need to do better.

  • @nicolekemp5422
    @nicolekemp5422 Месяц назад

    Oh my lord I'm so sorry😢

  • @ecliptorcalrissian5014
    @ecliptorcalrissian5014 Месяц назад

    I wish I could hug him. The abuse he suffered at all their hands is horrific. I wish we knew how he got out of it.

  • @ccaruso8293
    @ccaruso8293 Месяц назад

    I’m so sorry

  • @ccaruso8293
    @ccaruso8293 Месяц назад

    I’m sorry you were hurt

  • @CHOPPA78
    @CHOPPA78 Месяц назад

    I need help

  • @CHOPPA78
    @CHOPPA78 Месяц назад

    Id like to hear more about this i used to have an older step brother 5 or 6 years older than me he used to physically bully me in the day and harrass me on a nightly basis to do sexual things to him id allways refuse then he wouldnt leave me alone or let me sleep until i did it i was very young cant remember exactly i think i was about 9 or 10 hed make me belive it was normal but i shouldnt tell anyone about it . I'd moved away from my mums because i had an abusive step dad who used to batter her and me so i begged to go and live with my dad then had that bastard there making me do that then i wanted to go back and live with my mum again which i did but things hadnt changed and i couldnt take it so had to move back to my dads and it all started again ive spent years drinking taking drugs getting into trouble being labeled as the black sheep of the family failed relationships self harm being suicidle , lost my younger brother in 2008 that drove me into more drinking drugs etc , i met some one had a lovely daughter and in 2015 give up drinking drugs , passed my driving test went to college and studied to be a air conditioning engineer things were going good for me well as good as i had ever been then got ill while on family holiday , had life saving major surgery , come home got a deep seated infection spent months in and out of hospital then got told i have crohns ( at 46 ) then diagnosed with blocked artery in my left leg and now cant walk without a crutch ive spent 2 years at home sober and alot of time to think wothout any coping mechanisms ie drink or drugs and its driving me mad to the point that i know i have to do something its so scary but i am becoming more angry every day and realising that that abuse has dictated my life every decision ive made in my life all stems from that bastard , when i came home to my mums when i was young i would bully my younger brother i was horrible to him so when my younger brother died at 28 it hit me so hard the guilt is unbearable im the older brother my family have eventually ghosted me as im the black sheep now who bullied my younger brother and was allways in trouble none of them know what happened to me its dictated my life and im not letting any longer my daughter is 16 now and i am so proud of her . I allways blamed myself then there's the added guilt of not telling anyone about it I suppressed everything for all these years praying that it was just me and that he didn't abuse anyone else but who knows ? I am a man who's never felt like a man allways over trying to be a one never been able to make real friends and now I'm stuck at home disabled stewing evermore on how to move forward , I remembered that my dad even came in to the bedroom one night and saw me in my older brothers bed and walked out and didn't even bat an eyelid what the fuck did he think was going on ? Why didn't he protect me ? Probable more interested in getting back to his drink My child hood was tragic to say the least . Now I'm dealing with all this while trying to get myself better , crohns disease , blocked artery , heart failure , lost my you ger brother my only real confident in life , if I hold on to this any longer I think it will kill me

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 2 месяца назад

    This is so much more common in families , but too many don’t want to know about it. Ppl don’t want to believe a child. It is despicable. This is why victims don’t come forward. It is not ur fault. Pls come forward & keep telling until you find someone who WILL BELIEVE YOU. Blessings to all of you.

  • @josephwalker87
    @josephwalker87 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for your bravery. I have been through sexual abuse and your story resonated with me. Thank you for sharing your story

  • @kellyzavala6867
    @kellyzavala6867 2 месяца назад

    How could let this happen? Then college... luckily I was doing a dangerous thing and I could just.. do do me in this little time and then I could chill out until I could do that again. Like a drug almost. I was nuts, I was nuts. Partied all the time ....crazy all the time... but deep down in there's there's this that that want to just be dead. Always there... always there...

  • @dma124
    @dma124 2 месяца назад

    Isaac, I will forever be haunted by the horror of what happened to you and how it happened. Again, as in an earlier comment, my heart goes out to you. 1in6, my disappointment in you is profound. You refer to Isaac’s account as “sexual assault” when clearly, you should call it what it was. It was RAPE, and a violent, bloody one at that. Stop diluting the crime by simply referring to it as an “assault”. It is RAPE.

  • @dma124
    @dma124 2 месяца назад

    Isaac, you are MORE MAN than your stepfather ever was. My heart goes out to you. You have displayed so much courage and strength in your videos in telling your story. As an abuse survivor myself, I applaud and admire you. Keep up the great work you are doing in your recovery.

  • @haydenhilton-bruce2333
    @haydenhilton-bruce2333 2 месяца назад

    Thank you or sharing. I have been having multiple flashbacks and was starting to think I was mad. I remember so much detail (I can describe the littlest of details - graphically) and it'sconsistent, my psychairist tells me. When the flashbacks started about an earlier incident, it scared me, I thought I lost it, as the details were graphic again. You sharing makes sense to me. It can happen more than once. I'm not going mad. Thank you

  • @dma124
    @dma124 2 месяца назад

    I can’t even begin to tell you how sorry I am that you went through this. I went through a similar horror, but not like yours. Friend, know I’m with you, and you’re in my thoughts..

  • @tellurye
    @tellurye 2 месяца назад

    No one is talking about the elephant in the room: The ONLY reason they are crying is because they thought it was a girl who was molested. If you told them in advance "Hey, we'd like you to read a story about a man who was sexually molested as a boy" not a single one of them would shed a tear. Sure, they would offer some comfort, but no where near if it was a girl. THATS what absolutely disgusts me. And you know it.

  • @elongatedmanforever1252
    @elongatedmanforever1252 2 месяца назад

    People we got to stop beleiving in this lie that only men are bad guys & mistreat women women mistreat men & other women more then we realize Ive seen my cousin get abused By her mom right in front of me, women are equally bad as men & theres no way to Persuade me.

  • @elongatedmanforever1252
    @elongatedmanforever1252 2 месяца назад

    We need to speak out that Women are not the only Victims that exist men & Women are equal Victims of abuse & that the patriarchy Doesn't exist.

  • @truth1653
    @truth1653 2 месяца назад

    What a brave man, i pray God draws you to Himself and saves your soul🙏🙏🙏because that's all that matters in this sin infested cruel world, we'll all soon die and then our real life will start and will continue forever. What that demon meant for evil God can turn for your good...yes even this, sending you much love🙏🙏🙏 Genesis 50:20

  • @aloiskneissl2639
    @aloiskneissl2639 2 месяца назад

    I am really sorry what happend to you🙏 I whish you all the best and if you want to have someone to talk you can write me. You are a great and worthfully man and I am so sorry that you did not get support from the church at this time.

  • @Sparklesissavage
    @Sparklesissavage 3 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry that happened. ❤ we are all here for you 😊I hope you are doing better now

  • @joemarble9202
    @joemarble9202 3 месяца назад

    I like your story❤

  • @siyamthandamayoyo2338
    @siyamthandamayoyo2338 3 месяца назад

    Please know that I truly respect you for speaking out about this. It shows that Male-sexual abuse by women is indeed an occurrence in society

  • @nilsjohnson2636
    @nilsjohnson2636 3 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry. Please know that IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT.

  • @simpleselfhelp
    @simpleselfhelp 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing man

  • @simpleselfhelp
    @simpleselfhelp 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing man

  • @aurenitapedrazzi5036
    @aurenitapedrazzi5036 3 месяца назад

    Your mother was sick and never got any help 😢 unfortunately you were the victim of a sick mind person 😢

  • @carlakeene8383
    @carlakeene8383 3 месяца назад

    Profound...thank you

  • @Evan1060
    @Evan1060 3 месяца назад

    Damn. You are so brave to share this with us. Wishing you love and light and healing.

  • @DavidMcKinney-rc3tr
    @DavidMcKinney-rc3tr 3 месяца назад

    The enemy of our souls thwarts and perverts what GOD has created. Men are supposed to marry and have sex with women.

  • @apaitiamalupo7232
    @apaitiamalupo7232 4 месяца назад

    😢😢😔😔 you're brave I told only my best friends I've never told my family I look up to u mark

  • @apaitiamalupo7232
    @apaitiamalupo7232 4 месяца назад

    Ohh fck😮 finally someone I can relate to I don't remember if I was seven or 8 yrs old....cousin was in high school First night I was molested..I woke feeling someone grabbing n rubbing my bottom...his hands in my pants I was a quiet , bullied , introvert boy...he told me to sshhhh I'm laying there confused Continued for several days then it turned into years...as a kid he'd follow me into the shower while I'm bathing n do weird stuff .. I was so quiet in school, confused Bullied , pushed around but I never cried coz wat was happening at home was worse... I was a loner, introvert..I think my cousin took advantage of that He's married n has a kid I'm n uncle now ...and I'm so overprotective over my nephews n nieces...Hell no, what happened to me ain't gonna happen to them..and I'm gonna make sure it never does happen Moral of the story, Parents try to realise when something is strong with Ur child, sit down in private n ask Ur kid...make them open up there concerns n fears to u.. Coz predators are not only outside...some predators are living right under Ur roof and u don't know it...protect Ur kid

  • @1977seabiscuit
    @1977seabiscuit 4 месяца назад

    Who let's a grown man stay at their home, alone, with their kids? Unbelievable!

  • @ov9226
    @ov9226 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much! I'm glad you overcome your struggles