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The Chocolate Therapist
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Добавлен 7 апр 2019
Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Therapist. I want to take the stigma out of talking about mental health, while helping those who can't afford the services of a therapist. Will aim to post weekly mental health educational videos that talk about many of the problems we all commonly face related to our mental health.
Why Men Should Start Decorating More | Cozy Fall Vlog
There's a sigma against men shopping and decorating, but I'm here to break that stigma. Join me in this cozy fall vlog as I go fall shopping to World Market, Michael's, and Target and decorate my therapy office. Let's start a movement of men shopping and decorating.
0:00 - Man goes shopping for the first time
0:44 - Laying out the plans for this VLOG
1:57 - We’re off to go shopping
4:15 - Shopping at World Market
7:09 - Fall Shopping at World Market
8:40 - Shopping at Target
10:28 - Day 1 of fall shopping is complete
11:41 - Day 2 of decorating my therapy office begins
13:34 - Sorting through my fall decorations
15:38 - Coffee Making Montage
17:21 - Day 2 Plans Cleaning and Decorating my therapy off...
0:00 - Man goes shopping for the first time
0:44 - Laying out the plans for this VLOG
1:57 - We’re off to go shopping
4:15 - Shopping at World Market
7:09 - Fall Shopping at World Market
8:40 - Shopping at Target
10:28 - Day 1 of fall shopping is complete
11:41 - Day 2 of decorating my therapy office begins
13:34 - Sorting through my fall decorations
15:38 - Coffee Making Montage
17:21 - Day 2 Plans Cleaning and Decorating my therapy off...
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Видео
Therapist deep cleans his therapy office | Fall Reset vlog
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My Therapy Office was begging for a much needed deep clean. I made a fun, entertaining, and relaxing vlog that will help motivate to start cleaning whatever nastiness you've been avoiding. Put this on in the background, grab your mop, a bucket, and let's help each other get motivated to tackle whatever cleaning you've been procrastinating getting done. 0:00 - I’ve been a Nasty Therapist 0:31 - ...
Why you can't leave your toxic relationships | Therapist explains Trauma Bonds
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If you’ve ever seen someone who’s obviously in a toxic relationship, and asked yourself “why the hell are they still with them?” Well, that's because they're stuck in a trauma bonded relationship. What does it mean to have a “trauma bond” with someone? Trauma bonding refers to the deep emotional attachment one might feel towards their abuser, it's comparable to Stockholm Syndrome. This video co...
Therapist's crash course on Narcissism | Everything you MUST Know
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Therapist's crash course on Narcissism | Everything you MUST Know
15 Can't Miss Toxic Signs Someone's a Narcissist
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15 Can't Miss Toxic Signs Someone's a Narcissist
The 3 reasons why you're afraid of dying | Death Anxiety
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The 3 reasons why you're afraid of dying | Death Anxiety
Developed feelings for your therapist? Here's how to handle it.
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Developed feelings for your therapist? Here's how to handle it.
Why Male therapist have Sex with female Clients
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Why Male therapist have Sex with female Clients
The brutal reality of being a new content creator
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The brutal reality of being a new content creator
It took me 3 years to make .70 cents on YouTube. Here’s what I learned.
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It took me 3 years to make .70 cents on RUclips. Here’s what I learned.
How therapy exposes your craziness | Transference
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How therapy exposes your craziness | Transference
How to guarantee you regret your life
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How to guarantee you regret your life
The Secret to a Fulfilling Life | Concept: Life's Challenge
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The Secret to a Fulfilling Life | Concept: Life's Challenge
The cure for your fear of dying. | Death Anxiety.
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The cure for your fear of dying. | Death Anxiety.
The Psychology of the Lonely Single Male
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The Psychology of the Lonely Single Male
Best EMDR Tappers for EMDR Therapy and Bi-lateral stimulation.
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Best EMDR Tappers for EMDR Therapy and Bi-lateral stimulation.
Why you aren’t aware of your depression | Concept: Double Despair
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Why you aren’t aware of your depression | Concept: Double Despair
How EMDR Works | EMDR Therapy Demonstration and step-by-step walk through
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How EMDR Works | EMDR Therapy Demonstration and step-by-step walk through
I Learned EMDR Therapy in 5 Days | Best EMDR training program
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I Learned EMDR Therapy in 5 Days | Best EMDR training program
How to spot a good therapist? | Concept: Therapeutic Eros
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How to spot a good therapist? | Concept: Therapeutic Eros
Why Women want to sleep with their male therapist?
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Why Women want to sleep with their male therapist?
How to be happier in one step (Zero BS)
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How to be happier in one step (Zero BS)
Black man goes camping for the first time (it goes horribly wrong)
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Black man goes camping for the first time (it goes horribly wrong)
You’re going to die, might as well live a good life | Concept: Trivializing Life’s Trivialities
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You’re going to die, might as well live a good life | Concept: Trivializing Life’s Trivialities
Therapy, the world's loneliest profession.
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Therapy, the world's loneliest profession.
The Good Kind of Anxiety | Life Anxiety
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The Good Kind of Anxiety | Life Anxiety
Why your therapist wants to f*ck you. | Counter Transference
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Why your therapist wants to f*ck you. | Counter Transference
The Therapy YouTube space is dominated by white women.
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The Therapy RUclips space is dominated by white women.
Since one must possess a brain in order to have a psychological makeup, there is no psychology to leftism.
All you're missing now, is a couple of kids and the mini-van, with the dogs.
Great video, I wish it will help me to live better life. cheers from Poland.
Your content is terrific. You’re gonna go far
I hope so, been really trying to bring it this year. I appreciate the love!!!
My whole life I’ve been looking for this video
Fellow f*ckboy? Also this is one of my favorite videos I’ve ever made.
This is fucked up 😂!
lol, it’s real tho
@@TheChocolateTherapist for real ??
@@richardduiventil Yeah, therapist sleeping with their clients is the number one ethical violation that results in therapist losing their license. It happens way more than I was aware of after I did the research for this video.
@@TheChocolateTherapist Of course in real life this is a serious conflict of interest and indeed a breach of essential trust needed for the therapeutic relationship.
I’m cackling 😆
Anyone who’s done EMDR knows lol
Chocoholics lol Miss you and hope you are well. -Michaela
I was thinking about you today! I’m doing well. I hope you’re doing well yourself.
will you ever make a vid on your experience at the va? i was planning on working with vets after schooling is finished but no one ever speaks on it
This is a good idea, I’ll have to make a video on this! Never thought about it.
And nearly all of them and their kids own guns 😳
Thank you for this video, sincerely. My grandpa, who lived with us for my entire life so far, died 3 months ago. This has made me think about death more than ever before. When I was around 11, I also had death anxiety, but that somehow went away and I never gave it a second thought ever again. But now, I panic every single night before going to sleep, pondering on my own mortality and of course, the fact that my grandpa is no longer here. Sometimes I'm afraid that I am in fact too self aware, thinking too logically about existence as a whole and that after all, there is no meaning on a larger scale. And although there also isn't a logical explanation for the existence of existence either, and the fact that I've seen and felt the spirits of loved ones before, I can't get myself to believe in anything either. It's like I've dissacotiated and already feel as if death is directly upon me, although I'm only 20. Neither am I fully alive, nor fully dead; I'm sort of just waiting. But this video just helped me a little, you just reminded me that I gotta start actually living again. Plus, you've got some great humor, made me laugh a lot - you've earned yourself a new subscriber.
Thanks for subscribing, but more importantly thanks for leaving such a well written comment out sharing a part of yourself. Condolences to you for the loss of your grandfather. Glad I was able to help you realize that you needed to start living again. Glad the video resonated and made you laugh. Death anxiety can be overwhelming, but it seems like you’re working through it pretty well. Good luck
@@TheChocolateTherapist Thank you very much. The biggest issue are thought loops. Sometimes it's like I'm going completely insane, panicking, anxious, etc. And then on other days, it's completely fine. This I have absolutely no idea how to resolve. But I wish you the best of luck as well. One thing is for certain, my grandpa would want me to keep living, to continue his legacy. This is what he told me, and this is what I will do.
Its called Thanatophobia 2:44
Bi Polar is the stem of why I have death anxiety 0:46 I'm healed from that now. 0:54
thankyou❤❤😊
T’was my pleasure
Facts: I am also a therapist because I am a nosey person. I live for the tea. Pay me and tell me all the juicy.
Yep, I'm impatient, I should have waited until the end.
Preparation for this video: a year 😂 bro this is not a YT Video, this is a whole movie 🎉 awesome work!
lol, I appreciate you seeing the effort that went into this video. It literally took me a couple of months to make this video. I’m proud of it, but it also made me realize that I gotta change my process if I’m going to make it on RUclips. Thanks for the acknowledgment tho!
mine just randomly came from a life run game
Chocoholics is cool
That makes two votes for Chocoholics.
Would you do a video on how you prep for your sessions? Also maybe videos on how your sessions go and how you take notes? What is your therapeutic approach, or do you have several?
Put this on my to-do list! I did have the idea of doing a day in the life of a therapist video, that would cover a lot of the things you requested. My therapy approach is existential/trauma based. Irvin yalom is a huge influence, I also do EMDR, and am learning IFS therapy right now to use that.
@@TheChocolateTherapist I look forward to seeing the video. I am fairly new to the counseling field and am working on my skills in SFBT and CBT. Your videos are great! You have a great sense of humor and very informative content. Keep making videos, you are very skilled in this area for sure.
@@Fraynkee40 thank you, I needed to hear this. Been kinda down about the way my videos have been preforming. Always helps to hear that people think they’re good and like them! Thanks.
Nicely said.
Thanks
Chocolate! RUclips keeps blocking my comments!
Really!? I wonder why?
@@TheChocolateTherapist IDK!! I tried to leave comments twice on your last video ( nice comments, of course), Trauma Bonding, nothing. Check and see if you turned comments off by mistake!
@@livinglargecoachingcounseling I always look forward to your comments, so this sucks. Will double check!
This video is great and I went out to get these joysticks as a better way to use EMDR with my clients! Thank you so much. I am a new practice in the east valley!
@@LauraHogan-Kobar glad my video helped. And welcome to the private practice family! Thanks for leaving the comment letting me know I was helpful.
I love this video! You’re so funny 😅 Just a little PSA - it’s Folex lol Also, I like the chocoholics ❤
What about a female therapist and you have a male patient that makes sexual comments and seems to want to have sex with you ..
@@zsazsalapree6524 I have a video called “Why you want to f*ck your therapist.” That goes over this.
@@zsazsalapree6524 here’s the link to the video ruclips.net/video/5zFj-0juAKg/видео.htmlsi=eI8edxEIco3rNtsY
So they are emotionally immature and compensate by controlling the outside world rather than facing the reality of who they are. 🤔
Nailed it!
Great vid!!!
I cringe at my older videos, glad it still was helpful in some way!
This shit is psychotic and fucks up people brains😂
W ok w, are they war criminals or the worst criminals 🤔
stockholm syndrome was invented by the police to discredit victims who said the people who took them hostage were more empathetic than the cops
You learn something new everyday.
Humph.... Women!
Really really appreciate this as narcissists get such bad light constantly shed. Though they do have bad/terrible behavior traits, knowing the root of the issues helps to grow compassion toward them as a person and not just a label.
It’s tricky, there’s a part of me that has compassion and understands why narcissist end up this way. And then there’s a part of me that knows that that compassion will be taken advantage of by narcissist.
When I witnessed his cognitive empathy, the mirroring of others around him... the nausea wouldnt stop........ their empathy is "mirroring". Just caused me to feel sick inside.
Once you see it, you can’t unsee it
@@TheChocolateTherapist simply isn't enough bleach in the word to disinfect the images of such darknesses.... NO CONTACT 100% ❤️
Facts. Do not get confused..... non-narcs cannot alleviate their brokeness. Walk away. Not to be uncaring....... they cannot change. Stop allowing NPD to destroy your best life. The narc already has "side supplies". NO CONTACT. 100%
Last week session w/ my therapist she came out of leaft field admitted to hosting sex parties and then suggested I try something along the same lines. Not sure where she was trying to go w/ the convo but I just felt like she was coming on to me. What’s your opinion?
I’m rarely surprised about what I hear therapist say or do to their clients. This is wild tho. I’m all for therapist self-disclosure when it’s helpful, but this just confused you, and made you think your therapist had ulterior motives. At best this was your therapist trying to give you a very misguided helpful suggestion, at worst they were planting a seed and grooming you towards being open to the idea of come to their sex parties. There’s a huge delta in between those two options. Overall you need clarity, so you should (if you feel comfortable) talk to your therapist about it, if it’s effecting your relationship with them in anyway. Hope this helps.
@@TheChocolateTherapist thank you for the well thought out response. I appreciate the content you are creating. Stay blessed!
Thank you. I know someone who may be this and it is very hard to understand and difficult to help or support them.
Unfortunately the chances of a narcissists changing is very slim, you could give all the well meaning support in the world and it still wouldn’t be enough. Be careful, I respect your intentions and desire to support, but know that it can be used against with a true narcissists.
This sounds like hardcore democrats description too
Correct, Maga is low hanging fruit.
Thanks my man this really helped me i will change how i live from now on i will go to the gym more and try to become a strongman and live better.
So glad to hear this, thanks for taking the time to tell me I was able to have an impact on you!
First!
More like only lol
I dont know why but this is making me feel so weird i want to die just to know if there is something after life but yet im afraid there is nothing
Thank You Sir
No worries, I got your back!
This video was so understanding I can’t believe I listen to the whole thing , I’ve shed tears through most of it . I’m so deep in my thoughts it actually makes me sick to my stomach. I’ve been having death anxiety for 2 weeks now I even took time off work to try to get my head back on track I’ve always thought I was alone I hope I find a way to cure this well all of us 🙏🏽 thank you for this amazing video
Thanks for taking the time to leave this amazing comment. Death anxiety is overwhelming, but things will get better. Listen to what it’s trying to say about how you’re living life, make some adjustments. You’re not alone in this, everyone will go through this at some point in their life. Mine was on my 30th birthday. Hope the video helped to give you some answers
Wow something that i was looking for . Anyone know about app on Android for it ??
But the Thearpist KNOWS the client, countertransference is different because you can’t say “but you don’t really know them” so how is that different than them having an actual emotional attachment.
I need more context to answer your question. It’s been a while since I watched this video so I’m not sure which part you disagree with?
@@TheChocolateTherapist I don’t disagree:) I was curious of how does the thearpist know it’s isn’t present and they have an emotional attachment instead of it being something from their past.
I experimented and read everywhere that narcissist CAN'T LOVE. "SHE" EVEN GET AGGRESSIV WHEN I TELL "HER" THAT I LOVE HER!
Sounds like you’re in a difficult relationship. Narcissists tend to only be capable of love when it’s serve their own greater good. They’re very transactional.
Didn't know this and got way too deep!
I’m Sorry and happy and the same time
best therapist right here 🎉
Thanks fam!
Thank you so much for confirming the very obvious lmfao. I guess women know all these very well.
That’s psychology in a nutshell. Shining a light on very obvious things that doesn’t really surprise us once we actually learn it.
@@TheChocolateTherapist it's more about shining on grotesque in a society where we allegedly all have freedom and free speech but it is a stinky prison in real life for those who are not able to overcome the obvious stupidity. We all see the obvious, therapy supposed to help on weakness what most develop. And most of those people are not the ones with 2 x chromosomes in current society.
Im excited to watch this video but a little aftaid tbh. I have been in a spiral about the afterlife ...the fear of ceasing to exist ...or the fear of being unconscious...i realize this is the root of my wanting to be a Christian ...the hopes of an afterlife but religion also fuels my scrupulosity....ughhh its like can i truly escape or overcome this fear when no one has experienced dying and truly knows whats to come 😢
Everything you said truly resonated with me, and is something I went through, and continue to go through. I think the source of my own anxiety came when I really started to question the validity of my Christian beliefs. With that being questioned, the source of my comfort started to crumble. I’ve evolved to still being a Christian, but also striving to live the best life I possibly can, so I don’t regret how I lived on my deathbed. Phone the video was able to help is any kind of way.
@@TheChocolateTherapist thank you so much 🙏
Y ue momma don't like u