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I had 500+ children - over the course of my elementary career. Was never dumb enough to sign marriage contract in USA. Two years from retiring at age 59, you couldnt PAY ME to date any woman over the age of 40. I would only consider starting family abroad with young fertile healthy woman - and even then probably not.

Between the ages of 17 and 30, they embraced a 'Fun and the City' lifestyle-casually dating guys like Chad, Bryce, and Tyrone, or sometimes divorcing a good guy without clear reasons. Notably, around 90% of divorces initiated by college-educated women are filed by the wife. By age 30, though, they struggled to find a man willing to commit, as times have changed and men are more cautious about marriage, especially to women over age 30 - compared to the 1990s. For context, I'm a 59-year-old man and frequently get attention from younger women, even those in their early 20s. Just last week, an attractive, educated 23-year-old expressed her interest in me in several ways. Just sharing a reality check. Its our turn now. 😊

Thanks for the helpful video!

I'm 35 and single. My only relationship ended years ago and since then have not been able to get myself back on track. I don't miss him and I would never want to get back together, but I can't seem to get my life on track or on a steady path since my last relationship. I can't keep a job because I realised that I'm simply not happy. Single and childless at 35 and the my dream of having children and being married is just getting further and further away from me. I simply can't make my peace with it. My cousin is my age and is married with a one year old and another on the way and I'm jealous, it's sad but I am. She made it just in time. How do you make peace with something that makes you so angry and possibly depressed?

The childfree AND the childless by choice can agree with this lady

Love ur channel going through childless grief moment...new by linking in to ur channel I wouldn't feel alone ❤❤❤

Great video. I'm thinking about buying a house soon, and it's terrifying to think about doing it alone. I grew up with a single mom who was a housing inspector for the city I live in, so I'm fortunate to have her and to have gleaned a lot of knowledge from her over the years. We did so many crazy projects growing up, including knocking down a wall to build a closet. My mom is a rockstar.

I have felt that recently about my job that I am too old😅....I think holidays can be.really hard si enjoy ur posts xxxfrom northern ireland

I must say Miss, thats very brave of you. Leaving youself open to get roasted in comments and such. I have to say as a 50 yo single guy....yikes! Nothing personal, i perfer single. Constructive criticism? If you can handle it? You come off kinda aggressive, like a prosecuter. But, what do i know? Lol Im just some dude from Philly. 😂🤣 Hope everything works out For you Miss. ✌️😎

Gavin is so precious omg

I don’t really see how any of this is unique to a single person. All of this stuff has to be done whether you’re single or have a spouse. Or is this mainly targeted towards women who would normally have a man to cover this stuff?

Love ur channel really hope it keeps growing

Marriage has worked for generations, why on earth would you dismiss it now? Perhaps it would make more sense to fix it.

God gave us value by making us and setting us on the earth as we are. People might question what we're doing and how we're doing it, but that doesn't take away from the fact God knew we'd be right where we are right now and He finds us valuable. Every role comes with challenges and blessings <3 We all deserve respect!

Your right, it's so weird and hypocritical what he is doing. Posing with a fake family. Pictures with supporters don't look like that.

Lovef gavin this morning super super pleased u channel is growing..have u ever done a post on making new friends as this can be tricky

My dog passed away when both of my cousins found out they were pregnant. The amount of grief I have is almost unbearable. My life has been completely changed and I have no clue how to live it. This channel has been a godsend. No one understands my depression with life.

This is invaluable 🥹

This was brill very diverse and gave .e practical ideas❤

Hi, new sub here. You are so right on point. I struggled with many losses and fertility treatments for 9 years. It took a huge toll on my health and finances. So when we finally were blessed with a child it surely changed my life. Now I’m much older than you, 58 and have had two hip replacements and 4 dislocations. I am really having a hard time and feel sometimes I’m ruining my child’s life. I haven’t exercised for a very long time! I am trying to schedule pelvic floor therapy. Quite embarrassed of my body right now but I am trying my best with diet, like you trying to have lots of protein. It’s been easier than I thought but need to push myself to just go for the therapy. It’s so hard to know it will increase my pain, but I think it will benefit in the future. Thanks, for all the tips! Very helpful and positive, love it! You’re right about the future. Even though I have a child I can’t expect her to take care of me and my unhealthy body. All I can do at this point is try my best. Like your puppy! My daughter wants a dog so bad she can taste it. We haven’t gotten one because I can’t take care of it while she’s in school all day and you know kids don’t want to clean up after themselves, I think I would be fussing at her all the time about a puppy. I know it would completely help her mentally but I just don’t know. Do you have any suggestions? I didn’t grow up with pets so I want to be sure. Thank you, for the great vlog. Wishing you all the best, L

Kids are too expensive! That’s committing financial suicide. You’ll never be able to retire at 62 and enjoy life.

Love this I think Saturdays seem to b for perfect families but I train I go running the hang out with .my digs I love it...I l9ve drining with my dogs in car

Your home looks adorable :)

I'd like to know what your friendships are like 👍. As someone without kids, I feel like I am left out and now I have gotten to where I do alot alone.

I'm a single guy with no children. Single guys are always pariahs in society, I'm waiting for a bachelor tax. I was married in my 20's, I wanted children she didn't, so we didn't have any . She found a new guy(got pregnant by him had twins lol) , we divorced at 30(obviously) and as a man I found dating online impossible and gave up trying years ago. I didn't want this, but dating is dead so I just do my own thing just like all the guys I know. I've worked many holidays , almost all of them, because "You don't have a family like X does" . Got the police called on my for watching my friends kids(some of my friends are single dads so I have a supply of children to have fun with and watch grow, they are my family) At least as a women you don't get the "creepy single guy living in that big house all by himself" look.. I'm not going to like it when I get old, old men are treated very badly, while young men are treated with suspicion. So be glad you aren't a single guy, cause being called a child less cat lady is way way better than having the police called on you for "looking at children"...

The MAGA party is trying to vilify women who don't have kids, just like they do with every other group they went after. They put people in danger, and they are irresponsible. They are anything but humble.

Single and childless "not by choice," huh? Well, ma'am, you could easily find a husband if you just lowered your standards and realized that the 99% of men you deem as "not people" actually do exist. Date a bald man. God.... and of course you have a giant dog.

I dont think she was talking about all women. I think she was specifically talking about a highly narcissistic woman, Kamala Harris. Why are you reading so much into this.

Subscribing as I just found your channel and loved this level-headed dialogue. So rare these days. Thank you so much. Love your dog, too. Keep up the good work!

It's very irritating that the 'Go forth and mutiply' instruction seems to be the only thing these so-called christians pick out so readily, then so easily forget hundreds of other really good ones. These same morons will then call those very kids cowards when they don't want to participate in war. There was this photo captured by Voyger I : "I tiny spec of dust in a sunbeam", I think all of humanity should take a gander, then think hard. Is the only way the word 'arrogance' is going to become redundant. Subscribed cause your dog has epically cool name, not because I also happen to be single and childless, although very much by choice.

I love the colors of fall and Christmas.

Sarah is not humbled enough it seems, and she should be grateful for her life that spared her the grief instead of using her children as tools to push a tonedeaf narrative.

Well stated Truths. Sarah Huckabee Sanders is talking 💩 and it is hurtful to so many without a choice.

Agree! Thanks for using your powerful voice to stand up for others!

That is hysterical those pics of gavin

Awful thing to say ....its like in uk when there was election for prime minister...one candidate said as a mother she was best placed to wi ...her opponent was childless...but she won❤

I don't live in usa so not terribly in to election but this is my favourite channel really glad it is growing it is a real gem so relevant and love ur delivery ...ur just so real

Your being too kind to Sarah ❤ So angry and tired of this narrative from Republicans. Glad that people are calling her out on what she said.

Congrats on your growing channel, I enjoy watching day in the life videos 🙂

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Howxis your building your channel going

My happiest thing .. In the world is driving along with my two dogs in the back seat....Best company ever

I am sure if Gavin is anything like my dog was he just wanted to spend time with me so going on long car rides (most for us was 5 hours though 🙂) was guaranteed pup and mahm time. Only suggestion to stop him tipping his food/water over is to change the bowl to wide base with the flange down. In my experience, it is impossible for them to tip that type of bowl over especially if they have a rimmed rubber bottom.

Men think with their second head. Then they regret.

I hoped you'd talk about this. I find this whole thing incredibly hurtful. Side note: I hope you'll do another Sonder Social soon.

My fav thing is driving along in my old car with two collies aka fur babies in the back seat❤❤❤❤😂

Just know that men feel this too... it's literally going to drive me insane, it happened in an instant too ! The realisation, that I'm grieving people who have never, and will potentially never exist. A life missed, its too much...

Nice video. Thank you for your testimony. It might help some young women who can learn from your experience. It's crazy how the 30 to 40 decade goes by so quickly. Anyway, there are still many ways to transmit even without children and this channel is a nice example.

Thank you for this video and this channel! Finally somebody who created a channel for us, people single and childless not by choice. It takes a lot of courage and reflection to do what you are doing. Thank you so much for sharing your tips with us! I am a thirtyish woman single and childless not by choice and I try to navigate through life the best I can. I keep myself busy by doing things I like (book clubs, events, living abroad, etc.). I try to set myself goals to overcome my fears and reach milestones. I also want to stay healthy and I learned to manage my finance, because I know that I will probably rely on myself when I grow old. New subscriber here!

His comments are ridiculous...i work with women 8n early 30s.. I am 59... Of my generation that was expectation wifehood and babies Young women today absolutely not they want their own lives...just rite❤