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The Childfree Couple
Великобритания
Добавлен 18 авг 2020
We are a childfree by choice couple. We host podcasts to discuss this topic in depth.
Email Us at - TheChildfreeCouple@duck.com or childfreebychoice@duck.com to be a guest on our podcast
Welcome to our channel where we discuss about being #childfree and #childfreebychoice !
Join us, on a flavorful adventure as we embrace the #childfreelifestyle while celebrating the richness of our diverse cultural backgrounds.
We take you along on our life adventures.
Experience the ups and downs, joys and challenges of our life as a multicultural couple. Join us in candid conversations about Childfree by Choice topic on our podcast. Whether you're a fellow #childfree or someone who simply loves a good story, we invite you to be part of our channel.
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Email Us at - TheChildfreeCouple@duck.com or childfreebychoice@duck.com to be a guest on our podcast
Welcome to our channel where we discuss about being #childfree and #childfreebychoice !
Join us, on a flavorful adventure as we embrace the #childfreelifestyle while celebrating the richness of our diverse cultural backgrounds.
We take you along on our life adventures.
Experience the ups and downs, joys and challenges of our life as a multicultural couple. Join us in candid conversations about Childfree by Choice topic on our podcast. Whether you're a fellow #childfree or someone who simply loves a good story, we invite you to be part of our channel.
#childfree #childfreebychoice #youtube #youtubechannel #youtubecouples #youtubepodcast #youtubepodcasters #youtubepodcasts #podcaster #podcasters #childfreelifestyle #childfreelife #thechildfreecouple
What's the Real Reason Behind Antinatalism?
What's the Real Reason Behind Antinatalism?
Antinatalism, the belief that it is unethical to have children, is based on the idea that life inevitably involves suffering.
Antinatalists argue that bringing a child into the world is a harm because it exposes them to potential suffering, even if their life is ultimately positive.
They believe that it is morally wrong to create a being who will experience pain, loss, and ultimately death.
Some antinatalists point to the uncertainty of life, arguing that there is no guarantee that a child's life will be happy or fulfilling.
They believe that it is better to avoid the risk of creating a life that may be full of suffering.
Others focus on the inher...
Antinatalism, the belief that it is unethical to have children, is based on the idea that life inevitably involves suffering.
Antinatalists argue that bringing a child into the world is a harm because it exposes them to potential suffering, even if their life is ultimately positive.
They believe that it is morally wrong to create a being who will experience pain, loss, and ultimately death.
Some antinatalists point to the uncertainty of life, arguing that there is no guarantee that a child's life will be happy or fulfilling.
They believe that it is better to avoid the risk of creating a life that may be full of suffering.
Others focus on the inher...
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Elon musk talks bullshit. I think he is not aware of ground reality or the struggles of common man
Well said Yen. You spoke my mind. Well written. Atleast this can Spark Childfree idea in some people.
Thank you 😊 I hope so too. Please share this on your social media platforms. 👍
❤❤❤wow...
Absolutely brilliant
I’m 40 years old, single/unmarried and childfree all by choice. I get to be my true authentic self.
@@chadguindon6909 excellent..... Congratulations 🎉 and happy for you 😊
Well then, that is me. I am single/unmarried and childfree all by choice.
Happy Happy Happy ☺️
Rightly Said Yen. Happy to see these kind of awakening posts.
@@Fan-zx1lz thank you for your encouragement 😊
Agreed ❤🎉😂
▶️➡️ We discuss this topic in-depth. Check out this Playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLlBsfvoZ4OjeXT_fQ10zAV2A3GCRHss9q
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▶️➡️ We discuss this topic in-depth. Check out this Playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLlBsfvoZ4OjeXT_fQ10zAV2A3GCRHss9q
#childfreelife #nokidsforme #childfreeandhappy #childfreeandlovingit #childfree #childfreebychoice #nokids #children #population #dink #sink #childfreelifestyle #thechildfreecouple #childfreeMillennial #childfreeMillennials
Reducing population is unacceptable because it means lesser consumers and customers. It means lesser people to control and manipulate. So the onus to make it happen is 💯 on every individual only. No corporation or politician wants lower population for the above reasons 😊
india is not so developed as USA so it will be difficult for nursing.
@@ppurabidash8659 yes. But whether you have children or not ageing is going to happen and there are many situations where old people have to experience it by themselves. There a lot of old people living by themselves. It's really not a big deal
I agree with you.But my question is when one of us will not be here in life then with whom we can share our emotion to our own.we need emotional dependency.That i am scared about it.Otherwise I am very happy with my child free life.
@@ppurabidash8659 Live life in the present. I wouldn't make decisions based on fear. Live for your highest excitement Now. What's meant to happen is already happening and will automatically happen in the future. Worrying is not going to change anything. 99% of our worries never come true 😊
Yes. What does the word autopilot mean by the way?
acting or functioning without conscious thought, as a result of routine or habit. example "he was practically on autopilot"
No guarantee that offspring wil take care of their parents. Plenty of old folks with kids rotting away in old folks homes without ever any visits from their progeniture
@@niqjaw5009 yup
@@niqjaw5009 in fact the expectation itself is a problem.
Yes🎉❤😊
Hello Sir. I am childfree bu choice but feeling of scared to be alone at old age. When i will see others have their own one and i would be alone at house or society. How to overcome this fear please guide and suggest.
The answer to your question is in this video ruclips.net/video/m-HkI8vxhcw/видео.html
SAME HERE, DEAR 😂🎉❤
We Speak with a lot of people on the topic of being childfree by choice. ▶➡ Check out this Playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLlBsfvoZ4OjeXT_fQ10zAV2A3GCRHss9q
Ach ye he jo bhdka rha he youth ko😅😅😅
Thankyou so much for sharing this!
You are welcome! 😊
Is this true? Are childfree people less depressed or anxious than those with children? Im seeing the opposite in research literature.
Being anxious or depressed is possible in any circumstances of life. Because it's a mind game. Even the rich and famous get anxious or depressed, and at the same time someone who's an average Joe can be happy and satisfied with his life. So Being Childfree doesn't change anything except for the stress of the parenting aspect of life. Now this depends on the individual if he or she considers parenting depressing or not.
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE So you basically are saying nothing? That anyone can be depressed or anxious? Thats obviously true but we do have a thing called science. They can take large samples of people and study them. From those studies they can draw conclusions about certain behaviors in life which may lead to certain pathologies.
You really think parenting is not going to add an extra layer of stress 🤔
If you are convinced that parenting is the right choice for you, then you really should go ahead and do it. 👍
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE I already have and I intend on having more children! I have a daughter who is 3 and a son who is 1. They are the most amazing people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. Each day they become more intelligent and their personalities becomes more rich.
Thank you Tee for your courage to speak about this topic. You are brave enough to speak about this.
@@Fan-zx1lz I enjoyed speaking with Tee
@THECHILDFREECOUPLE Yen you should change the questions asking. And also don't too much question it is not good
I'm sorry I didn't understand. Do you mean ask lesser questions?
I wish your channel grow multifold ...
@@zenmoments2644 ❤️ Thanks a lot. Please share the videos on your WhatsApp Instagram or Facebook too 😊
This is a growing choice of lifestyle globally. We speak with people from all over the world on this topic. Check out some of our discussions with people who are childfree by choice on my RUclips channel www.youtube.com/@thechildfreecouple
A baby sibling at 17 and 22, a responsibility she had no choice in.. This girl knows what she's talking about!
Yup. I loved her story and clarity of thoughts.
100% agree
Because child bearing is a purely selfish act. It comes from the fact that people need pure beings like animals and children to lighten up their empty brooding lives and then pretend for the remainder of their lives as if it was all a selfless act. The poor child has no say at all.
How can you know that without ever having had children? I believe my overall sense of well-being is greatly enhanced by having children.
@@HowlingFantods because it's natural that if I have a child or children.... There's automatically a lot of extra work and effort that I will need to put in. But without having a child I get a lot of time for myself and a lot of freedom. That improves my overall well-being. 😊
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE So freedom in your mind means lack of work and effort? Was Michelangelo less free than you because he had to complete the Sistine Chapel or statue of David? Was Mozart less free than you because of his compositions? Im sure those things took a tremendous amount of extra work and effort. It seems like to you, a life well lived is one which you are required to do nothing difficult so you can relax more, maybe travel or consume more.
They did it out of their passions... Not out of the stress and fear that they're accountable for their children's needs
What's so wrong about wanting to relax 🤔 if you enjoy working then do it 😊 if I enjoy relaxing is it wrong?
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE You know how they felt? You think passionate people do not experience a tremendous amount of stress or fear in relation to their passions?
It's good to be human = 1. There is food 2. Physically healthy 3. Long life 4. Have a family 5. There is a nice place to live 6. Honest Man 7. Mutual tolerance 8. Enter heaven 9. Get sustenance. 10. Peace with people. 11. Have leaders who support the people. Etc It's not good to be human = 1. Hunger (not having food) 2. Sometimes you feel pain, there are those who have special needs, there are those who can't see, can't hear, can't speak, etc., there are those who are seriously ill = stroke, cancer, etc., there are those who have lost limbs, etc. 3. One day died 4. There are those who don't have a family 5. There are those who don't have a place to live or have a bad place to live 6. People cheated 7. SARA racists (ethnicity, religion, race and culture), other racists. 8. Go to hell 9. You have to work if you want to have wealth 10. Being insulted by people (or insulting people) 11. Having a leader who doesn't support the people Etc. Therefore I decided not to have children. There's something wrong with being human. Maybe my child experienced something bad like that. Yes, even though there are good things about being human, I still don't have children. Please convey to others the reality, there are good things about being human and there are bad things about being human
I think it’s a great life right up until your other half dies. Then you have no one left. I see it in my aunt. She just lost her husband and she is lucky to have me. Without me she would have no one left in her family.
Partially true. Because life can be enjoyed/ lived / experienced by picking up a New hobby. Being busy with things that gives Joy and happiness. It's actually a choice. It can be good and happy if the highest excitement is pursued on a daily basis
Ability to come home to be welcomed by ....quiet!
My 10th reason to be childfree is that I’m too old now (40 years old) to have children. I worry about the quality of my sperm because there are some risks.
Yup higher risks..... Did you consider getting a Vasectomy done?
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE I have but I realize that I don’t need to because I’m celibate and have been for 5 years now.
Thank you so much for inviting us to have this conversation. We really enjoyed talking to you both! And such an important topic to bring more attention to 🙌
@@ChildFreeTravelers thank you for sharing your story with us. It was fun talking with both of you 😊 I look forward to reading your posts about your travels 😊
Why do the quality off this video feels like it comes from 2010?
Which aspect of it? 🤔
I have two kids and barely anytime to myself. So time is on ur side if you are child free
I cannot imagine being a parent.
The background is so cool with the wine glass.. gonna be a great video ❤
I think so too! I said it to them during our discussion 😊
Awww thanks so much! I hope you enjoyed watching this conversation!
11:14 This is such a selfish way of thinking about marriage. All relationships go through periods of time in which one party is receiving more than contributing or vice versa. If your mentality about any relationship is, "I'm going to use this thing so long as it is good for me" is sociopathic and will ensure you have zero successful, long term relationships.
That's just your perception..... Just like what's being discussed in this video is just our perception. Maybe you'll agree that everyone has a right to have a perception.
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE Sure. Everyone can have their own perception, their own observations and conclusions about the world around them. Obviously. Does that mean each perception, observation or conclusion about the world is equally correct? Equally true?
What is correct or true is ALSO a perception of the perceiver
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE why do you think that? If I perceive the sky is green does it make it so? Can you really explain why you believe this because I hear it a lot but it doesnt make a lot of sense to me.
Freedom in your mind is the ability to live without obligation. Emile Durkheim studied depression and one of his realizations was that those people with the most obligations upon them, were the most satisfied with their lives. Being relied upon by someone you care about is the exact thing which gives our lives meaning. To sacrifice yourself in the service of something you love (children). The obligations, the constraints that are put upon the parent, are precisely from where the meaning comes from. We take this challenge willingly for the love of our children.
But you missed on an important point.... If you are addicted to pain and sufferings and want to experience them you're free to do it yourself. Why gamble with someone else's life without their consent 🤔
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE Because we are not isolated individuals. Our lives are intertwined with one another and so yes, we gamble that they will treat us with love. To be afraid of being hurt or to suffer for another precludes you from experiencing giving or receiving love.
The gamble is not about whether the child will or will not love the parent back....... The gamble is about all the possible pain and sufferings the child can potentially experience. And that list is literally endless to mention. Just a couple of examples would be... Genetic Diseases, physical or mental handicap.
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE I would gladly accept a lifetime of suffering to enjoy one precious moment of life. To simply get an opportunity to participate in this miraculous thing that is our lives. Giving that gift to my children outweighs any hardship they inevitably will endure.
@@THECHILDFREECOUPLE You have no passion. No fire. No humanity. You are so thoroughly over-socialized. A product of the 21st century.
Their background is so cool.❤
Reason #7 for me….. I am a vegetarian and that would be problematic, children don’t like fruits and vegetables.
Wow, great!
Thank you! Cheers!
Only one reason i have i just don't want to have a child
@@labeenausmani9696 Good enough 😊💯
@@labeenausmani9696 Good enough Reason 😊
You never know what kind of health issues your children might end up having.
Yup. It's a gamble
I agree. Nap time anytime! 😎
I hope this video reaches the Indian population as much as it can. Lol.
As of Now it's below 100 views 😊
Enaknya jadi manusia = 1. Ada makanan 2. Fisik sehat 3. Panjang umur 4. Punya keluarga 5. Ada tempat tinggal bagus 6. Manusia Jujur 7. Saling toleransi 8. Masuk surga 9. Dapat rezeki. 10. Damai dengan orang. 11. Mempunyai pemimpin yang mendukung rakyat. Dll Tidak enaknya jadi manusia = 1. Kelaparan 2. Kadang merasakan sakit , ada yang berkebutuhan khusus ( tidak bisa melihat, tidak bisa mendengar, tidak bisa berbicara ), ada yang sakit berat = stroke , kanker , dll , ada yang kehilangan anggota tubuh . 3. Suatu hari meninggal 4. Ada yang tidak punya keluarga 5. Ada yang tidak punya tempat tinggal atau tempat tinggal jelek 6. Ditipu orang 7. Rasis SARA ( suku , agama, ras dan budaya) , Rasis yang lain. 8. Masuk neraka 9. Harus bekerja kalau mau punya harta 10. Di hina orang ( atau menghina orang ) 11. Mempunyai pemimpin Tidak mendukung rakyat Dll. Maka dari itu saya memutuskan tidak punya anak. Ada gak enaknya jadi manusia. Mungkin anak saya mengalami hal buruk tersebut . Ya walaupun ada enaknya jadi manusia, saya tetap tidak punya anak. ( Indonesia language)
💯 agree with you
This video really guided me, thanks.
Glad to hear it!