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Being Chloe Barksdale
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Добавлен 24 ноя 2019
Hey, Beautiful Souls!
I am Chloe, and thrilled to welcome you to my little corner of the world!
Here, I create content for women 50 + who are ready to live life fully and unapologetically-but everyone is welcome! Join me as I embrace single life, travel, try new restaurants, and uncover hidden gems in my hometown of Atlanta, Georgia. Along the way, I’ll be sharing candid reflections on navigating the dating scene, staying fit, building a healthy lifestyle, and processing the grief of losing my mom. You’ll see it all: the highs, the lows, and the beautifully unpredictable moments that make life so real.
Here’s the best part: Life doesn’t end at 50-it’s just getting good!
So, hit that subscribe button, give me a thumbs up, and share your thoughts in the comments-I’d love to connect with you all. Thanks for joining me on this journey. 💖
XO,
Chloe
A little about me:
I'm a Scorpio
I have one child - A daughter
I was born and raised in the Atlanta, GA area
I am Chloe, and thrilled to welcome you to my little corner of the world!
Here, I create content for women 50 + who are ready to live life fully and unapologetically-but everyone is welcome! Join me as I embrace single life, travel, try new restaurants, and uncover hidden gems in my hometown of Atlanta, Georgia. Along the way, I’ll be sharing candid reflections on navigating the dating scene, staying fit, building a healthy lifestyle, and processing the grief of losing my mom. You’ll see it all: the highs, the lows, and the beautifully unpredictable moments that make life so real.
Here’s the best part: Life doesn’t end at 50-it’s just getting good!
So, hit that subscribe button, give me a thumbs up, and share your thoughts in the comments-I’d love to connect with you all. Thanks for joining me on this journey. 💖
XO,
Chloe
A little about me:
I'm a Scorpio
I have one child - A daughter
I was born and raised in the Atlanta, GA area
DADDY ISSUES: Is being a Daddy's Girl REALLY the PROBLEM?
In today’s vlog, I kick off my new series on "Daddy Issues" with an honest and heartfelt conversation about growing up with my father in a two-parent household. I reflect on the examples he set and how they’ve shaped my expectations-expectations that sometimes clash with the realities of modern-day dating.
Throughout this series, I'll explore other "Daddy Issues" and how they impact our lives and relationships. Plus, I’m considering hosting a LIVE session with others to share their stories about the influence of a father’s presence-or absence-in their lives. Stay tuned!
Please be sure to like, subscribe, COMMENT and SHARE!
Throughout this series, I'll explore other "Daddy Issues" and how they impact our lives and relationships. Plus, I’m considering hosting a LIVE session with others to share their stories about the influence of a father’s presence-or absence-in their lives. Stay tuned!
Please be sure to like, subscribe, COMMENT and SHARE!
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The Friendship That TRULY Broke Me: Lesson Learned Storytime
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As someone who truly values sisterhood, I’ve faced my fair share of heartbreak from women I once called sisters or friends 💔. I’ve always been the type to go above and beyond for the people I care about, and I still do, even today. As a loyal and giving Scorpio, it amazes me how I’ve managed to stay unbitter despite the painful lessons life has thrown me. In today’s vlog, I’m sharing a personal...
Life at 50 + : Dating Younger, Losing Bets & Sick on New Years
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HAPPY NEW YEAR TO MY SISTAH TRIBE! We closed the door on 2024 and 2025 has come alive! Join me as I share the ups and downs of life over 50! From discussing how men my age dare to try to age shame us while younger men are coming with the REAL dating talk to losing big on a friendly wager and finally kicking off the New Year with a case of the sniffles. This episode is a rollercoaster of lessons...
Life Over 50 Drama: Weight Battle, Sister’s Big Move, and a Car Break-In Scare
Просмотров 4,9 тыс.День назад
Welcome back to my channel! 🎥 Life over 50 is full of surprises, challenges, and, yes, a little drama. This week, I’m sharing: 💪 My ongoing weight-loss journey (the ups and downs are real!) 🚚 My sister’s big move and how it’s impacting us both 🚗 The shocking story of my bestie’s car break-in-wait to hear about this foolishness From emotional goodbyes to unexpected life lessons, I’m spilling all...
PAST Insecurities & My Honest Take on Later Daters TV Show (Also, I HATE Gift Cards)
Просмотров 4,9 тыс.14 дней назад
🌟 In this video, we’re diving into my PAST insecurities-why I don't like when people call others ugly or share mean memes, growing up overcompensating for my insecurities by allowing friends to use me, and why I am such an empath. I also give a short take on my opinion about one of the people on the Later Daters TV Show-and whether it truly captures the experience of dating later in life. And y...
DATING & LIFE OVER 50: Addressing HATERS | Relationship Talk
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DATING & LIFE OVER 50: Addressing HATERS | Relationship Talk Let’s talk about dating, life, and handling the shade that comes with putting yourself out there-especially when you're over 50. 🧡 In this video, I’m addressing some of the wild comments and questions I’ve received: Am I "washed up" because I’m over 50, PLUS SIZE, and still single? Spoiler alert: Nope. I’m living my best life! Are my ...
Is the new Publix HAPPY HOUR worth the HYPE? Chit Chat + Bed Shopping
Просмотров 2,8 тыс.21 день назад
Hmmmm, is the new Disco Publix worth all the hype? Join me as I give my honest review of this new funky grocery store with a BAR inside, chat about the ups and downs of dating for 40 women, and have drinks with my girlfriend. PLUS......I FINALLY purchased a new bed after 3 years. 🎥✨ #Publix #DatingOver50 #VlogLife #datingover40 #lifeover50 #lifeover40 #holidaycheer #holidayseason
LIFE UPDATE: Returning to Celibacy & Owning My Mistakes (Revised Video)
Просмотров 4,5 тыс.21 день назад
In this video, I opened up about WHY I chose celibacy and the personal growth that led me back to it. I also want to take this opportunity to apologize for some of the things I’ve said. This journey is about healing, self-love, and being accountable for my actions. Thank you for allowing me to share my truth with you. ❤️ #CelibacyJourney #LifeUpdate #PersonalGrowth #celibacy #intimacy #relation...
My Neighbor Stole WHAT?! 😱 + Holiday Kickback and Tree Decorating Chit Chat
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.28 дней назад
Get ready for a festive yet wild ride in today’s video! 🎄 First, I found out which neighbors keep stealing the PUBLIX baskets and I took them back and spoke to the manager! Then, I had a ball at my sisters friends Christmas kickback, and FINALLY, I threw some lights up on the tree! Grab a cup of cocoa, settle in, and let’s chat about holiday cheer, neighborhood drama, and everything in between....
VLOGMAS 2! Thrift Store Haul + Cocktails + Subscriber Hugs & Tears!
Просмотров 2,4 тыс.Месяц назад
First, I found the cutest Cole Haan Booties for 6.99 and a pair of beautiful low-heel slides for 5.99 at Goodwill! 💃🎁 Then, an unexpected run in with one of my social media sisters I had never met before at Hobby Lobby left me absolutely speechless. She had no idea just how much I needed her hugs and love Saturday. THANK YOU MARGO! 🥹❤️ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more VLOGM...
Vlogmas: My Biggest Mom Fails & Apologizing + LOVING My SUBSCRIBERS
Просмотров 3,4 тыс.Месяц назад
In this Vlogmas episode, I open up and own some of my mistakes while raising my daughter. As parents, we don’t always get it right, and sometimes it takes time to acknowledge those moments. My goal is to help her not make the same mistakes I did. Today, I’m reflecting on the lessons I’ve learned, sharing how I apologized to her and the steps I’ve taken to grow from those experiences. It’s a hea...
LIFE OVER 50: SECRET Cocktail Lounges | DATING LEOS | Thrifting
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LIFE OVER 50: SECRET Cocktail Lounges | DATING LEOS | Thrifting
Black Women: Let’s Talk About Giving GRACE + Friendsgiving & Strip Club Brunching
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Black Women: Let’s Talk About Giving GRACE Friendsgiving & Strip Club Brunching
FIGHTING Holiday Blues during CUFFING SEASON
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FIGHTING Holiday Blues during CUFFING SEASON
You Spoke, I’m Listening: My Honest Reaction to Your Comments
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You Spoke, I’m Listening: My Honest Reaction to Your Comments
Body Shamed but STILL Rocking My STILETTOS at 50 +
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Body Shamed but STILL Rocking My STILETTOS at 50
Let’s Clear The Air: REVISITING BEING STOOD UP!
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Let’s Clear The Air: REVISITING BEING STOOD UP!
REJECTED! Older Woman Vs Younger Man - He Thought I Was Stella! 🙄
Просмотров 7 тыс.2 месяца назад
REJECTED! Older Woman Vs Younger Man - He Thought I Was Stella! 🙄
WEIGHT GAIN! I fell off! From 180 to 208lbs in SIX MONTHS!
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WEIGHT GAIN! I fell off! From 180 to 208lbs in SIX MONTHS!
It's OFFICIALLY Scorpio Season! Birthday, Beaches & HBCU Homecoming
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It's OFFICIALLY Scorpio Season! Birthday, Beaches & HBCU Homecoming
Women OVER 50 Should Get On YouTube NOW!
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Women OVER 50 Should Get On RUclips NOW!
Old School Weekend Just Got a 50+ Makeover!
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Old School Weekend Just Got a 50 Makeover!
The HIGH COST of living ALONE at 53: It's NOT a FLEX
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The HIGH COST of living ALONE at 53: It's NOT a FLEX
Stop People Pleasing & Embrace The Villain Label
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Stop People Pleasing & Embrace The Villain Label
Fabulous Life at 50+: Concert Adventures, Cocktail Bliss, Shoe Sorting, and Embracing Inner Peace!
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Fabulous Life at 50 : Concert Adventures, Cocktail Bliss, Shoe Sorting, and Embracing Inner Peace!
Sneakers, Style, & Substance - This is how I roll up to my work meeting..
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Sneakers, Style, & Substance - This is how I roll up to my work meeting..
The Unfiltered Truth of Being Single at 50+
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The Unfiltered Truth of Being Single at 50
Life Over 50: Taking myself on a SOLO DATE
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Life Over 50: Taking myself on a SOLO DATE
Great story time, as always. 🌺 Please do a story time about your boyfriend that was so much like your father (he took out the trash & was super kind). Also, have you ever thought of dating/marrying someone outside our race? Sometimes it just feels so good to be somewhere I feel appreciated 🌺.
Hey gorgeous! Now I see where you inherited those beautiful brown eyes! You sharing your daddy stories made me smile. My daddy issues start with my momma marrying my stepdad when I was 6 months, raising me as his child, telling my biological dad that I wasn’t his child, moving to another state 8 hours away, only for my bio dad to snatch me from grandmommas house when we came home for spring break when I was 6!! Yes, I kinda kidnapped by momma and by dad! Chile so much drama! But, I loved them both…. So so much! Thanks for sharing and giving us a safe place to share as well!
I love the hair! ❤ There’s nothing like a switch-up. You would look good in any hairstyle. You have a beautiful face.
I don't feel safe or protected by today's bm either
That Kick!!!!! Hey girl! Love it!
You ah mess and I love it …you go sista!!❤
Got the exact same ones on RIGHT NOW!😂
@@Tiredbutthankful today I have on the RED ONE! 😂😂😂
Hello Chloe Thank you for the encouragement, I am 66, and returning back to my channel that sat for a while. I want to share me, my life and experiences I’ve had. I too want to travel more. It’s time for us vintage/seasoned Queens.💞
An older lady once told me to love the man that loves me,not the one I want,that women learn to love.A man has to want us at the very start…..…I was raised by my dad…,it matters…
That's cute girl and the little kick Chloe, okayyy❤
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Hi Chloe Wow! Daddy issues is a biggie for me. Thanks for addressing this issue, I intend to drop a video about my Daddy Issues. But, yes there are many Daddy issues. Love your channel.💞
Thank you and yes, let me know when you upload so that I can go watch. We all have different life experiences that someone else can relate to, and that helps us to better understand why we do what we do.
Hey Sis! I had to come back to finish watching and comment. Love Jones is one of my favorite too! As I was logging off I noticed a comment that showed up. And not to give that person any shine, but I was talking to my husband about it. I do not understand why people are coming for you, for just being your authentic self. Sharing your truth. I needed time to think about this. I woke up this morning with some clarity. I believe your honesty may be triggering for those who have not yet dealt with their own trauma. Some would rather forget. And it's easier to lash out at you. I love that rather than shy away, you go deeper. Some may think it's too much...But anyway, you brought back a lot of memories. I never saw my mom and dad in a relationship, but I was definitely a daddy's girl. My grandmother raised me, but he always came by to see me. I even stayed a summer with him and my sister's mother one year. He was in a band in the 70's. I remember going to some practices with him and grew up wondering why I didn't inherit his voice. (I got his nose instead) 😆He can sang. He came to visit me when I lived in Atlanta (with his family). But last year for his 67th birthday, he came alone. It was his first time on a plane and his first time in Florida. I was able to take him to the beach for his first time. We were able to camp and fish together. I felt like a little girl all over again. It also gave me the opportunity to let go of some questions I had about the past. All that mattered was the effort he had made to come visit. I love you Sis. Keep doing your thing. ❤
Hey Sis Hey! Yes, girl, they are coming for me more and more and I thank GOD that my skin has thickened up and I have reached that point in my life where I realize that there are some people who have unconsciously made it their life purpose to be mean and nasty and that there is nothing I can do about it. And it's usually a person that hides behind an account with no picture, no channel and at times, not even a chosen name. Their sole purpose is to spread their negativity across the world. I truly do PRAY for people like that Sis. And I pray to GOD to not allow their unhappiness in life to sit ini MY spirit. Your dad sounds like my dad in that he an sing and girl I DARE to do karaoke knowing I sound like a wet chicken! LMBO! I am so glad that you've had the chance to build bonds with your father, understand that you can not change the past, but you can make the very best of the time you have now. We all need to apply that more in our daily lives. I wish I'd have the chance to go fishing with my dad, sit around and chit chat and just talk about life and feel like Daddy's Little Girl all over again. (That's another movie that is so endearing to me) I LOVE YOU! Fun fact - I used to want to be called Coco when I was in early high school because of the TV show and movie FAME! Now child I used to sing that song as the top of my lungs knowing I sound like a wet cat! I"m going live for eeeehhhver. I'm going to learn how to fly....HIGH! I feel it coming together, people will see me and cry... FAME! LOL! When I see you this summer (manifesting it), I'm going to sing that song! LMBO! Love you back Sis!
@@BeingChloeBarksdale 😄I look forward to hearing you sing it. I will even pull out my granddaughter's karaoke machine 😂❤
Child they gonna ban me from Florida and Phillip not gonna let me come back 😂😂😂
@@BeingChloeBarksdale 😂
Heyyyy Chloe, This required some self reflection. I dived into this dialog twice. One thing for certain is that I always appreciate your transparency and growth. We have lived,loved, lost, missed, made mistakes,and hurt while trusting not so good people. Behind every independent woman lies a broken little girl who had to learn how to get back up, never depending on anyone. We areCurrently still working through til this day.May our biggest lesson be healing without wishing harm to those who hurt us. Life will take care of them. We are born looking like our parents and die looking like our choices. In your transparency, if you ladies on this platform, see something that does not resonate with you. Teach us, sisters !!!! Don't talk about our sisters. Class is in session.I love it here.With love, Bridgett from Cali🙏
That little kick is running me low 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 girl I swear you ALWAYS tickle me so!
@ Chile you tickle me. What was that a plié? 😂 😂 😂
@loveelevatedtv yesss! Girl you just took me back to my ballet lessons!?
@ I love it 🥰
All you had to say was Shyrans Showcase, you brought me back with Hamilton iykyk didn't go but I went to the Camp lol 😂 we have done well for ourselves, Chloe ❤ Pretty lady rest in your feminity, I have so many dresses and cute heels, I can honestly say I am treated so much different from when I show up in jeans, sweats, etc. I am offered things and my friends are like "how?" I listen, compliment, and ask for help until its on auto pilot. Dinners, vacays, gifts opened doors, grass cut, all the acts of service are provided. Ive had a few toads lol but men universally know its certain things I dont do...cut grass, take out trash, pump gas, open doors, plan most dates, etc. I laugh at the notion and gently motivate him to do it or I'm gone. 😂
Yes girl yes! I want that life back. I had to be strong for far too long. My daddy spoiled me and my ex did too. I won't accept anything less. And yes, I went right to the Camp after I left Hamilton. LOL
Yes ma’am 😂 and for me in upstate ny there the only thing tht keep my feet warm … 19degrees right now
Chloe looooove the look !!!!!!
Yessss❤
Most these dads are deadbeats !! They not like the ones we had in The 70s
Hey love! Far too many are, but I won't say most. I know A LOT of really good dads in my age group and I go out of my way to let them know too. 🫶🏾
One of those chicks 👋🏽👋🏽
Girl I have to stop myself! Lol
Hello Chloe sis this was alot to take in because it was real so of course parts of this storytime I felt so bad for things that had happened to you. 🙌 Thank God for your awesome Dad. I'm going to simply say I'm so happy that you're doing okay and that you're so strong. Thanks for showing up and being so open sharing your stories. 👍👍👍
HEY SIS HEY! Girl please don't feel bad for me. I am stronger and better and hope that my story will help others who may have gone through it. I tell my story with hopes that someone hears it who may be experiencing it now, or have to deal with someone in their family quietly who has done the same to them and it frees them. I have accepted that God allowed certain things to happen so that I can help others. That includes the home life I had.
Hello dear friend I understand and I hope that your story will help someone. Your strength is amazing I know that I'm not that strong. So again thank you for sharing. 🙏
@ you ARE that strong! I promise! 😘😘😘😘
Hey Chloe! 👋🏾 This is such a good series. I appreciate you touching on this with a tenderness and candor that is uniquely you. ❤ If I live to be ANOTHER 50 years, I'll neva know how tearing someone else down makes a person feel elevated. OMG, I've always had a hard time w/remebering WHY a person and I fell out but I do remember THAT we fell out. I just don't hold that in my spirit either. That doesn't mean I fool with that person but I don't feel tight about it. For the most part, men really don't understand our need to feel safe! One who does or did will forever stand out. Loved this video and I'm looking forward to more on this series. ♥
That's my Sis. I may not remember why but I remember that we did and though I dont hold grudges, I don't reconnect either unless we were very young and it was childish. I have learned to forgive for MYSELF! It used to be in a man to want to protect us - where has that gone? And I don't want to keep hearing about equal rights and us being strong...it used to innately be IN them. It's like they have CHOSEN to lay down and let us be out here needing to protect ourselves.
So many sweet memories Chloe, you are one of the lucky ones. Although I didn't have that, I made sure my daughter did even though we were no longer together. I love you sis...ADHD and all😅😂❤.
Hey Sis. Yes, I was blessed. Sadly, my daughter didn't get to experience it and I still pray every day for him to open his eyes and find a way to give her the daddy she deserves. I love you back Sis!
@BeingChloeBarksdale It wasn't always like that for my daughter in the beginning , but he found the Lord, and God changed him. He passed away in 2021, so I am glad God got to him in time. It's never too late for baby girl. Trust and believe and it will.
@ thanks for letting me know that! I’ll keep praying!
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@BeingChloeBarksdale this was a good one. Chloe, thank you for sharing😊💜
You have your dad’s eyes ! ❤❤❤
Yes, I do. :)
Love Jones is my all time favorite love story too. Are you a Libra sis?
Yeap…we are🤣🤣🤣🤣. Uggs definitely upgrade a simple outfit. Love it!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@melrol8860 got them back on today!
Girl Love Jones is my ish too. We vibe!!
See with this weather Sis, I may have to watch it again. I haven't watched it since the summer.
I love how you reflect, understand your rights/wrongs, good/bad and look at all sides of the situation!!👏🏾💯🙌🏾🤎🙏🏾
You are so right! It is about perspective and being able to see things from more than one point of view. 🥰🥰
It's about comfort..Uggs is an upscale house shoe bootie perfect for the outdoors..😃😀
God Bless you💜 Ms. Chole💜 Happy 💜 Happy New Year!!! Continue - to be "good" to self💛
Chloe girl you are amazing & obviously not the problem. I had an amazing father as well and he certainly set the standard for the way a man treats me. Cutting grass, changing a tire, fixing the sink… it’s just sexy and masculine. I love it. And NO you are NOTHING like Lori from Later Daters… I hope not.😂
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Safe or protected!!! That part, Chloe!
Yes! THAT part Sis!
You brought sooo many memories back of this 70s baby daddy’s girl… 👧🏾 ❤ …the smell of cut grass, him washing cars in the driveway and gassing them up for the work week. Does Superman still exist? 😊💝
Daddy issues…that is such a good topic…my father was not in the picture and I always wondered if I had a loving father in my life would I have made other choices in men and things I have put up with for too long…I do think my esteem would have been stronger…girls need their mommas and their daddys…❤
Hey Chloe!! You really have to be careful who u call your friend. I’m sorry that happened to you,but I feel like you handling it pretty well. It’s really hard to get close to ppl now. U never know about a person. That’s why u can’t get too close. I happy and blessed to be friends with my bestie for almost 30 yrs. I love her like a sister and I have a few friends besides her. I have a small circle I feel like less is best! Anyway keep being strong girl! Love u! Love watching u so much!❤❤
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Yep yep yep 😂
Chloe this was such an awesome subject! This is Ms. Turks and Caicos and hunni growing up in the 70s in Miami being raised by my step father brought back so many memories. My daddy issue was my biological dad leaving me at 3yo to move to Georgia because he was a heroine addict. I never saw him again but my bonus dad cut the grass, taught me how to be a lady and how to be respectful and to respect myself. I also had a pink jiffy you couldn't tell me nothing 😂😂😂. I love the topic of conversations and thank you for sharing ❤❤
@@Secxysauce Hey Sis Hey! You may not have had your blood but I'm sooooo glad that you had your Bonus Daddy! And baby we were doing it with our Huffy!
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Sis. I looked at the length of this video and said I’m not watching this whole video. But I became so intrigued about your transparency and watched the entire video. I feel your emotions about Jamaica, had a wonderful time there felt the energy. Loving your content!
@@TaraTellingTV Hey Sis! Thank youuuu! I'm waiting on you to get back to posting! And yes, I am planning a trip back this year to renew my spirit! ♥️
Yes, I wear Uggs, white tennis, or slide in shoes lol
@@bjmiller9759 my Uggs are my everything!
@BeingChloeBarksdale You look good sis🫶
@bjmiller9759 Thanks Love!
Chloe........ just wondering, what would your father say about the Facebook photo on your last video thumbnail, with the shorts, heels and open white shirt?
I don't know since he died when I was 18 and I didn't know him as an adult. Is THAT all you could think of from that video? To try to slick come for me? 🤣🤣🤣 Chile y'all KEEP me entertained on this red app!
Girl your hair looks SO CUTE🩷🩷 Blonde is your color. And yes I’m guilty!! I try to wear my Uggs with everything😂😂
@@JoyDejaKing thank you! Girl me too! Sometimes I have to say to myself UNT UNH….girl take that off! 🤣🤣🤣
Hey Clo! I drink beet juice 3 - 4x's per week as a pre-workout juice. It gives me emergy to tackle my workouts.
@@dedrapledger1646 Hey Sis! I just bought some more too. Have you tried Geritol, yet?
My older late cousin Caroline always said" Chile you dont need a lot of female friends and dont have them in your house and in your mans face". Im sorry Ms Chloe that you had to go through that but all in all great convo and keep these storytimes coming because we appreciate them. ❤❤❤❤❤
Hey Love Bug! Thank you! 😘
The blue jogger compliments your skin tone. I love that for you, sis.
@@bridgetteworley4878 thanks Doll. This year I'm shedding all the black!