Hi, I just now seen your channel. I don't feel I have ever grieved over my Beautiful Mom and that was 1991. She was a true gift from GOD. God Bless You. I feel guilty and I feel guilty I was not with her when she passed. I was in another state. I worry she was all alone. But I have to believe GOD was right there with her.
I had no idea there was a disorder called Prolonged Grief Disorder. I have been a mess since I was 16. When Eddie died (see below). I just read the definition and it is all me. PTSD, non stop grief, social anxiety disorder, i am now a LONER, i am seriously angry, i have so much guilt and anguish, i really don't know what grief is or how to get past it but i was so VERY LOVED and it has become IMPOSSIBLE for me to really live. I worked my entire adult life but was off a few times on STD after my dad died but i went back to work. I told my shrink I am a high functioning basket case. I made myself work and I worked 60-80 hours a week while raising my son who doesnt really speak to me anymore. I have no one that loves me. My spine is crumbling and I live with pain unless I pass out at night from medication. I have had 2 spinal surgeries. One lower back then 10 months later I had a fusion in my neck from C3 thru C7. Also replaced my discs in the neck. I am left with SERIOUS nerve damage. I take a shower when I get up the guts to climb over the bathtub. Most days I want to blow my head off but i don't. Suffering is a way of life...Oh and I cannot take antidepressants. My shrink thinks I may be bipolar and apparently most folks with bipolar that cannot take antidepressants. The side effects made me nuts. I had more side effects than I can name. I hate death. death will be the death of me. i just pray nothing happens to my son. I was so loved and now I am not. Like i said they are all gone. I am alone and a loner.
I lost my brother at 17, I was 16. We were like glue. That was going on 48 years ago and I am still in shock. 1977. Then I lost my daddy in 2000 and this was more than I could bare. Then I lost my Bob in 2009. Then my mom in 2015. Everyone that loves me is gone, including my grandparents. My son I have not seen in a year and I am disabled, miserable and alone. I am so freakin HATEFUL all the time. I have zero patience and I want to get in my car and run.
Sorry for your loss I know what it's like to loose family members it's hard but I would think that they would want me to get on with my life but I have some good memories .
Seems pretty spot-on for me, especially the dwelling on negative possibilities, except for when you said we'd lose track of our values. That never, ever happens to me. Maybe it's a perk of being Catholic, haha!
Hey, thank you so much Kim. This is a very Informative video. In typical INTJ fashion, now I’m wondering if I should use my T function to act out my visions a bit more :)
Aloha Kim! In my opinion, the most unfathomable intelligence is the one where a person is super smart in book learning while having zero common sense. Now, just between us... I'd pay money to watch some of them try to survive on a deserted island. Or anywhere outside of the safety of the college campus. 😂😂😂
I never realized how much of a safety freak I was until around this year, when I sometimes call my INFJ friend to say, "Are you still okay?" or telling my three-year-old niece, "Careful! That might hurt you!" Nice to have some validation!
Few comments from an estp- first I can see you’re nervous, but you’re doing it so continue to rock it. However to seem less self conscious; work on not saying umm and smacking your lips. When you got on a story you were much more comfortable and easier to follow. You got this! (Edit - everyone in this community thinks they are a IN** - so I’d suggest doing more based on them. It’s silly, but it seems to work for everyone else) Now the love part of us - just want someone who lets us be us and they are willing to go along for the ride. Play with us and let loose. I tend to be attracted to introverts, so I get the need for space, but be willing to try once in a while. I promise it’s worth it. Also, be patient with us when we aren’t as organized as you. For us to show love - we are very good at reading people; maybe not in an intuitive way, but in a body language way. Healthy ESTPs will use this to make sure you’re having a good time. Also, I will go out and make things easier for you when I’m into you. All we expect in return is loyalty and some effort.
I enjoyed this, and it's refreshing when INFPs are said to be a bit reserved and withdrawn and need time to trust people before they can open up. I think I have this fear that INFPs have this stereotype of being childish, naive and I suppose overly trusting, which is not something I see very much at all. Thank you for these videos.
As an INFJ, I can't say that I LIKE writing but I've always been pretty good at it. (At least compared to math and science.) But psychology and social work are certainly where I lean! 😋 I tend to cross into NT territory since I just BARELY score F (only 2 points from T) so logic and analyses also appeal to me too.
Man, my memory is terrible, so no way I could be an ISTJ! INTJ makes much more sense, because I just planned out the next five minutes of my day! Go me!!!!!
When we did that typing slash collaboration when I was not remembering the INFP functions you remembered and told me what they are I think you have a sharp memory probably better than INTJ'S since you have Si that function is about good memories your memory is better than mine I have at times forgot to turn off my coffee pot and also forgot sometimes to turn the hot water tap all the way so it would drip and I have gotten flack for that so not buying the whole INTJ thing lol!
I was absolutely joking, haha! While it is true that I forget some things, and my memory seems to have worsened with time, I think it's better than most other folks'. What's not so great is my ability to read peoples' emotions, but thankfully, I've learned to overcompensate by studying body language and learning from past mistakes.
so I got another typing @@EpicPaul64with Objective Personality I was curious and they typed me ISTJ but they said that I can come across as an INTP and that I can keep up with INTP'S don't know still processing in MBTI I'm an INTP crazy lol!
I don't know much about Objective Personality, but as far as Myers-Briggs, I don't think ISTJ fits you. Your filming and speaking styles are very sporadic, almost as if you didn't give any prior planning to what you were about to say or write, and you have a certain "warmth" to your speaking that typically only comes out in me on spiritual occasions, which suggests Extroverted Feeling. You also use a lot of abstraction and extra wording, which ISTJs wouldn't use because Sensing types prefer the tangible reality, and usually have a certain structure to their wording choices, even in an unexpected situation.
I liked this, I am very fascinated about the contrast between INTPs and INFPs - particularly since I've had so many close INTP friends who I really love. They're the type that makes me laugh the most, and I think it's interesting how, in my experience, the Fi and the Ti doesn't really clash very often. It's more like we're both intrigued by the differences and it allows for even more interesting discussions.
I know 2 INFP'S and both are really nice individuals and so authentic well I think Ne can make your type and mine quirky odd balls I wouldn't have it any other way .
According to RUclips, I was your first view, so go me for having a good algorithm! It could be that I'm not used to Introverted Thinking, but I'm not quite sure I understand what you mean by talking about bonding over the mutual functions. Do you mean that we'd likely talk about personal experiences and share wild ideas? Or I'd teach the INTP better memory skills, and the INTP would teach me how to be more open to new experiences? I have said for a while that my inferior function is where my humor comes from, so I wouldn't be surprised if I was the person you were referring to, haha! Also, here's a joke: Animal Crossing Amiibo Festival. ...I never said it was a good joke...
I mean that you can connect with INTP'S on a Si level and Ne level and yes I didn't mention your name just how your functions work haha! I get a kick out of your sense of humor that's all nothing complex just as simple as that !
Do you have an example of "connecting on an Si and Ne level"? I'm having trouble visualizing how that would play out... And thank you for the nameless shout-out!
I'll probably have to see it in context to comprehend it. Thankfully, one of my friends claims that her boyfriend is an INTP, so maybe, if I ever meet him, I can let you know the results!
@@EpicPaul64 We can talk about things to to do with Si and joke around when we are tapped into Ne the conversation would flow remember that collaboration video we made they're was no quiet moments it was a good vibe !
I've had very mixed opinions on INFJs for a while now. While the ones I like tend to be some of my best friends, they also tend to frustrate me the most of all of my friends simultaneously because they can have a hard time communicating in a way that I can understand. Additionally, they can sometimes struggle with being prompt, and don't know how to explain why they are like that. However, they are very good support partners, and I think, without them, I'd be far worse off.
"INTJ have no problems putting their ideas out" ✔ It's true, many of us INTJ, we like/love physical exercice, sport. Because improving and mastering ourselves may be one of our goal, constantly improving. I almost never shared my Fi with family, but my INTJ online friends and even in the comments under MBTI video I share it sometimes ^^ (I even share it sometimes in my video : oops too much authenticity & weirdness ^^) 😆 "Human lie detectors" It's true, both for Ni & Ti. I agree the quirkiness of Ne, more than Ni. It's true they are great friends together. Hoping more people in the future see our video.
Hello, I was curious after reading one of your comments under the last video of ClubENTP. I think It's simply the unconscious (collective), that we are in part programmed (I know it's sound scary, it's what certain of us think). I read once that 90% of our behavior is unconscious. We all, all the energies influence each other, and function together (Humans, animals, plants, trees, the wind...). Yes, we are all connected, the "oneness", it's also called "the tree of life". I think our souls or spirits or minds or brains are all connected. For me it is simply the life itself, the unconscious. Some INFJ INTJ ENFP ENTP we experience it. I experience it every day many times, a lot ^^ I think the same : "things happen for a reason." Life bring us the right persons and right events at the right moment for many reasons : _To learn something about ourselves : the life want is to grow, to improve, to be the best person, want us to integrate all the parts of ourselves, to be authentic to ourselves, to show us what really is life _To learn something about life : life lesson _To learn something about someone : to show us that a person is not what we though they were You can be proud of you that you experience synchronicity, you reached another level of consciousness ^^ _To help a person, or the other person help us, or we help each other Happy to see more people sharing their thoughts about MBTI content and more.
Intp: wish I was istp And had a natural propensity for SE / craftsmanship hands on work. There's so many entry level trade jobs & useful skills practical handy that's needed and Ni a vision for a single / a clear cut goal Instead of always thinking of multiple options future possible Scenarios & just mostly seeing negative effects for situations The abstract thinking , logic & truth seems so unwanted in today's world. Unless i hold a position of authority or the ideas produce concrete $$$ nobody will respect it
As an INTP I love my type I wanted to since I was a teenager I wanted to be a Clinical Psychologist but that didn't work out so I had a plan B or another possibility working with children in a Day Care setting and it worked out I have done this work for many yrs I love Ne because you have so many options we all need that Ni only has one option and a Ni dom hopes this plays out down the road but they don't have many possibilities . The world needs INTP'S without Technology we won't advance or move forward as a fellow INTP I just want to say that world needs us for our intellectual problem solving skills and our ability to see the big picture our skills are respected and needed in this highly fast paced world .
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as an Intp usually I would explore theories and infos, if annoyed I can get to shadow function and focus on an objective 100% (like a tunnel effect). It is rare and it need to be triggered emotionally, it is very useful. Also Do you know about blood type, are you RH- ?
I don't know my blood type. When I'm really stressed I do exhibit ENTJ behavior like taking the lead on something that needs to get done it's a priority but normally I just retreat and want to be alone as an INTP this is what I would do .
Hello Kim, INTP speaking here... Is isolating myself in Alaska, building an off-grid cabin, and writing a manifesto a good career? (If people do not want to read it, I also dabble with pyrotechnics/explosives and traps, who knows, later on it can prove itself as a useful persuading tool)
I think so some INTP'S go into writing I wrote a short story but I wanted to add more to the story maybe make it Sci-Fi or to keep it a Fantasy so still thinking about it a remote place for INTP'S to focus on their work without distractions is a INTP'S paradise !
Thank you for this SJ video. I think SJ videos are really needed in the community, because at the moment it seems NT and NF videos really outweigh the SJ content (at least what I saw so far on RUclips), which is fine by itself, but I'm an ISFP myself (I think), but my my is an ISFJ or ESFJ (I'm not sure yet which one), my dad is an ISTJ and my wife is an ESFJ, so personally I extra appreciate when SJ content pops up in RUclips Land. :) Also, I haven't found any other ISFJ typology-RUclipsr yet, except the "Realities of Typology" channel (if maybe you're interested in ISFJ's view/explanations/ideas about typology). I hope you don't mind me asking, I'm not asking to argue about it or anything like that, why I'm asking is simply because I'm still relatively noob at typing but I like asking people what they type are after I try to guess, so that can help me to slowly but surely build my little "Tertiary-Ni type examples"-database in my head. So, are you an INTJ? :) Also, how did you found out about typology? Thank you, have a nice day!
Hmm, on second thought, I think you are not an INTJ, at first, I thought you are one, but I rewatched a video that I saw long time ago and I couldn't remember well enough, the video is from an INTJ woman who has a RUclips channel called "c k", just these 2 letters. If you are interested for type comparison reasons or something, if you type "c k intj" into the RUclips search bar, then her videos and channel should pop up as a search result.
What confused me is that you and "c k" INTJ woman RUclipsr talk in a similar way in some aspects, like talk relatively slowly and make short pauses often and things like that, but the topic and the way (other way/aspect) of your talking seems really different. "c k" seem to talk in a more of an Ni way, and you seem to talk in a more of an Ne way (it seems like the words come to you more naturally, just like an Ne user seem most of the time).
So if you have ne, then that means you must have Si too, but I'm not sure in which slots those functions are in your function stack. In other words, I'm not even totally sure which is higher in you, Ne or Si, but now I'm pretty sure you have Ne in your conscious stack (and not Ni).
You seem to be a Thinker at first glance, but many times Tertiary Ti or Tertiary Te can look really strong too. Now I have to look for if you are a Ti Vs Te user.
Well, i can't decide for sure if you are a Ti or a Te user :) I'm not good enough at typing yet (I don't aim to become a typologist or anything, I do this just as a hobby). So at the moment I know (I think) for almost 100% sure that you are Ne and Si, I don't think your Ne is the dominant function, I think that would make you look more extrovert (I mean "extrovert" in a general sense of the word "extrovert", and not just because of the "extroverted" intuition in the dominant position). So if you are Ne/Si user and if you are not Ne dominant position user and if you seem like a Thinker then it must mean that you are either an INTP or ISTJ or Ti-highly-valueing-ISFJ or highly-Ti-valueing-INFP. I'm an Fi-dom ISFP and I usually sense if somebody has Fi or not, and I think you don't, at least certainly not in the dominant position, that means you can't be an INFP, but I wouldn't completely rule ISTJ yet, because they have as great Ti as INTPs have, 6th (Demonstrative/Critic) function position can be as strong as the first (Dominant/Lead) function position. So you so far what I see is that you are either an INTP or ISFJ or ISTJ. I ruled out ESTJ and ESFJ simply because (at least in this video) you really seem much more like an introvert (introvert in the general sense, not in the cognitive function sense).
Called it! ENFPs are just too perfect as a romantic partner, as I've often described my relationships with them to be like a mirror image of myself. Since meeting my ENFP friends, I've certainly gotten better at being easy-going (to the point where I'm mistaken as an ENFP) and being open to not always having a rigid agenda. ENFPs have expressed to me that I help them to plan their life better, and give them inspiration on how to change the world, as they might struggle to actually implement their ideas, whereas I'm definitely the type that needs to "think out loud" and keeping my ideas to myself bothers me. Good for you for unintentionally reading my point, or just paying attention to what I've said in my videos!
I'm curious if your compatibility picks for the INTP were based on your own inferior function being so developed, because I imagine most people would mistake you for an ENFJ or ESFJ if they didn't know you better. Conversely, while I haven't watched your ISTJ version yet, I'm gonna guess that my compatible type might be the ENFP, because I seem to really get along with that type, and of all the Intuitives, they're the ones I have the easiest time following along with what they are saying, due to the mutual function stack. Meeting them has also significantly helped in getting me to be more in touch with my silly side... though another contributing factor could be genetics, as my dad, and my grandpas on both sides, were quite the jokesters, haha!
Because my Fe is well developed by my own faith I wasn't that way when I was a teenager I was socially awkward didn't have much friends I have said things that were not nice to people who were in my life I wasn't aware of my off the cuff comments but when I became a Christian I had to learn to develop the fruitage of the holy spirit that Even though my Fe is well developed I still am not a touchy feely person I still use Ti Ne and some people have called me cold . Yeah it does make logical sense that ISTJ'S are compatible ENFP'S probably more than ESFP and like you mentioned ENFP'S will be silly which ISTJ'S need that in their life because some ISTJ'S can be serious so it's a good match friendship wise and romantically .
Yeah, I have an interesting history with ESFPs. I like their company, but in very select circumstances! Their Extroverted Sensing makes them want to have very extreme hangouts in very loud and crowded places (And yes, I'm very much speaking from experience), and I think that might get a bit overwhelming. ENFPs, conversely, seem to be okay with whatever type of hangout makes them get closer to me, even if it's just sitting around. Perhaps the mutual Introverted Sensing makes us crave nostalgia more than novelty, and that's why I would probably get along with them better long-term than an ESFP. I've also noticed that ESFPs that develop their Introverted Intuition seem to act a lot like INTJs when it comes to romance, which is hit or miss. On one hand, it's great that it's an aspect of their life they take seriously, but on the other hand, it can come across as more of an "Ends justify the means" type of scenario, whereas I think myself and ENFPs are more likely to seek out relationships based on the connections, and not as much on sensual desires.
It's kind of scary how accurately you described me at the workplace! For most of my life, I thought I was just a quirky weirdo who was obsessed with rules, but I suppose having an SJ personality explains a lot. However, since everyone has a unique personality, there are two exceptions to your SJ list for me personally: 1) I'm not against goofing around at my job, as long as it doesn't interfere with the work I need to get done. At my first job, I was constantly telling jokes, imitating people (including my bosses sometimes), playing some silly pranks, pretending to flush Kevin's phone down the drain, etc. At my current job, I sometimes take Bible verses and change the wording to fit more with my boss's role, which cracks her up every time! ...Maybe that's why Jeff thought I'm an ENFP. 2) While it's true that I generally reserve off days for sick days, I'll occasionally take them off for something like Comic Con or a Faith-related conference. Considering that I don't really like loud noise and big crowds that much, such occurrences are very few and far between, probably averaging about once or twice a year. You also got me to re-think about a realization I had at work today: That most folks perceive blind spot Extroverted Feeling as ITJs being oblivious to when peoples' feelings are hurt, and while that's true, it also means we're obvious to positive feelings. It was your comment about SJs needing validation from their bosses that they are doing a good job that made me realize, "Dang! I have a lot of trouble knowing if people like me or approve of my work." Even if people affirm me, I usually have to ask a lot of questions to understand what they are saying, or might sometimes even blurt out, "This isn't a joke, right?" It makes me kind of want to make a video on the subject, so thank you for giving me an opportunity to Info Dump!
LOL! i can't believe you got away with the pranks and joking around at your work I might of pegged you wrong in that instance lol! all the jobs I've had I couldn't do that it was business as usual lol!
Hashtag accurate! 🙌 That certainly describes my INFJ childhood! It's important for parents and teachers to understand these common baseline differences- more of them should really hear this.
My husband told me that this video would be hard to understand and I thought their has to be some one that can relate to this video Yes people need to be more aware of their child's inner world and outer so thank you again for the eloquent comments ! .
@@kimtopology4257 Hard to understand how? Maybe I understand it better because I'm a fellow intuitive; but I still can't picture it being THAT unclear for anyone really.
@@Esabelle I think my husband is split in the middle between being an intuitive and sensor he has been known to be very good with sensor details but at the same time he uses metaphors and analogies I think he is an NF an ENFJ but when he talks about details he is like an ESFJ he likes to help people both types like to help people in different ways he's into UFO'S so I think he is an intuitive sensors would find that to be nonsense.
@@kimtopology4257 Ah! When someone is between letters, especially N and S, it can result in an odd combo of traits. It makes way more sense what your husband said now. I once dating a man between ISFP and INFP- he also seemed to straddle the line between some S and N traits.
@@Esabelle He is on the border of E or I so he's probably an Ambivert too but one thing that I'm real sure of is that he is feeler I know when we dated he would write me poetry and also he wrote some children's stories they're not published but they are so funny maybe one day he'll get them published . Your experience with your boyfriend must of been confusing to you did he get typed or did you typed him?
Hi, I just now seen your channel. I don't feel I have ever grieved over my Beautiful Mom and that was 1991. She was a true gift from GOD. God Bless You. I feel guilty and I feel guilty I was not with her when she passed. I was in another state. I worry she was all alone. But I have to believe GOD was right there with her.
Sorry for your loss and yes she is in God's memory
I had no idea there was a disorder called Prolonged Grief Disorder. I have been a mess since I was 16. When Eddie died (see below). I just read the definition and it is all me. PTSD, non stop grief, social anxiety disorder, i am now a LONER, i am seriously angry, i have so much guilt and anguish, i really don't know what grief is or how to get past it but i was so VERY LOVED and it has become IMPOSSIBLE for me to really live. I worked my entire adult life but was off a few times on STD after my dad died but i went back to work. I told my shrink I am a high functioning basket case. I made myself work and I worked 60-80 hours a week while raising my son who doesnt really speak to me anymore. I have no one that loves me. My spine is crumbling and I live with pain unless I pass out at night from medication. I have had 2 spinal surgeries. One lower back then 10 months later I had a fusion in my neck from C3 thru C7. Also replaced my discs in the neck. I am left with SERIOUS nerve damage. I take a shower when I get up the guts to climb over the bathtub. Most days I want to blow my head off but i don't. Suffering is a way of life...Oh and I cannot take antidepressants. My shrink thinks I may be bipolar and apparently most folks with bipolar that cannot take antidepressants. The side effects made me nuts. I had more side effects than I can name. I hate death. death will be the death of me. i just pray nothing happens to my son. I was so loved and now I am not. Like i said they are all gone. I am alone and a loner.
I hope things get better for you when I'm in a stressful situation I pray to God and he gives me peace .
I lost my brother at 17, I was 16. We were like glue. That was going on 48 years ago and I am still in shock. 1977. Then I lost my daddy in 2000 and this was more than I could bare. Then I lost my Bob in 2009. Then my mom in 2015. Everyone that loves me is gone, including my grandparents. My son I have not seen in a year and I am disabled, miserable and alone. I am so freakin HATEFUL all the time. I have zero patience and I want to get in my car and run.
Sorry for your loss I know what it's like to loose family members it's hard but I would think that they would want me to get on with my life but I have some good memories .
Queen Victoria was a prime example.
You are really cute!
I appreciate you doing this much effort trying to explain it. I'm looking forward to seeing ISFJ video 😁
I did a video on the loops and grips ISFJ'S fall into under stress it should be on the play list
@@kimtopology4257 ill look for it thanks 🌟
You look great
Seems pretty spot-on for me, especially the dwelling on negative possibilities, except for when you said we'd lose track of our values. That never, ever happens to me. Maybe it's a perk of being Catholic, haha!
Yeah that's a possibility Paul !
Why is this considered mutually exclusive with Autism Spectrum Disorder? People can’t have both according to the DSM V.
A personality Disorder like Schizoid resembles Autism but Schizoid is less complex I did my research and no they can't have them both .
Hey, thank you so much Kim. This is a very Informative video. In typical INTJ fashion, now I’m wondering if I should use my T function to act out my visions a bit more :)
Yes you should Te is needed to balance you out and to implement your visions in real time .
Hi ; hows it going.
I gues my Ti is always stronger than Si. My Ne is stronger than Fe.
Psychosis is one of the most hurtful things that someone can experience. Thank you for these informations - I hope you the best, darling.
Thanks I'm glad you got something out of it !
Hi here for you love you
Good video Kim, very informative
Thanks !
Good to see somebody even recognise this ... well done to you !
They tend to tremble at different frequencies. Get out your Fluke multimeter and probe em
Aloha Kim! In my opinion, the most unfathomable intelligence is the one where a person is super smart in book learning while having zero common sense. Now, just between us... I'd pay money to watch some of them try to survive on a deserted island. Or anywhere outside of the safety of the college campus. 😂😂😂
interesting i would love to discuss with u
I messed up when I mentioned Cognitive disorder I meant CBT .
I never realized how much of a safety freak I was until around this year, when I sometimes call my INFJ friend to say, "Are you still okay?" or telling my three-year-old niece, "Careful! That might hurt you!" Nice to have some validation!
I think being a safety freak is a good quality to have I think we need more of them or the world would go down the drain lol! 😃
Few comments from an estp- first I can see you’re nervous, but you’re doing it so continue to rock it. However to seem less self conscious; work on not saying umm and smacking your lips. When you got on a story you were much more comfortable and easier to follow. You got this! (Edit - everyone in this community thinks they are a IN** - so I’d suggest doing more based on them. It’s silly, but it seems to work for everyone else) Now the love part of us - just want someone who lets us be us and they are willing to go along for the ride. Play with us and let loose. I tend to be attracted to introverts, so I get the need for space, but be willing to try once in a while. I promise it’s worth it. Also, be patient with us when we aren’t as organized as you. For us to show love - we are very good at reading people; maybe not in an intuitive way, but in a body language way. Healthy ESTPs will use this to make sure you’re having a good time. Also, I will go out and make things easier for you when I’m into you. All we expect in return is loyalty and some effort.
I enjoyed this, and it's refreshing when INFPs are said to be a bit reserved and withdrawn and need time to trust people before they can open up. I think I have this fear that INFPs have this stereotype of being childish, naive and I suppose overly trusting, which is not something I see very much at all. Thank you for these videos.
Thank you for the compliment !
I can personally vouch that all this is 💯% accurate!
Thanks Esabelle ! 😊
Is this an April Fool's joke? 😳
No just forgot to put a title haha! 😄
great vid
Thank you .
As an INFJ, I can't say that I LIKE writing but I've always been pretty good at it. (At least compared to math and science.) But psychology and social work are certainly where I lean! 😋 I tend to cross into NT territory since I just BARELY score F (only 2 points from T) so logic and analyses also appeal to me too.
I think your type is balanced with feelings and being analytical.
@@kimtopology4257 That's a correct assessment, at least from my POV.
Man, my memory is terrible, so no way I could be an ISTJ! INTJ makes much more sense, because I just planned out the next five minutes of my day! Go me!!!!!
When we did that typing slash collaboration when I was not remembering the INFP functions you remembered and told me what they are I think you have a sharp memory probably better than INTJ'S since you have Si that function is about good memories your memory is better than mine I have at times forgot to turn off my coffee pot and also forgot sometimes to turn the hot water tap all the way so it would drip and I have gotten flack for that so not buying the whole INTJ thing lol!
I was absolutely joking, haha! While it is true that I forget some things, and my memory seems to have worsened with time, I think it's better than most other folks'. What's not so great is my ability to read peoples' emotions, but thankfully, I've learned to overcompensate by studying body language and learning from past mistakes.
so I got another typing @@EpicPaul64with Objective Personality I was curious and they typed me ISTJ but they said that I can come across as an INTP and that I can keep up with INTP'S don't know still processing in MBTI I'm an INTP crazy lol!
I don't know much about Objective Personality, but as far as Myers-Briggs, I don't think ISTJ fits you. Your filming and speaking styles are very sporadic, almost as if you didn't give any prior planning to what you were about to say or write, and you have a certain "warmth" to your speaking that typically only comes out in me on spiritual occasions, which suggests Extroverted Feeling. You also use a lot of abstraction and extra wording, which ISTJs wouldn't use because Sensing types prefer the tangible reality, and usually have a certain structure to their wording choices, even in an unexpected situation.
Yeah I agree with you Paul ! I try to keep my videos simple or concrete for my fellow sensors ! @@EpicPaul64
I liked this, I am very fascinated about the contrast between INTPs and INFPs - particularly since I've had so many close INTP friends who I really love. They're the type that makes me laugh the most, and I think it's interesting how, in my experience, the Fi and the Ti doesn't really clash very often. It's more like we're both intrigued by the differences and it allows for even more interesting discussions.
I know 2 INFP'S and both are really nice individuals and so authentic well I think Ne can make your type and mine quirky odd balls I wouldn't have it any other way .
Hey I think this relationship was depicted in the move Coraline. I think the mom is ESTJ and the dad is INTP.
According to RUclips, I was your first view, so go me for having a good algorithm! It could be that I'm not used to Introverted Thinking, but I'm not quite sure I understand what you mean by talking about bonding over the mutual functions. Do you mean that we'd likely talk about personal experiences and share wild ideas? Or I'd teach the INTP better memory skills, and the INTP would teach me how to be more open to new experiences? I have said for a while that my inferior function is where my humor comes from, so I wouldn't be surprised if I was the person you were referring to, haha! Also, here's a joke: Animal Crossing Amiibo Festival. ...I never said it was a good joke...
I mean that you can connect with INTP'S on a Si level and Ne level and yes I didn't mention your name just how your functions work haha! I get a kick out of your sense of humor that's all nothing complex just as simple as that !
Do you have an example of "connecting on an Si and Ne level"? I'm having trouble visualizing how that would play out... And thank you for the nameless shout-out!
I mean that you and an INTP have Ne and Si in common that's all hope this makes sense to you. @@EpicPaul64
I'll probably have to see it in context to comprehend it. Thankfully, one of my friends claims that her boyfriend is an INTP, so maybe, if I ever meet him, I can let you know the results!
@@EpicPaul64 We can talk about things to to do with Si and joke around when we are tapped into Ne the conversation would flow remember that collaboration video we made they're was no quiet moments it was a good vibe !
I've had very mixed opinions on INFJs for a while now. While the ones I like tend to be some of my best friends, they also tend to frustrate me the most of all of my friends simultaneously because they can have a hard time communicating in a way that I can understand. Additionally, they can sometimes struggle with being prompt, and don't know how to explain why they are like that. However, they are very good support partners, and I think, without them, I'd be far worse off.
Yes we need all types in our life especially INFJ'S.
I just discovered your channel and great informative videos! Thank you.
"INTJ have no problems putting their ideas out" ✔ It's true, many of us INTJ, we like/love physical exercice, sport. Because improving and mastering ourselves may be one of our goal, constantly improving. I almost never shared my Fi with family, but my INTJ online friends and even in the comments under MBTI video I share it sometimes ^^ (I even share it sometimes in my video : oops too much authenticity & weirdness ^^) 😆 "Human lie detectors" It's true, both for Ni & Ti. I agree the quirkiness of Ne, more than Ni. It's true they are great friends together. Hoping more people in the future see our video.
Hello, I was curious after reading one of your comments under the last video of ClubENTP. I think It's simply the unconscious (collective), that we are in part programmed (I know it's sound scary, it's what certain of us think). I read once that 90% of our behavior is unconscious. We all, all the energies influence each other, and function together (Humans, animals, plants, trees, the wind...). Yes, we are all connected, the "oneness", it's also called "the tree of life". I think our souls or spirits or minds or brains are all connected. For me it is simply the life itself, the unconscious. Some INFJ INTJ ENFP ENTP we experience it. I experience it every day many times, a lot ^^ I think the same : "things happen for a reason." Life bring us the right persons and right events at the right moment for many reasons : _To learn something about ourselves : the life want is to grow, to improve, to be the best person, want us to integrate all the parts of ourselves, to be authentic to ourselves, to show us what really is life _To learn something about life : life lesson _To learn something about someone : to show us that a person is not what we though they were You can be proud of you that you experience synchronicity, you reached another level of consciousness ^^ _To help a person, or the other person help us, or we help each other Happy to see more people sharing their thoughts about MBTI content and more.
Thank you !
Intp: wish I was istp And had a natural propensity for SE / craftsmanship hands on work. There's so many entry level trade jobs & useful skills practical handy that's needed and Ni a vision for a single / a clear cut goal Instead of always thinking of multiple options future possible Scenarios & just mostly seeing negative effects for situations The abstract thinking , logic & truth seems so unwanted in today's world. Unless i hold a position of authority or the ideas produce concrete $$$ nobody will respect it
As an INTP I love my type I wanted to since I was a teenager I wanted to be a Clinical Psychologist but that didn't work out so I had a plan B or another possibility working with children in a Day Care setting and it worked out I have done this work for many yrs I love Ne because you have so many options we all need that Ni only has one option and a Ni dom hopes this plays out down the road but they don't have many possibilities . The world needs INTP'S without Technology we won't advance or move forward as a fellow INTP I just want to say that world needs us for our intellectual problem solving skills and our ability to see the big picture our skills are respected and needed in this highly fast paced world .
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as an Intp usually I would explore theories and infos, if annoyed I can get to shadow function and focus on an objective 100% (like a tunnel effect). It is rare and it need to be triggered emotionally, it is very useful. Also Do you know about blood type, are you RH- ?
I don't know my blood type. When I'm really stressed I do exhibit ENTJ behavior like taking the lead on something that needs to get done it's a priority but normally I just retreat and want to be alone as an INTP this is what I would do .
Hello Kim, INTP speaking here... Is isolating myself in Alaska, building an off-grid cabin, and writing a manifesto a good career? (If people do not want to read it, I also dabble with pyrotechnics/explosives and traps, who knows, later on it can prove itself as a useful persuading tool)
I think so some INTP'S go into writing I wrote a short story but I wanted to add more to the story maybe make it Sci-Fi or to keep it a Fantasy so still thinking about it a remote place for INTP'S to focus on their work without distractions is a INTP'S paradise !
Sorry guys I meant to put INFJ in my title for the video .
Thanks, Kim! I love the healthy INPT personality type. They are innovative and analytical thinkers who are fun to be around.
Thank you for this SJ video. I think SJ videos are really needed in the community, because at the moment it seems NT and NF videos really outweigh the SJ content (at least what I saw so far on RUclips), which is fine by itself, but I'm an ISFP myself (I think), but my my is an ISFJ or ESFJ (I'm not sure yet which one), my dad is an ISTJ and my wife is an ESFJ, so personally I extra appreciate when SJ content pops up in RUclips Land. :) Also, I haven't found any other ISFJ typology-RUclipsr yet, except the "Realities of Typology" channel (if maybe you're interested in ISFJ's view/explanations/ideas about typology). I hope you don't mind me asking, I'm not asking to argue about it or anything like that, why I'm asking is simply because I'm still relatively noob at typing but I like asking people what they type are after I try to guess, so that can help me to slowly but surely build my little "Tertiary-Ni type examples"-database in my head. So, are you an INTJ? :) Also, how did you found out about typology? Thank you, have a nice day!
Hmm, on second thought, I think you are not an INTJ, at first, I thought you are one, but I rewatched a video that I saw long time ago and I couldn't remember well enough, the video is from an INTJ woman who has a RUclips channel called "c k", just these 2 letters. If you are interested for type comparison reasons or something, if you type "c k intj" into the RUclips search bar, then her videos and channel should pop up as a search result.
What confused me is that you and "c k" INTJ woman RUclipsr talk in a similar way in some aspects, like talk relatively slowly and make short pauses often and things like that, but the topic and the way (other way/aspect) of your talking seems really different. "c k" seem to talk in a more of an Ni way, and you seem to talk in a more of an Ne way (it seems like the words come to you more naturally, just like an Ne user seem most of the time).
So if you have ne, then that means you must have Si too, but I'm not sure in which slots those functions are in your function stack. In other words, I'm not even totally sure which is higher in you, Ne or Si, but now I'm pretty sure you have Ne in your conscious stack (and not Ni).
You seem to be a Thinker at first glance, but many times Tertiary Ti or Tertiary Te can look really strong too. Now I have to look for if you are a Ti Vs Te user.
Well, i can't decide for sure if you are a Ti or a Te user :) I'm not good enough at typing yet (I don't aim to become a typologist or anything, I do this just as a hobby). So at the moment I know (I think) for almost 100% sure that you are Ne and Si, I don't think your Ne is the dominant function, I think that would make you look more extrovert (I mean "extrovert" in a general sense of the word "extrovert", and not just because of the "extroverted" intuition in the dominant position). So if you are Ne/Si user and if you are not Ne dominant position user and if you seem like a Thinker then it must mean that you are either an INTP or ISTJ or Ti-highly-valueing-ISFJ or highly-Ti-valueing-INFP. I'm an Fi-dom ISFP and I usually sense if somebody has Fi or not, and I think you don't, at least certainly not in the dominant position, that means you can't be an INFP, but I wouldn't completely rule ISTJ yet, because they have as great Ti as INTPs have, 6th (Demonstrative/Critic) function position can be as strong as the first (Dominant/Lead) function position. So you so far what I see is that you are either an INTP or ISFJ or ISTJ. I ruled out ESTJ and ESFJ simply because (at least in this video) you really seem much more like an introvert (introvert in the general sense, not in the cognitive function sense).
Called it! ENFPs are just too perfect as a romantic partner, as I've often described my relationships with them to be like a mirror image of myself. Since meeting my ENFP friends, I've certainly gotten better at being easy-going (to the point where I'm mistaken as an ENFP) and being open to not always having a rigid agenda. ENFPs have expressed to me that I help them to plan their life better, and give them inspiration on how to change the world, as they might struggle to actually implement their ideas, whereas I'm definitely the type that needs to "think out loud" and keeping my ideas to myself bothers me. Good for you for unintentionally reading my point, or just paying attention to what I've said in my videos!
I think your videos speak for themselves Paul !
"Speak for themselves"? What do you mean by that, in this context?
I pay attention to what you say in your videos that's what I mean .
Gotcha! In that case, much appreciated!
I'm curious if your compatibility picks for the INTP were based on your own inferior function being so developed, because I imagine most people would mistake you for an ENFJ or ESFJ if they didn't know you better. Conversely, while I haven't watched your ISTJ version yet, I'm gonna guess that my compatible type might be the ENFP, because I seem to really get along with that type, and of all the Intuitives, they're the ones I have the easiest time following along with what they are saying, due to the mutual function stack. Meeting them has also significantly helped in getting me to be more in touch with my silly side... though another contributing factor could be genetics, as my dad, and my grandpas on both sides, were quite the jokesters, haha!
Because my Fe is well developed by my own faith I wasn't that way when I was a teenager I was socially awkward didn't have much friends I have said things that were not nice to people who were in my life I wasn't aware of my off the cuff comments but when I became a Christian I had to learn to develop the fruitage of the holy spirit that Even though my Fe is well developed I still am not a touchy feely person I still use Ti Ne and some people have called me cold . Yeah it does make logical sense that ISTJ'S are compatible ENFP'S probably more than ESFP and like you mentioned ENFP'S will be silly which ISTJ'S need that in their life because some ISTJ'S can be serious so it's a good match friendship wise and romantically .
Yeah, I have an interesting history with ESFPs. I like their company, but in very select circumstances! Their Extroverted Sensing makes them want to have very extreme hangouts in very loud and crowded places (And yes, I'm very much speaking from experience), and I think that might get a bit overwhelming. ENFPs, conversely, seem to be okay with whatever type of hangout makes them get closer to me, even if it's just sitting around. Perhaps the mutual Introverted Sensing makes us crave nostalgia more than novelty, and that's why I would probably get along with them better long-term than an ESFP. I've also noticed that ESFPs that develop their Introverted Intuition seem to act a lot like INTJs when it comes to romance, which is hit or miss. On one hand, it's great that it's an aspect of their life they take seriously, but on the other hand, it can come across as more of an "Ends justify the means" type of scenario, whereas I think myself and ENFPs are more likely to seek out relationships based on the connections, and not as much on sensual desires.
Yeah you need depth and substance .@@EpicPaul64
It's kind of scary how accurately you described me at the workplace! For most of my life, I thought I was just a quirky weirdo who was obsessed with rules, but I suppose having an SJ personality explains a lot. However, since everyone has a unique personality, there are two exceptions to your SJ list for me personally: 1) I'm not against goofing around at my job, as long as it doesn't interfere with the work I need to get done. At my first job, I was constantly telling jokes, imitating people (including my bosses sometimes), playing some silly pranks, pretending to flush Kevin's phone down the drain, etc. At my current job, I sometimes take Bible verses and change the wording to fit more with my boss's role, which cracks her up every time! ...Maybe that's why Jeff thought I'm an ENFP. 2) While it's true that I generally reserve off days for sick days, I'll occasionally take them off for something like Comic Con or a Faith-related conference. Considering that I don't really like loud noise and big crowds that much, such occurrences are very few and far between, probably averaging about once or twice a year. You also got me to re-think about a realization I had at work today: That most folks perceive blind spot Extroverted Feeling as ITJs being oblivious to when peoples' feelings are hurt, and while that's true, it also means we're obvious to positive feelings. It was your comment about SJs needing validation from their bosses that they are doing a good job that made me realize, "Dang! I have a lot of trouble knowing if people like me or approve of my work." Even if people affirm me, I usually have to ask a lot of questions to understand what they are saying, or might sometimes even blurt out, "This isn't a joke, right?" It makes me kind of want to make a video on the subject, so thank you for giving me an opportunity to Info Dump!
LOL! i can't believe you got away with the pranks and joking around at your work I might of pegged you wrong in that instance lol! all the jobs I've had I couldn't do that it was business as usual lol!
Hashtag accurate! 🙌 That certainly describes my INFJ childhood! It's important for parents and teachers to understand these common baseline differences- more of them should really hear this.
My husband told me that this video would be hard to understand and I thought their has to be some one that can relate to this video Yes people need to be more aware of their child's inner world and outer so thank you again for the eloquent comments ! .
@@kimtopology4257 Hard to understand how? Maybe I understand it better because I'm a fellow intuitive; but I still can't picture it being THAT unclear for anyone really.
@@Esabelle I think my husband is split in the middle between being an intuitive and sensor he has been known to be very good with sensor details but at the same time he uses metaphors and analogies I think he is an NF an ENFJ but when he talks about details he is like an ESFJ he likes to help people both types like to help people in different ways he's into UFO'S so I think he is an intuitive sensors would find that to be nonsense.
@@kimtopology4257 Ah! When someone is between letters, especially N and S, it can result in an odd combo of traits. It makes way more sense what your husband said now. I once dating a man between ISFP and INFP- he also seemed to straddle the line between some S and N traits.
@@Esabelle He is on the border of E or I so he's probably an Ambivert too but one thing that I'm real sure of is that he is feeler I know when we dated he would write me poetry and also he wrote some children's stories they're not published but they are so funny maybe one day he'll get them published . Your experience with your boyfriend must of been confusing to you did he get typed or did you typed him?