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Why are you limiting yourself to just 2 locations? 😂

Thanks for the encouragement. I have been looking for a job since March and have not found anything, my classmates all have jobs and I am the only one who can not get hired. I am tired and feel hurt and stressed, I can’t barely sleep some days and other days I question God and get so angry.

Sorry to hear that my husband and I are in are 50s and our children are adults we have been looking, to move to Raleigh NC or Charlotte NC. The opposite in MN Minneapolis, it is full of Nigerians young and old. Well, you wouldn't like our cold winters not bas as it used to be, spring / summers are beautiful.

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For me I can understand both sides but when you talk about culture there are something in the ( Nigerian) culture that are not normal and sometimes because as African American speak our mind and are not afraid to be different and go against the grain I am married to a Nigerian man were of course we have our differences but that’s what makes us grown learning each other making our set of rules and beliefs and it’s doesn’t make him less Nigerian because he has his own mind and that’s something as American women I can respect we both learn and compromise in different ways but it has made us so much stronger because we didn’t go by what society says or culture I would train my husband for anyone

Ngozi's blood is giddy giddy LOL. Hi Ngozi!!

Charlotte is beautiful!!

Microcenter on south boulevard has the Razr V2 X microphone on sale for $39. would be a ''sound'' investment, pardon the pun! Best of luck my queens!

homeless is NOTHING like it is in California. Homeless in CA camp on every available green space between highways and under highways, and even along major street. They even get up on the green space between roads and gated/walled communities. If I based Houston homeless vs CA homeless, Houston get's a zero. And yes the traffic is horrible all the time.

As someone who has lived in Chicago and I now living in Houston, I can totally understand her plight. I've been living in Houston for about 13 years, and a lot of what she was describing is the culture of Houston and dynamics of the city. It does get really hot here, and if you enjoy ourdoors then Houston ain't it. There is a large funneling for condo/apartment life which is inhibiting if you want space. And housing in Houston vs Atlanta wouldn't take you as far. Ive never thought about leaving Houston but this is very convincing. I've always heard Atlanta has more bang for your buck when it comes to housing; but I just don't know about paying more taxes in GA that I don't pay living in TX.

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Not a place for me!

Too many moving to the area aren't improving the culture. Rather they are bringing a way of living that diminishes the charm of the area. And because its trendy to move to Texas its becoming oversaturated with people in some areas and the traffic is horrible.

Water Bugs galore 😂

I agree with your assessment and description about “dating.” I don’t understand why or why this word has so many meanings to different women… I have had women tell me that they aren’t intimate with men that they are “dating.” Then another woman would say “Of course we’re intimate, I told you that we are “dating.” 😂😂😂 And as a man I can honestly tell you that when women use the term “dating,” a man will stick around and get all of the sexual benefits he can because in his mind he and the woman are not in a relationship, and forget about a committed relationship!!!!! Then women will get upset and feel like they were used for sex…. And they were…. And please I don’t want anyone to tell me that it’s just semantics!!!!!!

When you’re saying Houston, are you talking about Houston proper or the surrounding areas as well? I ask is Houston in the metro areas are actually going up and population

So with the 401k etc my job will have me return the money/take it back if I don’t stay with them for I think 5 years and I want to try different jobs like you guys said . So do you know of any ways around this ?

Shes a single mom cause shes a stuck up self centered person..no man will put up with her attitude

70% of Black women In America are single yet, have the highest out of wedlock birth rate on planet Earth. At a rate of 78% and 60% have two or more children with multiple men, What man that have worked hard to make himself successful want to take on this kind of burden? Let's look at another stat 80% of American Black women are Overweight and 60% are OBESE Hmmm?

Everytime the thought hits my mind your videos pop up - yea I’m outta here I’ve grown attached to the city due to my work but I gotta go this ain’t it

_I don't date Older BM turned them down most of them have children already! BM are cheap they don't want to pay for dates and they want a wife who will pay the bills while they contribute Don't me a fool! * I had OLD BM who was 20 years older than me trying to date me I told them NO! Most had children by 2 women at that point, I wasn't taken care of no 70-year-old man those men died alone!_

_A lot of older BM are just as broke as younger BM; many are not established. Older BM dupp younger BW who have nothing and they find out have 1-2 babies and they leave older BM who have nothign to offer!

_In most Urban cities less 12% of BM when married are the breadwinners vs other races of men who are all at 50% including recent immigrants that can barely speak English! Most BM go into relationships with BW who are the providers while they're contributors. Most women want partners or men who are educated like themselves! _*_BM prefers to be marginal, not excel or feel they can't excel so they don't try, they want the women to do all the work!_*

Brooke shields is 9.9 rihanna is a 5-6 and you are prob a 4-5 from what I see.

Loved everything y’all discussed . Great food for thought . Thank you.

The one on the left looks like Fatima / Crystal from Sistas 🤍

My dad in the picture would hang himself if i procreated with a African American let alone marry one i rather die from HIV.

I think that Houston's growth is mostly from international countries as opposed to people from other parts of the US.

How did i get to this kinda convo. Only black people talk Nigerian this Nigerian that, kenyan this Kenyan that, African American this and African American that. Mcheeeewww. Pls we need advancement in our societies and not all these. Mcheeeeeeeww

Nigeria men can allow alot from American women but we definitely don't do more for them, the real deal is still happening here in Nigeria some are getting houses here but it doesn't make headlines cause it's the norm, the america women just makes it louder.

Married and single 😂

Don’t yall say Atlanta we full and you know the brothas don’t like the women lol

Been here for a few years. I agree with many of your points. I live a very low key life here

Houston is the first point of entry for distribution and trafficking of narcotics and human trafficking. Enjoy.

I moved to Houston in 2019. I loved it when I settled initially. I like the low cost of living, diversity and culture. With that being said, I feel like a lot of things have changed after the pandemic as more people were moving in droves. Besides that, the weather is brutal. We have extreme heat, natural disasters that will take the city out in minutes due to poor infrastructure, flooding, extreme cold that our grid up until recently could not withstand. The traffic is awful, especially in the evenings; turning a 15-20 min commute into an hour. Oh I forgot to mention, I have never come across such rude behavior in my life until I moved to Houston. I saw a young woman physically assault a frail elderly man who was in a wheel chair, and those are just some examples. I have had my car broken into three times in two years, and I live in a nice part of town. Oh and dont get me started on the mosquitos! They will eat you alive, and you’ll find massive roaches just crawling around in the city. I plan to move by next summer. Those are some things to consider if you plan on moving here. If I could rewind back time, I wouldnt move here.

_BW can't find partners on their level; BM wants to _*_Marry up_*_ as most BM are marginal. Less than 12% of married BM in most Urban cities are breadwinners in 2022 stats vs 50% of other races including the immigrants! *Most BM drop out of society at 37 to 55 and they look for women to live off!_

*According to Pew Research Center, 24% of recently married Black men have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity, which is double the rate of Black women*

Give black guys hope

Oh wow I moved to Charlotte too in June 2020, no job, no family, no friends- so I definitely understand and resonate with your experience. I now seesaw in contemplating moving from here for some of the reasons you mentioned... but had a blast when I first came. I also started a girls GroupMe for meetups, but so hard to get people to participate in anything! Was exhausting and some girls were catty acting so I haven't done anything with it lately

I’ve been watching your videos because charlottes been heavy on my mind !

Just move to Houston family matters it’s rare sisters are not beefing it’s big enough to not feel crowded or Atlanta if you wanna be rivals lol

I would join the meet up if you do it

Def would love if I had you as a resource. Also, do you have sister locks?

Tornadoe hurricane flooding hot, no basements retiring somewhere else georgia.north Carolina

Nice video ,,, I always enjoy your videos .. I hope one day I’ll run into you 😊

Yes Nnena get that apartment video up soon I need to move by Oct … I’m already in charlotte ,,,thx

If your roots are in America, meaning, you're an American Freedman (This sister is not), you should DEFINITELY move to Charlotte. The immigrants are taking over this city that we've inhabited in great numbers since the Reconstruction era. We me more of OUR PEOPLE from right here in America to get to Charlotte and all of the cities populated by our Freedmen family.

Cslling Houston segregated is a bit strong.Houston is the most diverse city in the country .There are people here from all over the world.I think a lot of people come here from cities with a long history of segregation.What that means are the black people are all going to stick to a side of the city.Community will be steong and prevalent but opportunities will be scarce. Houston historically has a history of being one of the few cities that did not have forced integration. The people and businesses owners integrated on their own. Yhe blaxk people here built strong communities. Places like 5th Ward, 3rd Ward, Sunnyside may not look like much but those communities are rock solid. That means some may move to other parts of Houston but they do not abandon those neighborhoods.If youre a transplant, its hard to break into those communities because everyone knows everyone. So people hete are not divided along racial lines necessarily, they are divided culturally. I don't understand what people mean by they cant find a decent oaying job in Houston. If you sont have a field of expertise and think youre going to find a job working in a warehouse, factory, etc; those jobs are largely given to people crossing the southern border. If youre in the medical field, technology, energy, you'll do well.If you are an unskilled worker the first thing you need to do is take any job to pay the bills, then enroll in Houston Community College. They have a ton of Continuing Education classes, that are very affordable and they offer online classes. Houston employers prefer experience over degrees so with a little grind, you can double your income in less than a year, taking classes online. I know seceral people that have done that successfully. Lone Star college is also good.Last thing on jobs but the most important thing, Hostin is too damn big for you to be going around using the "y'all hiring" technique. Get a resume and get online!! Best places online are Indeed and LinkedIn. Link. The others are ok but those two are the best. Indeed will let you search for jobs in your area and you can apply for 20 or more jobs all at once!! Do this everyday for two weeks or more and you will get calls and emails for interviews. I tell my kids, "when you dont have a job, looking for a job is your job" you should soend 8 hours a day doing that until you find something. If you see jobs that you can do but don't meet the qualifications APPLY ANYWAY, some jobs will hire you on experience and just pay you the minimum salary. That's why some jobs say {$20-$35/hr). Last thing, don't be afraid to take temp jobs, that is one of the easiest ways to find perm work.Houston is too big. Big companies use recruiters, contact temp agencies and the recruiters will tell you where the jobs are.

Born and raised here .. and it's so terrible now ... Everything is expensive...its too hot .. too much traffic, to much crime , Everyone including crackheads have guns ... Your kids are targets ... Police target middle class ....not the ghettos .. Oh and if a natural disaster comes .. lol game over ... You won't find food , gas , assistance for months .

Atlanta (the city) is ghetto. The service is ghetto. The city is so rundown, abandoned houses and graffiti everywhere and I'm not talking about the nice street art and murals. They've built all these luxury apartments in the middle of the hood. I went to every so-called "nice" neighborhood and I'm sorry but in Chicago these neighborhoods would be considered the ghetto. I can't leave fast enough. The suburbs are nice but boring. I cannot recommend living in the actual city, which really defeats the purpose of living here if you ask me.