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The scene when Charlie calls his sister. At first, she appears annoyed but wants to be supportive of him. It suddenly turns serious when Charlie questions if he killed his aunt....leading his sister to panic and realize the seriousness of the moment and that her brother Charlie is about to harm himself. To hear her voice crack as she screams his name is highly emotional and well acted.

The line he said about how to stop it..... I've not had the trauma or anything he went through, but that part, about all the pain, feeling everything, seeing everything and it's not yours...... That I felt. That I felt very deeply and I know that this is a movie and all, but I know that doctor didn't actually understand. You can know, you can hear, you can learn, but unless you live it, you can't truly understand what living like that is like.

Just tell me how to make it stop

I can feel myself becoming crazy. It’s like I went the bad route and am in the opposite direction of infinite

Kids can’t tell the difference between love and sexual abused. Charlie found out too late

Aunt helen got abused too and cut herself... Generatuonal trauma sucks

I thought about this scene when I was admitted to the hospital for mental health reasons. The anxiety was debilitating, the panic attacks were getting worse and nearing double digits daily. I got help, I was able to start healing. Therapy, Medication and time. If you're struggling, please advocate for yourself. There ARE people who care and want you to get better, as hard as it can be to accept that when youre going through you have to hold out for that hope

Can anyone please tell me the movie names, please

Im gonna vent because I have nobody to talk to about it and this movie reached to me. I was 9 and my dad's cousin at first he seemed like such a cool dude such a caring loving and sweet guy but when he started to visit my family more often, he started to be way too affectionate and touchy, he showed affection the same way as my dad but it always felt wrong it didnt feel like your typical family member that loves their niece, it felt sexual but at the time I didn't realize how wrong it was. The one thing that did confirm to me how he had officially molested not just me but now my sisters to was 4 years lated when he reached my dad again and decided to visit and bring his parents too. As soon as he entered through that door I felt that same uncomfortable vibe he'd always bring when he'd hug me. I didn't want to admit it i didn't want to think about it. That guy without shame locked himself and my sister in the bathroom and did whatever molestors do to my little sister. I remember how lifeless her eyes looked, how she seemed so confused and uncomfortable coming out with that man. I asked her what he did to her and it was just unexplicable the stuff she was telling me that moment. The rest of the day I tried so hard for that man to stay away from her and locked ourselves for hours till he left, I didn't care if my parents scolded me for being disrespectful to the guests. I gained the courage to tell my mom that same day and im so so glad she believed me. That day felt like a horrible nightmare, I remember every single piece of that day, how scared I was, how much I was shaking knowing that I was right all the time and that I failed to protect my sister from him but it was far too late to have done anything by that point. I pray everyday that that man suffers for what he did to my sister and if not I will find a way to make him sorry for it. This movie has reasonated with me like no other movie has ever and I truly hope my sister can heal from that trauma and that her brain buries that memory as far far down as possible.

Why are tarantulas so big 😭😭 Kaitlin got jokes 😂

It must have been triggering for him being with an adult woman after all that flash back

I think I’m the only one who didn’t realize he was molested the first time I watched it. Lol

I think his sister did witness it is just she was little as well so she didn't understand and as they got older and she thought about it more she did start to understand.

This movie reminds me of a character effy stonem from a show skins. ruclips.net/video/m1EbZK24Syo/видео.htmlsi=F2LcXkguY5ZXNWcx ruclips.net/video/8nmOJaeb-Fc/видео.htmlsi=LNJbFbKaaNcPkWxX

Har har Mahadev

I related so much to this scene when I saw this the first time, I bawled my eyes out when he tries to stop it from happening, saying "don't cry, stop crying." Not to mention, "I don't know how to not notice it" and "it never stops."

So deep😢😢. Yet so sad.

Incredible actor

My eyes watered up the second his sister could sense the fear for her brother on the phone. I love this movie.

Reading the book, the way Charlie behaves, communicates. His fixation on asking about hockey and sports. His blunt way of speaking His fixations of reading and literature, diary keeping. Pebbling by making and gifting people with personalised mixtapes. His breakdowns, (in the book) uncontrollable crying or meltdowns. Charlie is painfully relatable and to me autism coded/autistic. Which would make his aunts SA even worse because she took advantage of a vulnerable person in two ways. A minor and a special needs child

Ok, hear me out, I have a reason of depression, I don’t want to sound bad or anything, but I feel like I’ve lost and been through more than most can handle, at just the age of 8 months I was malnourished and neglected, at the age of 2-13 I was abused physically, mentally, and sexually (only once though) by both parents and their friends, at the age of 4 I was beat to the verge of breaking down totally, at the age of 6 I was raped, at 7 I lost my father to suicide one day after my birthday, when I was 8 my mother was addicted to drugs, at that point on I was abused and neglected, malnourished, starved, and was also abused by her girlfriend, I am quite unintelligent, this sounds stupid but also very unlucky and Unattractive, I was broken and still suffer from trauma to this day, I… don’t think I long for this world, or contribute much, I will always be alone, I don’t understand why this happened, but there is nothing I can do about it

I kind of feel a similar way to how he feels. I just remembered a lot of repressed memories that I have from school and my last job. I wasn't actually sexually assaulted but I remember certain things like at my last job, the owners oldest son (older then my coworkers and I) basically spying and watching us on the cameras. It wasn't just to make sure that we were doing our jobs though. There were other things too like abuse in general. I've had people threaten to kill me/beat me up, I've been beat up before, people act creepy in certain ways towards me, etc. My family was more abusive in other ways like emotionally and verbally abusive. Watching this movie kind of helps me to deal with it all. Edit: My mom has hit me before too. I was actually physically assaulted both at school and at work mostly though.

I remember how he wrapped his arms around me to tell me it would all be okay, and that the pain will go away soon. But it never did. Ever since that day that he first did it, it feels like my insides are bleeding. I feel dirty no matter how many times i scrub at my skin in the shower. I can always feel his breathe against my right ear, I can’t bear to look at myself in the mirror anymore without seeing some vulnerable boy that could’ve stopped it. Everyone tells me that it wasn’t my fault but I sure don’t believe that. I feel broken, forever broken. I can’t even handle people embracing me anymore. So what’s the point in living in this reality where he gets to live life to his fullest when I’m stuck here forever feeling like the little kid i once was, i remember telling my friend about what happened to me and all he did was laugh and say that you would never do that to me. You didn’t seem like the type of person to do those things, but you did. Nowadays I still flinch and despise taking pictures because of what you’ve done to me. Each time the camera would flicker you’d strip more of my innocence away, and no matter how many times you apologize I won’t forget those 4 years that you ruined me. To my Older Cousin

This entire scene really resonates with me on a very deep level. The summer of last year was pretty shit. Honestly every time was really shit, but that summer had some definite highlights. I thankfully never suffered sexual abuse, but I have my fair share of emotional and familial trauma, as well as a slew of other problems that fucked with me for years. That shit just gets to you and overtakes your whole life. When Charlie was alone at home, walking through the house frantically, holding back his tears, and then finally looked at the knife, it’s exactly what it was like for me when I was close to harming myself with my own kitchen knife. I was just so stuck in my head for so long, and at that point I was overwhelmed with the cluster fuck of regrets, traumas, self hating, and my whole life just playing out with me wishing things were different. When you’re in that place it just seems like nothing ever went right, and that everything is your fault, and that everyone and everything would be better off without you. But in reality you’re probably just using that as an excuse to justify the selfish want of wanting to kill yourself because u hate everything about you. You do it for you. I ended up being sent to the ER after having admitted to how I constantly told myself to just kill myself already and the number of times I came close to acting upon it. The doctor that came into the room had such a similar voice to the one in this clip, and it was a very weird feeling having my dad find out about everything. I’m doing my damn best rn to be in a better place, but goddamn it’s hard.

3:23 me explaining my 13th reason why

this scene triggered me so badly, i'd just been discharged from partial hospitalization and watched this in summer school... I sat in the parking lot after trying not to cry

Logan Lerman is a gift. How he acted in this made many people in my family have a “ah fuck” moment if you will and say I remind them of Charlie and how Charlie reminded them of me. Thank you Charlie for all the help when I want to break. Sincerely, A friend

The acting's great but the editing sells it just as much

I related to this scene so much. I was sexually abused by my aunt and I thought it was normal until I was 16. I was ashamed to admit what she did to me. I was embarrassed to admit a woman abused me, especially since I’m male. It was even worse when my family (my mom’s side, my dad believed me) said I was lying and an attention seeker.

Fuck man

I feel so dumb I didn't get this right away and didn't understood why he was blaming himself for her death. I really thought he looked up to his aunt and only got the hint when he was writing those letters. I'm so naive.

It truly is a horrible thing to be depressed to the point of suicide. You literally try to think of all the ways to kill yourself and what would be the least painful for you and others. Sadly most attempts fail which leaves people in an even worse state. Depression doesn’t mean “sad” it is much more than that.

"my dad can't afford that" "Don't worry about that." What?

Joan Cusack is a SEVERELY UNDERRATED unsung hero of an actress.

They're such great actors

I didn't get it can yall say does anyone know about it other than Charlie himself????

3:25 I relate to this so hard

this part is all too real. trying my best every day to recover from my childhood and I have this movie to thank in part. nothing’s completely hopeless.

It's literally me

Really hard to watch but also incredibly well done. So perfectly executed and emotional but so disturbing.

the scene with him crying is so sad, I basically did the same thing and would always find ways to try to make myself stop crying because I would get bullied for crying or shamed for it

Charlie showed what panic attack looks like before he ended up in a hospital

Omg she from shameless🤦🏾‍♀️

this scence breaks me

They honestly wouldn't allow the lamp or the flowers to be in his room. It's dangerous. Also, I in a way am just like him.

I love nina dobrev she is always playing a nice person and I here she is nice irl

this is the part where i mildly shouted WHAT THE FUCK AUNT HELEN at the movie theater

my comfort film

This bit here was great movie making.

I keep coming back to this, ig it’s Bc I have my own abuser.. sexual abuser , this just makes me feel like I’m not alone