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My name is LJ, and I am That Leadership Guy. On this channel, I publish in-depth analyses of fictional leaders from TV, Movies and Games. Interested in what we can learn from leaders such as Darth Vader, SHODAN, Captain Ramius, or Ned Stark? Subscribe the channel and you will get a fresh review every week (I hope).
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Darth Vader: Five Lessons for Life and Leadership (Star Wars)
Today we look at the Dark Lord again - this time to learn five practical lessons for leadership and our everyday lives...
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Breaking Walt: The Destructive Effects of Confirmation Bias (Breaking Bad)
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How Positivity Makes You More Successful! (SpongeBob SquarePants)
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Today we look at SpongeBob - just a stupid, childish sponge, you say? I think I can convince you to think again. Please consider leaving a Subscription if you like my content - it's free, but helps a great deal!
How to Combine Different Leadership Styles - Chrisjen Avasarala (The Expanse)
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Today we look at the first female leader on this channel, and she certainly is a great example of leadership gone right. Also, we try to answer an important question: Can we combine different leadership styles? If you like the video, please leave a Like or Subscription, it really means a lot!
The Fallacy You REALLY Want To Avoid - But Probably Can't
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Today, we look at one of the most common cognitive biases and how it affects fictional characters from all across the board. If you like my videos, please share the video with your friends and subscribe to the channel!
Why Tywin Lannister failed (Game of Thrones)
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Today we revisit Tywin Lannister from the HBO hit series Game of Thrones. The only question we want to answer: Why did he fail? Please leave a like, comment or subscription if you liked the video!
Tywin Lannister: Ruthless Pragmatist, Effective Leader? (Game of Thrones)
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Today we look at one of the most ruthless leaders in TV history - is this leadership style effective? Does the end always justify the means? Please leave a like or subscription if you like my content and share your thoughts on today's video in the comments!
Kane and the Basics of Charismatic Leadership (Command & Conquer)
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Today we look at Kane, undoubtedly one of the most charismatic computer game villains of all time. But what makes him the charismatic leader he is? Please leave a like or subscription if you like my content and share your thoughts on today's video in the comments!
Darth Vader and the Failure of Micromanagement (Star Wars)
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Today we will be looking at the Dark Lord himself, providing ample example of how the leadership concept of Micromanagemt can go utterly wrong... Please leave a like or subscription if you like my content and share your thoughts on today's video in the comments!
Easily my favorite character in GoT.
Mine too! One of the few with a complete arc before the latter seasons could ruin it...
This fallacy only comes into play if the course is 100% wrong. You only get really good at things if you practice for 10,000 hours. If you give up on everything after 1000 hours, you will never succeed at becoming proficient at anything, even if you 'saved' 9000 hours by quitting each time. On the other hand, things that are highly luck dependent do tend to have this fallacy a lot, since your 50th pull on the slot machine has no greater chance to win than your first, and if you need to stop, you need to stop, so there is no point in going further, since you have made 0 progress toward winning.
His biggest failure was letting Cersei do whatever and not utilizing the 2 smart sons he had.
Tywin didn't fail, he built the greatest house and army in the kingdoms, but as with many great men, his children were all ingrates and failed him. Jaime was taken from him by a spiteful king. Tyrion succumbed to lust. Cersei in her great wisdom destroyed all the alliances Tywin carefully built over years out sheer pettiness and stupidity. You can talk all you want about the Starks, Martells, Greyjoys, Boltons, Golden Company whatever, none of them dared do anything whilst Lord Tywin lived.
You are certainly not wrong, but I understand "failure" here more in terms of whether he succeeded in the field that mattered most to him - building a long-lasting Legacy for House Lannister. And there he certainly failed. Now, you might say this was due to Cersei's failure, but yet he should have done a better job foreseeing that she'd be unable to uphold his legacy. So to a certain extent, he is responsible for his ultimate failure, I would argue.
@ThatLeadershipGuy_EN had Tyrion not got him he would have sent her back to the Rock away from the king where she could cause no harm. Cersei is just a monster, no way to change that. Tywin had Cersei to ruin everything, Ned had a Catelyn to ruin him.
Tywin's mistake was he was a rotten father. Had he actually raised his children better Jamie, Cersei and Tyrion wouldn't be screwed up, insecure and arrogant. He would also be alive to curb his children's worse habits and not be blinded by their flaws. He may looked at his father a weak foolish leader but what Tywin lacked was he failed to discipline himself on how he treated his children particularly Tyrion He was too hung up on being in control and his children especially Cersei and Tyrion resented him for it. He was such a control freak caring more about the Lannister legacy which led to his downfall. The lack of empathy is a reason why Tywin failed.
Yes! I have narrowed it down a little to the "Falling to understand his kids" part, but probably you're right. He pretty much sucked as a father 👍
Cool video! The sarcasm about Gilbert's quote was funny and very German. It's nice to watch a video of commentary using footage rather than footage using commentary, if you catch my meaning.
Thank you so much for the kind feedback, really appreciate it a lot! Yeah I also prefer it this way. Best case is, footage should support the message, not the other way round 👍
To me, Tywin's biggest flaw (both in the show and the books) is his desire for absolute control. If he would have actually trusted his children, he could have seen that he had 3 invaluable players that could have made their family name last for centuries. Jamie was one of the best swordmen in the entire kingdom, Cersei was in an invaluable position as the mother of the king, while also being one hell of a political schemer in her own right. And of course, Tyrion is one of the smartest men in the entire kingdom. Had Tywin been willing to give up some of that control he coveted so much, he could have seen that he and his 3 children could have accomplished his goal together, rather than trying to force it through with fear and intimidation.
Long live Jon Snow , King of the North and the sequel we all still want to happen ❤
YES!😊👍
Thanks!
It's easy to see where Cersei got her narcissism and short-sightedness from. Tywin. Tywin is nowhere near as bad as Cersei is when it comes to planning more than one step ahead. But his methods created more enemies for the Lannisters than friends. For every foe or rival he scared into submission with his tricks and brutality, he enraged and alianated the rest. Hell apparently Tywin had around 4 other siblings including Kevan, and he was pretty much the only one willing to follow Tywin's lead. I think the rest of his younger siblings hated Tywin and were probably glad to be rid of this narcassistic tyrant they had for an elder brother.
To be more specific,tywins biggest mistake was not utilizing Tyrions capabilities
Yes he definitely should have done that. I still think he could have been successful if he had listened to and cared for the thoughts of his other children. Tyrion was his single greatest mistake though, you're right!
Fantastic stuff, I am surprised you don't have more subscribers yet! RUclips kept on recommending your Tywin video in my sidebar. Have you seen Attack on Titan? If so, I'd be so curious about your view on Erwin Smith's leadership style.
Thank you, this is so very kind of you, really appreciate your comment 👍 I am happy about any subscriber who finds his way to my channel and likes what I'm doing, I guess the rest just takes time and patience 🙂 I haven't seen Attack on Titan yet, but I am happy to put it on my watchlist! Always grateful for suggestions 👍
@@ThatLeadershipGuy_EN Thanks for your reply :) Attack on Titan is set in a scenario where humanity's bare survival is at stake and Erwin is the leader of an expeditionary corps, who build simultaneously their military elite but also the unit that suffers the most casualties, meaning that as an "employee" you are expected to perform highly and accept a very high chance of death. If you want a teaser at how Erwin nevertheless manages to inspire following, type "attack on titan erwin speech to recruits season 1" into the search bar :)
Will definitely check it out, thanks for the recommendation!
Bro didn’t fail
No he died on purpose without establishing his legacy 😉 but seriously though, why do you think he did not fail? Thinking about doing a video on that.
Excellent video. It really benefits from being that bit longer so you can really delve deep into the theme and illustrate with great examples AND give the audience time to think about it without rushing. NPD isn't just new product development then! 😂 Well done! And I tried to disprove that it was good but couldn't 😅
Really appreciate your kind feedback! New product development and narcissism go hand in hand it seems 😊
Tywin originally had great plans, that were beyond ambitious. The plan was for Jaimie to marry Lysa, and for Cersai to marry Rhaegar.
Tywin's biggest failure was obvious to me; his biggest failure was that he hated the most capable of his 3 children, Tyrion, for the crime of being a Dwarf. To the point he set him up or was willing to allow him to die for a crime he didn't commit. Tywin was in the driving seat overall in the show until he was killed by the fallout of his own failures regarding Tyrion. His focus on legacy also is pragmatic. Because pragmatically, 'We are all dead in the long run,' is the ultimate reality. Tywin operates with that as his baseline. Tywin didn't operate with the need for he himself to be on the Iron Throne, only that someone from his family did, because of that baseline.
You are right.
Star Wars a morality play and thanks to you MBA leadership class. Way to go!
Thank you 😊👍
Being shot on the toilet can happen to any modern leader? Now, I am scared.
Probably not, but wrongly assuming your followers share your goals and visions certainly can 😉
@@ThatLeadershipGuy_EN Definitely! And... remembering to wear armour while shitting.
Sure helps 🤣
7:41 would say tyrions focus is more on being loved .
Yes, might very well be 👍
keep it up! great video i like it
Thank you so much, that's very kind of you! I'll give it my best 👍
4:10 wrong family legacy is fact and not opinion, bad start already man bad start
@@sergoldenhandthejust1495 I don't say it's opinion, I say it's ideological. And it is, as Tywin gains nothing tangible for it in his lifetime, thus making it an odd goal to pursue if you are as pragmatic as he is. Fact.
That puts me in an even greater mood for the weekend! As you say, fun and excellence are not mutually exclusive. So right in so many ways, my friend! Positivity rules! Top video...deeply thought provoking even with a cartoon subject!
Thank you so much for the kind words 😊👍 have a positive weekend 😉
To understand Tywins obession with legacy you need to know his background Under tywin's farher who was a weak man, the Lannister name was a joke and looked down upon. They had no respect or fear from the other houses And their own bannerman abused and took them for granted like House Rayne Even Copying the lannister's banner for their own. The family was a laughing-stalk until Tywin took command And then things changed. The extermination of house Rayne and tywin's brutal and ruthless treatment made the lannisters great again and feared. That's what he means, legacy means a family of strentgh and power When he talks to Jamie about not caring what the sheep think he means the weaker houses His concern is the familes standing and power THAT'S why Tywin's greatest mistake was not his political plays But his family ones, he abused and mistreated his family using them as pawns and tools, not out of love but duty and the intent for them to be investments for the family names power and control None of his children really liked or loved him, they were afraid of him or felt lesser in his presence His alienation of his family because of his obsession with family name, and not family cohesion, marked his days.
Please explain the leadership of demaon and viserys in house of targaryen
Yup, definitely on my list, might take a little though, currently re-watching House of the Dragon to get a little deeper into some characters 👍 definitely will look at those two in the future
4:40 its because his dad was weak
He failed because his kids were idiots. The acorn doesn't grow under the great oak.
🤣🤣 Nice and so true
He understood perfectly that his children didn't shared his goal, he even gave more than one speech about it: they care about fun and should care about legacy, he is very disappointed, etc. So he tried to use force to make them fall in line, he used more and more force precisple to make them care, punishing them until their learned, but they fought back
Very interesting and informative video thank you. Having a mind to think about what other peoples goals are is a very good idea.
Thank you for your kind feedback!
Caring about legacy is very pragmatically, it means caring about increasing the power of the family, make sure your descendants survive and thrive. Strange you didn't catch that
A "pure" pragmatist would not care at all what happens after his death - as Tywin says himself at one point: in the long run, we are nothing but dust. So I don't see what I should have caught there to be honest.
@@ThatLeadershipGuy_EN No, he cares about material reality. If he could be immortal he would, but doing what he is meant to do biologically is the next best thing, he is being responsible and doing what he can instead of having fun. People are not immortal but genes are, he is being objective about following the purpose he is program to follow. He is being pragmatic about achieving what everybody else is unconsciously and ineffectively trying to achieve by following their passions
Short answer: because the author and the showrunners didnt want the character to succeed.
Great video, Laszlo. I really like the clear and concise descriptions of the various leadership styles. And the take outs! Also a well-made video from the technical point of view! Thanks for this!
Thank you so much for your kind feedback, I really appreciate it 😊👍
He didnt fail he just got caught without guards & his pants down. In that era of westeros there was nobody more successfull & feared than tywin lannister . He was the king without a crown espeacially after king roberts death
Ascribing Tywin's failure to being caught with his pants down and without guards would be very much like saying the Emperor died because he stood too close to a railing at the wrong time in Return of the Jedi. I like to dig a little deeper than that. Regarding the other part of the comment - you are completely correct, there was nobody more powerful than him.
@ i personally dont think he failed at all
@@SS-uw1ep well he died and the legacy he wanted to establish died with him. That's a failure if I've ever seen one... being at the height of power without achieving your most important goal doesn't really make you a success, does it?
@ well compared to anyone else in westeros at that time no one was more feared than tywin lannister .
Yes, but temporarily achieving absolute power and glory is not how you measure success - you measure success by achieving your goals, which ultimately he did not.
Cersei assassinated Robert and Joffrey killed Ned. Tywin had nothing to do with any of that.
Tywin might not have planned for them to be killed specifically in the way or at the time it happened, yet still it played into his overall plan (eventually at least). I think indeed he would have liked both men to live longer, as it would all have gone a little smoother when Tywin was finally ready to set his plan in motion. I should have been more precise there, you're correct - thank you for pointing it out 👍
I agree that Tywin’s children were his downfall but I diagree a bit with this idea that it was because his kid’s didn’t share his goals. I would argue that Tyrion and Cersi did want to follow Tywin’s plans for Lannister family legacy. But the problem is Tywin rejected both of them in favor of his Golden Boy Jamie. And Jamie was the only kid who didn’t care about the family legacy. He was just a lovesick simp who just wanted to be with Cersi. Tyrion usually did what Tywin told him to. He was a temp Hand for his father, married Sansa at Tywin’s order, and asked Tywin to be made his heir to Castely Rock (since Jamie refused to leave the Kingsguard). If Tywin had gotten offer his hater of Tyrion and agreed to this Tyrion would have taken Sansa with him to the Rock and probably would have been a good warden of the west. Also he wouldn’t have been at Joffrey’s wedding and Tywin may have figured out who really killed Joffrey. And Cersi did what Tywin told her to do when she married Robert. S he wasn’t interested in being stuck in another loveless marriage to Loras. But Tywin didn’t take Cersi seriously since she was a woman and hated Tyrion for being a dwarf. But I think Cersi and Tyrion did mostly agree with Tywin’s plans for family legacy. But Jamie didn’t despite Tywin’s efforts. And Tywin couldn’t move on to his kids who actually mostly agreed with him.
Thanks for sharing your opinion, I really appreciate this! I think you are right when we're talking about the "early" Tyrion of seasons 1-3 (or at least 1 and 2), where I can see how he might have liked being a bit more involved in the "family business". I think this changed a little with the marriage to Sansa, and then of course in season 4, but the groundwork had been laid before, as my personal interpretation would be he always kind of knew how he could never fully satisfy Tywin's expectations. With cersei, as I said in the video, I think she was closest to Tywin's ideology, but with the distinction that for her, her children weren't just a means to an end, but she had true love for them, which after their deaths led to her not caring anymore for the Lannister's legacy, but only for herself and Power for Power's sake- which is a view the pragmatic Tywin probably wouldn't have shared, as he was never in it for vanity, but only for the legacy.
Tywin was his own downfall. How he treated his children was his downfall. How do you have three people with such useful talents or even desires to be useful and rather than develop those talents abuse and misuse them to the point where they're nearly useless or hate you? Pure idiot shit.
Tywin doesn't want to marry Cersei to Loras in the book, it's more of a mistake made by the showrunners. They tried family trees down, and lost a lot in power/social dynamics.
Yes, I think in the books, he had quite a few candidates in mind. Theoretically, it wouldn't have mattered for the show I think, but maybe they wanted to intensify the whole "tyrell-connection" in the Series. Sadly, not the last weird choice by the showrunners 😒
He tried to marry her to Willas, but Olenna turned it down, saying she was too old.
I don't trust the guy with the thick German accent telling me " I know how that sounds, it's going to be fun guys, I promise. " This is a fun video, though
Yeah, in hindsight calling Organizational Behavior "fun" was one of the most German things I ever said 😅 Happy you still had fun - you sure you aren't German, too? 🤪
@@ThatLeadershipGuy_ENIf I could only be so lucky. I am American 😢
You know what they say about the grass on the other side 😅 I enjoyed my time in the U.S. very much, met a bunch of amazing people there 😊👍
If one has replied to all comments on one's video yet replying to the latest comment seems pointless, would doing so be an example of the sunk cost fallacy?
Hmmm now you got me trapped 🤣🤣 but I admit to being a completionist and so yes, answering to your comment (which made me laugh very hard so it's probably not pointless) would certainly be a SCF 😅
Then again, answering all comments has not yielded me any negative results so far, so 🤔🤔🤔
Gihren Zabi next
Didn't know him yet, but he seems pretty interesting! will look into it but might take a few weeks 😊👍
@@ThatLeadershipGuy_EN Take all the time you need. I'm just happy you're willing to consider my suggestion.
Compare Tywin’s legacy to Ned Stark’s. Tywin’s legacy was built on deception, cruelty, manipulation and brutality, and instead of House Lannister being feared and respected, they are hated and loathed. The minute he died, he was pretty much forgotten shortly after and House Lannister’s power died with him. Ned Stark led with honesty, honor, justice and integrity. He, and the Starks in general, were widely loved by their people. There’s a reason the Starks were able to rule the North for 8,000 years. Long after his premature death, along with that of his son, Robb Stark, the northerners still look back on them with pride and still wish to see them avenged. Ned’s legacy survived long after he died. Tywin’s legacy died with him.
Yes, precisely and a good comparison, thank you for that. Tywin is a great example for how being (for the most part, maybe until the end of season 3) a very effective leader, but not a beloved one, and the moment he dies, pretty much no one even Talks about him anymore - which is exactly the opposite of what he wanted to achieve...
lets not forget in the starks history they were always fair they never put one house over another. and harsh and cruel only when it was needed. it became such the starks were synonymous with the north. that they WERE the north. they also didnt like to the the "game" so to speak. all because winter is coming. and petty squables will get everyone killed
Tywin's issue was that he didn't love his family He didn't care Bout their wants, desires, he never loved them in a real sense They were only investments/tools to build the family power and name
Nonsense and false, Ned was a Frozen face fool and a huge hypocrite with a stick up his arse.... And you obviously don't know anything about the stock ancestry, all the kings of winter were brutal overseers that kept their people in line where is brutal harsh Justice....even the ned was terrified just to think of their shades walking around free after a few of the swords 🗡️ that keep them bound to the crypts are missing from the statues...torren stark seemed to the only one with some sense
Lord Tywin had a gentle fool for a father so he had to do what was necessary to keep the Lannister name from crumbling into nothing, he would only as hard as he had to be
Tywinn was undone by his Children. His daughter's incest was realized by both Eddard Stark and his predecessor - and she had them both killed. Killing Eddard caused the War with the North. The type of people who would fight for Cersei and her son Joffrey - were not the best - whereas those that fought for the Starks were. Though they all had problems with their Allies. There was never anything Tywinn was going to be able to do - short of killing his daughter - that would save the situation for him. Cersei was only interested in herself - and her children - but primarily herself. Tywinn didn't make any real mistakes - except not killing Cersei - which he was NEVER going to do. Here - his biggest failure - was in not seeing that his son and daughter were incestuous. .
I like the new light you shed on the topic of the video. This is my first video I've viewed from you and I'm now subscribed.
Thank you very much for the kind words and your subscription, I really appreciate it and hope I won't disappoint too often 👍
I disagree with the Walter White example. He was pride-driven as in the Greek tragedy sense.
Yes, you are absolutely correct about the pride and going on certainly also satisfies his ego. But I would argue that his pride and the SCF are not mutually exclusive, as after he has reached his initial goal, there are more and more setbacks over time that would make it the most rational way to quit the Business, yet he still goes on despite having the opportunity to leave with the support of Saul Goodman. He might be driven by his pride in that, but that would still constitute a Sunk Cost Fallacy (being too proud to let go) in my opinion.
This is a good video! Nice topic and well illustrated. I also appreciate the easy-to-understand tone and well paced voice.
Thank you so much for the kind feedback, really appreciate it!
Nice format! The 3. point where you present a solution is really hard to execute but much needed. Its better to sacrifice the investment, if the investment is becoming unbearable and could cost you your health, or even, your life...
Thank you very much for your kind feedback, highly appreciate it! You are right - this is absolutely one of the cases where the solutions to a problem are very obvious, but still extremely diffficult to execute 👍
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Really insightful and I like the fact that you use many fictional examples in a variety of settings! Aren't you too young for Friends?! Thanks again!
Thank you a lot for your kind feedback 😊 yup, I was - for the earlier seasons at least 😅
Tywin Lannister is a toxic leader behind a mask of intelligence and charisma. He is the archetype of a bad leader, not because he lacks intelligence or strategy, but because his methods rely on humiliation, threats, and manipulation. As a potential narcissistic abuser, he seeks to assert his authority by crushing others, even those who should be his closest allies: his own family. For instance, he openly belittles Jaime and Tyrion, not to teach or inspire them, but to assert his superiority. Jaime is treated as a foolish warrior incapable of grasping the nuances of power, while Tyrion is systematically mocked for his appearance and perceived weaknesses. This toxic dynamic demonstrates that his leadership is not built on loyalty or respect but on fear and submission. Tywin wields his intelligence to maintain absolute control, even at the cost of destroying the self-esteem of those around him. His total lack of empathy is not merely a form of coldness but a fundamental inability to see others as anything more than tools. This twisted form of emotional intelligence, where emotions are exploited to manipulate or break others, makes Tywin a figure who might seem "admirable" at first glance. In reality, he embodies everything a good leader should not be. What Tywin teaches us is that intelligence and charisma alone are not enough to define healthy leadership. A true leader inspires trust, builds relationships based on mutual respect, and helps others grow. Tywin, on the contrary, destroys everything he touches, including his own family, whom he claims to protect. Let us not forget this essential lesson: beware of those who shine brightly but whose shadow smothers others.
Love your comment and elaboration on Tywin as a leader, thank you for that! I agree with you of him being the archetype of "Leadership done wrong". I like his pragmatism and his effectiveness as a leader, but yes he is very toxic and in many ways what most would probably call a "Machiavellian" leader, very much similar to Frank Underwood from House of Cards. But that does not mean one should adopt his style AT ALL, as toxicity and manipulation are not attributes and instruments of a good leader (not in my opinion, at least). I think a great example of a leader who is at least as effective as Tywin, but with way more heart and humanity, is Chrisjen Avasarala from The Expanse, and I will certainly look at her in another video in the future.
Extremely well presented and a lot of take outs which I personally find exceptionally relevant! Thank you, Laszlo! Nail on the head and all that 😊
Thank you so much for your kind words, really means a lot to me! 🥰
great video! thank you for the correction on pronuniciation
Thank you for your kind words - and the correction last time 😊👍
great video, interesting analisis and subject matter. only slight quip i have with the video is the pronunciation of Tywin, never heard it said that way
Thank you a lot for the kind feedback! You're right about the pronunciation - the name should be Ty-win, my German brain just constantly keeps interfering and I never thought about pronouncing it any other way 🙈🙈 let's see if I get it right the next time I visit this character... 😅