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So she cheated on him, it fell short and now she wants him to to pay for her poor judgement? Yeah, no....

Ridiculous! This idea that weddings belong exclusively to women is toxic af. This is a shared event.

*So many wh*res named Claire it would seem.*

"partygirl" "likes to be the centre of attention" - Someone ignored some major red flags to begin with

YOU blamed your wife for doing the right thing and YOU indirectly killed her.

My first reaction was 'jeez this guy sounds like a weakass tool" but then I realized this is the behaviour of an abuse victim, this guy has been mindfucked and stripped away mentally of his own identity layer by layer.

A great example of "Never interrupt your enemy when they make a mistake".

I started surprised that a kid of any age and frankly especially a 13yo would even want to go to a family wedding, preferring to blow off something as boring as that, but then the relationship between Jack and Leo was explained and I understood. I can even understand a 13yo not getting that it's the resort, not Jack. Kids aren't adults, from whom I would tolerate no petulance on something that was not Jack's doing. HE is a kid, though. He gets to be more angry because it's his nature. Still, in the end, not Jack's fault, so suck it up teenage buttercup. Life has worse insults in store. One caveat though- maybe Jack and Mary should have, you know, had a hand in planning their own wedding. Like adults would. OR, told mother Karen to go and f a rolling donut. As it sounds like she needs to be told.

My goodness- ex wife is clearly a deeply emotionally unstable, intellectually challenged, erratic and poor decision-making person. That was quite a litany of poor decisions capped off with manipulation, dependency and childlike selfishness.

women being women

I like the story, but I dislike bot narrators and poorly proofread scripts with a passion.

This has to be a joke. That, or the younger generation is stupider than we thought!

With family like that Bridezilla, who needs enemies

The best interests of the child must always be paramount. Sue for full custody.

She might have gotten raped

..the part where she said something about actively pursuing him the banjo music took over in my brain

"I know I could have handled the situation better" Au contraire mon Brave. You handled it perfectly.

waiting longer to propose wouldn't have helped....she is what she is; time won't change that. Yes, dude was smart for canceling the wedding. Very expensive to pay all those people for nothing, of course...but a wise decision. Given how you practically had to beg her to spend time with your daughter, the fiance likely would have been an even bigger problem even after marrying.

this womans publishing her diary like shes Anne Frank you have to be a narcissist to think that would sell

Stupid AI story… divorce attorneys know the custody status. Anyone who believes this will swallow their own tongue…

good move man. put your daughter first. if the fiancee couldnt find time to deal with her when you werent married, she wouldnt find it later. she was wanting a daddy to her kids, and to forget yours. better off. however, couldve forced the issue about your daughter. if i eer get remarried, my son will be my best man - if the to be spouse has an issue....she will be a has been.

Also, she was a liar, you do not want to marry a liar. And she did not want his daughter.

You are getting gaslighted. You had clear boundaries and she brazenly waltzed over it. You can't build a meaningful and lasting relationship with someone who doesn't give the slightest frack about your boundaries. Added to the fact something is definitely going on between them, and probably has for a while. This woman's karma will hit her in her 30's or sooner, as soon as joe gets tired of her and she has no one else to crawl back to other than you. Do not take her back; you'll regret it.

She would've slowly started to isolate your daughter over the years. The damage that could've inflicted on her mental well being... you made the right choice for you and for your daughter. You've almost certainly saved her from hurt and suffering in the future

HAHA

Yeah. A year of relationship and six months of engagement is waaaay too short for marriage, especially considering people date and enter relationships with complete strangers.

Her greed and hard head caused her more trouble than needed.

Go for full custody. Use her economic issues, new divorce, instability for the kid, etc. as a reason and nail her with child support.

Paternity tests need to be a requirement anytime a woman is pregnant. Men shouldn't have to "trust" their girlfriends/wives to not cheat on them - so many do and end up finding out decades later that they had been raising the children of other men, all because social norms dictate that a man should be pressured to place blind faith in his wife to not sleep around.

So you were with a woman for 5 years and were about yo marry her without seeing she was a shallow materialistic byotch. Says a lot about YOU

He's a legend. Her BS couldn't blind him even though he loved her to bits.

Poor guy, he dodged a huge bullet as he dumped that messy woman from his life. Of course she put the pressure of cheating accusations on her ex-boyfriend because as the well-known quotation says "I judge others by myself" Hypothetically, if i am a thief, i will see a potential thief in everyone around me, therefore she was accusing her ex-boyfriend of cheating because she herself was a cheater. Actualy, this kind of acusations if they coming out of nowhere, without any reason from your partner, is quite nice examples of a red flag in relationship. Only sorry i feel is for poor unborn child of hers, the kid will have to deal with slutty narcissistic mom and most likely with a several protentional stepdads, during a childhood.

funny how much she accused OP for being a cheater

Is no one else going to realise that they started dating when she was 15 (A minor), and he was 18 (An adult)???? Continue with the divorce though, she is just upset that you were able to move on so quickly, whereas the cousin probably only wants to use her...

Also wrong thumbnail.

Going through partner's electronic device is given, privacy in relationship means there is no relationship.

Honestly, I can't imagine ever staying together with somebody that cheated. That's for me an absolute end. I would rather be alone my whole life than be with a cheater.I can't fathom how it would even work when the cheater just stomped on all the trust the partner ever had for him/her and piss all over it. There are only two words I would ever told to the cheater : 'Get lost!'. That's why hearing that your partner was trying to work things out is something I can't understand.

It was a Cinderella-themed wedding. Fiancee was the wicked stepmother.

Time to move on ? Forgive ? Mental health ? Where were they and what were they thinking when he railed your GF ? WTH, man, don't ever reconnect with them, let them baby care for your brother since it seems it's the only thing they care about. And next time anyone tells you you have to forgive, look at them in the eyes, and remind them that he was an ADULT, that purposefully had intercourse with your GF and as long as you live, the only thing that you'll ever remember is the moment where he prioritized his wet box cravings more than his brotherhood. He killed the relationship to a point of no return, not you .

"throwing everything away for a party" no darling, OP throw you away for obvious cheating

Regardless of the exposition after she said no, you dodged a bullet.

It’s quite hilarious when people beg and think they can still choose, for those of you who don’t already know paying rent is exactly paying someone else’s mortgage, in todays economy people 650 rent is a thing of the past unless you know someone and even then they take pity on you.

OP, you did the right thing. Even though if she's innocent, she should've been more respectful towards the boundaries of a relationship. Like women want security of a relationship, you also want to feel the security of a woman like she's safe to be with and she did a very reckless thing. Dump her so she can learn and move on. You're ready for a real relationship and she wasn't.

Make sure AP/new sucker knows what she is saying and trying to do behind his back. She is obviously trying to get OP back as at least something on the side but she lied about OP and is most likely lying about her current husband.

Roberta said it “RESPECT” if you ain’t got it, you ain’t got a relationship, you have a “role playing existence”

Wow, if that story is true then just wow.

OK- the cut in the timeline early on is confusing. If the incident with the demand to watch the kids out of the blue was in the past, and OP cut sister off, and THEN sister's family life was upended by a hurricane and all the rest of that happened, then yes, OP is the A. Cutoff or not, a major disaster changes the rules. Help your family FFS. If all this WAS the story that led to the cutoff, still, a major disaster changes normal rules of behaviour, so help your family FFS. Mom sounds like a manipulative cow, though- insisted husband look after all those kids in either time-scenario without OP, because OP must must must go to cousin wedding [who gives an F?] when OP was willing to stay. What's mom's malfunction here? As to how much work it'd be, it varies. It didn't used to be. Now it is, because parents assume responsibility for fixing kids boredom when they didn't used to. And why can't the kids keep themselves entertained with books, tv, internet for 3 piddly days anyway? It's THREE DAYS FFS.

So she wants to be disrespectful and inconsiderate and expect him to just tolerate it and accept it. And the moment he put his foot down and stand his ground he’s the bad guy and she’s wasted the best years of her life. I think he wasted the best years of his life. Oh that’s right, the best years of most men’s lives is after women hit the wall.

This seems strange to me, that a strong and independent woman that comes off as not liking men is marrying one.

You have two choices Sue for defamation and your wife will divorce you Or Divorce your wife and sue for defamation