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He does have a sweet voice

Thanks Faye x

Thanks Michelle x

Best time of year to go 😂 no tourists and free parking x

@@AutismTwinsUs I couldn't agree more! We spent Christmas Eve at the beach one year 🤭😍

Glad you enjoyed it!

@@mitoinversiones6446 what do you mean

@@mitoinversiones6446 when Andy finds woody is alive 😂 ruclips.net/user/shorts29K1rlMYSWQ?si=JrgE0_ERRYACXGfa

Thanks 🙏

@@laurafitz3868 same here 😀

We are , they both have challenges but on a whole their both doing so well, thanks for watching 👍🏾

That’s what Matthews does , masks in school and unravels at home

Yes it’s hard for him to, we need to find some middle ground to gaming somehow as that’s what isn’t helping , he masks all Day in school which we understand as it’s a way to fit in but then when he comes home it all unravels normally whilst gaming ! Certainly don’t want to punish him playing his friends etc but there is a fine line , thanks for your comment Nathan

@@AutismTwinsUs is there something he enjoys watching that isn't video games like RUclips

@@AutismTwinsUs if you have an area Matthew can go after school that is quiet it could really help him decompress after school not the living room kinda thing.

So Amy was right 😂 god knows what we’d do if they say they don’t have a spot for him 😂

We've just completed both EHCP reviews for both the twins here too, and named schools for next September. My understanding is that kids with EHCP's find out their allocated schools when their finalized EHCP is released by PCC which by 15th February next year at the latest. After that you need to decide whether to appeal within two months, and participate in a mediation process, then it goes to a tribunal if it hasn't been resolved, and PCC must go along with the finding of the tribunal. The problem is that right now the tribunal process is taking until after school start in September, so some kids have to stay at home or go to a temporary setting while it's all decided.

@jeremyjohnson1685 George’s school goes strait through to 18 so he’s fine, Matthew’s choice is just a mainstream so presume we will have to wait until May , the amount of kids I know who’ve had to be home while authorities sort out their placements is a joke Jeremy, such a poor system. ALL children have a legal right to an education

​@@AutismTwinsUs I don't think so, it should be named on his EHCP so out by February? We're similar to you, as usual, M is in a mainstream primary having transitioned from a SEN space within the school so mum has named a mainstream secondary in central Plymouth which he should get automatically as he has an EHCP and it's a feeder school for his primary, but V's current school is a primary only special school so he has to move next September. His mum has put down an independent special school which has very limited places, plus it's quite expensive and PCC aren't going to be keen to place him there so watch this space!

I have to chat to PIAS tomorrow anyway, will ask them.

@@whatmyohmy thank so much 🙏

Thanks for watching 👀

@@AutismTwinsUs anytime

Hope it eases up faye x

We really do try , for a severely autistic child with limited communication it’s difficult, we’ve had to speak for him his whole life effectively. We do actively make him look himself. Agree with you we do , thanks for watching 👀 x

I will ask him and put his answer in the next video

Really ? Amazing, I’m 43 and don’t know that 👍🏾

Thank you, all we can do is try our best. Sounds like your son is doing amazing!

Hi Karen , haven’t seen you or Toby in a video for a while , hope your both doing well, sounds like it. Thanks for coming back and leaving us a comment , how’s the travelling going ? Adam

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Thanks so much ❤

Thank you Linda x

We often clear out, we have to do it when George isn't aware, but we do it in a way that we only remove things we know he isn't using. We will put them in the shed and when we know he isn't looking for it we donate it 😊

@@xelaolive4181 George has been asking for Christmas 🎄 for about 3 months , we do regularly clear out as amy has commented , your dead right though , we’re trying the best we can

Hey, so the boys are 10. George will often lose things (he knows where it is a lot of the time) but we get screamed at to find it. So we get him involved as much as we can. We organise the toys regularly to make it easier to find things, but he will mix it up almost immediately. Everything is a learning curve, we are first time parents, to twins, to twins with additional needs, and sometimes we do what we have to to survive the day ❤

@@xelaolive4181 thanks for your honest suggestions, every bit of knowledge will help us all so thanks for the time in commenting x

@@xelaolive4181 same age as ours then , 10! Some great hints I’m sure we will be able to try and implement, thanks for your suggestions, we do have everything clearly organised, issue we have is George mainly will see a scene up with toys somewhere and lose certain todays in transit while setting a scene somewhere in the house , a lot of the time he does know where they are but thinks by shouting FIND he can sit there and watch us search which is something we’re obviously trying to discourage, thanks so much for your suggestions tho I’m sure they will be helpful for us and others reading the comments, Adam

@@RetroGamerBitdo Jens out friend thanks for coming back we missed your comments , we hope you are very well in Germany 🇩🇪

@@AutismTwinsUs Yes, I'm okay 👍 I had learned a lot in school the years. I hope you are very well in England plymouth 🇬🇧

@@RetroGamerBitdo Jens 👍🏾👌🇩🇪

We absolutely agree, we often go through and donate, throw away unused or broken toys. We try to keep a one in, one out rule. We are trying our best to navigate meltdowns due to wanting toys and don't constantly buy new. I don't have the money if anything, so George knows he doesn't get get what he wants just because he kicks off. It can become so difficult at times to know when to give in and when to fight the battles. We just take it a day at a time 😊

@@hollyhodgson7253 we really have tried to minimise what we bring in , it difficult with boys who have a very short attention span and adhd where he’s craving different things all the time. Sometimes toys sometimes food etc , just hard to give them what they NEED to what they want , we are trying to do our best

I hope Matthew gets to the point where he recognises that he needs to come off it instead of it being a constant battle. I say to him it can't be enjoyable being mad at a game all the time 😕

@@amycannan914 if his processing speed is behind unfortunately he's going to struggle more than the typical person and if he has meltdowns which it sounds like he is having because he feels like he is hitting x one moment but really he's half a second behind. He's enjoying it by getting away and recharging his social battery. If I am trying to recharge and what I am using to recharge won't work good luck everyone.

I wish I could share what I went through when I was 9 so younger than Matthew but I am not doing it for the whole world to see the incident with my brother got worse than I am describing

@@nathanjw940 again Nathan thanks so much for your insight , it is very helpful to us and others who may read these comments, emotional regulation is one of the things both the twins struggle with as I’m sure many children do , life seems simpler when I was there age

I very much doubt George will ever be able to drive, unfortunately

@@elenadelawder6913 very unlikely I think as Amys put 💚

Thanks guys , I’m sure you guys are fully aware and understand, hope your all ok Adam

Thanks for your reply and experience, we do try to prepare George for any changes, it also helps him when he’s informed, so think after being off school for 6 weeks to then going back to routine will always take some time , since the changes it’s been much better this week

@@AutismTwinsUs Sounds good that things have gotten better that's good to hear. And I completely understand. I can understand this challenge. It isn't easy. But it sounds like you are doing the best possible for George and that's good to hear. I've been catching up on some of the videos I've missed as I've been away from RUclips for a bit. I was taking a Mental Health rest. It's good to hear from you. I hope you and your family are doing well!

Hope your ok 👌 we all need a break now and then , it’s good to reset

@@AutismTwinsUs I am much better now. Thank you! But I was struggling for a while . Thankfully I have a good support system around me. It allows me to get help fast when needed! 👍

If your in the Uk Amy bought it from The Range , they have in store and online , approx £154 currently, you can get them on Amazon too , type in Gonge Carousel. It massively helps George with his vestibular sense

He’d pick the highest obstacle though 😳

Thanks! 😃

Probably George’s most challenging thing is transitioning too and from anywhere tbh, we just have to work on it

@@AutismTwinsUs that was my first sign of autism being at the table for lunch way after the other kids left

you have to remember a video or vlog is a very short snippet of time, even hundreds of videos now each video has such a small amount of footage of a day. Matthew is much higher functioning but we've put very little footage of him struggling with issues related to his asd has on him. Noise and sensory issues that we don't have to share to try and prove his diagnosis.. Matthew masks extremely well but when he's home in his safe place it's very obvious he's on the spectrum. We are also very select in what we share. Matthew will also ask me to omit parts of videos before they go LIVE. Masking is more common in girls or higher functioning because they want to fit in. We encourage him to be HIMSELF but he masks a lot. He requires more help then a vlog will show is all I can say. No offence taken at all but also remember he has learnt to manage himself and his emotions pretty well. Adam

found a very little video ruclips.net/video/8eoJTdXHPDY/видео.html that maybe gets you to understanding it. Matthew is a very big masker. he masks at school and when he comes home it all unravels, and when it does the last thing on my mind is too vlog it etc , hopefully that explains the point I'm trying to make Adam

I like seeing him processing

How’s the going back went ?

They are growing too fast Michelle x