Mirjam Irene
Mirjam Irene
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The Hygiene Conversation before Making Love
If you desire to make love with someone new and you have had experiences with multiple partners before, it is important to take your responsibility for your own and someone else's health. Too awkward? I'd say this kind of vulnerability adds to the connection.
You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here:
www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course
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Видео

How often should a man ejaculate?
Просмотров 8 тыс.3 месяца назад
Use it, don’t lose it: there is a lot of potential in the energy of your orgasm! You can find the Multi-Orgasmic Method for Men here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/men You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Facebook.com/mi...
I need sex, because sex is a basic human need, right?
Просмотров 4103 месяца назад
Even though the desire might feel so strong... no, you don't NEED sex, but you do need... Other videos mentioned in this one: - ruclips.net/video/78mbfVPrSas/видео.htmlsi=QaBMnaBRrRiTnpLt You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course You can find the Multi-Orgasmic Metho...
Why do we want sex?
Просмотров 4553 месяца назад
... because we desire inner peace? You can find the Multi-Orgasmic Method for Men here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/men You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Facebook.com/mirjam.irene.5 - Multiorgasmicmethod.com VIDEO D...
The vibrator creates numbness
Просмотров 2134 месяца назад
... or is it a sign of female liberation? Other videos mentioned in this one: - ruclips.net/video/3wlAX4dRGBs/видео.htmlsi=CrayKC1G1p2UHkUn You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Facebook.com/mirjam.irene.5 - Multiorgasm...
'I take too long to get wet'
Просмотров 2084 месяца назад
That's a very common misconception. Being wet, means you are ready to be touched! Other videos mentioned in this one: - ruclips.net/video/xbzkDK5Bxes/видео.htmlsi=Gg_AiNnF3ULGQLgE You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Also, find the online program yoni healing: s...
Being wet doesn't mean you are ready for penetration
Просмотров 1484 месяца назад
That's a very common misconception. Being wet, means you are ready to be touched! You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Also, find the online program yoni healing: self massage and de-armoring to reawaken pleasure in your vagina here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/...
3 reasons to masturbate for deep long-lasting relationships and sexuality
Просмотров 3,5 тыс.5 месяцев назад
It’s important to make love with yourself first! You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Facebook.com/mirjam.irene.5 - Multiorgasmicmethod.com VIDEO DISCLAIMER for the Multi-Orgasmic Method by Mirjam Irene The information...
4 tips for more vaginal pleasure
Просмотров 9025 месяцев назад
4 tips for more vaginal pleasure that you can try out right now! You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Other video mentioned in this video: - ruclips.net/video/oRMflMgq7sI/видео.htmlsi=W1v2DeDhpyuGzXeE Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Facebook.com/mirj...
The Myth and Non-Myth of Vaginal Orgasm
Просмотров 8105 месяцев назад
Because every woman can, right? Or not..? You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Other video mentioned in this video: - I take too long to come - I take too long to get wet (these videos will be posted in the future) Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Fac...
Before you make love with someone new: do this to avoid drama
Просмотров 2216 месяцев назад
Before you make love or maybe even kiss someone new: do this to avoid drama Talk about the intention of this connection You can find the FREE mini course (for all genders) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Facebook.com/mirjam.irene.5 - Multiorgasmicmethod.com VIDEO D...
Why am I a sex coach?
Просмотров 1986 месяцев назад
Why am I a sex coach? Sometimes I wonder myself... You can find the FREE mini course (for women and men) that teaches you the first step of the Multi-Orgasmic Method here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course Follow me on: - mirjamirene - Facebook.com/mirjam.irene.5 - Multiorgasmicmethod.com VIDEO DISCLAIMER for the Multi-Orgasmic Method by Mirjam Irene The informa...
How to connect to the heart and self-love
Просмотров 4257 месяцев назад
How to connect to the heart and self-love
Tantra means no clit?
Просмотров 6747 месяцев назад
Tantra means no clit?
Where does tantra come from? in super #short #shorts
Просмотров 447 месяцев назад
Where does tantra come from? in super #short #shorts
Tantra for Dummies
Просмотров 2627 месяцев назад
Tantra for Dummies
A communication practice as foreplay
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.8 месяцев назад
A communication practice as foreplay
Why don't I come when I masturbate?
Просмотров 3,2 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Why don't I come when I masturbate?
Tantric Fingering #shorts #short
Просмотров 2,8 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Tantric Fingering #shorts #short
Conscious masturbation for women: hands on guide
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Conscious masturbation for women: hands on guide
See masturbation as a yoga practice #shorts
Просмотров 3,2 тыс.8 месяцев назад
See masturbation as a yoga practice #shorts
7 conscious masturbation tips for women
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.8 месяцев назад
7 conscious masturbation tips for women
Why don't I come with my partner?
Просмотров 4978 месяцев назад
Why don't I come with my partner?

Комментарии

  • @MaureenD-w4p
    @MaureenD-w4p 5 дней назад

    Amazing, it's electrifying to make her eyes roll back while she moans with desire, I went with what I mentioned last week and now she just can’t have enough. I did it go’ogling the latest by Merle Winestol and now she’s the one dragging me back for more lol.

  • @EnmanuelD-v7x
    @EnmanuelD-v7x 9 дней назад

    Wow thanks, it's thrilling to make her eyes roll back while she moans with desire, I went with what I mentioned last week and now she just can’t have enough. I did it go’ogling the latest by Merle Winestol and now she’s the one dragging me back for more lol.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 9 дней назад

      I'm happy it was of support for you. :)

  • @karinesavard2016
    @karinesavard2016 10 дней назад

    Love this video! Thank you 🙏❤

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 9 дней назад

      @@karinesavard2016 With love!

  • @jaksonamir7129
    @jaksonamir7129 13 дней назад

    I'm do masterbation daily without ejaculating. Is that healthy. Yes these day my penis charged. I'm following your instruction. Thankyou.

  • @jaksonamir7129
    @jaksonamir7129 16 дней назад

    I'm practicing non ejaculating method as you said. Amazing results. Thankyou for the content.

  • @1ROCKY89
    @1ROCKY89 18 дней назад

    Multi orgasmic living is the way absolutely nothing better

  • @jaksonamir7129
    @jaksonamir7129 18 дней назад

    Daily masterbation without ejaculating is healthy?

    • @jaksonamir7129
      @jaksonamir7129 17 дней назад

      Please answer me. I'm expecting your answer. Also I'm flowing your tips. You said that we should keep our penis in charg. As well enjoying your chanel. I do ogasam daily as per your advice I do without ejaculating

  • @kelseasuche2451
    @kelseasuche2451 21 день назад

    This is the first time I am getting of this. I will love to get into that energy

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 21 день назад

      Happy for your discovery! A good start would perhaps be this free mini course to get a bit of the basics: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course

  • @user-oo2ys1nk8x
    @user-oo2ys1nk8x 23 дня назад

    But your attiude சாய்ஸ் how self love importan

  • @user-oo2ys1nk8x
    @user-oo2ys1nk8x 23 дня назад

    Mastrbaction is wrong?

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 23 дня назад

      @@user-oo2ys1nk8x I'd say that conscious masturbation is very healthy for all genders. To make self-love, get to know your body and even better: use the energy you generate.

  • @user-oo2ys1nk8x
    @user-oo2ys1nk8x 23 дня назад

    But some of them asking go to no fab. But i have lot of confusence

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 23 дня назад

      @@user-oo2ys1nk8x I can imagine all the messages around sexuality are confusing. Important is to not feel that your sexual desire is leading you, but that you direct it. You can choose to masturbate consciously, make Self-Love and truly enjoy, imho that is more important than no fab. To release porn during masturbation is something I 100% agree with.

    • @user-oo2ys1nk8x
      @user-oo2ys1nk8x 23 дня назад

      @@mirjamirene self love comming from self control so if i mistrbiction where is self control?

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 22 дня назад

      @@user-oo2ys1nk8x It is in the way you approach masturbation. Do you approach it as a habit, a release of stress and emotions? Is it coming from frustration? Self-Love is a rich topic, as discipline. I wouldn't say 'self-control', because you're consciously using the energy instead of controlling/suppressing it or letting it control you (hence the habit/release of stress/emotions/frustration). Conscious sexuality is a big topic, as the psychology of self-love and self-confidence. Take your time to explore that.

    • @user-oo2ys1nk8x
      @user-oo2ys1nk8x 22 дня назад

      @@mirjamirene but i think mastrubaction is doing only for plasere but sex two person involed if we conscience love with eachother thats sex not only plesare. We exchange our energy . i think sex is best. Why compare to other countries supporting lisepien and below...

  • @andreisol4519
    @andreisol4519 24 дня назад

    It feels better whenever youre ready and prepared to release it. Rather than doing it coz u just w/o reason.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 24 дня назад

      @@andreisol4519 With consciousness and not because of habit. 👍🙏❤️

  • @ninezerotwo1778
    @ninezerotwo1778 Месяц назад

    Where are you from?

  • @Chap17
    @Chap17 Месяц назад

    Exactly

  • @kanagasundaramsakthidasan2329
    @kanagasundaramsakthidasan2329 Месяц назад

    Very informative.. nice presentation.. Thank you very much ❤️

  • @victorlamothe6732
    @victorlamothe6732 Месяц назад

    Well I’m in my late 60s but I need it just about every day they say its good for your prostate too😊

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene Месяц назад

      The conscious use of energy doesn't need to exclude ejaculation. To keep the sexual alive is of course very healthy! I'd not recommend to combine it with pornography or for relaxation/stress/emotional release if you desire to use the energy consciously.

  • @djolesik840
    @djolesik840 Месяц назад

    I am 68 now, and have ejaculated 1-2- 3 - or 4 times , every day, since i was 14 year old, und bin still energetic , and never fall a sleep after that, never ever, not one single time. Also, today at these age, i ejaculate, 1-2 and sometimes 3 times a day, without problem. Till today over 25 000 times x 5 ml (average sperm volume ) = roughly over 125 l , double as much as my body weight :) My whole life i was very physical active, running, swimming, weight lifting, bin always thin , eat very small amount of food, last 50 years i eat only once a day, i practice water fasting, 3,7,15,30 or 42 days, till today over 330 days water fast , and i feel, like in my twenties. Nothing should man generalize.

  • @GregoryT-zm9un
    @GregoryT-zm9un 2 месяца назад

    Great stuff! And yes, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solution and now she keeps dragging me back lol

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 2 месяца назад

      Happy to read that it was helpful for you and your partner!

    • @WesleyErwin-dq6og
      @WesleyErwin-dq6og Месяц назад

      Damn where the hell was I​@@mirjamirene

  • @BasMeek
    @BasMeek 3 месяца назад

    I feel truly so thabkful for the information given in this video. You touch on such vital topics that, in my own search for healthier sexuality, I never seem to get a satisfying answer to. Your clarity on sunjects like male ejaculation and sexual charge give me something to practice, and hold on to as a starting point to explore my own potential. Thank you for sharing your valuable knowledge ❤

  • @francescoagostini6654
    @francescoagostini6654 3 месяца назад

    Thanks

  • @tscheide
    @tscheide 3 месяца назад

    Everything makes sense. The reduction of ejaculation frequency with age. But the guidelines seem rather adhoc. Where do these numbers come from?

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 3 месяца назад

      Thanks! As mentioned, from Traditional Chinese Medicine. 👍

  • @John-eo2bq
    @John-eo2bq 3 месяца назад

    Wow that's a lot to take in.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 3 месяца назад

      In what sense? :)

    • @John-eo2bq
      @John-eo2bq 3 месяца назад

      @@mirjamirene The urge for sexual release, with or without a partner, feels like a need. I am so much calmed, less distracted and more productive afterwards. The idea of trying to channel that energy back in, is mind blowing. It feels like there is truth to what you say, I am in no way trying to argue against you, but it feels so far out of reach.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 3 месяца назад

      @@John-eo2bq This I can fully imagine! The desire can feel really big and if you've never learned anything else it seems indeed very far away. I'm not an advocate of no ejaculation ever, but to use the energy of arousal and orgasm. I'll share more about that in the next videos as well.

  • @balticstain7150
    @balticstain7150 3 месяца назад

    OK

  • @BasMeek
    @BasMeek 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for this beautiful explanation. All I can say is that this knowledge feels true in my heart so I will cherish it and the next time I feel arousal I will let it in, instead of trying to release it. ❤

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 3 месяца назад

      That's wonderful! And it doesn't mean that you can't release ever... it's just about knowing other ways of moving and using your desire. The next video will about 'how often should a man ejaculate?'. Might be interesting for you too!

  • @BasMeek
    @BasMeek 3 месяца назад

    Amazing video Mirjam. This comes at such a synchronic moment. I saw your e-mail notification and immediately felt I needed to watch it. Thank you so much for answering this question. It really helps to understand the essence of what sex is about. 💔

    • @BasMeek
      @BasMeek 3 месяца назад

      Also I would like to ask you, What would you recommend to use/do to prevent pregnancy? I would just like to hear your opinion on it.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 3 месяца назад

      Thanks! This is really one of my favourite videos, because it is what the gift of sxxuality can bring us when we do not suppress and are not distracted by it, but use it for our purpose, connection and growth.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 3 месяца назад

      @@BasMeek This is a big topic and a good one to make a video about. There is not one answer here, but ejaculation control for men and being careful around ovulation is a big part of it.

    • @BasMeek
      @BasMeek 3 месяца назад

      @@mirjamirene I completely agree. Though I have a long and beautiful journey ahead before I can truly say I practice it, I have high spirits and I want to thank you for showing your passion regarding this essential knowledge.

    • @BasMeek
      @BasMeek 3 месяца назад

      @@mirjamirene Thank you for that answer. And I agree, you can always elaborate your answer in a video but I'm really excited to learn that there is a natural way to do this. It will just take practice and consciousness.

  • @user-cy3dj8nh5c
    @user-cy3dj8nh5c 3 месяца назад

    Hello Mirjam thank you for your informative video. I find self love deeply connected to spirituality as well, do you find this to be true?

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 3 месяца назад

      Absolutely. Self love is important to feel calm and secure in your life and through that the access to spirituality and the divine is easier.

  • @aNaturalist
    @aNaturalist 4 месяца назад

    I believe that all real orgasms involve the nerve that goes to the clitoris, and it "pinging" while contractions happen at .8 second intervals. I think other peak sensations felt during penetration may feel super good, but not be a real orgasm. Anne Kodt wrote The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm and explained that orgasms can happen during penetration alone, but it's still the clitoris that is involved.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 4 месяца назад

      Yes, she is involved through nerve endings. I have read about this way of looking at vaginal orgasm and it doesn't feel complete. The sexual energy is perceived by more than the clitoris alone imho. That doesn't mean that even with an energy orgasm the clitoris might be involved. Many women perceive numbness in the vagina because of 'neglect' and lack of proper stimulation. To awaken pleasure and energetical sensitivity in the sex and vagina is possible, and it doesn't really matter which nerves are involved in the sensations in that case.

  • @user-cy3dj8nh5c
    @user-cy3dj8nh5c 4 месяца назад

    Hi Mirjam thank you that really was informative, we need to love ourselves more and not be so hard on ourselves.

  • @stevencaseymiller8376
    @stevencaseymiller8376 4 месяца назад

    I appreciate your relaxed, calm, and kind presence.

  • @valentinenayah
    @valentinenayah 5 месяцев назад

    Hello 🌞 I got to know about your work on Instagram which lead me to your youtube channel. Thank you a lot for your vidéos, this one is really well explained and for me, so easy to understand. 😊 I am really grateful to have found you to extend my knowledges and get to know a bit more myself ❤ have a beautiful day !

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 5 месяцев назад

      Happy to read that 🙏 thank you!

  • @chris300t
    @chris300t 5 месяцев назад

    Really appreciate your videos, took me 7 years to understand this, still learning

  • @getvivekshinde
    @getvivekshinde 5 месяцев назад

    Very beautifully explained and expressed.. there's a lot of ground covered and a lot of sense in the relatively short video. Thank you for creating this and hope you create more content and help people heal or discover these things (for want of a better expression)

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you! Glad it was of support. I will create more content like this. :)

  • @BasMeek
    @BasMeek 5 месяцев назад

    I love the story you share anout your journey through your previous and current relationships. As strange as it may sound, it finally gives me something to look up to. While struggling with my own trauma I felt I needed someone with true prescence and honesty to share their story so that could draw inspiration from that to awaken my own true sexual and relationship needs. Hearing you speak fills in this spot. I'm truly thankful for how much you share and how you truly show that all of these thoughts, ideas and experiences involving this are okay to think, and talk about. In a world where so many things get pushed to taboo and arent even allowed to be thought about, it becomes really hard to form a clear picture of what I truly want. Thank you for opening this door and showing it is okay. It sound like something so simple but it is truly inspiring. Thank you.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 5 месяцев назад

      To normalize, simplify and integrate is part of my mission. I wish this for you! And I'm sure you will get clarity about your direction. 🙏

  • @BasMeek
    @BasMeek 5 месяцев назад

    Really beautiful three part explanation. These things are still very foreign concepts to my pre-conditioned body and mind but I know that with practice this will give me such a better understanding of my body and my own pleasure. Thank you Miriam.❤

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for sharing, Bas 🙏

  • @chris300t
    @chris300t 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for very informative and inspiring content, highly appreciated

  • @BjornMesson-fi9gc
    @BjornMesson-fi9gc 6 месяцев назад

    Great video! Can you explan SPH kink, I would love to understand it from your perspective!

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 6 месяцев назад

      Thanks. I will cover my perspective on kink in the future. The view I have on SPH kink will be similar as to my general view of kink, so in that sense it will be covered though I suppose not explicitly.

    • @BjornMesson-fi9gc
      @BjornMesson-fi9gc 6 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your effort, I will be there to listen your opinions.

  • @vicky-ed3nc
    @vicky-ed3nc 6 месяцев назад

    Thank You for being here and sharing your experiences. I do recieve your emails , its a special feeling to get them.

  • @khanitime
    @khanitime 6 месяцев назад

    I think practicing with you would be very interesting.

  • @ab1203
    @ab1203 7 месяцев назад

    Love this! Do you have any guided audio for this practice?

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 7 месяцев назад

      Not for this, but for many practices working with sexual energy, yes. You can have a look here: www.multiorgasmicmethod.com/foundational-mini-course

  • @ab1203
    @ab1203 7 месяцев назад

    Great video! Love to see and hear your thoughts on the same for men.

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 7 месяцев назад

      Yes, this video will be made in the future somewhere. :)

  • @perryc3116
    @perryc3116 7 месяцев назад

    😢 Promo SM

  • @tscheide
    @tscheide 7 месяцев назад

    The comparison to an electric circuit is interesting. Including the assigned male/female polarity. One wonders whether the polarity could get reversed…. which would reverse the circuit?

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 7 месяцев назад

      Yes, the polarity can be reversed by will or accidentally. In the latter case it is not satisfying. In the first case it can be either an interesting experiment or something that really fits your archetype.

  • @dghffjfd
    @dghffjfd 7 месяцев назад

    West should thank Hindus of bharat for giving them yog, meditation, ayurveda etc and teaching them spirituality

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 7 месяцев назад

      Definitely! So so much gratitude to all teachers in the world that have brought knowledge and practices that support humans in their evolution and inner and outer peace. 🙏

    • @vicky-ed3nc
      @vicky-ed3nc 7 месяцев назад

      The real teachers did not see humanity as west and east. they gave it for everyone. People in the middle classify people as west and east and try to gain superiority over each other. how ridiculous!! "Hindu's of Bharat" - what a bad word. Sounds like the Start of a new terrorist movement. Keep your religion and national pride inside your home. Come out as a global citizen. No one is small no one is big. Love all. Respect all.

  • @farukaydin16
    @farukaydin16 7 месяцев назад

    Yes yes when it is tantric all inclusive expansion of consciousness in every direction for sure nothing should be excluded 🙏

  • @ingridrotthier4274
    @ingridrotthier4274 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for elaborating on this topic. It clarified yr view and it's a relief to hear. I fully agree with it!

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 7 месяцев назад

      Long live our pleasure button!

  • @tscheide
    @tscheide 7 месяцев назад

    It’s a most wonderful video. There is so much wisdom in these few principles.

  • @haroldlamble5163
    @haroldlamble5163 7 месяцев назад

    You sound normal.

  • @abraxadabra4224
    @abraxadabra4224 8 месяцев назад

    Beautiful, thank you for sharing 💝 My question is how do we terminate a vulnerable session like this one? It would only be 12 minutes long but very intense and, as you point out, there might be things that trigger each partner and might make them want to talk about it. So what do we do next?

    • @mirjamirene
      @mirjamirene 8 месяцев назад

      This is a good question. It is important to talk during this practice from 'I', from your experience. The chance that someone gets triggered is way less. The practice is to be vulnerable and this often opens the heart and vulnerability of the other as well, when it is a safe and healthy relationship. If a vulnerable and open share triggers the other, you can use Non Violent Communication to share the trigger after the practice. 'I observe (you telling) xyz, this makes me feel xyz, it is my need xyz, could you xyz? If the person is not able to do xyz, it is also ok to hold space for anger, disappointment or sadness in you or the other. To hold space for the other person's truth, which might not be the same as your own (or visa versa) is also a way of creating connection. Important is that in general you have a common vision for your relationship (this doesn't mean being the same). This practice might open up a conversation about the common vision or direction of the relationship, if there is unclarity about this. If the vision for the relationship or common direction is not compatible, this IS important to know. Because true intimacy and deeply fulfilling relationships are not possible when this the vision for the relationship or common direction is unknown. This vision is not set in stone and can change over time, because as humans we develop. This is an ongoing conversation, or a conversation you should have every now and then: are we still on the same page? What do you desire in your life, what do I desire in my life? How are our lives compatible? Is this level of compatibility enough for us to continue? What do we need to make this relationship work for both of us? If you have further questions, please let me know!