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Kat Eleftheriou
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Добавлен 8 мар 2022
personal growth, self-awareness, & occasional artistic motivation 🌿
Sink Your Teeth In: Why You Should Be Self-Indulgent
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To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very interested in and passionate about self-awareness and personal growth :)
Book a 1:1 session ☕️💻🌿 → katerinaeleftheriou.com/
Read my articles or support my content on Substack 👩🏻💻 → katerinaeleftheriou.substack.com/
Find me at:
Instagram: @kat.eleftheriou
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There's a Reason You Keep Going Back
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There's a Reason You Keep Going Back
You’ll Figure It Out Because You Always Do
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You’ll Figure It Out Because You Always Do
Don't Stay Loyal to the Image They Have of You In Their Mind
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Don't Stay Loyal to the Image They Have of You In Their Mind
You Have to Do It Before You Are It
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You Have to Do It Before You Are It
You Saw Them As You Wished They Were
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You Saw Them As You Wished They Were
When You Aim Low, You'll Get Exactly What You Aim For
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When You Aim Low, You'll Get Exactly What You Aim For
Your Discomfort With Waiting Is Probably Making You Self-Sabotage
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Your Discomfort With Waiting Is Probably Making You Self-Sabotage
Your Fear of Being Seen Trying Is Probably Making You Self-Sabotage
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Your Fear of Being Seen Trying Is Probably Making You Self-Sabotage
Stop Trying to Fix Yourself by Fixing Others
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Stop Trying to Fix Yourself by Fixing Others
You Have to Let Yourself Look Ugly to Reach Your Full Potential
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You Have to Let Yourself Look Ugly to Reach Your Full Potential
Self-Doubt Is a Luxury You Can't Afford
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Self-Doubt Is a Luxury You Can't Afford
You Don't Fear Failure, You Fear the Shame You Know You'll Put Yourself Through If You Fail
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You Don't Fear Failure, You Fear the Shame You Know You'll Put Yourself Through If You Fail
You're Abandoning Yourself for a Version of Them That Doesn't Exist
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You're Abandoning Yourself for a Version of Them That Doesn't Exist
Vulnerably Expressing Yourself Shows You That You Deserve to Be Heard
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Vulnerably Expressing Yourself Shows You That You Deserve to Be Heard
Using Self-Sabotage as a Way to Maintain Control
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Using Self-Sabotage as a Way to Maintain Control
The Way You Treat Yourself Changes the Way You See Yourself
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The Way You Treat Yourself Changes the Way You See Yourself
You'll Never Have Your Life Together…And Maybe That's Okay
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You'll Never Have Your Life Together…And Maybe That's Okay
Why Do You Resist the Things That Want You?
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Why Do You Resist the Things That Want You?
Why Avoidants Might Sometimes Prefer Limerence
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Why Avoidants Might Sometimes Prefer Limerence
Don't Abandon Yourself By Over Empathizing With Others
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Don't Abandon Yourself By Over Empathizing With Others
The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy of the Avoidant
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The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy of the Avoidant
The Potential You See in Others Is the Potential You Wish Others Would See in You
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The Potential You See in Others Is the Potential You Wish Others Would See in You
Avoidance Is a Sign That There's Something About Yourself You Don't Want to See
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Avoidance Is a Sign That There's Something About Yourself You Don't Want to See
When You Expect to Hear "No", You'll Stop Asking For What You Want
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When You Expect to Hear "No", You'll Stop Asking For What You Want
The way I was literally flossing my teeth when you said “flossing your teeth” 🤣 great video btw ❤️
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Thank you! The way you see the world and put it into words somehow really resonates with me (and my problems) and I always feel encouraged and understood, when I listen to your podcast.
Thank you, great reminder and motivation for times ahead. I feel excited and hopeful for the future. Love you all ❤
this felt soft and true :) thank you for risking thoses beautiful words with us, thank you for helping me connect with my beautiful family of struggling people pleasers !! Findind and allowing enjoyment in our lives can be so paradoxically hard for us... and it's hard to talk about this sometimes, because people do not always understand why you can't have proper fun, because to them it can be the easiest thing to do... Sometimes I feel like I can never be happy until everyone around me is happy first... but then I remember, also thanks to you, that this order does not exist, that my happiness is not actively taking something away from somebody else, that doing things I enjoy and love is not inherently selfish, that it does not make me a bad person... These are words I am still trying to make mine, and your videos help a lot ! Sending you love and inspiration, bye !
This was SUCH an apt and wonderful confirmation for me:) Right on the dot . . . dare I say, perfectly? ;) haha:) 🌻😊🌸 Thank you, friend. 🌱
Love this ❣️
Your channel showed up in my stream some time ago. You are doing great stuff here. Thank you ☺️
no just no
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If the Vikings are losing at halftime on Monday, they better get the "lean into your ugliness" speech from coach.
needed majorly. thanks so much : )
Nay, nay I shan’t goon.
I hadn’t ever considered this before, thanks for sharing it I really needed to hear that
Lol just flossed my teeth when you said flossing your teeth 😂
Thanks for this wonderful permission, Kat!🎊
Tea !
Have just sunk my teeth into half a box of Swiss mini praline chocolates on my lunchbreak at work... Cocktails later after work though. I'm quite disciplined in this.😊
I guess sometimes we just forget we only have one life, we need to give ourselves permission to be.
Love this ❤
"stop using self restraint as an excuse for why you are a good person" woah... WOAH😅! what a needed awakening that gave me
I’m quite new at the self indulgence game, the ‘you have finite amount of time on this planet’ sealed the deal for me. Thank you! 🙏🏽
Thanks Kat 🐱
I surrender to a simple love.
Thank you for making content!!!❤❤❤
Stop making us self aware please 🙏 your making us dangerous we are loving our self and day by day we’re loving ourselves
I’m sorry 😅😅
This is me after 10 years with my GF. I realized I was heading for divorce. I walked away 5 months ago knowing there isn’t anyone trustworthy and attractive out there. Too many things did not align with my ex. It sucks at my age - 61. I’m attractive and in good shape, look much younger but it doesn’t matter.
I’m sorry to hear that, but it seems like it wasn’t aligned anyway so you’re finding a path that’s better for you in the long run.
Thank you, I think anyways
You're welcome 😅
This is like my relationship with art and writing, which I have no justification for, it is very special to me. ... The subjective world that is full of free consciousness is priceless.
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Hey I don’t like being told the facts
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What if we each have a unique space that only we can fill, and if someone else took that space, it was meant for them and not you?
Then it wouldn’t have been your space anyway so there’s no use ruminating about it either way! It’s just about letting yourself expand rather than not and never even being able to figure out what space was for you all along.
Damn. That’s some serious knowledge. I just checked myself.
Oh so this is why i like billie eilish more than myself…
<3
True perfection has to be imperfect.
Idealism is also a hidden desire to put the interior in order, so that we can solve our problems in our relationship with the outside
Very true!
In addition, the idea of perfection has no meaning, or does not exist. It is a personal plan to be in the best possible form in our relationship with reality. ... The universe does not care about perfection, does not care about the meanings we add to reality. This is just an individual expression of the self, like art. ... That is why the individual plan is an exception and not an objective rule. But it does us justice and its results are amazing like magic ... That is why the exceptional and genius people who have passed through the world have an angelic impact.
We live in a cycle of misunderstanding, and because people are stuck in what matters to them, it is really necessary for the individual to become able to define his feelings out loud. But, this must be coupled with understanding the self and its requirements, the goal, the standard must be determined. Separate your personal world and thoughts from the outside world first.
Yes to all of this!!
Striving for perfection is a form of certainty we give ourselves. ... But there are moments when I allow myself to play with what I have, and let nature creep into my being without interference, as an element of balance. ... Striving for perfection is making sure that we are doing justice to ourselves, especially in a world full of challenges and chaos.
I know my emotions are not stable, they are kinda inflammed, I have exagratted anger that is not proportional to the triggers, I know this is due to deep shame and long repression. So do u recommend expressing these distorted emotions as well?
I think you should understand yourself more before you express. You should understand your inner world, why are you angry, what are the emotional wounds that you have neglected. ... Start from a bad memory, or pay attention to the triggers, when understanding and awareness, you may not need to rely on others to understand or consider you. The problem inside you may be solved automatically just by understanding and containing it. ... If you have standards such as respect or boundaries, express them of course without shame, so that others can understand you.
Self-expression starts with how you express yourself to you. Understanding yourself better will allow you to express yourself in a way to others so that they can understand you in all your states. Repression won’t lead to authenticity or vulnerability.
‘… a version of them that does n o t exist’. A very 🆙🏋️🤴🏻-k and powerful message. It’s time for me and stop abandoning mYself and my n e e d s. Thank you Katerina ✨ • Yvo PS found your podcast :)
I’m glad this spoke to you 🙂🙂
@ It really did (and does :). Have a beautiful day 😀
“You deserve all the self loathing you feel” and “you’re as small a man as you think you are” and “who could ever love who you really are” I gotta save those for my next crash out
Wow 😂😂
May that Psycho Pablo type love never find me 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank you for accessing these horrors from your memory
You’re a genius
Dont let what others think stop you from doing what you love!
I’ll remember this one!!
I always leave your videos with something to think about and reflect upon. Thank you 🌸
I’m so glad! You’re welcome!
Babe if i'am to be honest about life, i actually want myself, them and everyone else is just a guest in the long run series with me as the star of it, purrrrr, love you sm for all the thought-provoking content you made this year and before, to many more darling
Very good ideas, and very good explanations from you. This shorts are very good.
I’m glad you think so!
That thing I keep going back to is addiction to a specific drug. I relate to what you are saying although you aren’t talking about addictions. Anyway, it’s true that there are still things I have been delaying that keep motivating me to go back to my drug. I need to have the courage to face my fears and do the required work to overcome my addiction.
I kept the discussion pretty ambiguous because I know that this can apply to anything! We can find ourselves going back to many things that we know aren't right for us, but still have an allure that's difficult to resist for specific reasons.