Joint Custody Advocates
Joint Custody Advocates
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Dads: What To Do If Mom Withholds Kids After You File For Custody
How to see if your kids at the beginning of a custody case if your ex is withholding them. It's not uncommon that parents will retaliate when a custody case is filed. And often they will put the kids in the middle. "You can't see the kids since you took me to court." "Sorry, we're busy."
In this video, we break down the steps you should take immediately if your ex won't let you see the kids.
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Видео

Dads: The Number One Way Dads Get Burnt By Not Going To Court
Просмотров 2084 года назад
How to avoid getting burned if you don't go to custody court. Sometimes dads try and take the high road by not starting a custody case. Learn how this decision can have negative consequences, and what you can do to ensure that your visitation remains consistent even if you don't go to court. CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: jointcustodyadvocates/ Instagram: advocatesjointcu...
Dads: The Importance of How and When a Custody Case Starts
Просмотров 2014 года назад
How to start a custody case at the right time so you get the best outcome. The exact moment when you start a custody case is crucial to what kind of visitation or parenting schedule you will get. In this video, we break down what considerations you need to make to determine the perfect timing for going into custody court. CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: jointcustodyadvocates/ Instagram:...
Dads: Should You Tell Your Ex About Doctor's Appointment If You Think She Might Cancel It
Просмотров 2404 года назад
How to communicate with your ex in a custody case. If your ex is always cancelling doctor's and other other important appointments, should you continue to tell her about them. If you have joint custody, you may have an obligation to do so, but what if it's harming your child. In this video, we break down how to think through this problem so you make the best decision.
What To Do If Your Attorney Is Not Pushing Your Case Forward
Просмотров 1115 лет назад
Do you have the feeling that nothing is happening in your case when it should be? Do you have the feeling your attorney has put your case on the back burner? In this video, I break down what you need to do to ensure that your case gets the attention it needs. Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: jointcustodyadvocates/ In...
What To Do If Other Parent Keeps Harrassing You Via Text Message
Просмотров 6225 лет назад
Dads, things can get real nasty during a custody battle. The mom could be sending harassing messages nonstop. In this video, I break down what your options are to help facilitate productive communication. Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: jointcustodyadvocates/ Instagram: advocatesjointcustody
Dads: Can the Mother Legally Withhold Child from Father
Просмотров 47 тыс.5 лет назад
Dads, when things get real rocky in a custody dispute, your ex might keep the kids and flat our refuse to talk with you. In this video, we discuss if she can legally do this, and your best possible recourse. Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: jointcustodyadvocates/ Instagram: advocatesjointcustody
What's The Best Way To Pay Child Support
Просмотров 8 тыс.5 лет назад
Dads, child support is a reality for some of us. Don't fall into the trap of paying for support in the wrong way. It could easily come back to bite you in the behind. In this video, I break down the best ways to pay your court ordered child support.
3 Simple Ways You Can Screw Up Your Custody Case
Просмотров 1775 лет назад
Dads, you're super busy and kids are demanding. Juggling life is hard enough when you don't have a custody case going on. You need to be careful when your case is rolling. You are under microscope. In this video, I talk about three crucial things you must keep doing when your custody matter is in court. Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Fac...
How Does the Court Decide a Parenting Schedule
Просмотров 2095 лет назад
So you and the mom can't decide who kids on each day of the week. If you file a custody case, how does the judge actually decide the schedule. Is it arbitrary? Does the mom always get what she wants. In this video, I break down the exact law and how it operates in practice. Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: jointcusto...
Dads: How To Survive The Anguish of Waiting on Custody Court
Просмотров 1035 лет назад
Dads, I've found one of the toughest parts for you is the constant waiting you have to do from one court hearing to the next. Things move really slow in most custody cases. By following a few simple steps, you can avoid any wrong moves while you wait it out during your case. Stay strong! Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: facebook....
Dads: How To Respond If Mom Keeps Saying No To Visitation Requests
Просмотров 5585 лет назад
Dads: You keep asking to see your kids and she kids and she keeps saying no or giving excuses. Don't fall into the trap that leads to custody demise. In this video, we outline the strategy you need to use to build trust with the mom, and make yourself look great in custody court. Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: join...
Dads: What to Expect When You File an Emergency Motion
Просмотров 22 тыс.5 лет назад
Want to get 1-on-1 help? calendly.com/buchanan-firm-intake/15min-intake CONNECT WITH US: Facebook: jointcustodyadvocates/ Instagram: advocatesjointcustody
How To Get A Parenting Schedule on First Court Date Without a Lawyer
Просмотров 3385 лет назад
In this video, we talk about how to get a parenting schedule on the very first court date of custody case. 99% of the time, the judge cannot order anything on the first court date unless you and the other side agree. Watch this video to learn the approach to take if you want to the judge to help you lock in an agreement. All information is related to the law in Illinois at the time of publishin...
How To Become The Legal Father Of Your Child
Просмотров 2325 лет назад
Just because you are the biological father doesn't mean you are the legal father of your child. If you are thinking about the custody process, you need to make sure you have taken care of this threshold issued. There are three types of legal fathers: presumed, acknowledged, and adjudicated. Watch the video to understand the difference and whether you need to take any action to become the legal ...
Do You Need a Lawyer To Get Custody?
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.5 лет назад
Do You Need a Lawyer To Get Custody?
A Powerful Technique for Building Goodwill With The Other Parent in a Child Custody Case
Просмотров 1215 лет назад
A Powerful Technique for Building Goodwill With The Other Parent in a Child Custody Case
5 Myths About Cheating, Custody, And Divorce
Просмотров 5965 лет назад
5 Myths About Cheating, Custody, And Divorce

Комментарии

  • @movingforward2570
    @movingforward2570 8 дней назад

    So what you are actually saying the court really don't have any powers as they portray and they think it's ok for the mother to be in contempt. I am a female and I have never seen such a time as this when you women are so disgusting

  • @ShawnTaylor-sn5bi
    @ShawnTaylor-sn5bi 8 дней назад

    So if there's anyone who can direct me. The DHS are falsely reporting things using misdirection and forcing my partner and I to put my daughter into daycare when she's 18months and we don't need it. Then when we say we don't want to use daycare services when we don't need it seems to against us. And they make up things in there reports

  • @jasonjames8460
    @jasonjames8460 11 дней назад

    WTH are you blathering about. So, we need to go talk to her dad”man to man” when we have a court order? After the dads have Likely spent thousands of dollars already? Just for basic rights to your fucking kids? ? Now I gotta go spend more money? Or better yet “go talk to her father man to man” lmfao. This is what is wrong with the justice system. I get it why dads bail. I can’t and won’t let my kids down, but, I totally see the racket here. Along with the social pressure that you’re a deadbeat dad. We need to FIGHT AND CHANGE THESE LAWS. This is bullshit and we all know it. Dads need to form together. We can get these laws changed. This might’ve been passable 50 years ago when moms didn’t work and had less of a say so. But, naw, this is the dawning of a new age.

  • @RebeccaSherman-ot2sw
    @RebeccaSherman-ot2sw Месяц назад

    You gave me exactly the insight I needed. It made my thoughts slow down some. Bless you for making it make the sense my emotions were unable to..

  • @Cob900
    @Cob900 Месяц назад

    When she repeatedly claims that needs to be mental health assessment, even though the first one should’ve been sufficient for Family Court reasons after she assaulted the father, and then got an order of protection to protect herself from getting charged then yeah no that’s cool not how you should be using the system

  • @JasonFromm-j6r
    @JasonFromm-j6r Месяц назад

    If the mother leaves state with kids unauthorized,, and emergency motion granted,, she gets served??,, and request for kids returned?

  • @kevinpooler
    @kevinpooler Месяц назад

    Don’t give them your account info they will clean out ur bank account

  • @seritaromo739
    @seritaromo739 Месяц назад

    NEED HELP cant seem to get the judgement of dissolution by default.... used the courts self help paralegals... 5 times... it keeps getting denied. Single parent no extra money to hire someone. He has recently acquired an ID with my information on it but his girlfriends face.... Yes she has a Fake ID of mine with her face on it. Last week they went and sold my home.... Which was purchased w inheritance money after I left him. However he stole 285k from my grandparents money. Forced me to take him back and let him sign the deed to my new home or else he was not giving me the money back, I did call the police and reported it. We were still married he was allowed to access the funds. Very very never ending story.... I need some advice in regards to getting the judgement of default by dissolution approved quickly, its been 3+ years.... He is in the wind, no job, no stable anything. in and out of hotels. 1SERITAG@GMAIL.COM NEED HELP AND ADVICE PLEASE ALREADY HAVE DVO, MOVE OUT ORDER, DO NOT CONTACT ORDER. HES BEEN SERVED BY POLICE TWICE, AND NEVER SHOWED ONCE FOR ANY COURT HEARING...

    • @seritaromo739
      @seritaromo739 Месяц назад

      also im trying to get a emergency ex parte for property in order to ask the judge to sign the quitclaim deed. he denied my first attempt today said insufficient reason for emergency... he set a court date for 3 months down the road.

  • @SDG12483
    @SDG12483 Месяц назад

    Depend on state. In Arizona mom can be charged.

  • @MissyConner-n5q
    @MissyConner-n5q Месяц назад

    I would love to co parent with my sons dad like adults but he is very toxic thinking je can take him wherever he wants meaning the drug houses he hangs out at I don't feel safe sending my child with him

  • @MissyConner-n5q
    @MissyConner-n5q Месяц назад

    I think there needs to be more awareness about toxic behavior in fathers I don't think a child should be forced to go with a father that takes him to drug houses or a spot where people hang out drinking and partying all weekend my child is my concern

  • @oneshotvidi
    @oneshotvidi 2 месяца назад

    Do you practice in NY?

  • @YaYa_1435
    @YaYa_1435 2 месяца назад

    I have physical rights to my child and DHS is involved with the reunification process. She was deemed unfit by the courts. DHS worker took her to the visitation due to my car problems and they never brung my child back. I called tribal police and city police. They told me they can't do anything about even though I have court documents stating that my child live with me.

  • @darremak1190
    @darremak1190 2 месяца назад

    What if the mother is in jail for 44 days but had custody of child. The father files emergency custody while mother is in jail is that right?

  • @TiffanyNguyen-i9h
    @TiffanyNguyen-i9h 2 месяца назад

    Can a father keep a 1.5 year old child away from a mother if there’s no custody order in place?

  • @Yurkidding
    @Yurkidding 2 месяца назад

    So would you say then, in an emergency motion or request for one? For example you want to bring all your evidence, right?

  • @FlixzLox
    @FlixzLox 2 месяца назад

    As a Grandma that has lost her Grandchild i have also seen my Son truly devastated due to his ex stopping him from seeing his 5 yr old son due to his mother moving on with new partner and moving far away she is making up dreadful lies so people think she was right to do this she has removed the entire family from this little boy who must be so upset he would come every 12 nights out of month to stay and suddenly it all contact stopped it truly is criminal these mothers should be held responsible it is a form of child abuse 😭😩

  • @levittperez
    @levittperez 2 месяца назад

    Any other dads here know of a group or forum where they discuss these issues. I need help. I haven’t heard from my child’s mother in almost a month and my mother and law has threatened me legally if I even come by at all.

  • @cleverozier1527
    @cleverozier1527 2 месяца назад

    What if mom leave the state with child and y’all have a 50/50 custody in an another state can you call the police in the state she in ?

  • @eduardol.1189
    @eduardol.1189 2 месяца назад

    Existe a guarda alternada ,no Brasil a mae ficava 2 anos com a criançae o pai 1ano...mais foi dada como ilegal.

  • @sqfanatic
    @sqfanatic 3 месяца назад

    Huge waste of time. Find a different advisor. I have ample experience on this topic, and I disagree with many things this guy said.

  • @Bronson-f1g
    @Bronson-f1g 3 месяца назад

    Thank you - great advice

  • @Anothonysmith-ti7xp
    @Anothonysmith-ti7xp 3 месяца назад

    Men don't have the same right more importantly children don't have rights

  • @Anothonysmith-ti7xp
    @Anothonysmith-ti7xp 3 месяца назад

    if a man tried to behave this way you would be in trouble

  • @Anothonysmith-ti7xp
    @Anothonysmith-ti7xp 3 месяца назад

    yes woman can keep a father away

  • @DedEyeEntertainment
    @DedEyeEntertainment 3 месяца назад

    Im in same situation. It takes an awful person to use their child as weapon against your former supposed "lover". The moment she chose to hurt him to get to me is the moment she lost me and any shred of respect i ever could have had.

    • @DedEyeEntertainment
      @DedEyeEntertainment 3 месяца назад

      Ill never give up, he'll never be able to say i quit fighting. I'm just not fighting through a rigged system.

  • @andresguerra2751
    @andresguerra2751 3 месяца назад

    She selfish there’s no negotiating with her she say pick her up say hi say bye and leave. I got a court been six months since I see my baby girl the law doesn’t do nothing to help me out. They’re mostly on her side I already got court still pending till this day.

  • @themovement3299
    @themovement3299 4 месяца назад

    I wish you would have just said theres nothing we can do to get our children if the other parent keeps them away from us

  • @fighting4freedomis4thepoor
    @fighting4freedomis4thepoor 4 месяца назад

    The mother of my children keep them from letting me take them and do stuff with them and my only option is to hire an attorney and going down that road I think they said they wanted five grand and it could be more I shouldn't have to come up with vibrant well if you're wealthy that's fine but what if you don't have a lot of money???

  • @JLCarbajal
    @JLCarbajal 4 месяца назад

    I am willing to step in front of a judge and say I've fucked up but I want a relationship with my son ive got nothing to hide.

  • @HilarioLarryCabrera
    @HilarioLarryCabrera 4 месяца назад

    Yes she can. It's very simple if she is willing to lie. She was abusive I called the police. She lies to the police puts on a show. I get arrested, she files a retaliatory restraining order. The idiot cop that belived her started a snowball effect. CPS then judge go with the dumb cops assessment. I end up with a restraining order for 3 years. Very easy. SO YES SHE CAN KEEP YOU FROM SEEING YOUR CHILDREN. ALL SHE HAS TO DO IS LIE. I spent $5k on a lawyer. That is dirt cheap. I don't think spending $50k would have made a difference. It's almost been a year. I think I just have to give up. I can't get anything else right in my life holding on. Just accept this is how it is and I can't do anything about it. Maybe I just have to wait until they are 18 yeas old. They are 15, 10, and 8.

  • @Sir--gx1wv
    @Sir--gx1wv 4 месяца назад

    This should be illegal or considered kidnapping. Felony kidnapping. Question? What happens if she already broke the custody judgment that the judge ruled on a mandated she brings my daughter ever two weeks an is with holding my daughter against her will. Not only was caught cheating also committed adulterous relationship and acts with another person while my daughter listens through the small walls in a studio and she’s 4.5. Originally We all lived together in a 3story duplex condominium. We had a minor disagreement and yes she is a narcissist by the way. Back she takes my daughter runs off to another state and that’s what lead to her applying for child welfare services and was denied for stealing government resources from a state she didn’t reside in!😮 So she was told to provide adequate housing and transportation to visit me every two weeks if I were to “allow” her to have partial custody but to stay with her mom. Nothing the judge said in court has been followed. Haven’t seen my daughter back in her initial home since she was taken from it at 2.5 and I’ve been worrying spending even more to travel an see her 4hrs away. if this is even legal especially if there was a judgement in my favor. PS she was slotted 20bucks a month because I provided and provided informative documents that showed her true colors and plans . I said all this because I’m fed up and a will need additional funds to re litigate what was already the judgement. Isn’t this illegal?

  • @ManolosJourney
    @ManolosJourney 4 месяца назад

    It's a lose lose situation, but my hands are tied. I must take the loss or lose anyway.

  • @elyon9329
    @elyon9329 4 месяца назад

    A writ of Quo Warranto would put an end to it! Status is the first issue at law. And for us true, real, and actual Americans, can use our Nationality Identification Card! As for all UNITED STATES CITIZENS, brith certificate, driver license, and a state personal ID is not a Identification instrument. That is law, but lawyers do not use law; they use codes, statues, acts, ordinance, regulations and the Christian Black Codes of 1724.

  • @qinwudi7744
    @qinwudi7744 4 месяца назад

    the answer is depends on how meny billable hours the judge feels the lawyers need.

  • @miguelquazar883
    @miguelquazar883 4 месяца назад

    People profit off of Fatherless children.

  • @ChadReincke
    @ChadReincke 5 месяцев назад

    I have a 10-year-old daughter I haven't seen in over 10 years. Can my baby mama do that keep the baby from me cuz I don't see it get to see it

  • @hotrodZack1948
    @hotrodZack1948 5 месяцев назад

    Its a losing battle. The only way you see your kid is if your kid sees through the bs and wants to see you

  • @venomche
    @venomche 5 месяцев назад

    my babby momma ran away with my babe, i am no legal father i am very sad, and it hurts a lot, i hope all dads stay strong you dont want this to happen to you in life but to somebody always does baby is beautiful shes a girl looks like me mother is crazy has some mental issues very hysteric unable to control herself impulsive daddys gonna save you little otter i keep my promise

  • @djgenesis8843
    @djgenesis8843 5 месяцев назад

    Great Video! Very down to earth and good description of the reality of the situation. Fair and true advice folks.

  • @brandonhood438
    @brandonhood438 5 месяцев назад

    How can I reach out to you.

  • @michellehughes576
    @michellehughes576 5 месяцев назад

    Can a farther

  • @royalcrowntowing2464
    @royalcrowntowing2464 5 месяцев назад

    It’s all equality and equal rights until your a father of your on children

  • @curtisshelton2523
    @curtisshelton2523 6 месяцев назад

    So it's best to just stay away and be a dead beat and live the your life as a father

  • @curtisshelton2523
    @curtisshelton2523 6 месяцев назад

    So fathers really mean nothing at all

    • @jasonjames8460
      @jasonjames8460 11 дней назад

      That’s exactly what he’s saying. Well, our money means something.

  • @SurfariFilms
    @SurfariFilms 6 месяцев назад

    The answer is…um..well… lmfao

  • @timjhonson3792
    @timjhonson3792 6 месяцев назад

    This is the land of evil Babylon. The great the way the law is work here is they terapart. The father from the children and they award the mother. The children that's the way it works in babylon

  • @RedeemedRestored
    @RedeemedRestored 7 месяцев назад

    Are the courts not aware of the manipulation tactics that bitter baby mothers use against the paternal father?

  • @TimeSplitterChimp
    @TimeSplitterChimp 7 месяцев назад

    I am literally being blocked from my kids just now, nothing to do with me being a bad dad, I am a great dad it's probably the only thing I have done well in my life. My ex wife is from Thailand and she is in Thailand right now and just cutting off the internet when they talk to me because she has a new BF in the house. I don't know what to do all I want is to be able to speak to my children.

  • @abdurrahim4910
    @abdurrahim4910 7 месяцев назад

    There are so many children that hate their fathers because of what lies their mothers told them. It's ridiculous!