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He had passed before I found his side of the family.

AmericanPatriot so odd. Everyone I know calls their mother to tell them all the little things...when their kids do something funny during the day, or when the kids are acting horrible, 😂😂. Don’t get me wrong, we all love our dads, but mom is always the first person we think to call when something good or bad happens to us. 😊

You can look or try to and there would be records. Now that more states are opening them I have to keep looking myself. Time may be running out since I'm already close to 60 myself but i only found out a few years ago. God bless you all and God help you all find and NOT be rejected but I have seen so many where the parents MIGHT or one might reject but siblings usually won't especially once a parent is deceased since it's often loyalty that stops this. I have the same issues with one adoptive parent who says it's okay to look but I still feel disloyal and yet since I may already be too late since she just told me a few years ago, I am always pulled. After watching almost three straight days of positive stories I am going forward and may use the ancestry kits since records are so ridiculous in Chicago where I am allegedly from and NY and other states that have really mixed up records. For me I feel time is of the essence and it's all very confusing and emotional and you have to just not give up I guess is what I have seen the last few days. Though they always change your name so all I have is a birth sirname.

If you do a DNA test you might find close relatives and find him that way.

im sure she does,i know I do

Lisa, you need to become educated about adoptees and the trauma of separation which last a lifetime, and how bonds are formed and memories are made between child In utero and the mother-and the family and environment beyond the womb until birth ….. We know our mothers' breath sounds, her heartbeat, her likes, her dislikes, her emotions, her voice everything about her. We know about our father and our sibs and even the family dog before we are born… not to forget that we are genetically tied not only to her and our father, but to ancestors and siblings, close ans immediate family... without her and him we would nat be alive ….the daughter you relinquished knows you far better than you know... too bad you don't know her ...but actually you do know her... the only fear we have is fear itself.... don't let your terror (self-induced) keep you from reuniting with her … Many of us will never have that chance to know our mothers, fathers, siblings, etc. Be thankful that you can meet and reconcile whatever may need to be mended.

I want to find my son who was adopted but I'm struggling everyday I hurt I'm broken don't think I will ever find him adopted parents never did give my son the letters and photos I sent

tyler atkinson how do you know they didn’t give them to him? I have a friend that has know her birth mothers name, where she grew up, etc... her entire life. She’s 37 now and still has no desire to meet her or know her. 🤷‍♀️

Maddie Vega you’re an amazing person, happy you met your siblings.

Hi Maddie. I sure hope by now you reunited with your biological mom. Good Luck.

CAPTAIN KIRK , congratulations!! I am so happy for you:) I hope things go well and you can develop a great relationship like I have with a couple of my birth siblings!!

Good luck with this.

SavvyPsychicMedium, have you had any luck yet? I would like to offer any help I can, so if you are interested in some tips or tricks with the system, let me know and we can figure out a way to email each other.

{{{Beth}}} Thank you so much!! No luck thus far. I appreciate the offer for help and happily accept. The easiest way to email me is this name savvypsychicmedium at hotmail dot com :D Thank you, again, so so so much!!! <3 <3 <3

Savypsyicmedium wow I to am 43 have been rejected over and over again by my birth mums side which broke my heart (however I try to remember the precious moments, the good memories). I would be really interested in chatting more with you regarding this I must find my father as I sense your niece feels much the same it really can be so heart breaking! (Big time) it might be a long shot but please would you consider getting in contact with me? Understand if you don't. fiona.mcinnes.enjo@gmail.com I am from Australia love and light to all (I have a feeling your niece is a June July August baby (June came to me first) no idea why anyway regardless she is lucky to have your support, love and understanding and I hope with all of me we will all find answers in this life. Fiona aka feef

SavvyPsychicMedium don’t give up keep checking on the sites with ancestry you can cross reference your matches there has to be something in common on one of the matches on ancestry keep at it good luck

neilbradley , hoping things went well with your meeting!

Thanks Beth! Yes, we've met twice in person and it (fortunately) has been a very happy reunion. No one on her side of the family knows I exist (long story), including her current husband of 32 years, but I'll be breaking that news to him in a few weeks directly. Unfortunately, my father was killed while my mother and he were dating (car accident), then she found out she was pregnant with me and couldn't afford to keep me, so getting info on my father's side will be a lot more difficult.

Tim Last, thank you:)

Tonypepperoni99, I hope you followed through and contacted them back! update me, please:)

Mark601535, why do you feel it was sad?

Beth Mayhew Such a beautiful story! I'm adopted and I recently made contact with my biological grandmother! Meeting her has meant so much to me! She's so amazing! I hope you have continued to have a wonderful relationship with your birth mom! Thank you so much for sharing your journey!

Congratulations, Beth! I am so happy that all has worked out with you & your birth mom. I hope your reunion with your birth father went well. I'm a birth mom, too - from Texas. Laws are different here. My adoption story is bittersweet, in that my daughter & I had our first reunion last summer after ten years. It went very well, and she also got to meet my oldest sister for the first time. ~Diane

Beth Mayhew

I did meet my sister 3 years ago...i cannot see her that much in person cuz she lives in England an i in the usa....but i did fly over 1 year later to meet her in person...she has not came over to see me, she keeps saying one day and i dont like flying.....lol...we talk and video chat...she is one of 8 kids and i am the 2rd oldest...Not all sibling will want to see the other as in my case....my brother will not meet her and my sister does not like her....and my brothers wife does not like her any more...oh Boy.....so it dont always turn out happy ever after...but the truth is out and she is happy to have had that chance and we just go on with our life

That's wonderful. As I'm watching this I'm thinking that you look like you could be a cousin, and then find out your Mom is in Rochester, NY where I live. Whoa, I bet we're distantly related some how.

Hi miss Mayhew , I was adopted as well when i was 6 months old and iv never located my birth parents, i was a rebel and depressed girl growing up even tried to commit suicide many times but the Lord was good enough and he is the reason i am still here... my life was horrible until i gave up my life to Jesus..u kept saying u wanted to find out who u are... i just want u to know that u cannot find who u are in people.. people fail.. u will only be able to find out who u really are and be truly and COMPLETELY HAPPY AND WHOLE in JESUS CHRIST.. i looked out in people to fill the void the emptiness that i had but i couldnt find it..cause people do fail us.. but Jesus doesnt.. when i found him i tell u now lady i am 100% HAPPY 100% WHOLE 100% KNOW WHO I AM..dont look in people what u can find only in Jesus Christ darling.. May the Lord bless and change ur life... Much love ... Giselle...Lopes... xx Romans 15:13 “I pray that God, the source of hope, will FILL you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.”