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the art of conquering toxicity in games - how you can deal with it
toxicity in games - whether an FPS like valorant, csgo, overwatch, or a MOBA like league of legends, or as asymmetrical horror game like DBD - is something we all experience. it can vary in frequency, target and even intensity. toxic behavior can range from just trash talking you over how bad you are playing to serious harassment. it's important to recognize when you encounter it and how it affects your gaming experience. along with the ways in which you can conquer it and take care of yourself as it is truly an art in dealing with it.
we need to do better by our communities in the games we play and since toxicity in such a prevalent issue in so many spaces, it really needs to be properly ...
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the key step in the art of loving yourself
Просмотров 14Месяц назад
many people just think that they will instantly start loving themselves by merely existing and hoping for a change. but, when it comes to loving yourself, the most important thing you have to start out with is trying to love yourself is dating yourself. treat yourself like you would treat a partner and be patient with yourself. you deserve happiness. background music: change your mind - steven ...
watch this if you had a toxic gaming experience recently
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honestly, don't let some toxic strangers on the internet who have issues get to you. you aren't obligated to nurture and guide them. gaming is supposed to be a fun, enjoyable experience. do not let someone take that away from you. protect your peace. @Tiffae 's video: ruclips.net/video/6jSWHoVDOd0/видео.html&pp=ygUGdGlmZmFl background music: Natasha Ghosh & Nuver - Slow Breeze #gaming #valorant...

Комментарии

  • @yjgaming6102
    @yjgaming6102 22 дня назад

    A valorant streamer called Tiffae had a much serious case where someone literally attempted to SWAT her house only because of her gender Edit: Sorry my bad, I just watched the video halfway and didnt expect this case to be included but damn I think I predicted the future lmao

  • @midit20
    @midit20 Месяц назад

    I am bronze tank but my siblings are both silver and gold respectively I get "TANK DIFF!?" all over the place on quick play and my siblings always stick up for me telling them to shut up this is quick play if not for them I would probably have a mental breakdown my brain is already in shambles

  • @SHANKS12x
    @SHANKS12x Месяц назад

    Heavy on the self-care part

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      exactly, a lot of people forget that aspect

  • @mitrimon
    @mitrimon Месяц назад

    Really good video even though I do think it is crazy that a video like this even needs to exist because people who get annoyed or frustrated by toxic people in games haven't found the mute button yet, especially when it comes from people with no life outside of valorant solo queueing while shouting obscenities over game chat and thinking that's the secret to being funny. Honestly almost makes me disappointed in how trash talk has fallen because some of the older clips of toxic people during the Xbox 360 are really funny and feeds into the beauty of not just gaming but the internet as a whole where people from all walks of life can come together to not only love each other equally but also equally rip each other to shreds with their words and at the end of the day that stuff (if you acknowledge what is happening and why) is just funny to watch unfold, and from my experience it's ever funnier when it's directed at me

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      i do appreciate that! and, yeah, for sure, muting is the easiest way to deal with it, and i definitely see your viewpoint. all i hope for is a positive gaming space at the end of the day, to where muting and reporting isn't needed as frequently as it is nowadays. and unfortunately, for some people in certain games (like women), a LARGE percent of their games is just rancid remarks and "jokes," and then there comes a point where they can't even enjoy the game, yk? but, i really do wish toxicity nowadays was more milder like in previous years

    • @mitrimon
      @mitrimon Месяц назад

      Yeah I totally agree with that sentiment where people can not deal with that if they want and those who are okay with it can opt in, and I think this was actually solved back in Halo Reach (I think I could be wrong) where there was a system where you could choose one of a couple preferred chat styles and you would be matched with people of same or similar preferences so that what you said wouldn’t matter for the most part because it would be met with an accepting audience and that is something I think the Valorant community desperately needs.

  • @SweatFPS
    @SweatFPS Месяц назад

    beautiful videos man ✌️

  • @brodywalsh1712
    @brodywalsh1712 Месяц назад

    Just fucking mute them

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      you def can, but after a while, it becomes boring since toxicity is so prominent and it never fixes the root issue. best solution is for all of us to promote more positive behavior at the end of the day so that there wouldn't be a need to mute as much!

  • @macdoo99
    @macdoo99 Месяц назад

    Great video!!!! Commenting for the algorithm

  • @talonadams5060
    @talonadams5060 Месяц назад

    this is well spoken and well structured, i fully thought this was a 100k+ view video until i checked.

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      that's super nice of you to say! i really do appreciate it, and, hey, maybe one day i'll have that 100k view video!

  • @KFCcycle
    @KFCcycle Месяц назад

    games that try so hard to make a community less toxic often end up with the most toxic communitys by frustrating players with all the censorship there is resulting in them to be passive aggressive or just start grefing games

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      i do agree with that; tell someone NOT to do something and they do it more, and putting all that restriction can hinder the enjoyment. that's why at the end of the day, it's really up to the community. the more people do better, speak up and be good role models = the better community will be and the more fun everyone can have!

  • @SkullMasters
    @SkullMasters Месяц назад

    💜

  • @spirolit
    @spirolit Месяц назад

    i play val, dbd, and ow2. honestly im gonna send this video to my friends to chill them lol

  • @tofypro7767
    @tofypro7767 Месяц назад

    dead by daylight is literally made to piss people off ranking system does not excist that means no matter how good you are you are going to get matched with casuals that dont care and die 2 seconds in a chase or not repair gens i dont get why they dont wanna win like does they like dying? personally i dont mind losing but if i lose and its not my fault and this happens constantly i might ofc get frustrated like i really hate the dbd community i might be gaslit into thinking only 5% of survivors are good at this game judging by my 1200 hours of survivor but when i play killer they prove me wrong like idk what to do at this point i still take protection hits for randoms and carry them but they still going to leave me on hook if i get cought at endgame

    • @gavinlamar1230
      @gavinlamar1230 Месяц назад

      no

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      TLDR: take a break from the game, build new excitement, (re)learn killer, don't put so much importance on the game i understand where you're coming from, but you basically answered your own frustrations. dbd has no 'unranked' gamemode, so it's a hit or miss whether you get other survivors who actually care about their rank or don't. and, you don't need to let that make you upset because you already understand how the game functions, you know? you have so much hours, you definitely have a passion for the game itself, and as a player, you know exactly what's up. if playing survivor upsets you, you should transition to playing killer more. leave the game alone for a bit, start from scratch, build a new excitement for the game, re-learn killer. over time, you'll be able to play killer effectively to a point where nobody can really juke you out, and then you also don't have to worry about other teammates messing up. and as a survivor main (which i'm assuming you are), you should already know how a survivor thinks, making you a better killer. but, overall, you gotta change the way you view the game. even though it is essentially always "ranked," you know that many of the people you play with/against don't view it as important as you and a lot of others do. and until an "unranked" gamemode is released, you can't put so much importance on the game because you never know what you'll be dealing with. games are meant to be fun, not constant torture, and if the game is upsetting you a lot, prioritize your mental health, okay?

    • @tofypro7767
      @tofypro7767 Месяц назад

      @@naveensjournal but i like running away from killers while anxiously loud chase music plays :( more and on gmod the killers are there but they are just faster and i cant find a way to add pallets so i can face the killer i like instead of facing them once per year, i understand that this game is full of casuals but when things happen always over and over and the frustration of seeing the survivors i could get matched with when i play killer just ruins everything smh i mean if i turn into a killer main 95% of my problems go away with the game but i just like running away from them more cuhs its harder

  • @dgwingnut8052
    @dgwingnut8052 Месяц назад

    youtube algorithm has striked again

  • @kio5377
    @kio5377 Месяц назад

    LOVE YOURSELF NOW. Jokes aside well done man video man great hook and good storytelling man. slight criticism if you even want to listen to me, having confidence in your speech definitely helps but it'll come with time. Take it easy man.

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      real, kio, thanks! i do appreciate the feedback too, new to all of this, so i def gotta get used to it

  • @grayban6858
    @grayban6858 Месяц назад

    clove on pearl is not right

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      they might not be, but i was enjoying myself in an unrated with friends!

  • @rudrss
    @rudrss Месяц назад

    love you man we should play together

  • @justyna6946
    @justyna6946 Месяц назад

    Thx bro i need to hear it, im girl in valorant and thats sucks but i would try my best to enjoy the game as good as possible. (Sorry for my english xD)❤❤❤❤

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      games are for everyone, and it really does suck that girls can't enjoy the experience normally like everyone else. hopefully in the future there isn't so much sexism and stigma around people; regardless of gender, race or sexuality playing the game. i do wish you well in all your future games

    • @justyna6946
      @justyna6946 Месяц назад

      @@naveensjournal thank u so much, we need more people like u🥺

    • @IstyManame
      @IstyManame Месяц назад

      @@justyna6946 interestingly I haven't seen girl-bullying on Europe servers yet, maybe I just don't play enough, but anyway, stay strong!

    • @justyna6946
      @justyna6946 Месяц назад

      @@IstyManame i Play on Warsaw and its 80% games when i even say "hello" so....yes xD. Thx❤️

    • @IstyManame
      @IstyManame Месяц назад

      @@justyna6946 oh ye I know 1 girl from Poland she was nice to me, but guys are so loud lmao

  • @IstyManame
    @IstyManame Месяц назад

    I was playing pretty good recently but there was this one game where i performed really bad, and this child told me "Don't play this game ever again". And it's insane how i can be so aware of it consciously, that he only knows me as long as he played with me, and that he's a child and that I'm way better on average. But subconscious couldn't care less lmao, it still makes me feel not great for a day or two

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      yeah, the aftermath is relatable. sometimes those one on remarks out of the blue just sting and you don't expect it, but when you're on your own with your subconscious, you gotta do what you can to distract yourself from the negative thought. it's super unfortunate that people's words can completely haunt us for a while, and yet people are still so cruel for no reason

  • @hakiforce
    @hakiforce Месяц назад

    start a podcast bro ❤👌

  • @Zomplexx
    @Zomplexx Месяц назад

    What I have found to work really well is just being nice to everyone, especially toxic people (in a way that doesn't support what they are saying). Usually, they are still toxic for a few rounds, then they go quiet for a bit and in the end they apologize for being toxic before and explain that they had a bad day or their gf just broke up with them or something like that and now they feel better because of me beeing positive twords them even though they were toxic to me

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      this is a really good way to act during your games, and we definitely need more people like you! positivity can really switch people around and make them think to themself "why am i acting in this toxic manner?" in turn, they become a better teammate to play with and elevate everyone's moods too

  • @Caeliiz
    @Caeliiz Месяц назад

    Really nice vid. It’s a shame so many people believe in destroying their own teammates, as if it would help win, rather than just trying to enjoy the game. People like that are actively looking for a fight just cuz they want to. In the end what matters is that you enjoy yourself playing, you can’t change people who aren’t willing to change nor is it anyone’s task, it’ll just be more fuel to them. Just focusing on yourself and your loved ones is what matters. Hope you have a nice day <3

    • @naveensjournal
      @naveensjournal Месяц назад

      this is exactly what i believe too, caeliiz. thank you so much for the compliment as well, and i hope you enjoy your day too