Othniel Eleazar
Othniel Eleazar
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Don't Chase Avoidants | Video Response to @byjohnobrien
I forgot to mention at the end that some of my "anxious tendencies" include sending a string of messages when my significant other was asleep, but they also only became more frequent the more anxious and insecure he made me in the relationship. I know better than to do that now, but he didn't even tell me he didn't like that until after we broke up, and also I was an insecure teenager at the time and didn't know any better.
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I analyze a video about being in a relationship with people who have an avoidant attachment style. It's not a mental illness or personality disorder, although it may be a symptom of one. It exists...
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My Biggest Problem With Christianity
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Please stream my music on Spotify and Apple Music: open.spotify.com/artist/3DAm45EXv6mtliL24VLMJ2?si=AQgCgeGCQ-qn5SUvac6MaQ music.apple.com/us/artist/alex-is-killing-me/1739218279
Parasocial breakups
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In this video, I discuss the phenomenon of the ending of parasocial relationships and people’s responses to them. I talk about my parasocial relationships and breakups. Then I talk about people “breaking up” with their favourite content creators due to being cancelled. Then I talk about people’s parasocial relationships with me. Please stream my music on Spotify and Apple Music: open.spotify.co...
I PRETENDED TO BE A 13 YEAR OLD BOY ON QUORA
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Throughout the month of May, I pretended to be a 13 year old boy on. This is my second time pretending to be a child on the app. This was my first video ruclips.net/video/3HdDeUZxot8/видео.htmlsi=ZzDwbKBmbkXpHWcF I have also pretended to be a boy on Pinterest. Here is that video ruclips.net/video/uhZ26hdEsrQ/видео.htmlsi=wdGjP6C3pEbUJEsa This video is highly disturbing. I share dark ways in whi...
On the occasion
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On the occasion
My Thoughts on Dating Apps
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My Thoughts on Dating Apps
Miller’s Girl Movie Review
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Miller’s Girl Movie Review
Miller’s Girl (2024) Reaction
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Miller’s Girl (2024) Reaction
I have a type.
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I have a type.
How To Make Friends
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How To Make Friends
PHILOSOPHYTUBE DID NOT R CONTRAPOINTS
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PHILOSOPHYTUBE DID NOT R CONTRAPOINTS
Welcoming Marcelline: Ball Python Vlog
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Welcoming Marcelline: Ball Python Vlog
Parasocial Relationships (from a Content Creator’s Perspective)
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Parasocial Relationships (from a Content Creator’s Perspective)
Fictional Characters I HATE
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Fictional Characters I HATE
New YouTube Outro
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New RUclips Outro
In Defense of Jeff and Annie (from Community)
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In Defense of Jeff and Annie (from Community)
I’ll Never Have a Limerence Again
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I’ll Never Have a Limerence Again
What Are Passive Predators? (and how to not become one)
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What Are Passive Predators? (and how to not become one)
The Second Lost Genration
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The Second Lost Genration
Animal Farm by George Orwell Analysis and Film Review
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Animal Farm by George Orwell Analysis and Film Review
Why Your Girlfriend Is Mad at You
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Why Your Girlfriend Is Mad at You
TELFs: What Is a Trans Exclusionary Liberal Feminist? (and why they are annoying)
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TELFs: What Is a Trans Exclusionary Liberal Feminist? (and why they are annoying)
My Thoughts on the Transgender Jubilee Debate
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My Thoughts on the Transgender Jubilee Debate
Can Christians Live in Sin?
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Can Christians Live in Sin?
Intersex Is Proof That Sex Is Binary
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Intersex Is Proof That Sex Is Binary
A Literary Analysis of Stories I Wrote When I was 11
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A Literary Analysis of Stories I Wrote When I was 11
Can Male Directors Stop Doing This to Little Girls? | A Critique of Moonrise Kingdom
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Can Male Directors Stop Doing This to Little Girls? | A Critique of Moonrise Kingdom
Is Will Wood Trans? | “I / Me / Myself” explained
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Is Will Wood Trans? | “I / Me / Myself” explained
My Homeschool Experience
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My Homeschool Experience

Комментарии

  • @mountainhighrecordingstudi8760
    @mountainhighrecordingstudi8760 День назад

    This was so chilled and low key. And really interesting!

  • @toyaleejb7714
    @toyaleejb7714 День назад

    How dare you stream this while I was away at work😭😭. But the curls looks amazing btw. Now to watch

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    I found this funny

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    I'm waiting to watch beetle juice!

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    I'm not sure what religion you will be, but I really like you, and whatever decision you make, Jesus will always love you <3 ( not in a mean judgment way or condescending, but I hope you always know you are loved and your life matters <3 )

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    I love Jenna Ortega so much can't believe you don't like her what o:

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    drag that MAN

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    that older guy you are talking about SUCKS

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    I really like your videos ❤

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    I think sexism has a really bad impact on women

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    Men just treat women so badly it is so sad so it makes sense why they don't like men

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    ❤❤I love kidology omgg I remember when she identified as bisexual, and then she came out as lesbian, I know Jessie Paege

  • @Ccray-qk7lb
    @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

    Oh my gosh, I remember alyana Joy her first video I saw her first video of when she left her husband and ended her engagement also, I hope you are doing good <3

    • @AutisticChristian
      @AutisticChristian День назад

      Alayna Joy left a husband???? I had no idea she was married

    • @Ccray-qk7lb
      @Ccray-qk7lb День назад

      @@AutisticChristian oh sorry she was engaged to a man and they were going to get married she called the wedding off

    • @AutisticChristian
      @AutisticChristian 6 часов назад

      @@Ccray-qk7lbhmm

  • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
    @whosebuilderandmakerisgod День назад

    If you go to my church or are one of my exes, don't watch this. XO Otni

  • @mirandabluff836
    @mirandabluff836 5 дней назад

    I really admire your devotion to Christianity and your willingness to lean into uncertainty here. Gender dysphoria puts demands on your whole body while religion asks for your whole heart-and it can feel like a tug-of-war between demands that you be absolutely certain one way or another. (Religion and gender dysphoria are both part of my life, but I'm coming at it from more of an Anglican perspective.) About the verse in Deuteronomy: there’s one more thing besides the text itself, and that’s the context. The context makes it more complicated to read. I don't have a specific thing I'm arguing for, but I just wanted to post some points that might be useful. Sorry for the long post that follows! What are the words in Hebrew for "item" and "garment"? "Keli" for a man's item that a woman shouldn't bear, "simlah" for a woman's garment that a man shouldn't wear. And what do they mean? Apparently "keli" is often used for weapons and armor (i.e., women shouldn't go to war), and the grammar is odd: it makes it seem like "keli" and "simlah" aren't meant to be synonymous. So one interpretation is that women should be prohibited from taking on men's social roles. There's another complication. In Deuteronomy, the prohibition is followed by other rules about maintaining boundaries: don't yoke two different species together, don't mix fibers, don't plant two kinds of seeds in the same field. I'm confused about this. What's going on here? Companion crops can be good for each other and good for the soil, so is it really saying we should never plant beans and squash together? Well, it might be, and we just have to trust it. Or it might be a law that only applies inside Israel (Maimonides says this), or it might be about cross-breeding new species, or it might be a way of defining a sort of sacred purity. And do these prohibitions apply to Christians under the New Covenant? Also, what does "abhorrent" mean? What exactly is the nature of this prohibition, and what is being prohibited? Well, the Jewish tradition has thoughts about this. Some of the scholars in the Talmud suggest it's the INTENT that makes it abhorrent. These are some of their comments: (1) It says that this is an abhorrence, but there is no example of abhorrence here! Rather, a man should not put on a woman’s outfit and sit among women, and a woman should not put on a man’s outfit and sit among men. (2) 'There shall be no man’s item on a woman” - so that she looks like a man, so that she can mingle among men, for this would only be for the purpose of fornication (or “adultery”). (3) “For this is abhorrent to the Lord” - The Torah only forbade dressing in such a way as to bring about abhorrent behavior. (I saw these in the article "The Prohibition of Cross-Dressing" by Hilary Lipka-I don't want to post a link in case youtube blocks links in the comments.) Finally, I just want to post this line from the Gospel of Thomas (which is part of the Apocrypha, so take it or leave it): "Simon Peter said to them: Let Mariham [Mary] go out from among us, for women are not worthy of the life. Jesus said: Look, I will lead her that I may make her male, in order that she too may become a living spirit resembling you males. For every woman who makes herself male will enter into the kingdom of heaven."

  • @lesw3803
    @lesw3803 13 дней назад

    ruclips.net/video/_yGwCWM7IgI/видео.htmlsi=-xWNclrS40y_r0U6

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod 13 дней назад

      I watched this guy!! He came up in my feed after this video. A lot of people seem perplexed why their avoidant partners leave them

  • @lesw3803
    @lesw3803 13 дней назад

    sounds like he may be a narcissist/psychopathic personality type with avoidant attachment style. be careful. Narcissists/psychopaths often prey on people who are far chronologically younger than themselves.

  • @lesw3803
    @lesw3803 13 дней назад

    You are very smart to explore and fortunate to have the online resources to learn about relationships, communication and attachment styles at such a young age. BRAVO! this is making GREAT use of the internet and social media. I wish you much success in your channel and your life!

  • @Undercovershrinkhere
    @Undercovershrinkhere 17 дней назад

    Don’t tell people what dysphoria is supposed to feel like for them. You are scientifically in the wrong about autogynephilia as well

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod 13 дней назад

      Contra and PT show about as many symptoms of gender dysphoria as attention-seeking teens faking tics on Tiktok have of Tourettes. I think I'm entitled to feel mocked and appropriated by PT, especially, and Contra who thinks being afraid of balding is akin to gender dysphoria (watch her gender dysphoria video on Vimeo, Dailymotion, and even on reuploads on youtube if you don't believe me)

  • @techdoor7367
    @techdoor7367 18 дней назад

    Sex is the height of uncivilized animal behavior. It is disgusting, pathetic, and an insult to all humans on Earth. Anyone who has done or will do so in their right mind will be below the level of the human race. They are no different from apes and pigs, and this also includes all intimate or romantic relationships. Between individuals

  • @antonioalbul00
    @antonioalbul00 23 дня назад

    I think a lot has to do with the deprioritozation of foreplay, a lot of people consider foreplay to be akin with masturbation but it's an very important part for people of the feminine sex to get in the mood and be more comfortable with the act itself

  • @antonioalbul00
    @antonioalbul00 23 дня назад

    I haven't finished the video yet but i really wanted to thank you for mentioning that asexual sexual people don't exist, i am a sexual person but i am more of a "keep it in bed not on the streets" type and i was very uncomfortable by a friend of mine who claimed to be asexual but keep talking about sexual subject and fetishes and everytime i mention i was uncomfortable by it he would just say i am a prude and that "fetishes are not sexual", don't know where i am going with this i guess i just wanted to vent beacuse i fell like if i vented on any other place on they internet i would be called rude for saying you can't be sexual and claim the label of asexual at the same time

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod 23 дня назад

      You’re welcome! Yeah, I don’t understand why people who enjoy having sex would call themselves asexual. Those labels exist for a reason because being ace isn’t a choice and it’s a very unique experience

  • @glupik1234
    @glupik1234 24 дня назад

    have you been on the internet when contra was transitioning? (like the deleted videos that she did) because yeah, she had severe gender dysphoria. not up for questioning.

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod 24 дня назад

      Have you been on the internet BEFORE she transitioned? She has never shown signs of gender dysphoria. The ageing anxiety and body image issues that hit her in her late twenties are nothing like gender dysphoria

  • @Endtherinbetween
    @Endtherinbetween 24 дня назад

    18:46 you called me out with the feminine trans guy stuff the funny thing is i only found will wood because I just really liked tomcats disposables when it showed up on my Spotify recommendations

  • @AlexFn-LowEffortGaming
    @AlexFn-LowEffortGaming 25 дней назад

    ahhh 2014 editing skills -🔥🔥🔥 based

  • @reijishian2593
    @reijishian2593 26 дней назад

    Yeah, I would tend to agree with the majority of what you've said here. It's definitely a topic that's not generally handled with the appropriate level of care and attention. It really irritates me how frequently men will use the Bible to justify actions that are plainly not loving or considerate towards their wives; and it bugs me even more how often they get away with it even when exposed. However, I remind myself that God is just, and that no one will get away with such manipulations indefinitely.

  • @toyaleejb7714
    @toyaleejb7714 27 дней назад

    IM HERE! Finally video I am here for a video 😭

  • @rosewell1983
    @rosewell1983 27 дней назад

    Ahahaha

  • @ixmay1023
    @ixmay1023 27 дней назад

    Great video 💜 Would love to hear more on the “How men are raised” part

  • @tarot.card.std.diagnosis
    @tarot.card.std.diagnosis 28 дней назад

    You should watch contrapoints' video about envy, i just wonder how much of *this* is caused by envy. God bless😘

  • @Lefthandedbanana
    @Lefthandedbanana Месяц назад

    2:10 PT's claim here is that gender dysphoria cannot be a diagnosis, not that no one has the feeling of dysphoria. Which is what she means by 'category error'

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod 27 дней назад

      That’s quite literally like saying depression can’t be diagnosable because it’s a collection of symptoms

    • @Lefthandedbanana
      @Lefthandedbanana 26 дней назад

      @@whosebuilderandmakerisgod yes as someone who’s dealt with depression I would say it’s the aggregate of multiple feeling at the same time not just the one feeling of ‘depression’. If you want to examine PT’s claim in a bit more detail I’d recommend watching “I emailed my doctor 133 times” and skipping to chapter 9

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod 24 дня назад

      I watched that video and all of PT’s most recent videos. I’m literally the viewer on her livestream who asked her about her views on GD and she answered my question live and her explanation was so full of ignorant BS I can no longer take her seriously

    • @Lefthandedbanana
      @Lefthandedbanana День назад

      @@whosebuilderandmakerisgod Still struggling to understand your point on why it should be considered a diagnostic requirement in any medical practice could you elaborate further?

  • @mythornshaveroses6472
    @mythornshaveroses6472 Месяц назад

    As a fan of Philosophy Tube and Contra Points, I just want to point out that whatever past they shared is between them. They clearly do not speak ill of each other publicly. At least not directly. It also seems fair to point out that, even though they have made statements that seemed ill informed or insensitive in the past, they have since tried to learn and grow as people. That is what we are all doing out here every day right? They have both shown their willingness to own their mistakes, once they have understood them. That is why they are both so successful at what they do.

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod 27 дней назад

      Well Contra did quite literally make that joke about her ex boyfriend in a tweet. She blasted her romantic relationships on RUclips on a video that’s still public. And philosophytube has made multiple covert tweets about contra. I appreciate your respectful comment and know you mean well, but I think PT and CoPnts are way more petty than you give them credit for

    • @mythornshaveroses6472
      @mythornshaveroses6472 27 дней назад

      @@whosebuilderandmakerisgod I respect your feelings about them as well. I am not calling them perfect by any means but, I do enjoy the work they do and their advocacy for equal rights overall. It's good to take the time to hear other perspectives and I enjoyed your video. Thanks!

  • @Koldyuki
    @Koldyuki Месяц назад

    Your entire argument is based on assumption and your first line of thought is blaming men. Its literally the baseline of sexism. A person makes choices and they face the situations. If you want to look physically revolting , congratulations , people think you are physically revolting , you know whats one of the words for physical revolting ? Ugly , so why is it wrong to call someone ugly when they intend to be ugly cause of whatever trauma they have ?

  • @PollyMcMan
    @PollyMcMan Месяц назад

    Love that you recognise Contra for the AGP they are. No judgement, still love their content. Love that it was them who educated me on AGP and the difference between homosexual transexuals and blokes who like to crossdress.

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Месяц назад

      When I first posted this video, a bunch of people were mad at me for calling Contra AGP lol

    • @epicstare99
      @epicstare99 20 дней назад

      Okay, I'm a bad member of the LGBT, what the hell does AGP mean 😂

    • @647586
      @647586 3 дня назад

      @@epicstare99 autogynephilia. it was made up by a transphobe and anyone believing it's real is a transphobe, no exceptions.

  • @georgevause8641
    @georgevause8641 Месяц назад

    Crazy story bro. What's your IQ again?

  • @zy8719
    @zy8719 Месяц назад

    Digital sex trafficing?

  • @AimForMyHead81
    @AimForMyHead81 Месяц назад

    Yea he did

  • @v1rtualdog
    @v1rtualdog Месяц назад

    i go on quora and get recommended a bunch of these teen spaces that are a breeding ground for these horrible people who want to take advantage of them. the fact that they can openly comment these things still baffles me how the site doesnt do ANYTHING about it, especially the questions feature. its like an open secret that the site tolerates this. and there are so many more adults masquerading as teens, even stealing pictures from real people, to get easier access to vulnerable kids. absolutely deplorable behavior. thank you so much for bringing awareness to this

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Месяц назад

      You’re welcome. I’m sorry you were exposed to the site and I hope you got away

  • @ggeemmiinnii
    @ggeemmiinnii Месяц назад

    1. Yes, I do like your uneven blush. Blush is my fave makeup product. 'I don't wear makeup often, but when I do, I apply my blush unevenly' -me 2. I saw The Smashing Pumpkins on accident in the mid 90s. I'm still not sure how I ended up at that show. Other bands I saw in the 90s were Nirvana (another accident), nine inch nails (someone bought me a ticket: 'ugh, I GUESS I'll go'), and Hole (that one was on purpose). 3. Pretty sure my wife just subscribed to your channel. Yep, she did, I just asked her. 4. I like that you address many different subjects in your content. It's refreshing. Hope you enjoy your day! (Edit: for item 1, '-me')

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Месяц назад

      Thank you! I shall. And you’re soooo lucky that you got to see the Smashing Pumpkins

    • @ggeemmiinnii
      @ggeemmiinnii Месяц назад

      @@whosebuilderandmakerisgod The 90s were good as far as music is concerned...as far as most things are concerned, tbh

  • @Tinascythe
    @Tinascythe Месяц назад

    uncover their naaaaaames

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Месяц назад

      I want to but they are open police cases, and for legal reasons I cannot. Otherwise you know I would 😩

  • @kazz970
    @kazz970 Месяц назад

    Maybe they just think you're incredibly wise and can give good advice to teens.

  • @kirvish520
    @kirvish520 Месяц назад

    quora is such an unspoken website. it's a cesspool for weird pedo groups and individuals, and almost none of them are ever reported. nice job with what you're doing and keep up the good work.

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Месяц назад

      Thank you! I feel the same way. More people need to be aware of this and bring it to light

  • @kananshusband9680
    @kananshusband9680 Месяц назад

    You're not putting anyone behind bars

    • @lilygotiton
      @lilygotiton Месяц назад

      doesn’t matter it’s bringing awareness and calling people out

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Месяц назад

      Everyone has being reported to the police. I can’t lock people up because I myself am not an officer

  • @cwsaysnope6744
    @cwsaysnope6744 Месяц назад

    Thank you.

  • @NaziZombie
    @NaziZombie Месяц назад

    Be praised almighty Antisexuality, you are the means to salvation and eternal life. Be cursed slaves of sexuality and all servants of it. There is no redemption for thoes who are praising sex.

  • @_k.
    @_k. Месяц назад

    3:11 "for some reason" hmmmm

  • @ggeemmiinnii
    @ggeemmiinnii Месяц назад

    I was an intravenous drug user and heroin addict for years (I'm open about it; earned my state peer support certification last year, sober date 05 Mar 2017). As a drug addict, learning how to manipulate others becomes second nature. One of the things that stood out in this video is the way these p e d o s learn to manipulate children into giving them what they want, just like a drug addict does to people in their lives to get money and/or drugs. A true addiction to *anything* is a sickness, but I do NOT think addiction is a disease. As long as an addict is self-aware, they CAN choose to not feed their addiction, just as I did as a drug addict. I believe that p e d o s can do the same. Just my opinion.

    • @whosebuilderandmakerisgod
      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Месяц назад

      I think that everyone is redeemable but after an adult has done this to a child I think they need to be permanently punished. But yes it is an addiction and these men are sick as well

    • @ggeemmiinnii
      @ggeemmiinnii Месяц назад

      @whosebuilderandmakerisgod Oh, I wholly agree with you. All addictions do damage, but the level of damage that p e d o s inflict is something else and it should be punished. Although I do believe ANY addict can choose to stop feeding their addiction, it seems that most p e d o s make the choice to NOT stop.

  • @joshtaylor6911
    @joshtaylor6911 Месяц назад

    The net sadly is seething with these people, it's truly bottomless. I admire your dedication and perseverance in taking this action, your simply raising awareness and that's something parents to have more of. But remember that even the most hardened investigators and police who work in child protection and internet stings burn out after time...make sure you look after yourself as well ok? But once again, what your doing is a great service to innocent children😊