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I would 100% live on my own not socialise just work n home I’d be happy with that ❤ i hate noise n crowds too.

Also for anyone in the comment: It doesn't have to be a man :) ty

you are kidding ?

A woman cannot have both! After 30 a woman will loose a big chunk of her value. The biological clock, men are not interested in if a woman have a career or not. A single woman 30 years old is a red flag for most men. Choosing a bad partner is your problem not the partners.

No, they’re applied correctly. If he is my man it’s different from a random man telling me what I can and can’t do.

What if there is no exclusivity yet established, but a woman gets attention from her ex-boyfriend? Should communication about jealousy occur?

Unless you want your new boyfriend to be an absolute wet wipe or simply leave you, do not maintain any contact with ex boyfriends.

It is hard for me to understand what point does author wants to make. Whether our nature is outdated or not will not affect the clear fact that we all are going to deal with it (our nature) till the day we die. So better to work with one's nature and not against it. The only rational conclusion when you think that your feelings are not going to be thrown away just because you can rationalize why they should be (talking from a fucking experience here) - think 2-3 times (10 times if needed and don't give a fuck who says what about it) before having sex if you are a women. It is also advice to the men , but for women it is more important to follow.

Attachment theory is the same regardless of gender, it's basic human psychology

Or women get a sense to have impossibly high standards especially if there are many men that want to "mate" with her. Proof that this is true is that women's standard will change to accept her children's standards.

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Interesting. I would like to watch a video from you dedicated to the subject "the right man for you". For clarity on what are the important aspects that makes a man right for a woman, since clearly being a good man with great background or strong initial attraction isn't.

I'm a 30-year man, and I've been delving into these topics for probably a decade, privately. I don't know how to interpret this video, but I'm not trying to be mean. But these are my take-aways from this video: 1. Women cannot overcome their nature 2. Uncertainty is misleading because its caused by a relatively speaking, now-outdated nature that both gets you attached too fast, and detached too slow If this is true, I'll feel extreme sadness. Simply because I don't want to date a woman who cannot (in collaboration with me) overcome their nature. It means she won't be able to handle my (to be conceived) awesome kids. My kids are definitely going to overcome their nature and become the best version of themselves. If these are my ambitions, evolutionarily speaking, what would be a good approach to signal this to a woman? I'm bi, and I have some expressions that may appear feminine. This is probably relevant to that nature you spoke of in the video. One tip though on the video itself: create images that summarise what you've said. Images that outline a scenario, or an informative illustration like a graph perhaps. This will force you to think of it as a whole too, not just as a narrative. But definitely prioritise your narrative like you do. Cheers! I find your general video style great! Thanks for sharing.

I love your videos so much!!

Your evolutionary explanation might explain early-stage uncertainty, but other factors like abandonment issues also play a role, or societal expectations, or what her friends want her to be with, etc. A woman can have mixed feelings about one man, leave him to fall in love with another man, head over heels… because he’s hot. In retrospect she may have been happier with the first man, and her reservations were based in insecurity or fear of abandonment or low self-esteem perhaps. Following the video’s advice, women may end up in their 30s with just cats and wine for comfort. These issues require a deeper analysis.

I love your videos, keep up the good work 🥰 I've been struggling a lot with *spirituality* and trying to find what I believe. I grew up super religious but I've pulled away from religion a lot, and I'm way more interested in psychology now; not that those are mutually exclusive, but I grew up being taught that "demons" cause depression and anxiety, which was traumatic for me because I'm autistic and went undiagnosed my entire life, so all my sensory issues and panic attacks were attributed to "demons" and I believed I was this evil person simply because I struggled with my mental health. 😓 Anyways, nowadays I'm studying body language analysis, which comes with a lot of evolutionary psychology (for example, we cover our abdomens when we're nervous because of the way we evolved to protect our internal organs.) Anyways I love your videos, you're super well-spoken and your voice is really soothing and comforting, I hope your channel grows really fast 🥰

Family or success, the choice is yours. Choose wisely

AKA she has unrealistic standards and will die a lonely cat woman :)

What's ep ?

These women are often competant liars, even to themselves. The main problem is they claim to want traditionally high value men, when their attraction tends to fall on traditionally low value men. Traditionally low value competant men are the ones that will challenge them and attract them. They are men they know they shouldnt have or choose. Yet these men are the ones they resist.

Because women have too high standards. And think you deserve what you don't even though you are average. And its disgusting to treat men like walking wallets.

Ai lol

This is not a problem. Men shouldn’t have a problem with that. Same way women shouldn’t have a problem with some men looking for younger women. Both evolutionary.

Not at all.

Both are narrow-minded, things are different and complex.

Simplifying the complexities of psychological pain like this isn't an accurate reflection of reality. Physical pain is a simple sensory input response something that animals experience in the same way humans do. But psychological pain is much more complex in humans than in animals. On top of this, depression and anxiety are not just pain. Depression is marked by numbness, lack of motivation and absence of enjoyment. It can be useful to use physical pain as an analogy for psychological pain but as a model it is overly simple and not useful for individual cases. Evolutionary psychology in general is not a field worth respect as it contradicts the rest of the scientific community so often without sufficient evidence or self reflection

What about generational trauma?

There is nothing that disagrees with the first view at all, especially not with how to heal the pain. Are you being paid to read a script or is this all you? Please do better, this video ia useless.

Depression is chronic pain, not acute pain. It’s damage to the pain circuitry.

There seems to be no way to contact you. Feel free to contact me then as I like your approach and am looking for a woman's perspective on my channel. I would like to speak - please just go to my contact form or email me (my info is easy to find!) If not - just let me know and I'll delete this contact....for status purposes. I don't want anyone gossiping about my rejection :)

You are completely uneducated and misguided. You are acting profoundly desperate to construct a fantasy world. All under the guise of trying to help others. You really need to stop because you are actually part of the problem! I am not trolling here. I am your elder who has 41 years of due diligence and personal work building integrity. In 1983, I started working with peers and professionals who began to teach me communication, relationships, and social skills. That's all the time I have to explain. You are living in your fantasies, not respecting your feelings!

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Exactly.... you are so right. ❤❤❤

you do such a good job explaining the science and reasoning behind ideas that could come off simplistic or touchy!

A woman being "successful" rarely adds anything to the life of the type of man she seeks. If HE is successful enough to meet her standards, then SHE is not the sort of woman he's looking for. He'd rather have a cute, relaxed, fluff-bunny.

It all comes down to instincts for me.Listen to your hard wired instincts,biology and your OS and you will be happy🎉.

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Not only men like to dip their toes. Many women too. Marriage is actually an unnatural state of being which most of us have been conditioned to accept as natural thrú the centuries. Most creatures on the planet are not monogamous. Humans do it for the sake of order and legal aspects in society, which could actually be done contractually. I could write a thesis but this is it in a nutshell

The Bible says God created men and women to come together in marriage as one man and one woman, they will become ONE flesh. If a man or woman is cheating it is bc they are struggling with a demon of lust and/or they don't care about their partner, and/or compromising with morality etc. Find a partner that truly loves Christ and you will find a faithful partner.

Wow, I am so glad I don't believe this crap anymore. Even when I did, this wouldve been a useless, crude, stupid, pointless video. You are literally just making content that is ammo for the AI algorithms arsenal to manipulate and make all the worst people feel validated about all the wrong things amd stroke their ego and fuel their fire. That is literally all. Did you think you were educating people? No now I'm genuinely curious what you thought you were contributing to the world. Who needed to be told this? Lol

*YOU* *ARE* AN *AI* ****

If you compare the average man of today with a man from 100 years ago it can be said that these man are technically broke.. Since the half of the money moving the economy goes to pay working woman.

Women don't evolve. Nothing does

Ok

This is so interesting! Love this video

Love the way you express yourself and the applicable questions we can ask ourselves in order to better ourselves, which you provided in this video!! We need more of such content in the modern society. Thumbs up for sharing examples andd concepts from your personal experiences!!

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Will I end up old and alone. I have no idea, nor do I really care. In the end, we all die alone. Nobody is going to join us.

I know because you keep taking advice from psychologist or therapist or so called counselors. Who know absolutely no more then you do about your relationship