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Matti Talks
Добавлен 3 май 2021
Documenting my journey to financial freedom.
Wish me luck aha
Wish me luck aha
I'm 28 years old... Success is not guaranteed
Nothing changes if nothing changes.
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I finally started living at 28 | My response to "I'm 28, broke and living with my parents"
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Comparison is the thief of joy
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This is something I have struggled with in the past and sometimes still struggle with. See you in the next one x Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
Who you really are is how you behave when nobody is watching
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It's easy to do the right thing when everybody is watching but how do you behave when nobody is there Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
I'm 28, broke and still live with my parents
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I did everything I was told to through school, worked a 9-5 and here is where it got me... Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
Work hard for yourself and NOT for anyone else
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You are very replaceable to EVERYONE but yourself. See ya in the next one Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
Finding happiness in the pursuit
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I'm realising that the process should be appreciated more See ya in the next one. Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
Do it even when you don't feel like it
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I just wanted to share a little bit of wisdom that you may or may not havee heard before Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
I Quit My 9-5 WITHOUT A Backup Plan
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If you’re scared to take a leap of faith then this quote is for you: "What if you fall? But dear friend, what if you FLY?" See you in the next one x Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
this is your sign to go all in
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This is a message for you guys. Please spread the word :) Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
you have to be delusional to succeed
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Nobody else will believe in you. You have to be your own biggest cheerleader. Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
there is NO plan B
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Sometime you have to put yourself under stress and give yourself no other choice but to succeed. Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
How to know if you're on the right track or not
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This is how you know you're on the right track, even if progress feels slow asf. Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
If you're just living your life JUST to please others...
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Your life is preciously and uniquely your own. Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
if you're not seeing the fruits of your labour...
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Hey everyone, one I had a vision or an image recently and wanted to share. Seeya in the next Connect With Me Subscribe to my weekly email newsletter: substack.com/@matti889070 Instagram - therealmattchong Main Channel - www.youtube.com/@Therealmattchong Twitter - MattC_1996
This will determine whether your life changes or not...
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This will determine whether your life changes or not...
The difference between entitlement and ambition
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The difference between entitlement and ambition
This is the loneliest I have ever felt in my life...
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This is the loneliest I have ever felt in my life...
I'm going to document my journey to financial freedom (part 2)
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I'm going to document my journey to financial freedom (part 2)
if you've failed 100 times already...
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if you've failed 100 times already...
Why I stopped pursuing happiness...
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Why I stopped pursuing happiness...
I'm 28 years old and I have never been DRUNK
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I'm 28 years old and I have never been DRUNK
your new life means the death of your old one...
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your new life means the death of your old one...
have you tried escorting? extremely good fun esp. in yachts
What is that?
really insightful video! you're from which country brother?
@@kathaarsis thanks. I am from London!
england is my city
I'm 16 and I a have a similar mindset I suppose. The problem is that I keep losing to my bad habits which I've come to call as demons of pride, sloth and lust. Idk any people within my circle, who ig can understand or take out the time to listen to me... I just want to be better person but this war against these demons is so difficult. I've been trying to win for 2 years but it feels like I lose twice after each victory and I feel so stuck. I think the most powerful demons are lust and then sloth. It's like when I win against my pride and become humble and start tackling sloth and actually begin to get my shit done, pride takes over and I get full of myself and then the rate of progress goes downhill. Could you please suggest how I should tackle this problem? Any practical advice would be appreciated.
@@ParamarthaChatterjee mmmmmm I always found praying to God helps during these times bro. Don’t just rely on your own strength 🙏
you have such a nice forehead bro. i'd legit commit crimes for a nice forehead like that. I have a huge wide cranium
You are manifesting this mindset unconsciously.
It's playing out already
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@@korbin9906 thanks
How do you make dreams a reality when everything is literally against you, should I be OK with being disliked if I'm not liked then how will people acknowledge my goal I dream of world full of native plants I'm very much a botanical horticulturalist but no one wants a while much of "weeds" around because they don't see their importance do I show them the science or will they reject that too?. Do I just go to the city with a shovel and do it even if that means possibly getting into league trouble how do you start a revolution without causing discourse you can't huh?. I wonder what you'd do if you were me I live in Amarillo texas if you look up little carver you'll see what I'm talking about nothing grows here I want my community to enjoy our native plant species and see biodiversity come back to these parched lands it's so ugly dry and cold here even in the summer we bare no rain how do achieve this
@@NUCLEARNIRVANA999 you need to read “can’t hurt me” by David goggins All your answers are there x
You're right but it's not easy to make a decision that is...less safe. I'm 24 and I quit my job last month after working as a teacher for 2 years, everyone around me was surprised but as perfect as it looks from the outside nobody's gonna live your life or understand why did you do that in the first place... even if I'm feeling lost and stuck now, I feel good somehow Thank you for sharing 🙏 Best of luck for all of us
Good luck!
Never give up on your dreams x
There are always options, even if this somehow doesn’t work out, there are always many options to succeed in life. Good luck
@@PaulVonLoren thank you
Good luck
@@vestabelt thanks
Thank you for this video.
@@onmyway33 glad I could help
Go get it bro!!
Thanks bro
hi matti reallly enjoyed your video do you have any tips on how to generate good income with laptop because everything you said in this video applies to my life im 25 years old btw big up brotha keep your head high
Ooooo I think products or services online is the best way and will give you freedom
It’s great that you’ve had this awakening but you don’t deserve to be hard on yourself for it. Like you said in the video a lot of people understand these things too late in life. Be grateful you discovered it now
I'm just grateful I have realised. So excited to finally start living! Thanks for your kind words
I am 28, single woman, no job, still finding my balance. My parents sponsored me till I got my first corporate job in June this year (which I later quit). It's okay to be 28 and still not financially independent yet. And it's a huge blessing to have parents who are supportive. Best of luck on your modeling journey
Thank you. I love my parents so much!
bro gon b a full time pretty boi AND GET PAYYEEDDD $$$$$$ God bless bru work smarterrr not harder you feel me
@@willbrowne-cn8uo my bro. Thank you
Yeah I aint gon lie, he looks Great! with that buzz cut. No diddy.
Good job Matti! You'll do great 🍀
@@victoria.zappia thank you! ❤️
I am 26, pretty much in the same position. I kind of figured it out. I decided to start a small business with something I am passionate about (skincare) and just start selling oils, and things like that. With the internet it is alot easier to make money as opposed to pre-internet days. You were able to reach 6,500 people with the video. If you start selling a product you can turn those people into customers. The most important thing is to hustle, you have to post everyday. The best way to reach people is by doing lives, you can educate them about your product while they are watching. Find something your a passionate about, this took a long time for me but at the end I noticed I was always interested in skin care. There are so many things you can sell, if you can afford a physical product, create digital products like online courses, digital planners, stock photos/vidoes, vlogs, informational videos or blogs. Keep pushing your content, direct traffic to your sites, ask people to like and subscribe, you will actually get more subscribers if you ask. Good luck!
@@amaana1414 that’s so cool about the skincare. Link me I’m interested!
Working is one of the cruelest jokes humanity has played on itself sometimes I go into wally mart and see people I used to work with when I was 16 and I'm 21 now and that future scares me they look so old and tired I don't desire to be that way a company that trades my precious time for money, the machines stop but the people who work them can't afford to stop for a second machines are treated like people and the people are treated like machines. I really just desire to be alone and be a hunter gather I already practically live that way so broke I make homeless look rich but I love it when you live a busy life you see the way people treat you. I used to drink 18-20 years old so drunk I was half cut up to my eyes and the only problem I had was an empty bottle and I wouldn't trade those times for the world those were the best years of my life...yeah, those were the best years of my life I have no illusions of who I am. I love being what man considers feral. Hunting my food eating good, exercising, surviving ive been doing all my life and I love it that's who I am. Well this has gone on to long so I'll rap this rant up. I truly hope you evolve into your given career and never let anyone tell you differently if that's what you feel then go for it afterall we'll all be in the same spot life is a beautiful illusion. Sincerely~ Jaleal
@@NUCLEARNIRVANA999 wow thanks for sharing this. Appreciate you!
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Responding to myself lol x
Beautiful sweaty talks
@@maronglaze6529 thanks
Oh wow I haven't seen much of a male from East Asian heritage talk about their experiences growing up, much respect to you. I can relate to you in many ways of enduring hell in my high school years, racially bullied and the struggles of balancing between 2 worlds as well as internalised racism which can tear apart the community if not addressed like it has been for me. In short, I never felt home in any place, growing up. I've basically now accepted that I can blend into two worlds at all and I have the freedom at will. I'm actually an Australian born Chinese, but I have more of a connection with BBC than I do with the Australians, and I'm also moving to the UK next February 😅 it's a long and complicated story
@@JohnWMUFC10 I think is more common than most people think. Anytime you’re different, people will single you out. This gets better as you get older :)
Keep the grind going. You are closer then you think 🙏
@@McRaver thanks
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you can study all weekend and get a C average and your friend who didnt but had to work and got a 90 percent . thats life. some ppl are very fast learners
@@yanyant-q1l I’d get a B at least but yeah I get you
yep. life aint fair
@@yanyant-q1l yup
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This motherf*cker comes and takes everything I’ve worked for… LOL, jokes! Please watch the video through. The message is super important x
I compare myself to matti sometimes but then i forget im not a chad, but in all seriousness i wanted to be a supermodel so badly but im 5'6 and im african and modeling lives long legs because clothes fit better on taller frames and when it comes to color contrast its better to have longer limbs i used to conpare mysely to alton mason we kinda have the same face but hes way taller and then i realized that even though id like to be admired for my looks im also more than just how i look i love botany and horticulture and one day i hope i can have a permaculture yard that sustains all my needs. But yeah i learned pretty quickly that beatuty is a very rigid concept and the industry is very competitive it made me feel like my place as a person was less than im so happy people can be models but im glad i was shown the ugly side of modeling before i was so naive i thought anyone could be a model. I truly hope you get a big agency one day you inspire me to take care of myself i legit just dont really do so im outside gardening all the time so i kinda just dont even worry about it i know im a dirt ass i really gotta do better fr.😂❤
@@NUCLEARNIRVANA999 I am already in quite a big agency haha and I’m starting to booking jobs :) God bless you
@@mattchongunfiltered god bless you too I can't wait to see up there up there. I have no doubt in my mind you'll be awesome but I genuinely do have a question if you're not supposed to compare yourself to others then how will you have a format for what "good" looks like I hope that makes sense.
I've learned that I can still work over 80 years of age and no need to look through my father's pocket retirement. Like gaining hope from auctions to gain hope for the writing test
Exactly
Daniel Henney as Lan Mandragoran in the " Wheel of Time" series on Amazon. Warrior, main character, manly and sexy AF. Beautiful and perfect Asian masculinity in that show. Hopeful for more of exactly that in the future.
He's half asian. But yes, he is a very good looking man
I know their is some mindful that help's, truly our journey start's fresh and now. Unpleasing if i don't
Pursuing happiness, I don't want to pursue happiness because this is my happiness thinking about 9/5. Hopefully there's more out on RUclips that document their day to day journey, a yell a voice that does need the help. 🎉 For all you done. 9/5
See where I come from is, I have much to nothing if it wasn't for my parents. Everyday life I need positive. I passed my pass because I have realized. Money is the power of life. And my legs is not but it gets me to work. Love you and keep posting life vlogs. Someone else may need the encouragement as well as I do. Thanks
Exactly
Life lesson, don't know how to drive but ride a bike. Got to confident I've started jogging. Keep riding the bike even if you don't feel like to. 28 and body feels young. But actually life catches up. So maintain the bike. Love you
Thanks dude
28 also with my parents, job to job discouraged from my own problems. I'm more in courage enough to send videos as well. Thank you and hope life treat you well
Thanks for your comment :)
Atleast you're sexy
I'm 23, unemployed for a year, stuck and on the verge of committing something
Commit to it! You got this
I have been there myself. It can be so disheartening... Please know you are making that change right now. That is transformation. Hang in there and don't give up. It's never too late to seek new opportunities. I thought I was going to stay with my parents forever. I was finally able to find a job that fit me, and I'm willing to give my time and energy. I saved and am finally able to afford to move out because of my family. Know that there is nothing wrong when you live with your family. It's never too late, and try not to compare yourself with anyone else journey. Your journey is at your own pace. You are already taking the steps. I wish you good health and happiness.🌻
I just quit my job to pursue modelling and YT full time from next year. Life will be better in 2025. Thanks for your encouragement :)
Same here.
Never too late to change our lives :)
Your voice is magical 💎🥺😊
Thanks
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"Live off what you've earned" they say. They die a few years after they retire.
Ouch. Truth!
Doing the _"right thing"_ at cost to yourself... my personal opinion on why this *seemingly maladaptive* behavior persists is that it is *downstream of a beneficial mindset.* In other words, although ideally one could be selfless in public and selfish in private, *adopting a selfish mindset reduces ability to act selfless* and lose out on prosocial gains. Even the smartest sociopath will slip up. People will catch on and there will be a *risk of social ostracization* or other social sanctions.
@@premedguy2378 interesting
when noones wathcing i fart and burp and then laugh at mysefl
@@thesquirtle8647 hahahaha
We are born to work six days a week and rest one. There is no way around it.
@@MinervaSanchez-Tenorio hard work isn’t the problem. I work my entire weekends and 5-9pm for my weekday evenings on my RUclips channel, side hustle and modelling. It’s the fact that the 9-5 isn’t enough despite working my ass off :) Thanks for your comment
Get a job at a fast food place.
@@MinervaSanchez-Tenorio I’m actually pursuing modelling and my own side hustle full time next year :)
At least you have the most important thing, which is being good looking. Life is 10x easier when you are good looking, humans are wired to be biased towards beauty. Also girls will like you no matter if you are broke or not, just because of your looks.
@@SPACEDOUT19 fair point. I won’t dispute that. Thank you