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The Conscious Couples Podcast
Добавлен 14 фев 2022
#135 | What Does 'Equal Partnership' Mean To You?
In this episode, Alan and Emilia dive into what equal partnership looks like in relationships. They share personal stories and coaching experiences to explore how partners can divide responsibilities fairly, whether in business or at home. Highlighting the idea of "invisible work" and the challenges many couples face, they stress the importance of defining equality for each partner. They offer practical advice on creating a balanced and supportive partnership from household chores to financial duties.
Show notes:
(0:00) Intro
(2:10) Defining equal partnership and its impact on couples
(4:56) Example of cognitive labor and invisible work in relationships
(6:41) Introduction of the DRI (Directly...
Show notes:
(0:00) Intro
(2:10) Defining equal partnership and its impact on couples
(4:56) Example of cognitive labor and invisible work in relationships
(6:41) Introduction of the DRI (Directly...
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#134 | What Can You Learn From Your Relationship History?
Просмотров 9День назад
Are your past relationships affecting your present and future ones? In this episode, Alan and Emilia share how reflecting on your relationship history can help you understand your preferences and avoid repeating mistakes. They offer practical advice on being your true self in a relationship, ensuring growth and alignment with your partner. Tune in to discover how to cultivate a relationship tha...
#133 - How Are Your Partner’s Decisions Impacting You?
Просмотров 1514 дней назад
Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, they explore how the decisions you and your partner make every day shape your relationship. Whether a simple or extensive choice, these decisions can lead to a stronger, healthier connection or create challenges. Through personal stories and real-life examples, they share how partners can unknowingly i...
#132 | Does Your Partner REALLY Believe in Themself?
Просмотров 721 день назад
Do you ever wonder if your partner truly believes in themselves or if they’re secretly struggling with self-doubt? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros.This eye-opening episode explores how deep-rooted beliefs can shape our relationships, mainly focusing on two core wounds: feeling "defective" and "unlovable." Discover how these underlying fears can trigge...
#131 - When Are You Your Partner's Primary Focus?
Просмотров 11Месяц назад
Do you feel like your partner truly sees you, or are you sometimes left in the background? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. This episode unpacks what it means to be your partner’s primary focus and why it’s crucial for maintaining a healthy, loving relationship. Listen in as they share real-life examples and tips to help you and your partner stay conn...
#130 - Staying Connected While Your Needs Are Neglected
Просмотров 193Месяц назад
Feeling overwhelmed by life's demands? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, they explore how prioritizing personal needs is crucial for a healthy relationship. Life's pressures, from financial stress to everyday challenges, can easily make you neglect yourself, putting a strain on even the strongest bonds. Discover practical tips and hear...
#129 | What "Doing THE WORK" Actually Means
Просмотров 52Месяц назад
Have you ever wondered why some people grow emotionally while others stay stuck? Tune into The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, they explain what "doing the work" means regarding personal growth, especially for men. Using relatable stories and insights, they explore how men and women differ in self-improvement, the value of therapy, and the power of...
#128 - Is Your Partner Addicted To Their Devices?
Просмотров 8Месяц назад
Can unresolved childhood experiences sabotage your relationship? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, we’ll explore the profound impact of viewing the past as a slingshot for future growth, the significance of creating core memories together, and the role of understanding and supportive partners. The discussion highlights the importance o...
#127 - How Much Is Your Past Hurting Your Relationship?
Просмотров 18Месяц назад
Can unresolved childhood experiences sabotage your relationship? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this episode, we’ll explore the profound impact of viewing the past as a slingshot for future growth, the significance of creating core memories together, and the role of understanding and supportive partners. The discussion highlights the importance o...
#126 - Why Do I Still Feel Lonely In A Relationship?
Просмотров 212 месяца назад
Feeling lonely even when you're with your partner? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. This episode reveals why many people think this way in relationships and how to change it. Learn the real reasons behind this common issue and how understanding it can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections. Alan and Emilia share their insights from coaching, h...
#125 - Is Your Pride Creating Conflict In Your Relationship?
Просмотров 92 месяца назад
Join Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros on The Conscious Couples Podcast to explore how pride can impact love and relationships. In this episode, they define pride, share relatable examples of its effects, and introduce the Love-to-Pride (LTP) ratio-a key to sustaining a loving partnership. Learn practical advice on balancing accuracy and humility in your interactions, ensuring a healthy and harmoni...
#124 - Does Your Relationship See Conflict as Good or Bad?
Просмотров 132 месяца назад
Can conflict be the hidden key to a healthier relationship? Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. Many people view disagreements as detrimental, but what if they could be the key to fostering stronger, more resilient partnerships? By shifting our perspective and adopting a growth mindset, engaging in open communication, and taking personal responsibility, ...
#123 - The Top 3 Tools To Help Your Relationships Flourish
Просмотров 162 месяца назад
Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In today’s episode, they discuss how couples can stay close and happy even when life gets busy. They share three powerful tools designed to streamline collaboration, enhance communication, and structure your daily interactions, helping you and your partner achieve a well-organized, goal-oriented, and harmonious partner...
#122 - How To Prevent Destructive Patterns In Your Relationship
Просмотров 533 месяца назад
Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts, real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In this insightful episode, they dive into the crucial role of self-regulation in maintaining healthy relationships. They break down the three types of regulation-external, co-regulation, and self-regulation-emphasizing the importance of each in developing emotional stability and resilience...
#121 - How Often is Your Partner Taking the High Road?
Просмотров 103 месяца назад
Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it can significantly impact our personal development and the quality of our relationships. Welcome to The Conscious Couples Podcast with your hosts, real-life couple Emilia Smith and Alan Lazaros. In today’s episode, they explore the complexities of managing confrontations that can catalyze growth and more profound connections when approached with compo...
#120 - Is Your Partner's Self-Talk Hurting Your Relationship
Просмотров 133 месяца назад
#120 - Is Your Partner's Self-Talk Hurting Your Relationship
#119 - Do You Feel Held Back By Your Partner?
Просмотров 443 месяца назад
#119 - Do You Feel Held Back By Your Partner?
#118 - Do You Know Your Partners Keystone Habit?
Просмотров 324 месяца назад
#118 - Do You Know Your Partners Keystone Habit?
#117 - How Honest Is Your Partner With You?
Просмотров 264 месяца назад
#117 - How Honest Is Your Partner With You?
#116 - Are You Overswinging Between Clingy & Avoidant?
Просмотров 2124 месяца назад
#116 - Are You Overswinging Between Clingy & Avoidant?
#115 - Your Trust Issues Aren't Just From Your Partner
Просмотров 194 месяца назад
#115 - Your Trust Issues Aren't Just From Your Partner
#114 - Are You Jumping to Conclusions Too Much?
Просмотров 254 месяца назад
#114 - Are You Jumping to Conclusions Too Much?
#113 - How to Spot Pretend Growth in Your Partner
Просмотров 345 месяцев назад
#113 - How to Spot Pretend Growth in Your Partner
#112 - Which "Relationship Killer" Do You Struggle With Most?
Просмотров 975 месяцев назад
#112 - Which "Relationship Killer" Do You Struggle With Most?
#111 - Accepting Your Partner For Who They Are
Просмотров 235 месяцев назад
#111 - Accepting Your Partner For Who They Are
#110 - Which Partner Has The Longer Time Perspective?
Просмотров 175 месяцев назад
#110 - Which Partner Has The Longer Time Perspective?
#109 | Which Partner Is Shouldering More Weight?
Просмотров 86 месяцев назад
#109 | Which Partner Is Shouldering More Weight?
#108 | My Partner Keeps Signing Us Up For Stuff
Просмотров 216 месяцев назад
#108 | My Partner Keeps Signing Us Up For Stuff
#107 - Have You Become Just Like Your Parents
Просмотров 166 месяцев назад
#107 - Have You Become Just Like Your Parents
#106 - How Is Stress Affecting Your Relationship
Просмотров 66 месяцев назад
#106 - How Is Stress Affecting Your Relationship
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Thank you, this video has been extremely helpful to put things into perspective. Unfortunately my boyfriend broke up with me two days ago: he is of the fixed mindset. The term growth mindset came up in my therapy today, So afterwards I researched again because we couldn't think of the opposite, which was fixed. I wish I had found this video a little while back so I could have implemented some of the information or shown it to him in a gentle way. It's important information to know though. I appreciate it~
@jd6331 I am so sorry to hear that you are going through a break up. There's nothing more hurtful than that. I am glad that you have a therapist who you can lean on, to process through all of the really difficult and complex emotions that come with that process. Know that you are not alone, and you have us here to support you as well! Having a growth mindset is extremely difficult… Because it is often way later that we come to learn this about ourselves. I believe deeply that this video came to you in the best time possible, although that might be hard to see right now, this lesson for you is meant to serve you in a meaningful way that you will take forward with you forever.
Im not giving anyone time to grow into a girl. Sorry. Bye
That is not a very constructive comment. To each their own. Take care.
This was refreshing and I praye I learn from this.
We are so grateful you enjoyed this one. Non-violent communication is super important. If you ever want help or need support in this regard, be sure to email us or DM us on social media. My IG handle is @alazaros88, and Emilia's is @evolvewithemilia. Hope we hear from you soon!
The term itself is too immature to take seriously. It's a mind control tactic based on ostracism and shame. Get off my feed guilt cult.
Let’s be kind and strong fellas
Agreed 100% Alex. Here's to working on and leading with healthy masculinity. - Alan
Beautiful episode you two. LOVE that one couple who got to reach their goal of moving across the country to a smaller town with more land & how much you helped them make it through that transition ;) ;)
Thank you, Amy. It has been such an honor working with you and Chris! <3
So excited to see this grow and thrive! You both are such a huge gift to this world and have had such an impact on not only myself but Chris and Is connection! So grateful for you both and excited for this podcast!
Thank you Amy. We appreciate you & your amazing husband Chris so much!!! <3