Видео

Such a kind , good guy , hold your head high live your best life

Thanks so much man I understand everything you went through I'm just sitting here with all kind of emotions running through my head.

MOST PEOPLE ARE GAY OR BISEXUAL; THEY HIDE BEHIND SELF-HATE AND RELIGIONS; DR ALFRED KINSEY; JASON EVANS MD … ❤️🇯🇲❤️ JJLOVESTAR ❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️ … [JasonEvansMD2022]

HOMOPHOBIA IS A FORM OF SELF-HATE; ALL HOMOPHOBIC PEOPLE HAVE GAY URGES & PROJECT SELF-HATE AS HOMOPHOBIA; JASON EVANS MD … ❤️🇯🇲❤️JJLOVESTAR❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️

GAY GENES ARE INHERITED; YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN YOUR FAMILY; JASON EVANS MD … ❤️🇯🇲❤️JJLOVESTAR❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️

Keep living, sweetheart ❤

She said it only because she didn't know . Babe, in spit of what your family says or feels . Just continue to live .. There's life outside of your outside of your family

I tell straight black people when they complain about racism and not understanding it, “I can make you understand it really easy. The way you feel both gay people is how racist white people feel about you, down to rationalizing it through the Bible.”

I am sorry you had to go through all off this and still don't feel excepted. 🤗

Trey, if I was there right now I would give you the biggest hug you ever experienced. I am a white man and my experience was much the same as yours. I too grew up in Florida, in a very conservative home. I did a great deal of covering up and masking the real me so that I met the expectations of the family. I had two sets of parents, and so two homes to balance my straight appearance. I knew from the time I was like 5 years old that I was different, but I could not live the life I so badly wanted, and yet I did not date or spend time with women. As I got older and and out of the military, I was trying to meet the parental and grand parent expectations, by finding that right woman. I eventually found a woman, or she found me as we were in a bowling league. Even while I was married for 16 years I still had and found ways to meet men and find that sexual opportunity. It was all kept very secretive, as I led a double life. I started going through changes in my life, a mid-life crisis, that took several years of my life. I had this idea of living a completely different life that was much different, only to find I met the same rejections I grew up with in school. I tried to take my life in an apartment where I was getting help from a good male couple, on the 9th floor. I was afraid of the balcony, and I ignored it and walked right out the sliding glass door and grabbed the rail as I slowly starting shifting my body over the rail, before I was stopped and made to promise I would never make an attempt of any kind ever again. The transition in my life was a failure and had no job, and no money and no way to pay my expenses and live. Who cared, I wondered and yet here I am today 20+ years later living alone and trying to make the most of my life as I stay active. I help a group that would be beneficial to you as well called PFLAG. There are three things I hear during the support meetings, PARENTAL EXPECTATIONS, LABELING, and the RED FLAGS. like you I had to deal with parental expectations. I had to learn to live my own expectations. I am living my life. I avoid the labels, as I am who I am, not some label or category that someone wants to put on me. I am me, and living and making the most of it. Sorry my story is so long. I felt your emotions and had to share my story with you as you are not alone. here is my BIG HUG!!!

I just can't understand how any mother can disown her own child ,who is apart of her and my mother cut her own throat because a few of my partners wanted to help my mother because of me. Yes ,an extended family is very benificail if your family won't accept you. When I was 30 years old ,I told all of my family to go to a warm place ,because I got sick and tire of being the black sheep or the villain of the family. I also been on the suicide trail myself ;two failed attempts !!! After that I had the attitude of what the attorney said on the movie "Soul Food"when the family wanted her to save the family home and she said 'F the family because the family F my husband. !!! I had a very different twist on it and it goes like this"'F the family because the family F ed over me royally !!!" I let opportunities past me by because of my devotion to my family /my mother .

Back in 1967 ,I was very close to my mother and when I came out to both my parents ,my mother said and called me names that still hurt me to this very day. I can see and feel your pain in your face and your voice . My being one of the three siblings ,I lent my mother $17,000.00 dollars to save the family home ,after my Gay father left my mother for another man after 35 years of marriage . I also paid my own house note and her house note for two years ,along with lending her the $17,000.00 that was never paid back ,while she called me nasty and vicious names. After 32 years of being there for my mother ,I realized that I became damaged goods to my own mother and she used me financially ,but my experience made me a stronger gay man and when she past away in 1998 ,I had no guilt because I was a devoted and a good son to her. You take care and take care of yourself and just be strong .

Bro you got me crying I’m An empath so it doesn’t take much but man .. I do love my parents for accepting me. I had a younger aunt, like 7 years older then me, out me to my family and she promised she wouldn’t. So for the majority of my 20s life we so uncomfortable. I was rais d religious so that made it worse. 2011 I officially came out to my parents And they said they already knew. They don’t “accept it” but still love me: they even met my ex. It’s not perfect but listening to your story I appreciate my parents for being genuine and trying. Now I can talk to them about gay culture and help the understand us.

Handsome handsome handsome couple!!

How true what you say about pettiness. I like your statement, "let's spread love."

So proud of you Trey!!

ADULTS are the ones that put the thoughts in young children’s heads. I never thought about being gay until my dad started taking toys away from us because he didn’t like us calling them “our baby”. Adults need to understand that children aren’t thinking about sexuality until it is INTRODUCED to them. I started wondering if I was gay because I liked to do certain things and adults told me that those things were for girls and sissy’s. I suggest that parents just let their child be true to themselves and go through the phases of self development without adults interfering and putting thoughts into their heads.

Oh my gosh you guys are gorgeous!!! I am so HAPPY for you guys, but WHERE DOES THIS LEAVE BLACK WOMEN????? HELP

Your mom NEVER stopped loving you. She just does not accept that lifestyle. She LOVRS YOU❤

They do ❤ you, they dont accept the lifestyle. Everybody does not believe in but they love you. I ❤ ALL my gay relatives, but I dont hang out in that lifestyle, it is not for me.

Why do she have to accept something she does not believe in? She still LOVES you, but they may be against her beliefs. You should not worry about being accepted, just LIVE IN YOUR TRUTH. EVERYBODY DOES NOT BELIEVE IN YOUR LIFESTYLE, BUT THEY ❤ YOU MAN!!

Your mother was hurt too! You all shoukd go to counseling

I have a gay cousin named Tray too!

With all these black male coming out videos, it begs the question ARE THERE ANY STRAIGHT MEN LEFT!!!

Well you appear to be handsome!!

❤ Pensacola Florida

Good looking guy. I'm north of the " D " ( Detroit ) - not A very gay friendly place here in Michigan. Wishing u well ❤ and I hope u are doing well now. Always stay strong and find happiness where you can 🙏

Wow that's really your soulmate ❤

Wow that's really your twin ❤

Very handsome

Trey I went through the same thing you went through as a young black male as for me I hide behind music 🎶 coming up and praying 🙏 to God for strength because I thought being different was a curse but I thank God for praying and listening to my favorite artist and that kept me going it was times I wanted to take my own life but a friend step in and said you got to be a voice for a person who is not as strong as you so I applied that strength and kept going.

Suicide ideation me too

He is telling his truth. I appreciate this from him. I wish more individuals could do this. It is called healing folks.

Thanks for sharing this heart felt story of your life I can truly relate

God loves you and accepts you and so do I; I am so sorry you were whipped by all those people; nevertheless, lifestyle choices must line up with the image of our creator, Yah. if what you doing sexually is excepted by God then, so would any other sexual behavior fornication, adultery, bestiality pedophilia would be. All of these things and what you do for sexual preference is against God’s word you can’t expect a follower of God to compromise, no matter how good your heart the Bible says the heart is desperately wicked. The Bible also so there is a way that seems right to a man, but the end thereof is death. Do you believe the Bible? Do you believe in the God spoken of of in the Bible?

This is so heartbreaking.💔

You lot ang your culture Lol 😂😂

Def can relate. I came out when when I was 16, I'm 35 now. Been 2 decades of discrimination, rejection, hard treatment. But just like you GOD gave me extended family and friends accepted and loved me. You are an overcomer 💪 . The path gets better 🙏 🙌

She is so precious and she's going to break your phone

"Playing show and tell" lmao I remember doing that 😂 incredible that I didn't realize it sooner

Trey Pressley, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your truth. It is a truth that I can relate to! I have been in a similar dark place, being a "mama's boy" and raised in a Pentecostal church. Though my mother gracefully brought me out to her, yet, when I asked her: if I met someone that I really liked, if I could bring him to her so that she could meet him and give me her guidance, she replied, "Well, to be honest with you, I think it's a very nasty and filthy lifestyle...(I didn't hear anything else after those hurtful words.)." My "lifestyle" at that time, was loving God and pursuing my Ph.D. My, talking directly to God (Him/Herself), is what gave me the affirmation, confirmation, and inspiration that has led to the blessed life that I have been experiencing since that conversation! My mother is deceased, and I yet honor her because she believed as she was taught. Today, I know who I am and why I am and therefore, do not need affirmations and confirmation from anyone because I have it from God who knew me before I was in the womb. Grace, Peace, & Blessings, J.

I’m a twin. My brother straight and I’m gay. My Dad found it puzzling. I’ve got many gay cousins.

From one black man to another, you are HANDSOME. Didn't watch the video yet but I had to spread that positivity

Love your openness about your life and that of your family . It's not easy for a person just to come out & being accepted by your family. Parents always got issues about their son being gay, especially black gay men. Love yourself & except who you are. God loves us all & he don't judges us no matter of our preferences.

Trey I'm a 69 year old black gay man and I can totally relate to what you are talking about. Coming out in a large family it was not easy. However time has made my plight with my family much easier. I buried a partner of more twenty five and now I'm married to a wonderful man. I'm a true testament that life does get better even with all the pitfalls. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. Surround yourself with people that love you even if it isn't you immediate family. 😂

Your story and mine are so similar yet we live in different continents

Listening to your story it sounded just like me. My family was not as hostile as yours but they made it clear they disapproved of gay life. So I stayed hidden from them for years. I didn’t officially come out until I was 30 and it took place a couple of weeks after my partner had died. They couldn’t understand why I was so upset. After that my mom refused to discuss it and would change the subject when I tried to share something. I got through it with the help of friends. They became my family. I wish you strength and that you surround yourself with people who love and support you. That’s family.

Hey I really dig your honesty. I went through similar shit to you when my mum passed and the narcisstic abuse from a cult system accompanied by the same at work. So I hit a gym and got into meditation big time and your vibe is so similar to the guys at my gym - and I love it - so down to earth and no BS and humble! I love you man! Take good care

Thank you so much for sharing. Bless from NZ (by the way you are fine!)

You are so hot but the voice is so girly I dont like that in gays . We are dudes not girls