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Beautiful! ❤

This made me cry!!!! I could relate and empathize with Robin and also appreciate the fact that Harper made efforts to understand where Robin is coming from and they both tried to navigate through it together. As someone who's questioning her sexuality, I am so glad that I came across this video.

I'm asexual 🙂💔

So im supposed to live as a monk now am i?

I really want my friend to understand me too

Yes love exist without sex

Who's Chinese.

It's worse if you're an over 30 single male in rural America.

It's no different in America in a Chinese city or Chinese church.

I'm a hetero-romantic asexual girl, I'm 26 yo and I've never had sex, and the truth is, I don't want to. Nonetheless I'm so grateful that I got to experience some lovely dates here and there in which the chemistry and the banter was on fire, I even ended up making out with some of them and it felt amazing. Every now and then I still wish I were like the rest, yet, little by little I'm coming to terms with this part of my essence. In practice it's so excruciating trying to explain it to others, but don't let that dampen your spirits folks. We see you, you're not alone❤.

I’m like this too. I’m believing I can learn to visualise. Hopefully one day I will be able to do so

As someone who is re discovering that they might be an asexual lesbian, thank you for sharing your story. I felt so hopeless and sad before.

No self respecting man should stand for that shit. If your girl comes out as asexual, leave

Are you still in this relationship

Most of us will have experienced both sides of this equation by the time we are old. Funny thing is I never understood my parents side until I was the parent and my child left.

I just cary a note pad and pen with m3 every where I go, it's a bit hard to get a job. I went to this work environment and they just look at me like I'm a dumbass no good tomato can. I been training for my boxing match in august. I just want to make some money so I can help my family. It's hard, wish I could speak. But why? Why am I such an idiot? Atleast with boxing I don't have to be able to speak.

I'm asexual and I've never hated myself or thought I was broken, I actually feel really good about it and there's nothing wrong with me. I'm also biromantic, female and I realized I like women more but this is another thing I've never thought was bad about me. Whatever your orientation, love yourself and know there's nothing wrong with you, there's something wrong only with those who judge you!

amazing way of putting a social issue in a poetic frame. Thank for doing this y all.

Its not difficult if both,so i think i should find asexual like me

Sex without love exists and the reverse is true also. I’m asexual my partner isn’t. We’ve been together 13 years

just got into a relationship and im feeling so much guilt rn. but we agreed to communicate anything and everything with each other so he knows and he still likes me ^ ^

Same. I think from about 4. Not as bad as poor Nigel. I can talk to people but not when there are more than 2. Also can talk to close family but not husband's family. I was a long time saying very little when I started work and was very lucky to have patient colleagues, almost all male. It is way worse with women than men and girls than boys (im female). I think it is caused by a conditioning when we are small. Some sort of bad reactions to situations we have most likely forgotten all about. Things that help me are, sitting beside, instead of across from someone so Im not looking at them. Choosing who to interact with (Male DR, Male school friends etc) . Keeping short phrases to use just to have something said to show I am not just sullenly staring back eg, thanks, hi, just nodding or shrugging. I was labelled shy in school and I guess many shy people have this condition in various degrees. I believe one of the Bronte sisters suffered with it.

Yeah good luck with trying to cope with that gap. Sadly it only grows bigger and more difficult to deal with as real life stomps on you every day. If you're stressed out from work, you would want a lovey dovey night with sexual relief from your partner for example. And if she just wants to cuddle, it's like getting blueballed and it feels even more awful every time. It's saddening of a life to deal with and makes you miserable on the long run. Life isn't a a canvas without problems where peace reigns.

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This is so great!!! awesome idea! may I have the guitar chords? please?

I am an asexual boy and I am looking for a female asexual life partner 🌈❤️🧡

I'm falling for a girl who recently confessed to me that she is Asexual. I'm not a very sexual person myself and can go months to years without being intimate with someone. I really hope she likes me because... I would be so happy to have her in my life forever. I guess time will tell.

It's fine as long a both people understand what is going on. It's when one partner hides being asexual until after marriage.

I feel attacked. This is literally my situation at the moment 😭

I am 16 years old now. I have had selective mutism since I was 4 years old. Thank you for making this video. I am Japanese, but this is a disease that is completely unknown even in this country. My teacher forces me to speak, makes me laugh in front of everyone, and my classmates always exclude me. School is painful, but my physics teacher is the only person I can talk to outside of my family. That is my hope. Currently, I am studying so that I can leave my hometown and go to a new place. I don't know if I will be happy, but I think I have to get out of here anyway. Not being able to speak is very difficult in life. However, I want to overcome selective mutism in order to make my life better and live as myself.

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Thanks for your honest and creative video. It brought tears to my eyes as I am still grieving the death of my alcoholic father last December. Alcoholic dementia took him to a place much worse than not showing up full time for my brother and I as kids. My brother did not see him the past 30 years, yet abandoned his own children to adoption. I had a long string of broken relationships and lost jobs. After 5 years working the Al-Anon program (for the families and friends of the alcoholic.), I was able to let go of anger, bitterness and resentment, and love him as he was. We become hurt people who hurt people. Many years ago I lived in Singapore and there was both Alcoholic Anonymous and Al-Anon meetings. I owe some Singaporeans my amends, but since I am not there, I make living amends. I was able to show up for my Dad the last 3 years after his wife died driving 600 miles one way once a month, and then move into his house the last 10 months to care for him and bring home hospice in to help. He died in complete denial going through withdrawal once he became bedridden the last 2 weeks, with 9 days in the hospital developing aspiration pneumonia. I am now taking 2 months of downtime to let go and take care of my own health before returning to work.

This is the most heartwarming thing I’ve seen.

It's called a friendship. Hahahah

came here from my geography class..

I've had the blessing of being with my ace bf for a year and a half now, and i the story makes me feel seen. I'm gay, and probably his polar opposite. I try to tell myself that I have had my fill of sexual experiences before I got into this relationship, but there's days where I feel like I'm not good enough to elicit the kind of attraction from him that I've looked for in all of my previous relationships/hookups. It makes me feel hideous and very small; but I love him with all my heart, and he's assured me in his own ways of affirming that he loves me too. I'm not waiting for a crack in the armor for him to want to experiment, I just want to be there with and for him. He is so much more than just a body; he's a lover, dreamer, hard worker, and figure in my life who's helped me reconfigure the way I look at myself and the world around me. All i can work on is filling in these cracks of ways where I can feel beautiful without needing someone to validate it by being sexually attracted to me. The story warmed my heart and it is so refreshing to hear someone experiencing this odd yet wonderful dynamic as well <3

Is this supposed to make me feel better that my long term gf and future wife just dropped this on my plate. I’m supposed to respect her sexuality that she just now discovered when she’s known that I’m straight and need sexual interaction to feel emotional satisfaction. I’m monogamous to my core I don’t like casual hookups but I have carnal desires. Why should I feel ashamed when I feel like everyone else and I’ve never changed. Why should I be rejected by the one I love while 99% who is normal and enjoy sex have fun without me? Idk ace people should probably just not date non ace people or accept the fact they will have to be uncomfortable. I just looked it up 1.3% of the pop is ace it’s not like it’s normal to not want to be intimate with someone you share every little dark secret with. At what point is it just a best friendship where I’m supposed to be the silent rock suffering along. Yeah take your advice and shove it. I have the same relationship with men it doesn’t make me devoted to them. What does an intimate relationship even mean anymore?

My fiance has no problem with just cuddling if I'm not really feeling in the mood to be intimate He also always asks first and never makes me feel presured or uncomfortable about it I don't hate being intimate I just have q very low sex drive and I don't ever experience sexual attraction to anyone or anything

You don't have romantic feelings towards a friend. It is definitely not only friendship at all. I don't know why is that so hard for people to understand.

inspiring, but hard to find someone this understanding in real life. Most of them want sex and in times when people are cheating on their partners for sex, it is wierd to see this.

If you are asexual you should date only other asexual people, It's just as important for us to have sex as it is for you to not have it, one is not more noble or valid than the other

Some of the sound effects in your video seem triggering or off to me- ?

I'm aromantic asexual. I can't even imagine how love can come from sex. I know other people are different but I think the solution is possible: communicate what we need and respect each others boundaries. Want sex? Communicate! Don't want sex? Communicate! Don't contain people in the bubble of what you want, let people be themselves

I've been with my boyfriend 7 years he is an asexual and I am not. We have had conversations that has lasted hours. Disgusting how I feel and how he feels. We both love each other. He's my best friend and I feel like we're soul mates. But I have the sexual desire. Don't want to be ravished by him. He expresses the experience add Bean deeply in love with me. He has proposed says that I am his soulmate his best friend and then he will never want to be with anybody ever again. What does not have the desire. To be with me sexually. It is extremely hard for both of us.

A big Problem in Germany...

I'm crying after watching this. I'm in a 5 year relationship and have been going through this same issue recently (as in me discovering I'm Ace) and I've been losing hope in my relationship, but this gives me hope that it can work out some how <3

I like how it’s an adult not a child

Now knowing so many people understand helps

I wish i can be the person that's in the video caring and showing love to his parent but it's quite hard for me to cope with all the pain he caused i stopped speaking to my dad for 4 years now because i guess i was just fed up with his bullshit and quite frankly i absolutely hate my father and i wish it didn't have to be this way, 2 months ago he was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and i could see the regret in his eyes... I don't know if I'll ever be able to have the strength to tell him i forgive him and let him know it'll be okay but i think that he'll die knowing that his son truly and utterly hates him.

I started crying