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Hi Dylan. I do not want to come across as stalker-ish as I have messaged you a great deal in the past two days but I tried putting a response to your cemetery videos yesterday yet it did not go through to the video "Say NO". I have posted you on my "Posts" section on my channel, only because I was a fan of every single video in that cemetery series. Since watching this video again, it is not as bad as what I thought it was when I was ill yesterday. You do have a fair point. If you are gay and love the same sex, why bother with the wrong marriage? I personally would not be content or happy if I were to be with a woman. It would not feel right as I myself am only attracted to men. You have a fair and accurate point on that, and I thought you were putting down women, which was not the case at all, as you were only just standing up for who you are, being gay and good on you for that.

I'm with you. Long, long ago I met a man at the Battery, the cruising park in downtown Charleston. Well he inspected me and especially my teeth. Well my teeth weren't perfect at the time and I was perfectly rejected. I had self healing thoughts at the time. I thought that if someone is buying a horse, the condition of the teeth of the horse might be important. But real people looking for friendship, real love and respect might just not be caught up in these superficial things. Now of course, sure, if you're a marine with hot abs or a navy seal with a muscular chest, I'm all for it. But take the advice of a 64 year old. I once saw a plain looking man who was very tall down there. I wasn't much attracted physically. But something about his gentle way attracted me. When I got the package unwrapped, that was one of the best nights I ever had there.

I was fully out when I was 52 years old and the last person learned I was gay was my dad all because my sister let it slipped out my sexual orientation. She called me feeling bad what she did but all I want to do was give her a big hug because she did the hard part for me,lol. I knew that my dad was cool about me being gay but I had to work on my courage to come out to him. When I talked to him the next day all he said that how nature made me and accepted me for just the way I am.

“I came out at a young age? I was 17 …”. Really

It's still brutal to me to hear that someone was "living a lie", when really, they're just living the life available to them at the time. Some surely fear the repercussions of stepping out of their comfort zones, and others may not be driven by the things that propel others into wider worlds. There are as many ways to do this as there are people to do it.

I think I understand where you're coming from with this, but at the same time, we need to be very careful not to err too much in the other direction, and dismiss legitimate concerns that people in the lgbt community have, particularly in the current state our country is in. Gay and trans people are being victimized, not just on a personal basis, but it's happening on a systemic level by people in control of all levels of government. We could very well be about to enter a very dangerous time to be lgbt in the United States.

I'm 38. I think I'm obvious but have not formally came out, nor even tried to hook up or date. Guess I'm a monk.

I may have issues along this line. That doesn't mean I've got to like or agree with it. In my day queer rights were kept in the closet where it should have stayed.

You have been reconmended to a couple of very lovely, kind, and compassionate Catholic nuns from the order of Catholism I grew up in. I grew up in a music school with nuns and grew up in a Convent-related academic environment. I also grew up learning classical piano and learning classical opera singing, and it was where one of the most famous opera singers in the world was trained. II know that the nuns will definitely get a great eeal of joy from these videos here. Let it be known that even if I never get to meet you, I do always care, and I will always care no matter what.

If it's one thing that I absolutely despise are people who live with a victim mentality. This is giving that person the right to inflict malice and harm onto his associates so he can gain control over you and over others. This is not a person who has any value for you in his life in the long term. This is a person who does not have a "self-persecution" towards himself, more like a real emphasis on weaponizing his own sexuality for the persection of other people whomever he believes "crosses" him and to get sucked into this person's mindset and environment is only going to lead to your own downfall and demise. If it's one thing I absolutely do not approve of, are the people who are haters and who are takers. A person who takes all the time, from people, and is not a giver of any means to others is a lost cause, is someone who you should not have to deal with and should not be given any level of attention or appraisal of any kind, and it's best that you just leave them be.

God and Christianity, the Church, or shall I say "Church buildings," have always been a source of love and stability for my life growing up as a child until now as an adult. This has been a rollercoaster ride of emotions being here on this RUclips channel, I have seriously pondered over why I quit being here all of the time. I invest in positivity and spiritual statements, only to keep backing out due to my own insecurities. My relationship with God, however, is the source of all-encompassing love. It is the source of acceptance. It is the source of wisdom and faith and knowledge. It is the source of my God-given talents. It is the source of my God-given rights and my freedom to be who I truly am and to love who I want and to be with whoever I want. I know there was a strong sense of spiritual energy that led me to this place with you, and it will always be sacred, spiritual, and inspirational really to know you and to know your love of people and of your love of God.

This was an inclusive talk of positivity that I believe you gave to everyone who subscribes to this channel after a time of great emotional upheaval and winning a serious battle with addictions. It is a depressing state to go through life in isolation and completely alone. I believe that self-reflection, solitude, and prayer help people get through life's battles. The battles we have to face and overcome are often helped through our belief in God. Facing negative emotions is like facing your worst fears. No one wants to feel them, and you make videos where people have felt safe here.

Dylan. My comments have to be on here forever, just like this graveyard right here, as I have decided to go back to my emotions in this setting. This setting is not for everyone. It is a spiritual place. A religious place. Please find it in yourself to accept that you invite people into these videos, and we all have a right to give our opinions and emotions about your talks here.

Sweet DYLAN! You are a really wonderful man! Anytime, I turn on my computer, if I see your face, I immediately watch you. Thank You for your work.

Yep. Describes me pretty well. I’m old now but very happy. My kids are happy for me and even my former wife is happy for me. I’ve got great gay friends. In love with a wonderful man. Life is good.

D.Y..L.A.N. with capitals. Do you want ACTIUAL comments or just a bunch of baloney on this site? Do you want all of these stupid follow-up comments or actual comments of people's life stories. You DO NOT keep having the right to violate me out of these comments. Grow up, Dylqn.

Hey, black sheep here for advocating for gay men ✋ men who love other men are in a very bad situation now. Our nature and attraction is attacked in so many ways, even from people claiming to be on our side, one wouldn't even imagine. I don't hold anything against men who admit they like men more later in life, but because all sorts of people claim to be "gay" and then speak in our name, I must say this: they are bisexual 🤷‍♂ you or any other gay man is not "weak" for not dating a woman, while the others are "tough", we are just gay. We clearly know from early on who we are. "I would not stay in an unhappy situation" - indeed! Gay men are a minority! There are far more bisexual men out there.

I did not want my comments to look like this on one of these videos. You must have some problem with my responses. This was truly heartbreaking, Dylan.

After being kicked off the next video after this, I have to put the content in the comment you deleted into my own video. I only went into responding to the content and subjects you were referring to. There is no open-ended form of communication here, and it looks like it is still" your way" or "the high way." Get.a life Dylan.

Sad face to whoever decides a non-verbally abusive comment can not go on a video from ONE WHOLE Y3AR AGO!!!!!!!!!

I'm not sure why I could mot make a comment relating to this video, but I'm trying to go back to how I related to these videos from the time of watching them. Just who on earth is up at this hour in South Carolina.

Hi. Is this video off limits for making comments?

Dylan. This talk was a year ago, but since then, I decided to start a RUclips channel, and here I am. It has opened up a whole new world of possibilities, and the only regret I have is not starting my own RUclips channel sooner. Why not have I decided to do it sooner? That is a question I can not answer. I do not know what the future will hold, but it's clear that since I started watching your videos, the universe certainly manifested a positive outcome for something.

You are such a lovely man, doing a series of lovely talks in this final installment of the cemetery series. Not only are these topics profound and insightful, but the most important highlight is you as a man who embodies and encompasses these values and a man that bestows them selflessly to others. Forgiveness is not for everyone. There are acts, unfortunately of crime that I have witnessed and experienced and acts of hate that are acts that I believe are humanely unforgiveable. I do not carry the burden of these acts upon my shoulders any longer, and the true impotance of inner peace should be placed on moving on from these acts that have taken away from you and simply moving on with your life. I love the act of forgiveness as much as the act of kindness, but there are some identities on this earth that do not deserve or have the right to be acknowledged. You be the judge at the end of the day, as to a person's worth and value in your own life. There will always be acts that can and will not ever be forgiven.

Dylan. I am still an arttractive woman with a great body and a great sense of style. I'm sorry for criticizing you and this jacket here, but it seems to be your trademark, a hell of a lot better than you, in the 1990's T shirts and jeans ensemble you used to rock for quite a while beforehand. Do you know how many photoshoots I now have coming up for social media now, as I did not take enough time to take enough photos back when I was in my 20's and 30's, so this is the year I am trying to catch up.

40s and 50s? I know some men come out in their 70s.

After 29 years of marriage, I too came out as gay when I was 50. I’ve been with my husband now for about 11 years. There was such an incredible difference between my two wedding days. It was a frightening and painful journey, but I now love my life. I had no idea how awesome life could be. Now it is beyond wonderful. Thanks for this video.

I might come out in my 50s 😊

That would be BISEXUAL, not homosexual

I came out when I was 32. That was due to being brought up in evangelical Christianity. Even though I came out "late", I never had any kind of real relationship with a woman. That was due to being a pretty nerdy and shy person. That was way back in 1996, and it was the best thing I ever did. It literally felt like a burden rolled off my back.

I love your spirit, and I love your soul, Dylan St. Gabriel. As you know, my parents are both buried next to one another in a cemetery where I live. Watching your videos here has brought a sense of healing in this setting, and my heart goes out to your own relatives who are here. There is a sense of peace and a sense of calm that also brings joy in cemeteries, and I traveled to them back where my parents were from. These are the videos of tranquility.

Dylan. I will try to go back and put whatever I can to your videos. Please do not "like" or "love" my comments in the future as I do not want to deal with any more negativity from people I do not know. Thank you.

Thanks!

Dylan St Gabriel ⚡️💪🏻🔥 Thank you for another excellent video. I respect you very much for always sharing information with us in a kind,positive & truthfully honest way. I sincerely hope you’ll one day meet the man that you truly love & who also truly loves you and you have a loving relationship that will last for the rest of your lives. ✨✌️✨ & 💛 always to you & yours🌷

After trying hard with every inch of my being to get through a video like this, I am physically ill right now with vomiting and a migrane. Not because of this video, although it does not help after watching it. It was far more universal and all-encompassing when you were talking about God in the cemetery and other inspirational talks that got people involved. I am not sure how I got so involved in your life, but I added some of what is happening with mine on your other videos. I am going to have to present my own video in a church next week. I am upset, especially how I have been treated by men, where I live and it will be on the topic of my family background, and also the man that I have not met yet that is supposed to be my "soulmate".

Just for any feedback about this topic of true love, I'm onto the seventh season of M.A.FS, I don't know if I can mention the actual name of the T. V. series without it being deleted, but even with straight couples, when they set up for the first time, the level of childish and discriminatory behavior still prevails. The levels even occurred with gay couples last season. It really is, for the most part, with men. If they don't feel the initial attraction, they really are there to make someone feel bad about themselves. And you have to watch it for the rest of the season. It is sad, and it is truly disheartening.

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Hi. As gutwrenchijg as this video is, I'm not saying a word Dylan St. Gabriell. I had to turn this video off.

Came out in my 30s after a 12 year marriage to a woman and I wouldn’t go back for anything

Until a few decades ago, unless you were wealthy, coming out was something that could ruin your life or literally end it. The way you feel about it is why they used the term "confirmed bachelor" for gay men who wouldn't marry a woman. You might find it interesting that there's a video podcast on RUclips called, "I tried to be straight" hosted by 2 former evangelicals who came out in their late 20s/early 30s.

Indeed it was completely unknown back then with only a few extravegent exceptions.

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I just re-posted one of the last comments I wrote on the video you deleted as I'm absolutely 100% serious. People act like they are dead and placid where live. Everything and everyone is a demoralizing sarcastic joke, and life and people's identity should not be taken seriously. You should be broke, and you deserve to be broke as far as they are all concerned. I would fly out of here in a heartbeat, somewhere where people do actually take care of themselves, take care of their appearance, and take the verbal communication they have with people seriously. Not make an investment in a dead body.

I finished editing these previous posts. If I had to put you on RUclips, I have had a gutsful of people where I live in New Zealand and not being factually present in a person's life. Like what you give to God as to being born as a person to person interaction as you do not give your life to a phone or a computer!!! Living in a person's life as an online identity, IF THAT has added to a steady growing portfolio of people who invested their time in mine like rubbish and also their own lives as absolute fucking rubbish.

I bought a long, red, satin gown for this upcoming video I have to do for my RUclips channel. Do you realize how important personability and mental communication actually are? I live at the bottom of the world, isolated from people and from Americans. Who would know I even exist if it were not for Tik Tok and .RUclips. I'm not even sure. YOU KNOW that I exist. No one gives themselves up for some experiment for a right to live alone and in isolation, but half the population do here, and it's like people give up after 40. You are over 40, and you are not dead already.

Around the time of New Zealand Fashion Week, I became quite obsessed with a certain New Zealand fashion designer. I met a woman at a community dinner who took the time out to listen to my stories about him and her and I became quite close for a while and she even started improving her physical appearance because of me. We were close for a few months in 2023. After the end of this year, 2023, she had to go back to her son in his 30s, who had mental disorders. Last week, I found out she had died, passed away, isolated herself, and told no one, She passed away from cancer. She told no one and disappeared from the community. You can invest a lot a lot of empathy with people, she was definitely some person who made everyone believe she would live and be around forever. If it's one thing I don't like is lies. Haters and liars. I'm sorry you have to remove that "It SUCKS" video. Just how invested are you with the people on RUclips Dylan St. Gabriel.?

At the time of writing "I love you" comments, they were after I had a breakdown, literally over God. About the cemetery, I thought something had happened to you, and I thought that I could not live with myself if something were to happen to you Dylan St. Gabriel.

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You do you. I hope you feel accepted now.

What a strong accent!!