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I am not a therapist, but I studied coaching for a year. I have a very narcissistic girlfriend and she desperately needs therapeutical help, but no-one could help her so far. She is very good in persons believing her grandiosity as the truth. But inside our romantic relation it is difficult for me to withstand her manipulations or outbursts. So, as a romantic friend, I need to know how I can respons well. So not angry, or truth setting, or feeling assaulted, but turn my respons into a corrective respons. How can I learn this??

Thanks for this. I was involved in a transference / counter transference (2 women) situation in the mid 90s. Social interaction, almost like dating. Eventually 1st to 3rd base physical interaction so to speak. Didn't sleep together, but we wanted to. Questions: 1. I was once given a ceramic oil burner for my birthday by my therapist along with a birthday card. Acceptable? 2. Birthday or Christmas cards would sometimes start out Dearest, (my name) and end Lovingly, (her name) both of us women. She died in 2008, just 2 general questions. I have always described her as "Mother Earth." She was a gentle soul overall. The sitution we found ourselves in was not worked out in therapy. I terminated therapy and she flipped out.

Otto Kernberg, still alive, said "You can _hate_ your patient, as long as you can work out why!"

How did I even get here? This is a great video.

Booooooooooorrrrinnnnng😂

Man this psychobabble bullshit explanation. Limited appeal to a niche viewership. Speak English. You would get more engagement. 😴😴😴

In psychotherapy... how about this applied behavioral analysis? Are they connected?

Takes too long to get into the meat of things. Quite rambling and lacking substance when you look closely. If he prepared his notes better he would probably be excellent!

I was never able to get my head around paying someone to accept me.

7 years this time and I'm not done😮

You touched on it right at the very end psychodynamics my therapist brought that up at our last session. I had originally sought your video because of the transference to my therapist who's an attractive woman that's not really the reason for our sessions though just something that crossed my mind.

"Smash" is so infantile. When I hear an announcer or speakers use the word "smash" the like button", its like hearing the scratch of chalk on the blackboard. Whats wrong with the words "press, tap, enter, -like on the computer keyboard, etc.,". There's so many creative ways to get the expression pleasantly actoss to the listener. Kids, a child smashes things. "Smash", Its immature and lacks sophistication .

What happened to objectivity? It sounds very sloppy and dangerous to get emotionally involved with your patient.

Point well taken. However, I find that that while the model is logical (even linear) and it provides a nice integrative framework for the vast approaches to treatment, it also seems to oversimplify matters. This brings to my mind that line from Jung re theory. He wrote (or said) somewhere something like 'you can either be accurate or you can be precise...but you can't be both.' I welcome your thoughts.

Thank you,. 😊

If he still has to submit to the father in adult interaction, would the corrective experience with the therapist actually be corrective or more like a role play

Wish you still made videos.

Love this. Thank you.

Very informative! Thanks! Quick question: outside the therapy and therapist-client relationship; in family circle, when one of the family members is toxic and when another one is very happy finding a new job or any victory the toxic one gets jealous and upset and starts brining attention to his miserable life his failures and this all makes the whole happy atmosphere down, and kind of guilty feeling injected in the other one who felt happy a minute ago for his own victory. Can this also be called countertransference, the negative energy that the toxic family member injects in others?

Video request: Ways to climb out of the hole when clients feel stuck and then YOU find yourself feeling stuck? 😅

THANK YOU😊

Incredibly insightful, thank you 😊 Really helped with my understanding of counter transference and how to bring this into the work with my clients 💚

My psychiatrist was talking about the importance of corrective emotional experience and, having never heard the term before, I tried to find it on RUclips to see what it really was. I was able to follow the video even as a layperson and I found the examples to be particularly helpful. :)

You hit the nail on the head, "psychoth lasts longer than a lot of healthcare companies would like"; we have six funded sessions with counselors approved by the company hired to get us "good enough" to get back to work. We then apply for more, and do CBT. Nothing at the company has changed, so we go right back into the chaos that sent us to therapy in the first place. Why do companies like this get sent into therapy so the rest of us can function at our best?? Keep the videos coming!

Great stuff

this is incredibly helpful and timely to my masters in psychotherapy! thank you for sharing.

Thank you for this video! I feel like this topic is so important and the questions you posed that we can ask ourselves were very helpful. I'd love to see a video about how CMT thinks about therapy through a brief model lens--specifically if sessions are limited, how might a therapist help expedite safety? Is that possible or does safety need to develop organically in its own time...

Remarkably well-explained and realistic. Man, I wish I had an instructor like you when I was in psych grad school ….

I want more. I hope that I have hit “like and subscribe” properly. Feed back on this matter please. More importantly, does this group offer more formal CEU credentialed trainings. I look forward to hearing from you. Robert.

Terrific, more CEU COURSES on this subject please.

Great video as far as it went, but like most discussions about psychotherapy, it didn't go far enough. Corrective emotional experiences within the context of therapy sessions are only part of the story. Such experiences are merely steppingstones. For therapy to be successful, the patient must also have those experiences in her daily life, and the therapist must do all he can to ensure that corrective experiences and not retraumatizations occur. I am not telling you anything you don't already know. I am merely complaining that the part of therapy devoted to helping the patient apply what she is learning in therapy to succeeding in her daily life is rarely discussed. The patient in the example wanted to understand why she argued with her husband with the hope of acting differently. All of that is very complicated, but her therapy must have contained times when she was encouraged by the therapist to take steps in her relationship with her husband that would lead to emotionally corrective outcomes and other times when emotionally corrective interpretations of failures were in order. All of that is part of therapy, too. Joe gave short shrift to that because he was introducing new elements to therapeutic theory, but a well-rounded discussion of how psychotherapy works should include it.

Thanks for your great VDO, George. It is highly recommended to all of my psychiatry residents.

Wow, that was impressive! Very well explained, interesting theory.

i have liked a lot,. Very clear and precise

I love this guy.

A very clear and concise explanation about how to personalize psychological treatment!

Where can i see more videos? There's only one for some strange reason. Thanks!