My Secret Life of Pain
My Secret Life of Pain
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After 4+ years I’ve had no PN imaging or testing
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Over four years of pudendal neuralgia and I have never had a doctor through my insurance be willing to be "my doctor" and manage my case. They have all just passed the buck and/or dumped me. Even at the beginning whoever I got referred to just said "Well, I'll try this one thing for you, but this is really not my area, see someone else."
But I can't be seen by any doctors in the entire state of CA who accept Medi-Cal without authorization. I can't get authorization to go anywhere outside my "network" which is limited to LA and only includes UCLA and LA General hospital. My insurance won't all...
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Central sensitization isn’t always “pain hallucination”
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*"The recognition of central sensitization, and whether it is being driven by ongoing nociceptive input or it is occurring in the absence of a peripheral driver, is critical for effective pain management." -The neurobiology of central sensitization" onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/ jabr.12137 Contrast with the ever-more popular and dangerously over-simplified concept (harmful to many p...
You deserve “How can I help?”
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You deserve someone who says "how can I help?" #Instachronicillness #chronicillness #chroniclife #ChronicPain #Spoonielife #hiddenillness #invisibleillness #Chronicllinesses #Spoonies #Spoonie #Chronically||I #SickAllTheTime #ChroniclllnessWarrior #ChronicPainWarrior #ChronicPainAwareness #PainWarrior #ChronicCommunity #ChronicCommunity #Butyoudontlooksick #Invisibledisability #ChronicIllnessMe...
Who is allowed to talk about medications?
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I got upset at this comment telling me I should not talk about my experiences. I am just a patient, I am not a medical expert nor am I giving medical advice. No one should make medical decisions based on what someone in the media says, including me. However, the voices of patients do deserve to be heard, though, as a small counterbalance to the loud and well-funded voices of pharmaceutical reps...
The Gender Research Gap in Medicine
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There are 200 times more medical journal articles mentioning prostatitis than vulvodynia, even though both conditions are umbrella diagnoses for generalized chronic genital pain, cause similar symptoms, and affect around 15% of the population. Even in the past year, the publication of new articles has maintained this skewed ratio of coverage, with over 5,400 new articles mentioning prostatitis ...
Versabase is not hypoallergenic!
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Hello! If you are watching this, PLEASE like this video , leave a comment, and subscribe to this channel. It’s free, and I really need support to continue making videos. Thank you. Too many people think they can't tolerate topical vaginal HRT, vulvar steroid cream, vaginal suppositories, or anti fungal medications, when it is really the irritating chemicals in the inactive ingredients in the ba...
Educate yourself about hormones and microbiome science
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I have learned so much from Evvy, at-home vaginal micro biome testing, and Parlor Games, makers of OTC HRT products. And I thought I knew a lot already. Their emails are always linked to scientific research and studies but written in a way thats understanding to laypeople. Highly recommend people signing up and educating themselves. Unfortunately I never got this crucial info from any of my doc...
Doctors need to stop prescribing without testing
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I spent a year being “treated” for recurring sinus infections with random antibiotics. It took over a year to get a sinus endoscopy and bacterial culture, two years of suffering to get a CT scan, where I was informed the recurring infections had left me with nasal polyps and a blocked right maxillary sinus with trapped mucus inside it. I spent those two years being told by numerous doctors “wel...
Friendships and Chronic Pain
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#chronicillness #invisibledisability #chronicpain #pelvicpain #pudendalneuralgia
Healing from disabling back pain
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There is almost no physical problem in the entire world of chronic pain that is consistently symptomatic in everyone. Why is that? Probably because some people are more vulnerable.” www.painscience.com/blog/biological-vulnerabilities-in-chronic-pain.html In my case, it required a combination of lifestyle factors and congenital issues for “normal anomalies” such as a spinal annular tear and a sp...
Chronic illnesses are not all caused by stress
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Chronic diseases and chronic pain are not ALL caused by stress/fear/repressed emotions/past trauma. This idea needs to stop. Some are, sure, I would not argue the reality that stress can contribute and even cause some diseases. But it's not always black and white. I've had the most egregious gaslighting of real physiological issues from the “pain reprocessing” camp that seriously harmed me. The...
Why I hate gabapentin
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Gabapentin is the "have you tried yoga" of pharmaceuticals for chronic pain management. We need more transparency from the medical community on the actual efficacy of gabapentin for off-label pain treatment, on the seriousness of longterm cognitive effects, and on the scarcity of quality research supporting its use in pelvic pain. #chronicpain #gabapentin #neurontin #neuropathy #neuralgia #pude...
Low Dose Naltrexone Experience for pelvic pain
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My low dose naltrexone (LDN) experience and LDN troubleshooting. 1. I take it in the morning since it keeps me up at night. It gives me energy and has some small pain relieving effect. 2. Don’t pay too much, it can be inexpensive if you find a compounding pharmacy that specializes. 3. Always get tablets so you can use a pill cutter and titrate up slowly in increments that work for you. 4. I nee...
Normal Range of Testosterone for Women?
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That depends on who you ask…and that is not a good thing in medicine.😐 My doctors and labs said my testosterone was "normal" for years, but according to every other source l've seen, I had below normal range T for over a decade. I had to investigate this myself to find out Quest Diagnotics ranges of hormones weren't the same as other sources, and none of my doctors seemed to notice or care. I w...
It’s not easy to “just get a new doctor”
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It’s not easy to “just get a new doctor”
Nerve pain relief with Amanita Muscaria
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Nerve pain relief with Amanita Muscaria
I would not share my negative birth control experiences…
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I would not share my negative birth control experiences…
Chronic Pain Coping: Laughter Yoga
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Chronic Pain Coping: Laughter Yoga
Chronic Success Story: Sinus pain/infections
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Chronic Success Story: Sinus pain/infections
Update: Not Doing Ok
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Update: Not Doing Ok
Washington Post Article on Oral Contraceptives
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Washington Post Article on Oral Contraceptives
Irritants to Avoid in Vulvovaginal Products
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Irritants to Avoid in Vulvovaginal Products
How I stopped getting occipital migraines
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How I stopped getting occipital migraines
You are Worthy of Getting Through This
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You are Worthy of Getting Through This
Pelvic Medical Procedure History
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Pelvic Medical Procedure History
How can you rule out physiological causes of pain when the diagnostic infrastructure isn’t there?
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How can you rule out physiological causes of pain when the diagnostic infrastructure isn’t there?
The State of Female Pelvic Medicine in Los Angeles (Medi-Cal)
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The State of Female Pelvic Medicine in Los Angeles (Medi-Cal)
Adaptive Devices for Pudendal Neuralgia
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Adaptive Devices for Pudendal Neuralgia
Treatment Review: TENS unit for Pudendal Neuralgia
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Treatment Review: TENS unit for Pudendal Neuralgia
Keratin pearls
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Keratin pearls

Комментарии

  • @alaarumh3740
    @alaarumh3740 15 дней назад

    Like me with no cure

  • @michellebranch7543
    @michellebranch7543 15 дней назад

    I highly recommend seeing someone at Pelvic Rehabilitation Medicine. I have dealt with PN for years. I got the best help from PRM in Dallas. I did the series of injections three different times about 6 months apart. When I first went to them I couldn’t sit at all. I had to lay down in the floorboard of my car while my husband drove me everywhere and even that hurt. I hurt 24/7 not just when sitting. I had damage to several nerves all at once. By the time I finished the year and a half with them, I was able to walk, sit, lift my granddaughter etc. I am still healing and am doing more and more. I still have a very low level of pain, but I am able to tolerate it and am so much better off. They offer a payment plan and even accept some insurance plans now. I really hope you can get some relief.

    • @michellebranch7543
      @michellebranch7543 15 дней назад

      Also, I had a T3 MRN at UTSW hospital and it showed increased nerve activity in the nerves, but it didn’t and can’t really show why. I wouldn’t put so much stock in imaging. The doctors at UTSW and PRM were both Physiatrists. UTSW was not able to help me despite them being the top hospital here and a teaching hospital. I got better treatment and results by going to a smaller organization. I also saw other departments at UT. They’re good for things like rheumatology and neurology. I also saw neurologists who had no idea what to do and was told pelvic nerves weren’t part of their specialty. That’s how I was referred to UT.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 15 дней назад

      ⁠​⁠@@michellebranch7543I’m looking for imaging because if there are local findings I will know it won’t be a good idea to continue to try more holistic or centrally targeted pain treatments, and I should instead invest my resources in local treatments. I’ve done a lot of both already and none have helped and I do think it’s important to know if there are any local findings that might guide my decisions for example like whether to try transcranial magnetic stimulation or try PN cryoablation next. I’ve looked into PRM and they look to be describing transgluteal pudendal nerve blocks as their main treatment protocol. My injury was about six inches away from that injection site, to my dorsal branch area, and the transgluteal PN block I had didn’t help. Neither did the transvaginal or dorsal branch block. Well, they all helped temporarily while lidocaine was active . I’ve actually had lots of sessions of injections of combos of steroid, lidocaine, Botox, and even PRP injections. None of these things have helped beyond the effects of local temporary numbing from lidocaine. Unlike the majority of PN patients it seems, I don’t have issues back by Alcock’s canal or between the sacrospinus/sacrotuberous ligaments, and I don’t have a pelvic floor muscle component to my symptoms. But I’m really glad they were able to help you!

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 15 дней назад

      Was their treatment protocol with you a series of nerve blocks and pelvic PT or did they do something else? Thanks

    • @michellebranch7543
      @michellebranch7543 10 дней назад

      Hi. So, I did 7 weeks of weekly injections three times about 6 months apart. I had tried other “nerve blocks” before without success. The series works differently from single blocks, according to my understanding, by giving the nerve some room to heal by injecting around it over the course of weeks. They also inject as their pulling the needle out, so that you get that space along the length of the nerve. I had damage to all three branches. I had the injections done front and back and on both sides. Both sides because all of the nerve issues caused lots of PF dysfunction. And that in turn made my nerve pain worse. I also had a crossover of nerve pain. Pudendal led to ilioinguinal, obtruator, hypogastric, etc. I developed nerve pain in my inner thigh as well. I believe my situation became as bad as it was because I didn’t get the correct diagnosis for over a year, I was told I’d never heal and I’d live in that much pain until I died, and I tried pelvic PT way too soon when my nervous system was in overdrive and my injuries were too fresh. I also had a few terrible experiences with that kind of PT. PTs are great a lot of the time, but I feel too often they are glorified personal trainers who want very much to be considered doctors. I was being treated partly with needles inserted into my sensitive areas with a powerful TENS unit attached so somehow release the muscles and nerves from the pain cycle. I did do PT through the first series of injections but after giving it two years I quit and never went back. I actually used some info and videos from YT to help me with movement and fear of movement. I’m probably going g on way too long and forgetting a lot. Let me know if you want any more info. Best wishes for healing!

  • @notinewstube6394
    @notinewstube6394 16 дней назад

    You can get cryoablation for the nerve. I got mine done on july in a hospital called IMED, after 10 years of suffering. I live in Valencia, Spain. Its horrible, i got the pain after having my son.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 16 дней назад

      Thank you so much for sharing this. I can’t get cryo in CA with insurance but I have definitely been looking for providers and considering this possible treatment. I really appreciate you sharing that it helped you. How many times have you gotten done? Tu inglés es perfecto pero si quieres puedes escribir en español, yo vivía en Madrid por un rato y puedo entender español:)

    • @notinewstube6394
      @notinewstube6394 16 дней назад

      De nada! Si puedo ayudar, con gusto lo haré. Desde que nació mi hijo, quedé con mucho dolor pelvico del lado izquierdo. Tuve estallido vaginal, las cicatrices, todo fue demasiado trauma para mi pelvis. He ido con fisioterapeutas, traumatólogos, ginecólogos. Ninguno me daba una solución. Aparte del dolor del pudendo, también me dolían los nervios iliohipogastrico, ilioinguinal, genitofemoral y el sacro. Me hicieron crioablacion de todo, también infiltraciones de corticoides en sacroiliacas. Allí no acaba mi aventura, en 3 semanas me harán crio del nervio obturador. Y si, me toco toda la mala suerte a mi😅 Lo del pudendo es la primera vez que me lo hacen, llevo aguantando todos esos dolores 10 años, también tomo diazepam. Aquí en valencia en IMED de burjassot fui a la unidad de dolor y el doctor es un ángel! Yo ya no podía vivir así con tanto dolor. Ah por cierto la crío de pudendo vale 4 mil euros, más o menos. Te digo porque se la pesadilla que es vivir con esa tortura.

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 16 дней назад

    The nerve can be blocked and u should get relief.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 16 дней назад

      I made a video discussing my experiences and outcomes of 3 PN blocks

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 16 дней назад

    Dr. Hibner in Scottsdale AZ

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 16 дней назад

      Yes he was not able to help me. I do not have entrapment at alcocks or between ligaments or anything like that

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 19 дней назад

    Go talk to Dr. Hibner in Arizona, his practice helps people with pudendal issues. He's a very competent, compassionate doctor

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 18 дней назад

      @@matthewprzystup998 I did see him, he can’t help me. I don’t have PNE

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 19 дней назад

    Why don't u get a pudendal nerve block?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 18 дней назад

      @@matthewprzystup998 ruclips.net/video/SX5PHeTJ6uw/видео.htmlsi=y_jl6Sjb80xvS4Wz

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 19 дней назад

    Can we talk, I'm coming to Beverly hills to see a doctor about my pudental pain

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 18 дней назад

      @@matthewprzystup998 oh which doctor? I saw one but she was a urogyn, and her treatments didn’t help. TBH my injury is so unique and there is no one actually doing the procedure I would need at this point (neurolysis or removal of just the right side dorsal branch innervating a specific area)

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 19 дней назад

    Why don't u try Dr. Hibner in Arizona

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 19 дней назад

    Let's talk the doctors are horrible

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 19 дней назад

    Yes the doctors are full of crap, nasty

  • @jaxcoles7060
    @jaxcoles7060 Месяц назад

    10 years omg 😢

  • @renataevangelista9830
    @renataevangelista9830 Месяц назад

    Sofro dessa condição. Uns dias tenho dor, em outros não. A osteopatia bem conduzida por um bom profissional tem me ajudado. Talvez seja uma possibilidade buscar a osteopatia para identificar essa possível causa que vem da sua coluna dorsal.

  • @notinewstube6394
    @notinewstube6394 Месяц назад

    Hello! I had this pudendal nerve pain since i gave birth to my son, 10 years ago. (and also some other pelvic nerve damage) I tried a lot of Things, nothing works. My brain couldnt felt any more pain. I live in valencia, Spain. I went to a hospital and They did cryoablation of the nerve. Its a procedure that freeze the nerve and it stop hurting. I hope you can find something like this in the US. I know what it feels like, its horrible!

  • @dissonantchaos7724
    @dissonantchaos7724 Месяц назад

    Dxm is dope

  • @amandavidler304
    @amandavidler304 Месяц назад

    Have you gone down the Nicole Sachs/dr Sarno/Dan Buglio route and looked at their success stories with all things pelvic pain?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      Yes! I address that in a few videos and in around 2 mins on this one. I think they are able to help the folks who have these issues from pelvic floor muscle dysfunction who just need to learn to relax their PF muscles. Or as it often turns out, people who are simultaneously also addressing other route causes medically like with hormone replacement. Or as I’ve noticed, the success story isn’t actually the whole story and people’s pain isn’t really gone or it comes back.

    • @amandavidler304
      @amandavidler304 Месяц назад

      I really hope you find something that helps you soon ❤

  • @maggiesworld.
    @maggiesworld. Месяц назад

    True,im so disappointed when i went to the doctor and he told me ovaries do not hurt.😞 😪

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      @@maggiesworld. omg! That’s so wrong. I am reading Rachel Gross’s book Vagina Obscura. There is a long history of believing bizarre and insane things about female anatomy, that comes from thousands of years of fear/ignorance of female bodies. :(

  • @SeraTrepanowski
    @SeraTrepanowski Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for making this video. This condition was pretty sudden for me and while i am happy to report i am able to make progress with yoga and massage, it isn't fast enough to continue with life as usual. Cushions range anywhere from 10 to 100 dollars and i really had no idea what i was doing and no one leaves reviews taking about their PN. After watching your video i went with the comfilife, it just arrived, I'm sitting on it, and... I'm still sitting. I'm still sitting. I'm STILL sitting. It's by no means a cure, but I'm STILL sitting. For me, considering where i started, it's a veritable miracle. I did a lot of research on PN because honestly i really did just want to die. But i found out that it's pretty workable and generally the issue is needing to stretch out the compressed nerve and the surrounding muscles and connective tissue. With time and proper effort and education most cases resume their normal activities and lifestyle for many years. If that fails there are surgical options. If you're having difficulty speaking with your doctors i do suggest reading up on how to desribe PN to your doctors, to ensure the sensations your feeling are PN, that you're receiving the proper tests and conservative treatments, and how to discuss when surgical options are right for you, because you really do not want it as much as you might think you do right now. For anyone reading this and feeling defeated please watch these videos, i hope you receive relief. ruclips.net/video/BA5xmc5FoEU/видео.htmlsi=_puKtN2IvvMh2_TX ruclips.net/video/43Y8lpnhWus/видео.htmlsi=ilQ_ErmliAhg59hH ruclips.net/user/shortsl1tny5Mo4ww?si=ovmZnPzK6h4cQESx

  • @RoxyHeartt
    @RoxyHeartt Месяц назад

    I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. I have been diagnosed with Institisual Cystisis and Vulvodynia (pain when sitting and pain after urinating which began after sex one night with my partner) and have been in pain every day for the last 6 months. The strange thing is that I never had any issues for 32 years, so I refuse to give up on looking for answers. People don't understand how awful this condition is and how it impacts your life. Take care of yourself and don't give up the fight!

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      @@RoxyHeartt for me part of the combo of IC/vulvodynia pain was hormonal, basically GSM in my 20s/30s from using the pill. Have you been able to investigate this path yet? Thank you for the comment and I am hoping you find answers. Many people really do either get better or improve enough to live a good life again ❤️

    • @RoxyHeartt
      @RoxyHeartt Месяц назад

      @@mysecretlifeofpain excuse my ignorance but what is GSM? I was on topical Estrogen topical cream for 4 months sadly no success. My pain seems to be at the entrance mainly. Thank you for the video. It makes the world of difference because it’s easy to feel very alone and it’s so expensive going to specialists and also disappointing which is why videos like this are so important! Should I ever find something that’s helpful I will revert back and share it.

    • @RoxyHeartt
      @RoxyHeartt Месяц назад

      Ps: I was also on the pill for 10 years 😔 went off of it as soon as I started the pain flares 🔥

  • @kostaborojevic498
    @kostaborojevic498 Месяц назад

    How do you survive this?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      @@kostaborojevic498 Some people do get better. It seems to happen in a few different ways. Some people get treatments and medications that reduce the pain and symptoms enough that they feel okay. So far I am none of the above and surviving by thinking with just a shred of hope that there is still something I can find somehow that will make this improve…it helps me to think “if this is going to kill me, let it kill me trying to get better.” That makes me feel like I cannot give up until I’ve tried literally everything

  • @jaxcoles7060
    @jaxcoles7060 Месяц назад

    I sit on my dogs half moon calming cushion 😂

  • @bexncarl
    @bexncarl Месяц назад

    How would you recommend storing the tea once made, im desperate to get off gabapentin and have been researching and foraging also, the one thing i cannot find is suitable storage instructions.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      I’ve stored the dried caps with dessicant sachets for months, and just made the tea on a monthly basis, stored in fridge OR frozen. I think when frozen the tea is good for a very long time. I think to level up I’d have to learn more about using commercial preservatives. Another stop gap might be buying AM tinctures, there’s a handful of companies in the US making products. I think they are usually very/fully decarboxylated (no ibotenic acid) l

    • @reubenadams3167
      @reubenadams3167 Месяц назад

      Dry it then store it in a dry place and make tea when you need it.

  • @Raiders555
    @Raiders555 Месяц назад

    If u got a shot of just numbing medicine it's to see if it stops ur pain. If it does you know that's the right area and you get a steroid shot. I had mine done vaginally and it is working very well. My bladder works better my clitoris has no more PGAD and I don't have rectal pain. My issue is that my SI joints need to be shot up as it is pressing on the Pudendal nerve. So I'm anxious to see if that helps.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      Did you watch the whole video? It did not work for me. I have had numerous injections with steroids. I’m glad it helped you.

  • @cliff_fall
    @cliff_fall Месяц назад

    Thanks for the info.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      @@cliff_fall you’re welcome! Thank you for liking and supporting my channel.

  • @nawluck
    @nawluck 2 месяца назад

    By chance did you have pudendaI decompression surgery?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      No, I don’t have entrapment at least as it is currently diagnosed and treated- near Alcock’s canal, between the ligaments back there, etc. If I have entrapment it’s on the dorsal branch and likely microscopic

    • @nawluck
      @nawluck Месяц назад

      @@mysecretlifeofpain do you get pudendal nerve pain?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain Месяц назад

      @@nawluck yes this is a pudendal neuralgia channel I have it 24/7 since a surgery

    • @naturallaw1580
      @naturallaw1580 11 дней назад

      Any thoughts on stem cells for PN?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 10 дней назад

      @ I wish there was more data and more diagnostic information available to us. I got PRP injected into my painful tissue where my skin was damaged in a surgery but it didn’t help. I know they’re not exactly the same thing but both “regenerative.” Since there are so many ways to irritate or damage the pudendal nerve, I think it would impact when and how stem cells could be effective. Are stem cells only working when there is some sort of destruction to nerve fibers? Do they need to be injected directly where an initial injury occurred? Do they have pain relieving effects independent of what is causing pain signals? I have many questions. I had the opportunity to try Amniofix, which had no information on it for PN and my doctor wasn’t able to explain to me why it would help, how that would work. So I didn’t try it because it was massively expensive with no data. When the answer is just “oh, it’s healing, it heals you.” I am skeptical at this point. Especially when no tests are being done to confirm dysfunction or damage. That doctor would have injected me around Alcock’s canal and far from the location I feel my pain comes from.

  • @martinmalloy8264
    @martinmalloy8264 2 месяца назад

    Hi everyone I've had this curse for 5 years I've tried all the tablets and nerve blocks I've been seeing a pelvic floor phisio I'm currently doing stretches and tens and an acupressure matt and deep belly breathing you need to calm your body and nerve down the mates amazing anxiety is causing it even though you can't get your head around it the pelvic floor absorbs all the anxiety in your body give them a try their not expensive hope this helps

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 2 месяца назад

      @@martinmalloy8264 this is definitely the case for some people, but it is not applicable for me unfortunately. I have been discharged from pelvic PT with a perfectly normal pelvic floor. Also tried multiple rounds of pelvic muscle Botox, muscle relaxers that had no effect. I have nerve damage from a tissue crush/stretch injury in a surgery, no muscles involved.

    • @riyas7953
      @riyas7953 2 месяца назад

      Yes. I do those exercises it reduces the pain. Not at sudden it may takes some time.

  • @williamblair1123
    @williamblair1123 2 месяца назад

    Great video and pretties eyebrows around. I'm definitely getting a tens machine now for pudendal, pelvic, hypogastric, and vagus nerve stimulation.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 2 месяца назад

      @@williamblair1123 thank you! And thanks for leaving a comment. Sorry you’re also in pain. How will you do the vagus stim? Ear clips?

    • @williamblair1123
      @williamblair1123 2 месяца назад

      @@mysecretlifeofpain I'm not in pain, per se. I have some ear clips but they don't seem to be doing anything. What am I supposed to feel by using them, as it relates to the vagus?

  • @Delmarksman
    @Delmarksman 2 месяца назад

    Almost 3 years into PN, CPPS pain. I am willing to try anything. I am beyond miserable and losing hope that this is going to be my life from now on. Thank you for this video.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 2 месяца назад

      It’s horrible I know, mine has been resistant to intervention as well. I hope the TENS brings you some relief

    • @Delmarksman
      @Delmarksman 29 дней назад

      @@mysecretlifeofpain I just finished 8 months of PT, with no measurable benefit. The PT was $110/week! Mutual decision was not to continue as it was wasting their time and my $. Tried a nerve block but the results were not long lasting. This pain is literally destroying my life.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 29 дней назад

      @@DelmarksmanI understand your frustration. I did 6 months with a really knowledgeable PT who at first seemed convinced my PN was caused by thickened connective tissue back at ischial tuberosity and fascial adhesions (despite my pain starting immediately after an invasive surgery). But treating that made no difference and I was discharged :(

  • @daniellepisarek4411
    @daniellepisarek4411 3 месяца назад

    would you say to start this drug at night? or start taking it right in the morning?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      The original advice I got was at night. I couldn’t sleep, it made my thoughts race. When I switched to the morning I felt energized by it and then I didn’t have sleep issues. I recommend joining the LDN for chronic conditions FB group they’ve been very helpful for me ❤

  • @rachelhomburg1517
    @rachelhomburg1517 3 месяца назад

    I have been going through the medical system with pelvic pain over the past 7 months and I'm so angry and disgusted at the lack of knowledge and empathy for female conditions and pelvic pain. Doctors just know so little about common female conditions that hugely affect our lives! Even gynaecologists seem to be quite ignorant which is just beyond belief.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 2 месяца назад

      It’s really terrible…I’ve gone through so many *different* pelvic issues and found ignorance and error pursuing treatment for all of them 😢 I hope you find knowledgeable practitioners soon! If you have vulvodynia I recommend looking in to providers that specialize, they will often call themselves “sexual medicine specialists” or “vulvovaginal disorder” specialists

  • @thelaceygirl
    @thelaceygirl 3 месяца назад

    I was injured during a surgery as well. I’m so sorry. I’ve been gaslighted by everyone and still am.

  • @RobertRemlinger-mq8iy
    @RobertRemlinger-mq8iy 3 месяца назад

    Everything you say makes sense. Unfortunately, the blocks are just diagnostic. Even if it’s these nerves, it doesn’t reveal why these nerves are flaring. Why have a test, if there is little benefit in effective treatment. What is the root cause, is there some bone structure that is shifting and causing pressure on these nerves, perhaps from loose ligaments? Thanks for your honesty, I hope we can hear some success stories, it would be wonderful to get relief for those who are suffering.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      Yes, nerve blocks definitely don't treat most of the root causes of PN. I wish my doctors had not acted like they were a treatment. I've seen articles suggesting that sometimes people experience relief from a block more due to the action of the needle puncturing the muscle, where it would act similar to dry needling and cause a twitch response and release of spasm or hypertonicity. If you had PN from PFD that could potentially create some lasting relief. But just applying lidocaine, which wears off in a day... doesn't make a ton of sense to me as a treatment. They say it can "desensitize' nerves but if lidocaine were so successful in that, nerve pain would not still be a major medical issue

    • @RobertRemlinger-mq8iy
      @RobertRemlinger-mq8iy 3 месяца назад

      @@mysecretlifeofpain True, I’ve been wondering why this is so prevalent these days. Do you think it’s because of so many exercise programs that are too strenuous? As a senior, I don’t recall anyone experiencing this. I don’t have it but I’m watching a close relative suffering terribly from it. The doctors really don’t know what to do except these nerve blocks. I couldn’t see the sense in them unless leading to good treatment. I would worry that poking around might make it worse, and it’s bad enough already.

  • @daniellepisarek4411
    @daniellepisarek4411 3 месяца назад

    Can you micro dose this?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      absolutely, that's the main way I use them. When I run out of what I make myself, I have used commercial brands for micro dosing

  • @daniellepisarek4411
    @daniellepisarek4411 3 месяца назад

    I have signed up for the ketamine trial and is hopeful. Can I ask you how long you were on gabapentin? Just wondering if I should continue?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      @@daniellepisarek4411 if gabapentin helps you, you’re in a different scenario than me. If GP helped me, I’d have stayed on it. It just didn’t help me at all, ever, in any way, even after months at 1800mgs a day That’s great about a ketamine trial, I hope it is beneficial to you!

  • @daniellepisarek4411
    @daniellepisarek4411 3 месяца назад

    Thank you 🙏

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      @@daniellepisarek4411 thank you for your comments and feedback. Wishing you healing

  • @daniellepisarek4411
    @daniellepisarek4411 3 месяца назад

    I can’t find the inactive ingredients in Imvexxy. Do you know them?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      @@daniellepisarek4411 i usually find ingredients by searching the name of the product plus “inactive ingredients.” It’s usually not easy to find on the actual brand’s site, but other sites will list all the prescribing info and package inserts

  • @daniellepisarek4411
    @daniellepisarek4411 3 месяца назад

    So weird because I find Imvexxy very soothing

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      @@daniellepisarek4411 Its not weird. I’m not saying everyone is allergic to all of these ingredients. I’m saying that they contain documented allergens, so a substantial amount of people react to them, just not the majority. Think of it like peanuts or gluten. Most people can tolerate them just fine. But you shouldn’t give them to a person suffering with an unknown allergy-like condition before you know whether or not they’re allergic.

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 3 месяца назад

    Hey, there's a doctor in Scottsdale that I think is promising. I have similar problems. Same stuff from doctors.... We can help each other maybe

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 3 месяца назад

    Hi Jessica, I'm a male.... But I just had a trauma to the area and have Prudental neuralgia or entrapment. I'm researching a doctor who I think can help us. Can we talk please ??? I'm very down to earth can we chat? matthewprzystup@gmail.com

  • @matthewprzystup998
    @matthewprzystup998 3 месяца назад

    Hi I like what u are saying

  • @LoveABun
    @LoveABun 3 месяца назад

    People are just lazy. They don’t want to take the time and make the effort to educate themselves.

  • @LoveABun
    @LoveABun 3 месяца назад

    This shows the absolute desperate measures women in pain will try because their doctors won’t listen and help. 😢

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      @@LoveABun exactly. We need more research and diagnostic tests and for doctors to take this area seriously

  • @LoveABun
    @LoveABun 3 месяца назад

    You specifically mentioned Imvexxy inserts, but did not show or talk about the Imvexxy inactive ingredients that are irritating. I use Imvexxy and struggle with burning. Could you please tell me what its most irritating inactive ingredients are? Also, on the Silky Peach estriol cream, did it help your vulvar atrophy pain at all? How often did you apply it and how long before you felt improvement, if any? Ty!

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      @@LoveABun the silky peach cream did help with atrophy but many people will need more than OTC estriol. I also use estradiol and testosterone. I use it as indicated, two pumps a day. I take the week of my period off all hormones. When I started HRT at first I noticed improvements mainly in my urinary pain and symptoms after about a month. SPC does contain some glycerin and so it sometimes feels a bit burny especially if I haven’t used it for a few days but it goes away after a few minutes. The burning from chemical irritants in creams lasts for 30 mins to hours in my experience

  • @Tiredtothecore
    @Tiredtothecore 3 месяца назад

    I'm going to share this left, right, up, and down on all the gynecologist and other Peri and menopausal videos I watch on youtube! (And elsewhere, of course!!!)

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      Thank you! I’m glad it helps, just posting a new one today about the most common HRT base cream and why it’s crazy to label it “hypoallergenic” cuz it would be banned in others countries!!

  • @Tiredtothecore
    @Tiredtothecore 3 месяца назад

    May God bless you and your parents and your entire family lineage for providing this information, its literally priceless♥️🌹

  • @DarkHorse-gn5vg
    @DarkHorse-gn5vg 3 месяца назад

    It helps with my pain a lot too, but has impaired my memory more after prolonged use

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I haven’t had a lot of help from it for pain even at higher doses (still likely 1st or 2nd plateau) but it has helped for energy/mood. Did you use regularly or intermittently? I have been concerned about cognitive effects too but I was sent some links to studies showing DXM can be neuroprotective, and I’ve seen it’s also being used in a combo daily rx antidepressant.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      So I guess I should keep looking in to negative cognitive effects. It seems like almost everything has this potential :(

  • @jkm-7166
    @jkm-7166 3 месяца назад

    I totally relate to everything you say here. Only those who have experienced chronic pain can 'get it', and understand how it completely dominates our lives, reducing strong, fit and capable people to a shadow of our former selves. Chronic pain aside, I too have noticed how few people are prepared to engage in a true, reciprocal conversation. Years before developing chronic pain, I decided to remove those people from my life. They are not true friends. I'm so lucky to now have a handful of precious people in my life who genuinely care how I'm going and regularly check in. I really feel for you and completely understand. Have you had ANY relief since your last surgery? I think of you often and wonder how you're doing. What you're experiencing is just so cruel and heartbreaking.

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      I’m so glad you had already figured out what you needed to do to have some caring supportive folks in your life! I’m not doing too much different since my procedures this winter unfortunately, I had really thought/hoped I’d figured something out but I still have a tiny spot of hyper sensitive tissue that seems to be sending a lot of signals. I’m still trying things though! ❤thanks for sharing here

  • @yulimoonshine
    @yulimoonshine 3 месяца назад

    Thank you friend!!! Such good info.

  • @nawluck
    @nawluck 3 месяца назад

    I dont have a lot of friends but i have found that i cant relate to people much anymore...not only that, people dont ask about how i am doing...it is very hurtful. What you have to say reminds me of what my thoughts have been...i have had pain for 4 years and fighting to get help.... Are you on Facebook?

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 3 месяца назад

      Yes! But people there don’t know about this account or about what I’m living with generally. I mean I’ve tried, I’ve actually shared articles about my diagnoses and made posts before my surgeries and procedures but people don’t seem to get it. If you find this account on TikTok or IG, you can direct message me or do that hear and I’d be happy to meet you on FB

  • @obstunnha
    @obstunnha 4 месяца назад

    Try gonstead chiropractic

    • @mysecretlifeofpain
      @mysecretlifeofpain 4 месяца назад

      I wasted a lot of money and time on chiropractic. And this video is about how I solved the problem so I don’t need to keep trying things for this

    • @obstunnha
      @obstunnha 4 месяца назад

      @@mysecretlifeofpain happy for you.