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@KakashiHatake-sg8ym plenty and this is a really deep topic so I can't give the full spectrum in a comment reply. However what I would say is that I think about confidence in two ways. The first is skilled confidence. In other words, have you done thing enough times to deserve to be confident in it? If you haven't then you may need to do it more. Think about learning to drive. You shouldn't be confident before you've ever driven a car before. The other is psychological confidence. Where even though people have enough competence to get going they doubt and hide and shy away. When this is going on there's normally some root psychological barrier that needs to come to conscious awareness and then action needs to be taken that tells oneself that the false belief is wrong. You may want to check out my videos by searching "Action Therapy" here on the channel. They go into some more depth about how to solve it if you feel like this is the one hold you back.

@kymandrew1850 you're absolutely welcome and I'm happy that it spoke to you. Thanks for subscribing.

@ossamabazgra5401 thanks so much and I'm really glad you found my channel. If there's ever a topic or question within the space of vocations you'd like me to cover, let me know.

@pencilmonk absolutely welcome.

@pameladenicolo3300 you're incredibly welcome.

@miss.a.musings that's great that you had that 'luxury problem'. Parents can have such a huge impact on our path and obviously, our lives. That when we have good parents or at least parents who give us values that we agree with well after we've left home, that we're better able to navigate our path without excess friction. Also, freedom is such an incredibly strong theme for you. Whenever we talk I'm like, "Oh, there it is again."

@jaketodd9232 yeah, I did read it a while back. I find some of Cal Newport's thinking and ideas interesting, more so in the sphere of deep work though. I did fundamentally disagree with a many of his ideas presented in the book. Whilst I understand what he was saying about following your passion being rather fickle and becoming passionate post acquiring the skill, I haven't found that to be true in working with people on their paths. I've worked with a lot of people who were highly proficient in a line of work, rose to the top and hated it. I've also found that people can better align themselves through acquiring self-knowledge prior to getting skills, as they are more aware of the skills that will later serve their ultimate calling. I would likely argue that a sensitivity and awareness of self is best. This may also be a language problem. The word passion can cause confusion. I think the original root of the meaning passion should be considered, which is more like, 'in spite of suffering' rather than following a superficial interest.

@KakashiHatake-sg8ym I'm so glad that it found you. Multi-passionate people need to know how incredibly (and deeply needed) they are in this world.

Btw I want to be a data scientist or an ML engineer. But it’s a highly competitive and grueling job where I live, not to mention the prerequisites of a master degree or even a PhD.

@ABC-jq7ve whenever I talk about having a soul-led career there are three elements, soul, money and lifestyle. It's really important to be aware of and have all three things covered. So when to pursuing a path based on overextending yourself physically I would be looking at this in the lifestyle area. Knowing how you wish to live is important. However working this out needs to come last, as soul (what you're called to do) is the easiest thing to forget about and yet the most important element when it comes to meaning, fulfilment and realising your potential.

@ABC-jq7ve also, you'll want to get really clear between whether it's data scientist or an ML engineer because they're quite different paths (despite having overlaps). There may be a deeper reason why you're being pulled by these directions. People I've worked with in the unearth membership who are trying to decide between two, often haven't found the essence of what they're being drawn into yet. After doing this deeper work I've seen a number of them end up pursuing an option that wasn't even on the list of potential choices.

@ABB14-11 well congratulations on knowing your calling and your Career Archetype! Love to hear that. You are at a really exciting part of the process. Whereby the focus transitions from unearthing what you're meant to be doing to actually living it. It's normal to feel like you're playing dress up in the beginning as this new way of being hasn't been integrated yet. It's one of the reasons I talk about Action Therapy. You'll need to begin (slowly) presenting this part of yourself in public - helping to solidify it into your identity. Making sure past ways of being and/or psychological barriers don't hold you back. I speak about this in depth and detail in my Unearth Membership (the links below this video) if you want to learn more about it. I also share specific strategies we've used to help members transition as it can vary depending on what your calling actually is.

@ABB14-11 it's something that's become increasingly important in my work with others, bringing to the forefront archetypes that are outside of the traditional ones (as you mentioned king, maiden, jester) and exposing people to ones closer to home and therefore, more differentiated. Allowing them to know their calling in the modern world. It's interesting that you mentioned dreams. Many students I've worked with, when going through what I call 'the unearthing process' which is the process of knowing your calling and finding your Career Archetype, experience vivid and altering dreams. Something about coming to awareness of this part of ourselves seems to happen in hidden spaces prior to it overflowing into our conscious attention.

@Rats153 you're absolutely welcome. If there's ever a topic that you wish to be covered in more depth just let me know.

@Rats153 glad it was helpful!

@heatherpalmucci5837 you're too kind. 🙏

@miss.a.musings so great to hear. Sometimes we think we need words when we came for what's underneath without knowing it.

@miss.a.musings movement and location is incredibly important in our paths. Both on the macro level and the micro level. The point you bring up is definitely relevant, movement within our small spaces including frequency and speed and type will impact the path. Great point.

@Jsinebdjsmdbej you're welcome, wishing you all the best on your path.

@BethyMarks135 when connecting to our calling our minds can attempt to hold us back, fearing the transformation.

I mean, this *is* narcissistic thinking, though that doesn't make it incorrect. Narcissists feel this way by necessity, because they struggle to percieve and integrate outside information. It can be a powerful antidote if you're the *opposite* and too cautious, too considerate, too deferential.

@kashifazafar9708 I always hope that my messages reach people when they need it most.

@Emmiehappy you're welcome and so glad you found me on this side of RUclips. I can't wait to share more with you.

@ABC-jq7ve 🙌

@ABC-jq7ve thanks. I've got more videos coming exploring different Career Archetypes.

@MatchaLattesandDayDreams that's really kind of you to say. I'll be screenshotting and saving your comment as a reminder to prove you right. As for Instagram, yes. You can find me here: @thecareerarchetypes

@@TheCareerArchetypes apart from what you have on your website do you also offer one on one coaching sessions pertaining to the career archetypes?

@MatchaLattesandDayDreams I no longer offer one-on-one sessions. I used to individually unearth students Career Archetypes however now I teach and guide people how to do it themselves. I do this in in the Career Archetypes unearth membership which is a course and community. I should add that members do get direct access to me. I'll link it below in case you're interested in learning more. www.skool.com/career-archetypes-community-6174/about

@MatchaLattesandDayDreams you're absolutely welcome.

@nano7586 thanks for sharing. We definitely need to continue to connect to our higher aims, especially when the roles we find ourselves in don't provide them for us. Know that you can find something greater that can take you beyond your job title. It's never too late.

You're welcome!

@KhushiSingh-ix6fs absolutely welcome and I agree! Our 20's can be such a chaotic and turbulent time, seeking to find ourselves and our place in this world that we can easily be led to pursue paths that don't fit because they have clear steps. However we need to be in touch with our roots and our core which is a direct line to our dreams so I'll forever encourage people to dream and then to take the steps they need to make them happen.

You're absolutely welcome and I'm glad that it found you! Totally understand and temptation paths will forever attempt to pull us off our path, so we need to remain connected to our true calling.

@Kashimir appreciate it, need more people walking their path.

@heatherpalmucci5837 here to help anyone to pursue their path. 🙏

@aroojkiran7619 being intuitive is absolutely a gift and needs to be cherished as one, it's recognising the other-side that's the problem. So I think it's really cool that you are and it's cool that you're working on your root chakra to do that as it aligns with sensation and being grounded. If you develop both it's a powerful combination.

@kathleenmccabe4512 Soul-Led

@jamesk7197 well it sounds like it found you at the right time in your life and that I could put words on the experience. Some of the biggest changes I've witnessed in both myself and others is the literal and physical moving of locations. It still shocks me (even though it shouldn't ha!). Laughed at, "touched your inner ding" 😂🙌

@heatherpalmucci5837 yeah, temptations paths are everywhere! Got to avoid them or you'll want to go down them.

@heatherpalmucci5837 well being able to gain some traction is absolutely doable - it can just be chaotic as to how, especially in the beginning!

@tiwaryaf appreciate the enthusiasm and wishing you the best on your path. Not sure exactly what you mean by working together though.

@@TheCareerArchetypes i get that not many people understand this now. And i think people need to understand this to act on it so if you need some help then i can

@@tiwaryaf appreciate it - will let you know in the future if I feel the need to connect about it.

@aroojkiran7619 I would go to the place for a holiday, try it out, taste the food, talk to the people, go for a walk around the city. Then you can move. Course, if you don't have that luxury that's a different thing all together.

​@@TheCareerArchetypes I currently don't have the luxury to do so, however, for the age of 15/16 I also wanted to move to more rural areas, of open spaces surrounded by nature and nearby coastline. I'm now 27 leaving the corporate world and moving to that place, I've got no real plans yet, I selected a place that I like and the name of the small town has been in my head for about 4 years - I'm going to go there and find healing, to use it as a launchpad of discovering who I'm meant to be and what I'm meant to be doing here.

@@jamesk7197 love that you're going there to get in tune with who you are. No doubt a powerful experience awaits you. I'm wishing you all the best on your adventure!

@aroojkiran7619 the more you can place yourself in an environment that expands you, the better. I'm glad it hit.

@Aussiedreamer-pz5uw well I wish you all the best on your retirement. ✊

@chrisk1118 yeah skills definitely matter, sometime I see people wanting to dive into themselves and not confront skill requirements.

@KelsySmith-hb7qs love that it hit. ✊

@KarenRosas06 haha you got lucky then! I might go over all the signs etc. with more depth in the future too.

@pablo_beau_rendon appreciate it brother!

@kyliehawkes3499 it's definitely something to keep in mind, I'm glad it was such a useful tip for you!