Видео

some guys didn't learn that sharing the power of change with non whites and non males makes us all stronger and is not a threat to your own masculinity.

I have never seen my husband cry but he is the kindest, give-you-the-shirt-off-his-back mensch you'll ever find. He is compassionate and caring. He has a quiet, understated masculinity that I find very attractive. And seeing him actually tear up is on my bucket list. Boys are conditioned to not show emotion. They are not born this way.

Being in touch with your emotions. They provide invaluable information. But not being ruled by them.

Subbed. I have a son coming in 5 weeks and I've been struggling with this issue. To see how the concept of masculinity has been demonized by the left and corrupted by the right has been a major point of concern. Please continue to have this conversation. It's important.

I have experienced psychedelics in my younger days and had what we might have felt were philosophical discussions at the time but I’m not sure if I can say that I learned from them. I can see how the experience could potentially be used to look at the world from a philosophical standpoint if you were guided through it and had a controlled situation but it was wilder and more complex than that. Spending time contemplating when straight and in a comfortable environment has been more productive for me in those terms.

Young men expected it handed to them on a silver platter like it always was in the past, but when they found out that they would have to compete with women and minorities, they cried and decided to game until their collective nightmare ends. There is no mystery here…

Ryan learned his lesson and so did she..

The republican party is still looking to see if he had balls. Rumor has it that he squats to pee.

How about a kind of scouting for men in their late teens and twenties, that teaches stoic values and lets men express them in them. I know people are going to say that what the military is about, but its not quite what I'm thinking of.

The comments here are also hilarious! Like taking a stand for men against to fight against windmills. lolol The blind emotionally leading the blind here.

Moronic men with dumb answers, acting like experts! lololol This is childlike!

I Reckon so, This Podcast is Absolutely Adapt to Young Generation .That's Why , Some Adults Entirely Don Know History and so on .

I like the definition of "masculinity" at the beginning. What I'm confused about it is what exactly sets these traits apart from "femininity".

This was an excellent take and a solid way to communicate it. Subscribed!

Yes, but also crying doesn’t mean it’s NOT toxic masculinity. Sometimes men cry to manipulate the other men and women around them. Try not to cry is also a sign of self control. Sometimes you have to carry on despite of your feelings on that moment. Your feelings are most of the time secondary because you can’t think if you emote your feelings all the time. Same with the gender-issue. If you are confused, then you don’t just only talk about your feelings, but you have to think about your feelings and emotion. That means you quit expressing what is bothering you and take time and room to think. It’s not “just be yourself” but rather “you can’t be who you are not.”.

Sam is a National treasure 4 sure.....

I wish Sam was the president. At least he is honest, not 2 mention has a clear understanding of whats actualy going on in the world.

Stoics NEVER said "Don't show any emotions". True Stoicism is about feeling your feels, but not letting them sweep you away.

Thank you for Adam Kinzinger on your program! He is an American hero!

Kinzinger 2028

Background: Adam Kinzinger's collection of 8-Track Tapes? 🎉😊🕺💃

what a great conversation

That was good for a laugh, thanks 😄 🤣 😂 😆 😄

My Irish Granny taught me that even the poorest of people can live with grace and elegance because to behave with grace and elegance requires richness of character, not wealth.

Toxic feminism also exists, but it doesn’t seem to be recognized. I am a 52 yr old female, and a feminist - but my form of feminism doesn’t hate men. Listening to my daughter and her girl friends talk about men and the patriarchy, the sexism, and misogyny. You can fight for women without degrading men. It seems like generation z has been taught the fight for equity means dragging those who have power down, whereas generation x was taught that equity means lifting people up.

Maybe get out of your feelings. Feelings are not real. Children worry about feelings, adults worry about outcomes.

The problem is not masculinity, it is PATRIARCHY: the structuring of family through male lineage, aka MARRIAGE.

Toxic masculinity was never actually all masculinity though. Conservative media just insidiously convinced people that it was. The conservatives behind that did that on purpose because they always had this agenda to make men into these far right, ra*ey, Fuentes and Tate loving people. But Adam is a good guy, one of the few left it seems.

I so respect Adam Kinzinger. Like so many foreigners we are mortified by what’s happening in the USA. Yet it does speak of bigger social problems which are occurring there & around the world with inequity, education and general caring of life of all. This happens when you think a county or people is just about being an Economy & not a society. Our early Prime Minister Bob Hawke cried during the memorial for all the people who were killed during the Tiananmen Square massacre and also when he spoke of crime and overcoming it. This is the type of person you want leading a country. He achieved so much in his time as PM including universal Medicare for all, floated the aus$, saved the Franklin river from being dammed, mandatory superannuation pension for all. Sex discrimination act, created APEC, Prices & Income accord, negotiated banning all mining in Antartica. This is what this beer swilling larrikin pursued & achieved. Of course he like as all had some poor behaviour, BUT, he respected people & treated people fairly. He had a sharp tongue and d was a Rhodes scholar from a union background.

RED MAGGOTS HAVE THEIR KING A-HOLE AND ALL THE KING'S A-HOLE MEN AND ALL THE KING'S LANDS. PEOPLE DON'T THINK MUCH ABOUT THE KING'S LANDS. YOU KNOW WHAT WE USE TO CALL OUR LANDS, PUBLIC LANDS, NATIONAL FOREST, PRESERVES, PARKS. SO GET OUT AND ENJOY THE LAST OF IT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT "GETTING OUT THE VOTE". THE KING HAS YOU WILL NOT HAVE TO VOTE AGAIN. I AM A BOG, BAREFOOT OLD GUY, LIVE WEST OF CASCADES. LIVE IN THE LAST OF THE FOREST. I HAVE SEEN FOREST AND FELT THEM THROUGH MY SOLES. THINGS THAT YOU YOUGERS AND UNBORN WILL NEVER FEEL AND KNOW. BUT YOU WILL STILL BE ABLE TO SEE IT ON YOUR ELECTRONIC SCREENS. KING A-HOLE AND HIS MEN BELIEVE IN DOMINATING WOMEN. THEY IGNORE WHERE THEY COME FROM, THE WOMB, THE MOTHER AND IF THEY CAN IGNORE WOMB OF THE MOTHER. THEN THEY WILL DEFINIELTY INGORE THE LAND. YOU YOUNGERS ARE IN A SPELL. BEST YOU STAY IN THAT SPELL AND IN YOUR CAGE AND LEARN TO BOW TO THE KING AND HIS MEN. TO DO OTHER WISE REQUIRES COURAGE AND COURAGE IS A OLD FRENVH WORD, TRANSLATES TO "DESIRE OF THE HEART" AND IF YOU TAKE THE FIRST LETTER OF THE WORD :HEART AND PLACE IT AT THE END YOU GET THE WORD "EARTH".

I love seeing insecure men trying to define masculinity…😂😂😂😂 HERES A CLUE, if you’re here looking for the answer then you don’t have it 😂😂😂😂😂JFC SMDH

Toxic masculinity is real, and it's all those reasons you described. I don't need to cater to toxic men who can't handle hearing their behavior is toxic!! And we should absolutely shame it!!!!!

The problem in my view is that way too many men out there confuse being masculine with being an asshole.

Mad respect for Adam! A true patriot 🙌

Love Adam. Last of the true Republican breed. These maga are just opportunistic vagabond that have no business in our government.

Adam is the true definition of a real man and brave American patriot. Thank you for showing us not everyone is craven and deceptive.

You should have ran for president.

He is right about the devalue of emotions going on. People are behaving like elementary kids toward emotions.

The men who would most benefit from this video would prob never click on it, due to its title. They don’t have the courage to admit there might be something wrong with them.

Excellent discussion.

In my lifetime If there was ever a politician who lead by example it would be Adam Kinzinger. It there was ever a man who knew right from wrong and acted with passion, compassion and dedication it would be Adam Kinzinger. Here is someone who is comfortable in their own skin and doesn't feel the need to kick down at others (particularly women) in order to feel better about himself. In short, the man has integrity, something sorely lacking in representation in Congress and the Senate. God help America.

Teaching emotional intelligence in school would help this pandemic of emotionally unavailable men and women we are seeing. Having homoerotic feelings for each other is okay. It’s not necessarily an indicator of orientation, rather an emotional connection. Adam is unique and talented, and the young man issue a real. Most of them just need a hug and told that it’s okay to emote.

There is no such thing as toxic masculinity and defining masculinity as being in touch with your feelings is one of the most weak sissy things ive ever heard.

Enjoyed the discussion. People need to have both a broader and deeper understanding of history. We dont have to be condemned to repeat mistakes

Hmmmm... Sorry to say this but this sound like a lot of Jim Carrey I'm a guru bull sh*t to me.

True. If you read Marcus Aurelius' Meditations, it's basically him talking to himself and quoting famous authors of the past to himself, just as today we copy out quotes from him.

I wish you had let Adam talk more

Our culture is out of balance. The celebration of extreme masculine traits and the denigration of feminine traits has caused anxiety and confusion among our young men. And young women, for that matter.

IF YOU listen to this piece of LYING crap you will only end up in loser ville.

I think Adam Kinzinger needs his own podcast that he hosts alongside of a democrat or independent and they discuss the topics that divide our nation and how to fix them. Get people talking to one another about the issues from both vantage points. We need his voice and others to be amplified so that we can start working together as a nation again.