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Wonderful and helpful video Yumay! I am 75 and my spouse is not going to change and I desire to end the marriage. The most difficult challenge for me is fear. The fear of starting over at this age. I have tried everything and she will not change. Do you have any suggestions in this type of situation on how to address and overcome fear??? thank you!!

it's exhausting:/

Men deal with toxic women so much more and have less of an open outlet in person or online.

I like this!

Please don't ever allow anybody to put your on health aside! It is never fruitful for yourself!!!

Its so hard to educate a husband that always does not trust you or is always saying that he wont change. Thats why some women are unfaithful later.

NO. I DONT want to be with any man. I am not lesbian, but I dont like men already.

The girl I was with constantly criticized everything about me from my appearance to my personality to my career. She even said multiple times that she disliked how big my head is. Like wtf the size of my head is out of my control bitch 😂. She also liked talking about how good her ex was at everything. It was pure hell.

My boyfriend is always criticizing how I wash dishes etc never what do you think

please say a prayer that god gives my income back so no one can put me down anymore im so tired of it its very sad everyday I have to be quiet n he puts me down cause he is working im not but he stoled evrything I had I just want my money back so I can have my self esteem n health back plz plz god

dear god my husband stoled our money lied to me did somany things and I stoped work so everyday he calls me fat that I dont do anything he took hounders of thousands. from me says he didnt steal cuz it was hes Monet 2 even tho we didnt make it togther I made it and then puts me down for not working even tho im loaning him money so he can work pl stop n pray that god gives me all my money back so I can show him im not worthless n so. I can have my own life that dont have abuse in it for. my health say a prayer for me to be blessed n have my own money agin he put me tru to much

Your video is pointless as it focuses only on negative aspects of one's character, plus you are forgetting one very simple truth: Nobody is perfect..... ( You talk as if you have solved all the issues as if you are on another level....naive and arrogant at the same time..)

Wow!!! This hits home with me/my life. I can't barely talk without being put down. Its grueling and you feel so low around that person. No matter how much I try.... it never matters bc its never enough. Its a really awful feeling. Yes, the push and pull dynamic is REAL.

very helpful video.... I've dealt with a partner putting me down in past. I wondered why

Hey beautiful 😍, you just came at the right time. This guy is driving me crazy , but he found me awake, and your video has made it clear to me what his intentions are. Thanks 😊

I really enjoyed listening to this ❤thank you

Thank u ❤ subscribed 🎉

Few years back my sister told me how much my parents are suffering from lack of money, that they don’t use heater in winter, etc etc. Well I started giving them money only to find out a year later, my dad gave all that money to my mom cause she was demanding money to go shopping with. It wasn’t even used to pay bills or anything. It was just to appease her shopping addiction. I was very upset internally tbh

Great video! May god bless us all battling with a toxic relationship and feeling so small due to their behavior. 🙏🏼

Why they do this it's so frustrating

Great video. Thank you. Can you make a video about partners from different cultures and how to make that work? Tks

Hum interesting. Learning so much

Short answer. It makes them feel superior while putting you down.

I have low self esteem its coming between me and my boyfriend

Oh my God. You Just described my husband

Need to hear this and sent it my friend that needs to hear this as well.❤

Thank you 🙏🏻 I just came across your video everything you talked about in this video is to the tee what I’ve been dealing with for 30 years.I want out of this marriage now I refuse to take this abuse anymore and my husband is trying to do something nice every day…It’s way to late I’ve physically and mentally have been checked out along time ago.Just didn’t have the courage to leave.Love myself now and deserve someone that supports and loves me back.❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thanks for the overview, I felt the overview was cogent and concise!

Just left mine! Back to being happy and having peace. Constant harassment is not healthy, and it doesn't matter how stomg your mind is. It will get to you eventually .

13:00 I love how she mentioned the therapist needing to model having a secure attachment!!! Using that immediacy to bring the client into becoming comfortable to voicing their concerns about the therapeutic relationship, instead of only talking about and dealing with all the people outside of the therapeutic relationship. I see the counseling relationship as a petri dish where we examine how (as therapists) our clients can grow healthy within the counseling relationship!!! I need this in my own counseling!!!

Such honest dating advice. Thank you 🙏

The other night I was looking something up with my remote, he says to me here give it to me you're too slow I'm much quicker what can zi say to that?

Thank you! My wife has done this to me for various reasons and I've tried to forgive and be empathetic to her past. She has 2 degrees and has always put me down in front of my friends and family. I've been a software programmer since we met in 1994. I have loved her since day one, and even had to sit on the steps when we announced to her parents we were getting married, as they could not accept her marrying a Mexican. Fast forward to today, I was laid off a few months ago, and was making a good amount of money for the last decade. She told me it was because I wasn't "formally" educated and I need to go back to school. Yesterday, I was offered a position that paid 379K per year. I chose to leave her and offered to pay for our current house and her cars (Range Rover and very nice large house), with expenses. I was emotional and said this out of anger. But she said, "Ok". I'm crushed and don't understand why she didn't just tell me this was her stance from "xx"! This is not a cry for help, but a true shared experience of what can happen from a narcissistic wife who had these feelings from the start, or at least a very long time ago and never shared this with me, but would rather put me down every chance she could. #Suicidenote #menarevictimstoo

I do everything to try to make us financially stable because he is NOT working. Shut down all my business ideas which are for helping us move towards the future. Everyday he video games, I send him job opportunities I try to invest in his ideas but it's always constant criticism. I have made 2 online streams of income but they're not bringing enough but it does works. Just now, we had another argument about me doing too much, I should slow down he say. And the criticism doesn't come in the financial departments. It's really hard cause sometimes he praises me and sometimes he is just... I don't know. So now I'm being pushed into wearing the pants in relationship and I feel like I'm so close to having a mental breakdown or psychosis and if that happens it's the downfall of us. I almost lost him to another woman when I was sick in the hospital with bipolar disorder. Yes I have bipolar disorder now... stress makes me manic and psychosis. But I love him... I think his criticism is constructive I guess... but I wish he would just be more active in finding a job so that I can relax and focus on my health. But he has been jobless since January... it's June 😢

ADVICE PLEASE ANYBODY...colleague at work partner is nice person but puts her down at home. People don't believe. They adore him. What must she do? She feels broken but not even her pastor believes it. Overheard him and i believe her. Why he doing that? She changed. Not happy person anymore. PLEASE HELP.

Thank you so much!

Where did Maggie go? I remember a couple years back she was this huge fitness influencer on Instagram. Her page has vanished and it seems like she went MIA.

As a man I love dating women with low self esteem, they're the most faithful women in the world because a man paying attention to them and wanting to be with them and making them feel desirable is their dream come true, and since there's only one man paying attention to them, they'll do anything in the world to hold on to that bond, not only that, I'm not competing with 50 other guys, it's just me and her and I have her complete and undivided attention, a man can't ask for anything more

They lie and make excuses to treat the closest one to them like crap but treat complete strangers better

Thank you yumay im in the same relationship for 20 years😢😢😢😢

What if you say no and they keep guilt tripping you that you are a bad person and ungrateful for saying no. How can you manage the guilt?

Why does it feel like all of the advice and comments on these videos are directed towards women? Men like me live this too. I feel empty. I’m not even the man I used to be. I’m so lost

I dont do anything wrong eather😮

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Wow its like have it and had it before how i get stronger?i am now there i feel everything is wrong with me and that im a bad person and thats not good..what do i need to do to protect my feelings..

Am helpless as am getting married to such person and a lot ot money has already been invested by my parents and now i cant back off😢

Hey, i loved how you explained solving guilt trip step by step. I would like to request you to make more contents about dealing with abusive partners. Thanks a lot.

Mine compares me to her ex or other people even my My own City i live in is compared. I lost my voice because im afraid if i defend myself it will cause us to fight again and we were in LDR only seeing twice a month. But its been 2 month since we lsst communicated and broke up i thought i was doing well until 3 days ago i just starting missing the idea of her and the regrets how could i have handled the situation. I dont know why. Keep fighting focusing on my busness right now and how to make lots of money.

I had been writing it down recently, he never hits me but he talk me down about things I do in life.

I was getting a promotion my girlfiend was so upset tearing me down when everyone else was happy for me