Just Lesiba
Just Lesiba
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Vent Session + What we learned from 2022! | Feat @Lucracia_Tlhogi
Hello beautiful people, join Lelo & I on our vent session.
0:00 Intro
1:38 School and Work
12:33 Friendships
25:37 Relationship
43:54 Life
Where to find us?
Lelo
•IG: lelo_masenya
•RUclips: youtube.com/@lelo_masenya
Find me @_justofentse on all social media platforms!
See you on the next one!
xoxo.
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Видео

Vlog: PTA Mamelodi Ice Skating with my favs!
Просмотров 1692 года назад
Welcome to my channel, I attempted to do a vlog even though I know how bad I am at vlogging, lmao. Join my friends & I, ice skating in PTA Mamelodi. Hope you enjoy! Where to find us? Kefiloe T •IG: kefiloe_tshoane •TikTok: kefiloe_tshoane Kelebogile M •IG: kelebogilemodjadji •TikTok: kelebogilemodjadji Zanele M •IG: zar_neh_leh •TikTok: zanelememani •Twitter: zanelememani7 Find me @_justofentse...
what being agender means to me!
Просмотров 13 тыс.3 года назад
Welcome, Beautiful People! Today we talk about my experiences of being agender through the lense of gender identity, dysphoria, expression & romantic/sexual orientation. Just one voice, hope you get a few points from this. I shot it 3 times, it took a lot to make this cohesive. A beautiful, chaotic, organized mess. We were everywhere with this one. South African RUclipsr Find me on •Instagram -...
welcome to my channel, this is my chat.
Просмотров 4243 года назад
Welcome, Beautiful People! Let's have a conversation about internalized homophobia, Queer Representation on SA media, relationships (mjolo) & the contrast between Religion & Sexuality. Just a brief overview of what we'll be chatting about on this channel. Each topic will have it's own video as we progress. Just another person with an opinion on the internet. Find me on •Instagram - @_justofents...

Комментарии

  • @iluvsubliminals
    @iluvsubliminals 19 дней назад

    I dont feel male or female. That's why I made my most recent subliminal audio.

  • @soda_the_clown
    @soda_the_clown 3 месяца назад

    YEY another agender South African 💚 i feel more safe

  • @Muhluri
    @Muhluri 4 месяца назад

    It's cool to see another agender south African here

  • @britneyswann8329
    @britneyswann8329 6 месяцев назад

    I was assigned male at birth, had my documents changed and I'm medically and with surgery, yet I don't feel female nor male. I identify as agender, one thing I know, I've never been a man. I love hearing from other agender folks! Thank you!

  • @DinosaurNick
    @DinosaurNick 9 месяцев назад

    I'm agender too and happy I found you! I feel lonely as an agender person because everyone I know is either gender fluid, cis (man or woman), or trans (man or woman). My pronouns are they/per/e

    • @Mr.PinkEyes
      @Mr.PinkEyes 7 месяцев назад

      bro uses per and e pronouns.

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 7 месяцев назад

      @@Mr.PinkEyes yes. Per is short for person and is used as per/per/per/pers/perself and e/em/eir/emself is spivak pronouns. They've been around a long time.

    • @Mr.PinkEyes
      @Mr.PinkEyes 7 месяцев назад

      @@DinosaurNick ok but theyre still really stupid

  • @jimiwills
    @jimiwills 11 месяцев назад

    Sub. So relatable ❤ thank you for sharing

  • @averia0
    @averia0 Год назад

    this means a lot to me:) thank u

  • @kamogelomoloi
    @kamogelomoloi Год назад

    You are so beautiful 😢❤

  • @frankieli361
    @frankieli361 Год назад

    I appreciate you speaking out about this❤

  • @warriorcatkitty
    @warriorcatkitty Год назад

    I'm also agender! I still use she/her pronouns, but it's out of familiarity to them more than it's a refection of my identity as I don't feel any sort of connection to pronouns in that way. If I'd been raised with any other pronouns, I'd probably keep using them too. I also still present typically "feminine" (I don't wear dresses or skirts or anything like that, I don't even wear make up, but I physically look like a woman and I have no desire to change that. again, this is mainly out of familiarity and me not really caring about my looks) Recently though I have also started using ey/em alongside she/her, just kind of testing the waters since I think they sound cool. I have a homophobic parent though so I haven't been able to get anyone to use them irl yet, sadly.

    • @Mr.PinkEyes
      @Mr.PinkEyes 7 месяцев назад

      bro uses ey/em pronouns and thinks its valid

    • @warriorcatkitty
      @warriorcatkitty 7 месяцев назад

      @@Mr.PinkEyes LOLLLLL get lost transphobe xD AND HAPPY PRIDE MONTH BISHES 🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈

    • @Mr.PinkEyes
      @Mr.PinkEyes 7 месяцев назад

      @@warriorcatkitty calling a transgender person a transphobe for offending you is wild. people like YOU aare the reason homophobes exist

  • @terriem3922
    @terriem3922 Год назад

    What language are you speaking? It sounds really familiar.

  • @Xiantei
    @Xiantei Год назад

    Same, I'm also agender

  • @Amandasutton-w6q
    @Amandasutton-w6q Год назад

    I love your honesty and authenticity. Really enjoyed this

  • @crystalkefiloe7267
    @crystalkefiloe7267 2 года назад

    We want Lelo back period ! I really enjoyed watching this.

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      She's definitely coming back soon!

  • @lettiemokgatle8450
    @lettiemokgatle8450 2 года назад

    I want Lelo back😂😂😂❤❤

  • @kgomotsomasenya1243
    @kgomotsomasenya1243 2 года назад

    You're back😅😅 don't dissapear again 💝💝This was nice bathong!!!!

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      lmao, thank you! 🫶🏾

  • @kelebogilemakoela6312
    @kelebogilemakoela6312 2 года назад

    Feels great to have you back bathong wena🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      I meeaaan! 🥹🫶🏾

  • @shilahmagagane2206
    @shilahmagagane2206 2 года назад

    Interestin topics right, got glued to my phone,keep them coming

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      Oh of course! Thank you so much!🫶🏾

  • @o.lebogeng.k
    @o.lebogeng.k 2 года назад

    your accent?top tier 🏆🏆🏆

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      aww!🥺🫶🏾🫶🏾

  • @o.lebogeng.k
    @o.lebogeng.k 2 года назад

    y'all so beautiful 😍😍😍

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      thank you so much sweetie!🥺🫶🏾

  • @crystalkefiloe7267
    @crystalkefiloe7267 2 года назад

    About timeeeeeeeee!!

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      don't be angry, please. 😂🫶🏾

    • @crystalkefiloe7267
      @crystalkefiloe7267 2 года назад

      @@JustLesiba Don't worry I'm happy right now...just don't make us wait 50 years again

  • @Lucracia_Tlhogi
    @Lucracia_Tlhogi 2 года назад

    🐐🐐

  • @zanelememani1713
    @zanelememani1713 2 года назад

    Yaassssss finally!!😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      Oh yes sweerie!🥺🥺❣

  • @tshiamo9638
    @tshiamo9638 2 года назад

    Fifi: I’m glad you’re back on RUclips Ofentse: *disappears*

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      ✋🏾😭I'm coming back for real, please.

  • @iranorth5194
    @iranorth5194 2 года назад

    😄 p̴r̴o̴m̴o̴s̴m̴

  • @heccinchonkercat
    @heccinchonkercat 2 года назад

    Hello! Sorry if this is quite long… but I don’t really know how to use any other social media platform to ask for advice I’m in my nearly late teens, and for a while (few years) I’ve occasionally thought about what gender orientation I align with. I’ve always come to the conclusion that “it doesn’t really matter, gender’s kinda made up anyway” and left it at that. I’ve always had a desire to appear more androgynous however, and only recently have found the confidence to go through with it; but now that I’ve become more aware of different labels, I’m nearly sure that I’m agender. I don’t believe this really makes much a difference, since I’ve even thought along these lines as a child, but I have a boyfriend who is bi and only attracted to men or women (specifically women preference). I’m not sure what I should do. I make an effort to appear more feminine with him, since I do enjoy our dynamic, but I’d really like to start to dress more androgynous, and I tend to at most times except when I’m with him or have a cute outfit. I especially really want to use they/them pronouns, and after years of thinking “i shouldn’t since I’m not non-binary” (i was not very reasonable with myself), i finally asked my close cousin to refer to me as such and felt such a huge relief and joy. I would say I don’t really mind my boyfriend continuing as things are, but I don’t want to hide things from him. Any suggestions? I really don’t know what to do. I’m pan so I don’t really know if that would be a dealbreaker, since I myself don’t mind whatever gender or lack of gender my partner identifies as. Tl;dr: i’m agender but haven’t told my bi boyfriend who I’m worried would no longer be attracted to me. I want to use they/them pronouns but don’t know how to break the news

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      Hey, pardon the late reply... I just never check my comments :( I completely understand where you're coming from. It's quite difficult to be in genuine romantic relationships while being androgynous/agender. What I would advise is, be honest with your partner. Do not allow yourself to fall prey into his desires (what he wants you to be). When you are aware of your gender identity, inform your partner - inform him about your pronouns as well. As for the appearance, you cannot change your self-expression for someone who doesn't live within your skin. It's easier said than done. Personally, I love being feminine & masculine - for myself. Dressing & acting a certain way only for your partner - takes away from you... who you are. If your partner genuinely cares for you, he would not mind nor hesitate to learn more about you. You have to be emotionally independent, changing yourself for someone else's benefit takes a toll on your health. Fall in love with yourself before someone else.🫶🏽

  • @xryxix
    @xryxix 2 года назад

    I really appreciate your intro edits you've got a nice way with colors 🍀🍀🍀

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      Thank you!💙💙💙

  • @xryxix
    @xryxix 2 года назад

    Awh nice ice skating's pretty fun!

  • @xryxix
    @xryxix 2 года назад

    Nice genuine conversation! Def followed! Hope yall have a good day 🍀🍀🍀

  • @kelebogilemakoela6312
    @kelebogilemakoela6312 2 года назад

    Thissss😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾 amazing I tell youuuu we missed youuuuuu😭😭

  • @crystalkefiloe7267
    @crystalkefiloe7267 2 года назад

    And welcome backkkk!!! 🤭🤭🤭

  • @crystalkefiloe7267
    @crystalkefiloe7267 2 года назад

    In love with this vlog so much 🥺❤️. Miss Y'all Bathong !! 😭😭

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      😂😂we should defs do another one soon!

  • @kkarabbo
    @kkarabbo 2 года назад

    Welcome back 🥺❤️

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      🥺❤Thank you baby!

  • @keabetswek7592
    @keabetswek7592 2 года назад

    finally we missed you 🥺❤

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      🥺🥺we miss YOU way more!

    • @keabetswek7592
      @keabetswek7592 2 года назад

      @@JustLesiba I'll join RUclips again soon 🥺

  • @zanelememani1713
    @zanelememani1713 2 года назад

    This so wholesome 🥺🥺❤️absolutely love it

  • @kgomotsomasenya1243
    @kgomotsomasenya1243 2 года назад

    😍😍😍😍We missed you! 😘

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      Missed y'all more.🥺

  • @mxlexie
    @mxlexie 2 года назад

    I'm pangender, standing in solidarity 💪

  • @TEMPEST4k
    @TEMPEST4k 2 года назад

    You're a beautiful person, I love your energy! Thank you for posting this!

  • @jlgirlxox
    @jlgirlxox 2 года назад

    Wow you are such a stunning and lovely person! I just found your channel through your agender video- I'm trying to figure things out for myself rn with my own gender, and I really love your energy and insight. I hope you upload more videos again in the future!

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 2 года назад

      You have no idea how your comment lifted me up! Thank you so much, I'll definitely be uploading soon. You're amazing!

  • @pearlnkuna4318
    @pearlnkuna4318 2 года назад

    Soooo pretty❤️❤️

  • @nomsaleshaba4240
    @nomsaleshaba4240 3 года назад

    Amazing

  • @nomsaleshaba4240
    @nomsaleshaba4240 3 года назад

    🤩🤩🤩🤩wow!

  • @MartianEnby
    @MartianEnby 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for this. I recently came out as agender. It is a breath of fresh air to see views from all over the world on gender identity. Also you are a beautiful person inside and out. I'm trying to get better at correcting people and not feeling like I am a burden.

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 3 года назад

      I'm trying too & thank you. You're amazing, remember that. 💖

  • @lolymop333
    @lolymop333 3 года назад

    To clarify: Sexual attraction and romantic attraction are 2 separate things and they usually match, but they don't always.

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 3 года назад

      Very true!

    • @nal004
      @nal004 Год назад

      Wrong

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 9 месяцев назад

      @@nal004 Um no

    • @nal004
      @nal004 9 месяцев назад

      @@DinosaurNick explain to me the difference then please? I can see the difference between romantic, platonic, and familial. However romantic attraction is inherently sexual. Romance is a word used to describe your desire to be intimate with another.

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick 9 месяцев назад

      @@nal004 Romantic attraction is often associated with intimacy. But this is usually cuddling, hand-holding, hugging, and maybe kissing. Sexual attraction is quite literally who you'd have sex with. You can be romantically attracted without being sexually attracted (Think someone that is asexual and homoromantic) You can also be sexually attracted without being romantically attracted (think heterosexual and aromantic) You can be with a partner in a romantic relationship, and it not be sexual. (Do you have sex with your partner 24/7, and is it NOT romantic attraction if you're NOT having sex?) You can also have a sexual relationship without it being romantic (are friends with benefits, one-night stands, and prostitutes romantic?)

  • @emanuelephrem4307
    @emanuelephrem4307 3 года назад

    is there a line between delusion and gender expression....or should a person believe anyone when they say anything..is there an objective line?

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 3 года назад

      Gender expression is relevant to some people. In a sense, it's quite subject as one's expression of self belongs to that particular individual.

    • @emanuelephrem4307
      @emanuelephrem4307 3 года назад

      @@JustLesiba how do we know if one is lying or not...where is the line precisely? between deception confusion and honest self reflection

    • @GynxShinx
      @GynxShinx 2 года назад

      @@emanuelephrem4307 Are you afraid of people lying to you about their gender? I am not. I'll pretty much believe anyone when they tell me their gender. What is there to fear?

    • @emanuelephrem4307
      @emanuelephrem4307 2 года назад

      @@GynxShinx That is what the scientific community call low resolution thinking. "Believe anyone with any claim" Is what naive children do! Even children know that's foolish. It seems to me your simplistic and overly optimistic view of humanity dosnet put in to consideration the capacities of the human heart.

    • @GynxShinx
      @GynxShinx 2 года назад

      @@emanuelephrem4307 No, really, what's wrong with trusting people talking about themselves? I'm not talking about science, I'm talking about societal functions. If you meet someone and they say they are a football fan, do you ask them for evidence or do you just assume it's true?

  • @RubenWhitter
    @RubenWhitter 3 года назад

    Gender is all made up! Who cares!!! It's all fabric and facepaint tbh. Just try not to kill anybody and live ya life

  • @sillyandjoyus1959
    @sillyandjoyus1959 3 года назад

    Is it possible to be agender and still be a lesbian?

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 3 года назад

      Hey, of course. The best term is gynophile. 💙

    • @weecharlie01
      @weecharlie01 2 года назад

      A lesbian is a female homosexual

  • @croissantduck7916
    @croissantduck7916 3 года назад

    Hiiiii so thrilled I found this channel

    • @JustLesiba
      @JustLesiba 3 года назад

      Thank you & welcome to my mess. 😂💙

  • @notaburneraccount
    @notaburneraccount 3 года назад

    I'm agender too 💚 I'm so happy there are more and more of us out there! 😌 You're amazing! New sub here :)

  • @jaked5144
    @jaked5144 3 года назад

    Lekker. Appreciate you being so open 🙏