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Samuel Eddy
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Samuel Eddy recovered from anxiety over 10 years ago and now offers one-to-one and group coaching to help others do the same. In this channel, he shares all the information, techniques and methods he shares with his clients and used himself to recover.
Sam has a Master of Science, in Psychology from the University of East London, UK and is a qualified Mental Health First Aider in Australia.
He also regularly speaks to workplaces on the topics of stress reduction, mental health, wellbeing, career and leadership.
Sam has a Master of Science, in Psychology from the University of East London, UK and is a qualified Mental Health First Aider in Australia.
He also regularly speaks to workplaces on the topics of stress reduction, mental health, wellbeing, career and leadership.
Claire Weekes: ACCEPT (& allow) to recover from anxiety
Claire Weekes called them the magic word to help you recovery and she was right. But how do you actually accept difficult thoughts and raging symptoms when in a state of fear?
In this video, I discuss what acceptance is, how to do it without 'bracing' and taking it one step further by 'allowing'.
Need more support?
Find out more about Anxiety Recovery Coaching with Sam and book your 60 or 30 minute session here:
openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
Or watch this video to learn more:
ruclips.net/video/PQydsfhEC6A/видео.html
As always, please seek professional support in your area if you feel you need immediate help.
In this video, I discuss what acceptance is, how to do it without 'bracing' and taking it one step further by 'allowing'.
Need more support?
Find out more about Anxiety Recovery Coaching with Sam and book your 60 or 30 minute session here:
openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
Or watch this video to learn more:
ruclips.net/video/PQydsfhEC6A/видео.html
As always, please seek professional support in your area if you feel you need immediate help.
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Anxiety Thinking Traps: BLAMING yourself & your situation
Просмотров 3867 часов назад
Blaming yourself or your circumstances for having anxiety or your struggles to recover is very common, but it ultimately acts as a barrier to recovery. We live in a fear-fueled world where we learn to point the figure at ourselves or our circumstances when things go wrong. But part of recovery requires to step out of the blame game which is what I discuss in this video. Need more support? Find ...
Why did my anxiety trigger start? Why do I keep reacting?
Просмотров 87414 часов назад
Are you still bewildered about your anxiety triggers? They are the cause of a huge amount of suffering and keep many people stuck on the journey to recovery. The good news is that the reasons they start and continue are very logical. Once you understand this, it will give you hope for recovery and allow you to practice. Need more support? Find out more about Anxiety Recovery Coaching with Sam a...
Claire Weekes: it's just adrenaline, NOT your thoughts, making you anxious
Просмотров 5 тыс.День назад
Even in your worst anxiety attack or your most heavy setback, it is not your thoughts making you scared, it's plain old adrenaline! This is what set Dr Claire Weekes apart from everyone else. She identified that anxiety is not a disease of the brain, but simply a tired nervous system tricking you into getting involved in anxious thinking. That is what I unpack in this video. Need more support? ...
Anxiety and sleep: never try to get to sleep
Просмотров 32614 дней назад
Anxiety and sleep can feel like a battle and be a source of huge suffering for many of my clients. in this video, I describe the importance of completely changing your approach to sleep when you have anxiety (or in general!) by outlining four key principles to follow. Need more support? Find out more about Anxiety Recovery Coaching with Sam and book your 60 or 30 minute session here: openchange...
What is Anxiety Recovery Coaching?
Просмотров 22314 дней назад
Coaching can be an important tool that many people access as they recover from anxiety. During a coaching session, I help clients refine and improve their recovery-focused practices, overcome difficult setbacks and generally stay on track. My approach is about helping his clients make positive behaviour change to recover from anxiety, not just manage it. Each session is designed to offer his cl...
Recovery tips: how humour DISARMS anxiety
Просмотров 26121 день назад
In the midst of worry, fear and suffering it is normal to revert to taking anxiety very seriously. One way to snap back out of this trap and keep moving forward on the recovery journey is to use humour (humor). In this video, I explain why humour, if used the right way can help you reset, give yourself a break and quickly get back on the right track. Everyone will get caught out, lost in worry ...
Anxiety thinking traps: counting, measuring and analysing SETBACKS :)
Просмотров 51221 день назад
"I've been in a setback for 3 days" "No relief for 2 months" "This setback has been the worse one ever" These are all thinking traps that are easy to fall into but if we get into analysing, counting and measuring our setbacks we have slipped back into getting involved in anxiety and taking it seriously. In this video, I discuss why this happens, why it's unhelpful and what to do instead. Need m...
Why do I keep getting NEW ANXIETY SYMPTOMS?!!
Просмотров 55628 дней назад
It really is sooooo frustrating when this happens and I totally feel your pain, but it is just how the body responds on the way to recovery. You have successfully allowed one physical symptom or fearful thought to surface and dissolve, then seemingly without warning, a new one arrives. In this video, I explain why this is totally normal and to be expected on the way to recovery. Need more suppo...
Help your partner with anxiety: essential information & tips
Просмотров 223Месяц назад
If you feel powerless to help and support your anxious loved one, then this video is for you. If you have anxiety, feel free to share this with your loved ones too. Knowledge truly is power in these situations so in this video, I cover: - Why your partner is anxious - How a tired nervous system causes anxiety, not a faulty brain - How your stress response functions compared to a tired stress re...
Anxiety recovery MUST be hard work
Просмотров 548Месяц назад
The more willing you are to go through discomfort and complete the hard work required to recover, the better off you will be. This is because anxiety recovery requires the formation of a new habit - a new way of thinking, behaving and essentially living. But new habits are hard to form and that is what I address in this video. So how much time and effort are you willing to put into your recover...
Let time pass: Dr Claire Weekes anxiety recovery wisdom
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.Месяц назад
Why is letting time pass such an important piece of advice on the anxiety recovery journey? In this video, I discuss these wise words from Dr Claire Weekes and why it's important to avoid desperate searches for quick fixes and work with our natural energy cycles, including the flight or fight response as you move forward on your recovery journey. Need more support? Find out more about Anxiety R...
Anxiety thinking traps: don't check yourself for reassurance
Просмотров 678Месяц назад
Am I anxious today? Do I have any symptoms? How do I feel? Am I recovering? Am I getting worse? So often during the anxiety recovery process, we keep checking ourselves to see how we feel. The mind is looking to the body to see how we 'feel' to answer these questions, but that's where the problem starts as I explain in this video. So, in short, there is no need to check yourself and check in on...
Coffee & Anxiety: should I enjoy or avoid caffeine?
Просмотров 250Месяц назад
Coffee, dark chocolate, Red Bull? How does caffeine impact anxiety and is it something I can still enjoy or I should totally avoid? We often want black and white answers to these questions so in this video I talk about the impact caffeine can have on the anxiety state and explore the different options you have to determine whether you should consume caffeine, stop completely or reduce your inta...
Anxiety pressure cooker: how anxiety builds & the importance of lifting the lid
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In those difficult moments when you are struggling to practice or remember how you got into the anxiety state, sometimes an image or metaphor is the best way to get perspective. In this video, I cover: - why pressure builds over a lifetime - how we clamp down on stress which leads to anxiety - the importance of lifting the lid to release pressure - why it's hard when the pressure starts to rele...
Anxiety setbacks deep dive: why oh why do they keep happening?????
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Anxiety setbacks deep dive: why oh why do they keep happening?????
Children's anxiety: 4 step method to help your child (for parents)
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Children's anxiety: 4 step method to help your child (for parents)
Anxiety Thinking Traps: Wanting to be Your 'OLD' Self
Просмотров 4552 месяца назад
Anxiety Thinking Traps: Wanting to be Your 'OLD' Self
Common Mistakes in Anxiety Recovery Techniques (mindfulness, meditation & breathing)
Просмотров 4452 месяца назад
Common Mistakes in Anxiety Recovery Techniques (mindfulness, meditation & breathing)
Anxiety Triggers: Does Exposure Therapy Really Work?
Просмотров 3222 месяца назад
Anxiety Triggers: Does Exposure Therapy Really Work?
How Trauma Causes Anxiety (simply explained)
Просмотров 1922 месяца назад
How Trauma Causes Anxiety (simply explained)
Do I have stress or anxiety? How to know the difference.
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Do I have stress or anxiety? How to know the difference.
Morning Anxiety: Why do I wake up anxious?
Просмотров 8213 месяца назад
Morning Anxiety: Why do I wake up anxious?
Intrusive thoughts help: DON'T challenge anxious thinking
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Intrusive thoughts help: DON'T challenge anxious thinking
Natural anxiety treatment alternative to Valium (Diazepam)
Просмотров 7213 месяца назад
Natural anxiety treatment alternative to Valium (Diazepam)
Anxiety symptoms explained: shortness of breath, lump in the throat
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Anxiety symptoms explained: shortness of breath, lump in the throat
Anxiety symptoms explained: racing heart, palpitations, & skipped beats
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Anxiety symptoms explained: racing heart, palpitations, & skipped beats
Anxiety Symptoms Explained: Derealization & Depersonalization
Просмотров 3834 месяца назад
Anxiety Symptoms Explained: Derealization & Depersonalization
Anger management by releasing anxiety and fear
Просмотров 2354 месяца назад
Anger management by releasing anxiety and fear
Do you need more support? Book your 60 or 30 min online anxiety recovery coaching session here openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
Another informative and helpful video. Thanks again, Sam.
No worries!
Would you suggest resting more I don't know like what to do with myself I could jump out of my body.
We all need good rest, but exercise and moving forward with life is equally important too.
Really ill at the moment with it am seeing a physciatrist, however I know its not serious but its chronic like I only get a rest when I'm asleep. I have GAD so had bouts all my life my dad got dementia and before I know it I'm down the drain even though I'm on meds it makes me sick to stomach my head is not here like I feel poorly my every waking hour its real torture 😢
If you are not currently getting the help you need, I encourage you to watch my full Anxiety Cure Video series here ruclips.net/p/PLRWr4VF71u_8jsOLbTX5n1P647oEl0z0b&si=2dFH4iMSdGE6zjna or book in for a coaching session openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
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This has helped me so much since I discovered your videos a week or so ago! Thank u!
Glad I could help!
It works!
This has been key for me
It's such a shame why this information isn't EVERYWHERE. This approach works; it's the only way. If only I had've known about this many years ago! Although I'm not yet recovered (it will happen when it's ready to), I've made some great progress so far. I find that my average daily anxiety/stress level has decreased compared with a month ago. I also find it easier to shift my focus from the intrusive thoughts now, rather than get involved with them. So many people are told that anxiety is dangerous and that they should take it very seriously. The media, most doctors and therapists are promoting avoidance (or other incorrect approaches) rather than promoting what Claire Weekes taught. Why? If it wasn't for the internet, I never would've knew about any of this.
Agree Claire Weekes books should be more widely publicised. She had the answer to the anxiety trap.
I think about that very often. Neither my therapist nor my psychiatrist told me about this. Yes it is hard as f- but it’s the only way.
Yup it's the only way. After 1 year creapling dark anxiety (7 months of using this approach) I litteraly free of it. Best 3 months in years ^^
@meliskayhan3655 I asked many therapist about Claire Weekes and most of them have no idea who she was. Here I am filling in questionnaire after questionnaire week after week for therapy session. What a joke. Claire Weekes gave me my life back. Bless her soul ❤
Most therapist, doctors etc act with good intention, unfortunately, they don't know any better - they are taught anxiety is a complex mental illness and so try to treat it that way we which is ultimately the wrong approach
Im never be clear about diference between gad and ocd. Not sure that i have one or other.
I'd suggest you read/follow Mark Freeman, he narrows down the common denominator pretty well. It's never been about the labels :)
The labels are ultimately a distraction - no one 'has' GAD or OCD. We all experience anxiety in different scenarios but the underlying cause and mechanism are always the same. I hope that helps.
Sometimes a bewilderment or lost feeling happens...then I have to remember what you've taught, even though my feelings aren't supporting me....
Reminders are so important to keep us on track as we recover - and I have 'bewilderment' on the list for video topics so thankyou
@@openchangeau I look forward to that.
Can you help me 1on1 by chance?
Yes of course, you can book a coaching session with me here openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
Thank you❤
Welcome!
Thank you!
You're welcome!
Why after stopping the meds are my vision so blurry still and brain feel so different? I need these videos no one understands me. Meds triggered these things off in me two months ago so i stopped taking them so now i working to get back to normal
The symptoms and your nervous system take time to adjust and during withdrawel, it's normal for anxiety symptoms to intensity before they start to reduce
I rewatched this video again today and its great. Its a crime your not a bigger channel on youtube.
Thanks for the support Giovanni and the word is spreading more and more which is great!
One of the hardest things about trying to recover is that when you're going through an episode, it can be hard to remember the times when you felt good and relieved (and normal)...I guess this is why some people claim that they're anxious or depressed 24/7, in spite of them having occasional relief. "State-dependent memory" I think it's called, it can really make things hard sometimes.
It's not a memory issue, it's a feeling issue. People try a imagine how peace FEELS when in a setback, which is always hard to do to. We simply need to accept we HAVE felt peace and peace WILL happen again - without trying to 'feel' it.
@@openchangeau I personally prefer not to call them setbacks but adrenaline spikes. I had one overnight and didn't sleep well but still got through the day pretty well. I don't feel I get as lost in my thoughts as much as I used to
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You are so gracious sir.
Feelings are so fickle
Hi, anybody get bad butterflies with the slightest bit of excitement. I get really uncomfortable butterflies with any excitement, as heart flutters and it makes me very anxious. I can't get excited. Don't know if my body has become to sensitive to stimuli. Feel my system is very sensitive..
This is a very common symptom and we treat nervousness, even trigger by excitement, they same way as all other anxiety symptoms
Hi, anybody get bad butterflies with the slightest bit of excitement. I get really uncomfortable butterflies with any excitement, as heart flutters and it makes me very anxious. I can't get excited. Don't know if my body has become to sensitive to stimuli. Feel my system is very sensitive..
Yes i noticed this too. But in a life without anxiety, you have to do some things so you are forced to do them.
I suffer from adrenal fatigue and anxiety. Is it ok for me to take creatine and workout lightly or this supplement will mess with my system and make me more tired?
I can't give you specific advice but exercise is an important part of recover. I also use creatine with no negative impact.
@@openchangeau I know you can't give me any specific advice. It's ok. But to sum up - creatine doesn't overstimulate the body in a negative way (theoretically)?
I'm so glad you've explained how this all works!
It could be that our thoughts are causing the surge of adrenaline, which in turn makes us anxious. I have never ever experienced anxiety and have positive, hopeful thoughts at the same time.
People in the anxiety state, worry about things they did use to or that others without anxiety don't worry about. The difference is a sensitised nervous system that releases adrenaline even with otherwise harmless thoughts.
Dr.Claire Weekes saved my bacon 20 yrs ago. I will never forget her method.
Great to hear!
Your teaching, and Dr. Weeks' has been such a revelation for me, I'm very grateful. I've also applied these same techniques to unwanted depression, that all the pills in the world can't help, when it's really bad.....after all, depressive thoughts produce depressive chemicals......so I'm learning that this is my brain releasing unwanted chemicals, which I can then recognize as such, and treat them as a passing phase....maybe I can't sufficiently explain it, but it's working. Do you only talk about anxiety?..as depression is closely related. Many thanks, from Southern Africa!
My pleasure. My videos focus primarily on anxiety but I do a lot of coaching with depression too - as you say you can definitely apply the same techniques
Do you need more support? Book your 60 or 30 min anxiety recovery coaching session here openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
Do you need more support? Book your 60 or 30 min anxiety recovery coaching session here openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
Miscarriage started whilst in supermarket, xmas shop. Mum diagnosed with cancer. Next pregnancy 5mos and had 9 mos old, in supermarket and pains started. Full blown panic attack, staff loaded my shopping into a cab abd send me home, car left there. Ended up agoraphobia severe anxiety. 33year on its still firing
It's important to acknowledge how our difficult and traumatic life events put us into this state - but equally important to put them behind us as we start to recovery. The Anxiety Cure Series might help you with that ruclips.net/p/PLRWr4VF71u_8jsOLbTX5n1P647oEl0z0b&si=Gxy2ms7lBbN2rmmn
I may have mentioned this before but my anxiety triggers are the length of this anxiety period, the memory/thought/visions.My present self in the moment is presented with the whole period in a split conscious second....how can this be dealt with in this context ? whats an end ? Thanks you are much appreciated.
If you are bombarded with thoughts, memories, visions etc all at once - let them all arise as you go loose in your body as I advise in the anxiety cure video series. Hope that helps.
Spot on. Good to see you are carrying on Claire Weeks' teaching. I think Claire Weeks really understood, and had the solution to, this problem. Good videos.
She sure did!
Recently found your channel Samuel and it’s really helpful and simplified. I’m a big fan of Claire Weekes work. Her audiobook has helped decrease my anxiety significantly in the last 6 months. It takes work but it’s given me real hope I can eventually calm my system. Thankyou 🌞
Happy to help!
Excellent explanation. The trouble for chronic sufferers (like myself…speaking as a 64 year old male) is that there may well be some physical pathology underlying these horrible & frankly terrifying symptoms that also make us more susceptible to stresses and triggers. I’m thinking of a genuine cardiac issue (mitral prolapse, conduction “blocks” etc), or undiagnosed neoendocrine tumours.
Typical „what if“ thoughts, that keep anxiety alive
The anxious mind will trick us any way it can to convince us our situation is different - I am older, younger, heavier, skinnier, live alone, have a family etc etc. Health anxieties are difficult, but we need to treat them the same way - this might help ruclips.net/video/CYe6O8p-_TU/видео.htmlsi=uMOFjGwZVynXO33g
@@anjac.6817 That’s true.
@@openchangeau Agreed. Thanks.
I feel that with me, work is the external stressor and catalyst of my anxiety. I'm not worried or triggered by anything work-related but work is the reason why my cortisol and adrenaline levels are elevated. I feel much worse at work than I do later in the evenings. I feel derealised/depersonalised at work and for multiple hours after I get home. I also had a tension headache today at work.
All we have to do is practice when symptoms arise, whenever they arise. If work is generally good, then there is nothing else to do but practice and also treat any analysis of all this as just another anxious thought.
I am on my recovery journey. I am starting slowly to have less symptoms. But now I get panicked when I am feeling ok. Why is that happening?
Treat it exactly the same way as the rest of your anxiety❤
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I went through the exact same thing. You've likely had high anxiety for some time, so it's only normal for things to feel weird when your symptoms decrease or dissipate. Keep going, it sounds like you're doing everything right! Well done :)
Spot on
Over the past few weeks I've tried deep reflection, daily meditation and emotional work. I'm just a layman with moderate anxiety, and this is just a conjecture, but over these weeks, and due to the things I'm doing, I've been entertaining the idea that specific thoughts and topics are not the causes of anxiety, but rather that our minds, when they are already in an anxious state, pick and choose certain topics to latch onto and imprint the emotional texture of anxiety on. This makes so, so much sense in that light. Perhaps the anxious state of the mind can be explained primarily through adrenaline... This would also help explain why, so often, anxious thoughts occur on account of vague things we have no say or control over (in practical, actionable terms). I'll be sure to take a look at some of Dr. Weekes' books and talk this through with my therapist. Thank you for this straightforward, thought-provoking video. Cheers!
Yes, you have summarised this well so enjoy the videos and the reading.
Thank you again. You always put me at ease.
You are so welcome
Do you need more support? Book your 60 or 30 min anxiety recovery coaching session here openchange.com.au/anxiety-coaching/
So how do I stop the adrenaline
We never try to stop it - we do this instead ruclips.net/video/WPYF8Qqzlpg/видео.htmlsi=AoE2Z6g3ruTWNJX3
Great advice. My anxiety is definitely circumstantial due to a major event . I just find it hard to accept that it has lasted going on eight months now. There have been definitely periods of relief as you confirmed. Should we not Think in terms of how long it’s taking?
Often once incident can trigger the first anxiety or panic attack, but in my experience most people already registered a lot of other underlying stress on their nervous system over a much longer period of time - this is something I discuss in more detail in coaching sessions to help them make sense of their journey.
That is extremely helpful. I’ve written it all down in my journal. I’m trying to recognize the in between times when I don’t have the adrenaline or anxiety in my stomach or throat. There are times of total relief and it seems that the high alert is shrinking. Great to hear this viewpoint for affirmation. Will be able to get back to normal activity ? because as of yet I’m not doing all the things I used to do.
Yes you will!
Wow that’s an eye-opener! How fascinating. It really rings true. It’s a bit like the chicken and the egg syndrome but having just experienced the physical adrenaline , I completely agree with you. I went to go get married and live in Ireland and it didn’t work out. It turned into a nightmare. I’ve been home eight months now in Vermont, very comfortable, very relaxed home but filled with anxiety. It’s not my thoughts it’s my body still fearing danger. I guess it’ll only take time.
Yes it takes time but it does get better and so I'm glad the video resonated with you.
Dare is based on the work of Claire Weekes. She had the answer to anxiety and how to treat it 60 years ago. She is on RUclips and her books are on Amazon.
Thank you Sam this is very helpful! You explain things very well.
You're very welcome!
I am struggling with a dysregulated nervesystem from 18 years of Effexor use. I am now in prolonged withdrawal. I used 6 months to taper down from 150mg to 0 but I am still struggling 5 months into recovery. And this is what I tell myself when I have waves of cortisol release. I am getting better week by week, but this takes TIME. and it is difficult not to fall into more anxiety because of all the weird happenings in my nervous system. Too much to write here, but it is one hell of a ride that I wouldn`t want on my worst enemy. It is getting better, though. First 3 months were hellish.
Great to hear you are on your journey to recovery and as you say we must be patient with time, as hard as that is sometimes.
This is a fantastic perspective!! Thoughts can be like "wild hogs" rushing at you. Meditation can be helpful here as well.
Absolutely - a lot my clients regularly use this meditation ruclips.net/video/5AM4TkupsRE/видео.htmlsi=70oWczxrfgXntAM2
After I ate a bucket of KFC I felt lonely depressed and anxious. I went and vomited it and instantly felt 100% fine sane and healthy.