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Pure Desire Ministries
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Educating and equipping churches to provide hope and freedom from sexual addiction through the development of healing ministries.
How To Heal From S*xual Abuse | Ep. 372
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In this episode Marnie Ferree, the founder of Bethesda Workshops, courageously shares her journey of healing from sexual abuse and addiction, offering hope and practical insights for anyone on a similar path. This powerful conversation highlights the importance of understanding your story, embracing God’s redemptive power, and finding support in the healing process.
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In this episode Marnie Ferree, the founder of Bethesda Workshops, courageously shares her journey of healing from sexual abuse and addiction, offering hope and practical insights for anyone on a similar path. This powerful conversation highlights the importance of understanding your story, embracing God’s redemptive power, and finding support in the healing process.
Check out our NEW PODCAST - www.youtube.com/@_unfilteredpodcast
Clips Channel: www.youtube.com/@PureDesire_Clips
Facebook: PureDesirePDMI
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Your Pastor Isn't The Expert On Everything
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REGISTER FOR SUMMIT 2024 NOW: puredesiresummit.com Check out our NEW PODCAST - www.youtube.com/@_unfilteredpodcast Clips Channel: www.youtube.com/@PureDesire_Clips Facebook: PureDesirePDMI Instagram: puredesirepdmi X (Twitter): puredesirepdmi Listen On: Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/74fKnylXoCOXjLqyksyX2a?si=fcb894e67f8240f4 Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple...
Is God Involved In Our Sexuality?
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Full Episode: REGISTER FOR SUMMIT 2024 NOW: puredesiresummit.com Check out our NEW PODCAST - www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast Clips Channel: www.youtube.com/@PureDesire_Clips Facebook: PureDesirePDMI Instagram: puredesirepdmi X (Twitter): puredesirepdmi Listen On: Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/74fKnylXoCOXjLqyksyX2a?si=fcb894e67f8240f4 Apple Podcasts: ...
These False Spiritual Beliefs Are Crippling Your Sexual Health
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Full Episode: REGISTER FOR SUMMIT 2024 NOW: puredesiresummit.com Check out our NEW PODCAST - www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast Clips Channel: www.youtube.com/@PureDesire_Clips Facebook: PureDesirePDMI Instagram: puredesirepdmi X (Twitter): puredesirepdmi Listen On: Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/74fKnylXoCOXjLqyksyX2a?si=fcb894e67f8240f4 Apple Podcasts: ...
Rethinking Sexuality In The Church | Ep. 371
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REGISTER FOR SUMMIT 2024 NOW: puredesiresummit.com Today, Nick and Rodney discuss powerful insights on how to approach the conversation around sexuality in the Church with love and grace. They emphasize the importance of sharing your personal journey without shame, offering support to church leaders, and fostering a more open and healing environment. Whether you're a church leader or a congrega...
How Can The Betrayed Heart Heal? | Ep. 370
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God has the ability to redeem even the darkest times. Dr. Steffens takes a deep dive into the healing and recovery process following betrayal-focused mostly on the betrayed partner but also on how the betrayer can help the process. You will be encouraged and gain hope for the future! There is a proven path and essential tools for healing and growth, when we invite God to do what only He can do:...
This Is The BIGGEST PROBLEM In The Church Today
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Register Now: puredesiresummit.com Check out our NEW PODCAST - www.youtube.com/@_UnfilteredPodcast Clips Channel: www.youtube.com/@PureDesire_Clips Facebook: PureDesirePDMI Instagram: puredesirepdmi X (Twitter): puredesirepdmi Listen On: Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/74fKnylXoCOXjLqyksyX2a?si=fcb894e67f8240f4 Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/...
How To Get From Isolation To Collaboration | Ep. 369
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How To Get From Isolation To Collaboration | Ep. 369
How To Teach Your Kids To Lean On God
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How To Teach Your Kids To Lean On God
Here's What NOT To Do During Discovery Of S*xual Addiction
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Here's What NOT To Do During Discovery Of S*xual Addiction
Did Your Spouse Recently Confess An Addiction? Watch This!
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Did Your Spouse Recently Confess An Addiction? Watch This!
Rebuilding Life After Discovery | Ep. 368
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Rebuilding Life After Discovery | Ep. 368
Stories Of Healing: Johnny & Vicki Greenfield | Ep. 367
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Stories Of Healing: Johnny & Vicki Greenfield | Ep. 367
Navigating Betrayal Triggers With Ashley Jameson | Ep. 366
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Navigating Betrayal Triggers With Ashley Jameson | Ep. 366
Fresh Data On P*rnography in The Church: A 2024 Study
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Fresh Data On P*rnography in The Church: A 2024 Study
Brand New Stats on P*rn in the Church (Special Announcement) | Ep. 365
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Brand New Stats on P*rn in the Church (Special Announcement) | Ep. 365
Repairing Relational Injury | Dr. Jake Porter | Ep. 364
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Repairing Relational Injury | Dr. Jake Porter | Ep. 364
The Hidden Dark Side Of Purity Culture | Ep. 363
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The Hidden Dark Side Of Purity Culture | Ep. 363
This Is How To STAY HEALTHY For The Summer | Ep. 362
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This Is How To STAY HEALTHY For The Summer | Ep. 362
What The Cyclone Of Addiction Is And How To Escape It | Ep. 361
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What The Cyclone Of Addiction Is And How To Escape It | Ep. 361
So What Is Edging? | Breaking Unhealthy Behaviors With Matt Dobschuetz | Ep. 360
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So What Is Edging? | Breaking Unhealthy Behaviors With Matt Dobschuetz | Ep. 360
The Secret To Parenting In A Hyper-Sexualized World | Ep. 359
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The Secret To Parenting In A Hyper-Sexualized World | Ep. 359
This Is The BEST RESOURCE For Single Women | Ep. 358
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This Is The BEST RESOURCE For Single Women | Ep. 358
The Newest Resource For Single Women | 'AUTHENTICALLY YOU'
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The Newest Resource For Single Women | 'AUTHENTICALLY YOU'
How SEPARATION Can Save Your Marriage | Ep. 357
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How SEPARATION Can Save Your Marriage | Ep. 357
Unlocking the Bible's Wisdom on Addiction | Ben Bennett | Ep. 356
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Unlocking the Bible's Wisdom on Addiction | Ben Bennett | Ep. 356
How Pornography Corrupts Your Mental Health | Ben Bennett | Ep. 355
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How Pornography Corrupts Your Mental Health | Ben Bennett | Ep. 355
The Secret To Healthy Communication | Ep. 354
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The Secret To Healthy Communication | Ep. 354
Healing is POSSIBLE | How To Fight Addiction With Your STORY
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Healing is POSSIBLE | How To Fight Addiction With Your STORY
How Superheroes Use Their Trauma To Overcome
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How Superheroes Use Their Trauma To Overcome
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This is good for pastors to watch❤❤❤
Wow! Never in a million years would it have occurred to me that "lust" was anything remotely good. However, Nick makes some excellent points. Thanks for posting this clip & giving me some food for thought.
Within definition of Spiritual is that it cannot be measured in a lab or it's not physical. Sex is a physical act that spiritual consequences. Pastors should learn Genesis with a Hebrew understanding and drop the Greek philosophy they learned at Seminary.
Fantastic Podcast with ideas ion how to bring up the subject of sexuality in the Church God's way. Thank you fir the great ideas and encouragement; and thanks foe the challenge.
Cool video
I love what you guys do and the information you put out there, but do not compare us to the animal kingdom and their sexual behaviors. We are made in the image of God. Animals are not. And your thoughts on lust are way off! It is not from God. 1 John 2:16
I am so glad to see this topic from the ministry. I have been saying this more and more this past year that, part of the problem we are seeing from the deep seeded plague of pornography in our culture and the rift between the LGBTQ community is not only the silence of the church on the issue of SEX but the ridicule, shame and judgment the church has targeted this issue with. The Church has not been willing to speak the Truth in Love concerning this topic to win lost souls to Christ. Sex is a gift from God but we have not been able to recognize that gift because of what we have to deal with in our singleness in order to arrive at Holy Matrimony. There definitely needs to be a paradigm shift and it starts with a conversation on a God-Ordained platform and it will begin to spread like Wildfire! JUST WATCH!!! I'm gearing up to be part of the conversation and help bring healing to the masses.
I am really confused why the church will talk about every other subject except something that is on the minds of every man. A EVERY MAN’S BATTLE. If the statistics are correct, that’s 65 to 75% of the men are having porn issues. And 45% of the leaders are, this is a cancer that is absolutely Destroying the church and marriages. This is called the sin of omission. It’s happening to me right now. I went to a sexuality seminar years ago, at a church and the leader asked the 300 guys attending. How many of you have masturbated this year? At least 90% raise their hand. The response from the leader. Well if you’re all doing it, let’s try to do it responsibly without porn. What do you think about this?
I couldn't disagree with that pastor more! Just because you asturbate without using porn doesn't make it right. In the White Book, it says "any form of sex with one's self or with partners other than the spouse is progressively addictive and destructive." So, unless you're mastubating as part of your sex life with your spouse, it's wrong.
This is wonderful. If we shame our kids and don’t teach them that God created sex for the unity of marriage then they will hide in shame their whole life. This world is full of sexual culture and someone else will teach them if we don’t. We must have a step ahead of the evil that surrounds us. Thank you Pure Desire and Rodney!!! ❤
But are they really given the space to be wounded and be acknowledged how they were wounded, or is their pain shoved back at them with the message of getting back with their partner?
God Created man in his imagine is given to us in the context of Man being the King of this world Just as God is King over everything. You Guys need some leasons from Jewish Rabbis before you start mis construing the Hebrew in Genesis to make into something sexual. No. Man and woman are different physical in sex is obvious. God says Man is created from Dust. Thats spiritual. MAN FEELS LIKE A NOTHING UNLESS HE IS GIVING AND WORKING. WOMAN WAS CREATED FROM MAN, SPIRITUALLY. SO WOMAN CAN'T UNDERSTAND THAT BECAUSE SHE KNOWS THAT SHE IS SOMETHING. SHE IS EITHER A 1 OR 10 BUT SHE ISN'T A NOTHING ON HER MIND. PLEASE STUDY THE HEBREW FIRST. DONT TRY TO SEXUALIZE EVERYTHING. 😊❤
He's not going to give us the stats?
GOD IS NOT SEXUAL SAYS THE BIBLE BECAUSE GOD IS SPIRIT AND SPIRITS DON'T HAVE SEX. THANK YOU NICK!! MAYBE JUST YOU SPEAK SOLO SO WE DONT HAVE SKIP THESE GUYS.
God created the clitoris. It is the only organ in a women’s body that is specifically designed for sexual pleasure. God created sex for GOOD. He’s not saying God is a sexual being or has sexual needs, but He is sexual. He designed it for the unity of marriage. I highly recommend the book “How to teach your kids about sex” In this digital world, we have to have a foot forward to fight against the sexual culture we live in. It’s better to teach that sex was designed by God for marriage rather than to shame every sexual thought we have.
This was a fantastic episode! So much great information! Thank you for helping us know how to better discuss this topic with our children. Thank you, Nick and Rodney, for all you do!
Exposure IS NOT unavoidable. That's stupid
Why did he part ways ???
I was looking forward to meeting Trevor at the summit. Hopefully his departure was amicable on both sides.
Great subject and episode. I am curious as well why they parted with Trevor. It seems so sudden.
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Hebrews 10:10
That sucks if his addiction was porn etc...to go through it a second time...smh
She is amazing! Thank you for this!! Will be seeking out more of her teachings for healing. Thank you, Pure Desire Ministry!!
Wow, so moving.
Sadly, the "bumper sticker" statements are some I've said to myself. You're right, whether we speak them to ourselves or we hear them from someone else, those statements only add to the pain.
Very true. I've told myself those lies a few too many times. And from others. It takes truth from God to see that this is not our fault!
Is also no ok to start an emotional connection in social media like TikTok or Instagram.. which old people men and women start.. no respect
I was so afraid of being lustful that I could barely look a woman in the eyes until I was in my mid 20s. This crap has ruined me.
A+ episode! Praise God!
Agree! There is so much more heartbreaking loss than the money wasted!! Deep agonizing heartbreaking loss!!! 😢
At least you admit it my parents never did
This is 🎯
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Trevor and Nick, you guys are awesome, too!
Thanks for watching!
Awesome, Rich!
We enjoyed so much of what he shared!
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I honestly love when yall start with something fun. I understand it often needs a more serious approach with some of the sensitive topics but it helps to feel connected when yall just talk for a few minutes. Great stuff guys!
If you don’t have time to watch this entire video, just watch the last three minutes.
Cool video
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Thanks Josh!!
Interesting and Amazing! Men in particular need to hear more about how Sex is not our Identity.
Thanks!
My husband doesn't think he's doing anything wrong. I see that he is. Its been 13 years of no change, not taking responsibility or admitting to his issues. I'm working on my healing, but it's difficult because I see no change from him. How can I make him see that he needs help?
I think there is a huge correlation between porn usage and divorce. I don't understand why this is not mentioned more or perhaps a study to show this correlation. Many marriages end because of "cheating" partners, I think the fuel that starts the thinking behavior is porn usage. My own marriage of 27 years ended partially because of his "fantasies" he wanted to experience with others.
I really struggle with how some folks make sex addiction or porn addiction so defining. It’s like it is the single most important thing about a person, especially a man. It’s such a huge, crushing weight that leads to hopelessness, not empowerment.
Sexual addiction can be one of the most destructive hardships in somebody's life, and recovery from a sexual addiction is vital towards pursuing overall health. Obviously, there are many other aspects to one's overall health, but we at Pure Desire are primarily focused on this one!
@@PureDesireMinistries I believe that there is a wonderful opportunity to balance the legitimate work that PDM does with the perspective that SA should never (can never) define a person’s true identity, and that while guilt is often deserved, shame itself (“I’m bad because of who I am”) is not.
I have no clue about what there referring to when they say Discovery. I don't get it neither 🤷🏻♀️
'Discovery' simply put, is the finding out of one's sexual addiction. 4:33 is when they begin defining it, if you'd like a more in depth description!
My 1st DDay was through my h's self disclosure. 2,5 yrs later and after tenth of thousands wasted on 'recovery', I found out that he never stopped acting out. Why the heck did he even disclose the first time?? This is so crazy making 😢
I'm so sorry.
So sorry to hear that! Thank you for your vulnerability. We highly recommend getting involved in a Betrayal And Beyond Group, if you haven't already. Here is a link if you'd like to learn more - puredesire.org/shop/betrayal-beyond-kit/
Thank you so much. I finally feel like maybe my Therapist isn’t trying to introduce me to pagan thoughts that will overturn my faith
I'm a man and I have sexual trauma. I didn’t realize until now but my ex sexually abused me. It feels awful and I blamed myself for a long time but I realize I've done nothing wrong.
That sounds like a huge breakthrough! Have you been able to get plugged in to a group to help process this further? Here's a link if you'd like to learn more about that. We wish you the best on your recovery journey my man! thanks for watching. puredesire.org/shop/seven-pillars-of-freedom-kit/
This is possibly one of the most enlightening talks that Pure Desire has put together which shows me how thankful I am that God has helped me get out of this harmful teaching. "Doesn't matter how long we are in recovery, we're going to continue to uncover nuance of our shame, of our past right... if we don't have the perspective to do that, then we're leaving ourselves vulnerable." What a scary and disheartening statement. I just can't see Jesus (probably because he doesn't say anything of the sort in the gospels) saying that to the woman at the well, or the woman caught in adultery. "Why don't you keep evaluating your past shame - otherwise you may end up doing it again!" I'll let the reader find out what Jesus really says in those instances. When recovery is just a never ending attempt to avoid a behavior/substance by evaluating past trauma, using will power, putting up boundaries, while still maintaining your belief that that behavior/substance has value/power over your life - then you will never be free. Blending addiction/recovery beliefs with the gospel is dangerous and ultimately neuters the freedom Christ has already given us. For those interested - I can't emphasis how crucial the Freedom Model was for me to understand I'm not a slave to sin or what I considered my addiction. God is so Good!
I find it interesting that you use the term "attraction." instead of "orientation." That use seems to be a fundamental distinction you are attempting to make. . While I did not listen to your entire podcast, It seem that you are denying that individuals come by their orientation honestly, by nature. Orientation would be better based on science rather than religious beliefs. Not accepting a person's orientation is very disrespectful of the person. If you cannot accept a person's orientation, you cannot be a friend to that person, , simply because you are always judging and I believe Jesus advised us not to judge.
The orientation theory is does not comfortably fit the reality that some people develop same sex attraction later in life after having experienced exclusively heterosexual attraction for some time. Sexuality is malleable. It's an inconvenient truth that queer activists and thinkers don't often like to state loudly because it interferes with the "Born that Way" anthem that helped by them mainstream acceptance. It is not a good thing that sexually should be so malleable and vulnerable to injury, but that is the reality. Just as the mind itself can break, so too can sexuality.