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I am a bad person, no matter how much I try to fix myself I cannot. I fight with my mother, call her things I never want to, and I end up crying myself to sleep. I fucking myself I don’t understand why I’m so rude to my mom, she’s never done anything wrong she’s been the best she can be. I don’t have the guts to tell her I’m sorry but she always accepts me. Why am I so fucking useless

i’m a bad friend and i feel so bad

Aaa, not convincing. Well, dogs do not have a mind, so they act according to their instinct. I am a human, I have a mind, and I am supposed to be able to adapt. Thank you, I appreciate this, i still hate myself, i'm the worst

Thank you for this

Society is good at making humans feel failure, rejection and shame. Which causes me to feel like a bad person. I have struggled with this for years and it got really bad for me. I started hating a good job, I really hated it. I ended up making a very poor choice outside of work that got brought in and hurt me. It mad eme feel shame and like such a bad person. I am currently struggling with it, but also realize my negative thoughts caused this. I never wanted to do anything bad, it just happened, like I had no control. Now I am rebuilding and focusing on myself, otherwise I can't be healthy.

i looked up "why im not a horrible person" in hopes of finding something like this because i felt bad for not getting someone a birthday gift when they had given me a playlist for my birthday. they had payed attention to me enough to make a playlist for me that i love. they told me the songs reminded them of me. i didnt know what to give to them for their birthday. we've kind of drifted apart but i want to be friends with them again. anyway, sorry for the rant, i felt like a horrible person and i got what i needed. thank you so much for reminding me that im not a horrible person, my mind was just trained to think i was

I think there's good intention in this logic, but when we are comparing ourselves to an animal, and we say that we shouldn't be mad at an animal for X, it's the owner's fault - we ARE the animal AND the owner. People who are mad about who they are are mad at themselves for letting themselves down with improper life choices or thought, and I think this point is missed.

Am I a bad person for this? I'm very very tempted to tell a high-ranking chef at my job that I almost got hit by a car. She'd given me what I felt was an unfair lecture. She corrected me on my mistakes in the office but _not_ in a sensitive, respectful way. And then the next day, she asks "How are you?" Like, WTF? If she actually thought I would say good after the day before, she's not sane. Now, still feeling hurt and disrespected, I think the reason I want her to hear how I almost di ed is because....I'm gonna say it...I think she kind of deserves it. I wouldn't fault someone for insulting and hurting me if I did it to them first. Heck, if someone I disliked almost DlED, I would stop thinking badly of them and appreciate them a lot. That's another reason to tell the chef I could've been kiIIed. Does my spite make me a bad person? I'm not even writing the context to the whole story, for the sake of avoiding length and repelling readers.

But some people are bad ppl. I live in a coubtry were ppl are deeply racists. Are they good people?

I think that even if you're here watching this video it means you have a conscience and bad people certainly don't have that.

I'm stuck in the middle. I wouldn't say that I'm completely a bad person. I'd say I have bad qualities. In the past I've been unaware of my ignorance and ego. But now that I'm aware about it, I can't seem to change it. I feel like I'm pretending. I plan of Doing something good but automatically end up doing something else. It's like a robot that has gained Conciousness but can only act according to howit's programmed. I just don't know anymore.

This is bull crap I’m sorry but this is just deflection and putting the blame on the “environment” making it acceptable to be and become a product of your environment, example both of my parents dropped out of high school and are convinced felons therefore I must become one also and that’ll be okay because it’s the environments fault I’m sorry just my opinion

I feel like I'm a POS. Especially when I try rk sing. Everyone tells me I'm good, but then I just do it and feel so sh*t about myself and I hate my voice. It hurts because I want to do something with singing. I can't even sing actual karaoke or to music because my voice gets stiff, flat and shake. I start shaking really bad, tense up and start freaking out, just at the sound of my voice.

This is the best doctor ever

Thanks bro

Genius analogy! Especially in regards to our children, given a clean slate at birth… what happens is up to us no matter where they begin.

Doing a lot of review of my life right now. I conclude that I was a bad person many times. Feel it was brought on by drugs alcohol and probably mental issues. Now it’s too late to make things right with all the ppl I’ve hurt. So I know I will ask god for mercy and there’s nothing else to do. I’m almost at the end of the road.

Being a horrible person has nothing to do with being good or bad. Good and evil don't exist . Only perspective exists . If you put 5 minutes of thought in to that you will understand, and if you put as much thought as I have in to the idea you understand humans as a whole . I can write a billion words in a comment section that no one will ever read, but I won't. Unless someone asks me to explain lmao. I used to believe all humans are evil but I realized they are just self serving. Peoole join together over the perspective they share

Nah I still am a bad person. I simply want it to end you know. Don't want this any longer.

My family is Muslims and they found out that I am a gay, I feel so sick because they told me "You have disfigured the family and brought shame" I'm really disappointed that they don't like me and I can't change me, no buddy will love me.

its really hard not to think of yourself as a bad person when the people you used to consider extremely close friends have turned against you, Im used to not being liked by most people, ether because of my interests, the way i look ect.. i dont care about there opinions because i recognize that i dont need there good opinions, everyone has opinions and it doesn't make them true. but im not used to very close friends doing that, well EX friends i should say. il stop beating around the bush, i basically had my first ever friendship breakup recently and it feels like ive been trapped in a box. it doesnt matter what i do anymore good or bad im always going to be viewed as a horrible person because everyone likes my ex friends thus backs them up and ive had to rebuild my social life from the ground up. ive tried pretending as if i like being viewed as the bad guy and just revel in it but its honestly made me feel worse. long story short thank you this helped me allot.

I know no one will read this( if you are then thank you) but I need to let it go ans tell someone,I was a horrible person,I hurted people that I wanted to become friends ans did something horrible to a best friend( we were a toxic friendship,she was always forgetting me to hang out with other people,and I became tired of running after her) and exaggerated a truth and she went to my house to see if I was okay( I was cutting myself at the time but it was not too deep and I told that I was at the hospital,stupid ideia but we had a fight before this and she said I was never there so I wanted revenge and did this)I'm not proud of myself,I wanted to ask for forgiveness for so long but I don't think I deserved it,like any other think I won in my life,I shut myself in a fansty world and forgot to live my life because of a mistake of my 13-14 year self,I want to get out ot this hell,is been 6 years and I am still in my fantasy world,unable to live,the ironic is that it made me cut myself deeper and harder(I don't do that anymore) If you read this confession until the end,thank you,I am trying to change and don't become my 13 year old self,and sometimes succeeding

I'm a digusting creature.

Hi Dr. Lifton. I understand the thought expiriment but are there not exceptions? Exempli gratia, chocolate has been proven healthy for humans in moderation yet lethal to dogs.

I'm gonna cry... I don't work hard towards my goals.. I stay at my mom's house... I hate myself... It's just something stops me from working hard.. Idk man... I would rather die than living my whole life with my mom's support... I'm a looser... I don't even have the courage to kill myself.. It would have been better if I wasn't even born 💔

A lot of people tell me I’m a bad person sometimes I say things that I don’t mean to some people that take it the wrong way. It’s not me feeling it also it’s people telling me I am. I don’t feel like making friends anymore because I feel I’m going to say something they won’t like and I already have enough enemies 😞

I’m just such a bad person. I’m so rude to everyone. I think I own everybody. I could be laughing with them for a second and the next I couldn’t hate them more.

Fear is bad 😇

I’m a horrible person. I don’t even know what higher power thought it was a good idea to give me life.

I want to kill myself

I learned that I'm not my niece this when I'm surrounded by mean people

I love you man for telling me this truth - i sort of just rewatch this video a few times to reassure myself. Thankyou

Thank you, this, this really helped...

My friends and my family always say bad stuff about me and my behaviour so sometimes I think that I might be doing something wrong and that I am a bad person as they say. But how am I going to get better? Maybe that's who I really am, a bad person.

Why do I feel this way. I just want to feel normal

If I’m not a bad person, then why do I possess so many behaviors that are just objectively bad? I don’t do bad things, but I just don’t do things for other people altogether. And even if I’m not a bad person, I’m definitely not a good one.

i understand what your saying I just truly don’t ever beleive that I will be a good person. I always end up hurting the ones i love most and push people away FOR NO REASON. I do it over and over again thinking sometimes it’ll be different but it never is. I always hurt them, and I don’t know how to change it

thank you so much for this!

I came to the point that I searched for this because my mom always tells me that I am a bad person

I wanna love my self but it just seems like everyone hates me … like I got cut off by all my long time friends for a little mistake, I met a girl n had my first sexual relationship with her n it made me happy but it all ended horribly n she just ended up thinking I’m a horrible person just like everyone else has. Even after I’ve told her ab what I’ve went thru n stuff she still try’s to make it seem like I’m the bad one even when she was the one who constantly played with my feelings and emotions, it just seems like nobody likes me n it’s cuz of me idk how to escape this I wish I just had one person to care ab me, n that person who used to do that pretty much just told me she thinks I’m worse then everyone else.

It's 11:5 and I am feeling like I am the worst person in the world and I want to die😔my mind only thinking about death 💔🙂

There are no immoral people, only immoral actions. And I think it's important the kind of argument you give in order to resolve the intellectual contradiction with two humans acting very differently. The dog analogy is good illustration of how a person's actions might not be at all reflective of their potential. I also believe that an absurd love of your present self and your current decisions is always justified and is a good way to function. However, just as there is a problem with blaming immoral actions on one's fundamental nature, there is also a problem with blaming immoral actions on one's circumstances. In fact, it's the same problem: they aren't what's bad. The actions are what's bad. You are the origin of your actions. But you aren't going to defeat causality or determinism. There is no point in trying to understand yourself as an automaton, or an object, or an animal. The point is in understanding the actions themselves. Part of loving yourself is giving equal weight to the "desirable" and "undesirable" parts of yourself. If you hear "oh, don't worry, you were only doing this undesirable thing because you were exposed to the unfortunate environment of hearing the fantastic explanation of why it's great" then your first response shouldn't be "Oh damn, better make sure I never hear or think about that fantastic explanation ever again, I'm sure that will help resolve my internal conflict!" The fact is that everyone does what they do for a reason. Not a reason like their environment, not a reason like their nature, a rational reason. The key is not to suppress that rationality, but to discover the truth, to resolve the conflict between a fantastic argument existing for performing an "undesirable" action. Often the action is undesirable in a completely different sense than it is desirable; there is no contradiction. And understanding the framing of your two perspectives is the key to resolving them.

what if you are not in a bad environment but are still a bad person?

In my Brain it’s either I’m a bad human who should die ... or I’m a good human with good intentions not better than anybody does that mean I’m a bad person or a narcissist?

I hate the way that I think about other people! I don’t want to blame anybody for my actions anymore! I want to take accountability! It’s hard I been having flash backs of my sister locking me in a basement and laughing at me while I’m crying and said she’d kill my mom and me while we sleep if I said anything I still don’t even believe it while I type it.. I keep doubting myself.. She manipulated my mother for my whole life and made my whole family hate me.. so much of everything is a blur , I keep blaming myself for what I went through.. I surrounded myself with friends that were just as jealous and selfish as her that used me and only hung with me when I had money or something to offer. And it seems like I’m still blaming everybody else. I don’t want To be like this.. I I’ve become this hateful horrible person !

I'd like to thank my mom for bringing me here today. With that one lecture she gave me a close to 2 years ago. I didn't think it would stick with me for this long but I've been stuck on the idea that I'm this horrible unlikable toxic and annoying person. And I hate myself for it

Humans are not any type of an animal.

found this while searching how to cope with being a horrible person

I dont even think I'm a bad person I know I'm a bad person

Thank you! Thank you!