Sex Ed for You
Sex Ed for You
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Demotions & Emotions: What It Looks Like to Celebrate Humanity in the Workplace
SEX ED PREP FOR PARENTS COURSE IS NOW LIVE: sexedforyou.com/sex-ed-prep-for-parents
In this episode, we’re letting you in on the inner workings of Sex Ed For You… hint: a lot’s changing! Plus, some updates about our very own version of the bachelorette in the most coded language ever, Holland’s love life ;) Hope y’all enjoy. H
02:08 Holland’s Job Title is Changing!
08:52 Holland’s Contract
13:36 The Root of The Issue- Finance
15:52 Tying in the Wheel of Consent
22:05 The Week of Chaos
32:47 Accident vs Violation
34:20 How & Why We Do Work Differently (feat tears)
39:00 Love Life Updates
41:50 So He’s A Cookie… ?
46:00 What Happens When Values Aren’t Aligned
50:05 We Want What’s Best For YOU!!!!
53:00 ...
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Видео

Bene-dick-ed & Bridgerton: Why the World Needs Romance
Просмотров 291День назад
This episode is a sequel to episode 30; where we talked about all the erotic themes of Bridgerton. In this part, Lauren and I give our high level reviews and critiques of the third season of the show, highlighting some areas where the portrayal of intimacy could really use some improvement. Lauren gives us an in-depth look at the process of arousal and why we should NEVER be saying phrases such...
Submission in Partnership, The Bachelor, and Polyamory
Просмотров 20914 дней назад
In this episode of Sex Ed For You: Where Research Meets Reality, Lauren and I start off by watching a recent reel post by Madion Prewitt, a former contestant on the Bachelor. This video started a conversation on submission within partnership, division of labor in households, and the importance of respecting your partner. We also dive into why the Bachelor/ette dating shows not only don’t work, ...
You're Either Getting Married or Breaking Up
Просмотров 15321 день назад
Last week, we left off on a cliffhanger. Today, we’re back with the answers you so desperately desire. Listen to this episode to get the inside scoop on what it means to date authentically and align your longings on a first date! Lauren and I consider how much I’ve changed since moving to VA, and how that has deeply affected my dating practices. We give you some great advice about dating authen...
How to Flirt: Creating Your Toolkit
Просмотров 358Месяц назад
In this episode, Lauren and I tackle the age old question, how should you flirt? What even is flirting? What’s the purpose of flirting? Pulling on our favorite resources, Pleasure Activism, Dr. Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent, and my personal life (lol), we create a toolkit for you to use when flirting out in the wild. ;) Love Always, H RESOURCES Sexual Values Download CODE FLIRT sexedforyou.co...
Should You Stay in Your Relationship?
Просмотров 412Месяц назад
This episode was recorded to help those of you who are currently in a relationship and considering long-term commitment: is this the relationship for you? DOWNLOAD THE PARTNERSHIP CONSIDERATION PROMPTS HERE! Code: NUANCE sexedforyou.com/shop/p/partnership-consideration-journal-prompts 33:18 Dr. Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent and our stick people 34:36 Lauren’s Car Keys 39:30 Are you the fulles...
Ogles & Age Gaps: Navigating Nuanced Relationships & Streetside Conversation
Просмотров 86Месяц назад
This episode tackles topics like age gap romance real-life applications and what conversations we think should preempt relationship attempts. Lauren and I discuss the importance of individuation, developmental age markers, and aligning your longings with potential partners. We give light to the fun aspects of fantasy that enrapt many people fascinated with a person who’s much older or younger t...
Grief & Goodbyes: How to Say Farewell to Pets & Exes
Просмотров 56Месяц назад
TW: PET LOSS If you follow us on socials, you probably already know that my (Holland’s) dog, Ollie, passed away recently. This episode was filmed a couple days after we held his funeral. We talk about the funeral, grief, and how we’re all adapting to a new life without our little best friend. We also touch on having funerals/goodbye rituals for past situationships and how that can be really ben...
Erotic Themes of Bridgerton: S1 & S2
Просмотров 1802 месяца назад
Y’all, Lauren and I RANNN to the podcast chairs as soon as Bridgerton Season 3 came out. No S3 spoilers here, but if you haven’t seen S1 & S2 then you should probably watch those first. ;) This conversation was all about the erotic themes of the Bridgerton love stories we’ve seen so far: Daphne Simon, Anthony Kate, and the long awaited Pen Colin. Lauren and I talk through our own favorite scene...
How to Date in Your 20s: The Ins and Outs of Casual Dating and Long-Term Partnership
Просмотров 782 месяца назад
Our elaborate & nuanced response to the question: should you date long-term, monogamously, or should you casually date in your 20s? Resources: Polysecure: amzn.to/3WuQWY1 Ethical slut: amzn.to/44n2s9J Sex at dawn: amzn.to/3WqLHbM Dr Caroline Leaf: drleaf.com/ Adrienne Maree Brown, Pleasure Activism: amzn.to/4b3f1cS Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! www.sexedforyou.com/freeco...
Conversations About Consent
Просмотров 352 месяца назад
This episode starts off with our quick anecdote to one of our listeners who said they don’t like our new intro: WE SEE YOU, truly! & say, pls feel free to skip it! This sets up the most amazing conversation about consent. I (Holland) found a Reddit post the other day written by a father about his daughter disclosing her discomfort around an adult in her life. This conversation is nuanced in so ...
To Choose or Not to Choose: Learning the Art of Choice in Adulthood
Просмотров 1823 месяца назад
This episode is about the importance of learning the art of choice. We sat down for this episode with no particular topic in mind and out came this conversation about how the lack of autonomy and choice making skills in adolescence deeply affect your ability to choose later in life. We empower listeners (and ourselves) to make cognizant decisions about who we surround ourselves with and to crit...
Navigating Fantasy: The Harsh Truths, Pleasures, and Obstacles of Embracing the Erotic Mind
Просмотров 763 месяца назад
In this episode, we draw parallels between the iconic One Tree Hill marriage and the intricacies of harmful sexual behaviors, shedding light on hidden misogyny within anti-porn rhetoric. We confront the phenomenon of women pitted against women and the all-too-common expectation of male failure. While also honoring the harm that trust and deceit play in this conversation. We discuss the importan...
Ex-Boyfriends & Ex-Religions
Просмотров 2403 месяца назад
TW: Sexual Assault To start this episode I gave a much-anticipated recap of my weekend to Lauren, so y’all could see her very hilarious reactions to my antics and analyses of a chaotic party that I attended. Then, you get to hear the story of how my upbringing in Reformed Presbyterianism is quite different from Lauren’s. I talk about how it affected my values and my approach to early life and w...
Jesus Jizz
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Jesus Jizz
The Chaos of Reality
Просмотров 884 месяца назад
The Chaos of Reality
Embracing Seasonal Growth
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Embracing Seasonal Growth
The Breakup Breakdown
Просмотров 1054 месяца назад
The Breakup Breakdown
WTF is SEFY's Dating Policy?
Просмотров 474 месяца назад
WTF is SEFY's Dating Policy?
The Bisexual Agenda
Просмотров 1155 месяцев назад
The Bisexual Agenda
Want to Want More Sex?
Просмотров 1925 месяцев назад
Want to Want More Sex?
New York, New York!
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New York, New York!
Episode 16: Sexual Compatibility
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Episode 16: Sexual Compatibility
Episode 15: The Internet + Sex
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Episode 15: The Internet Sex
Episode 14: Holiday Hysterics Pt 2
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Episode 14: Holiday Hysterics Pt 2
Episode 13: Hometown Hoe-Downs
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Episode 13: Hometown Hoe-Downs
Episode 12: Sexy Santa
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Episode 12: Sexy Santa
Episode 11: Stop the Stigma
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Episode 11: Stop the Stigma
Episode 10: Lines in the Sand
Просмотров 547 месяцев назад
Episode 10: Lines in the Sand
Episode 9: Dating a Dog
Просмотров 627 месяцев назад
Episode 9: Dating a Dog

Комментарии

  • @soundmind174
    @soundmind174 11 дней назад

    Love this video! Where can I find the coverage of Bridgerton Season 2?

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 4 дня назад

      Here you go!! ruclips.net/video/sdahjdyE9io/видео.html

  • @yaniquedickson8276
    @yaniquedickson8276 11 дней назад

    I died at "I was trying to come off as bookish" 😂

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 4 дня назад

      We love H's honesty!!!!! hahahah

  • @pierrecamus
    @pierrecamus 12 дней назад

    This Videocast is so healthy, pleasure affirming, and educational. Great work.

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 4 дня назад

      This means the WORLD to us! Thank you!

  • @chad6779
    @chad6779 20 дней назад

    Love the topic and conversation. You guys are the best!

  • @juliasansone6211
    @juliasansone6211 27 дней назад

    Omg this made me cry. Thank you! ❤

  • @SuperMar10GalaxyBro
    @SuperMar10GalaxyBro Месяц назад

    Much needed!! Saving this for reference, thank you!! 😊 🎉

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 20 дней назад

      Yay!! So glad to be helpful 🤍

  • @chad6779
    @chad6779 Месяц назад

    I really like this content! So accessible and real

  • @remiglogorski9546
    @remiglogorski9546 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤👍👍👍

  • @pierrecamus
    @pierrecamus 2 месяца назад

    This is such an informative and interesting channel. Well done.

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou Месяц назад

      Thank you so much!! We really appreciate that <3

  • @sunnyprasad7437
    @sunnyprasad7437 2 месяца назад

    I feel less confidence when sex toys are there for vulva owners because I didn’t find sex toys for penis owners. Why is this gap? If inclusiveness sex education knowledge would have been imparted, sex toys for both sexualities would have been addressed on the same page.

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 4 дня назад

      We argree! Working on it!! Thanks for your feedback!

  • @revmark715
    @revmark715 3 месяца назад

    Do you pay your intern or has Lincoln freed the slaves.

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 4 дня назад

      Great question! We believe in compensating for work. Our intern's contract was carefully negotiated between all parties so that they felt they were gaining value from the experience. All that said, it was purposefully a short contract because we do not believe in unpaid labor.

  • @gretchenwells1950
    @gretchenwells1950 3 месяца назад

    This has been such an amazing experience to listen to! As somebody who is starting their journey into sexual wellness education this podcast has been incredible! Not only to help ease some of the nerves of starting in this industry, by listening to your stories, and your experiences and your views, but also as a person being able to hear experiences that I can relate to day-to-day where “ research meets reality” is absolutely beautiful. Thank you so much for what you do!

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 3 месяца назад

      This means the world to us, Gretchen. Thank you so much for listening. We are so grateful that our stories, experiences, and research are helpful to you and so many others like you! We couldn't do this without YOU!! SO much love, Holland <3

  • @tracereraser7711
    @tracereraser7711 5 месяцев назад

    So needed this right now! Thank you for sharing your time and resources ❤ will be sharing with my girls!!

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 5 месяцев назад

      Ah! So happy to hear that & glad you enjoyed it! :)

  • @exploreyourdreamlife
    @exploreyourdreamlife 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for making this video on sexual compatibility in couples. Any tips on handling different sex drives in couples? I’m impressed, I liked this video and subscribed!

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the comment! We're glad you enjoyed! We chat about sex "drive" in many of the episodes, but we'll absolutely make a video dedicated to this!

  • @SuperMar10GalaxyBro
    @SuperMar10GalaxyBro 8 месяцев назад

    Like the encouragement and that fresh way to view enoughness ❤🎉

  • @marciagomes3306
    @marciagomes3306 9 месяцев назад

    True that my sista

  • @Ranger1200
    @Ranger1200 9 месяцев назад

    Resonated with me. Retiring in a month. Need a walk about but where?

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 9 месяцев назад

      Which one did you need most? Silence, solitude, or stillness?

  • @disco4535
    @disco4535 9 месяцев назад

    Im thankful for women like this. So many homeless cats adopted, no man getting hitched to this. Win win

  • @Dorothyredshz
    @Dorothyredshz 9 месяцев назад

    Yes !!!!!

  • @curtisfinckel6833
    @curtisfinckel6833 9 месяцев назад

    No offense to her, I would never date her to be on her own

  • @rarelyaccurate6252
    @rarelyaccurate6252 9 месяцев назад

    Lots of masturbation by this one. 😂

  • @RPGMelodySage
    @RPGMelodySage 9 месяцев назад

    Yes!!!! 🎉🎉😊

  • @matthewsmith8999
    @matthewsmith8999 9 месяцев назад

    And, when us men think or act like this it's not the same meaning because there is something wrong with us is womens eyes.

  • @ShakaarGaleed
    @ShakaarGaleed 9 месяцев назад

    Hey, I feel this. I'm in this very mindset, even as a man. I've just gotten so over the dating scene that being alone gives me more pleasure than trying to please someone else...and failing. Whether because the goal posts get moved arbitrarily or because the person I'm trying to please just isn't worth the time or effort.

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou 9 месяцев назад

      exactly! way to take care of yourself!

  • @iHUNTdeadThings
    @iHUNTdeadThings 9 месяцев назад

    This is one if the dumbest proclamations I have ever heard.

  • @shermanwilliams668
    @shermanwilliams668 9 месяцев назад

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 She being funny right ? 😂😂😂😂

  • @adroitclips1695
    @adroitclips1695 9 месяцев назад

    I think this means you respect yourself and why waste time with someone who isn’t interesting to you. The competition is hard for some people and others find it easy. I know people that couldn’t last a week with themselves.

  • @rubentapia3298
    @rubentapia3298 9 месяцев назад

    Ok.......

  • @jeremygoddard6752
    @jeremygoddard6752 9 месяцев назад

    BIG OLE’ red flag 🤣😂😊

  • @noah6416
    @noah6416 9 месяцев назад

    Wtf 😂

  • @lyndseyeshelman5936
    @lyndseyeshelman5936 9 месяцев назад

    🎉🎉 Congrats!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @RichardG-ee4vs
    @RichardG-ee4vs 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks for this, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.

  • @Melvin-ky8yy
    @Melvin-ky8yy 9 месяцев назад

    Great job! It's thrilling to make her eyes roll back while she uncontrollably quivers with pleasure, I went with what I mentioned last week and now she can’t have enough. I did it go’ogling the latest by Merle Winestol and now she’s the one dragging me back for more lol.

  • @hollandbankston195
    @hollandbankston195 Год назад

    Love this!! :)

  • @DrWoofOfficial
    @DrWoofOfficial Год назад

    Have some respect for your sisters. They’re called WOMEN! Remember that word when it had a definition?

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou Год назад

      We use inclusive language at Sex Ed For You to ensure that everyone feels welcome here. We understand that while some vulva-owners do identify as women, not all do! Thank you for watching. <3 Holland the intern

    • @DrWoofOfficial
      @DrWoofOfficial Год назад

      @@sexedforyou could you please tell me the appropriate term for a man. also, i think saying female is less dehumanising than vulva owner there are plenty of women who are offended by being called “vulva owner” which means it is an exclusive term

    • @sexedforyou
      @sexedforyou Год назад

      @@DrWoofOfficial you are welcome to your opinion and we support your values! On our channel we will use the terms we feel are most welcoming. Feel free to follow pages that support your ethics!

    • @DrWoofOfficial
      @DrWoofOfficial Год назад

      @@sexedforyou yeah sure but i just wanna know why a woman being offended by these terms is any less important than a transwoman feeling offended by a term. majority of women personally identify as women. isn’t it offensive to misidentify someone?

  • @jjtomlin1453
    @jjtomlin1453 Год назад

    Opening with “there goes the clitoris” 😂

  • @kristinsalvia
    @kristinsalvia Год назад

    I wish i would have had this content when i was a teenager!

  • @kristinsalvia
    @kristinsalvia Год назад

    ❤❤❤