A victim of bullying will remember being bullied because it was a core, traumatic event. Bullies don't remember because for them, it was just a Wednesday.
Yes, and then if their victims confront them about it and go to someone in a position of authority to hold said bully accountable, the bully interprets _that_ as abusive, as though _they're_ the victim of bullying. Unfortunately I deal with that in the form of my middle-aged landlord, who is shamelessly narcissistic and incapable of taking any responsibility or accountability.
FR. I finished HS in 2008. I still remember when I was 13 and a boy empty the bin in my head. I remember every single mean thing he did to me. I’m f* 33 and still remember it.
“The same time Amber was bullying me, she was in an anti-bullying campaign” made me GAG bc that’s what exactly the popular/mean girls in my school did as well. They lack self awareness. 🙄
This one used to bully me and kids who were in special ed when I found out she was a teacher at the local elementary school as a special ed teacher I was livid like what the heck maybe if I paid her she wouldn't have been such a b to me.
They’re actually HIGHLY self aware. A lot of times kids like that use extracurriculars like anti bullying campaigns and charity work to make themselves look less suspicious. It’s a cover up because they know teachers and other authorities aren’t going to look into any accusations of them being bullies if they put up that “good person” image so they get away with more stuff that way.
A lot of bullies think it’s just a joke as long as it’s funny to them. This is why it’s important to teach kids to listen to others and respect their privacy
See these bullies get older and they run into someone whose not going for their 💩 ...and its not always physical ...ik a person who sued her bully who tried it as an adult...eminem's bully tried suing and lost ... so they get theirs if they dont change
As much as I'd like to believe they get their karma, that's not always the case. Unfortunately, sometimes they grow up, have kids & just bully them while being nice to everyone else...ask my mom how i know lol. I used to think or hope that everyone grew out of it but I think anyone that has gone to a church or has left hs & started working should've realized by now that there's plenty of 30, 40, & even 50 year old bullies. (To clarify-not blaming the church bc bible makes it clear its gods job to judge, not us imperfect humans, but theres always that one person who thinks they can do his job better for him🙄)
I used to be that way. I thought as long as it was SUPPOSED to be a joke that i could say anything and other people didnt have the right to be hurt. It took a long time to realize that my intent to be funny wasnt the only thing to consider.
The sexual content between her and her mother is mind boggling! Like what if that was a dad with his daughter? There would be such an outcry about the parent being a paedophile and an abuser. Makes the fact that the mother was involved with explicit content involving other children so much worse too.
I'm gonna leave this here before the "okay but that doesn't make the bullying okay!" comments lol. People can't really understand that you don't have to justify everything a person does to empathize with them.
The "i couldn't have done this because in reality, i too am a victim. In fact i am the only victim" tactic. It always fails yet it never leaves the meta
Right like I don’t doubt that she was a victim of some of the stuff she was saying maybe not for the reasons that she thought. She still was the bully herself and creating other victims who were victims of herself
There's so much "C.P." going around for these (what were) young teenagers. One of then said she was 13 y.o. with a 19 y.o. guy. Is this normal? For woman to be such wh*res at a young age and have s** tapes leaked of then at 13. I remember in middle school there we re a lot of pictures of girls doing stuff at about 13-12 years old. If I have a daughter... I hope I don't.
As a bullied person in middle school I remember their faces and I remember their words. They don't remember me even when I pass them by at the mall or in public. We remember, bullies do not.
I was a middle-school bully too. there's no excuse but at the time my parents were going through a divorce, my dad abandoned me, my sister bullied me and my brother used to beat me. I took out the overwhelming emotions the only way my juvenile mind comprehended feeling better, and that was hurting people with my words. the girl I bullied was overweight and an easy target. when I went to high school, I had an epiphany over the summer. I confronted myself in an existential way and I knew I didn't want to be that kind of person anymore. I apologized to the girl I bullied at the start of that year, and even though she didn't have to accept or understand, she did. because she is amazing. anyway we became best friends. I'm talking sleepovers every week, working together, playing video games and watching anime. if it wasn't for her I never would've met my husband. she has been my best friend for 15 years now and was my maid of honour at my wedding. I can't imagine my life without her. we always quote the KungFu Panda "A bully turned friend is friend to the end". in the situation of Amber, instead of confronting her behaviour and feeling empathy for others, she hasn't had a catalyst for the change. she is still a bully, and is using classic methods like becoming the victim and justifying. she is lying to herself instead of owning up and showing her growth.
Glad to hear ya'll ended up having a beautiful friendship. Proud of you for apologizing to her & glad for such a wholesome outcome. Yeah, I agree that in Amber's case the lack of empathy is obvious.
Thank you for sharing this. I know it must’ve been really hard for you to confront your victim, but that showed a lot of bravery and I am happy that she chose to forgive you.
This Amber girl gave the classic typical bully response. The twisting the situation to where they’re the victim and deflecting and victim blaming. She acts just like one would expect a bully to react
they all had mutual beef and they are not saying what they did to her. its the classic standing up for your self. you gtting bullied at school but when you fight back only you get in troubled. yeah if thses kids where mean to her, she would be mean back
Yall are forgetting that acting exists and some people hide their sadness better than others some people will train themselves to not react sadly. And appearance and vocabulary are not things that apply to a bully I do think she is the bully but not for the reasons yall are bringing up
It was a lot easier for them to do that because the other girl went to a different school. Which honestly makes her bullying even worse, like she literally had to go out of her way to walk over to a different school to make fun of a younger child
Mine didnt care and were racist toward me and punished ME and only me when i would defend myself saying ‘you should just ignore them’’ ignore getting beat up by multiple kids and some older than me? Anyway sorry for making this about me and also for the grammar error my first language is french
@@Doctrinaaaathe people who said that, i wonder if they're also just going to ignore and do nothing when u beat them up right then and there for saying that. these people truly are lost cause
She was a bully for sure. You can tell bcuz the longer she talked, the faster she talked, until she was practically panicking at the end. This is a guilty reaction that I observed often in my ex bf... who was a pathological liar.
@@PowerK1 I am a good person I was just saying like what she was doing while she she was explaining during the video. Which I do believe she is the bully because she has not only lied about not knowing them but she also has admitted to the skinny dip video. I just do not justify her actions
I tried confronting my middle school bully on facebook. The girl who poured a scalding cup of hot chocolate on me through the bleachers at a football game, told all the boys that liked me that I had aids, tore my clothes off me on the bus while laughing maniacally, and the list goes on. Her response? "Aren't you like 30 now? Get the f over it already." Oh well, she's going bald and has 6 ugly kids with four different guys (none of which stuck around). Karma has taken care of things for me.
That's horrible! Some people really are stuck at their "middle/high school mean girls era" I hope you live a happy life right now :( At least now you can look at her and think "who's laughing now?"
Dude, you're calling kids ugly. Sounds like you're the bully. But hey, keep the cycle going. You got bullied, so bully children to feel better about yourself. Go to therapy.
@@error-try-again-laterI agree, I’m sick and tired of people suggesting that someone should take ZERO accountability for their horrible actions just because they’re a minor 😡
My daughter, now 40, was bullied & tormented her entire 12 yrs of school. She STILL is traumatized by the memories. When she was coming out of anesthesia from getting her wisdom teeth out her senior year, she was sobbing about the girls that bullied her. The victims of bullying carry the scars their entire life.
Girl who was bullied was full of emotions while bully had absolutely NONE! I was bullied and I watched those bullies talk exactly like that, I’m not even kidding, and call me a lier. I’m glad she said something because plastic girl needs to drop down a few pegs
*THE MOM ABSOLUTELY NEEDS TO BE INVESTIGATED* the situation stinks of CSA/Child Trafficking and more. I’m finding it hard to believe that she waited until her daughter turned 18 to start *doing stuff* with her. I’m thinking she might’ve been doing stuff for some sickos that paid for the content…and knew once her child got old enough, she would do it legally through OF😬 Amber never stood a chance🤦🏾♀️ *THAT DOES NOT EXCUSE HER BEHAVIOR TOWARDS OTHERS THOUGH*
She was at a bare minimum gr00ming her daughter probably for most of her life. Amber was 100% a/bused by her sick mother. That doesn’t excuse the bullying of course, but it’s also not fair to say Amber recorded CP since she was also a child at the time. The mom needs to be behind bars.
I was bullied for many years because I couldn't speak English, when I was a kid. My bully apologized to me when we were in high school. She said that her parents would always fight before they got divorced. Her bulling others was a way to cope with it and get their attention. I accepted her apology and told her that maybe she should apologize to the other people she bullied, if she wanted closure and to be able to move on peacefully. We were kids and it did affect me growing up. Parents are a huge part of molding kids into adults. Amber picked up habits from her mother, her mother must not accept when she's wrong, either. Or is too proud to apologize.
@jimhamberg9150 I'm from Texas. She said that she would think about it. We ended up playing in the same city league and she just brought it up and apologized. I was always told I was mature for my age. She said that during our time as teammates, she realized how nice I was and I really deserved to be apologized to. We were already seniors and I just had forgiven her along time ago. I learned at a young age not to hold on to grudges.
I’m truly sorry that is ridiculous. I find different languages beautiful and fascinating for you to be bullied for that is so sad 😒 you didn’t deserve that! Speak your language proud! English is my first language and honestly it’s the least fascinating language out there so don’t let it bother you! 🖤😅
You are a lucky one! At least you got them to apologies to you! For me just ONE person in high school give his apologies... I just have to ghost them the rest of my life
Yeah, I've literally never trusted anyone who used the word "literally" literally ever other sentences. Gurl, there are literally more words than that one in the dictionary... Literally unliterally literally smh smh nocap nocap fr fr literally
@@Q_Tura It’s like a way of them trying to convince you that they’re telling the truth. Another word that even as a millennial I struggle with is “like.” I want to completely remove it from my vocabulary.
In africa, at least in my country bullying is rare because it's viewed as a lack of intelligence and will only get the bully ostracized. What makes you cool here is kindness and empathy
This is so true. We didn’t even understand bullying until we came to America. Everyone wants to be friends and the smartest in the class is the most popular.
that’s true, i do wonder if that is what was going on when i was getting shit and bullied by a group of people i’d sit with at lunch when they thought i wasn’t around 🥲
You can't say that tho bc this can become and potentially is a crime. What she's doing is beyond of what a typical bully is. Having possession of Cp and distributing is a different devil. Sure maybe if it stopped at her prank calling or even the principal situation. But never cp. So reconsider what you just said and think a little.
@@Brunette_2005Like my bully, her parents were trash. Btw, I'll NEVER forgive her, she destroyed my social life, my selfsteem, my mental health. She was kinda a monster to me.
actually it’s really easy to tell when someone is lying by observing how eloquent they are in the message delivery, and just by the face expression you can tell when someone is being genuine or not
Yes! I recently had a job (2017-2021) and I was absolutely bullied by a manager and another coworker (managers favorite employee) to the point of extreme anxiety. It caused so much anxiety my blood pressure was out of control. I can't believe 2 older women would be so horrible.
Still. When your adult,your equipped to handle it as adults . Meaning, you can do something about it. Dont ever see yourself as victim . Maķe sure your making your life the best you can.
As an adult they are usually just barely above your position at work and do everything they can to make you look bad to everyone especially if you work hard. They feel threatened by good work ethic and do their best to get you fired because they're irrationally afraid you'll make them look bad and steal their job.
@@chaarrllotte660That was clearly a filter. Her eyeliner is quite literally going OVER her hair. Also, you clearly didn’t watch the video. She bullied multiple people and they have given proof time and time again.
The thing is, it’s not uncommon that bullies are going through a lot themselves, and their bullying is them taking it out on others. But while she may not be lying, she’s still guilty of causing that trauma for someone else and STILL not owning up to it as an adult. She could have tried to become more self-aware and matured from that mentality, but she chose not to. She still owes her victims an apology for making them go what she was going through.
As a mom myself I’m very very very very grossed out from what I just heard. Has she groomed her daughter? Why would you do that with your baby that’s just sick and weird. Where the heck is her dad?
She has groomed her daughter and more along with recording underage stuff she basically ruined her child for life, she is still under her mother's control. For money What a dispicable woman.
I hate the “we’ve all been bullies” line. It cheapens the word. Bullying is targeted harassment. It’s purposeful. Being rude or a bystander doesn’t make you a bully. I worry about other people’s history when they say stuff like that.
i agree but i think he meant that only for actual bullies not just everyone, like when people who bully on purpose and don’t care when they get caught they go and say they’ve never done that and imply they don’t do it on purpose or not on purpose to seem super innocent
Amber is living the real life modern day "mean girls" movie plot. Especially seeing that Halloween party pic with the mom and hearing about the onlyfans page they have together.
You are totally right, this girl’s mom is behind all of her issues. Her mom didn’t just start sexualizing her when she turned 18, this had to be going on for a long time. Her mom bullies her so she bullies others. Very disgusting behavior on her mom’s part and unfortunately hers as well.
It seems like Amber was abused and/or trafficked by her mother. This kind of stuff doesn't happen in a vacuum. I don't doubt or excuse anything this girl did, but think it's worth investigating the mom further.
Oh yeah. I don't believe for one second this only started with her as an adult. She was groomed into thinking this kind of bs was okay cuz no kid would ever do that kind of mess on their own.
I agree, but it’s also something that an innocent person would say if it really did never happen, no? So on that alone you can’t make a judgement. Thankfully there is a whole heap of other damning evidence against this person who I agree, yes, is a narcissist.
Her mom could be a psychopath and it's hereditary so her bully daughter is one too. Truly! Maybe her mom wouldn't care if her daughter "had fun" with her pet and hit it and laught after. Bullies are sick so as psychopaths.
Just the way she talks, her tone, expressions and body language; it’s so easy to tell she’s lying it’s like she doesn’t believe in what she’s herself is saying
This is commonly believed to be the case (I thought so myself too about a week ago) then I was made aware of studies ino bullying which completely debunks this. You're no more likely to be a bully if bullied yourself, in fact you're less likely. Some people are just horrible for some reason.
The sad truth about these bullies is they don't "grow and evolve". They don't grow at all, they just age. They stopped evolving at the maturity level of an 8-year-old bully. I have experienced *well known professionals in my community* in their 30s, 40s, 50s engaging in mean girl/bully behavior, (illegal) "pranks" against women they're jealous of that put the targets in danger, smear campaigns that damage careers and the mental health of the targets. Just because they're on some charity board doesn't mean they're charitable or good-hearted. Sometimes it's a cover, and that's how the schollyard bully has managed to blend into society.
I agree…to an extent, on the one hand you’re not wrong when you say some people will use charity and good deeds to compensate for a dark past. That’s honestly the reason why I could NEVER be friends with someone who used to bully me, because the friendship will feel forced, and for me…its hard to tell whether they're turning over a new leaf to feel better about themself or because they genuinely want to do good. Albeit…as the saying goes: “actions speak louder than words” someone who promises to be a good person, isn’t as sincere as someone who genuinely does good. The idea that a bad person can never truly change or be deserving of a second chance is purely subjective. That’s the thing about opinions: cognitive dissonance prevents people from seeing that MULTIPLE things can be true at the same time. (I’m not saying that’s what your doing, this is just adding to my point) What if you were to tell a 11 year old, who used to bully. That: “you can never change” that’s in my book is wholly incorrect.
@margeryojije7862 I'm not talking about those who turn over new leaves or people who used to bully. Those who have grown into adults and choose to continue bullying - because a lot of them do. Hard to change after decades down a dark path, although it is possible. Highly unlikely, but possible, and usually only after they've blown up their lives and harmed others in the process.
Honestly she sounds and looks like my step daughter who is 100% a sociopath.. she likes playing the victim, even though she doesn't actually "feel" like a victim.. she does things to hurt other people and then if someone does the same thing back to her she will cut them off, plan to hurt them and try to get everyone else to cut them off too. Everything is "if you don't like or agree with me it's jealousy"
For my own part I feel sorrier for all those being bullied in social media. The bullying in my school did not extend to the whole freaking world the way it does now. The desire for retribution ended for me when I grew up and found out exactly what my bullies were living through at home. Severe physical sexual and emotional violence left me wishing I had been mature enough to realize the “red flags” were white flags, screams for help. I wish now I had brought up the bullying to the authorities instead of handling it myself. Yeah, I made the people who bullied me stop bullying me and stop bullying anyone while I was around. But I didn’t stop the bullying because I wasn’t old enough to realize that my bully was in essence showing me what they went through. My high school bully has my number, and knows I am there for them. I feel like I failed them in school, like I was the only one to see what was going on, but I didn’t even think there might be a cause. I feel sprry for Amber. As much damage as she has caused others, SHE is the one who really got twisted up it seems like, her mama taught her that abuse was ok. No doubt her mama was also groomed.
I was bullied by identical twins in intermediate (age 11-12) and at Uni we got to see them with absolutely zero friends. Just each other. It was glorious. No social media needed.
As a person that was bullied from my first day of Kindergarten to my last day of high school, I applaud these people for going after their bullies. I still have mental, emotional and psychological problems from being bullied. I wasn't allowed to have friends or they would be bullied too. Why was I targeted? I had red hair. Years and years of damage to me simply because my hair color was different from everyone else's. To this day, I have no friends. I trust absolutely no one...not even my family. These bullies think it's funny but it's so not. They're why people snap. If schools took it more seriously instead of having the "kids will be kids" attitude then maybe there wouldn't be any school shootings. People like that should be prosecuted. You think I wasn't hurt? My scars are all on the inside and trust me they run deep. I have thought about suicide 98% of my life every day. Just because there are no bruises or cuts on the outside doesn't mean that there isn't major damage to me. So to all these people going after this girl for bullying them, I applaud you. I wish I could go after all of mine. Mine wasn't just one person, it was entire schools...Elementary, Junior High and High School.👏 🎉
I’m sorry you had that experience. My sister is also a redhead, and had the most awful comments said to her all throughout her formative years. She had low self esteem from it, and depressed from young on. I remember the time her confidence shifted and she later told me it was when she read the verse psalm 139:4, I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” She said she started to repeat it to herself anytime she felt low and she no longer found her self worth in what other people thought. She has way more friends than I do now, and she always gets compliments on her hair from strangers. She’s honestly beautiful, and she needed to find that in herself and believe it so others would believe it too. Don’t let bullies define you, you’re beautiful.
I was bullied relentlessly in school until one day I wasn’t. It didn’t end all at once and it took me a while to realize that I wasn’t being bullied anymore. And as i considered why this was, I realized that I had gained confidence in aspects of my life that I hadn’t prior to that and it made it not matter much at all. Once they stopped mattering to me I no longer cared and then they moved on to someone else. I don’t wish suffering on them I don’t hold onto whatever pitiful attempts they used to make my life miserable. Whatever power they had over me I took from them. It didn’t come down to fisticuffs or violence. Just a change in mindset. And now it’s water long gone out from under my bridge. There is no point in giving them anymore energy than that. Why should I give them energy?
You deserved better. Red heads are GORGEOUS & unique in the best way. They were jealous. I’m sorry you had to go through that & I pray you find peace ❤️
❤❤❤❤❤ I'm so sorry, Catrina. I know you're pain. I was bullied for different reasons, but the pain is the same. For 10 years following the bullying I felt like my insides were on fire because I was in so much emotional and mental anguish. Three years later and I'm rebuilding my life and loving on myself. I'm sorry for what you went through. Find ways of healing and putting them behind you because you deserve it.❤❤❤❤
Amber laughing as her victim is crying and asking her to stop is PURE BULLY BEHAVIOR. Taking pleasure in someone being uncomfortable and upset. That's nuts. Also, look at that photo of the Halloween party, every girl looks super uncomfortable and barely smiling.
People out there have been violated by their parents and never did anything wrong the rest of their lives. Maybe normal stuff but not vile behavior. Not everyone who is abused in anyway abuse. She chose to be bad person
@@a.deadgirlI feel like normalization is the key differentiator here. Other children have been abused by their parents but with intervention and a safe environment they realize these actions are wrong. Amber’s mother effectively groomed her to do her bidding and I believe they were doing these things to get the social following she has now. They make CONTENT together. I feel like for Amber this is all business as usual and that’s probably why she was able to dissociate from the bullying and sexual harassment. These things have become opportunities for her. It’s a shame she’s an adult now and she seems comfortable with this life.
@@a.deadgirlI do want to be clear though, I totally agree that not all abused people abuse other people, but I think it definitely skews the way you look at things in life, especially if the abuse occurred in your development
She may be a victim but that’s no excuse to terrorize and harass other people. I’m so tired of this “hurt people hurt people” mentality, if making others suicidal and depressed makes you feel better then you’re just an evil person regardless of your past.
@@a.deadgirlit’s just that I was thinking, now she allegedly films her mother, and in the videos where she’s being the bully she films the girls.. I wonder if the mom maybe asked her to film her even before amber was 18. It would be very clear where the normalisation for her would come from
Even the nervous laugh and the "stop, please" not to make you bully mad cause you just know that if you called her out it would immediately be "JESUS I WAS JUST JOKING, YOU'RE RUINING EVERYTHING, IT'S ALL TOUR FAULT" vibes
Fawning is a common trauma response. Fawning is doing everything you can do to make your attacker not hurt you by trying to keep them happy so they don't lash out and react with worse actions
@@LeadrynMcKrotch yeah, and sadly a lot of people don't get it and they be like: well, why don't you just said something??? Sometimes it's just not that easy also the blame is on the person filming your naked body without your consent, period.
Am I the only one who got super cringe vibes at the Halloween party picture, Amber's mom was the Devil?.. That's absolutely wicked and unacceptable. It's truly a shame how some of these adults have no problem corrupting minors. Terrifying #holdheraccountable #childabuse
It’s so obvious the bully is lying. The victim has a lot of emotions while telling the story, her microexpressions match up with someone thinking about or reliving a negative experience. But the bully’s emotions and expressions and body language is all wrong. It’s not consistent and that’s why you can *feel* that she lying. Our brains can pick up on the little details in her facial expressions and inflections. She’s fake af. And I’m def s*x positive and support SW’s but there is something so wrong about a mom and daughter doing OF together 🤢
her mom groomed her. probably some weird csa shit as well. if so, itd make sense shes a bully. sxual trauma makes people feel very very vulnerable and can cause them to become violent/bullies/antisocial because they never want to be the victim again. just a theory not an excuse. hope everyone in this situation gets the help they need.
i was looking for someone who would talk about their NVC and the way they told their stories. i need people to understand that even when they think they’re good liars, it takes some really, REALLY good practice to hide your nvc.
The principal waiting outside doesn't mean that parents weren't called. One of my children had a really bad experience with bullying. They called the parents EVERY TIME. The parents believed their child's lies. They changed the bullies' entire schedule. Teachers had to be on alert bc she'd literally stalk my child. She'd go into classes that she wasn't in, so I totally believe that part of the story. These parents don't care and that's why their child never behaves.
As a teacher, I believe this as well. People forget that not all parents are responsible. Many times, students behave the way they do because of the parents.
@@MandaMonkeyRayfor sure. I remember as a kid there was this nasty girl in my class, met the mother, just as nasty. The dissapointment i felt time and time again as years passed and I though alright, this year we are older, surely everyone is over bullying and have matured. Only to grow hopeless specially as I saw adults behaving disrespectfully like teens
When a kid is that much of a menace, and the parents are unwilling to intervene and correct the behaviour, that's something I consider worthy of intervention by whatever CPS equivalent applies. There is at least neglect, if not outright abuse, going on in their home.
I was heavily bullied for 11 years through elementary and high school. It has been 11 years and i still remember the faces and names of each of them. It went all the way to the police and expulsion for some of them. I have PTSD from it. I struggle talking in public, i have panic attacks if im in a confrontation. With a lot of therapy i can now speak to a small group and slowly learn to stand up for myself. But the anxiety and stress it caused will forever be in me.
The girl who is trying to defend herself is saying a lot of stories. This is a sign of someone who isn’t telling the truth. The more “blabby” someone is when defending themselves, the more likely they’re lying. Of course it could be her baseline way of talking, but still. She’ll say, “I’ve never talked to her before” then goes back and says, “well, maybe I spoke to her in middle school” Girl. You just said you never spoke to her. And then you say you had one convo then admitted you went to the same middle school. Hm.
This is a misconception honestly. Some ppl get nervous &/or cannot word what they are saying properly. This does not mean they are lying. Speech patterns taught while growing up &/or having been made nervous, due to any given situation or circumstance, can cause this well into adulthood & even permanently. Basically, she was trying to say she had few words aside from perhaps once, but the last part came out first. Talking a lot should not be considered lying either. It is a nervous habit developed to fill the quiet, explain, etc. We are not psychologists ourselves & even professionals themselves are wrong on many accounts sadly.
I bullied a couple kids in school. I was going through a bad time and lashing out, but I grew up and apologized for my actions. I was bullied at home and in high school, and didn't want to be that person anymore. It's okay to admit your wrongs and right them.
@@kingdrift1136 it might it might not undo anything, but who are you to judge someone right their wrong. They should never have done it, but it happened and they tried to make amends something the bully we watched didn’t acknowledge or even try to do.
@@kingdrift1136 stop projecting. This comment is what we hope for in humanity for a better future. Bullies use to never apologize! They become adult bullies. And you never know what people are going through at home to cause them this severity. So chill bruh
this drama has been popping out in my feed for like a week now and never seen it, but grew curious. Glad you appeared on my feed explaining the tea, thanks sir 🙏🙏
This woman sounds like she's been grooming her daughter and probably other young girls for years. This is beyond revolting. Someone should investigate this woman. They could save new victims and bring closure to the old ones.
@@YazminM2222 True that, if Amber handled this differently and didn't prove people her personality is just as rotten as it used to be, there barely would have been any hate for her on social media
My ex-best friend betrayed me to my bullies in middle school, she told them all my secrets and the bullying got so bad I had to leave normal school and become homeschooled. I have so much sympathy for the victims. 😔
The way Amber was readjusting herself on the camera and trying to look good was a dead giveaway. All the girls were talking very calm and she was just screaming the whole video. Only a liar yells at the top of their lungs to prove a fake point.
Every time she says “literally” she’s lying 😂😂. LITERALLY. I’m not surprised her mom was in on it. You don’t get to this level of being a horrible person without a parent enabling that behavior.
@@heathertaylor7249it's not an indicator of lying 100% of the time, but with people like Amber here, it's a form of psychological and narcissistic manipulation. The idea being for some unknown reason that repeated use of "literally" adds credence to their story. I've unfortunately known plenty you bullies and spent a couple years studying psychology trying to understand why they are the way they are.
@@chaarrllotte660 wait… how are you connected to the story? Did you reach out to Derrick? Story seems pretty legit so if you are trying to defend Amber replying to the comments here ain’t gonna do much- just saying… still he said she said up in here
Idk, I'm only a few minutes in.. but if I was falsely being accused of bullying someone, my response wouldn't be "ACTUALLY, I WAS BULLIED!!" And then go on a tangent about how much of a victim I am, leading people away from the actual topic at hand :p
@@mitchlewis8260and what about it. We are half of the population, so it's not "only" and yes, I can name men in my life who have been deeply affected by words. Stpid.
@@mitchlewis8260Dude… There was literally a man THIS YEAR who committed su1cide over guess what… Words! Not to trivialize his dead because what they were saying was vicious… But it literally took no more than 3 seconds of thought to disprove that
@@mitchlewis8260My son was bullied in 6th grade. Before that, he liked going to school & was happy. He went into a depression & the school staff thgt I was exaggerating. He even started becoming violent & he was nothing like that b4. As soon as I got him out, he was that happy go lucky non-violent kid I raised. He's a senior, doing great. But Even now when I bring it up, he quickly changes the subject/won't talk about it. Those type of scars stick with a person, whether ur a man or a woman.
Schools don't give a sh to the students, everyone who works in a school just wanna get their payment and go home. When a massacre happens they go "omg! what caused this?"
Pretty much how it works. my principal 100% waited outside of my classes to walk me to my next one due to a girl threatening me and all that happened was a “meeting” where we *both* had to apologize 💀
Your reaction is priceless. I can't stand the mean girls did a my precious daughter was also bullied before I changed her schools. She's worked through a lot.
Instead of taking the opportunity to apologize and validate this person, Amber jumps to being the victim and totally flipping the story. I feel sorry for that person that was actually bullied by Amber.
It doesn’t matter if the bullying happened a week ago, year ago or 10 years ago. Words stick and can have psychological impact on people in their later lives. Bullies are disgusting.
The video of her laughing and stealing the girls clothes as they cry and beg just made me tear up. I've been through awful, awful bullying. Look Amber, you can change. But you have to own up. At this point, lying about it is continuing the cycle of bullying. What a dreadful person.
@@oceanexblve884 lots of people laugh/giggle when they're nervous, especially in situations where they are defenseless (like being nude) and being recorded, and are young girls who were probably until that part having fun.
The fact she was in an anti bullying campaign is so funny to me because when I was bullied all the girls were the exact same even though this was a long time later I’m proud of her for speaking out
I've realised that girls who bully go into medical or join anti-bullying clubs; I'm currently in a health and social care coursework class thing and the class is FULL of girls who bully other people. It's disgusting.
Her entire body language screams “I’m not the bully, everyone I know is the bully because they’re Jealous of how pretty I am” Also the way she talks about her brother and describes autism is horrible and very telling. If you run into an asshole once you ran into an asshole, if you keep running into assholes everywhere you you’re the asshole
I literally don't believe her. I was literally bullied, literally it's not something that is easily forgotten. It's literally deep in my core. You can also literally get bullied because you are a bully. Literally
A lot of nurses used to be mean girls too. Something about being in a position of power where they're supposed to help people just attract their ilk somehow
And alot the kids who went to the students against drunk driving would drink and drive all the time.i know it to be true because my sister started her school chapter. It's a bunch of virtue signaling, with a few good kids sprinkled in now and again. Bullies and liars know it is important to look respectable and caring when peers are looking at them, as long as they can make others look bad they look like an angel. Classic tactics
All these comments above prove how bullies are Narcissistic sociopaths who use positions of authority/power to hold a good reputation in public but in their core they are very rotten people.
@@Foywpos All true. I have a degree in psych. I can't tell if she's borderline yet. But, she does have NPD, or BPD, with NPD. The way she treated Nick says it all.
A victim of bullying will remember being bullied because it was a core, traumatic event. Bullies don't remember because for them, it was just a Wednesday.
Yes, and then if their victims confront them about it and go to someone in a position of authority to hold said bully accountable, the bully interprets _that_ as abusive, as though _they're_ the victim of bullying. Unfortunately I deal with that in the form of my middle-aged landlord, who is shamelessly narcissistic and incapable of taking any responsibility or accountability.
🙌 that's the truth!
FR. I finished HS in 2008. I still remember when I was 13 and a boy empty the bin in my head. I remember every single mean thing he did to me.
I’m f* 33 and still remember it.
@@IsabellaCoelho Where is that fvcker at now😡
Exactly!
“The same time Amber was bullying me, she was in an anti-bullying campaign” made me GAG bc that’s what exactly the popular/mean girls in my school did as well. They lack self awareness. 🙄
This one used to bully me and kids who were in special ed when I found out she was a teacher at the local elementary school as a special ed teacher I was livid like what the heck maybe if I paid her she wouldn't have been such a b to me.
They’re actually HIGHLY self aware. A lot of times kids like that use extracurriculars like anti bullying campaigns and charity work to make themselves look less suspicious. It’s a cover up because they know teachers and other authorities aren’t going to look into any accusations of them being bullies if they put up that “good person” image so they get away with more stuff that way.
@@nicoleackerman205 What the holy hell…
@@B_addie that’s true, their image is everything to them.
If she didn't change her attitude towards people when joining it,she is just a f*ckin' hypocrite
That girl gave possibly the worst response to accusations of being a bully. She did literally everything wrong.
Literally
Is there any updates on this now? I'm curious
@@sadiethedragonprincess2547me too
“I literally stood up for people who were going through mental…. Like problem uhhh”
Literally
Her eyes… She doesn’t blink once. No emotions in her voice. She’s trying to manipulate. The first girl is 100% telling the truth.
Could also be high or a mental health condition or medication.
Dead eyes…
@@b.l70 right super creepy as heck. I thought she was a robot lol- ya never know
her eyes make her look like a doll
@@b.l70 my thoughts exactly!
A lot of bullies think it’s just a joke as long as it’s funny to them. This is why it’s important to teach kids to listen to others and respect their privacy
See these bullies get older and they run into someone whose not going for their 💩 ...and its not always physical ...ik a person who sued her bully who tried it as an adult...eminem's bully tried suing and lost ... so they get theirs if they dont change
As much as I'd like to believe they get their karma, that's not always the case. Unfortunately, sometimes they grow up, have kids & just bully them while being nice to everyone else...ask my mom how i know lol.
I used to think or hope that everyone grew out of it but I think anyone that has gone to a church or has left hs & started working should've realized by now that there's plenty of 30, 40, & even 50 year old bullies. (To clarify-not blaming the church bc bible makes it clear its gods job to judge, not us imperfect humans, but theres always that one person who thinks they can do his job better for him🙄)
I used to be that way. I thought as long as it was SUPPOSED to be a joke that i could say anything and other people didnt have the right to be hurt.
It took a long time to realize that my intent to be funny wasnt the only thing to consider.
@@ChristinaFromRUclips I’m glad you realized that and thank you for sharing
@@ChristinaFromRUclips good on you for doing better....
As someone who was bullied in middle school, she’s DEFINATELY a bully. The amount of “literally”s gave me an aneurism
Someone who used “literally” or “truthfully” that much in a sentence is lying, automatically.
I was starting to hate that word. I have never heard anyone say that word that much in that amount of time.
@@TayaCmiller ikr. Gave me flashback
@@itsobviouslyyuta1461btw it's "definitely."
@@blacktigerpaw1 oh. My bad
Mommy groomed her daughter. Her daughter abused others because she was being abused. Horrible!!!! Evil. Bring people like this to light.
@aliceB357 This is how people become narcissists later into adulthood. 🙄😒
@@aliceB357except that most of the time, the cycle never ends
Just horrible
The sexual content between her and her mother is mind boggling!
Like what if that was a dad with his daughter? There would be such an outcry about the parent being a paedophile and an abuser.
Makes the fact that the mother was involved with explicit content involving other children so much worse too.
I'm gonna leave this here before the "okay but that doesn't make the bullying okay!" comments lol. People can't really understand that you don't have to justify everything a person does to empathize with them.
The "i couldn't have done this because in reality, i too am a victim. In fact i am the only victim" tactic. It always fails yet it never leaves the meta
Right like I don’t doubt that she was a victim of some of the stuff she was saying maybe not for the reasons that she thought. She still was the bully herself and creating other victims who were victims of herself
Amber looks and talks exactly like a stereotypical middle school bully 😭
exactly
She sounds like she's lying the whole time she's telling the story
There's so much "C.P." going around for these (what were) young teenagers. One of then said she was 13 y.o. with a 19 y.o. guy. Is this normal? For woman to be such wh*res at a young age and have s** tapes leaked of then at 13. I remember in middle school there we re a lot of pictures of girls doing stuff at about 13-12 years old. If I have a daughter... I hope I don't.
And then the little h* called is "abuse" like she wasn't in on it.
Right??? 🤣 🤣 🤣
Oh Amber you could have used this situation to own up to your shit, apologized and made amends, but instead you proved that you’re still that girl.
🙌🏼
Exacto
Yup. You'd think she would have felt remorse by now, looking back.
That's the second Amber this year. Guess which name is gonna lose in popularity lol
She has weirdly dead eyes, it's kinda creepy ngl
As a bullied person in middle school I remember their faces and I remember their words. They don't remember me even when I pass them by at the mall or in public.
We remember, bullies do not.
I was a bully in middle school/high school. I remember them. Shit haunts me. When I see em here and there I apologize to em
Bullies do remember us, they just either pretend they don't know us or they harass us, when we already let it go.
Same here, but I have like grudges to the point that I wanted to do more harm than good
The tree remembers, the axe forgets
@@ryu9687"shit haunts me" good.
I was a middle-school bully too. there's no excuse but at the time my parents were going through a divorce, my dad abandoned me, my sister bullied me and my brother used to beat me. I took out the overwhelming emotions the only way my juvenile mind comprehended feeling better, and that was hurting people with my words. the girl I bullied was overweight and an easy target. when I went to high school, I had an epiphany over the summer. I confronted myself in an existential way and I knew I didn't want to be that kind of person anymore. I apologized to the girl I bullied at the start of that year, and even though she didn't have to accept or understand, she did. because she is amazing. anyway we became best friends. I'm talking sleepovers every week, working together, playing video games and watching anime. if it wasn't for her I never would've met my husband. she has been my best friend for 15 years now and was my maid of honour at my wedding. I can't imagine my life without her. we always quote the KungFu Panda "A bully turned friend is friend to the end". in the situation of Amber, instead of confronting her behaviour and feeling empathy for others, she hasn't had a catalyst for the change. she is still a bully, and is using classic methods like becoming the victim and justifying. she is lying to herself instead of owning up and showing her growth.
I love you. ♡♡♡♡♡ (Im a girl and straight, no worries, no negative or twisted vibe. I love you as a human with morales.)
Glad to hear ya'll ended up having a beautiful friendship. Proud of you for apologizing to her & glad for such a wholesome outcome.
Yeah, I agree that in Amber's case the lack of empathy is obvious.
Catalyst, huh… All is One ;)
That’s really beautiful- thank you for sharing your story
Thank you for sharing this. I know it must’ve been really hard for you to confront your victim, but that showed a lot of bravery and I am happy that she chose to forgive you.
This is another case of “Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt victimized by Regina George!” 😂😂😂
The fact that Is my actual name is shameful 😂😂😂😂
Right🙋🏽♀️she doesn’t even go here” is my favorite quote from that movie🥰🤣🤣
Omg😅
@@carriethompson7919😂😂😂😂
Does anyone know if fetch ever happened????😂😂😂😂
This Amber girl gave the classic typical bully response. The twisting the situation to where they’re the victim and deflecting and victim blaming. She acts just like one would expect a bully to react
exactlyyy, her trying to explain the “false rumors “ sounded like she was lying and coming up with stuff to say while making the video 😂
they all had mutual beef and they are not saying what they did to her. its the classic standing up for your self. you gtting bullied at school but when you fight back only you get in troubled.
yeah if thses kids where mean to her, she would be mean back
She said "literally" 100x in a single video😂
You guys would say that regardless. Even if she didn't say "literally'" a lot, you say she's lying.
She went full darvo, good thing they had receipts
That chick was 100% a bully. Her appearance, vocabulary, attitude, screams bully haha
No sadness or signs of trauma while telling her sob stories, while the others genuinely sounded like they were scarred for life
@@novu6196 fr, the first actual victim had this shaky voice, it sounded like she was about to cry
Yall are forgetting that acting exists and some people hide their sadness better than others some people will train themselves to not react sadly. And appearance and vocabulary are not things that apply to a bully I do think she is the bully but not for the reasons yall are bringing up
@@novu6196that might also be because the botox removed 90% of her facial expressions
If you hear the bully lying. That girl is lying. She may have been bullied herself but her airs scream BULLY and insecure, immature.
All bullies are "gangster" until someone comes and starts exposing their insecurities and give them a taste of their own medicine lol
Amber is lying. She took the other girls story and essentially made it her own because she didnt have her own story to tell.
True narcissist
@@lenathegawdxd766so what you don’t go to these peoples school oh well she did the bullying and now she’s a tic Tok star oh well
Reminds me that creepshow art did the same thing to emilyartful
Exactly…
It happens all the time.
I think it's awesome her school officials actually protected her after she told them. So many do nothing.
Schools need to take stuff like this more seriously
It was a lot easier for them to do that because the other girl went to a different school. Which honestly makes her bullying even worse, like she literally had to go out of her way to walk over to a different school to make fun of a younger child
They also penalize the people who report more than often instead of dealing with the bullies.
Mine didnt care and were racist toward me and punished ME and only me when i would defend myself saying ‘you should just ignore them’’ ignore getting beat up by multiple kids and some older than me? Anyway sorry for making this about me and also for the grammar error my first language is french
@@Doctrinaaaathe people who said that, i wonder if they're also just going to ignore and do nothing when u beat them up right then and there for saying that. these people truly are lost cause
Her mom is the entire problem.
As a kid she never had a chance.
But as an adult she needs to take accountability.
Guess what.. she won’t.
She knows right from wrong.
I definitely agree with that for sure no doubt that just not right.
But past pre school age u should know being mean is wrong
@@brennathecatlover4360 ya that’s why I said as an adult she needs to take accountability
@@rachelr8897 but even as a kid u know being mean is wrong
Just because she's saying she was bullied doesn't mean that she wasn't a bully!
She was a bully for sure. You can tell bcuz the longer she talked, the faster she talked, until she was practically panicking at the end. This is a guilty reaction that I observed often in my ex bf... who was a pathological liar.
💯 !!!!!
Plus the phone thing she's trying to be so detailed and specific classic liar technic to make themselves seem believable
She was scrambling so much
fr she was getting aggressive tryna get her point across, if u weren’t guilty then u wouldn’t worry abt it
Yes. This is proven in psychology that when you’re telling the truth you stick to the truthful statement with no need to emphasize and exaggerate.
The bully always plays the victim and feels they need to over explain shit. Shut up AMBER!
The fact she kept trying to look good while explaining pisses me off
you shut up kid tf
@@kenkan-edgy7206Why does it piss you off? aren't you a good person? deal with it softy
@@PowerK1tf, shut up 😂
@@PowerK1 I am a good person I was just saying like what she was doing while she she was explaining during the video. Which I do believe she is the bully because she has not only lied about not knowing them but she also has admitted to the skinny dip video. I just do not justify her actions
I tried confronting my middle school bully on facebook. The girl who poured a scalding cup of hot chocolate on me through the bleachers at a football game, told all the boys that liked me that I had aids, tore my clothes off me on the bus while laughing maniacally, and the list goes on. Her response? "Aren't you like 30 now? Get the f over it already." Oh well, she's going bald and has 6 ugly kids with four different guys (none of which stuck around). Karma has taken care of things for me.
That's horrible! Some people really are stuck at their "middle/high school mean girls era" I hope you live a happy life right now :( At least now you can look at her and think "who's laughing now?"
Dude, you're calling kids ugly. Sounds like you're the bully.
But hey, keep the cycle going. You got bullied, so bully children to feel better about yourself.
Go to therapy.
If an adult poured scalding drinks on another adult, it would literally end in them going to jail. Why do we expect kids to endure that for nothing?
That’s a person that lacks accountability but it’s ok because like you said Karma got her.
@@error-try-again-laterI agree, I’m sick and tired of people suggesting that someone should take ZERO accountability for their horrible actions just because they’re a minor 😡
Literallyx1000000000 was the only thing I needed to hear. She flipped the script to play victim. I don't believe her at all.
She got that bully energy.
real
Narc vibes off the rip.
@@Kaitrece I’m a bit of a narcissist but I kind of keep it more hidden and I’m usually nice, but she’s going overboard.
@@XTERU6 no, she means narcotic
Honestly the whole thing sounds like a bunch of 403s beefing over sleeping with dudes. Trashy Jerry Springer stuff.
My daughter, now 40, was bullied & tormented her entire 12 yrs of school. She STILL is traumatized by the memories. When she was coming out of anesthesia from getting her wisdom teeth out her senior year, she was sobbing about the girls that bullied her. The victims of bullying carry the scars their entire life.
damn wtf did they do to her? that's wild
You didn't try switching her schools?
@@vickyandersen8660it doesn’t work
@@vickyandersen8660this isn’t a solution . Bullies are in every school and they pick and choose certain people. They feel when someone is different .
@@vickyandersen8660fr
The first girl talked calmly & gave a nice quick but detailed report on her end, this other girl just yapping 😭🙈🙈
And never blinking 😳
Girl who was bullied was full of emotions while bully had absolutely NONE! I was bullied and I watched those bullies talk exactly like that, I’m not even kidding, and call me a lier. I’m glad she said something because plastic girl needs to drop down a few pegs
*THE MOM ABSOLUTELY NEEDS TO BE INVESTIGATED* the situation stinks of CSA/Child Trafficking and more. I’m finding it hard to believe that she waited until her daughter turned 18 to start *doing stuff* with her. I’m thinking she might’ve been doing stuff for some sickos that paid for the content…and knew once her child got old enough, she would do it legally through OF😬
Amber never stood a chance🤦🏾♀️
*THAT DOES NOT EXCUSE HER BEHAVIOR TOWARDS OTHERS THOUGH*
She was at a bare minimum gr00ming her daughter probably for most of her life. Amber was 100% a/bused by her sick mother. That doesn’t excuse the bullying of course, but it’s also not fair to say Amber recorded CP since she was also a child at the time. The mom needs to be behind bars.
Oh her mom 100% had to have groomed her
This high key explains her evil behavior 😬😬😬 🚔🚓🚔
What?
I haven’t finished the video yet, how does everyone know all this about the mom?
I was bullied for many years because I couldn't speak English, when I was a kid. My bully apologized to me when we were in high school. She said that her parents would always fight before they got divorced. Her bulling others was a way to cope with it and get their attention. I accepted her apology and told her that maybe she should apologize to the other people she bullied, if she wanted closure and to be able to move on peacefully. We were kids and it did affect me growing up. Parents are a huge part of molding kids into adults. Amber picked up habits from her mother, her mother must not accept when she's wrong, either. Or is too proud to apologize.
Where are you from? This iz AWESOME. …You don’t get this often. Did you become friends? What did she about the suggestion?
@jimhamberg9150 I'm from Texas. She said that she would think about it. We ended up playing in the same city league and she just brought it up and apologized. I was always told I was mature for my age. She said that during our time as teammates, she realized how nice I was and I really deserved to be apologized to. We were already seniors and I just had forgiven her along time ago. I learned at a young age not to hold on to grudges.
I’m truly sorry that is ridiculous. I find different languages beautiful and fascinating for you to be bullied for that is so sad 😒 you didn’t deserve that! Speak your language proud! English is my first language and honestly it’s the least fascinating language out there so don’t let it bother you! 🖤😅
There’s a difference between being a bully and posting child p0rn.
You are a lucky one! At least you got them to apologies to you! For me just ONE person in high school give his apologies... I just have to ghost them the rest of my life
Amber sounds exactly like someone who would severely bully another person. She also sounds like she’s trying to gaslight every single one of us.
Exactly. They don't see the harm they cause and justify it
@@bonezbaaabyand they always think they can get away with it
lmao this is sad we can def tell she's a lier
0:33 I think that might be her brand name actually…
Yea it is
I’ve never trusted someone who overuses the word “literally.”
Yeah, I've literally never trusted anyone who used the word "literally" literally ever other sentences. Gurl, there are literally more words than that one in the dictionary...
Literally unliterally literally smh smh nocap nocap fr fr literally
@@Q_Tura It’s like a way of them trying to convince you that they’re telling the truth. Another word that even as a millennial I struggle with is “like.” I want to completely remove it from my vocabulary.
@@serendipitouscomet ye, i get that, tho i do actually let them slip when i dont spend 3min in advance thinking about what I'll say
She wasn't even pronouncing it right, she kept saying 'litterly' 😂
“Littly”
In africa, at least in my country bullying is rare because it's viewed as a lack of intelligence and will only get the bully ostracized. What makes you cool here is kindness and empathy
Aw good! That’s how I am but sadly others around me are not.
This is so true. We didn’t even understand bullying until we came to America. Everyone wants to be friends and the smartest in the class is the most popular.
@@KayonnohCooper Facts
This may be the case for day school but boarding school was brutal 😢
i wish i lived there sounds so much nicer
People don’t realize you can be a victim and a bully at the same time.
that’s true, i do wonder if that is what was going on when i was getting shit and bullied by a group of people i’d sit with at lunch when they thought i wasn’t around 🥲
You already are a victim if you become a bully cause your parents definitely messed up in one way or another
You can't say that tho bc this can become and potentially is a crime. What she's doing is beyond of what a typical bully is. Having possession of Cp and distributing is a different devil. Sure maybe if it stopped at her prank calling or even the principal situation. But never cp. So reconsider what you just said and think a little.
hurt ppl, hurt ppl!!!
@@Brunette_2005Like my bully, her parents were trash. Btw, I'll NEVER forgive her, she destroyed my social life, my selfsteem, my mental health. She was kinda a monster to me.
actually it’s really easy to tell when someone is lying by observing how eloquent they are in the message delivery, and just by the face expression you can tell when someone is being genuine or not
The sad thing is, I’m 36 and this STILL HAPPENS. There will always be bullies. I’m glad people are standing up to them.
Yes! I recently had a job (2017-2021) and I was absolutely bullied by a manager and another coworker (managers favorite employee) to the point of extreme anxiety. It caused so much anxiety my blood pressure was out of control. I can't believe 2 older women would be so horrible.
A lot of bullying happens at the workplace. I know because I was mostly bullied at work.
Still. When your adult,your equipped to handle it as adults . Meaning, you can do something about it.
Dont ever see yourself as victim . Maķe sure your making your life the best you can.
@@TG-hp8og not always. It just depends on the situation.
As an adult they are usually just barely above your position at work and do everything they can to make you look bad to everyone especially if you work hard. They feel threatened by good work ethic and do their best to get you fired because they're irrationally afraid you'll make them look bad and steal their job.
Imagine having to use a filter in your addressing false rumors video that just makes you look more like a villain.
and it’s basically all about her boobs in it.
Litally...
I wondered if she was high 🤦♀️
I thought she was just interesting looking lol
@@chaarrllotte660That was clearly a filter. Her eyeliner is quite literally going OVER her hair.
Also, you clearly didn’t watch the video. She bullied multiple people and they have given proof time and time again.
The thing is, it’s not uncommon that bullies are going through a lot themselves, and their bullying is them taking it out on others. But while she may not be lying, she’s still guilty of causing that trauma for someone else and STILL not owning up to it as an adult. She could have tried to become more self-aware and matured from that mentality, but she chose not to. She still owes her victims an apology for making them go what she was going through.
As a mom myself I’m very very very very grossed out from what I just heard. Has she groomed her daughter? Why would you do that with your baby that’s just sick and weird. Where the heck is her dad?
Exactly!!!! This makes me so sick to my stomach! How could her Mother do this!! 😤🤬🤮
Yeah I was 🤢 when he was sharing the details of the OF account.
That woman is NOT a mom. She’s a groomer!! 🤮
@@denisebacher5040 More like she raped and still basically rapes her daughter through an obvious power imbalance
The dad probably out to get that famous milk every other dad wants to get
She has groomed her daughter and more along with recording underage stuff she basically ruined her child for life, she is still under her mother's control. For money What a dispicable woman.
my stomach went cold when that girl sobbed "i trusted you, please stop"
horrible
exactly? the girl was literally CRYING. there really is no reason to bully anyone, even if it’s funny.
That shi was sooo disgusting… (the bullying i mean)
I hate the “we’ve all been bullies” line. It cheapens the word. Bullying is targeted harassment. It’s purposeful. Being rude or a bystander doesn’t make you a bully. I worry about other people’s history when they say stuff like that.
i agree but i think he meant that only for actual bullies not just everyone, like when people who bully on purpose and don’t care when they get caught they go and say they’ve never done that and imply they don’t do it on purpose or not on purpose to seem super innocent
We've all done hurtful things, not the same as bullying. And even then I've apologized for all of it
I think he meant like everyone has done something hurtful at one point in your life.
Nah i dont agree with that. Most people with common sense and empathy towards others dont. Become bully themselves. Thats just a justification excuse.
@@ilovegoldfishhhthat’s how I interpreted it as well.
The message at the end was so unexpected but I needed to hear it. I’m going through a tough time.
Amber is living the real life modern day "mean girls" movie plot. Especially seeing that Halloween party pic with the mom and hearing about the onlyfans page they have together.
That was the same thing that popped in my head when I saw the Halloween pic. I guess she’s the “cool mom” smfh 🙄
I literally thought the same thing!
Now with incest.
I’m sorry the *WHAT* they have together?
They have an OF…together?!?!
The bully’s eyes are DEAD!! My intuition is going off…she’s diabolical!!
Strange , the eyes look painted on. 🐍 🐉 🦖
Dead eyes .. fake lips or too much Botox !
That's the first thing I noticed. She is dead eyed and looks like she has no soul.
@@mosmith9187like the FILTER SHE IS USING TO COVER HER EVIL WAYS
I thought the same thing. Her soul has left her body.
You are totally right, this girl’s mom is behind all of her issues. Her mom didn’t just start sexualizing her when she turned 18, this had to be going on for a long time. Her mom bullies her so she bullies others. Very disgusting behavior on her mom’s part and unfortunately hers as well.
Her mom basically is raising a narc..... Long story short!
Yeah. It’s also creepy to want to do p0rn with your daughter. Let alone encourage your daughter to do p0rn. It gives gr00mer vibes to me. Just no. 💀
Her mom is an abuser and a predator tbh. I hope a criminal case can start because of this.
walking to ANOTHER school to bully someone is so fucking insane 😭😭 thats misery and boredom to another level
It seems like Amber was abused and/or trafficked by her mother. This kind of stuff doesn't happen in a vacuum. I don't doubt or excuse anything this girl did, but think it's worth investigating the mom further.
Oh yeah. I don't believe for one second this only started with her as an adult. She was groomed into thinking this kind of bs was okay cuz no kid would ever do that kind of mess on their own.
Well, definitely not a good excuse but worth the effort in investigating...
No excuse to do evil to another
Agreed
Don’t make excuses for garbage ppl.
"It never happened," that is a typical narcissistic gaslighting technique. Completely dismissing their pain and trauma endured.
I agree, but it’s also something that an innocent person would say if it really did never happen, no?
So on that alone you can’t make a judgement.
Thankfully there is a whole heap of other damning evidence against this person who I agree, yes, is a narcissist.
@@harleyphillips8434what Harley said bc if they were false accusations, it would make sense to say it never happened
Amber was absolutely a bully. Amber was also groomed by her mom. Sad.
Yea, that's sick. I feel bad for all the girls in this situation. All of them need therapy, immediately.
Her mom could be a psychopath and it's hereditary so her bully daughter is one too. Truly!
Maybe her mom wouldn't care if her daughter "had fun" with her pet and hit it and laught after. Bullies are sick so as psychopaths.
Just the way she talks, her tone, expressions and body language; it’s so easy to tell she’s lying it’s like she doesn’t believe in what she’s herself is saying
Amber and her mom doing onlyfans together should be hardest record scratch moment ever
😮 wut
That's the only thing they're good for at this point, no? Having no braincells and showing their bodies just to turn a profit.
What😭
That's sad
What??? 😮
Most bullies were someone else's victim. That's no excuse.
True
This is commonly believed to be the case (I thought so myself too about a week ago) then I was made aware of studies ino bullying which completely debunks this. You're no more likely to be a bully if bullied yourself, in fact you're less likely. Some people are just horrible for some reason.
@@scootaymildo1070
One really has to be .. pretty fu€ked up, to do something bad that happened to yourself, to someone else.
Not really
@@scootaymildo1070most of them learned by example. Most people learn by example.
She literally went into a sob story about something that had nothing to do with what she was supposed to be addressing. She totally did it.
It's always a sob story when it's from the person you don't like 😂
The sad truth about these bullies is they don't "grow and evolve". They don't grow at all, they just age. They stopped evolving at the maturity level of an 8-year-old bully. I have experienced *well known professionals in my community* in their 30s, 40s, 50s engaging in mean girl/bully behavior, (illegal) "pranks" against women they're jealous of that put the targets in danger, smear campaigns that damage careers and the mental health of the targets. Just because they're on some charity board doesn't mean they're charitable or good-hearted. Sometimes it's a cover, and that's how the schollyard bully has managed to blend into society.
I agree…to an extent, on the one hand you’re not wrong when you say some people will use charity and good deeds to compensate for a dark past. That’s honestly the reason why I could NEVER be friends with someone who used to bully me, because the friendship will feel forced, and for me…its hard to tell whether they're turning over a new leaf to feel better about themself or because they genuinely want to do good.
Albeit…as the saying goes: “actions speak louder than words” someone who promises to be a good person, isn’t as sincere as someone who genuinely does good. The idea that a bad person can never truly change or be deserving of a second chance is purely subjective. That’s the thing about opinions: cognitive dissonance prevents people from seeing that MULTIPLE things can be true at the same time. (I’m not saying that’s what your doing, this is just adding to my point)
What if you were to tell a 11 year old, who used to bully. That: “you can never change” that’s in my book is wholly incorrect.
@margeryojije7862 I'm not talking about those who turn over new leaves or people who used to bully. Those who have grown into adults and choose to continue bullying - because a lot of them do. Hard to change after decades down a dark path, although it is possible. Highly unlikely, but possible, and usually only after they've blown up their lives and harmed others in the process.
Narcissism is amazing.
They turn everything around and play the victim without batting an eyelash
She batted her eyelashes way too much.
Honestly she sounds and looks like my step daughter who is 100% a sociopath.. she likes playing the victim, even though she doesn't actually "feel" like a victim.. she does things to hurt other people and then if someone does the same thing back to her she will cut them off, plan to hurt them and try to get everyone else to cut them off too. Everything is "if you don't like or agree with me it's jealousy"
Justice for the kids who were severely bullied before Social Media and may never see retribution.
womp womp
For my own part I feel sorrier for all those being bullied in social media. The bullying in my school did not extend to the whole freaking world the way it does now.
The desire for retribution ended for me when I grew up and found out exactly what my bullies were living through at home. Severe physical sexual and emotional violence left me wishing I had been mature enough to realize the “red flags” were white flags, screams for help. I wish now I had brought up the bullying to the authorities instead of handling it myself. Yeah, I made the people who bullied me stop bullying me and stop bullying anyone while I was around. But I didn’t stop the bullying because I wasn’t old enough to realize that my bully was in essence showing me what they went through. My high school bully has my number, and knows I am there for them. I feel like I failed them in school, like I was the only one to see what was going on, but I didn’t even think there might be a cause. I feel sprry for Amber. As much damage as she has caused others, SHE is the one who really got twisted up it seems like, her mama taught her that abuse was ok. No doubt her mama was also groomed.
@@whimsysmith2835 oooo this is a word and a much needed perspective. So beautifully written!
I was bullied by identical twins in intermediate (age 11-12) and at Uni we got to see them with absolutely zero friends. Just each other. It was glorious. No social media needed.
When one are adult,its in the past. Dont continue see yourself as a victim.
As an autistic person, her using her autistic brother’s experience with bullying and ableism enraged me! Holy shit!
Same.
The way the accused bully presents herself though her speech ALONE is enough to seal the case
As a person that was bullied from my first day of Kindergarten to my last day of high school, I applaud these people for going after their bullies. I still have mental, emotional and psychological problems from being bullied. I wasn't allowed to have friends or they would be bullied too. Why was I targeted? I had red hair. Years and years of damage to me simply because my hair color was different from everyone else's. To this day, I have no friends. I trust absolutely no one...not even my family. These bullies think it's funny but it's so not. They're why people snap. If schools took it more seriously instead of having the "kids will be kids" attitude then maybe there wouldn't be any school shootings. People like that should be prosecuted. You think I wasn't hurt? My scars are all on the inside and trust me they run deep. I have thought about suicide 98% of my life every day. Just because there are no bruises or cuts on the outside doesn't mean that there isn't major damage to me. So to all these people going after this girl for bullying them, I applaud you. I wish I could go after all of mine. Mine wasn't just one person, it was entire schools...Elementary, Junior High and High School.👏 🎉
I’m sorry you had that experience. My sister is also a redhead, and had the most awful comments said to her all throughout her formative years. She had low self esteem from it, and depressed from young on. I remember the time her confidence shifted and she later told me it was when she read the verse psalm 139:4, I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” She said she started to repeat it to herself anytime she felt low and she no longer found her self worth in what other people thought. She has way more friends than I do now, and she always gets compliments on her hair from strangers. She’s honestly beautiful, and she needed to find that in herself and believe it so others would believe it too. Don’t let bullies define you, you’re beautiful.
I was bullied relentlessly in school until one day I wasn’t. It didn’t end all at once and it took me a while to realize that I wasn’t being bullied anymore. And as i considered why this was, I realized that I had gained confidence in aspects of my life that I hadn’t prior to that and it made it not matter much at all. Once they stopped mattering to me I no longer cared and then they moved on to someone else. I don’t wish suffering on them I don’t hold onto whatever pitiful attempts they used to make my life miserable. Whatever power they had over me I took from them. It didn’t come down to fisticuffs or violence. Just a change in mindset. And now it’s water long gone out from under my bridge. There is no point in giving them anymore energy than that. Why should I give them energy?
Red hair is so beautiful, I'm always shocked when I hear how redheads were bullied.
You deserved better. Red heads are GORGEOUS & unique in the best way. They were jealous. I’m sorry you had to go through that & I pray you find peace ❤️
❤❤❤❤❤ I'm so sorry, Catrina. I know you're pain. I was bullied for different reasons, but the pain is the same. For 10 years following the bullying I felt like my insides were on fire because I was in so much emotional and mental anguish. Three years later and I'm rebuilding my life and loving on myself. I'm sorry for what you went through. Find ways of healing and putting them behind you because you deserve it.❤❤❤❤
Amber laughing as her victim is crying and asking her to stop is PURE BULLY BEHAVIOR. Taking pleasure in someone being uncomfortable and upset. That's nuts. Also, look at that photo of the Halloween party, every girl looks super uncomfortable and barely smiling.
i feel so sick listening to her laughing in the video 😭 poor girls. what a disgusting situation
That girl was a bully. It in her eyes : the sociopath stare. She has no emotion when she speaks about it. She is definitely the BullY 😡😤👊
Yes 🙌
and there is nothing natural on her face, fake mouth, fake nose...
No offense but I doubt the "sociopath stare" is a thing?
I immediately saw it 😟
@@jordanjordan3167 y lmao it's just a filter
This doesn’t absolve Amber of accountability, but when a mother is like that, how could this girl turn out any other way? This is sick
People out there have been violated by their parents and never did anything wrong the rest of their lives. Maybe normal stuff but not vile behavior.
Not everyone who is abused in anyway abuse.
She chose to be bad person
@@a.deadgirlI feel like normalization is the key differentiator here. Other children have been abused by their parents but with intervention and a safe environment they realize these actions are wrong. Amber’s mother effectively groomed her to do her bidding and I believe they were doing these things to get the social following she has now. They make CONTENT together. I feel like for Amber this is all business as usual and that’s probably why she was able to dissociate from the bullying and sexual harassment. These things have become opportunities for her. It’s a shame she’s an adult now and she seems comfortable with this life.
@@a.deadgirlI do want to be clear though, I totally agree that not all abused people abuse other people, but I think it definitely skews the way you look at things in life, especially if the abuse occurred in your development
She may be a victim but that’s no excuse to terrorize and harass other people. I’m so tired of this “hurt people hurt people” mentality, if making others suicidal and depressed makes you feel better then you’re just an evil person regardless of your past.
@@a.deadgirlit’s just that I was thinking, now she allegedly films her mother, and in the videos where she’s being the bully she films the girls.. I wonder if the mom maybe asked her to film her even before amber was 18. It would be very clear where the normalisation for her would come from
Even the nervous laugh and the "stop, please" not to make you bully mad cause you just know that if you called her out it would immediately be "JESUS I WAS JUST JOKING, YOU'RE RUINING EVERYTHING, IT'S ALL TOUR FAULT" vibes
Fawning is a common trauma response. Fawning is doing everything you can do to make your attacker not hurt you by trying to keep them happy so they don't lash out and react with worse actions
@@LeadrynMcKrotch yeah, and sadly a lot of people don't get it and they be like: well, why don't you just said something??? Sometimes it's just not that easy also the blame is on the person filming your naked body without your consent, period.
Your commentary is so insightful, especially the "everyone's been a bully" bit. I never thought about it that way but you're so right
“I’m not like a regular mom, I’m a COOL mom!”- Amber’s mom 😂😂😂
This is the one I was looking for ☝🏼 🎯😂
Am I the only one who got super cringe vibes at the Halloween party picture, Amber's mom was the Devil?.. That's absolutely wicked and unacceptable. It's truly a shame how some of these adults have no problem corrupting minors. Terrifying #holdheraccountable #childabuse
@@roxanneanna83 I agree.
nah reginas mom never did porn with her, she had limits
Lmao
It’s so obvious the bully is lying. The victim has a lot of emotions while telling the story, her microexpressions match up with someone thinking about or reliving a negative experience. But the bully’s emotions and expressions and body language is all wrong. It’s not consistent and that’s why you can *feel* that she lying. Our brains can pick up on the little details in her facial expressions and inflections. She’s fake af.
And I’m def s*x positive and support SW’s but there is something so wrong about a mom and daughter doing OF together 🤢
Agree
True. And the OF thing is absolutely disgusting. It’s incest. Flip the scenario as if she was doing that with her father…
@@lob1248 I thought of that. Either way it’s incest and I wouldn’t doubt it was going on BEFORE Amber turned 18.
her mom groomed her. probably some weird csa shit as well. if so, itd make sense shes a bully. sxual trauma makes people feel very very vulnerable and can cause them to become violent/bullies/antisocial because they never want to be the victim again. just a theory not an excuse. hope everyone in this situation gets the help they need.
i was looking for someone who would talk about their NVC and the way they told their stories. i need people to understand that even when they think they’re good liars, it takes some really, REALLY good practice to hide your nvc.
The principal waiting outside doesn't mean that parents weren't called. One of my children had a really bad experience with bullying. They called the parents EVERY TIME. The parents believed their child's lies. They changed the bullies' entire schedule. Teachers had to be on alert bc she'd literally stalk my child. She'd go into classes that she wasn't in, so I totally believe that part of the story. These parents don't care and that's why their child never behaves.
As a teacher, I believe this as well.
People forget that not all parents are responsible. Many times, students behave the way they do because of the parents.
@@MandaMonkeyRayfor sure. I remember as a kid there was this nasty girl in my class, met the mother, just as nasty. The dissapointment i felt time and time again as years passed and I though alright, this year we are older, surely everyone is over bullying and have matured. Only to grow hopeless specially as I saw adults behaving disrespectfully like teens
Exactly 💯
When a kid is that much of a menace, and the parents are unwilling to intervene and correct the behaviour, that's something I consider worthy of intervention by whatever CPS equivalent applies. There is at least neglect, if not outright abuse, going on in their home.
That's awful. Stalking just to terrorize. What the hell is wrong with those parents?
I was heavily bullied for 11 years through elementary and high school. It has been 11 years and i still remember the faces and names of each of them. It went all the way to the police and expulsion for some of them. I have PTSD from it. I struggle talking in public, i have panic attacks if im in a confrontation. With a lot of therapy i can now speak to a small group and slowly learn to stand up for myself. But the anxiety and stress it caused will forever be in me.
The girl who is trying to defend herself is saying a lot of stories. This is a sign of someone who isn’t telling the truth. The more “blabby” someone is when defending themselves, the more likely they’re lying. Of course it could be her baseline way of talking, but still. She’ll say, “I’ve never talked to her before” then goes back and says, “well, maybe I spoke to her in middle school” Girl. You just said you never spoke to her. And then you say you had one convo then admitted you went to the same middle school. Hm.
I have a crap memory and I stutter so I naturally sound like this when explaining things to other people.
This is a misconception honestly. Some ppl get nervous &/or cannot word what they are saying properly. This does not mean they are lying. Speech patterns taught while growing up &/or having been made nervous, due to any given situation or circumstance, can cause this well into adulthood & even permanently. Basically, she was trying to say she had few words aside from perhaps once, but the last part came out first. Talking a lot should not be considered lying either. It is a nervous habit developed to fill the quiet, explain, etc. We are not psychologists ourselves & even professionals themselves are wrong on many accounts sadly.
Exactly!
She’s saying Shit for absolutely no reason 😅 just l y i n g
Y'all ever notice that the bullies always look 10 years older than they actually are.
Fr she looks gross
Yup. It’s from all that hate
@@bmo64_yeesssssss hatred AGES YOU!!
Wait how old is she
@@oceanexblve884 according to google she's 21
I bullied a couple kids in school. I was going through a bad time and lashing out, but I grew up and apologized for my actions. I was bullied at home and in high school, and didn't want to be that person anymore.
It's okay to admit your wrongs and right them.
You’re the goat ❤
Good for You
Your apology wont undo the damage you caused
@@kingdrift1136 it might it might not undo anything, but who are you to judge someone right their wrong. They should never have done it, but it happened and they tried to make amends something the bully we watched didn’t acknowledge or even try to do.
@@kingdrift1136 stop projecting. This comment is what we hope for in humanity for a better future. Bullies use to never apologize! They become adult bullies. And you never know what people are going through at home to cause them this severity. So chill bruh
this drama has been popping out in my feed for like a week now and never seen it, but grew curious. Glad you appeared on my feed explaining the tea, thanks sir 🙏🙏
This woman sounds like she's been grooming her daughter and probably other young girls for years. This is beyond revolting. Someone should investigate this woman. They could save new victims and bring closure to the old ones.
I think it’s funny how NOW you can put your bullies on blast and ruin their online life ☠️☠️
Man, I love technology wish I had Tiktok in HS!!
Perfect revenge
You didn't ruin their lives. They ruined it themselves.
@@YazminM2222 True that, if Amber handled this differently and didn't prove people her personality is just as rotten as it used to be, there barely would have been any hate for her on social media
I love TikTok revenge cause the bullies never go get away with anything cause karma a bitch what comes around comes back around
My ex-best friend betrayed me to my bullies in middle school, she told them all my secrets and the bullying got so bad I had to leave normal school and become homeschooled. I have so much sympathy for the victims. 😔
That is so sad I hope you have healed❤
I'm so sorry ❤
I wish I was home schooled. 8 I didn't have my first best friend until I was an adult.
🫶
This why you don’t tell ppl secrets they’ll turn on you
Some people truly don’t know how much bullying can mess someone up. Especially if they’re already in a low place and home life isn’t any better.
The way Amber was readjusting herself on the camera and trying to look good was a dead giveaway. All the girls were talking very calm and she was just screaming the whole video. Only a liar yells at the top of their lungs to prove a fake point.
Every time she says “literally” she’s lying 😂😂. LITERALLY.
I’m not surprised her mom was in on it. You don’t get to this level of being a horrible person without a parent enabling that behavior.
She isn’t even saying ‘literally’, she said ‘litally’…
Wait. Because she says literally she's lying?
@@heathertaylor7249it's not an indicator of lying 100% of the time, but with people like Amber here, it's a form of psychological and narcissistic manipulation.
The idea being for some unknown reason that repeated use of "literally" adds credence to their story.
I've unfortunately known plenty you bullies and spent a couple years studying psychology trying to understand why they are the way they are.
@@heathertaylor7249yes
As someone who was bullied badly & had to change high schools im so invested in this story 🥺.
Amber Mezner was bullied severely in middle school and had to homeschool! That girl doesn’t know Amber and never met her
@@chaarrllotte660Quit lying.
@@chaarrllotte660 wait… how are you connected to the story? Did you reach out to Derrick? Story seems pretty legit so if you are trying to defend Amber replying to the comments here ain’t gonna do much- just saying… still he said she said up in here
@@chaarrllotte660there's receipt tho..stop lying amber!!
Idk, I'm only a few minutes in.. but if I was falsely being accused of bullying someone, my response wouldn't be "ACTUALLY, I WAS BULLIED!!" And then go on a tangent about how much of a victim I am, leading people away from the actual topic at hand :p
Her making and posting that video while that girl was crying and begging her to stop was just disgusting and heartbreaking.
Find me 1 comment of a guy crying bout this and tag me, it's only you wimin that get hurt by words
@@mitchlewis8260i’ll do you one better: the man in the video
@@mitchlewis8260and what about it. We are half of the population, so it's not "only" and yes, I can name men in my life who have been deeply affected by words. Stpid.
@@mitchlewis8260Dude… There was literally a man THIS YEAR who committed su1cide over guess what… Words! Not to trivialize his dead because what they were saying was vicious… But it literally took no more than 3 seconds of thought to disprove that
@@mitchlewis8260My son was bullied in 6th grade. Before that, he liked going to school & was happy. He went into a depression & the school staff thgt I was exaggerating. He even started becoming violent & he was nothing like that b4. As soon as I got him out, he was that happy go lucky non-violent kid I raised. He's a senior, doing great. But Even now when I bring it up, he quickly changes the subject/won't talk about it. Those type of scars stick with a person, whether ur a man or a woman.
Her mom needs to be arrested for child abuse
Yeah, mom was the root of all this.
Absolutely
What about her dad?
@@crestfire8008 from what I could tell dad bounced, so he’s also at fault for that. Just my guess though.
Yup. She’s having an incestuous relationship with her daughter. Absolutely vile.
I reported my bullies multiple times, but no action was taken. Even after being physically pushed, all they did was talk to the girl.
lol "you kids just need to talk to each other and work it out"
Schools don't give a sh to the students, everyone who works in a school just wanna get their payment and go home. When a massacre happens they go "omg! what caused this?"
Pretty much how it works. my principal 100% waited outside of my classes to walk me to my next one due to a girl threatening me and all that happened was a “meeting” where we *both* had to apologize 💀
@@jss4507 this is so frustrating
@@jss4507yeah- same. Then I was attacked by them a week later off school property
Your reaction is priceless. I can't stand the mean girls did a my precious daughter was also bullied before I changed her schools. She's worked through a lot.
Instead of taking the opportunity to apologize and validate this person, Amber jumps to being the victim and totally flipping the story. I feel sorry for that person that was actually bullied by Amber.
"I trusted you"
My heart broke. I have tears in my eyes. The cruelty. Not even feeling a little bit of shame about it? Lying... Why? Damn.
It doesn’t matter if the bullying happened a week ago, year ago or 10 years ago. Words stick and can have psychological impact on people in their later lives. Bullies are disgusting.
AND THEYRE STILL NOT BEHIND BARS
She liked the harassment so much she converted to a lesbian 0:32 check the bio
Also Ms sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me what happened to that huh
You obviously lack the life-skills to comprehend mental illness & trauma. @@mitchlewis8260
@@mitchlewis8260that's always been a lie. People are able to destroy your life with words in so many ways
1:18 Thank you for having the "innocent until proven guilty with undeniable evidence" mindset
The video of her laughing and stealing the girls clothes as they cry and beg just made me tear up. I've been through awful, awful bullying. Look Amber, you can change. But you have to own up. At this point, lying about it is continuing the cycle of bullying. What a dreadful person.
Idk how there is not more outrage and comments here about this clip bruh that’s the worst part bruh that’s so horrible
@@yazlyn3467the girl was laughing not crying …..IM NOT DEFENDING IT it was horrible
@@oceanexblve884 the girl sounded like she was crying and Regina George was laughing
@@oceanexblve884 lots of people laugh/giggle when they're nervous, especially in situations where they are defenseless (like being nude) and being recorded, and are young girls who were probably until that part having fun.
If her response video included a genuine apology she might not have been exposed for the CP 😬
The fact she was in an anti bullying campaign is so funny to me because when I was bullied all the girls were the exact same even though this was a long time later I’m proud of her for speaking out
I've realised that girls who bully go into medical or join anti-bullying clubs;
I'm currently in a health and social care coursework class thing and the class is FULL of girls who bully other people. It's disgusting.
So would that be the equivalent to a closeted senator/congressman being against lgbt?
@@dorreyeet1529I was just thinking that which is also ironic
Playing victim is narcissim damage control. Protect the ego at all costs.
1:41 "I'm sorry you had to grow through that" I'm stealing that.
Her entire body language screams “I’m not the bully, everyone I know is the bully because they’re Jealous of how pretty I am”
Also the way she talks about her brother and describes autism is horrible and very telling.
If you run into an asshole once you ran into an asshole, if you keep running into assholes everywhere you you’re the asshole
And the nerve to post soooo filtered but the "I'm just prettier" vibes is hilarious.
Wow your asshole quote is my new favorite quote 🤣
You’ll always run into assholes at your work, anywhere you go you can’t avoid assholes no matter how much you try
That’s some good wisdom. The last part is going into the ar give of advice for life
100%
The bully looks like a psychopath. It’s weird how she doesn’t blink.
So does the other girl
@@ssj-rose4572hello Amber, why did you like your own comment?
She must be good at staring contests
I literally don't believe her. I was literally bullied, literally it's not something that is easily forgotten. It's literally deep in my core. You can also literally get bullied because you are a bully. Literally
Literally, bro, like on God, it's so literally literal. Like, literally.
I sincerely hope that all of the people included get help. They all need it...❤😢
All my bullies were in the peer help program that was meant to dismantle bullying.
It's real.
A lot of nurses used to be mean girls too. Something about being in a position of power where they're supposed to help people just attract their ilk somehow
And alot the kids who went to the students against drunk driving would drink and drive all the time.i know it to be true because my sister started her school chapter. It's a bunch of virtue signaling, with a few good kids sprinkled in now and again. Bullies and liars know it is important to look respectable and caring when peers are looking at them, as long as they can make others look bad they look like an angel. Classic tactics
Because a lot of bullies know how to be charming to authority figures so they get away with their bullying.
people need to grow up lol still worrying about middle school bullies as an adult is peak snowflake mentality
All these comments above prove how bullies are Narcissistic sociopaths who use positions of authority/power to hold a good reputation in public but in their core they are very rotten people.
From my own experience with narcissists, Amber fits the picture very well. The rambling, the lack of accountability, the emptiness in her eyes. Bruh
I honestly don't think she is a narcissist. Maybe her mom though, seeing as she seems to have been using her daughter for money
I wouldn't be surprised if Amber is a borderline as well. 😱😨😰🤢🤮🤮
I though I’m the only one comcerned with her eyes… classic narcissist
@@PrettyPennyTVnot all borderlines are abusive. Autism can mimic bpd aswell and personally autistics are worse.
@@Foywpos All true. I have a degree in psych. I can't tell if she's borderline yet. But, she does have NPD, or BPD, with NPD. The way she treated Nick says it all.