Why your absence terrifies the narcissist

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @westcoast747
    @westcoast747 Год назад +45

    Lock the door, double lock it, walk away and shine like a 🌟 You win, they lose, game over.

  • @jjones4314
    @jjones4314 Год назад +135

    I don't feel one bit sorry for my ex! Door is closed forever!

    • @beemonroe4330
      @beemonroe4330 Год назад +15

      I second that emotion 🤌🏾

    • @hasansarhan9296
      @hasansarhan9296 Год назад +12

      Forever

    • @emmamonroe3311
      @emmamonroe3311 Год назад +17

      Once you figure out who they are there are zero reasons to ever open such a door. Lock it.👈🏻

    • @beemonroe4330
      @beemonroe4330 Год назад

      @@emmamonroe3311 and put the chain and alarm on on stay… ‼️

    • @Twany1954
      @Twany1954 Год назад +11

      They are their own worst enemies. The collapse is inevitable👈🏻

  • @smokeybear7669
    @smokeybear7669 Год назад +97

    Things are never going good for the narcissist.
    They live a life of loneliness and self hate.
    They dug up their own grave.

    • @Bleepbloopblarp
      @Bleepbloopblarp 10 месяцев назад +2

      They can’t get out of their own way 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 11 месяцев назад +30

    They mirror you, want to become you, try and one up you which is called oneupmanship. It’s just all NUTS👈🏻

    • @Missybella92227
      @Missybella92227 11 месяцев назад +5

      Yes!!
      By the time covert discarded me he was my reflection. Well dressed, well groomed, nice car, nice apartment. He was like a mean high school teen competing with me.

    • @emmamonroe3311
      @emmamonroe3311 11 месяцев назад

      @@Missybella92227 all of this just shocks me to my core. I think they really are demons walking on this earth. Hell, look at Alex Murdaugh.👈🏻😣👈🏻

  • @Twany1954
    @Twany1954 Год назад +27

    When the saying is they wear the mask, they don’t want to show the devil that lies in them. I believe that is true.

  • @dawnhandelman308
    @dawnhandelman308 9 месяцев назад +7

    Prayer is powerful and changes lives from a very safe distance 🕊❤️🙏

  • @Peacefully-Happy-86
    @Peacefully-Happy-86 Год назад +103

    Oh yes don't feel sorry for them. Run for the hills and your own sanity. It's all a game to these weirdos. They'll end up growing old very lonely because what you reap is what you sow.

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 Год назад +4

      Love the Way You Think.

    • @xoxo-vp7ww
      @xoxo-vp7ww Год назад +3

      @Peacefully-Happy-86 - (edit) what did we sow to reap the narc/toxic person?? And if they are the consequence of whatever we sowed then doesn’t that mean that they will not be punished because their actions are our punishment??? These cliches or whatever are such contradictions.

    • @MartinSerdar
      @MartinSerdar Год назад +3

      ​@@xoxo-vp7wwKarma

    • @pamelaskaggs8739
      @pamelaskaggs8739 Год назад

      @@xoxo-vp7wwGod’s Word says we reap what we sow, it’s only a cliche if you don’t believe the Bible is absolute Truth. Figuring out what a Narcissist is has been a Huge wake up call for me in the Spiritual realm, these are very demonic spirits driving these Narc’s, Satan is the Original Narcissist, Arrogant, Prideful, Boastful, no Love in him just Hate and Envy, it’s a Spiritual battle we’re in, you can be a descent person and still have bad things happen to you but don’t let bad people harden your heart, turn to Jesus, put your Trust in Him, He’s the Lover of your Soul❤️

    • @Peacefully-Happy-86
      @Peacefully-Happy-86 Год назад +5

      @@xoxo-vp7ww Bit of a strange comment i must say 🤔 I was meaning in the terms of what the narcissist sows they reap... As in what goes around comes around..future consequences are inevitably shaped by present actions.

  • @drewsibleyloans
    @drewsibleyloans Год назад +43

    She got bored and discarded me. I ignored a hoover recently. Feel bad b/c it's not me to not respond. Thanks for your support Joe. It really helps alot!!

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga Год назад +2

      How do they hoover when you block them everywhere? Do they show up at your house or something?

    • @drewsibleyloans
      @drewsibleyloans Год назад +2

      @@ainahaga around the corner

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga Год назад +1

      @@drewsibleyloans around the corner? They come to your house? I think of mine all through the day it makes me insane. This is even more intense then the twinflame connection😳 i am now thinking of two men both my narc and my twinflame😳😲

    • @shawnpullen9517
      @shawnpullen9517 11 месяцев назад +1

      💯🙏🙌

    • @treshasstarr1513
      @treshasstarr1513 11 месяцев назад +1

      Nah don’t feel bad, it’s the Empath part in u, it’s VILLAIN ERA….know ur darksyde

  • @dropintheocean9952
    @dropintheocean9952 11 месяцев назад +19

    Just be a detached witness.

    • @KarenKeating-t2p
      @KarenKeating-t2p 6 месяцев назад +1

      I agree 😊 This really is the secret...because it's all an illusion ✌️

  • @PrettyIndependent1
    @PrettyIndependent1 Год назад +44

    This is why God says we need the Holy Spirit to discern and see their spirit behind all righteous wording they can use. A healthy person wants to help someone and they exploit this.

  • @TIMP-g2k
    @TIMP-g2k Год назад +27

    Just as it's said re Satan in the Bible: He keeps transforming himself into an angel of light. The human narcs do similarly. 💯

  • @cajuncrackerranch7990
    @cajuncrackerranch7990 Год назад +30

    I met such Devil and his legions all wrapped up in one little hollow 5’5” fake Kunt hidden behind a well constructed mask until IT broke down from its own shame and guilt.
    Some things cannot be explained, yet here I am, alive.
    Have a good weekend Joe!

    • @scottoz7891
      @scottoz7891 11 месяцев назад +1

      Amen bro 🙏🙏

  • @SagittariusBabe87
    @SagittariusBabe87 Год назад +22

    Always is about them! He took his mask came off and He smashed it on the ground! I see who He is now! That's why He hoovered Me excessively and, I denied him everytime! And, He was angry at Me at times because He had no control over Me, and could not make me do what He wanted Me to do anymore. He told Me He missed Me, and He knows He messed up! I did not chase him nor, did I accept the hoovers! He lost an Amazing person, A beautiful EMPATH! Moving on with my life!✨ Sucks to be them!!!

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 10 месяцев назад +3

      Well said girl!! Stand in your power ❤ 👸🏻

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@kaoshi_kutie Thank you!☺️ Still standing my ground. Being single is better than being with a Narcissistic man who think he God's gift to women. I'm better off alone and it's peaceful & calm, all the time.

  • @sirg-had8821
    @sirg-had8821 11 месяцев назад +11

    I would be surprised if she felt anything at all when she discarded me.
    I have prayer and books while she has my replacements. I'm winning the long game.

  • @yafattahyarazaq3315
    @yafattahyarazaq3315 Год назад +22

    The door slam,it's too late. My ex narcissists try to hoover me, he want to make me feel sorry for him. He's truly master of manipulator, coward also criminal.

  • @OhSoLovely
    @OhSoLovely Год назад +13

    Too bad ... So sad! And only dogs goes back to their vomit 🤢... I'm in peace💞🤸🤸

  • @susand7202
    @susand7202 Год назад +14

    Ugh Joe, I sure do pity my Nex, but not enough to overlook the traumatic experiences of the toxic behavior. Thank you for sharing your wise words of encouragement as always. Have a great weekend yourself.❤😊

  • @6886a
    @6886a Год назад +23

    Thank you Joe 🙏🏻✨ this is something I needed to hear today. I was discarted, but I can feel like some sort of haunting and I found out that my ex is sick. The mom IS also a narc and I don't think that the new supply is naive, so in a way it's a bigger prison. I don't wish any harm, I just know that I must go on with my healing 💕 thank you, this somehow helps me a lot ❤

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  Год назад +6

      Thank you for your kind comments. Indeed keep moving forward keep healing! ❤

  • @flowersofthefield340
    @flowersofthefield340 2 месяца назад +1

    So True Joe ..............

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 Год назад +9

    Have a nice weekend too Joe ! 🍷🍷It's all so depressing about them and no cure.... sad 😥

  • @bondeappetite703
    @bondeappetite703 Год назад +9

    Every time mines having problems is when I get messages I believe

  • @michaelthompson2458
    @michaelthompson2458 13 дней назад

    I LOVE EVERY ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS!!!

  • @nati6969
    @nati6969 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love the way you explained things.

  • @bigceefts8047
    @bigceefts8047 Год назад +2

    YEUUUUUPP!!!!!! YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT ✅️!!!!

  • @paolapaparelle4509
    @paolapaparelle4509 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thankyou, love and support from Italy❤

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 Год назад +10

    Exactly what I was dealing with as a strong Christian, during grief, they are demonic.
    Lord stop him expose him, knock that victim mask off his face🙏💔
    Are you in Cali? I need quick help
    I hope he has to pay for everything and looses 10 fold what he took

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 Год назад +9

    I saw the narc stare isn't that the same thing? It was horrible.

  • @Gwendeline
    @Gwendeline 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sadly right now I need a short term fix to feeling horrible it sucks being alone

  • @1968chooch
    @1968chooch 3 месяца назад +1

    They resurface like a cold sore

  • @onlyonce1707
    @onlyonce1707 Год назад +2

    Beautiful pictures.

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh 10 месяцев назад +4

    They look so old in their 50’s… hagged like!!

  • @paddyh6530
    @paddyh6530 10 месяцев назад +6

    Slam, bolt and weld shut the door to your life from these very weird erse oles

  • @susanparker9877
    @susanparker9877 11 месяцев назад +2

    Addicted to work.

  • @NatashaBailey
    @NatashaBailey 8 месяцев назад +1

    resonated

  • @lexiwest2644
    @lexiwest2644 11 месяцев назад +5

    He’s sick. That’s all I know.

  • @AmandaZ-ft2ow
    @AmandaZ-ft2ow Год назад +3

    Deep! The way you speak about this it is as though you are coming from personal experience.
    What strength and erudition you have!
    With My Deepest & Most Profound Gratitude! ! !❤⚜️❤
    Blessed Be! ! !❤🙏❤

  • @endigosun
    @endigosun Год назад

    Spot on… 💯

  • @ainahaga
    @ainahaga Год назад +3

    He changed his profile picture today, Its like I need to look at his profile to see what is going on in his life cause I feel he is a narsisist. He looked very good at the picture he posted today. I have not talked to him since monday this week. I will pray for him.

    • @ParalegalSolutions-b3y
      @ParalegalSolutions-b3y 6 месяцев назад +1

      Sweety this demons don't change.

    • @ainahaga
      @ainahaga 6 месяцев назад

      @@ParalegalSolutions-b3y yeah I know. I feel fear just thinking of seeing him again and he left for Thailand in october gonna stay there until end of may- praying that he had met someone there so he does not come back to Norway again. I feel he is thinking of me on and off. Maybe because I KNOW he will NEVER find another woman like me. NEVER. Maybe in beauty but never my personality and the way I love. Im sure he stole my spare keys to my apartment too. Cause those keys dissapeared when he was with me those months we dated. Im afraid some days to come home and see him sitting in my sofa waiting for me. Im looking for another apartment but havent found one yet. This guy scared me so much. I dont think he will be back but it is said that narsisists always return cause they think they own you. That you belong to them. And I do NOT belong to anyone!

    • @loitongbamjanjitsingh2083
      @loitongbamjanjitsingh2083 Месяц назад

      I have changed my profile picture to show her that I will become attractive again after the abuse . Because I got so skinny now . flying monkeys are stalkers .

  • @lisamcmahon-q1z
    @lisamcmahon-q1z 10 месяцев назад +2

    Is sympathy used to prevent you leaving or is it just supply?
    Thanks for another informative video Joe

  • @sonlightpsalm942
    @sonlightpsalm942 10 месяцев назад +2

    Interesting take on the Jin as the Muslims ☪️ 🤔 call them.
    Just understand, if you've had the unfortunate experience of having married or live with one of these creatures, if you heal from your trauma, then mission is accomplished! They're in your life for one reason. So you can grow and transform into the person your destin to become.
    Tes, we can " demonize" them, but its better to learn.
    Remember, even Jesus said the Satan is the god of this world.
    Just look what his fait was at their hands, and yet it pleased God to allow His son this humiliation to show us the way to redemption.
    Both the narcissist and the empathetic person were both codependent and traumatized.
    The narcissist chose negative energy, you chose positive energy.
    Eventually we all return to Source when our spirit leaves this earthly plane.
    Be the change you desire to see in others.
    Personally Im glad bot to have volunteered 🙋‍♂️ for that role.

  • @StacyD608
    @StacyD608 7 месяцев назад

    The war against ai is now. A conscious jealous ai

  • @Seer-yr9bn
    @Seer-yr9bn Год назад +1

    Yup

  • @icalotdonthide2646
    @icalotdonthide2646 10 месяцев назад +2

    I see you know my ex grandma. 😂😂😂

  • @owen4388
    @owen4388 Год назад

    *promosm*

  • @suzannecoultard3673
    @suzannecoultard3673 Год назад +1

    The meaning of ACQUIESCENCE is passive acceptance or submission : the act.of acquiescing. Me SUBMIT?