interesting interview - definitely took me a little out of my comfort zone and also took me inward to query what I really intuit/know, what is conditioned and what is preferenced. There are several topics that are interesting but not convincing to me. As a listener I'm surprised the topic of STD's didn't come up as a reason to be selective on who and how many partners to have. Also, it's great to study primates but humans have a much different and more nuanced psyche. The age difference is an interesting topic for me because I'm attracted to and attract much younger men. I realize I have a little shame around this and feel this is definitely a cultural conditioning. My dad had 2 younger wives and that was not looked down upon. Actually, it makes since to me for an older woman/ younger man coupling. As far as what's stimulating to someone is very personal - not everyone's nervous system wants to have "scary". That's obvious and proven that some people's brains crave that adrenaline rush , yet it's detrimental for others. I'm much more aligned with what I'm learning about tantra where a deep trust and safe container is the place where most pleasure is found. It also has been said that polyamory isn't so successful for both sexes in the long run. I am skeptical about women wanting lots of partners. I'm not judgmental of polyamorous relationships, and I think that's the exception. Lastly, I disagree with her about porn - I think it's done much harm and led to very unrealistic perceptions. I love that you bring these conversations and it gives me/others a chance to ponder and refine or solidify what is right for the individual.
Makes sense, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol's Secret, and she just can’t have enough now.
Yep another good one !thx
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interesting interview - definitely took me a little out of my comfort zone and also took me inward to query what I really intuit/know, what is conditioned and what is preferenced. There are several topics that are interesting but not convincing to me. As a listener I'm surprised the topic of STD's didn't come up as a reason to be selective on who and how many partners to have. Also, it's great to study primates but humans have a much different and more nuanced psyche. The age difference is an interesting topic for me because I'm attracted to and attract much younger men. I realize I have a little shame around this and feel this is definitely a cultural conditioning. My dad had 2 younger wives and that was not looked down upon. Actually, it makes since to me for an older woman/ younger man coupling. As far as what's stimulating to someone is very personal - not everyone's nervous system wants to have "scary". That's obvious and proven that some people's brains crave that adrenaline rush , yet it's detrimental for others. I'm much more aligned with what I'm learning about tantra where a deep trust and safe container is the place where most pleasure is found. It also has been said that polyamory isn't so successful for both sexes in the long run. I am skeptical about women wanting lots of partners. I'm not judgmental of polyamorous relationships, and I think that's the exception. Lastly, I disagree with her about porn - I think it's done much harm and led to very unrealistic perceptions. I love that you bring these conversations and it gives me/others a chance to ponder and refine or solidify what is right for the individual.
Might want to choose a different word than “factoid”. 😂
Makes sense, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol's Secret, and she just can’t have enough now.