They're honestly such an amazing couple and I hope they stay loyal to one another forever. Having fun and being comfortable around each other is the most important thing.
I love how honest Dina is about her jealousy, it's very refreshing in this day and age when everyone is banging on about being the "cool girl" (Gone Girl reference lol) - basically jealousy is a natural trait of EVERY HUMAN BEING, just don't let it eat you away. There'll always been someone better than you and worse than you, just deal with it and accept the imperfect world the way it is. Don't worry, everyone is going to die soon anyway so may as well get over the petty thoughts and opinions and look forward to what's to come - JANNAH! In Shaa Allah. Even Aisha RA used to get jealous over our Prophet, and he was so the most loyal and pure minded man ever to live, so come on women, cut ourselves some slack!!! No point crying over a raw cake when you're gonna have a feast later!
I LOVE THE EXAMPLE OF AISHA RA AND THE PROPHET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its soooo true how if a wife of the PUREST man who has ever lived can be jealous, than of course we can be too??!!
Also might I add - EVERYONE LOOKS! You husband is going to check out other women whether you like it or not in the same way that women will check out other men even if their husband likes it or not. Honestly there is nothing wrong with looking. Looking doesn't mean you are going to act on it. Everyone looks but how often do you get the person you are looking at? Lol never. So stop giving each other a hard time over looking at others, in today's day and age it really is no big deal...
+Nazreen Mo Well, I think what Dina was talking about was how all the non-muslims have everything hanging out. It's almost impossible to not look on accident. Men and women are discouraged from checking each other out, as stated in the Quran. I agree with what you are saying, though! It's useless to worry about something EVERYBODY does. :)
Dina and Sid should definitely do a "Marriage: Expectations vs Reality" video. I think it would be soo funny and fairly helpful for everyone wanting to get married soon. ☺
hey rumena! inshallah you are blessed with a loving husband also who appreciates you for who you are as a person and your big heart mashallah... yeah totally agree with you. inshallah the sisters marriage is blessed and they can both plant the seeds rather to grow together and increase on their respect and love for one another each day and water it and watch it grow... that's a good analogy. work on that sister and trust in God... Allah looks upon the husband and wife who look at each other lovingly with mercy... go with the flow and always place your trust in Allah inshallah xxx
Soo true, i sometimes think im the only crazy women with these crazy thoughts and then Dina goes and talks about this craziness and makes me feel absolutley normal lol thanks Dina! 😆
Dina dont be so hard on yourself! You are prwtty with or without make up and your body is great the way it is! Sid married you for so many other reasons than your appearance but I am sure he thought you were beautiful from the beginning ❤️ and will be forever!
I don't understand the paranoia and jealousy. Obviously it's real. Many women feel it. But... HE picked YOU!! You are his. He is yours. There are literally hundreds of thousands of beautiful women all over the world, and you are just one of them. But what sets you apart is YOU, the you that is inside. The heart and thoughts and mind behind everything physical. So appreciate your strong points and when you see a girl with different strong points, good for her. But you are the ONE. Every one has a body... Not every one is you. Know that you are special and being an individual is beautiful. Don't let jealousy steal that from you.
you know in the times when even Beyoncé can be cheated on, one can't be so sure right? 😀😀😀 Seriously, thanks for your comment 👍👍👍. There is still a lot of personal work to do to overcome the insecurities!
"he picked you" ? No, in most cases his PARENTS picked her (arranged marriage). There's nothing worse than not only having a low self esteem on body image but also not being in "love" or completely comfortable with the partner!
Another advice: you'll never be ready. Never be ready for your husband, never be ready to do exams, never ready to give birth etc. Just DO IT like you did exams even tho you thought you didnt study. Just look in the mirror and look at yourself and you're gonna love it. Dont look to others instead, because that's not gonna grow your selflove. + you'll survive it I guess.
You're sweet, I know what you mean like just push yourself because if so many people around you can do it then why can't you? And you'll maybe always feel insecure or worried about something until you overcome it and realize it wasn't so bad or that you can handle it or actually enjoyed and benefited from it.
+Girly Hijabi Yes! We won't be ready for anything. And I think men can understand too, but we as women just have to open up about it. I think it's humanly and after all we're going to think "ohmygod why was I that worried about this?" because we're getting new worries and problems anyways and that's life.
The Muslim community and parents need this wake up call to actually speak to their kids about 'the birds and the bees'. Every topic can be discussed in a polite way without it being inappropriate.. which alotta Muslims still think of it in that way unfortunately. Everyone has insecurities Sid, everyone! haha
+Bianco Isle Delfino that "shit" is taught differently in ever country, some Arab countries don't even discuss it nor do they let students ask questions because it's "inappropriate" according to them (my case). If parents were to raise the kid thinking that sex is such a bad thing to talk about and the school proves it, how the hell can one be educated properly???!! (same case goes to strict Catholic parents etc.. and yes, I happen to knw a few). As "awkward" as u may find it (me too now that I'm grown up), the parents can make it ok by choosing their words and the way they explain everything.
Yup; there are so many ways to go wrong with non-communication. My community is West African and Christian, and the extent of communication is "God hates premarital sex/you're a temple" "don't reduce your bride price [more figurative than literal nowadays]" "don't follow boyfriend" and then demonizing Western culture. Now you've got kids who have not been given any _actual_ logic or context who end up being almost insanely rigid (fighting the gut attraction to sex turns into looking down on sex and their own bodies), or else getting into damaging or unsatisfactory relationships. Even the older generation looks suspect to me, now that I'm an adult - I see a lot of dysfunction in older relationships, where I can tell the difference between aunties and uncles who grew a healthy relationship on all levels and the ones who are living in silence.
totally agree since if its not from thrir parents they will probably find out from the internet or friends...kids are curious and we need to just accept that and educate them properly.
what i love about my husband and me is that after our marriage, we went home, watched the news, took a shower, ate donuts and shit, talked about what is going to happen and if we have any expectations of each other. then i went to dress up in the lingerie i bought, but i was so shy to get out so i called him in the bathroom and told him to sit on the bathtub while i smoke a cigarette to calm myself down. even after finishing i just couldn't get up and go to the bedroom so he carried me there. i didn't want to put off my robe, so he said, "we don't have to do it tonight. you can give yourself all the time that you need. i'll wait, it's not gonna be the end of the world if it takes another 2 months". afterwards we did try it, but it hurt so badly i just burst into tears, even though i hardly ever cry, like i'm the epitome of a badass bitch. he consoled me, pat me on the back, cuddled with me and even after 2 months of marriage it still hurts like damn fucking hell, but we always communicate about stuff like that and i find that it helps more than anything else in this entire world. he saw me fully naked for the first time after a month or so and he appreciates every inch of my body. alhamdulillah, i hope it stays like this for a long, long time and i hope you find someone who'll be as understanding as my husband.
I think Dina needs some form of recognition for outstanding contribution to society, a topic discussed so openly yet it eats people up from the inside.
I hated that people who saw me with make up see me without it and say "you look tiered or sick" that's really rude, now I almost never put on makeup and when I do they are amazed lol
A woman's confidence should ultimately come from within. All people have a beauty that is their own. A few things you can do: positive affirmations in the mirror while you are completely naked. Whatever you don't like about yourself, focus more on that part. For example a bubble butt, if you want it, get your squat game up! Ugly feet? Get pedicures and look at them and massage them nightly before bed. So on and so on. Loving yourself will help with confidence and sex. Newlyweds who feels awkard with each other can start with daily skin to skin contact. Sit close to each other. Touch each other like with massages and kissing. Men love head rubs. Also try to always be missing 1 article of clothing. Start with wear short shorts instead of pants and then move to no pants. Men can were a muscle shirt and then move to no shirt. Make yourself just slightly uncomfortable. Not too much ... you know... a manageable amount. Of course these things are to be done at home. Some people need that to be said. Just my 2 cents of info. Loved the video Sid and Dina!!!
On my first night am going to play Minecraft with my wife and build my communication skills :) bonding is the key and #stayloyal&recspecteachother #bless
+ranaisadoll ah thanks, :) I kinda thought so but wasn't sure.. nice to meet a fellow Persian who's also big fan of sid and dina :) I've been following them for at least 2 years 😊😍 love them
The two of you should be named National Treasures! Invaluable advice, straight from the heart, not couched in flowery language, understandable, relevant and honest! Well done!
You know, when I watch these advice videos and they have gone on long enough I start to think and hope that there is still more of the video left and they are not going to end it soon. Like, whilst watching this, I just hovered the mouse over the video and thought, "Oh, that's great, I've only watched over half of the video yet," because some of these videos end up being so hilarious sometimes and I just don't want them to end LOL
I'm flatter than a textbook lol like, straight up-zero curves. And its not like working out will give me curves either. Honestly, its so hard for women today to not feel insecure and want to resort to extreme measures (surgery, injections, etc.) just to feel confident about the way they look. Especially make-up struggles. I see EVERY GIRL at uni wearing it and it just straight up makes me feel like no guy will ever think I'm pretty since I don't wear it before going out. *sign* the struggles are just so real.
Do not stress over make up I just started wearing it a bit I'm 34 and still look like I'm in my 20s as far as your body I'm assuming you're young unless it's just your genetically predisposed a lot of people I know didn't get curvy until after children or they're with a man that makes your body want to have kids sorry if that's tmi
Dina said you can never win... WHO CAN EVER WIN?.. the most beautiful person in your eyes will never be the most beautiful person in EVERYBODY's eyes... so chasing the idea of being perfectly beautiful is impossible.. and marrying someone who is materialistic or shallow will only put a pressure on you.. never rely on your beauty to find a husband coz thats not what marriage is about and soon or later it will fail!
If you've got to know someone in a halal way, no bf/gf thing then you haven't even hugged your partner nor have you kissed them & if you're a hijabi then they haven't seen your hair lol so all of a sudden on the wedding night you want to go all out....its a bit overwhelming don't you think? First get to know someone and be comfortable around them
I know right, a little peck on the cheek will make his night there's honestly no rush, obviously if you do get jiggy its completely okay because you're married but if you decide to wait, even a couple of days/weeks or months there's nothing to stress yourself about.
I think it depends on the family really. During the getting to know each other period, including the engagement, some people prefer to go out with a chaperone, like a sibling for example. However, a lot of the time they can go to get coffee or something alone, as long as they are in a public setting.
Let me just fill you in a little. All of this; is a product of low self-esteem. You think you're ugly,so if a guy thinks that you're cute you're like "Oh really?" You think that I am beautiful"? "Hohohoho, I'm the happiest woman on earth" And you're happier than the happy emoticon because he said that he thinks that you're cute. But what if he says the contrary? You'll sort of have a little depression and sadness. And you think nobody is gonna like you, nobody is gonna marry you and all that stuff. That's all a part of low sef-esteem. And there's Shaytaan who starts playing with your mind, you start playing depressing songs and you feel like the lyrics were adressed to you. And all of sudden, the blue sky becomes gray. I know that some girls have depression because of that, because I personally do have a friend who's like that. If you are embarrassed with your flaws, somebody Allah has created also is gonna like them for you. So dont be unconsciously ungrateful towards our Lord.
I have a big ol bubble butt, but I am insecure about it being too big. I am Christian. I have huge boobs too, but that does not mean it s a huge attraction to others, or myself. I also dress modestly....
Yeah ofcourse! I might be brought up agnostic, but alot of my views of life and lifestyle is that of Islam from nature, so thats why im so drawn to it aswell - plus i learn alot watching her and their channel.
As a woman married for three years.... I FREAKING FEEL THIS DINA. I FEEL THIS ALL THE WAY DOWN TO DA FLOOOOOOOR FAM. Also, about the first night - how the heck can two people have sex if they don't even know each other properly and haven't even kissed!? I lost my virginity three weeks after the first night. I tell you that first kiss was sloppy as fuuuuuudge. And there was no way I was comfortable enough to even sit next to my husband (even tho I hella wanted to marry the hot guy) let alone have sex on the first night. It was a gradual process. I even told my mum, i was like, yo mum, I aint having sex on the first night i bloody hope he knows that. So she told his mum and his mum told him. Obviously not straight up like THAT but he didnt book a hotel like he wanted to. We just went on a halal married peoples date. Get to know each other better, start liking each others company. Seriously dw about the first night, just be very clear to the person you're marrying about your feelings.
Lady Pinkymoe But why u told ur mom Lol u could have told him straight up after Nikkah That I'm not gona have sex until some time pass by lol.U should tell ur husbnad straight.Just saying hope u don't mind lol
It makes me so happy that you guys do these videos! I'm not Muslim, but I feel that your advice is so relatable to so many different people. So many prejudices and taboos would be broken down if people were just willing to talk, listen and learn more! So massive kudos to you guys for tackling these tricky subjects and for being so open, honest and real! Much love from Scotland ❤
I feel like watching and hearing Sid and Dina's insight on life whether that be through their vlogs or Q and A's really shows how true Islam is suppose to be followed. Islam is not suppose to be taboo this and taboo that, but rather a constructive quest for genuine knowledge and righteousness. Their channel really gives me hope for the future of the Muslim Ummah.
The first time doesn't matter in the long run. A couple in a committed relationship has their entire life ahead of them to get better at sex. Ultimately, it's about communication and consent.
And it is also very important after marriage to build up intimacy. Take your time. Cuddle each other. You won´t be having every night sex in your marriage. Then why should you start very intimate with sex? A couple should enjoy their private time in bed. Get used to each other. Who cares how long it takes. Only two people should matter in a marriage, that is the married couple. Nobody else.
I also saw a comment that someone was surprised that a Christian watches your videos I'm Christian and I love watching you guys, you don't have to be Muslim to relate to everything you guys talk about! ❤️🙏🏾
When sids tryna play it cool Sid: 'I'm not insecure' Dina: 'I'll make you feel insecure' Sid: 'AYYYY I got one insecurity' LOL Dead so beauts to see how well you both know each other, communication is key we can tell just by the way you guys are. #goals
I loved this cos everything was too damn real. Dina was real, Sid was real and the topic is something I needed at this moment in time. Also the humour in this video LOOOL
To be fair, if your husband (husbands in general) could hear your thoughts when you see a hot guy or are attracted to another man, he would feel the same way you feel, even though you'd never actually act on your attraction, just knowing you have thoughts about other men would drive him nutts too just like his thoughts would drive you nutts. But you're right, you can't control your thoughts or feelings, you can only control your own actions.
Dina babe, let Sid finish his sentences girl, lol, you have a lot of great things to say but sometimes we really need a guys outlook on things because our men don't talk to us about this stuff. Love you!!!
For me, personally, looking isn't the problem, not knowning your boundaries is the real problem. Once you have crossed that line, well trust has been broken and it's hard to get back.
Waow! I've never thought in this way that we dont have to push ourselves in the first night, yes, you guys are so right, everything dont have to be done in the first night because its a process,,, thanks a lot for lightening me, this video really changed my point of view :)
Dina is absolutely right. For the majority of women, the first time is not going to be pleasurable. To be honest, sex is like riding a bike (bad analogy, I know), you get better with practice. Also, communication is key.
Will the pain go away after practise? And will it feel good?? Because some of my friends who r married say its not that special and that they dont feel anything...
Maryam Free The pain does go away. If you allow yourself to relax and just focus on feelings and engage in sufficient foreplay, your body will lubricate itself and you can have pleasurable sex. Again, communication with your partner and having an open mind are key. Sex should be fun and enjoyable for all parties involved.
+Maryam Free Sex is very pleasurable for women also, the key is to love your spouse and want to have sex. My friend says that his wife is so much into sex that she always initiates it and craves for it, the thing is they loved eachother alot and married in very difficult circumstances and then after marriage they did sex alot like 3, 4 times a day so somehow she got habit of it and she cant stay away from it even if her husband say he is tired or not in mood but still she forces her to go for it. haha so its very pleasurable for women too.
+Maryam Free That's because their man is not pleasing them. Unfortunately, many men only focus on pleasing themselves. That's why it's important to find an open man who puts your pleasure first.
I'm 19. Not getting married or anything but this makes me feel so good about myself! Women everywhere go through insecurities but you know what? DON'T LET THE SOCIETY TELL YOU WHAT'S PERFECT AND WHAT'S NOT. ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE. TYSM DINA AND SID
To the girl in the email: Don't worry about the first night too much. You can try to of course, but it most likely won't happen, it hurts! & it could take a few days and tries, its NOTHING like you see in the movies, I'm a muslim girl as well, married for 2 years, i have friends who are married and we were all virgins and honestly i think i only 2 girls where it happened the first night. Another thing, getting naked - dress up in some lingerie, dim the lights, and it will happen naturally while ur making out and stuff. You're not gonna be standing there naked awkwardly. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't think about it. Just let it happen, your husband to be knows you're a virgin and I'm sure he has an idea of how it will go down. No one is perfect, all these girls on instagram with their photos are most of the time edited. EVERYONE has flaws, everyone has insecurities, I'm not 100% happy with my body, and like sid and dina said you dont have to be completely naked.
I remember how scared and shy I was my first night. My whole life I was scared of how my husband would see me and think of my body and the first night all my fears were gone because he did not even care! LOL I worried my whole teenage life for nothing! And it took my husband and me 2 months to actually be intimate. LOL
Dinas rant at the beginning is soooo true! exactly how every woman thinks! it is hard to live as a woman! because we want to be all he ever wants and its so hard for him to only want us when the most seductive photoshops and plastix surgery or just naturally physically superior women are in his face!
This video helps soooo much because we have so many questions and there is no one to go in depth and show us the reality of the first night. Thank you guys ❤️
''Women pressure themselves I don't know why' Oh no please.. Just the fact that this whole video is based on looks and women and not about personality of a woman, OR on the flipside, there are plenty good looking men around too! So why us women feel inadequate is purely down to women being associated with being beautiful, a 'good wife', a 'good mother' etc. I liked the concept and intentions of this video but I think the overall message has been lost in all of the mix. 'Don't wear make up then' oh noooo please. Women can do as they want and should not be judged by those who have NO idea what it is like to BE a woman in this world! Ladies, before you love your husband, learn to love yourself. Love your imperfections, love your curves if you have them, love your flat stomach if you have one, love your lil bulge if you have one - you are more than skin and flesh I promise you!!! Sex is sex - you are married and are making love - its emotional. Dont worry! A confident woman is more attractive than any kardashian :)
I'm literally in fits hahaha..."It always looks nice with a bit of accessories...even if it's a pair of socks!" Lmfaooooooo sids laugh makes it even funnier!
Dina this is such an important topic that many of us women are unable to speak of. Thank you for discussing this topic! It really made me feel better because it just assures me that I'm not alone. It is VERY DIFFICULT 😿.
Raw sex talk on youtube!😅😁😁 Only dina and sid to break it down for us directly just like that!! i appreciate this video! keep being you guys, you're videos just bring such a real prespective in topics that are someone what put in unrealistic terms for most of us!
+HijabisLoveBeautyToo hahah, I haven't seen a single video since 15th of Ramadan and they usually posted video every night but suddenly stopped ~ either way it was a joke 😜😂👌🏻
Can I just say these videos and this advice is also helpful for young christians holding out till marriage and your approach is very comforting and insightful :) God bless xxx
Cool Video Sod and Dina.. Just a tip re:Protecting /stopping hair probs is to be careful with wearing Caps all the time.. Constantly wearing Caps rub away at your Hairline especially at the front.. I have had two friends kne boy one girl who ended up with hair loss/receding hair line due to always wearing Caps ;) (My mum is a retired hairdresser also ;) )
This is by far the best video I've ever seen on your channel. I love how you guys think and deal with what our society sees as "controversial" subjects. And Dina I legit never thought I'd ever find anyone who thinks in the way that I do. I flippin love you man, you're hilarious and I love that you actually talk about the struggle with the hijab and everything! Lots of love, you guys are gonna be such amazing parents! 💜💙
omgg This topic though ! biggest fear of my life. the one and only legitimate reason I neverrrr everrr wanna get married is because of the awkwardness of what you have to do physically as a couple after marriage. like your whole life you're taught its wrong. and then suddenly just because you're married you're expected to do weird mushy crap. can't deal or cope 😂 like how EXACTLY are you meant to know what the heck to do Or how to even do it 😶 part 2 please
I think it's just like Dina and Sid have said: it is all about patience. When you first meet a person it takes time to get to know them. It might be awkward at first, you have small talk before you move onto deeper questions about values, politics, family etc. and before you know it you are comfortable with one another, you laugh together, you have inside jokes and shared memories. A physical relationship should be the same, it's a journey, not a button you press once you're married. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion, talk about your fears and ask to take it at a pace you are both comfortable with! I bet he will feel the same way about a lot of things! hope that helps :)
You can see how much Sid loves Dina. It's honestly the cutest thing ever
IKR ❤
They're honestly such an amazing couple and I hope they stay loyal to one another forever. Having fun and being comfortable around each other is the most important thing.
msa
Mashallah.
Isn't a bit sad that I am getting this information from a RUclips video. Our community had became so distant. Thank you for this sister
M M D no thats fine
I love how honest Dina is about her jealousy, it's very refreshing in this day and age when everyone is banging on about being the "cool girl" (Gone Girl reference lol) - basically jealousy is a natural trait of EVERY HUMAN BEING, just don't let it eat you away. There'll always been someone better than you and worse than you, just deal with it and accept the imperfect world the way it is. Don't worry, everyone is going to die soon anyway so may as well get over the petty thoughts and opinions and look forward to what's to come - JANNAH! In Shaa Allah. Even Aisha RA used to get jealous over our Prophet, and he was so the most loyal and pure minded man ever to live, so come on women, cut ourselves some slack!!! No point crying over a raw cake when you're gonna have a feast later!
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yes jest be your self never pretend to be someone else just to be cool
I LOVE THE EXAMPLE OF AISHA RA AND THE PROPHET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! its soooo true how if a wife of the PUREST man who has ever lived can be jealous, than of course we can be too??!!
Also might I add - EVERYONE LOOKS! You husband is going to check out other women whether you like it or not in the same way that women will check out other men even if their husband likes it or not. Honestly there is nothing wrong with looking. Looking doesn't mean you are going to act on it. Everyone looks but how often do you get the person you are looking at? Lol never. So stop giving each other a hard time over looking at others, in today's day and age it really is no big deal...
+Nazreen Mo Well, I think what Dina was talking about was how all the non-muslims have everything hanging out. It's almost impossible to not look on accident. Men and women are discouraged from checking each other out, as stated in the Quran. I agree with what you are saying, though! It's useless to worry about something EVERYBODY does. :)
Dina and Sid should definitely do a "Marriage: Expectations vs Reality" video. I think it would be soo funny and fairly helpful for everyone wanting to get married soon. ☺
Omg, yes 😂
That will be good
I agree
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Yes!!!!
Haha I swear you guys are so cutoo
Hey Rumena ❤❤❤
hey rumi
Rumenaaaaa😍😍❤️
hey rumena! inshallah you are blessed with a loving husband also who appreciates you for who you are as a person and your big heart mashallah... yeah totally agree with you. inshallah the sisters marriage is blessed and they can both plant the seeds rather to grow together and increase on their respect and love for one another each day and water it and watch it grow... that's a good analogy. work on that sister and trust in God... Allah looks upon the husband and wife who look at each other lovingly with mercy... go with the flow and always place your trust in Allah inshallah xxx
well said rumena
in a world full of Kardashians, be a Khadijah (R.A)
That is clever and a great saying.
+Miro Mayne how is this clever or great in any way.
Oezix3 linking modern absurdity and past excellence and making an inspiring saying. Don't be a hater bruv.
very well said 😊
Thank youu
"The first night of what? Ramadaan?" 😭😭😭😭
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I love Dina, she makes me feel so normal about my thoughts which I sometimes think people might consider extreme
Me too! it's not extreme. all women think this. women are just made to feel bad about any feelings we have. people suck!
Soo true, i sometimes think im the only crazy women with these crazy thoughts and then Dina goes and talks about this craziness and makes me feel absolutley normal lol thanks Dina! 😆
Dina dont be so hard on yourself! You are prwtty with or without make up and your body is great the way it is! Sid married you for so many other reasons than your appearance but I am sure he thought you were beautiful from the beginning ❤️ and will be forever!
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Polymath aww have a great day! :))
Polymath sure! :)
inshallah
your communication is so great guys it's like you are psychologically connected....What a connection😍
I don't understand the paranoia and jealousy. Obviously it's real. Many women feel it. But... HE picked YOU!! You are his. He is yours. There are literally hundreds of thousands of beautiful women all over the world, and you are just one of them. But what sets you apart is YOU, the you that is inside. The heart and thoughts and mind behind everything physical. So appreciate your strong points and when you see a girl with different strong points, good for her. But you are the ONE. Every one has a body... Not every one is you. Know that you are special and being an individual is beautiful. Don't let jealousy steal that from you.
Absolutely love your comment😘😘😘! Couldn't have been better said mashaallah!
you know in the times when even Beyoncé can be cheated on, one can't be so sure right? 😀😀😀 Seriously, thanks for your comment 👍👍👍. There is still a lot of personal work to do to overcome the insecurities!
"he picked you" ? No, in most cases his PARENTS picked her (arranged marriage). There's nothing worse than not only having a low self esteem on body image but also not being in "love" or completely comfortable with the partner!
beyoncé has a banging body and jay z cheated on her, this proves your point.
THANK YOU !
Sid's accessory comment ... "Even socks" haha
I was ROFL ing all thru it XD true tho ^_^
Adelaide Wilson I'm dying
Another advice: you'll never be ready. Never be ready for your husband, never be ready to do exams, never ready to give birth etc. Just DO IT like you did exams even tho you thought you didnt study. Just look in the mirror and look at yourself and you're gonna love it. Dont look to others instead, because that's not gonna grow your selflove. + you'll survive it I guess.
Ohmy I am bloody 16 why am i giving this advice, but I guess you should think like this 😭😂
You're sweet, I know what you mean like just push yourself because if so many people around you can do it then why can't you? And you'll maybe always feel insecure or worried about something until you overcome it and realize it wasn't so bad or that you can handle it or actually enjoyed and benefited from it.
+Girly Hijabi Yes! We won't be ready for anything. And I think men can understand too, but we as women just have to open up about it. I think it's humanly and after all we're going to think "ohmygod why was I that worried about this?" because we're getting new worries and problems anyways and that's life.
+Zainab you are very intelligent for being 16. Very nice advice.
+Zainab v v wise 🙌🏼
The Muslim community and parents need this wake up call to actually speak to their kids about 'the birds and the bees'. Every topic can be discussed in a polite way without it being inappropriate.. which alotta Muslims still think of it in that way unfortunately.
Everyone has insecurities Sid, everyone! haha
agreed!
Helllll no!!! why would u want your parents to talk about that wtf.... you learn that shit in biology class......
+Bianco Isle Delfino that "shit" is taught differently in ever country, some Arab countries don't even discuss it nor do they let students ask questions because it's "inappropriate" according to them (my case). If parents were to raise the kid thinking that sex is such a bad thing to talk about and the school proves it, how the hell can one be educated properly???!! (same case goes to strict Catholic parents etc.. and yes, I happen to knw a few). As "awkward" as u may find it (me too now that I'm grown up), the parents can make it ok by choosing their words and the way they explain everything.
Yup; there are so many ways to go wrong with non-communication. My community is West African and Christian, and the extent of communication is "God hates premarital sex/you're a temple" "don't reduce your bride price [more figurative than literal nowadays]" "don't follow boyfriend" and then demonizing Western culture.
Now you've got kids who have not been given any _actual_ logic or context who end up being almost insanely rigid (fighting the gut attraction to sex turns into looking down on sex and their own bodies), or else getting into damaging or unsatisfactory relationships. Even the older generation looks suspect to me, now that I'm an adult - I see a lot of dysfunction in older relationships, where I can tell the difference between aunties and uncles who grew a healthy relationship on all levels and the ones who are living in silence.
totally agree since if its not from thrir parents they will probably find out from the internet or friends...kids are curious and we need to just accept that and educate them properly.
sid already gave the answer at the beginning: comminucation skills are key.
what i love about my husband and me is that after our marriage, we went home, watched the news, took a shower, ate donuts and shit, talked about what is going to happen and if we have any expectations of each other. then i went to dress up in the lingerie i bought, but i was so shy to get out so i called him in the bathroom and told him to sit on the bathtub while i smoke a cigarette to calm myself down. even after finishing i just couldn't get up and go to the bedroom so he carried me there. i didn't want to put off my robe, so he said, "we don't have to do it tonight. you can give yourself all the time that you need. i'll wait, it's not gonna be the end of the world if it takes another 2 months". afterwards we did try it, but it hurt so badly i just burst into tears, even though i hardly ever cry, like i'm the epitome of a badass bitch. he consoled me, pat me on the back, cuddled with me and even after 2 months of marriage it still hurts like damn fucking hell, but we always communicate about stuff like that and i find that it helps more than anything else in this entire world. he saw me fully naked for the first time after a month or so and he appreciates every inch of my body. alhamdulillah, i hope it stays like this for a long, long time and i hope you find someone who'll be as understanding as my husband.
+Mel Hod 👌☝👍
+Mel Hod hurts still😭😭 ur scaring me
+Mel Hod tmi
+Mel Hod you should see a doctor of it hurts very much it isn't supposed to hurt alot man
I say "puberty" my mum says "don't say that!". That's as far as a talk goes lol
Farhan Ali hahaha
Farhan Ali TRUE
"can I take your bubble bum and you take my flat iron board" 😂😂😂😂😂
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😂😂 LOOL
I DIED
I think Dina needs some form of recognition for outstanding contribution to society, a topic discussed so openly yet it eats people up from the inside.
'Stinkys farts on the planet' lmfaooo don't crack me up Dina hahaha 😂😂
Stinkiest*
You're beautiful
I hated that people who saw me with make up see me without it and say "you look tiered or sick" that's really rude, now I almost never put on makeup and when I do they are amazed lol
Riki Sagis same here when I don't put makeup on people think I'm tired
Riki Sagis me too so I stopped putting makeup
24 minutes alhamdulillah what an eid gift
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Ahha v true
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SO TRUE
Hahahahaha
A woman's confidence should ultimately come from within. All people have a beauty that is their own. A few things you can do: positive affirmations in the mirror while you are completely naked. Whatever you don't like about yourself, focus more on that part. For example a bubble butt, if you want it, get your squat game up! Ugly feet? Get pedicures and look at them and massage them nightly before bed. So on and so on. Loving yourself will help with confidence and sex. Newlyweds who feels awkard with each other can start with daily skin to skin contact. Sit close to each other. Touch each other like with massages and kissing. Men love head rubs. Also try to always be missing 1 article of clothing. Start with wear short shorts instead of pants and then move to no pants. Men can were a muscle shirt and then move to no shirt. Make yourself just slightly uncomfortable. Not too much ... you know... a manageable amount. Of course these things are to be done at home. Some people need that to be said. Just my 2 cents of info. Loved the video Sid and Dina!!!
This is such good advice!!!!
Amazing advice!!!
Y’all I’m just saying if you want a bubble butt ,squats don’t help, it just helps with getting toned/thicker thighs(which is also nice).
Am loughing soo loud when Dina is giving the thought n opening n sid says this ment to be about first night lol😂
Sid is so funny 😃
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Reading the comment while she said that
On my first night am going to play Minecraft with my wife and build my communication skills :) bonding is the key and #stayloyal&recspecteachother #bless
Lol there is a legit guy on this channel lol
YAY!! this video made my Monday!
you guys are the best, thanks for doing these videos
+ranaisadoll yes they are the best :)
+ranaisadoll mine too :)
love your name!! I'm Persian!! lol
+ranaisadoll ah thanks, :) I kinda thought so but wasn't sure.. nice to meet a fellow Persian who's also big fan of sid and dina :) I've been following them for at least 2 years 😊😍 love them
The two of you should be named National Treasures! Invaluable advice, straight from the heart, not couched in flowery language, understandable, relevant and honest! Well done!
You know, when I watch these advice videos and they have gone on long enough I start to think and hope that there is still more of the video left and they are not going to end it soon. Like, whilst watching this, I just hovered the mouse over the video and thought, "Oh, that's great, I've only watched over half of the video yet," because some of these videos end up being so hilarious sometimes and I just don't want them to end LOL
Omg me too!!!!!😭❤️
OMG!!! Me tooo (: heheh
I just done that lol
Yesss or tap the screen.. like hmm alright 🙇
me tttoooo!
Hats off to the most honest couple on RUclips.. 👏👏👏
I'm flatter than a textbook lol like, straight up-zero curves. And its not like working out will give me curves either. Honestly, its so hard for women today to not feel insecure and want to resort to extreme measures (surgery, injections, etc.) just to feel confident about the way they look. Especially make-up struggles. I see EVERY GIRL at uni wearing it and it just straight up makes me feel like no guy will ever think I'm pretty since I don't wear it before going out. *sign* the struggles are just so real.
You can never win *sigh*
not even hard for girls
Do not stress over make up I just started wearing it a bit I'm 34 and still look like I'm in my 20s as far as your body I'm assuming you're young unless it's just your genetically predisposed a lot of people I know didn't get curvy until after children or they're with a man that makes your body want to have kids sorry if that's tmi
same
'well i do think like that' MY HEART
mine too😭
When did they say that?
I honestly cannot understand how Dina can be jealous, she's so freaking beautiful!! :)
init!
She's different yet beautiful without make up :) Chill boy ;)
Dina said you can never win... WHO CAN EVER WIN?.. the most beautiful person in your eyes will never be the most beautiful person in EVERYBODY's eyes... so chasing the idea of being perfectly beautiful is impossible.. and marrying someone who is materialistic or shallow will only put a pressure on you.. never rely on your beauty to find a husband coz thats not what marriage is about and soon or later it will fail!
Can you guys please do a vid about your first year of marriage and all of the things you've learned? And even the years after?
Or maybe you can even make it into a series where you talk about certain things within marriage
+Fatima Yi that would be a good idea #marriagemondays
great idea ! i would love to watch this
I agree!
Yes! I agree, the first year of marriage please
I am gonna get divorced soon.. in this tearful night you made me smile.. thanks..
dont be sad, there maybe someone else
Tulu Meryem Yaman how is it going?
Tulu Meryem Yaman why are you divorcing?!!!
I hope you're okay
Tulu Meryem Yaman I hope you are doing ok now. God bless x
If you've got to know someone in a halal way, no bf/gf thing then you haven't even hugged your partner nor have you kissed them & if you're a hijabi then they haven't seen your hair lol so all of a sudden on the wedding night you want to go all out....its a bit overwhelming don't you think? First get to know someone and be comfortable around them
For real. I bet he'd be fine kissing you and seeing your hair and then work into it
I know right, a little peck on the cheek will make his night there's honestly no rush, obviously if you do get jiggy its completely okay because you're married but if you decide to wait, even a couple of days/weeks or months there's nothing to stress yourself about.
I think it depends on the family really. During the getting to know each other period, including the engagement, some people prefer to go out with a chaperone, like a sibling for example. However, a lot of the time they can go to get coffee or something alone, as long as they are in a public setting.
+Belle Elias yh pretty much. With the exception of abstaining from physical contact and engaging in "inappropriate" conversation :)
Let me just fill you in a little. All of this; is a product of low self-esteem. You think you're ugly,so if a guy thinks that you're cute you're like "Oh really?" You think that I am beautiful"? "Hohohoho, I'm the happiest woman on earth" And you're happier than the happy emoticon because he said that he thinks that you're cute. But what if he says the contrary? You'll sort of have a little depression and sadness.
And you think nobody is gonna like you, nobody is gonna marry you and all that stuff. That's all a part of low sef-esteem. And there's Shaytaan who starts playing with your mind, you start playing depressing songs and you feel like the lyrics were adressed to you. And all of sudden, the blue sky becomes gray. I know that some girls have depression because of that, because I personally do have a friend who's like that.
If you are embarrassed with your flaws, somebody Allah has created also is gonna like them for you.
So dont be unconsciously ungrateful towards our Lord.
I agree 😉
I have a big ol bubble butt, but I am insecure about it being too big. I am Christian. I have huge boobs too, but that does not mean it s a huge attraction to others, or myself. I also dress modestly....
That is cool how you're Christian and watch sid and dina
I am agnostic, and watch Sid and Dina :D
I'm old and I watch Sid and Dina .... so refreshing to hear, especially a guy, talk with respect about women.
Really appreciate that people from other religions watching a Muslim youtuber
Yeah ofcourse! I might be brought up agnostic, but alot of my views of life and lifestyle is that of Islam from nature, so thats why im so drawn to it aswell - plus i learn alot watching her and their channel.
As a woman married for three years.... I FREAKING FEEL THIS DINA. I FEEL THIS ALL THE WAY DOWN TO DA FLOOOOOOOR FAM. Also, about the first night - how the heck can two people have sex if they don't even know each other properly and haven't even kissed!? I lost my virginity three weeks after the first night. I tell you that first kiss was sloppy as fuuuuuudge. And there was no way I was comfortable enough to even sit next to my husband (even tho I hella wanted to marry the hot guy) let alone have sex on the first night. It was a gradual process. I even told my mum, i was like, yo mum, I aint having sex on the first night i bloody hope he knows that. So she told his mum and his mum told him. Obviously not straight up like THAT but he didnt book a hotel like he wanted to. We just went on a halal married peoples date. Get to know each other better, start liking each others company. Seriously dw about the first night, just be very clear to the person you're marrying about your feelings.
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Lady Pinkymoe But why u told ur mom Lol u could have told him straight up after Nikkah That I'm not gona have sex until some time pass by lol.U should tell ur husbnad straight.Just saying hope u don't mind lol
Sid and Dina the most honest & dope couple ever!!
It makes me so happy that you guys do these videos! I'm not Muslim, but I feel that your advice is so relatable to so many different people. So many prejudices and taboos would be broken down if people were just willing to talk, listen and learn more! So massive kudos to you guys for tackling these tricky subjects and for being so open, honest and real! Much love from Scotland ❤
Jacqueline Jeunesse 💕💕
I feel like watching and hearing Sid and Dina's insight on life whether that be through their vlogs or Q and A's really shows how true Islam is suppose to be followed. Islam is not suppose to be taboo this and taboo that, but rather a constructive quest for genuine knowledge and righteousness. Their channel really gives me hope for the future of the Muslim Ummah.
The first time doesn't matter in the long run. A couple in a committed relationship has their entire life ahead of them to get better at sex. Ultimately, it's about communication and consent.
And it is also very important after marriage to build up intimacy. Take your time. Cuddle each other. You won´t be having every night sex in your marriage. Then why should you start very intimate with sex? A couple should enjoy their private time in bed. Get used to each other. Who cares how long it takes. Only two people should matter in a marriage, that is the married couple. Nobody else.
Amen
well said!!
yeah!!!si True it takes me so long tu lose mine ! and it was so good after that. so men take your time with your wife
okay, this will be my place for marriage/sex/dating information, they're honestly the best thing out there for muslim girls
I also saw a comment that someone was surprised that a Christian watches your videos I'm Christian and I love watching you guys, you don't have to be Muslim to relate to everything you guys talk about! ❤️🙏🏾
OMGGGGG THE FIRST 9 MINUTES OF DINA TALKING AND SID INTERJECTING GIVEEE MY LYYYFE! Hilarious, I swear. I literally couldn't stop laughing.
Hahahaha when Sid talks about accessories and that look on Dinas face 😂😂 She seems embarassed and blushes at the same time 😂
sid is so funny
coexist and ghost hey exol😄👋🏻
How can anyone dislike this video? Wtf
Lol the fanatics yo😂
+FUKtyler ! hahaha true dat
***** First, it is that deep. Second, I'm not your frikkin brother or a boy(if that's what you meant😑)
when dina forgot about the purpose of the video LOL
Tbh, I kinda like it when she starts going off topic onto her own self because I find it so interesting, hilarious, and relatable. hahaha! :'D
Kainat Qurashi ikr she took it way personally that sid got confused lol
"It looks great with a bit of accessories" 😭😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂 i can't take Sid seriously fam
When Dina sneezed at 9:46 and said Alhamdullilah, I said Yarhamak Allah lmfao
so did I lol
wow amazing
TheMagnaciousDude ™ Your mom's amazing bruv
Sid even whispered it 😂😂😂
What does yarhmak Allah mean
24 MINUTES OF SID AND DINA💞🙌🏽🙌🏽💖
I know alhamdullah 😂😂
I know I love them
ikr
+Beauty by Zaynah Love your channel❤️😍
+Saima Begum 👍🏽
omgg when Sid starts talking about the ACCESSORIES I could not stop laughing 😂😂
sid had me dying😂👍🏽 "you need a bit of accesories" hahaha
dina was just keeping it real! i could relate throughout this whole video. you guys are hilarious
Dina can these videos please be this long all the time. They are really helpful and very informative. Thank you for your time ☺️
Omg I forgot about Sid 😂😂😂😂
+Amalija Schofield hahaha
When sids tryna play it cool
Sid: 'I'm not insecure'
Dina: 'I'll make you feel insecure'
Sid: 'AYYYY I got one insecurity'
LOL Dead so beauts to see how well you both know each other, communication is key we can tell just by the way you guys are. #goals
I loved this cos everything was too damn real. Dina was real, Sid was real and the topic is something I needed at this moment in time. Also the humour in this video LOOOL
To be fair, if your husband (husbands in general) could hear your thoughts when you see a hot guy or are attracted to another man, he would feel the same way you feel, even though you'd never actually act on your attraction, just knowing you have thoughts about other men would drive him nutts too just like his thoughts would drive you nutts. But you're right, you can't control your thoughts or feelings, you can only control your own actions.
I don't understand how a guy can expect his wife to look like Beyoncé when he ain't no Prince Charming himself.
It's so good having both a male and female perspective to things.
"First night of what? Ramadan?"
Sid you are amazing
Lol this made me laugh so hard the little rant Dina went on and sids face!
Am I the only one who thinks that sid was blushing in the entire video 😂😂😂
Dina babe, let Sid finish his sentences girl, lol, you have a lot of great things to say but sometimes we really need a guys outlook on things because our men don't talk to us about this stuff. Love you!!!
For me, personally, looking isn't the problem, not knowning your boundaries is the real problem. Once you have crossed that line, well trust has been broken and it's hard to get back.
Waow! I've never thought in this way that we dont have to push ourselves in the first night, yes, you guys are so right, everything dont have to be done in the first night because its a process,,, thanks a lot for lightening me, this video really changed my point of view :)
Dina is absolutely right. For the majority of women, the first time is not going to be pleasurable. To be honest, sex is like riding a bike (bad analogy, I know), you get better with practice. Also, communication is key.
Will the pain go away after practise? And will it feel good?? Because some of my friends who r married say its not that special and that they dont feel anything...
Maryam Free The pain does go away. If you allow yourself to relax and just focus on feelings and engage in sufficient foreplay, your body will lubricate itself and you can have pleasurable sex. Again, communication with your partner and having an open mind are key. Sex should be fun and enjoyable for all parties involved.
+Maryam Free Sex is very pleasurable for women also, the key is to love your spouse and want to have sex. My friend says that his wife is so much into sex that she always initiates it and craves for it, the thing is they loved eachother alot and married in very difficult circumstances and then after marriage they did sex alot like 3, 4 times a day so somehow she got habit of it and she cant stay away from it even if her husband say he is tired or not in mood but still she forces her to go for it. haha so its very pleasurable for women too.
+Maryam Free That's because their man is not pleasing them. Unfortunately, many men only focus on pleasing themselves. That's why it's important to find an open man who puts your pleasure first.
I'm 19. Not getting married or anything but this makes me feel so good about myself! Women everywhere go through insecurities but you know what? DON'T LET THE SOCIETY TELL YOU WHAT'S PERFECT AND WHAT'S NOT. ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE. TYSM DINA AND SID
To the girl in the email:
Don't worry about the first night too much. You can try to of course, but it most likely won't happen, it hurts! & it could take a few days and tries, its NOTHING like you see in the movies, I'm a muslim girl as well, married for 2 years, i have friends who are married and we were all virgins and honestly i think i only 2 girls where it happened the first night. Another thing, getting naked - dress up in some lingerie, dim the lights, and it will happen naturally while ur making out and stuff. You're not gonna be standing there naked awkwardly. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't think about it. Just let it happen, your husband to be knows you're a virgin and I'm sure he has an idea of how it will go down.
No one is perfect, all these girls on instagram with their photos are most of the time edited. EVERYONE has flaws, everyone has insecurities, I'm not 100% happy with my body, and like sid and dina said you dont have to be completely naked.
"dafuq man this is shit" Dina you hilarious!!I love you both 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I remember how scared and shy I was my first night. My whole life I was scared of how my husband would see me and think of my body and the first night all my fears were gone because he did not even care! LOL I worried my whole teenage life for nothing! And it took my husband and me 2 months to actually be intimate. LOL
'Yeah, because..You don't wana wait for how long a good face takes..' 😂😂😂😂 I
Dinas rant at the beginning is soooo true! exactly how every woman thinks! it is hard to live as a woman! because we want to be all he ever wants and its so hard for him to only want us when the most seductive photoshops and plastix surgery or just naturally physically superior women are in his face!
This video helps soooo much because we have so many questions and there is no one to go in depth and show us the reality of the first night. Thank you guys ❤️
"the presence of another woman's beauty is not the absence of your own" ✨🙇
''Women pressure themselves I don't know why' Oh no please.. Just the fact that this whole video is based on looks and women and not about personality of a woman, OR on the flipside, there are plenty good looking men around too! So why us women feel inadequate is purely down to women being associated with being beautiful, a 'good wife', a 'good mother' etc. I liked the concept and intentions of this video but I think the overall message has been lost in all of the mix. 'Don't wear make up then' oh noooo please. Women can do as they want and should not be judged by those who have NO idea what it is like to BE a woman in this world! Ladies, before you love your husband, learn to love yourself. Love your imperfections, love your curves if you have them, love your flat stomach if you have one, love your lil bulge if you have one - you are more than skin and flesh I promise you!!! Sex is sex - you are married and are making love - its emotional. Dont worry! A confident woman is more attractive than any kardashian :)
F Arg so true thank u
Better to test the waters before you tie the knot.
I don't think anyone meant to dislike the video, they thought it said "dis I like"
Love it
"it's not about the face bruv" LOOOOL Sid you are hilarious!
"Moving on from your eyebrows" 😂😂😂😂
I'm literally in fits hahaha..."It always looks nice with a bit of accessories...even if it's a pair of socks!" Lmfaooooooo sids laugh makes it even funnier!
Dina this is such an important topic that many of us women are unable to speak of. Thank you for discussing this topic! It really made me feel better because it just assures me that I'm not alone. It is VERY DIFFICULT 😿.
Raw sex talk on youtube!😅😁😁
Only dina and sid to break it down for us directly just like that!!
i appreciate this video! keep being you guys, you're videos just bring such a real prespective in topics that are someone what put in unrealistic terms for most of us!
I know! So raw. I loved it.
ever see the hodgetwins?😂😂
humza UK please no😂😂
its not a good thing :(
Finally, thought you was dead and Hannah will take over anytime soon
🤔 you've got such an odd sense of humour like who says that?!
+HijabisLoveBeautyToo hahah, I haven't seen a single video since 15th of Ramadan and they usually posted video every night but suddenly stopped ~ either way it was a joke 😜😂👌🏻
+Looky Here well, thank you' Wa alaikum salaam
I adore your interactions together! I can tell that Sid adores you and listens to you. I wish you both the happiest marriage full of years!
i am not muslim but this helps A LOT. Thank you very much :)
Can I just say these videos and this advice is also helpful for young christians holding out till marriage and your approach is very comforting and insightful :) God bless xxx
It's 1am and I'm watching this trying to hold in all my laughter 😂😂😂 Haha Love you guys
Your kids are so lucky, your very good at advice and helping eachother and ur love for eachother is amazing!!!
I love how Sid kind of faded into the background when she started talking about what he could be thinking 😂😂😂
Bless you both!!!.... brother Sid and sister Dina. Really, really enjoyed watching u guys
Someone please tell me I'm not the only guy who watches these guys... I can't be?? I bloody hope I'm not!!
Na m8😂
Na Na Na been watching them since day.. There are bare guys that watch them.. They're funny and informative as hell!
+M0N1R21 well said lol
+M0N1R21 I love how Dina just totally overpowers Sid and talks right over him at points 😂 in a way, I kind can relate to that situation 😒
+M0N1R21 Alhamdulilah I'm not the only guy that's been watching them since day ✊
Cool Video Sod and Dina.. Just a tip re:Protecting /stopping hair probs is to be careful with wearing Caps all the time.. Constantly wearing Caps rub away at your Hairline especially at the front.. I have had two friends kne boy one girl who ended up with hair loss/receding hair line due to always wearing Caps ;) (My mum is a retired hairdresser also ;) )
I think sid learns more about what not to do to piss dina off more than any thing else in these vids 😂
Loving all the honesty and rawness about this video. 😂💕 Cutieeees 🤗
This is by far the best video I've ever seen on your channel. I love how you guys think and deal with what our society sees as "controversial" subjects. And Dina I legit never thought I'd ever find anyone who thinks in the way that I do. I flippin love you man, you're hilarious and I love that you actually talk about the struggle with the hijab and everything! Lots of love, you guys are gonna be such amazing parents! 💜💙
I love how honest you guys are. May Allah bless you both. Xx
omgg This topic though ! biggest fear of my life. the one and only legitimate reason I neverrrr everrr wanna get married is because of the awkwardness of what you have to do physically as a couple after marriage. like your whole life you're taught its wrong. and then suddenly just because you're married you're expected to do weird mushy crap. can't deal or cope 😂 like how EXACTLY are you meant to know what the heck to do Or how to even do it 😶 part 2 please
Hahaha! Exactly!
I know right!
I think it's just like Dina and Sid have said: it is all about patience. When you first meet a person it takes time to get to know them. It might be awkward at first, you have small talk before you move onto deeper questions about values, politics, family etc. and before you know it you are comfortable with one another, you laugh together, you have inside jokes and shared memories. A physical relationship should be the same, it's a journey, not a button you press once you're married. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion, talk about your fears and ask to take it at a pace you are both comfortable with! I bet he will feel the same way about a lot of things! hope that helps :)
Exactly!!! Part 2 PLEASE
I understand what you all mean. I guess time will tell. Thank you! I appreciate the advice. 😌
that long rant in the beginning xD I loved it!
and I love how cute these two are; by themselves and together- adorably hilarious :D
subbed!