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@@obbalad Even if she does, it's not a reason for the guy to put his hands on her! There is a much better solution to that problem: just break up with her & move on with your life!
When someone controls you in a relationship like making you stay away from your guy friends, asking you what to wear and what not to and even making you stay away from ur dreams and interrupts your daily life, remember it's a toxic obsession..BE YOU, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF & REMEMBER THAT SELF RESPECT ALWAYS COMES FIRST.. Thanks Luis as usual coming up again with a life lesson video and creating awareness! Love and Best wishes from Singapore 🙏😊👍
The hand gesture is well known for women who are in danger. I first saw the gesture on Dramatize me, where in one of the episodes, the actress taught something about the hand gesture. Then I saw it on tik tok where a girl was kidnapped. This hand gesture is very important to learn.
luis always does a good job in showing both sides of the story, we get an insight on how the abuser would have felt and what caused him to potentially start abusing as well as how the victim and their friends would feel so great job in educating us
The Boyfriend didn't love her, he abused her and made her doubt herself. He will definitely pay for this misdeed, it is so wrong !!!!! At least Max will sort Adam out, watch out!!!
Sometimes even love can be corrupted. I used to date someone who was very controlling. He wasn’t physical but mentally making me feel like was a terrible person just because I didn’t do the dangerous and crazy stuff he wanted me to do. He loved me but in all the wrong ways
If you are in a toxic relation, don't pay any attention to that person and leave him/her immediately. Love is all about respect and care for your other half. Great work on teaching us this lesson Luis.🙌🙌🙌
OMG, Luis, I'm so glad you did this video this way. you are right, it happens little by little. Some girls don't see the signs of a Warlock, an abusive controlling witchcraft spirit rooted in jealousy. They steal girls' youth and sometimes they lose their lives to these abusive men. Thank God for her friend that never gave up on her. We all need someone looking out for us when we don't have the power to get out. Thanks for doing more stories like these, Great video and life lesson.
I am so glad that her friend Felicia recognized that she was signaling for help with that sign with her hand. Domestic violence should NEVER be tolerated by women who have been trapped by a violent partner. Unfortunately thousands of women are living with this particular problem, possibly millions of them. Always report it to the police. Run somewhere safe and then call the police and have him arrested. Some women are too afraid to do this which is why their best friends have to step in like Felicia did. She really cared for her and protected her the way a best friend should. Thank you Luis for this video making awareness of domestic violence available to everyone!💕🌼💟🌼🌈🌈
Guys, when your boyfriends starts being controlling and telling you what to do and stuff and who to hang out with that’s when things are gonna start getting bad! When that happens you need to leave RIGHT AWAY!!
Adam doesn't realize it but he confessed to abusing Alex and the Arresting Officer overheard the whole thing Dummy!!! Wich was dumber? To Commit the act or to realize Police overheard the whole thing?
If I was in a relationship, I'd never abuse, mistreat, or belittle my girlfriend and I would always be gentle with her, show her lot of love and affection, be loyal to her, and comfort her when she's feeling sad, angry, or insecure. I want to be the best boyfriend any girl could ever ask for.
It should be tolerated if the wife or GF wants to be a whore and listing to her friends when they tell her yeah yeah break up with him I hate that so much.
I really hope you all read this comment of mine. As someone who's been in a past relationship that involved abuse/domestic violence, please don't ever be with someone who controls you, acts possessive, overly jealous, or controlling/manipulative. It'll be a huge mistake for you. Trust & believe me! You should have the right to always feel safe in a relationship, if you don't or aren't sure, trust your instincts & let them go. Nobody deserves to be treated this way. Know your worth.💕 If you are already in an abusive situation, please seek help. It is readily available to you. You don't have to deal with this. It's abuse, not love!🥺 Big difference. No matter where you live, you can get support if you seek it. God bless & thank you Luis for this video.🌟 Unfortunately, relationships like this are much more common than you'd think.
My neighbor was experiencing domestic abuse but thankfully my brother called the police right in time. She's been experiencing this abuse for about 4 years before anybody noticed.
OMG! I know this hand gesture for help in Tiktok . I've learned about it and 2 months. Thank you for sharing this hand gesture sign because one day it could save a woman or a girl from domestic or mentally/physically abuse from a deceitful and abusive relationship or marriage. Thanks again luis
Adam got what he deserved at the end for abusing Alex the way he did and I'm glad that Felicia was there for Alex when it was important to make sure she was alright and as for Adam, I liked how Alex kicked him. If it were me that had a friend abused like that, I would make sure that person would never see a day of light again. Keep up the great work and make more videos like this, please, Luis! We appreciate your hard work in this.
The boyfriend didn’t love her he only abused her and kept her from her loved ones her friends.Told her on Instagram or anything ok that’s not love. So glad her friend Felicia was there for her and Alex gave her the help sign and got her out of there. Thank you for this message Luis to send the message out to other DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Ppl out there get HELP don’t stay in that kinda of RELATIONSHIP it’s not good
In real time, if you harmed someone else when they are being arrested, you would also be arrested to, even if they harmed you. I know this is a film, so don’t think I’m complaining, good job Luis!
Alexandra deserves better than Adam after what he did to her and I’m glad Felicia was here for her and Adam finally got what he deserved by getting arrested. I like when Alexandra gave Adam a kick.
It's a hard life once you get out of that situation but in the end, it's worth it. Life can be happy and future does look better. Take it from someone who knows.
Your videos including from Sameer, Dhar Mann and Vid Chronicles does actually teach me amazing lessons about becoming a batter person as life goes on and I love it!! Also, NEVER be in relationship with someone abusive and disgusting, always love one another for who they are and control our impulses
I was just going to say this as well!!🙏🏻🙏🏻❤❤ Thank you and thank you to you Luis as well :) Life can be so cruel and negativity but when you have a positive mindset things will always get better
So here’s a story from my mother The first guy she went out with begun to try to control her He tried taking away her phone so that she could not talk to her other guy friend And now let me tell you this. My mother has been going to the gym for at least 6 months and taking boxing classes The exact second he snatched her phone and even tried to slap her Well… Let’s just say he went home with 2 black eyes, and a broken rib Moral of the story Don’t put your hands on women Karma exists
This program captured the progression of an abusive relationship--starts with loving affection, then critical of friends, isolation from others "for your own good", gaslighting, and finally outright physical abuse which the abuser downplays and/or makes the victim believe they bring it on themselves. I've seen it too many times as a prosecutor. The victim here was lucky her best girlfriend persisted in worrying about her.
Sadly it doesn't always end well for an abused woman. Most of the time the police don't care. The police take the word of the man when he says "She's crazy, she is a crazy bitch." If the police do arrest the guy, he posts bail and is right back to the girl and abuses her. I had a friend who had an abusive boyfriend. He wouldn't leave her alone. He'd stalk her and force his way into her house. He would always find out where my friend moved. The police said they were "tired of dealing with relationship drama" The police even threatened to arrest her for false claims. Said that she was wasting their time. My friend had to sneak out in the middle of the night and move across the country. She was lucky, she got away. Many women don't.
Can you please do a part 2? Rewind from when Alex said “Wait” and then Alex says “Let Him Go” after that decision things get even worse, Alex stopped talking to Adam, he treats Alex horribly, and then our good old friend Max AKA Luis shows up 😃🥺
Great video! I used to be married to a person like that. He would hit me, his friend all my friends to stay away from me or he was going to hurt them. Never let me talk to anyone. If it was a guy who would try to beat up on him. Basically try to isolate me. Thank God we are now divorced good luck to the new lady in his life, she's going to need it. I'm free from all that. Felt like I was a prisoner. God is good
The abuser also is questioned on who they talked to and what was said. They also will say nobody else will love you period. They can also be very violent if you attempt to leave. Some men are persuaded back to the abuser and then he kills her.
I am so glad that her best friend Felicia supported her called the police. There is no way that this poor girl had to put up with a controlling boyfriend like that. He should be in jail forever and never go out with any girl again.
That guy was unbelievable! I could've told her that him wanting her to move in with him after only one month together is way too fast for him not to be up to something. I don't care what he thinks she said or did, she didn't deserve that.
There was a time in the 1980s when police did not believe a woman that was abused or beaten up by a man that she was involved with whether it was a boyfriend or husband.
This was such a great Lesson Luis and thank you Dylan for your hard work in editing the videos. The boyfriend didn't deserve to treat her like that and since he is so controlling. The friend was just looking out for her. Love you Luis ❤❤❤
The theme of this story is that “You should always be careful of who you surround yourself with because you just never know what he or she will do to you” And Adam definitely got what he deserved.!!
imagine the amount of mens domestic abuse calls that were ignored or not believed or they were to scared to say anything:< not saying men have it worse because it's not a competition
Been there done that in the past and never will ever again. Great video to warm others of the signs to look for and signals to help 🆘 I didn't have that.
God Bless all the Felicias that are true angels, sent to help fight domestic abuse, and those humble, hard working police officers like that one on the video (that "Good Job !" at 8:46 made my day !). Domestic violence is simply unacceptable, period. Tremendos vídeos, tocayo, Bendiciones desde San Juan PR 🇵🇷.
1:10 That right there is why we tend to be controlling in the relationship, it’s one thing to be excited when you haven’t seen someone in a long time but the excitement and the overwhelming hugs can get pretty awkward for you and may perhaps send the wrong message.
That's bullshit. If you really trust eachother, you can just hang around with whoever you want. I got a boyfriend and one of my best friends is a guy. He knows he can trust me and people like you should learn to trust your partner too. It's the controlling thing that will go wrong and the other person could just do things in secret.
This happened to my cousin, she's beautiful in n out, unfortunately she chose someone abusive, what he didn't realize was that she had an overprotective cousin, and he wound up with his head and face less attractive, whatever else I am, I hate abuse like this. And my cousin was so grateful she treated me to dinner, steak, gotta love steak.
You can be friends with anybody you want at 2:48 that man was being ridiculous because she wouldn’t date other guys as well. It’s OK to be friends with anyone if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend.
When Alex and Felicia was hugging after the cops arrested him, they looked like Elsa and Anna hugging at the end of the movie and this is at the end of the video 🥺
Not going to lie I totally cried watching this, I was in a relationship in the past that was abusive but his family had ties with local police so it took me years to escape, but thankfully I did and am with amazing partner for the last 14 years. It's so scary to leave but hopefully your videos will help others. I was lucky to get away with my life and my daughter, but not everyone is so lucky so hopefully this story helps someone else
This guy was scary right from the beginning. Alex was lucky to have Felicia as a best friend who was there for her no matter what. She just knew Adam was trouble. Thank goodness Felicia took action.
I know exactly how she felt , I was in a marriage like that for 5 years , fortunately my parents drove 8 hours to come and get me, I didn’t even know they were coming, and I was pregnant, I thank God every day for them rescuing me from that messed up marriage, and I’m thankful for my life and children everyday, it’s 30 years later my kids are grown and I have wonderful grandchildren, my other blessings, God is my Savior, anyone who is in this type of situation I will pray for you and your safety, but know you are truly loved by God, much love and blessings to all!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Any guy that puts his hands on a girl and controls her is a pice of garbage and we all know what happens to garbage, and any guy that puts his hands on a girl is animal, but sadly there's soo many women out there who are in abusive relationships it's just sickening, and girls deserve to be treated like a princess or treated like a person and not like property
Very well put together this video is thank you Luis. This is also putting awareness out there that may it seems ok or normal or that their boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wiife or whatever they make it seem like it's all your fault that you made them do it and that you deserved the beating. Remember one time is too much. Be safe out there everyone 😊🙏
It is sad when every one sees the things that are wrong but the victims herself don’t many have lost their lives. Thank you Luis for constantly highlighting this message
I thought about controlling my crush if she’s my girlfriend because she’s super hot, and it would make me angry for other people to hit on her, but I knew it wouldn’t be a good idea to control who she hangs out with. On top of that, I wouldn’t abuse her like giving her a black eye.
Domestic violence is unacceptable, but on the flip side, Relationships are so messed up these days. Even the most intelligent and open-minded amongst us are not above it.
Agreed. Dating violence is unacceptable, too. Man or woman, straight or gay, nobody has any business physically, emotionally/mentally, or verbally abusing their significant others, at all.
NO, in reality if the genders were reversed what you described would happen, def not when it's male to female though. Leave us our arguments, don't dare touch them.
This video was great. I’m happy that you are showing people the sign for someone who needs help but can’t say anything. Keep up the great video’s. Susan From Connecticut
Well done Felicia. I teach self defence and my classes are full of women who have suffered domestic abuse. Now Domestic violence is only part of domestic abuse. Ironically we've just had Domestic Violence awareness month but at Christmas cases of Domestic violence rocket. The commonest types of domestic abuse are as follows. Online- one partner spreads malicious stuff about the other. Physical- like in this case. Emotional- like in this case- a toxic partner but they may not be aware they are doing it. Neglect- one neglects responsibilities but they may not be aware they are doing it. Sexual- one gets the partner to do things they don't want- some overlap with online. Unfaithfulness- one is unfaithful to the other. Financial abuse- "go on leave me but how will you pay the bills?" The victim has no choice but to go back. Female genital mutilation. Forced food- in some cultures they force their children to eat food of the home country. Forced marriage. Forced language- people from overseas make their children learn the language of the home country against their will compromising the ability to speak English. Forced religion. Forced culture people from overseas make their children learn the culture of the home country against their will compromising the ability to integrate. Forced parenting people from overseas parent their kids in the ways of the home country. For example in India it is wholly acceptable to beat up your kids. Forced sexuality- in some cultures they force their children to marry against their will if they find out their kids are gay. Forced schooling in some cultures they force their children to study against their will often causing the child considerable distress. Please see these factsheets Let's eradicate domestic abuse once and for all-part 1 #youarenotalone video-newsletters.tf/ry_QgQcSF Domestic abuse: if you see the sign above - then act quickly. This person is in danger. #youarenotalone video-newsletters.tf/ry2_tl18K Domestic abuse: how to get help if you are in danger- part 2. #youarenotalone video-newsletters.tf/BkiHAVeIK Domestic abuse in children video-newsletters.tf/SkjE18QUt
What a shame. That was mean. If he is really a true boyfriend to her, why should he do such craziness like that?? He should be ashamed of himself! And for sure, he doesn't deserve to have her at all!
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Please Luis do a video of a mom
Who tried to kill her blind son
Use a real blind actor for your
Piece. Please?
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A real man protects and respect his girlfriend.
A real wimp beats and controls his girlfriend.
Good video, Luis
What happen if the girl cheats with her so called man bestie
@@obbalad
He should move on and find another woman who have discretion
Facts
@Brittany Ehlert Star
It's a good thing you made a escape. That boy doesn't know how to treat a woman
@@obbalad Even if she does, it's not a reason for the guy to put his hands on her! There is a much better solution to that problem: just break up with her & move on with your life!
When someone controls you in a relationship like making you stay away from your guy friends, asking you what to wear and what not to and even making you stay away from ur dreams and interrupts your daily life, remember it's a toxic obsession..BE YOU, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF & REMEMBER THAT SELF RESPECT ALWAYS COMES FIRST.. Thanks Luis as usual coming up again with a life lesson video and creating awareness! Love and Best wishes from Singapore 🙏😊👍
Well said 💯
Well said
Amen
Well no shit sherlock
Thanks
The hand gesture is well known for women who are in danger. I first saw the gesture on Dramatize me, where in one of the episodes, the actress taught something about the hand gesture. Then I saw it on tik tok where a girl was kidnapped. This hand gesture is very important to learn.
luis always does a good job in showing both sides of the story, we get an insight on how the abuser would have felt and what caused him to potentially start abusing as well as how the victim and their friends would feel so great job in educating us
The Boyfriend didn't love her, he abused her and made her doubt herself. He will definitely pay for this misdeed, it is so wrong !!!!! At least Max will sort Adam out, watch out!!!
He was trying to make her as evil as he was.
@user-ux9bx8kc5y but I know that will never happen. If his own family hears about this, they won't let him come and visit them.
Adam has mental illness 🤪
Sometimes even love can be corrupted. I used to date someone who was very controlling. He wasn’t physical but mentally making me feel like was a terrible person just because I didn’t do the dangerous and crazy stuff he wanted me to do. He loved me but in all the wrong ways
If you are in a toxic relation, don't pay any attention to that person and leave him/her immediately. Love is all about respect and care for your other half. Great work on teaching us this lesson Luis.🙌🙌🙌
This gesture is saving so many people from abuse 😊
OMG, Luis, I'm so glad you did this video this way. you are right, it happens little by little. Some girls don't see the signs of a Warlock, an abusive controlling witchcraft spirit rooted in jealousy. They steal girls' youth and sometimes they lose their lives to these abusive men. Thank God for her friend that never gave up on her. We all need someone looking out for us when we don't have the power to get out. Thanks for doing more stories like these, Great video and life lesson.
I am so glad that her friend Felicia recognized that she was signaling for help with that sign with her hand. Domestic violence should NEVER be tolerated by women who have been trapped by a violent partner. Unfortunately thousands of women are living with this particular problem, possibly millions of them. Always report it to the police. Run somewhere safe and then call the police and have him arrested. Some women are too afraid to do this which is why their best friends have to step in like Felicia did. She really cared for her and protected her the way a best friend should. Thank you Luis for this video making awareness of domestic violence available to everyone!💕🌼💟🌼🌈🌈
I love the ending when the police arrested him and she kicks him and then the policeman said good job 👏
Guys, when your boyfriends starts being controlling and telling you what to do and stuff and who to hang out with that’s when things are gonna start getting bad! When that happens you need to leave RIGHT AWAY!!
Leaving an abusive relationship is dangerous, so be sure to have an exit plan involving support from friends and loved ones.
adam got what he deserves, i'm so glad alex got a true friend like felicia to look out for her!!!
Adam doesn't realize it but he confessed to abusing Alex and the Arresting Officer overheard the whole thing Dummy!!! Wich was dumber? To Commit the act or to realize Police overheard the whole thing?
Exactly
Yep, that guy deserved it. Wait a min-
Yeah go girl! Do whats best! But I would kick him more then once
Exactly!! And We need more friends like Felicia.
If I was in a relationship, I'd never abuse, mistreat, or belittle my girlfriend and I would always be gentle with her, show her lot of love and affection, be loyal to her, and comfort her when she's feeling sad, angry, or insecure. I want to be the best boyfriend any girl could ever ask for.
Bravo 👏
Good
omaigawd, bravo
Now that's what a good man should do
Moral of the story: Domestic violence is unacceptable and should never be tolerated.
So true
It should be tolerated if the wife or GF wants to be a whore and listing to her friends when they tell her yeah yeah break up with him I hate that so much.
@@Nick-1992-SRB your very sad a very sad person
@@Nick-1992-SRB very sad comment
Helo I found Ur Awesom nam Gregory Drakes randomly So I am Curious if I can Ask You Questions about Frustrating Vague Events Etc?(~~~~).
I really hope you all read this comment of mine. As someone who's been in a past relationship that involved abuse/domestic violence, please don't ever be with someone who controls you, acts possessive, overly jealous, or controlling/manipulative. It'll be a huge mistake for you. Trust & believe me! You should have the right to always feel safe in a relationship, if you don't or aren't sure, trust your instincts & let them go. Nobody deserves to be treated this way. Know your worth.💕 If you are already in an abusive situation, please seek help. It is readily available to you. You don't have to deal with this. It's abuse, not love!🥺 Big difference. No matter where you live, you can get support if you seek it. God bless & thank you Luis for this video.🌟 Unfortunately, relationships like this are much more common than you'd think.
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she was lucky she had a friend who stood up for her 🙂
So true🙂I felt really bad for Alex that she had to go through all the violence! So lucky that alex had a good friend to look out for her
@Kaidynce Zeller True friends don't abandon each other or kick their friends when they're down
@@j.i.r608 yea even if true friends act like they hate you or call you names they will help you when you're down. Thats called a best friend
How nice of the Colossal Titan to acknowledge this.
Yup you got that right.!!
My neighbor was experiencing domestic abuse but thankfully my brother called the police right in time. She's been experiencing this abuse for about 4 years before anybody noticed.
The red ninja storm ranger in real life beat his wife had her in a choke hold killed himself
OMG! I know this hand gesture for help in Tiktok . I've learned about it and 2 months. Thank you for sharing this hand gesture sign because one day it could save a woman or a girl from domestic or mentally/physically abuse from a deceitful and abusive relationship or marriage. Thanks again luis
Adam got what he deserved at the end for abusing Alex the way he did and I'm glad that Felicia was there for Alex when it was important to make sure she was alright and as for Adam, I liked how Alex kicked him. If it were me that had a friend abused like that, I would make sure that person would never see a day of light again. Keep up the great work and make more videos like this, please, Luis! We appreciate your hard work in this.
Bet them inmates don’t take kindly to people like Alex
Adam did deserve that for unfollowing the other guy friends too
I Wish That alex Burns In hell For Kicking A Man
This hit home to bunch of old friends who were in abusive relationships!!✝️🙏🏼✝️🙏🏼✝️🙏🏼
When the policeman said “good job” I lost it 😂😂😂
The boyfriend didn’t love her he only abused her and kept her from her loved ones her friends.Told her on Instagram or anything ok that’s not love. So glad her friend Felicia was there for her and Alex gave her the help sign and got her out of there. Thank you for this message Luis to send the message out to other DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Ppl out there get HELP don’t stay in that kinda of RELATIONSHIP it’s not good
I love how she used hand signals to her friend as a sign for help
Alex: that's for giving me a black eye
Police officer :hey hey.... Good job
Made my day
I actually thought he was going to also put her in handcuffs.
😁😄😆😂🤣
@@diegosilerio4554 na just brake his spirt
In real time, if you harmed someone else when they are being arrested, you would also be arrested to, even if they harmed you. I know this is a film, so don’t think I’m complaining, good job Luis!
Alexandra deserves better than Adam after what he did to her and I’m glad Felicia was here for her and Adam finally got what he deserved by getting arrested. I like when Alexandra gave Adam a kick.
Personally, I would have come to the door with a bat behind my back and if that scumbag put his hands on me, I would’ve started swinging
Me too
I would’ve done the same thing
@@MissRJP92 Ditto
@@MissRJP92 and you will enjoy doing it and starting to have guts.
i love how luis is actually a good actor unlike some other people who implement themselves in their own videos.... lol
sometimes Luis plays the bad guy LOL
*cough* dhar mann *cough*
@@arsenalfan9213 dhar mann sucks
That's what you call a true friend I'm so proud of her well done 👏 and I'm glad she kicked his ass shame.
It's a hard life once you get out of that situation but in the end, it's worth it. Life can be happy and future does look better. Take it from someone who knows.
I love how you put the help sing that's actually helpful for most persons in this situation
Your videos including from Sameer, Dhar Mann and Vid Chronicles does actually teach me amazing lessons about becoming a batter person as life goes on and I love it!! Also, NEVER be in relationship with someone abusive and disgusting, always love one another for who they are and control our impulses
I was just going to say this as well!!🙏🏻🙏🏻❤❤ Thank you and thank you to you Luis as well :) Life can be so cruel and negativity but when you have a positive mindset things will always get better
@@rathasri4060 Yeah no problem! I totally agree with you! 😊
@@hawaiiskylineandelevators4115 Thank you! Thank you for being nice. So happy we both are on the same page. If that's not rude to say 🙏🏻🙏🏻😊😊
@@rathasri4060 okie
@@rathasri4060 You’re welcome! Nah, it’s not rude at all, I take that as amazing compliments! 😊🙏🏻
So here’s a story from my mother
The first guy she went out with begun to try to control her
He tried taking away her phone so that she could not talk to her other guy friend
And now let me tell you this. My mother has been going to the gym for at least 6 months and taking boxing classes
The exact second he snatched her phone and even tried to slap her
Well…
Let’s just say he went home with 2 black eyes, and a broken rib
Moral of the story
Don’t put your hands on women
Karma exists
Love all your video's!! Stay Blessed
This program captured the progression of an abusive relationship--starts with loving affection, then critical of friends, isolation from others "for your own good", gaslighting, and finally outright physical abuse which the abuser downplays and/or makes the victim believe they bring it on themselves. I've seen it too many times as a prosecutor. The victim here was lucky her best girlfriend persisted in worrying about her.
Sadly it doesn't always end well for an abused woman. Most of the time the police don't care. The police take the word of the man when he says "She's crazy, she is a crazy bitch." If the police do arrest the guy, he posts bail and is right back to the girl and abuses her. I had a friend who had an abusive boyfriend. He wouldn't leave her alone. He'd stalk her and force his way into her house. He would always find out where my friend moved. The police said they were "tired of dealing with relationship drama" The police even threatened to arrest her for false claims. Said that she was wasting their time. My friend had to sneak out in the middle of the night and move across the country. She was lucky, she got away. Many women don't.
Right
Can you please do a part 2?
Rewind from when Alex said “Wait” and then Alex says “Let Him Go” after that decision things get even worse, Alex stopped talking to Adam, he treats Alex horribly, and then our good old friend Max AKA Luis shows up 😃🥺
@S O F I A no
AKA AnDrEw, Luis is one of the reasons she got the black eye😂😂😂😂😂😂. Just joking😊😊.
@S O F I A this is an unnapporatie comment for this type of video
@@davidhill40 she's inappropriate 😱.
Good idea… a *What If* part 2 edition of this video… what if Alex forgave Adam.
Great video! I used to be married to a person like that. He would hit me, his friend all my friends to stay away from me or he was going to hurt them. Never let me talk to anyone. If it was a guy who would try to beat up on him. Basically try to isolate me. Thank God we are now divorced good luck to the new lady in his life, she's going to need it. I'm free from all that. Felt like I was a prisoner. God is good
Felicia is a great friend I'm glad she never gave up 💜🙏💕
😀
The abuser also is questioned on who they talked to and what was said. They also will say nobody else will love you period. They can also be very violent if you attempt to leave. Some men are persuaded back to the abuser and then he kills her.
Everytime woman get killed or abused,we need to work together as communities to stop the abus3,thx luis nd the crew
This episode gave me chills, Thank you Louis for your videos!
#saynotoviolence
Vallolec Adalid lol the best bit was I will give you a black eye just like i did her
I’m so glad Felicia looked out for Alex.And that Alex used the signal for help!
For a second I thought she was actually gonna hide for him and say it was a joke🤣🤣
oh rlly why
8:40 Good on her for nailing him back like that.👍 Narcissists are unworthy of friendships, dating, and marriages as always.
When you hate a character as they are 'oh so abusive...' , you know the acting is great
To be hugged by Luis would be a dream come true
Kendra Montogomery why?
Thank you for shining the light on this very important topic Luis.❤️
I am so glad that her best friend Felicia supported her called the police. There is no way that this poor girl had to put up with a controlling boyfriend like that. He should be in jail forever and never go out with any girl again.
That guy was unbelievable! I could've told her that him wanting her to move in with him after only one month together is way too fast for him not to be up to something. I don't care what he thinks she said or did, she didn't deserve that.
There was a time in the 1980s when police did not believe a woman that was abused or beaten up by a man that she was involved with whether it was a boyfriend or husband.
When her friend notices she mouthed the word (help!) and she showed her friend the distress signal 🆘 from TikTok BM. That’s a good friend!
This was such a great Lesson Luis and thank you Dylan for your hard work in editing the videos. The boyfriend didn't deserve to treat her like that and since he is so controlling. The friend was just looking out for her. Love you Luis ❤❤❤
That ball kick at the end was hilarious 😂😂😂
Awesome Video *Luis!* Keep Up The Great Work!!♥️
🎄Happy Holidays🎄
The theme of this story is that “You should always be careful of who you surround yourself with because you just never know what he or she will do to you” And Adam definitely got what he deserved.!!
imagine the amount of mens domestic abuse calls that were ignored or not believed or they were to scared to say anything:< not saying men have it worse because it's not a competition
Great message, ladies and gentlemen! Well done!!!
Been there done that in the past and never will ever again. Great video to warm others of the signs to look for and signals to help 🆘 I didn't have that.
God Bless all the Felicias that are true angels, sent to help fight domestic abuse, and those humble, hard working police officers like that one on the video (that "Good Job !" at 8:46 made my day !). Domestic violence is simply unacceptable, period. Tremendos vídeos, tocayo, Bendiciones desde San Juan PR 🇵🇷.
1:10
That right there is why we tend to be controlling in the relationship, it’s one thing to be excited when you haven’t seen someone in a long time but the excitement and the overwhelming hugs can get pretty awkward for you and may perhaps send the wrong message.
That's bullshit. If you really trust eachother, you can just hang around with whoever you want. I got a boyfriend and one of my best friends is a guy. He knows he can trust me and people like you should learn to trust your partner too. It's the controlling thing that will go wrong and the other person could just do things in secret.
him; stay safe out here. there's tons of crazy people out here
me: and you one of them
This happened to my cousin, she's beautiful in n out, unfortunately she chose someone abusive, what he didn't realize was that she had an overprotective cousin, and he wound up with his head and face less attractive, whatever else I am, I hate abuse like this. And my cousin was so grateful she treated me to dinner, steak, gotta love steak.
Omg the girl who plays Felicia is so pretty! 😍
Amazing as always keep up the good work 😌😎❤️ stay blessed
You can be friends with anybody you want at 2:48 that man was being ridiculous because she wouldn’t date other guys as well. It’s OK to be friends with anyone if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend.
This deserves a part 2
When Alex and Felicia was hugging after the cops arrested him, they looked like Elsa and Anna hugging at the end of the movie and this is at the end of the video 🥺
Not going to lie I totally cried watching this, I was in a relationship in the past that was abusive but his family had ties with local police so it took me years to escape, but thankfully I did and am with amazing partner for the last 14 years. It's so scary to leave but hopefully your videos will help others. I was lucky to get away with my life and my daughter, but not everyone is so lucky so hopefully this story helps someone else
What do you mean that his family had ties with local police?
Wow…I can’t believe people go threw abusive relationships I feel bad for the people that have been threw that everyone stay safe and positive 😇
8:13 A police officer should never hold people like this! A police officer shall only hold the arms that's it.
Yeah I agree that's animal cruelty :)
@@thrasherdave1428 Animal?
@@Alex-mz3tg Well yeah cause anyone who dares to abuse a woman or a child is not human
@@thrasherdave1428 You mean who dares to abuse everyone is not human. They are a human, but a human without empathy.
@@Alex-mz3tg Kind of
Poor darling thank god for her best friend helping her out
I love when the boyfriend said you again because he knows what’s up and he’s going down
Great video Luis!!!! Good scenario!!!! Abuse cases are sky high.
This guy was scary right from the beginning. Alex was lucky to have Felicia as a best friend who was there for her no matter what. She just knew Adam was trouble. Thank goodness Felicia took action.
I know exactly how she felt , I was in a marriage like that for 5 years , fortunately my parents drove 8 hours to come and get me, I didn’t even know they were coming, and I was pregnant, I thank God every day for them rescuing me from that messed up marriage, and I’m thankful for my life and children everyday, it’s 30 years later my kids are grown and I have wonderful grandchildren, my other blessings, God is my Savior, anyone who is in this type of situation I will pray for you and your safety, but know you are truly loved by God, much love and blessings to all!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
How did they know he abused you?
I was keeping in touch with my sister in Arizona.
@@2024_.Angela that's awesome. You were really lucky
@@samg873 No I wasn’t lucky, I was blessed , I will be forever grateful!🙏🏽❤️
Seeing partners getting abused by their partners really angers me.
7:50 “No need. I don’t believe in violence like you do. But I do believe in the law.”
Wouldn’t it be great if we all could believe in the law?😔
I would never in a million years hit my girlfriend in any way shape or form!
Any guy that puts his hands on a girl and controls her is a pice of garbage and we all know what happens to garbage, and any guy that puts his hands on a girl is animal, but sadly there's soo many women out there who are in abusive relationships it's just sickening, and girls deserve to be treated like a princess or treated like a person and not like property
i wouldn't be surprised if Luis just starts his own series, id watch it all ☠️
Luis has the BEST LIFE LESSONS on the internet😘
Love your content Luis
@S O F I A what the heck
@S O F I A wth
Spread love not hate we need a world where young girls are scared of people that are supposed to love you
Very well put together this video is thank you Luis. This is also putting awareness out there that may it seems ok or normal or that their boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wiife or whatever they make it seem like it's all your fault that you made them do it and that you deserved the beating. Remember one time is too much. Be safe out there everyone 😊🙏
It is sad when every one sees the things that are wrong but the victims herself don’t many have lost their lives.
Thank you Luis for constantly highlighting this message
I thought about controlling my crush if she’s my girlfriend because she’s super hot, and it would make me angry for other people to hit on her, but I knew it wouldn’t be a good idea to control who she hangs out with. On top of that, I wouldn’t abuse her like giving her a black eye.
If she really liked you other guys wouldn't stand a chance with her
I wish we all had an amazing friend like Felicia ❤️
I'm literally addicted to these vidoes! They dont just entertain us, but also teach us valuable lessons!!! Good Work YOU and your teamm!!!!!
I have never seen better acting than this.. hats off
Domestic violence is unacceptable, but on the flip side, Relationships are so messed up these days.
Even the most intelligent and open-minded amongst us are not above it.
Agreed. Dating violence is unacceptable, too. Man or woman, straight or gay, nobody has any business physically, emotionally/mentally, or verbally abusing their significant others, at all.
Um you completely missed ppint. She didn't cheat and hitting is never ok
Point
I stan that police officer😂 "Hey! HEY! good job" 8:43
In reality, she would've gotten arrested for that assault and he wouldve been set free because nobody actually witnessed him give her that black eye.
NO, in reality if the genders were reversed what you described would happen, def not when it's male to female though. Leave us our arguments, don't dare touch them.
He told on himself when the cop was behind the girl they probably listened to him confess and had reasonable doubt
Best story channel
This video was great. I’m happy that you are showing people the sign for someone who needs help but can’t say anything.
Keep up the great video’s.
Susan From Connecticut
‘Felicia’ ay yes a good time to say bye “felicia
Well done Felicia. I teach self defence and my classes are full of women who have suffered domestic abuse. Now Domestic violence is only part of domestic abuse. Ironically we've just had Domestic Violence awareness month but at Christmas cases of Domestic violence rocket.
The commonest types of domestic abuse are as follows.
Online- one partner spreads malicious stuff about the other.
Physical- like in this case.
Emotional- like in this case- a toxic partner but they may not be aware they are doing it.
Neglect- one neglects responsibilities but they may not be aware they are doing it.
Sexual- one gets the partner to do things they don't want- some overlap with online.
Unfaithfulness- one is unfaithful to the other.
Financial abuse- "go on leave me but how will you pay the bills?" The victim has no choice but to go back.
Female genital mutilation.
Forced food- in some cultures they force their children to eat food of the home country.
Forced marriage.
Forced language- people from overseas make their children learn the language of the home country against their will compromising the ability to speak English.
Forced religion.
Forced culture people from overseas make their children learn the culture of the home country against their will compromising the ability to integrate.
Forced parenting people from overseas parent their kids in the ways of the home country. For example in India it is wholly acceptable to beat up your kids.
Forced sexuality- in some cultures they force their children to marry against their will if they find out their kids are gay.
Forced schooling in some cultures they force their children to study against their will often causing the child considerable distress.
Please see these factsheets
Let's eradicate domestic abuse once and for all-part 1 #youarenotalone video-newsletters.tf/ry_QgQcSF
Domestic abuse: if you see the sign above - then act quickly. This person is in danger. #youarenotalone video-newsletters.tf/ry2_tl18K
Domestic abuse: how to get help if you are in danger- part 2. #youarenotalone video-newsletters.tf/BkiHAVeIK
Domestic abuse in children video-newsletters.tf/SkjE18QUt
Bro said whole paragraph💀
Love yours vids so much
What a shame. That was mean. If he is really a true boyfriend to her, why should he do such craziness like that?? He should be ashamed of himself! And for sure, he doesn't deserve to have her at all!