He's so bitter and full of resentment while portraying himself as being the only enlightened one in the royal family. His insight is so poor he doesn't see how he's embarrassing himself in front the world. I'm sad for him that he has such terrible advisors who would encourage him to share these things publicly that make him look so foolish. It's like the emperor without any clothes where the emperor's advisors are telling him "you are the best dressed in all the land". Sadly, Harry is believing his advisors. This expert nails it when she identifies that he's stuck in his trauma. She has excellent observations.
He is a little boy lost in between his parents' mistakes, confused about how he should view his role and his life. William took after Charles in stoicism and acceptance but Harry is lost. Its not just about him being the spare, I think he is genuinly confused. And he is more on the emotional side like Diana which is why he misses her even more. I think the happy Harry was hiding many frustrations throughtout all these years
My ex lost his father at age 10. In reading about family losses, I learned that it not uncommon for a child to remain emotionally stuck at the age of the loss. Only a significant intervention like therapy will help one mature past that age. I certainly found this to be true.
Even with private schools and the best training he couldn’t certify as a chopper pilot in the service! Wasn’t proficient with the job he did end up with, a weapons specialist or something. Him and Hunter should hang out, they have much in common 🤔
On my way to purchasing my very own crisp copy of ‘Spare’ (me the tears), I noticed a homeless woman with a vacant stare huddled under a blanket. Her sign read, “God help me.” I took the money I allotted for Harry’s book and gave it to her. I told her, “I’m sure Meghan and Harry won’t mind,” and if they do, “God help them.”
How wonderful she is. I did a short psychology module during my degree and I would've loved to have done more because it was all about interpreting body language and what people are really conveying when they're I'll. This Dr has such skill and perception and knowledge. Thank you.
I figured out Harry's contempt for William, he realized William was correct about the criticism of Meghan. you usually take out your frustrations on the messenger.
yeah and that is really hard when you know you've already gone too far down the track with them. You don't want it to be true as it essentially pulls the carpet out from under your life. But she's gona go at some point anyway and always was.
@@THEOZZYFUL google judge Judy’s response it’ll come up and I have to agree with her and Maureen. Absolutely nothing good will come of this and the way Harry is doing this. Such a shame
How was he allowed to fly a helicopter? It was reported in the newspaper that he had help cheating his school exams at 16, and he went to one of the most expensive schools in the country.
They show him happy and talking about his family, while saying they think he's depressed. Sounds like jealousy. He is doing what normal men do. They leave their mummy and daddy and start a new family. Can't be more normal than that.
There have been many times from my childhood that I remember a certain way. Maybe I remember a particular feeling or a particular thing someone said, etc. But as I got older and matured I was able to understand those events better. Harry is still remembering and interpreting events as a 12 yo, teenager, etc with no maturity at all.
A person who is so easily pushed over is not someone who is standing very confidently. It is not usual for a young man to be easily pushed over, particularly a brave military man. This is a boy who has been protected and has never really grown up or had any responsibility.
Harry is also giving two totally different interviews ... there is one for the UK audience & another for the US ... In the UK interview he states neither he or Meghan think the Royal Family are racist, but then in his US one he says the family was all about Meghan being black, bi-racial, divorced, American & an actress ... so there are two sides to every story & it seems Harry owns both 🤦♀🙄
Harry and his stuff only at all if you get my drift, and he found a woman who basically was as uncouth as he is simple, simple, simple exile, both of them
He runs with the hare,and hunts with the hounds. Definitely would never trust him .Old saying very true. Make a fool of me once, shame on you. Make a fool of me twice, shame on me. Hope the Royal family heeds this old but true proverb.
I love the part he says he is happy but looks so miserable. My mum killed herself when I was Harry's age and my pa was so devastated that he never paid me or my sister any attention. When he finally came out of the shock, he raised two young girls the best he knew how, as a single parent and without the resources that Harry was afforded. We turned out fine and aren't filled with hate and anger. If anything, it instilled in us a great amount of empathy and compassion for other people's suffering.
I think he just needed to say his truth and now it is done he can move on. I found in my life even the most well off have to deal with pain but sadly lack the tools of empathy. Harry sadly lived in a bubble of poor me and hopefully will get to your stage of understanding..thank you for being an awesome human and sharing
My dad seldom hugged me, but from things he said I knew he loved me. He fought in Burma during the Second World War and saw many horrors. He didn’t speak about it but after his death I found his diary from those days. I realise I’m off point but it isn’t just Harry who didn’t get hugs but I loved my dad and would have never turned against him x
@Marlene Richardson, I am so glad you found your father's wartime diary. I gave my father a cassette recorder in the early 1970s, because he was such a good storyteller. Previously I'd given him a journal, encouraging him to write those stories - he couldn't do it, he had to relate his memoirs aloud. After he crossed over, mom found numerous cassettes with his recollections. She transcribed them, and unfortunately edited them. I think I need to hear dad's voice saying what he needed to say at that time. I have a feeling mom edited out some things she didn't want us to hear..... that's her style. Although we disagreed a lot, I understand him better now as a 70 year old than I did before. Dad loved us by doing things to help us; with mom it's all about meaningless words without any follow-through or putting the moment's thought into action. Later, she will deny ever having stated her intent --- it's all deniable.
Touch is very important. But H. said (recognizing) his dad had a horrid (gravely lacking) up-bringing. So why not understand and cut Charles some slack on what H. considers failings? Why humiliate his father by mentioning Charles' teddy bear? What a callus clod.
Your observations are 100% accurate. I've always thought exactly what you just said. He sees Diana in Megan and is constantly trying to protect her. Megan, on the other hand, saw it straight away as soon as she met him. You can see her treatment and gestures towards Harry have always been motherly. A wife never puts her hand on her husbands back in public places the way Megan does. She is letting him believe that she's Diana.
His wife is mean and degrades him . She just puts her hand on his back , and he slinks back . Neither of their actions appear to be of a happy couple , they are both despicable .Meghan, is playing him.
She most likely does have photos of them. I think he feels she has rescued him & now, he-her. All heart breaking bc this a family. Yes, duties first but a family that has had member's steam, it seems, until the lid has blown the lid quite off. I'm very concerned as an American for their safety--- the entire royal family's safety is in peril now. If Meg was so intelligent as those two feel, then she would have been blind not to have seen or learned anything about the history of the monarchy & the US's evolution as a country. The curtsy... I am American & found that move of hers she'd obviously told 1,000 times to "friends" to be a grand insult to all!!
If I remember correctly, Charles had to go to Paris to identify/take care of arrangements after Diana's accident...he must have had an enormous weight on his mind.
@@carolround4156 Diana’s Sisters volunteered to go, but Charles insisted on bringing her home himself. He took with him the Royal Standard for her casket....something she was not entitled to. He was equally insistent that her funeral should be as close to a State occasion as possible, by this time in their lives they had a cordial relationship.
Exactly. He is so bitter and jealous that he interprets everything about his family in a negative way. Sad, really. My mother only hugged me when I was little. 25 years ago, I am almost 50 now, I was very depressed and was talking about suicide. She didn't even hug me then. But I was never angry with my parents for that. They just aren't "hug persons", they are not, but I know they love me a lot. I know they would die to save me. They have their own expression of their love for me. Funny thing is, my mother expresses her love through buying food for me (because after the war, food was scarce), so they give what they crave the most to me as an expression of their love. They don't hug people, they show their love in another way. If only Harry was mature enough to see stuff like that about his family...
When one of my close friends fathers died when she was around 11, I remember going to hug her and her basically throwing my off her in anger as she didn't want to be touched. She was still in the angry at everyone stage and didn't want comfort. So I think not forcing a hug or someone but waiting to see what they want/meed is perfect to deal with it
Ha ha.. He didn’t know he had hurt his back!! He didn’t know he had a bruise! Only when Meghan said , ‘what’s that? Did he realize that he had hurt himself. ??? Clearly he dramatized the event. ’ He talks utter nonsense!
I think Meghan wrote 99% of the dramatic nonsense. She miscarried being weeks pregnant yet the hospital gave her a package to bury???? NO! That did NOT happen. Meghan is a terrible writer and she doesn't bother to research anything.
@@overthepond6616use true if it ACTUALLY happened .. that would really have given them ammo.. but I guess they watched amber herd and her fake bruises and decided not to use fake photos .. just like everything else they have no proof for anything .. besides .. who leaves a dog bowl in the middle so you can neatly fall perfectly landing in the middle of your back .. my dog bowls are up against the wall
I am 41 years old. My mom kisses me twice a year: when I leave and when I come back. She has told me that she loves me handful times. She almost never hugs, never. But I see the love in her eyes, I see how proud she is, how much she cares about me. Some people cannot show emotions. Get over it Harry!
My mother shoved me in the room where my father was having a massive heart attack and dying ….he was curled up in a fetal position and foaming at the mouth when I was just 14 years old… She didn’t mean to do that, people are not thinking when they’re in Crisis. She needed to go call the ambulance and she didn’t want my dad to be alone. She wasn’t thinking, she was just reacting. And that’s what people do when they’re grieving or in shock
So sorry you had to experience that scenario as a young teen. It's good you understand what your mother was going through and don't selfishly hold it against her. I imagine you matured in many ways that day. I hope you are well.
The story about William not wanting to talk to him at school took me down memory lane ...at some point, my older sister and l did not walk to and from school with each other....but we became the closest of friends and now, in our 80s are so close/
In the documentary meghans reaction to Williams name alone was enough for eveyone to see SHE hates william and she is the master puppeteer hiding behind victimhood. But she knows she's not really a victim and inside she is full of glee that she feels she's won by making war against the RF. They could have been any family, she still had to do it. She doesnt love Harry. She's ruined his life while pretending she's the best thing he'll ever have. It boils down to him feeling like the loser and finally finding a "hot woman" to prove hes a somebody. He also talks about eating takeaway alone while will had a wife and baby. So there's the jealousy he has for Will. Meghan has twisted his thoughts. Her thoughts have become his. He loses his family, his title, his brother, his reputation, and she gains more fame, more money and her very own family. Thats not love!
I must admit I had all 3 of my children at secondary school and they would completely ignore each other every day. Wouldn’t even walk to and from together. It’s not a big deal Harry….it’s called being a typical sibling.
This is us me with my 2 older siblings when I was in high school 😂because we are always together at home and see each other at home I feel like its fine I am not salty about it. I feel like if the book is not written by his wife then He is really craving for attention and affection of his late mother princess diana.
I had 4 children and even in primary school they did not spend time with each other and in secondary school they were very clear that they didn't want to communicate while at school. At home they, particularly the older 3, fought all the time, mostly verbal but at times physical!
I know a boy who told his younger cousin (girl) in their junior high school: "You don't know me; I don't know you." The girl, now in her 40s recounts that incident with a chuckle making us smile, thinking "yep! that's our Joey..." No negativity. They were very close and still are. Harry does not look or sound happy to me.
Love this Louise Mahler, language analyst. Just became aware of her and the two brief times listening to her, I learned more than years of listening g to other analysts. Special talent and communication skills this woman, brings forth nuances others do not speak of and love her candor.
I think that some of Harry's animosity of Prince William has to do with his awareness of his wife's physical attraction to his older brother. There are photos of her "mooning" over him. She wanted the older brother who is the future King of England. Instead she had to settle for the younger dimwitted brother...It must be a huge source of anger for Ginger.
@@multioptioned or the other way round 🤔 Megain might be the most entitled with Harry close second, either way they are both the most entitled brats I know off I reckon
My dad died and my mom didnt hug me as well. But we did not have that kind of relationship. But I knew and she knew that we were both in pain from the loss. We did not have therapy after because we could not afford it. We just went on with our lives and looked back on my dad's life with great fondness. He was a good man. We were happy and blessed for the time we had with him.
You cant judge him for how he reacts to situations. Their family life was very public, their grief was public, the public pressure always existed - that in itself changes the dynamic of family. They are privileged but also cursed.
@Aslan Korkma…. As horribly sad as that analysis that she made is… truer words were never spoken. And, that is really one of the biggest factors in this entire sorry nightmare…
So true and combine that with, welcome to the land of 'Jerry Springer' where you air it, for all to see, the crowd yahoos... The better the victim role you play, the louder the cheer. And based on my generalised assumptions, so as to humour myself: Let's not forget, the US people have no idea what the monarchy or its history means... So he is totally misguided over there, in the handling of this......he needed for someone to say, mate let's try to reconcile this behind closed doors.. and if he doesn't want to heal, or fix things, then he can shut up about it. More assumptions: But at home, he's probably getting the old (cue the whining voice)"no harry my love, this isn't fair. You need to get what you're entitled to... you need to talk about how this has made you feel ! Show the world your pain. Show the world your worth. Do it for our children and what is rightfully theirs...." Blah blah blah and the audience goes wild ... Oprah and the network mob are rubbing their hands together.... welcome to the land of opportunity Prince Harry... Don't be naively taken for a ride by the opportunistic.
When my dad died I was 12 and mum bought a cup of tea to me and I said dad's dead and she nodded, she never hugged me and yet she was a very caring person.
Sometimes a person does not hug or show that level of warmth is because they are barely holding it together themselves and that. That kind of loving gesture would make them cave and the may not be able to bounce back from that for a while. Some just know they need that distance to be strong for you and those around them. Coping skills
King Charles said “my dear boy, your mummy didn’t make it”. Maybe he didn’t hug him but he was talking to him in a loving way. My father never hugged me nor has he ever said he loved me. I survived without feeling like a victim as Harry does.
I don't remember anyone hugging each other over a death in our family. We are either in shock, numb or too despondent... I usually feel paralyzed physically and mentally when a loved one dies. Harry makes a living out of attacking his family.
H&M started taking photos of everything from the their second date. If there was even a scratch on his back, wouldn't the wife insist on taking a photo for evidence????
When my nephew called me in the early hours of the morning to tell me that his dad, my older brother had just passed away. I said ok and went back to sleep. How I acted out my grief when I finally woke up was totally different.
Nah mate, she is a nutjob herself. I would love someone to critique her body language as that would be hilarious. She seems to really enjoy picking the dude apart and that's just not cool whatever his faults are. I would hate to be a royal.
What a stupid review of body language. He is still annoyed about the crap he is going through. Hench his body language. It does not mean he is 'unhappy' with his choices or Mehgan!.. stop projecting your oppinions onto him!! It is so wrong and dumb! 'Context' matters
My older brothers didn't even acknowledge my existence when their friends were around. That is Normal, and I wasn't the only family that acted like that. Harry just wanted the attention.
my son told me he can't hold my hand the next time when we are at the neighbourhood mall when he was 12 (Asian in Asia so that is about the age they care about looking cool.) He was worried that his friends might see us holding hands and laugh at him but he held my hand throughout that day and we met 2 of his schoolmates. I thought that was cute and very thoughtful. He will be 22 soon, a few months ago when I was dizzy (anaemia) at another mall, he held me tightly. A few years ago, we went to F1, I was suffocating when it became too crowded, he was there to massage my head and hands. His elder brother took the opportunity to run away to buy merch...since we were having a "break". People are different. I love them for their different qualities, not nitpicking at their desire to not be seen with me during their awkward years, Harry is petty and immature.
This whole saga would be a complete farce if it wasn't so nasty. He didnot fly a helicopter he didnot pass thebpilots test. The wife was not chased that is why she hates the press. No one was that interested once her true character came out.
@@barbarawinterbourne3736 . No-one is interested in her boring life before Hairless UNLESS of course she cares to write about her PAID YACHTING ESCORT ESCAPADES. Might pay for another Tomato Suit.
Is this what happens when every word a human utters is treated as gold. No one ever said NO to Harry. Andrew was the same. They spend their day talking trivial nonsense with no sense of meaningful conversation. Had his mother been alive he'd have had her under a bus with the rest of the family.
My father & grandmother came to tell me my mother had died. I was 13yo. They tried to hug me but they were not usually huggy people and I didn’t want to be hugged. The most I remember about that time was that my father ordered a pale blue hearse which I thought was disrespectful, it should have been black. My Mum’s Kindergarten Class children all came to the funeral & formed a Guard of Honour. We were not Catholic but she had taught at a Catholic School, so Sisters of Mercy attended. We learned music from Dominican Nuns, so they came too. My Mum was only 33 years old.
What's quite eye-opening is how different the two interviews for the US and UK are. He backtracks on the racism claim in the UK interview but pushes it without saying it for the US audience. Yes, Meghan didn't actually say the Royal family was racist in the Oprah interview, but more or less left the accusation open from Oprahs line of questioning. Meghan even said it would be very damaging for that family member, and they received an award to stop racism in the royal family. So, in Harry's version to the UK, they received an award for something that didn't even happen. I've always been on the fence with this, I respect Harry's decision to get out of the royal family if that is what he wanted. But he stories are not adding up and contradicting each other. In the book, he even described the moment he was told the Queen mother died, is wrong, saying it was warm. But everyone old enough in the UK remembers Harry, William, and Charles were skiing in the Alpes at the time
@@marjakeizer9580 I did consider that. The royal residences only use stainless steel for their dog bowls. The Queen’s rule. Never porcelain. She never used anything else for her Corgi’s. Diana’s former butler Paul Burrell stated it.
@@Caylainez No, the confrontation was several months after the wedding in the Fall of 2018. It was about MM behavior and actions toward the staff. William received the report of the HR complains and was indeed livid when he called Harry - who promptly hung up on him. He went over in person to deal with Harry face to face. And it wasn't only William who was aggressive, yelling and threatening. The dog bowls were metal as the pictures show. The Sussex's moved out in Jan 2019. I noticed throughout their interviews and reality show, they purposely mess up the timeline to mislead and fit their own narrative. Then their just shift, change and claim something different.
Looking back at old interviews of the brothers there’s an awful lot of Harry taking the mickey out of his brother. At the time we thought it was fun brother banter now it looks like Harry’s jealousy of his brother coming out and poor William having to tolerate it
I have siblings that are married to narcissists. Their over riding focus is always to not upset their other half and they are hyper vigilant to anything anyone else might say or do that could upset the other half - the reason for this neurotic, lazer-focus ? They have been conditioned over the years to fear the partners being irked, by the sheer amount of bullshit and shenanigans they have to endure whenever it happens. Spending their entire lives walking on eggshells leaves them with a perennial sense of dread, endlessly anxious, angry , tense, bitter, and generally bent out of shape. Hence Harry's demeanour when challenged at all - however gently - in those interviews . He knows mommy is watching snd the hell he'll get behind closed doors if it doesn't go exactly how she's planned and envisaged it. Afterall, she sees him as her puppet not a human being in his own right. That's how narcissists see their " less significant others ".
@@mario-qi3yw My sister is in her 60's , she's been with hers since she was 14. My brother ,also in his 60's , has been with his - his only girlfriend ever - since he was 18 . I've had a very long time to observe the phenomenon. For decades I didn't even know what it was called. It gets worse over time.
@@mario-qi3yw bless your Son I've once been out with one I'm only now fully recovering. Just be there if ever he needs keep eyes n ears open. Tread carefully
You Do know what one is I didn't till my last relationship Thanks for sharing only in that position or very close to victim you'll only know How Bad it can bizarrely get's Nothing is Off limits Nothing
Well explained. I have several family members with NPD and it’s hell on earth. My mother we are always walking on eggshells, still she always finds a reason to be mad at us, ghost us and do smear campaigns against us. Nobody understands why she’s mad at her friends and family all the time. Then also the manipulating and the greed for money and luxury is so destroying. My mother and my siblings lie when they open up their mouth, they steal and scam family members for money (millions of dollars), ect. You don’t know how much I hate these evil people!
I watched him and I didn't see what she saw...The tone of voice she used was not like Harrys..Iv been furious at Harry,and ready to kick him in the teeth, but this was not accurate....
@@rebagaudet9944 I disagree, she may exaggerate but that's how she gets us to see some of the less obvious stuff that non-professionals a.k.a the general public cannot see. That way, when u go back to Harry's again, u would see what she sees. Anyway, other body language experts caught quite a few that are the same as what she has mentioned here.
When he was asked why he didn't give his titles back, he got away with his response of "Why should I?" He should have been immediately asked "The more relevant question is why wouldn't you?" - based on the laundry list of reasons why.
The exact answer was "what difference would it make?" so Cooper should have said "well, it would make people believe you are being honest about not wanting an institution". It was not an interview and Cooper should be ashamed of himself.
If he believes the narrative about the monarchy being colonizers he shouldn’t want to benefit from that generational wealth. He and his wife are happy to keep the money while making veiled comments and insinuations about the legitimacy of and racism in the monarchy. I wish he’d been asked about that.
My husband left me when my kids were very small. He had an affair, but he continuously attacked me to everyone we had known among other ways. My Aunt had told me that that is the way that I can know that he is not happy. Harry is doing the same to his family. He is not happy. The thing is that once they run out of more things to say and she is done with him, she will divorce him. I feel that that is a given.
I think what's disappointing is that his therapist has either exacerbated his paranoia, his anger at some of the sad events of his life and hasn't given him the tools to make peace with the past and to recognise that his assumptions of others feelings, motives maybe wrong.
@@elizabethtaylor2916 how can she be his therapist? A therapist must see all sides to a situation would she not be very one sided if she was giving him therapy? I’ve had therapy and there is no way I could off spoken to a family member with regards to my issues my daughter is a therapist and she guided me to a stranger as it’s not appropriate to give therapy to family or friends.
That was the most brilliant summary of Harry that I have ever heard! I have heard thousands upon thousands of people try to sum him up, you just hit the nail on the head and tied it up in a nice little bow
I’m 66 and I lost my Dad nearly 5 years ago and he never showed me anything like a hug until his last 6 months . I was so grateful for that and life goes on I always said I would be different with my own children because of it.
This lady is absolutely brilliant I don’t know how I found her but I’m glad I did. I haven’t watched the interviews only the glimpses but yes when he mentions Williams name there’s definitely the curl of the lip - truly nasty. And I blame his current condition on his abuse of drugs, not on his family.
@Louise Mahler, This was my first time viewing your analysis, and I'm very impressed! Did you analyze the Oprah interview with H&M? (I thought it was rehearsed down to the least gesture. Harry's wife has vicious intent, no mistaking it!)
I just read several articles and all said Harry did pass his test and was an Apache helicopter pilot and served as co-pilot gunner. The announcement was made by the Ministry of Defense. Harry gets so many things wrong let’s at least give credit where credit is due.
If you extensively google legitimate sites, you will find out Harry was a gunner (front seat) in his 2008 tour. He trained over the next four years to be a pilot and requested to return to Afghanistan in in 2012. The videos we see of him must be in 2008 as he has no wings on his uniform and enters the front seat. Still cant figure out if a gunner alone (without pilot training), is normally allowed or if an exception was made for Harry
Many people's parents from the last generation were not very affectionate. My father worked a lot and wasn't home very much. And like many fathers who came home tired, my frustrated mother of 4 kids wanted him to discipline us. So affection and fun was not the role of my father. But as an adult, I understand that he was tired when he got home, tried his best to provide for the family and had a lot of stress too. Harry has to grow up, especially now that he is a husband and a parent.
The best was the whinge about William getting three breakfast sausages when Harry got two. This memory lives on despite Harry being in his late thirties and H&M living in a multi-million dollar mansion. This has to be the most bizarre grudge I've ever heard. I wonder if we'll ever hear about all the money the grinches claimed to be offering to charity before the book was published. Given the book, I think we'd all like to see the bank deposit slip or the cheque stub.
Dr Marhler is so spot on. This is exactly what annoys me about Harry's torrent of revelations is that most of the things are something that people deal with all over the world but Harry demands sympathy and support from everyone because he suffered more than anyone else.
My father was not a hugger I was always the one to initiate a hug. And once I made the first move he gave me hugs I will never forget . The only time he told me he loved me was on his death bed 😪 RIP Dad 💕💕💕💕💕 RIP Dad
I loved Harry. I watched him grow up… the same age as my son. But as much as I desperately want him to be the man he could have been, it’s clear he is not the man I thought he was.
Beautifully stated! I agree as I watched him grow up too. have always loved both of them. But he has joined the Meghan cult. he is wounded, hypnotized and do not know if he can get out of this or not? I pray he does and takes his children with him before it is too late. Meghan has manipulated him and continues on and that is also called witchcraft by Christians. The children do not need to be part of the paranoia all the time and the anger , hate and jealousy. They hopefully would try to understand they too would have had a rightful place in the family of royals, but it just would not have been exactly the same, as of the eldest child has always had that first choice of being King/Queen. If they cannot and do not have children, then the possibility for the second son or daughter to rule is there but not otherwise. Harry had to have known this, and if not, I do feel sorry for him. Maybe he thought they could' also' have been King one day? It does not work that way. But a working Royal and a title and good pay and a lovely home, and whatever he wanted! Being close with his brother and sister-in-law and father and all the others whom he misses very, very much we can see that in his face! He is miserable and yet cannot figure out what it is he is missing, he not only lost him mom but now dad and brother and sister-in-law and all he loved so much because of Meghan. He hates to lose his children and she probably is holding it over his head? He must break through knowing she cannot have the children as it would be so easy to prove in court she has manipulated and cause paranoia and anger against his own family and he must be afraid for his whole family including his children as being around her is dangerous and she can only see them when a professional psychologist is on the room.
He's had too much time on his hands to belly button gaze, if he'd had to work like everyone else he to pay his own bills I think he would be a different person.
When my beloved, adored Uncle, close as my Father to me, died suddenly when I was 7, my Mother said baldly, "Your Uncle is dead." I cried, and she shouted at me to shut up, saying, "I don't know what you are crying for - you didn't know him, and he didn't love you." I wasn't allowed to mourn or grieve and I wasn't allowed to go to his funeral. I didn't grow up to destroy my mother, or hate my family, even though I miss my special Uncle to this day. Get some help, Harry.
The older generation truly had the "keep calm and carry on" attitude. They recognize everyone suffers and has hardship so "don't make a fuss". The pendulum has swung way too far on the other direction where it's all about feelings. Need to get back to center
Excellent analysis every step of the way. Thank you! All of what you say makes sense with the things Harry whines about. For instance, I have felt all along that so many of the events he dramatizes are normal things we have all gone through: our brother pushing us (or even physically fighting), our older siblings ignoring us at school (of course!), our parent not presenting tragic information to us in the way we want to hear it (is there any good way to do so?) because they are going through their own trauma about it, too- and on and on. Harry is definitely stuck at age 13 (an immature 13 at that!) and when interviewed is clearly only capable of spouting the phrases given him by reality TV producers, just as you say. I look forward to more analyses of yours!
Yea, right - it's called L I F E! And apart from the War, and the tragic loss of his Mother, it's all pretty pedantic - it never seems to occur to him that millions of other people walked this path, walk this path - and millions more have suffered real hardship, pain and dreadful brutality growing up. Instead of whinging & wining, why can't he get out there and really help some of these suffering real pain and family violence - I don
Dr. Mahler describes Harry to a tee. His emotional development does seem to have arrested when his mother died. At 38, he still sees life from a 12 year old's perspective. It's no wonder Meghan is able to manipulate him so easily.
Absolutely, he has never grown up, has no idea that most of his greatest 'complaints' are everyday experiences most of us have experienced. He needs to realize, all humans suffer. That challenges are opportunity for growth. How can he of had so many years of therapy & never been told this? He must simply turn a deaf ear to those who have tried to give him good advice. He simply doesn't want to 'work' at making his life successful.
@@paulinebazela6912 That must have been so hard. A child of 6 or 3 hardly understands death, let alone enduring the loss w/o comforting touch. I'm so sorry for your pain.
Harry’s finding out that he isn’t in a special class of family disagreements. He was in a sheltered life of royal life & feels the world needs to say poor baby. He should’ve picked up the vibes by Maegan’s own interactions involving her own family. He got the smaller bedroom, I had to share a bedroom with 3 sisters. Boo-Hoo, Rich Little Man-Boy.
SO TRUE!! He never very intelligent, doing very badly at school etc. Throw in all the drugs he has taken over the years and that's what you get, a PARANOID DRUGGIE DING-A-LING, thinking the whole world is out to get him!! All that need as well, is throw in the World's greatest NARCISSIST, MEGANUTS and you have the perfect pair, exploiting everyone around for many millions of dollars, and SO-CALLED FAME AND GLORY!! Too bad about their POOR families and friends, who they have trodden on and tried to destroy, along their way to Fame and Fortune!! THEY ARE BOTH A TOTAL DISGRACE!!
Harry is a drama queen.
and you are jealous and racist
Who comes across a a deranged stunted individual.
@@silvanamariaga2281 💪🥁🇺🇸🤴🏼👶🏻👶🏻👸🏻🇺🇸🥁💪
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All I see is a man with deep jealousy and hatred for his brother.
Amen
And $ signs in his eyes.
He's so bitter and full of resentment while portraying himself as being the only enlightened one in the royal family. His insight is so poor he doesn't see how he's embarrassing himself in front the world. I'm sad for him that he has such terrible advisors who would encourage him to share these things publicly that make him look so foolish. It's like the emperor without any clothes where the emperor's advisors are telling him "you are the best dressed in all the land". Sadly, Harry is believing his advisors. This expert nails it when she identifies that he's stuck in his trauma. She has excellent observations.
Not until MM convinced him that he was victimized and she would save him.
Isn’t it embarrassing. The man has no dignity. His brother is all dignity
I wish this lady had her own channel! She is spot-on and better than the other channels I follow. Very detailed and accurate!
She is to the point! Love her!
Harry might be pushing 40, chronologically, but emotionally he’s still 12…the age he was when his mother died. 😢
He is a little boy lost in between his parents' mistakes, confused about how he should view his role and his life. William took after Charles in stoicism and acceptance but Harry is lost. Its not just about him being the spare, I think he is genuinly confused. And he is more on the emotional side like Diana which is why he misses her even more. I think the happy Harry was hiding many frustrations throughtout all these years
Harry is a jerk and always has been. The family always covered for him.
My ex lost his father at age 10. In reading about family losses, I learned that it not uncommon for a child to remain emotionally stuck at the age of the loss. Only a significant intervention like therapy will help one mature past that age. I certainly found this to be true.
Totally agree, whoever he has seen for “counseling” hasn’t helped!
My conclusion of Harry: There's no cure for stupid!
Lol so bitter
You can't put brains in statues..
Even with private schools and the best training he couldn’t certify as a chopper pilot in the service! Wasn’t proficient with the job he did end up with, a weapons specialist or something. Him and Hunter should hang out, they have much in common 🤔
Maybe he did not pass drug testing.
....in the words of a great man "stupid is, as stupid does".
On my way to purchasing my very own crisp copy of ‘Spare’ (me the tears), I noticed a homeless woman with a vacant stare huddled under a blanket. Her sign read, “God help me.” I took the money I allotted for Harry’s book and gave it to her. I told her, “I’m sure Meghan and Harry won’t mind,” and if they do, “God help them.”
Kudos to you, that's exactly what anyone thinking of buying that drivel should do, not line their pockets for selling the RF down the river Thames.
Much better. God bless your giving heart 🙏
God bless you abundantly 4 d goodness u hav done my dear bless other an u shall b blessed.
Much more edifying use of the money.
you are an awesome human..shame we arent looking after our homeless across the rich world :(
I love this lady. She’s so accurate and hilarious!!🤣
She talks total sense
@@christinalucas246 oh yeah she sure does
How wonderful she is. I did a short psychology module during my degree and I would've loved to have done more because it was all about interpreting body language and what people are really conveying when they're I'll. This Dr has such skill and perception and knowledge. Thank you.
I figured out Harry's contempt for William, he realized William was correct about the criticism of Meghan. you usually take out your frustrations on the messenger.
Listen to Judge Judy's response to the book. She is so insightful and so correct.
@@maureenhauer4863 Do you have a link for that or the title of the video?
I was looking for it but can't find it.
yeah and that is really hard when you know you've already gone too far down the track with them. You don't want it to be true as it essentially pulls the carpet out from under your life. But she's gona go at some point anyway and always was.
@@THEOZZYFUL google judge Judy’s response it’ll come up and I have to agree with her and Maureen. Absolutely nothing good will come of this and the way Harry is doing this. Such a shame
@@maureenhauer4863 do you have a link??
I'm embarrassed for him watching this. It's so phony it's cringy.
@@janewollington458 If it's a true story, which I highly doubt his is.
@@janewollington458 You have no right to criticise anyone's comments. Evetyone had a right to their opinion. Don't be a bully!!
yes, that "expert" is embarrassing. Harry has courage to speak his experiences. Well done Harry.
How was he allowed to fly a helicopter? It was reported in the newspaper that he had help cheating his school exams at 16, and he went to one of the most expensive schools in the country.
They show him happy and talking about his family, while saying they think he's depressed. Sounds like jealousy. He is doing what normal men do. They leave their mummy and daddy and start a new family. Can't be more normal than that.
There have been many times from my childhood that I remember a certain way. Maybe I remember a particular feeling or a particular thing someone said, etc. But as I got older and matured I was able to understand those events better. Harry is still remembering and interpreting events as a 12 yo, teenager, etc with no maturity at all.
A person who is so easily pushed over is not someone who is standing very confidently. It is not usual for a young man to be easily pushed over, particularly a brave military man. This is a boy who has been protected and has never really grown up or had any responsibility.
Harry is also giving two totally different interviews ... there is one for the UK audience & another for the US ... In the UK interview he states neither he or Meghan think the Royal Family are racist, but then in his US one he says the family was all about Meghan being black, bi-racial, divorced, American & an actress ... so there are two sides to every story & it seems Harry owns both 🤦♀🙄
People should watch both
I noticed that too. Very manipulative approach, he must think we are stupid.
Harry and his stuff only at all if you get my drift, and he found a woman who basically was as uncouth as he is simple, simple, simple exile, both of them
He runs with the hare,and hunts with the hounds. Definitely would never trust him .Old saying very true.
Make a fool of me once, shame on you.
Make a fool of me twice, shame on me.
Hope the Royal family heeds this old but true proverb.
@@drubee7793 No Harry doesn't think we're stupid. Meghan does. Harry doesn't think, period. He just sticks to the script she gives him.
I love the part he says he is happy but looks so miserable.
My mum killed herself when I was Harry's age and my pa was so devastated that he never paid me or my sister any attention. When he finally came out of the shock, he raised two young girls the best he knew how, as a single parent and without the resources that Harry was afforded. We turned out fine and aren't filled with hate and anger. If anything, it instilled in us a great amount of empathy and compassion for other people's suffering.
That's a wonderful message
Well said dear god bless ur beautiful family
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I think about Jackies Kennedy standing there with her 2 little ones & all I see is strength.
I think he just needed to say his truth and now it is done he can move on. I found in my life even the most well off have to deal with pain but sadly lack the tools of empathy. Harry sadly lived in a bubble of poor me and hopefully will get to your stage of understanding..thank you for being an awesome human and sharing
@davidryan6696
There's no such thing as "his truth." There's truth and there's opinion. An opinion doesn't necessarily mean it's true.
My dad seldom hugged me, but from things he said I knew he loved me. He fought in Burma during the Second World War and saw many horrors. He didn’t speak about it but after his death I found his diary from those days. I realise I’m off point but it isn’t just Harry who didn’t get hugs but I loved my dad and would have never turned against him x
Love is all we need not hugs
@Marlene Richardson,
I am so glad you found your father's wartime diary.
I gave my father a cassette recorder in the early 1970s, because he was such a good storyteller. Previously I'd given him a journal, encouraging him to write those stories - he couldn't do it, he had to relate his memoirs aloud.
After he crossed over, mom found numerous cassettes with his recollections. She transcribed them, and unfortunately edited them. I think I need to hear dad's voice saying what he needed to say at that time. I have a feeling mom edited out some things she didn't want us to hear..... that's her style.
Although we disagreed a lot, I understand him better now as a 70 year old than I did before.
Dad loved us by doing things to help us; with mom it's all about meaningless words without any follow-through or putting the moment's thought into action. Later, she will deny ever having stated her intent --- it's all deniable.
Touch is very important. But H. said (recognizing) his dad had a horrid (gravely lacking) up-bringing. So why not understand and cut Charles some slack on what H. considers failings? Why humiliate his father by mentioning Charles' teddy bear? What a callus clod.
Your observations are 100% accurate. I've always thought exactly what you just said. He sees Diana in Megan and is constantly trying to protect her. Megan, on the other hand, saw it straight away as soon as she met him. You can see her treatment and gestures towards Harry have always been motherly. A wife never puts her hand on her husbands back in public places the way Megan does. She is letting him believe that she's Diana.
His wife is mean and degrades him . She just puts her hand on his back , and he slinks back . Neither of their actions appear to be of a happy couple , they are both despicable .Meghan, is playing him.
And the way Letizia did when they got to the hotel in Athens for Felipe's uncle funeral
Meghan would have pictures of his back. If this was true.
They have no evidence for any allegations and are careful not to name names so they can't be sued.
Exactly.
I never thought of that!! So true!!
In which case, we can deduce that it never did happen.
She most likely does have photos of them. I think he feels she has rescued him & now, he-her. All heart breaking bc this a family. Yes, duties first but a family that has had member's steam, it seems, until the lid has blown the lid quite off. I'm very concerned as an American for their safety--- the entire royal family's safety is in peril now. If Meg was so intelligent as those two feel, then she would have been blind not to have seen or learned anything about the history of the monarchy & the US's evolution as a country. The curtsy... I am American & found that move of hers she'd obviously told 1,000 times to "friends" to be a grand insult to all!!
If I remember correctly, Charles had to go to Paris to identify/take care of arrangements after Diana's accident...he must have had an enormous weight on his mind.
Ex husbands are next of kin? 🤔
@@multioptioned king Charles was next of kin and the father of Diana's children. Her sister accompanied Charles in going to Paris.
@@multioptioned I remember thinking the same thing back then, but guess it had something to do with the RF
@@carolround4156 Diana’s Sisters volunteered to go, but Charles insisted on bringing her home himself. He took with him the Royal Standard for her casket....something she was not entitled to. He was equally insistent that her funeral should be as close to a State occasion as possible, by this time in their lives they had a cordial relationship.
@@jackieporter5323 Diana's sisters did go to Paris!
Exactly. He is so bitter and jealous that he interprets everything about his family in a negative way. Sad, really. My mother only hugged me when I was little. 25 years ago, I am almost 50 now, I was very depressed and was talking about suicide. She didn't even hug me then. But I was never angry with my parents for that. They just aren't "hug persons", they are not, but I know they love me a lot. I know they would die to save me. They have their own expression of their love for me. Funny thing is, my mother expresses her love through buying food for me (because after the war, food was scarce), so they give what they crave the most to me as an expression of their love. They don't hug people, they show their love in another way. If only Harry was mature enough to see stuff like that about his family...
When one of my close friends fathers died when she was around 11, I remember going to hug her and her basically throwing my off her in anger as she didn't want to be touched. She was still in the angry at everyone stage and didn't want comfort. So I think not forcing a hug or someone but waiting to see what they want/meed is perfect to deal with it
Ha ha.. He didn’t know he had hurt his back!! He didn’t know he had a bruise! Only when Meghan said , ‘what’s that? Did he realize that he had hurt himself. ??? Clearly he dramatized the event. ’ He talks utter nonsense!
Come on MM would have taken pics
The dog bowls in all the palaces and royal homes are metal.
I think Meghan wrote 99% of the dramatic nonsense. She miscarried being weeks pregnant yet the hospital gave her a package to bury???? NO! That did NOT happen. Meghan is a terrible writer and she doesn't bother to research anything.
@@overthepond6616use true if it ACTUALLY happened .. that would really have given them ammo.. but I guess they watched amber herd and her fake bruises and decided not to use fake photos .. just like everything else they have no proof for anything .. besides .. who leaves a dog bowl in the middle so you can neatly fall perfectly landing in the middle of your back .. my dog bowls are up against the wall
@@randomchance7796 I wondered about that. I figured that they either had glass dog bowls or really cheap and crappy plastic bowls 😂😂😂
Can we stop calling the Ginger Man Puppy a Helicopter Pilot. He was NEVER a helicopter pilot - he failed to qualify. William is the qualified pilot.
I am 41 years old. My mom kisses me twice a year: when I leave and when I come back. She has told me that she loves me handful times. She almost never hugs, never. But I see the love in her eyes, I see how proud she is, how much she cares about me. Some people cannot show emotions. Get over it Harry!
I could watch this women read body language all day long. She makes it interesting.
My mother shoved me in the room where my father was having a massive heart attack and dying ….he was curled up in a fetal position and foaming at the mouth when I was just 14 years old… She didn’t mean to do that, people are not thinking when they’re in Crisis. She needed to go call the ambulance and she didn’t want my dad to be alone. She wasn’t thinking, she was just reacting. And that’s what people do when they’re grieving or in shock
So sorry you had to experience that scenario as a young teen. It's good you understand what your mother was going through and don't selfishly hold it against her. I imagine you matured in many ways that day. I hope you are well.
Sorry for your trauma and loss. She wanted to protect you in a way and was a bit frantic. Maybe Will was too.
Second both comments above. Perfectly put by the respondents.
@@christopheradderley6902 Thank-you.
Maybe you can take some comfort that your father didn't pass away alone thanks to that.
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The story about William not wanting to talk to him at school took me down memory lane ...at some point, my older sister and l did not walk to and from school with each other....but we became the closest of friends and now, in our 80s are so close/
My older sister told me the day I started high school " you don't know me!" I love her dearly and always thought she was cool 😎 kids will be kids
Me too, i dont talk to my sister even if she pass by me at school, why should I, I see her day and night 😅 . Still we are getting along just fine
@@ikomind5273 my thoughts exactly 😅
Same, I used to think she was cold. Now hearing about how normal and common it is, I don't feel so bad about it.
In the documentary meghans reaction to Williams name alone was enough for eveyone to see SHE hates william and she is the master puppeteer hiding behind victimhood. But she knows she's not really a victim and inside she is full of glee that she feels she's won by making war against the RF. They could have been any family, she still had to do it. She doesnt love Harry. She's ruined his life while pretending she's the best thing he'll ever have. It boils down to him feeling like the loser and finally finding a "hot woman" to prove hes a somebody. He also talks about eating takeaway alone while will had a wife and baby. So there's the jealousy he has for Will. Meghan has twisted his thoughts. Her thoughts have become his. He loses his family, his title, his brother, his reputation, and she gains more fame, more money and her very own family. Thats not love!
I find it hard to comprehend why Harry thinks disputes or disagreements between siblings are unique to his family. What planet is he living on?
I must admit I had all 3 of my children at secondary school and they would completely ignore each other every day. Wouldn’t even walk to and from together. It’s not a big deal Harry….it’s called being a typical sibling.
LOL. My brothers beat the crap out of each other daily. As adults we are all best friends.
This is us me with my 2 older siblings when I was in high school 😂because we are always together at home and see each other at home I feel like its fine I am not salty about it. I feel like if the book is not written by his wife then He is really craving for attention and affection of his late mother princess diana.
I had 4 children and even in primary school they did not spend time with each other and in secondary school they were very clear that they didn't want to communicate while at school.
At home they, particularly the older 3, fought all the time, mostly verbal but at times physical!
I was told the same by my brother. It is each child trying to get on with their peer group that is behind that normal siblings behavior at school...
I know a boy who told his younger cousin (girl) in their junior high school: "You don't know me; I don't know you." The girl, now in her 40s recounts that incident with a chuckle making us smile, thinking "yep! that's our Joey..." No negativity. They were very close and still are. Harry does not look or sound happy to me.
He admitted he likes his drugs it shows. He's lost it completely & being led by people who are using him.
Love this Louise Mahler, language analyst. Just became aware of her and the two brief times listening to her, I learned more than years of listening g to other analysts. Special talent and communication skills this woman, brings forth nuances others do not speak of and love her candor.
I think that some of Harry's animosity of Prince William has to do with his awareness of his wife's physical attraction to his older brother. There are photos of her "mooning" over him. She wanted the older brother who is the future King of England. Instead she had to settle for the younger dimwitted brother...It must be a huge source of anger for Ginger.
Harry is the most entitled human being on the planet!
No. His fa
ther is, has a valet IRON HIS SHOE LACES. !time to do away with these elites.
Meghan must be a close second.
@@multioptioned or the other way round 🤔 Megain might be the most entitled with Harry close second, either way they are both the most entitled brats I know off I reckon
And old
Exactly
My dad died and my mom didnt hug me as well. But we did not have that kind of relationship. But I knew and she knew that we were both in pain from the loss. We did not have therapy after because we could not afford it. We just went on with our lives and looked back on my dad's life with great fondness. He was a good man. We were happy and blessed for the time we had with him.
I had similar experience
But don’t put down people that get therapy
@@llamamama2910 they didn't put down therapy. They stated that they couldn't afford therapy. Learn some reading and comprehension skills 🙄
@@llamamama2910 Llama Mama, "But don’t put down people that get therapy".
You cant judge him for how he reacts to situations. Their family life was very public, their grief was public, the public pressure always existed - that in itself changes the dynamic of family. They are privileged but also cursed.
This woman's neurotic and the kind of person that fights for a shopping cart at the market
Wow brilliant analysis 👏👏👏
I love how she described reality show producers perfect.
I know that was funny. 😜
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@Aslan Korkma…. As horribly sad as that analysis that she made is… truer words were never spoken. And, that is really one of the biggest factors in this entire sorry nightmare…
Agree
So true and combine that with, welcome to the land of 'Jerry Springer' where you air it, for all to see, the crowd yahoos... The better the victim role you play, the louder the cheer.
And based on my generalised assumptions, so as to humour myself:
Let's not forget, the US people have no idea what the monarchy or its history means... So he is totally misguided over there, in the handling of this......he needed for someone to say, mate let's try to reconcile this behind closed doors.. and if he doesn't want to heal, or fix things, then he can shut up about it.
More assumptions:
But at home, he's probably getting the old (cue the whining voice)"no harry my love, this isn't fair. You need to get what you're entitled to... you need to talk about how this has made you feel ! Show the world your pain. Show the world your worth. Do it for our children and what is rightfully theirs...."
Blah blah blah and the audience goes wild ... Oprah and the network mob are rubbing their hands together.... welcome to the land of opportunity Prince Harry... Don't be naively taken for a ride by the opportunistic.
He eminates misery and anger.
And seething jealousy!!!
Good on Harry for telling his truth. Imagine growing up in a family linked to PEDOS and Child Traffickers!
@@debrashawcross170 Are you responsible for every sicko in YOUR family?
Brought on by his marriage
He also kept sniffing a lot. That's a sign of lying in my mind 😱
What a fantastic analysis
When my dad died I was 12 and mum bought a cup of tea to me and I said dad's dead and she nodded, she never hugged me and yet she was a very caring person.
Sometimes a person does not hug or show that level of warmth is because they are barely holding it together themselves and that. That kind of loving gesture would make them cave and the may not be able to bounce back from that for a while. Some just know they need that distance to be strong for you and those around them. Coping skills
Because she lost him too which is very sad for you both as it was for Harry William and Charles
King Charles said “my dear boy, your mummy didn’t make it”. Maybe he didn’t hug him but he was talking to him in a loving way. My father never hugged me nor has he ever said he loved me. I survived without feeling like a victim as Harry does.
Love is shown in many ways and it 7snt always touchy feely
I don't remember anyone hugging each other over a death in our family. We are either in shock, numb or too despondent... I usually feel paralyzed physically and mentally when a loved one dies. Harry makes a living out of attacking his family.
Louise is wonderful and I am grateful for her very clear and precise body language evaluation. She nailed Harry perfectly!
H&M started taking photos of everything from the their second date. If there was even a scratch on his back, wouldn't the wife insist on taking a photo for evidence????
When my nephew called me in the early hours of the morning to tell me that his dad, my older brother had just passed away. I said ok and went back to sleep. How I acted out my grief when I finally woke up was totally different.
I don't normally give much credit to "experts" as they are often very wrong, but this expert knows her stuff. Bravo👍
Body language is a pseudoscience
Nah mate, she is a nutjob herself. I would love someone to critique her body language as that would be hilarious. She seems to really enjoy picking the dude apart and that's just not cool whatever his faults are. I would hate to be a royal.
She's spot on and I love her kinasthetic delivery.
@@everywherenowhere6901 - Me too :)
What a stupid review of body language. He is still annoyed about the crap he is going through. Hench his body language. It does not mean he is 'unhappy' with his choices or Mehgan!.. stop projecting your oppinions onto him!! It is so wrong and dumb! 'Context' matters
My older brothers didn't even acknowledge my existence when their friends were around. That is Normal, and I wasn't the only family that acted like that. Harry just wanted the attention.
my son told me he can't hold my hand the next time when we are at the neighbourhood mall when he was 12 (Asian in Asia so that is about the age they care about looking cool.) He was worried that his friends might see us holding hands and laugh at him but he held my hand throughout that day and we met 2 of his schoolmates. I thought that was cute and very thoughtful. He will be 22 soon, a few months ago when I was dizzy (anaemia) at another mall, he held me tightly. A few years ago, we went to F1, I was suffocating when it became too crowded, he was there to massage my head and hands. His elder brother took the opportunity to run away to buy merch...since we were having a "break". People are different. I love them for their different qualities, not nitpicking at their desire to not be seen with me during their awkward years, Harry is petty and immature.
Good on Harry for telling his truth. Imagine growing up in a family linked to PEDOS and Child Traffickers!
This whole saga would be a complete farce if it wasn't so nasty. He didnot fly a helicopter he didnot pass thebpilots test. The wife was not chased that is why she hates the press. No one was that interested once her true character came out.
My mammy N faither lived in a war zone, there was 11 of us 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@barbarawinterbourne3736 .
No-one is interested in her boring life before Hairless UNLESS of course she cares to write about her PAID YACHTING ESCORT ESCAPADES.
Might pay for another Tomato Suit.
Is this what happens when every word a human utters is treated as gold. No one ever said NO to Harry. Andrew was the same. They spend their day talking trivial nonsense with no sense of meaningful conversation. Had his mother been alive he'd have had her under a bus with the rest of the family.
Jealousy is such a wasted emotion.
Thank you doctor, it is all making sense.
Harry is a hot mess.
He is the most unhappiest happy person in history of human kind; he should be studied as an oddity 🤣🤣
Exactly
Well said
😂😂😂 exactly the self pity is pathetic, we all go through the same or worst and we aren’t princes, man up Harry wow
Studied as an oddity...Lmao!🤣😅🤣😂
Yet another suspect business venture??
My father & grandmother came to tell me my mother had died. I was 13yo. They tried to hug me but they were not usually huggy people and I didn’t want to be hugged.
The most I remember about that time was that my father ordered a pale blue hearse which I thought was disrespectful, it should have been black. My Mum’s Kindergarten Class children all came to the funeral & formed a Guard of Honour. We were not Catholic but she had taught at a Catholic School, so Sisters of Mercy attended. We learned music from Dominican Nuns, so they came too.
My Mum was only 33 years old.
What's quite eye-opening is how different the two interviews for the US and UK are. He backtracks on the racism claim in the UK interview but pushes it without saying it for the US audience. Yes, Meghan didn't actually say the Royal family was racist in the Oprah interview, but more or less left the accusation open from Oprahs line of questioning. Meghan even said it would be very damaging for that family member, and they received an award to stop racism in the royal family. So, in Harry's version to the UK, they received an award for something that didn't even happen. I've always been on the fence with this, I respect Harry's decision to get out of the royal family if that is what he wanted. But he stories are not adding up and contradicting each other. In the book, he even described the moment he was told the Queen mother died, is wrong, saying it was warm. But everyone old enough in the UK remembers Harry, William, and Charles were skiing in the Alpes at the time
And all the King's Horses and all the King's Men couldn't put Humpty Dumpty back together again!
Perfect comment to this situation. 🎉👏👏👏👏👏
Interesting that in their Netflix documentary the dog bowls seen were stainless steel. Harry and Meghan like to embellish. So recollections vary.
I also noticed that. Smh it’s probably another ‘recollections may vary’ moment.
Not defending them at all but that could have been changed after the incident took place.
The dog bowl situation happened in 2019
@@marjakeizer9580 I did consider that. The royal residences only use stainless steel for their dog bowls. The Queen’s rule. Never porcelain. She never used anything else for her Corgi’s. Diana’s former butler Paul Burrell stated it.
@@Caylainez No, the confrontation was several months after the wedding in the Fall of 2018. It was about MM behavior and actions toward the staff. William received the report of the HR complains and was indeed livid when he called Harry - who promptly hung up on him. He went over in person to deal with Harry face to face. And it wasn't only William who was aggressive, yelling and threatening. The dog bowls were metal as the pictures show. The Sussex's moved out in Jan 2019. I noticed throughout their interviews and reality show, they purposely mess up the timeline to mislead and fit their own narrative. Then their just shift, change and claim something different.
Looking back at old interviews of the brothers there’s an awful lot of Harry taking the mickey out of his brother. At the time we thought it was fun brother banter now it looks like Harry’s jealousy of his brother coming out and poor William having to tolerate it
Give that plant some water! For a lady who claims to see every bit of minutiae, doesn't she see that plant needs water? I'm totally distracted.
I have siblings that are married to narcissists. Their over riding focus is always to not upset their other half and they are hyper vigilant to anything anyone else might say or do that could upset the other half - the reason for this neurotic, lazer-focus ? They have been conditioned over the years to fear the partners being irked, by the sheer amount of bullshit and shenanigans they have to endure whenever it happens. Spending their entire lives walking on eggshells leaves them with a perennial sense of dread, endlessly anxious, angry , tense, bitter, and generally bent out of shape. Hence Harry's demeanour when challenged at all - however gently - in those interviews . He knows mommy is watching snd the hell he'll get behind closed doors if it doesn't go exactly how she's planned and envisaged it. Afterall, she sees him as her puppet not a human being in his own right. That's how narcissists see their " less significant others ".
Wow, I didn’t know that. My son is married to one…..it isn’t easy.
@@mario-qi3yw My sister is in her 60's , she's been with hers since she was 14. My brother ,also in his 60's , has been with his - his only girlfriend ever - since he was 18 . I've had a very long time to observe the phenomenon. For decades I didn't even know what it was called. It gets worse over time.
@@mario-qi3yw bless your Son I've once been out with one I'm only now fully recovering. Just be there if ever he needs keep eyes n ears open. Tread carefully
You Do know what one is I didn't till my last relationship Thanks for sharing only in that position or very close to victim you'll only know How Bad it can bizarrely get's Nothing is Off limits Nothing
Well explained. I have several family members with NPD and it’s hell on earth. My mother we are always walking on eggshells, still she always finds a reason to be mad at us, ghost us and do smear campaigns against us. Nobody understands why she’s mad at her friends and family all the time. Then also the manipulating and the greed for money and luxury is so destroying. My mother and my siblings lie when they open up their mouth, they steal and scam family members for money (millions of dollars), ect. You don’t know how much I hate these evil people!
wow, can she give a full analysis of all harry's interviews?
Yes, I agree she did an excellent analysis 🧐 .
She is fabulous 🖤
I watched him and I didn't see what she saw...The tone of voice she used was not like Harrys..Iv been furious at Harry,and ready to kick him in the teeth,
but this was not accurate....
@@rebagaudet9944 I disagree, she may exaggerate but that's how she gets us to see some of the less obvious stuff that non-professionals a.k.a the general public cannot see. That way, when u go back to Harry's again, u would see what she sees. Anyway, other body language experts caught quite a few that are the same as what she has mentioned here.
Amazing and on target analysis!!! Awesome!
Thank you Louise. Very informative, clear and easy to listen to. Best wishes from Devon UK
Wonderful explanations, thank you. Great article!
When he was asked why he didn't give his titles back, he got away with his response of "Why should I?" He should have been immediately asked "The more relevant question is why wouldn't you?" - based on the laundry list of reasons why.
I agree...Cooper should have pressed him more on giving up the titles....
@@zaydawalsh3533 He deliberately didn't.
Whole interview and questions are pre-planned
The exact answer was "what difference would it make?" so Cooper should have said "well, it would make people believe you are being honest about not wanting an institution". It was not an interview and Cooper should be ashamed of himself.
@@JH-dc3nr Excellent reply. Thanks for that!
If he believes the narrative about the monarchy being colonizers he shouldn’t want to benefit from that generational wealth. He and his wife are happy to keep the money while making veiled comments and insinuations about the legitimacy of and racism in the monarchy. I wish he’d been asked about that.
He was not sad until he met her,he was OK,His personality is different 180 degree
Agree with Bibi
I don.t think so.
I think he had good PR and his family protected him!!
Can t get that spitefull if you were a nice person!!!
Witchcraft
Totally agree !!!
Good on Harry for telling his truth. Imagine growing up in a family linked to PEDOS and Child Traffickers!
Best analysis I've heard about Harry's state if mind so far. Lady. You are good.
At 17, I gave my father CPR after a heart attack he didn't survive. I saw all of that and I'm not banging on about it 30 years later ffs.
My husband left me when my kids were very small. He had an affair, but he continuously attacked me to everyone we had known among other ways. My Aunt had told me that that is the way that I can know that he is not happy. Harry is doing the same to his family. He is not happy. The thing is that once they run out of more things to say and she is done with him, she will divorce him. I feel that that is a given.
I think what's disappointing is that his therapist has either exacerbated his paranoia, his anger at some of the sad events of his life and hasn't given him the tools to make peace with the past and to recognise that his assumptions of others feelings, motives maybe wrong.
I think he’s being advised by the reincarnation of Rasputin
I don’t actually believe he has had any therapy whatsoever.
The problem is I Meghan is his only therapist’
@@FionaMccue Doria
@@elizabethtaylor2916 how can she be his therapist? A therapist must see all sides to a situation would she not be very one sided if she was giving him therapy? I’ve had therapy and there is no way I could off spoken to a family member with regards to my issues my daughter is a therapist and she guided me to a stranger as it’s not appropriate to give therapy to family or friends.
That was the most brilliant summary of Harry that I have ever heard! I have heard thousands upon thousands of people try to sum him up, you just hit the nail on the head and tied it up in a nice little bow
I’m 66 and I lost my Dad nearly 5 years ago and he never showed me anything like a hug until his last 6 months . I was so grateful for that and life goes on I always said I would be different with my own children because of it.
Yes that is the right thing to do your children is now all you need
"He hit me and told me not to tell anybody!" 😭 Sounds like a toddler meets a groomer!
@@peggyward4664 your comment is a joke 😂
“Sad, naive, & self-indulgent” YES
Media should stop making up stories about things will turn out or how people reacts
This lady is absolutely brilliant I don’t know how I found her but I’m glad I did. I haven’t watched the interviews only the glimpses but yes when he mentions Williams name there’s definitely the curl of the lip - truly nasty. And I blame his current condition on his abuse of drugs, not on his family.
My organisation worked with Dr Mahler and she is exceptional in her understanding of behaviour.
Good on Harry for telling his truth. Imagine growing up in a family linked to PEDOS and Child Traffickers!
Of all the body language experts on you tube . This Lady , is the best . I really found her fascinating and straight to the point .
@Louise Mahler,
This was my first time viewing your analysis, and I'm very impressed! Did you analyze the Oprah interview with H&M?
(I thought it was rehearsed down to the least gesture. Harry's wife has vicious intent, no mistaking it!)
He NEVER flew Apache choppers. He never was a pilot. He FAILED all the tests,but his brother did. All hazbeen flew was in his mind.
I just read several articles and all said Harry did pass his test and was an Apache helicopter pilot and served as co-pilot gunner. The announcement was made by the Ministry of Defense. Harry gets so many things wrong let’s at least give credit where credit is due.
Thanks for clarifying that I think he was just a gunner
If you extensively google legitimate sites, you will find out Harry was a gunner (front seat) in his 2008 tour. He trained over the next four years to be a pilot and requested to return to Afghanistan in in 2012. The videos we see of him must be in 2008 as he has no wings on his uniform and enters the front seat. Still cant figure out if a gunner alone (without pilot training), is normally allowed or if an exception was made for Harry
Many people's parents from the last generation were not very affectionate. My father worked a lot and wasn't home very much. And like many fathers who came home tired, my frustrated mother of 4 kids wanted him to discipline us. So affection and fun was not the role of my father. But as an adult, I understand that he was tired when he got home, tried his best to provide for the family and had a lot of stress too. Harry has to grow up, especially now that he is a husband and a parent.
The best was the whinge about William getting three breakfast sausages when Harry got two. This memory lives on despite Harry being in his late thirties and H&M living in a multi-million dollar mansion. This has to be the most bizarre grudge I've ever heard. I wonder if we'll ever hear about all the money the grinches claimed to be offering to charity before the book was published. Given the book, I think we'd all like to see the bank deposit slip or the cheque stub.
Dr Marhler is so spot on. This is exactly what annoys me about Harry's torrent of revelations is that most of the things are something that people deal with all over the world but Harry demands sympathy and support from everyone because he suffered more than anyone else.
Good on Harry for telling his truth. Imagine growing up in a family linked to PEDOS and Child Traffickers!
I loved this analysis!
I agree this lady is spot on. I look forward to more of your input on Harry and Meghan
Time to hold these media giants accountable.
My father was not a hugger
I was always the one to initiate a hug. And once I made the first move he gave me hugs I will never forget . The only time he told me he loved me was on his death bed 😪
RIP Dad 💕💕💕💕💕
RIP Dad
I loved Harry. I watched him grow up… the same age as my son. But as much as I desperately want him to be the man he could have been, it’s clear he is not the man I thought he was.
Yes that is true
You don’t even know him lol why would you want him to be any sort of man
Beautifully stated! I agree as I watched him grow up too. have always loved both of them. But he has joined the Meghan cult. he is wounded, hypnotized and do not know if he can get out of this or not? I pray he does and takes his children with him before it is too late. Meghan has manipulated him and continues on and that is also called witchcraft by Christians. The children do not need to be part of the paranoia all the time and the anger , hate and jealousy. They hopefully would try to understand they too would have had a rightful place in the family of royals, but it just would not have been exactly the same, as of the eldest child has always had that first choice of being King/Queen. If they cannot and do not have children, then the possibility for the second son or daughter to rule is there but not otherwise. Harry had to have known this, and if not, I do feel sorry for him. Maybe he thought they could' also' have been King one day? It does not work that way. But a working Royal and a title and good pay and a lovely home, and whatever he wanted! Being close with his brother and sister-in-law and father and all the others whom he misses very, very much we can see that in his face! He is miserable and yet cannot figure out what it is he is missing, he not only lost him mom but now dad and brother and sister-in-law and all he loved so much because of Meghan. He hates to lose his children and she probably is holding it over his head? He must break through knowing she cannot have the children as it would be so easy to prove in court she has manipulated and cause paranoia and anger against his own family and he must be afraid for his whole family including his children as being around her is dangerous and she can only see them when a professional psychologist is on the room.
What can the Royals do to bring this Royal Feud to an end ASAP?
1. How do you break a metal dog bowl?
2. How to get hurt by a assumed broken dog bowl? Was he naked when he and Prince William had fight?
He doesn’t accept responsibility for himself . I think that’s his worse problem. He will never be happy until he does.
He's had too much time on his hands to belly button gaze, if he'd had to work like everyone else he to pay his own bills I think he would be a different person.
When my beloved, adored Uncle, close as my Father to me, died suddenly when I was 7, my Mother said baldly, "Your Uncle is dead." I cried, and she shouted at me to shut up, saying, "I don't know what you are crying for - you didn't know him, and he didn't love you." I wasn't allowed to mourn or grieve and I wasn't allowed to go to his funeral. I didn't grow up to destroy my mother, or hate my family, even though I miss my special Uncle to this day. Get some help, Harry.
The older generation truly had the "keep calm and carry on" attitude. They recognize everyone suffers and has hardship so "don't make a fuss". The pendulum has swung way too far on the other direction where it's all about feelings. Need to get back to center
He's had too much therapy.
@Seas MacFarlane I'm so sorry 😥❤️
@@MissJensk1 Thank you ..... I'm absolutely fine now, but you don't forget.
@@seasmacfarlane6418 Very true. You just somehow learn to live with it. x
I wish the British press would go one week without reporting on the gruesome twosome. I guarantee you H & M would freak out
I wonder why OPRAH WINFREY is so silent.
Excellent analysis every step of the way. Thank you! All of what you say makes sense with the things Harry whines about. For instance, I have felt all along that so many of the events he dramatizes are normal things we have all gone through: our brother pushing us (or even physically fighting), our older siblings ignoring us at school (of course!), our parent not presenting tragic information to us in the way we want to hear it (is there any good way to do so?) because they are going through their own trauma about it, too- and on and on. Harry is definitely stuck at age 13 (an immature 13 at that!) and when interviewed is clearly only capable of spouting the phrases given him by reality TV producers, just as you say. I look forward to more analyses of yours!
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Yea, right - it's called L I F E! And apart from the War, and the tragic loss of his Mother, it's all pretty pedantic - it never seems to occur to him that millions of other people walked this path, walk this path - and millions more have suffered real hardship, pain and dreadful brutality growing up. Instead of whinging & wining, why can't he get out there and really help some of these suffering real pain and family violence - I don
Dr. Mahler describes Harry to a tee. His emotional development does seem to have arrested when his mother died. At 38, he still sees life from a 12 year old's perspective. It's no wonder Meghan is able to manipulate him so easily.
A fool is known by his speech( Harry) A wise man by silence (prince William)
I thought his smirk when AC mentioned William's baldness was very telling 😄
Absolutely, he has never grown up, has no idea that most of his greatest 'complaints' are everyday experiences most of us have experienced. He needs to realize, all humans suffer. That challenges are opportunity for growth. How can he of had so many years of therapy & never been told this? He must simply turn a deaf ear to those who have tried to give him good advice. He simply doesn't want to 'work' at making his life successful.
When my Mother died I don't remember my father hugging me. My life changed that day. I appreciate and love my family even though we are not perfect.
No one is perfect and no family as well
Ssme here. My mum died when I was 6 and my brother 3. No hugs of any kind.
@@paulinebazela6912 That must have been so hard. A child of 6 or 3 hardly understands death, let alone enduring the loss w/o comforting touch. I'm so sorry for your pain.
Harry’s finding out that he isn’t in a special class of family disagreements.
He was in a sheltered life of royal life & feels the world needs to say poor baby.
He should’ve picked up the vibes by Maegan’s own interactions involving her own family.
He got the smaller bedroom, I had to share a bedroom with 3 sisters.
Boo-Hoo, Rich Little Man-Boy.
Was his therapist fully qualified?
I love when she does analysis on Harry she’s brilliant ❤
Brilliant Louise, you have the “ druggie dimwit “ down to a tee 😂
SO TRUE!! He never very intelligent, doing very badly at school etc. Throw in all the drugs he has taken over the years and that's what you get, a PARANOID DRUGGIE DING-A-LING, thinking the whole world is out to get him!! All that need as well, is throw in the World's greatest NARCISSIST, MEGANUTS and you have the perfect pair, exploiting everyone around for many millions of dollars, and SO-CALLED FAME AND GLORY!! Too bad about their POOR families and friends, who they have trodden on and tried to destroy, along their way to Fame and Fortune!! THEY ARE BOTH A TOTAL DISGRACE!!
@@liviamaclean6324 Fantastic Livia 🤩❤️
Medicating so you don't feel the pain.
Best analysis so far
Harry’s photo on the cover of his book is scary. He looks angry and mean.